Friends: Question: Where can I go to talk about my problems or issues? |
- Question: Where can I go to talk about my problems or issues?
- Question: Not seeing my best friend every day?
- Question: How to be more popular/fun within my friend group?
- Question: Lost my best friend, who do I hang out with now?
- Question: How to hang out with two friend groups/move to a new friend group without leaving some old friends behind?
- Question: Should I text my friend "hey"?
- Question: Should I give my teacher a gift?
- Question: How to be someone people have fun with & enjoy being around?
- Question: Should I move schools again?
- Question: Please help! Suicidal!?
- Question: I'm 21 & never had close friends or a boyfriend?
- Question: Could I help my classmate?
- Question: I know someone from high school at the end of year we became so close. Are we friends?
- Question: I hate school/feel very depressed...?
- Question: What makes me seem less fortunate?
- Question: If most of somebody s values contradict those of yours,do you leave them?
- Question: Why do I always feel drained around people?
- Question: I always get bullied/picked on? PLEASE HELP?
- Question: Feel angry because roommate is basically trying to tell me what to do?
- Question: Clingy friend?
- Question: Bullies and anxiety. Please help?
- Question: Your opinions about my friend? Please read, SHORT STORY, but i NEED an answer on what to do?
- Question: Please help I'm really depressed?
- Question: I've developed really bad social anxiety?
- Question: How do I get into the deep web?
- Question: I don't have any girl-friends?
- Question: Am I too stupid..? Or being over-dramatic?
- Question: People who ask boring questions, how do you deal with it?
- Question: What to do if a friend served you bad tuna salad?
- Question: Would you consider this bullying or harassment?
- Question: How should I respond to this text?
- Question: My friends keeping me a slag?
- Question: My friend acting strange?
- Question: I need help with my social life (im only entering highschool next year). about my frnds and wht I should do.?
- Question: I want an american friend?
- Question: Is it dumb to feel jealous when your best friends hang out without you?
- Question: What can I do in my lunch time if I have no one?
- Question: Venting problems to friends ??????
- Question: Changing schools? PLZ ANSWER?
- Question: People only want sex from me?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Should I stop caring about my sisters opinion of me?
- Question: How can I improve an aspect of myself without denying it?
- Question: Are indian girls usually like this?
- Question: What would you do if your sons girlfriend with her shirt and her bra pulled down ( breasts exposed) how would you make her cover up?
- Question: How do I get someone to stop texting me?
- Question: Should I go back to my old school?
- Question: Do I have a bad friend ?
- Question: How can I be more sociable and talkiative?
- Question: My friend is using my email for signing up for things I don t want. Now that I think about it he is a big JERK in general. What should I do?
- Question: What are cusswords?
- Question: How can I make at least 10 friends as a 23 year old woman this year and keep them?
- Question: Depressed, no friends, my family hates me, bored always, I'm stuck in life everywhere I go to try and be happy. Help me please. =:(?
- Question: What's going on with my friend?
- Question: How to get rid of loneliness and homesickness?
- Question: On opening day someone told me a major Star Was spoiler, should I still be friends with them?
- Question: Question Continued.. Should I be Aware Of My New Roomate ??
- Question: Would you be okay with this?
- Question: My best friend went on vacation with my ex-husband....Am i crazy? Both of them are telling me I shouldn't be mad.?
- Question: How can you quickly forget or just don't be sad and think about it if you lose an close internet friend ?
| Question: Where can I go to talk about my problems or issues? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:54 PM PST I don t know where to go for advice. Every time I talk to friends it doesn t seem to help. I feel just as confused as before and I feel guilty for pulling them into my issues constantly. I don t really know who I can turn to for advice or just to listen. |
| Question: Not seeing my best friend every day? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:53 PM PST I started living with my best friend last year and everything was great, we saw each other literally every day and talked 24/7. Fast forward to this year and we're both full time workers and I hardly every see them anyway. We talk like once a day but conversations are short because it's like we almost have nothing to talk about anymore since we work so much. We're still living together again next year and we're both excited for it! We have plans to go to California next month (flights booked, plans made), going to a concert together in June and plans for my 21st birthday! My best friend is one of those people that doesn't get attached and is like a magnet so there are ALWAYS people wanting to be around. I do struggle with paranoia and anxiety so this is a big struggle for me not talking and seeing my best friend like normal. Any ways to cope with it? We still tell each other everything and nothing changes when we're together but are there any ways to stop being so paranoid that my best friend will suddenly NOT want to be my best friend anymore? |
| Question: How to be more popular/fun within my friend group? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:47 PM PST I seem to be a boring person. Guys want to hang out with my friends and not me. Some other girls want to hang out with my friends and not me. I'm not that big of a partier. Behind my back, I've been called boring, a prude, and that "I'd be more fun to hang out with if I were like my friends." My friends tell me they like me how I am and to just do me, but I don't feel like I'm fun enough. Thanks |
| Question: Lost my best friend, who do I hang out with now? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:47 PM PST We'd sit next to each other every class, go places together, etc. Basically whenever someone would see us walking in the school hall ways they'd ask where the other person is. Anyway, so the friendship ended abruptly. I didn't even get an explanation and it's been like 6 days, I'm still hurt. I don't know who to sit next to now. I don't know who to hang out with after school, etc. I talk to about 4 or 5 other people, but we're not close or anything. I'm 18 years old, female. I'll graduate in like 5 months. I want to remember my last 5 months in a good way. |
| Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:42 PM PST I go to an all-girls private school. My freshman and part of my sophomore year, I made friends with a group of girls. It was a big group. There were girls who seemed to like me, some who seemed like they didn't, and some who I didn't really talk to. Recently, I started hanging with a new group of girls who all seem to like me, but it will take time for the relationship to grow. If it works out, I want to switch to their group. However, I still have some good friends in the old group that I don't want to leave. How can I have two groups of friends without looking like I'm a poser or trying too hard? How can I have a new group without leaving my other friends? |
| Question: Should I text my friend "hey"? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:40 PM PST My friend has blown me off too many times, I'm done with his bs, but first I want to text to give him something to think about, don't care if he replies and don't care to ever speak to him again. I'll text, "You say you want to hang out but you blow me off. Uncool and rude. Your disrespectful behavior has made me lose all regard for you, and although I wish you luck, I don't think either of us would benefit from future contact." Should I start with a "hey" text before sending, or randomly send it without pretext? |
| Question: Should I give my teacher a gift? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:27 PM PST Okay so here's the story. I basically have all my teachers Christmas gift presents. But I haven't gotten a chance to give one of my teacher her present because she wasn't there, so I gave it to her today. But when I hand it to her, her hands slip, so it got dropped on the floor and cracked. I got her a glass mug. I'm in high school btw. Freshman. So after she was like "It's my fault, so don't worry about it. I'll just super glue it together." Then after I felt bad so I went to get another present for her. So I need your guys opinions? Do you guys feel like I'm doing too much? FYI I have a quiz tmrw for her class and I'll do the same thing for a friend if this happens. What's your opinion on this situation. |
| Question: How to be someone people have fun with & enjoy being around? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:25 PM PST |
| Question: Should I move schools again? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:20 PM PST So I am in 8th grade, I m a 13 year old girl and I have been to two different schools. The first school I had been to since kindergarten but in 6th I moved due to having unfair teachers and the school had barely any students so I was always alone with no friends. At my current school, I haven t had much luck. I still have friends, but it s just I feel so distant, a ton of popular kids make fun of me i I liked a guy for a really long time and he hates me. I feel like I should just go and start over again. Maybe its third times a charm, but what if I m just running from my problems? All my life I ve just wanted to be liked by atleast one person and not be involved in any drama. I think that if I move I won t make as many mistakes as I already have. What do you think??? |
| Question: Please help! Suicidal!? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:10 PM PST This is about my friend. Last night her cousin texted her last night saying he was drunk and that he wanted to kill himself. Before she could respond she fell asleep and in the morning her mom took her phone. I told her to explain to her mom about the situation and to ask to please let her use it, but she said she didn't want to do that to her cousin. I said maybe she didn't even have to tell her that he was suicidal but just that it was a "serious situation" but she said her mom is paranoid and would want to know the details.I can't even go to her house and let her use my phone because she lives in another state. I said I'd text him for her but she doesn't know his number by heart. I told her to make up a lie to her mom that I was suicidal instead and I needed reasons to live and that I only wanted to talk to her. But she said that would only get us both in trouble.She's scared and so am I. What do I do? What do I tell her to do? We need help! I never met her cousin but I still care abut his life. I just wish she'd tell her mom....because if she doesn't she might lose him. I never been in this type of situation I'm sorry if what I suggested to her were horrible ideas |
| Question: I'm 21 & never had close friends or a boyfriend? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:57 PM PST I still need my license! One of the only things that has been stopping me is FEAR! but I know I need to take that risk & conquer that soo I can get out more & do stuff! People say I'm cute a lot! Nice, funny & down to earth! And I know I can't blame my mom or other people for feeling a little sheltered still & stuff.. I feel like once I overcome my fear of driving & get that done. I'll be able to get out more! & yes, I still live with my parents! Also, guys "talk" to me & stuff but I don't know how I feel about getting in a relationship with someone until I overcome a few more certain obsticales on my own like driving & stuff & if I was to get serious with anyone, I feel like it'd be nice to make at least one or two girlfriends to go out with & just do typical girl stuff, like shopping, maybe even clubbinn! Haha, why not! I'm young! xx Also, I never drank much & I don't smoke & I don't judge people that do! but I feel like MOST people are fake & don't wanna hang with you unless you have money, drink & party with them & all that stuff. I felt like some girls would try to use me as friens! Like this one girl I knew I took her about a year ago to a concert already paid for her & she invited and took me to a party before and she said she was my friend but than I realized I was usually always the one iniciating conversations & stuff with her & than after all that. I've heard nothing! I know people say their busy, but no ones that busy! |
| Question: Could I help my classmate? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:55 PM PST I'm in 10 grade. One of my classmate totally shy. She sit at first desk near the door and I sit right behind her. Well, few min ago she started fidgeting on her chair. Next I heard squelch and felt smel. When she asked teacher permit to use a restroom and got up I saw stain on her back. It note just me. The worst thing she forgot her her phone on the desk and can't call to her mom. I don't know how I could help her. |
| Question: I know someone from high school at the end of year we became so close. Are we friends? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:54 PM PST |
| Question: I hate school/feel very depressed...? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:48 PM PST I think it's mostly because I'm a nothing, You know how there's always social statuses at school. Well I'm the nothing. I only have my group of friends while the cool kids are connected to everyone, invited to everything, liked by everyone, etc... I only have my friends who make fun of me sometimes for being chubby (I am still in the process of loosing weight though). Should I change schools next year? But I'm not very social and scared it will end up the same way. Or should I stay there until my senior year? Please help me! I feel very bad in a weird way... I feel like I'm drowning in my pain. Plus my crush looked at me a very weird way because he probably thinks I'm ugly and he doesn't even know me. I think it's partly really because of that. Also, I'm depressed on social media because of the numbers of likes I have... |
| Question: What makes me seem less fortunate? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:47 PM PST I have a friend I told her I ve been receiving Ebt. Every month I m able to buy my own food and take care of myself. For some reason she is getting together old cans of vegetables old food she doesn t eat to give to me. Old clothes. Like she s donating her stuff to me. I m not poor and Its nice of her I appreciate it. But how can I say no thank you? She could be donating this to someone who really needs it and I do not want to be rude at all but it s making me feel kind of upset that she s feeling sorry for me when I have clothes , food everything I need. I guess since I told her I have Ebt she thinks I m poor and don t have anything. What can I say??? |
| Question: If most of somebody s values contradict those of yours,do you leave them? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:47 PM PST i have a good friend,but unfortunately our values aren t that much alike.we ve been close for like four months or so.but i dunno,as a human being he is valuable and i dont want to lose him but on the hand being around hin is realky stressful.he doesnt understand my values and motives at all.and he has some traits that i find morally wrong for myself.i dunno if i should tell him bout what bothers me or just try to make some distance between us.our values are so far apart from eachother but i still find him valuable in some ways |
| Question: Why do I always feel drained around people? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:47 PM PST I ve never been a very sociable person. At school I would often have 1 friend who I spent all of my time with and as soon as I was put into a group situation I would turn quiet, almost as if someone has switched off my voice box. I physically can t get my words out and no one speaks to me. This makes me feel incredibly drained as I feel like I m constantly observing the way that others interact with eachother. I feel as though I can only speak when the conversation has some sort of substance - talk to me about the universe, aliens, the history of our country and I will get my voice back. I have never been good at small talk, I have never been good at making jokes or even understanding them. But even as I sit there in silence I feel I m getting weaker, I feel I m going back into my shell which makes me reluctant to come out again for a while. I feel I want to go to my room and listen to music by myself or draw something. Anything to get me away from the crowd. Why is this? :( |
| Question: I always get bullied/picked on? PLEASE HELP? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:38 PM PST I m in 8th grade and I have a sister who s a senior in high school. when she was in eighth grade people didn t really like her. In fact they hated her and she hated them. Now I m in middle school, and I m stuck with their siblings..Could that be why i feel like I m getting bullied? How I m getting bullied: well I don t really know but I just feel like I am and I m in a fight with my best friends and I m kinda a loner at school and no one wants to sit at lunch with me. Also, on Instagram/Facebook I be myself and then someone posts a status of shade (hate, but they don t add your name), saying like "what the heck lol that one girl needs to stop copying hahaha" and then all their friends agree and I just know it s about me. God forbid I be myself anywhere! Everyday I come home from school wishing I could transfer. I just feel so alone. And then my "best friend" doesn t even bother to invite me to her New Year s Eve party (this is why we are fighting now) and I was alone for New Year s Eve because everyone cancelled and I was just plain out crying. I just wish I had friends. Why don t people like me?:( Is it my voice? Am I annoying? I honestly don t know. I m that girl that everyone secretly tells each other "omg haha she s so annoying she s a teachers pet too!" I don t know. I just feel so sad. As I m typing this I m trying to hold in my tears. It just hurts so much. How do I deal with this? I can t just "ignore" it. PLEASE HELP! Sorry this was so long, this means a lot to me |
| Question: Feel angry because roommate is basically trying to tell me what to do? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:36 PM PST I just feel a little bit flustered because of an email that my female roommate just sent myself (guy) and my other roommate who is a female as well. Let me start by saying I share an apartment with both these people and it is already clean. We pick up after ourselves, no dirty dishes clean bathrooms, etc. This roommate is OCD, so she sent this long winded email explaining how she thinks we should take off shoes at the bottom of the stairs, leaving one pair per person there, and all these crazy stipulations. Also she made mention to things , like find ing a few stray hairs on the bathroom floor and the occasional glob of toothpaste on the sink. This is just ridiculous she's trying to tell two grown people what to do when the apartment is already fine. I pay my share of rent and don't think I should have to conform to these emails every couple of months. What do you all think? |
| Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:33 PM PST Hi. So I have a friend that I met 2 yrs ago, and we are the bestest of friends. This year she started acting different. When I want to go talk to another friend, she will get jealous and give me a guilt trip, and pout. And she wants to be like me. I would get a book from our school library and then I would start reading the series. She would get the same book and try to catch up. We would also work on homework together, and sometimes I would get ahead. She looks at my paper and gets moody and starts rushing her work. Then she would finish and say "who's the slow one now" I feel like everything is a competition with her. What can I do? |
| Question: Bullies and anxiety. Please help? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:33 PM PST So I was home schooled for about a year now and I went back to public school today but from the last public school I went to, some people bullied me thats why I left. But i m back now and so are the bullies. 2 of them used to be my good friends but now all they do is bully and pick at me. I have gym class with them and Im terrified of that class now. I cant change my schedule anymore. What do I do?? Today I had an EXTREME panic attack and ran out of class into the bathroom because I was so nervous and scared. I dont know how to fix this. |
| Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:33 PM PST Basically, i have one girl that became my friend and we were friends for 1 year. She is almost 16 (turning 16 in February), but her IQ is really high. She smokes and acts like she is in her 20's. Trust me, she's a good person. But honestly, every time we see each other, even if i am one and a half year older than her, i can't but not think about her bloopers while she talks. I mean, it's all good, she has a boyfriend who is 6 years older than her, but i feel uncomfortable with her a bit, She even became a friend to my EX enemies, but she says they are her best female friends. She is loyal, and she would never betray me, but when i ask her stuff about why did she become friends with bullies, she just silently tries to not answer (they don't bully her), it's just.... I feel like even tho we can share same interest in some things, i feel uncomfortable being with a person that has a comment to everything. And also, she is pretty much more sociable than me, i am a tough introvert as a person, so this just adds to it. What should i do, and your opinions on her? |
| Question: Please help I'm really depressed? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:32 PM PST I'm ultra depressed, my body hurts all over, it's unbearable pain it makes me cry and now going through school is worse. It started when my girlfriend broke up with me because I had trust and paranoia problems, later I found out it was because this guy would non stop tell her she was hurting me and had to let me go. She still hangs around even though she knows about the shady stuff he wants to do and says she'll leave if he tries it. I love her and I can't be friends if she's still friends with him, I just can't. she really wants me to stay. But i hate him so much that i cant. its making me hurt really bad knowing shes hanging with him. So now the only person I talk to is my friend Woody who I only get to talk to for like 20 min a day cuz of school and work. I'm really shy and can't make friends and have a problem finding people I want to befriend. I don't know what to do anymore. Woody will be gone to college soon then I'll really be alone. I'm 15 and this is making my already stressful life a living he'll, cause I really care for her and don't know what to do |
| Question: I've developed really bad social anxiety? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:23 PM PST Honestly as a kid and teen I was really shy. Then at about 19 I started being more outgoing and it went away. Now I'm 23 and it came back but it's a lot worse than before. Now I can't even have conversations with my own friends and family. They have even noticed the change. A good buddy of mine even asked me what my problem is because I'm always real quiet and awkward anymore. What else is weird is if I'm talking to someone I can't look them in the eye anymore without getting all worked up and sometimes even having a panic attack. What happened and how can I fix this? |
| Question: How do I get into the deep web? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:19 PM PST Note this. . . I don't plan to go watch child porn or anything, I'm not that stupid. All I was planning to do was hang out with my friends and maybe mentally scar them, like a good friend does, know what I mean? If I could get a real answer, I would be thankful, VERY thankful. |
| Question: I don't have any girl-friends? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:11 PM PST I'm a 17 year old guy and I don't have any girl-friends. I'm not even concerned with not having a girlfriend. I just want to be like a normal guy and have girl-friends. I tend to not capture their attention. Any advice? |
| Question: Am I too stupid..? Or being over-dramatic? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:11 PM PST This girl messaged me on instagram bullying me;sending her friends to bully me...And I thought about cutting.I told my friends and they thought I was lying..So I started crying.I haven't talked to them and Im wondering if im being over-dramatic? |
| Question: People who ask boring questions, how do you deal with it? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:05 PM PST I want to pull my ******* hair out, why must they know every little detail? How many friends did you hangout with? Who? Where'd you go? Did you have fun? Did you eat? What did you eat? Like stfu, why do people need to know all of this? |
| Question: What to do if a friend served you bad tuna salad? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:05 PM PST I believe my friend served me an expired tuna fish sandwich over the weekend. I have gotten terribly sick, and am missing at least two days of work unpaid. What should I say to my friend, since I am out wages and have spent a lot of time throwing up. Could I ask him to reimburse me? |
| Question: Would you consider this bullying or harassment? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:59 PM PST So a couple of weeks ago I made a fake Instagram account called "pootontop". This account was a joke an it was just a bunch of pictures of that awful picture Demi Loatove took. After a little bit of having this account I started getting all these direct messages from people at my school. They knew it was somebody from school because I commented on everybody picture. They kept questioning me and all i said was that I was Poot. They had in there mind that it was one girl and i kept saying it wasn't. So finally i added her to the group just so she could tell them herself that she wasn't Poot. They finally saw it but unfortuatley the said some pretty mean things and so now she was able to see all of that. She was pretty mad that i caused them to say all those things but to be perfectly honest I really don't like this girl so it didn't bother me that much. After a while everybody found out who I was and stopped caring and I've forgetting the whole password for the account so i can't even log in anymore. Im just curious as to what other people who had nothing to do with this whole mess think... |
| Question: How should I respond to this text? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:58 PM PST About 3 or 4 weeks ago I messed up my friendship with my best friend and we haven t really been talking since then so about 3 days ago I texted her "is there a chance we could still be friends" then she said "sorry it s taken me so long to answer you. I have been thinking about what the right choice would be. to be friends right off the bat again or to just be acquainted with each other. I thought long and hard about it. but I realized something. this entire time there was a chance. there has always been a chance for us to be friends. whether each of us take the chance is our own choice but there has always been one. and this whole time, I ve taken it. I have wanted to be friends all along. I have taken the chance numerous times. but it takes two to tango. a one sided friendship is not a healthy friendship. i don t know this for sure because I m not you but i feel like even though the chance was there the whole time you never took it. and it made our friendship one sided. that s just how I feel. idk maybe you did take it in the beginning but what I m trying to say is that I have always taken it. there was the chance when we FaceTimed to make up and then there was the chance when we were gonna go to your house. I took it each of those times but I don t feel like you did. so what I am saying is, I have already taken the risk. the real question is yours. is there a chance we could still be friends. |
| Question: My friends keeping me a slag? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:56 PM PST Right so I have slept with a lot of people not gonna lie but my friends don't know how many but they see how many boys message me but because I'm single I reply? I've been to a person to talk about me having sex and she's says I'm not addicted to the sex, I'm addicted to feeling wanted and thst i am pretty and all that stuff. Which is why I sleep with people and why I talk to boys? But I've told my friends this and about my pills and they still call me a slag all the time or make comments and it's making my depression and my nightmares worse. I don't know what to do? |
| Question: My friend acting strange? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:55 PM PST We used to be close but, now she faded into the shadows. On social media she used to like my posts but now its like she doesnt at ALL. Only time she says something is major holidays. Ive tried speaking to her about it and she always has excuses. |
| Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:55 PM PST btw im a guy* so I had a best frnd, but people sorta disliked him, icluding my group of frnds, about 5 people in total. he was selfish a bit, bossy, depressed sometimes, and sulked heavily when he didnt get his way. we really were good frnds with lot in common, We got into a couple of fights recently and after people judging our frndship I drifted away from him. we had a really big fight about why we were frnds anyway and he ignored me and started avoided me. he sends Really mean messgaes to me now, he hates my guts now I hate him, A LOT. *listen to me blabbing like a little baby... :-@ just bear with me please* so I tried to join to the semi-popular group ( 2 ppl frm there kinda liked me) and the group kinda accepted me but I felt left out, u knw like the odd one out. :-( I would get along so well with them alone away frm group, but they would get absorbed when in the group. now my frnd from the group hasnt talked to me since summer break, and if I ask him about it im scared he'll get me out of d group. (the group isnt official, I just think it is). he mad I think coz he said I should go to a party and I was too freaking scared to socialize with others (there were girls too) so I didnt go. im a bit lonely now I dont hav a best frnd or a real frnd, and the old group broke up, everyone thinks of me as a semi-aquaintance. I kinda changed, to them sorta, but I like the change, at the same time I dont, im confused, I dnt hav frnds and im still scared to socialize. I need help. |
| Question: I want an american friend? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:40 PM PST Hiii:) my name is andy, im from spain, im a 15 years boy, i d love to know american people because theres anyone from USA here, if u wanna talk to me my instagram is : Andy_el_gringo :) |
| Question: Is it dumb to feel jealous when your best friends hang out without you? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:30 PM PST i feel like it isn t dumb when they just don t invite you, they re just being shitty friends in that case, but in my case i m out of the city since it s winter break. i went to snapchat earlier and saw that one of my best friends posted a picture of three cocktails in a café. she is a really friendly person so i thought like yeah she is hanging with her other friends but then i saw that my other best friend posted a snap and it was of the same thing. and i don t know but i just felt jealous? still do. i mean i obviously can t be with them but ahh i don t even know why am i writing this note: these two girls are my best friends but aren t best friends with each other, just good friends, and the third one is also best friends with them but good friends with me, it s maybe confusing, but yeah. when we hang out it s either two of us or all four, but the three of them hanging out without me has already happened a few times during summer vacation when i was away and i felt jealous when they were retelling their fun stories of when they ve hung out without me in front of me. but like when either of my best friends hang out with the good friend and they post pics or tell me about it i don t feel as jealous as when they hang out with each other? they never hang out like just the two of them, but when they re in the same company and i m not there i just feel really left out even though i know that if i was able to come along (e. g. i wasn t away) they would ve invited me |
| Question: What can I do in my lunch time if I have no one? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:16 PM PST Basically my main friend got ill and the group I was in I got in an arguement with so I moved to this other group at school but I wasn t really wanted and now I ve got no friends at school, but I m always scared of what people think of me so every lunch I lock myself in the toilet so no one can see im a loner but I get really bored in their and was wondering if anyone can give me idea of what to do when I m locked in their , it doesn t upset me as I ve got loads of friends outside school. But I hate school so much |
| Question: Venting problems to friends ?????? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 01:57 PM PST Do you think its a good idea to vent to a close friend who doesnt even vent to you? She says she is just a good listener?? |
| Question: Changing schools? PLZ ANSWER? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 01:52 PM PST Well let's see, my son of a bich of a stepbrother is going to my school tomorrow!!! And I knew this was gonna happen but I didn't think it would be in my class!!! I'm in smarty pants program and he dosint even speak English!!! Wtf? And I honestly hate him. And I've had anxiety problems (still do) because of him and my whole situation...And I cry a lot cuz of him. And if I even trying talk to my mom about this she will get mad at me for being a "*****" as she says. I don't know what to do! And the situation is much more complicated then it seems so no judging. I've even wanted to kill myself. And I've had cutting problems that absolutely no one knows about. I keep it all in, and I can't tell anyone. I want to change schools so bad... What do you think? And how do I ask my mom and make her say yes? XOXO Beth |
| Question: People only want sex from me? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 01:46 PM PST I don't know why, but I can't even get a friend. Every time I make one, the y expect sex from me (both genders), and it's depressing. I don't know what to do. I dress modest, I don't send pics, im not out there, yet they only want sex. please help |
| Posted: 04 Jan 2016 01:45 PM PST So my bff (since 3rd grade) has been acting mean at school. Not saying anything, just like she isn't excited to be with me at school. And she says she wants to be part of the "group" but when we're alone, we have so much fun and play around and stuff. We go to a tiny private school and everyone is kinda connected if that helps. |
| Question: Should I stop caring about my sisters opinion of me? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 01:45 PM PST I m a guy in my late teens. My sister is in her early teens. She s never liked me. She thinks I m a loser and she insults me all the time. If I insult her back I get in trouble with my parents. So I m trying to just not give her attention. My friends younger siblings love their big brother and view them as their hero, and someone they can look up to. I think I m pretty cool and I would like to have an older brother like me. Anyway, should I stop caring about my sisters opinion of me? Maybe one day I will be viewed as a great father by my future children. I feel like the only way to handle this is act "too cool" and not give her what she wants, me in trouble while she laughs about it. |
| Question: How can I improve an aspect of myself without denying it? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 01:39 PM PST I guess I'm extremely childish and want to be mature so that I can have a serious friend to friend relationship (true friend) with others. But wouldn't that be denying maybe betraying myself as I'm ignoring that I'm really childish? It also annoys me that I act childish sometimes even when I'm alone, but I can't distinguish it between not wanting to be childish because "I" don't want to or because of others |
| Question: Are indian girls usually like this? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 01:09 PM PST At the beginning of the school year (im in grade 8) there was this transfer student girl, shes indian and me and my friends let her join our little group cuz she thought my best friend was indian like her but shes a muslim from turkey. I hung out with her for a day and i found that she was really nosey, i let that go but after a few weeks she was starting to get all feely touchy with me. Once i told her that i dont like her touching me she got all creepy and whenever we meet she just stares at me and pushes me away when im talking to my best friend or tries to make me jealous by using my best friend. I wasn't even mean to her... After that i realized that she was trying to replace me and take my best friend away. Since this happened i found a new group of friends and i started hanging out w them but this indian girl kept on following me and rubbing against me and my new friends then asking them weird questions or just staring at them. Trust me i do talk to her like a normal person and try to be her friend but she keeps on doing this to me no matter what |
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| Question: How do I get someone to stop texting me? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 01:03 PM PST It's this guy I used to work with. I wouldn't mind being friends with him, but every time we hang out under the pretense of "just friends", he tries to ask me out. I've told him several times that I would never feel that way about him, but he just keeps trying. The only reason I'm still friends with him that he's the one always texting me and I know he doesn't have many friends. Is there a way to communicate to him that he makes me uncomfortable and that I don't want to talk to him anymore? As nice as possible please :) |
| Question: Should I go back to my old school? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 01:00 PM PST I left my beloved school earlier this year because my father wanted me to join a school close to our new home. I agreed because I suffer of some speaking issues, like I stutter sometimes and there's a lot of oral there. The new school has no oral so I'm not having any trouble this year. However, I'm not happy at all as I miss all my friends so much. I thought I would adapt with time but its clearly not working. I want to go back. I know I could suffer a little because of my issues, but I dont think there's anything wrong with that, right? Everyone has problems and I'm trying to face them instead of running. If you can also give me some tips on how to stop this problem I would be glad. Thanks for any answer. |
| Question: Do I have a bad friend ? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 12:46 PM PST Recently I've been really suicidal due to my depression and usually I keep everything to myself but last night I was scared I was going to do something so I messaged my friend and all she said was "you do you." She's been my best friend for 8 years I don't know why she would reply with something like that.. what do you think? Would you ever tell your friend something like that? |
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| Question: How can I make at least 10 friends as a 23 year old woman this year and keep them? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 12:12 PM PST I'm about to go into graduate school this month and I only have one friend from high school. while I'm thankful, I don't like the fact that I don't have a lot of friends. I would rather have at least 7-10 friends, but I don't know where or how to start. I even fear that they are just going to ignore me or backstab me like my former "friends" did. I kind of resent myself sometimes for being unpopular and not having that many friends growing up. I didn't have many friends growing up because other kids considered me ugly and weird and wanted nothing to do with me. I even want to burn my old middle school photos because I looked so ugly back then and it reminds me of why I was unpopular in the first place. I don't like the fact that the majority of people from college started ignoring me. I understand that they are busy with work/grad school and I shouldn't pester them with texts, but I see them hanging out with other people all the time on Snapchat/Instagram, but they ignore my texts. |
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| Question: What's going on with my friend? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 12:03 PM PST She is 32 and i am 21 We had been friends for quite some time about 7 months before she went ghost. She became my friend at a very venerable time in my life. I had gone through some major trauma. I was homeless and had been hanging out with her on her shift at work. She eventually got me a job and then she moved on. While we were friends she kept contact and we talked frequently. Now that i an doing better and able to take care of myself got a decent job and a relationship and going to school, i try to make plans and she bails at the last minute. She says she is soo busy. I call and she just doesnt answer or never return my calls. After i started going to school she just started going and uses that as her excuse but i see her on social media always enjoying her self with different people or different events. I really care about her and i just need insight if you can see what the problem is? Maybe you can see something i do not. I wish her the best but im tired of putting in effort to see her and it just fails. |
| Question: How to get rid of loneliness and homesickness? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:58 AM PST I was in home for around 45 days due to my prolonged holiday, then I had to comeback to my college, actually I don't have any real friend, all I have are my parents. Now I'm Missing them and everything really bad |
| Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:58 AM PST I know it sounds ridiculous to people who aren't Star Wars fans but to me Star Wars is almost everything. I'm 15 and I have been a Star Wars fan for as long as I can remember, I literally can't remember a world without Star Wars. I was always really into it and I own a bunch of EU novels and comics and I have spent tons of money on Star Wars toys and I've spent countless hours playing Star Wars video games. When I was little I would just read wookiepedia for fun because I wanted to know more about the Star Wars universe. When I was ten I begged my parents to take me to the Star Wads convention that was being held in my town this year. I got my own costume and everything. I have known since I was around nine years old that George Lucas' original plan was to make twelve or nine movies. I had always been hoping for that to happen and occasionally I would roam the Internet to find out what they would've been about. When they announced Disney bought Lucasfilm when I was eleven I was so happy that they were making more movies. I have been looking forward to a new Star Wars movie being released during my lifetime for basically my whole life. I read all the comics and some books that were released in anticipation for the force awakens and even bought my own BB-8. My only concern on the day of release was making it through the day without spoilers. At the very end of the day my |
| Question: Question Continued.. Should I be Aware Of My New Roomate ?? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:53 AM PST .... on his day off, and he is 24 years of age which is young to me. Should I be aware of somethinng or am I just paranoid. He doesn't hang out that much with friends or go anywhere on his day off, and he is 24 years of age which is young to me not have an girlfriend or hang out. He also knows I am involved so recently I asked him if he can tone down the jokes like calling me beautiful and asking me stupid stuff like : can I lay in your bed, and can I give You a massage, even though he tries to clean it up and say he is joking, it is uncomfortable to me. And when I brought this up he got an attitude and kept on talking with out letting it go when I stated I was just addressing my concerns. Plus he drinks beer a lot and when he does that is when the weird questions come. Should I be aware of somethinng or am I just paranoid. If anyone can answer this it would sincerely appreciate |
| Question: Would you be okay with this? Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:25 AM PST Would you be okay with your husband going over to his best friends house (we're neighbors) to talk (just conversation) with his wife while his best friend isn't there? |
| Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:23 AM PST A bit of background: I separated 3 years ago + divorced 2 years ago about the same time as my best friend. We both have two girls the same age who were very close friends. Before the divorce, my ex was good friends with her too, all of us gone on vacation together many times. So divorce explosion happens, ex moves out and suddenly she is here every day. I baby sit her girls so she can work, I lend her money (because I have a little more than her), drink wine when the girls are asleep + cry about life. Soon I find out on the wknds my ex has the girls she is hanging out with him too. In the meantime, I had a new guy and I feel like I cant tell her anything, because she is going to report to him. Then they decide to take Easter holidays together because he has a pretty country house. I WAS LIVID but I said ok, she is poor, has no where to go, its ok. When they came back I talked to her and said look, all this hanging out with my ex is making me feel really uncomfortable. It's ok if it's here and there but vacations and constantly is too much. Then in the summer I found out (from someone else because they both hid it from me) that they disregarded my feelings and went on vacation again together!!! When I confronted they both tried to tell me I am making a big deal out of nothing, they are free and can do as they please. Then I said to my bf, I am sorry, but you obviously have made your choice and she told me I am being unfair and that I am not her boss. Am i crazy? They are not dating...they say they are just friends. |
| Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:21 AM PST So It just happened that I lost him and I'm sad so I don't know how I can forget about it or just don't be sad about it since there's no way to get him/her back.. help ? |
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