Marriage is an agreement between a man and a woman to start a family and raise children. Why not make sure you find the best mate?

My husband and I are newly weds. He's full Hispanic and I'm white. His family has made it obvious they don't like me and they wanted him to marry someone of his race. His mom showed up and hour late to our wedding, his brother dressed in sweats with dog hair all over and didn't bother to shave or shower. Then on our honeymoon we went to the beach and he was uncomfortable the whole time. He told me he doesn't want to lay out on the sand because it makes him feel weird I'm so white compared to him. I locked myself in the hotel bathroom and cried until we went home. He also seems to not care whenever his family is super rude to me. I feel like no amount of telling him how much it hurts will cause him to care. In private he acts fine, and usually in public he's fine too. Just right after we got married it's like I'm a criminal or something. I'm not able to speak to him since he's in the military and on an operation.

Why would a man want to defend himself against false allegations of domestic abuse, why would a man want risk all his wealth on a woman who would more than likely leave him with nothing, why would a man want to lose any children that come out of the relationship? These above, are the normal consequences for a man in a relationship with a woman. Men don't want that!

Me and my wife have sex in the shower. Is that normal or weird ?

If you loved someone enough to marry them and have kids with them how do you suddenly just feel pure hatred towards them? My best friend and her ex-husband hate each other with a passion and they were married for 25 years and have 2 grown up kids together. I can't fathom hating my husband, even if we get divorced there will be nothing but love and understanding between us. It's so bizarre, and I don't want to be rude and ask her but I'm left wondering what went SO wrong in their marriage.

Any time my husband gets upset with me he says he wants a divorce and tells me he is done with me, or asks me when I am moving out. We have been married five years and have had so many problems during that time. He knows this hurts and upsets me and later will come back and say he didn't mean it, but it leaves me terrified that he wants to end it. I have told him to stop saying he wants a divorce just because he gets upset about something but he keeps doing it and it always results in me crying and worrying myself sick. I dont want a divorce for any reason but sometimes i wonder if he really does because he keeps saying it. He most recently said he wanted a divorce last night after yet another argument, and then later came back and said I was being upset for no reason and that I know he's not going anywhere. How can you communicate with a spouse who always uses the threat of divorce to shut you up? My worry is one day he will say he wants a divorce and really go through with it!

I remember back in the day when men was the sole provider of the household and women raise the children, darned the clothes when they were torn, cooked a good meal when food was available. And seemed to manage the household funds fairly well. Now a days men don't want to work nor provide for their families and women is letting other elements raise their children like video games and other children. Cooking is totally out of the question when there's a microwave in the home and forget about sewing some clothes that has been torn or fixing a broken zipper. Now it goes to the cleaners to get repaired.

My ex wife Joan who I am on friendly terms with invited me to join her for lunch. She said she had some exciting news to tell me. At lunch she told me she was going to get married again and introduced me to her future husband Jim. I thought that was a little odd my ex introducing me to her soon to be husband but I was cool with it. He seemed like a nice guy and I congratulated them and wished them a happy life. I was happy to see she was getting on with her life. I later got a call from Jim and he wanted me to tell him everything about Joan and he especially wanted details of our divorce. I told him my life with Joan was in the past and I had closed that chapter of my book and I had moved on and I would not discuss it with anyone. I suggested that if he did not know enough about her, he needed to date her for a longer period of time. The LAST thing I want to do is to get involved with her and her new husband. Should I tell my ex wife what he is asking me or just stay out of her life and hope for the best. Gals, if you were my ex wife what would you want me to do?

My husband of 7 years is deployed for the first time. I read his messages on Facebook and he has been talking to his female coworker for about 2 months now. This was the conversation between the two of them over the past few weeks: Her: Whatcha doing? I have like no motivation for the gym Him: Release me at 1300 Her: Want to get lunch in 20? Him: Sure Her: What's up? Him: Wanna do chest tonight at 11? Her: Are you crazy? Her: Wanna get breakfast? Her: I forgot my bag Him: Just grab it from my room. My door is open Her: Happy birthday! I'm sorry you can't be with your family today but I'm thankful for our friendship and the opportunity to get to know you better. You bug me to death but I love ya hubby haha. Jokes aside, I mean it. Thanks for always being there. I appreciate you more than you know. I asked my husband and he said she's just like a little sister to him. He claims that he is just trying to help her and pretend to call him "hubby" because she's "scared of other guys". My husband is a very friendly guy. He said he will never do anything to hurt me. He even swore it on our son's life. But I can't help but think that maybe they both have feelings for each other. Am I just overreacting or should I be concerned? Please help!

And that we are both bisexual.

Now about 2 weeks ago my "husband" goes out and buys a cat. We was having a mice problem. I like cats and wanted one but was afraid to get one because I'm allergic. Within 2 days the cat got attached to me and now he follows me around. When I call his name he comes running and meows a lot. He Always wants a rub down (even belly rubs). He rubs his head on my face and the other day grabbed my hand and licked it. Now this morning we was sleeping and he jumps on the bed and my husband gets upset. Telling me if I call the cat by his name he will hurt me. He scared the cat off the bed. When he heard it's on our daughter bed he chased the cat down and hit it. Then he says he getting sick of the cat and how he would throw it out the window. I don't understand why he would get it if he doesn't like it. He comes out the bathroom and see the cat and he's screaming get out of here cat. The cat is a year old. All this cat wants is love.

I was on my way home from work and I had to stop at the grocery store I called my wife she didn't answer the phone so I figured she was busy doing something in the house maybe cooking I called my stepson and ask him how his day was at work and how he was doing I then asked him what's your mother doing after the conversation my wife text me and said don't check on me they are the kids my stepsons 20 with slight autism she said that was uncomfortable and uncalled for wasit wrong for me to ask my stepson what's your mom my wife doing