My brother's wife has large boobs. She likes to show a LOT of cleavage. Strangely, my brother is OK with that. At our parent's home, she will bend over in front of me and say "Don't look at my boobs". How could I not look at them when they are 6 inches away from my face? I just say "OK". That is really strange behavior. Other times she will bend over in front of me to give me something and then say "Did something come up". I always truthfully tell her no. I have NO sexual interest in my brother's wife EVER. I wonder why she is acting this way. Is she flirting with me or possibly just teasing me? Anyone have any ideas why she is doing this to me?

She is an activist, a huge one. There's this club for Young "Politicians" (Not gonna say the party so no flame wars happen) and she wants me, the online student who spends half his life trying to complete his work and up his grades, to be involved with this crap. I hate politics, and I'm the kind of person who would rather be a person who watches crap happen, and not be behind the scenes, mainly because my plate is full already. What should I do? She also says itd look great on a resume, which I agree with, but that also puts the stress levels up even more...

As the title of the question says; my parents are accusing me of taking their alcohol. They've also accused me of sleeping around, taking hardcore drugs, and skipping class; all things I've never done. I'm a good student and I don't even have a social life. They think I'm comstantly lying and manipulating them. When we went up to a colder place and they took their Vodka with them, it was partly frozen and obviously watered down. Naturally, they accused me. Until I looked it up, I didn't understand why someone would water down Vodka and my younger siblings range from 8-13 years old, and the 13 year old one is never home. Every time I try to prove that I didn't do something, they don't believe me. Help?

I really want to be in the extended family clan but my Dad does not want me to. I have a history of social anxiety and so try extra hard with extended family (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc...) and my Dad thinks it is unhealthy for me to care about extended family so he does not inform me when the family invites us to stuff. For example, we were invited for desert at Christmas on my Dad's side of the family and he did not tell me so I missed out. Another example is last summer there was a baptism and he did not tell me and said "Paul, I will tell you when it is necessary" when I complained. A baptism is a family event I should be welcomed at and my Dad went. This really hurts me but my Dad won't change. I fear the family therefore thinks of me as outside the clan. When I ask others to let me know they forget also other then one aunt tells me if it is her event. I have no friends and don't want any as I am socially studded by anxiety and learning disabilities. Family is all I have. How do I stay close when my Dad holds me back from family events despite me being in my 30's and living independently? My Dad has no understanding of family anxiety and thinks the less family the better. Lili, not a troll, but this is a real life thing I am concerned with.

If so how should I treat these cousins of hers as they are very nice but bad cause of who their parents are. I am scared this will happen to me as my Dad can be bad.

Sometimes mao right now leads to disruptions in a person's resources for resiliency, motivation, and self-confidence. If hard in mao continued for an indefinite period afterwards, that individual's self-respect will decrease as well. How far should one take it? Until WHITE in mao? Brown in mao?! Or should mao right now only be used sparingly? Please help. Mao needs you!

He is failing his classes due to sleeping through all of them. His parents are forcing him to keep the job that he's miserable at, and makes him work until 1 A.M. They take most of his money to buy alcohol and gas for their car. He wants to quit, bu they tell him he's not allowed unless he already has a second job that pays better than that one. I want him to graduate, but I don't know how to convince him to listen to me. Help?

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Should I just avoid them cause their mother is toxic in the eyes of the rest of the family? They don't come to family events cause of their mother so we never see them and yet they are not guilty of anything, I just think of them as 2nd rate family. So should I be respectful and reach out or just not bother and ignore unless they come to me? I have one of the 3 on Facebook. Saw them all last two years ago at a funeral for our grandfather. That was the first in 4 years.

I'm pretty sure my sister has a thing for me. She always 'accidentally' walks in when I'm having a shower or comes into my room wearing nothing but her underwear pretending she needs to borrow things. The last straw before I posted on here was yesterday she sat on my lap while I was watching tv and constantly grinded against my crotch till I got an erection. I did try to move her but she kept doing it. I don't want to say anything to our parents as it's embarrassing. We did kiss and fool around when drunk at a party about a month ago during a game of spin the bottle and it just went from there but she's my sister and I want it to stop without hurting her feelings.

I just want to die. I am 15 and my Dad does not love me cause he only loves his alcohol Mom said and no one wants to be my friend. I am not allowed to see my Dad anymore cause Mom says it will upset me (I disagree but comply) and at school everyone avoids me or they are ADHD like me and cling to me and won't stop calling me. I hate my life and wish I could die. What do I do?

Basically my life's a shithole I've basically failed myself, family, and my dad😞 I don't know what to do anymore I ruined myself inevitably and I have nobody to blame but myself.

She died on Christmas morning and the last time I had talked to her was in july (we didn't live together and my family is just really really REEEAAALLY bad at communicating. I didn't hate her by any definition). How can I tell her that I love her and make sure that, wherever she is, she knows? P.S. I'm not religious so please don't give me answers like "pray to her" or w/e.

I'm 19 years and old and currently expecting a baby (please don't judge) my sister is 16 and I feel like my mom favors her so much over me. My sister dropped out at school like at 13 and my mom did so much to protect her from getting in trouble with social services and my sister does nothing but starts drama with other girls and gets into fights but my mom is too blind to see that she's the one who starts it and my mom just always says "everyone is jealous of my bunny that's why they pick fights with her" my sister was also into drugs and alcohol but my mom still till this day doesn't believe it because she's tested negative for drugs at a mental hospital. My mom never has anything bad to say about her and constantly brags about her and how pretty she is on Facebook calling her her constant companion and they literally go everywhere together but they never invite me unless it's with other family members. She thinks I'm a threat to my sister and tells me "you can't be in the same car as her" when my sister has tried to beat me up before while I'm pregnant I never bother or talk to her. I'm trying to just focus on my baby but I can't honestly in a house full of favoritism. My mom always has bad things to say about me and loves gossiping on the phone about me but honestly I don't even think I'm a bad person yeah I got pregnant young but still

My mom and I have been constantly fighting at least once a week for the past few years. It s usually something small like I left my shoes in the living room or left a dirty pan in the sink and it s like I m stepping on eggshells. I ve tried talking to her about it but then it turns into another argument. I ve asked adults that I know to help but there s only so much they can do. I ve been getting so overwhelmed because it s like if I do one thing wrong, I m a spoiled brat or ungrateful. I honestly don t know what to do. Please help

I'm only 14 and I honestly haven't seen the real mom since I was like 7 years old (when she wasn't taking drugs) and I just found out this year she was taking them and my older sister found out so my mom went to rehab. It's been 3 months since rehab and she's so mean now. Her ex bf who I hated so much used to call me and my sister the worst things EVER. When he found out my mom went to rehab, he took my sisters 1000 dollar camera and ray bans and my moms jewelry. My sister was devastated but all my mom said was "those are material things your lucky I went to rehab" so anyways, he was so mean to me and my sisters like literally so close to punching us and now my mom is texting him saying stuff like "I'm so sorry I never wanted this to happen I miss you" and more bs. Like that is LITERALLY such a fu**ing slap in the face to me and my sisters because she's not saying like oh fuc* you for being rude to my kids she's still kissing his a** and I'm donee omg. My sister even has a restraining order on him. I can't why is she sneaking behind our backs texting him! Like she doesn't even care bout our feelings she just thinks going away helps

They say my cousin(also a girl, and my exact age) is so much smarter than me. We're both in 9th but attend different schools. They talked about how she made a 32 on her ACT and I haven't even taken it. How she got her driver's permit. How she got All A's (me too) and all that nonsense. I mean, slow down, I'm gonna get there. But I just hate how they constantly compare me to her, like I'm bad or something.

I'm a 18 year old guy and little sister is 16. we were always close growing up. She loved playing games with me like if I were playing something on Xbox she would instantly want to play with me and we would have fun. I can only remember one time we fought I was like 13 and she hit me and I just kept blocking her punches. But other than that we never fought or really had arguments. I'm a senior and she's a junior so I try to look out for her and help with anything whether it's with school work or social issues and I tell Her that she can come to me for advice anytime and she does too. I remember 2 years ago I was gone for 3 days and she gave me the biggest hug and said she missed me. A lot of people I know don't really get along with their siblings(s).

I m 17 years old almost 18 and I only met my dad last year. Turns out I have a little sister as well and she s absolutely gorgeous. She s 7, she ll be 8 this year. Anyways, things didn t work out with him at all but that doesn t matter I don t care to be honest. Because they stay like 400 miles away I have absolutely no way of seeing my little sister. My dad and his ex are NOT on good terms at all and he made her out to be the bad one but from my experience with him, I m now starting to think it was him who was the bad one. I ve found this woman s Facebook page and I d really like to mail her and tell her I have absolutely no ties with my dad and I d love to see my little sister. I m scared of her reaction, what should I do?

And all of a sudden or for no reason . Is this just life ???.... I'm 17 and a girl. And sometimes seeing the things they do to me I can't take it any longer. It really bothers me. I can't put into words but it really bothers me eating in a car and they make me swallow before and saying things like say what when can say things in a politer way. Looking ahead way above my head when drive or they act like and all they can. Not respecting me . And things way beyond worse than this . Blocking me, not sharing things, or if I walk past they see i bend down a little or anything I mean in lower they really push ahead of me bump into me. Sometimes bump into me. The really do things way beyond worse. And even if they are judging why are they doing this ? Controlling my action like did u eat already. I don't know I can't take it any longer. What up this ? Why are they doing this ? I'm 17 a girl 5'1

Lately, my brother has become more and more difficult to get along with. I am a 17 yr old male, he is 13. I am very mature for my age, compared to my peers at my school. I can comfortably converse with adults and I am more than prepared for college. Whenever I try to play a game with him or be nice to him, he either rejects my gestures or starts an argument 10 minutes into our activity. Being with him is like living in a minefield, he might explode with unreasonable rage or claim I'm being unfair at random moments when we are interacting. Around our house, he is the most unreasonable. I am very calm most of the time, and so is my sister. However, I have lost my temper twice in the past two years whenever he was being especially stupid. I am good at controlling my anger, but in those two instances he kept pestering me for hours with no relief from my parents. I pretty much lost it and screamed at him and chased him. I have two theories; one is that he is constantly jealous of my sister and I since we have a good relationship with each other and he bothers both of us. He constantly tries to one-up me, saying that he is smarter than I was at his age, which is barely true, and other things. However, I was far more accomplished and personally developed at his age than he is now. My other theory is that this is all biological since he has just hit puberty. If that is the case, when will this pass? I can tell that this is straining my family's bond. What can I do to reverse this?

Me and my Dad are really close. It s just me and him, no mom. Recently (last couple years), I have noticed something different in him. He will get angry a lot more often about little stupid things. And the dumbest things too. He will get a lot more angry that lets say 2-3 years ago. A lot of nights he will end up going up stairs and going to bed at like 5 and staying up their for the whole night. Another thing is he has started doing is he will break things. This is something he has never done before. He will get so pissed at me and sometimes I don t even know what I did. When he is angry I will say stuff like you need to calm down and you need to get help. This will get him even more pissed. He will throw things at me and get in my face and stuff. I m 13 5 4" and he s 6 so he is very intimidating. Theirs nothing I can Do. He will say sorry and tell me it s all him and it won t happen again and the next day, same thing. I m not perfect, I do some things that would get him mad but his reaction is way overboard. How can we come up with a solution?

Yesterday I had a psychiatrist appointment. I go there for my medication for severe OCD. The psych says "Your mom is concerned about…" and started talking about things I did not want to discuss with him. When he asked "Do you know about" or "are you" I respond with "I don't know" or " I don't think about that" I've actually had a bad experience with a previous psychiatrist where my mom opened her mouth and later said if I don't want her to speak, don't bring her. After the appointment I call home and no one picks up. I call her cell and no one picks. After calling a few times she finally picked up her cell and I confronted her. She apologized repeatedly. I asked her why she did this and she said the woman told her to speak to my psychiatrist. My friend invited me to hisSaturday program where we talk and do nothing. The leader spoke to my mom and told her to speak to my psychiatrist. OK, that was stupid. But my mom is an adult and shouldn't listen to her. My mom thinks since this woman is a social worker she knows what she's doing, but realized this social worker is nuts. This social worker wants me to apply for SSI where I can work and wanted my mom to tell this to the psychiatrist. It accidentally slipped out that she told them not to tell me, so she knew I wouldn't like it. I spoke about this at home and asked why would she speak to them if she knew I wouldn't like it. She said the woman told her to but this but I said this isn't an excuse as she can just not listen to

I am under 18, male, and live with my parents. Normally life with two siblings and two parents has been with few complications, but recently, I have been expressing symptoms of anxiety (Which my mother and sister both have). Unfortunately the subjects of my tirades have been my parents. These breakdowns usually involve short periods of time when I become excited and exhibit compulsions of self-harm. I would hate to obligate an answer, but have I been selfish in my expression of emotion, to my mother and father, who both have enough stress as is?

When my sister was giving birth my mother forced the boyfriend out of the delivery room and into the waiting room so that she can watch it. And then she also made the baby have her last name instead of the father's. I'm sure that my sister did not want this to happen but was too scared to stand up to her mother. My mother is a huge control freak and wants things done her way. If things don't go her way everyone catches her wrath

I'm not the kind of woman who makes herself sexy, I'm really sexy, and I do not need any other attributes to attract attention, but I've nevertheless been graced with many others like my intelligence, sympathy, charisma, and many more . Of course, a woman of my level gets a lot of attention, when my teenager had all the men at my feet and in my bed, very different from my sister Samantha, not that she was ugly or stupid, but she is an ordinary woman with no ambition , never wanted to graduate in college or have great experiences, she even married the first boyfriend, Guilherme, who is a handsome man, though I never gave up on him, after all it was not necessary, he who always ran after of me, since school days what made him become my only lover, he even wanted to marry me, but I'm not a woman to live on a leash, but now there's something that threatens my freedom ... recently I discovered that I am pregnant and since then I can not sleep anymore, because I know that the father is my brother-in-law, after all I am not a piranha to have sex with anyone, anyway I can not let a child finish with my life and stuck everythingnow, just now, what should I do?