I used to have a huge crush on my former boss. I worked for him for a little over a year I'm 6 months older than him, so I'm 27 and he's 26. He is also married and has a family. When I first developed feelings for him, I didn't know he was married because you don't just assume somebody that age (25 at the time) is married. I kind of became obsessed and told a couple of people and it got back to him (stupid, I know). For the first few months of him knowing, he acted normal. He would use my feelings against me to convince me to come in on my days off. Also, every time I was sick or I had to go to the hospital or my mom had to go to the hospital, he was always super concerned. I had to go to the hospital one night and the next day I had to call out. Another manager said that my manager crush saw on FB I had gone to the hospital and he was worried about me (she didn't know I liked him). He even called after work to find out how I was feeling. I guess the more obsessed I got with him, though, the more uncomfortable he got with me. He started being pretty rude to me and we didn't always get along. He stopped discussing anything with me that wasn't work-related. At the work holiday party, he didn't speak to me once. Overtime, the more douchey he became towards me. In August, I left the job because I didn't like how management (including him) was treating me. I intended on fulfilling my 2 weeks, but he accused me of something I didn't do so I never showed back up after that day. The day I didn't come in for my shift, I noticed he deleted me off Facebook. I've seen him a couple times since then and he will look at me often, but won't say a word to me. He acts like I'm not there, like he doesn't even know me. I have not tried to talk to him or interact with him AT ALL. I don't even "like" his comments on mutual friends' posts anymore. 5 months later, last month, I noticed he had blocked me on FB. Why's he being such a jerk? I did nothing to him except not come back to work and that's mainly his fault. If he hadn't accused me of something I didn't do on the day I put in my 2 weeks, then I would've worked my 2 weeks. You can't treat a person like crap and expect them to stick around and make you happy. But I would post about other guys and having dates with other guys so he knew I was trying to move on. I'm over him now, I was over him before I even quit the job. Why would he randomly block me when I've made no effort to interact with him since I quit in August? "A Guy Bein A Guy", nope. I'm over him. I'm in love with somebody else, I just don't know why he's being such a jerk still.

whenever we disagree I find she always talks behind my back to her mother and her male friend. She talks about me negatively and only tells one side of the story and in return they say negative things about me when they barely know me. It bothers me she does this. Also whenever her son is acting up or caught lying and I confront him about it she defends her son and asks me to leave. How do I deal with this?

I work for a nannying agency and recently I went to a house to babysit a 9 year old boy. The parents had locked padlocks on the 2 other bedroom doors in the house, except the boy's. Is that kind of weird, like they're trying to hide something? Or am I just being paranoid. They seemed alright. They requested me to come back but I'm not sure...

Okay so this is going to be very personal but I don't know what else to do. My girlfriend and I have started having having sex and we've been very careful. Only now the problem that we've started running into is that we have no where to be alone. There's always someone at her house and my mom is usually at home when we get out of school. There's no where else we can be alone at and it's starting to get frustrating. I'm starting to consider asking my mom for privacy and even telling her why if need be. I'm not sure how she'd react to me being that honest but I'm running out of ideas. Is it too much of could it work? And please don't say we're "too young". Thanks. Tried car but it was NOT comfortable. Haven't tried outdoors, seems risky tbh.

I am a female landlord age 39, I have no intention to marry or find a guy, At first when I saw the tenant , I don't like his look because he look like a hooligan. I always liaise with my tenant through whatapps, I seldom talk to him face to face. in the past, all my male tenant replied to me in a vague reply and nothing more, but this new tenant, he text too much and too friendly, at first I just shrugged it off then I slowly realised I start to have feeling for him. Sometimes he saw me, he gives me those big wide smile which I melt, then I found out he is already has a gf but I found myself liking him more, so I have been avoiding seeing him and talking to him less because I don't want to see his face but I can sense his presence in the house, he can only move out in april but I don't know how much longer I can endure, I want him out of my sight, out of sight, out of mind so I could live on my own. He is driving me crazy, what shall I do?

I recently learned that my mother is slowly decline in health with lung health. She works full time and is the only source of income for her household of disabled husband and a teenaged daughter. With nobody help her to take a break or even help her husband to get out of the house. I, of course, have a heart to help others in need. However, the relationship I have with her had been very rocky terrain. My boyfriend doesn't want me to relocate because his biggest fear, the history I had with her. He refused to relocate with me because of his family, but my mother recently relocated 2,000 miles to the west to pursuit my eldest sister out of jealousy since 2013. Since nobody wants to help her... My boyfriend begged me and said, "I would love to keep you on the dog lease and DON'T YOU DARE! I LOVE YOU!!" We been together for 7 years. Out of the 4 daughters, I am only one who is willing to help. Despite the fact my mom and I had a rough history. I forgave her and I want to help, just because I want to help, but it a great deal of distance away from her while in the same state with her. I am in a very complicated situation that I feel the need to help her but my boyfriend is holding my arm down begging me not to go. What am I supposed to do..? Job isn't the issue, I can easily transfer anywhere. But the two- my mom, or my boyfriend of 7 years?

Me and ex of 9 years . He distant himself for past 3 months , i didnt hear a thing from him. Now he pops up saying he has some mail for me ....( which he had been previously stamping return to sender). He also said he thinks that I should know he is not holding any hard feelings against me . I haven't responded or answer any of his calls .

I enjoy my life and I am mostly happy with everything going on. I have this feeling where i always have to be doing something. I will just be hanging out with my friends in there room on like a Friday and my body is saying you have to do something. I go out sometimes and drink and stuff and have a good time on like a Friday and then on like a Saturday I feel like just take it easy but my body thinks I am wasting my time at college and I need to go out again. When I do no go out I feel really bad. When I do go out my body is like hey you should go get a girl and if I dont I feel like i am not really having a good time. I am wondering why I can not just chill out for a night without feel guilty. On weekdays I never get this feeling but Weekends its a recurring event of feeling guilty for not going out even when Im hanging out with my friends I feel like I have to get plastered every night. If you can tell me what is going on with me and what I can do to solve it because some nights I just want to hang out but I feel like I cant. Thanks guys for all your help in advance

So I'm currently a junior in high school, and the school I go to is a technical school. But I feel as if over these 3 years I haven't learned much at all academically, but trade wise it's okay. But doing the school work I feel like a dunce, it's almost as if I can't even do the bare minimum of work, I'm very depressed, I dread going to school everyday and feeling even more like a dunce, and forcing myself to put a on a fake smile so others don't ask what's wrong with me. I don't really find anything enjoyable anymore, and I just sit in class and just looking at my notebook. Can someone please help or just give some helpful advice? :)

My ex wife Joan who I am on friendly terms with invited me to join her for lunch. She said she had some exciting news to tell me. At lunch she told me she was going to get married again and introduced me to her future husband Jim. I thought that was a little odd my ex introducing me to her soon to be husband but I was cool with it. He seemed like a nice guy and I congratulated them and wished them a happy life. I was happy to see she was getting on with her life. I later got a call from Jim and he wanted me to tell him everything about Joan and he especially wanted details of our divorce. I told him my life with Joan was in the past and I had closed that chapter of my book and I had moved on and I would not discuss it with anyone. I suggested that if he did not know enough about her, he needed to date her for a longer period of time. The LAST thing I want to do is to get involved with her and her new husband. Should I tell my ex wife what he is asking me or just stay out of her life and hope for the best. Gals, if you were my ex wife what would you want me to do?

My granddaughter is 15 years old and way too old to be playing with dolls. When she wasn't looking, I started to slowly take dolls from her collection and sell them on eBay. I thought she wouldn't notice, but apparently she found the listings on eBay and got angry with me. She called me a selfish ***** and said if I didn't get the dolls back, she would never speak to me again. I said "Fine, I WAS going to use the money to get you a grown up gift, but now I'm not!" Why would she get so mad at me? I was trying to help her. She's autistic and wonders why she doesn't fit in with the other girls. This is why.