Family: Question: My mom is crying and she won't tell me why. What should I do?

Question: My mom is crying and she won't tell me why. What should I do?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:01 PM PST

So there I was, completely drunk, at the age of 15, on new years eve. In my dads apartment, he caught me drinking champagne, with my friends, said i wasn't even able to speak. The next day he wasn't really mad at me. We just spoke about it and I said that I knew what i was doing and that in every moment i could go to sleep because i was in my apartment after all. My mom lives with me in a small flat, she is in separation with my dad for about 13 years now.

Question: What would it take to get custody of my Great-nephew in Florida?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:48 PM PST

My parents who are 69 and 65 currently have the boy almost three weeks out of the month. His mother doesn't work or go to school she just doesn't want to watch him my nephew is an EMT and works at two different stations so he works a 24 & 48 hour shift and is always on call. The mom doesn't want to sign custody of my Great-nephew over because that's her only way of getting what she wants. They just recently moved out after living with my parents for a year and my dad baying for them to live by themselves for a few years prior. They moved out because everyone was tired of the mother who stole stuff, abused my nephew, threatened to kill herself, tried to kill herself, threatened to call the cops on my nephew and my parents, laid up in bed with my nephews uncle on his mom's side. He want's to leave her but is afraid she will get custody of the baby and so if my parents of myself can get custody then my nephew can get his life to gather and maybe we would sign custody over when he had his life back. It's almost time for them to get their income tax money and just like last year they are going to fly out to Colorado so they can smoke dope and blow all of their money. The only difference is this year they don't have to trick my parents into watching my Great-nephew because they already have him (last year they just told her she needed to watch him for the weekend then took off to Colorado for two weeks and came home with absolutely no money left). What should we do?

Question: WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH MY DAD? PLEASE ANSWER!?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:42 PM PST

So basically today I recommended for me him and my mom to go to a sushi place. He yelled and mocked me because he wanted to go to the other buffet that we went to all the time. Finally he gave in because my mom was supporting me too. We arrived there then because it was crowded he said I have problems then the food was really late because he ordered like 20 plates of sashimi. He started throwing a tantrum after me and my mom suggested he did not have to wait here. He started yelling at the waitors and chefs and embaressed me so much. He said I had to pay for the food because I made him get hungry. first I did not force him to not eat second he could have just adropped me and my mom off and went to eat somewhere else. He said I was stupid and I should go f*** myself. After a while I cried and my mom was standing up for me and suggested a divorce. I cannot wait until I can leave my dad, this happened before too when I could not find a table at the mall for us to eat at. He calls me stupid all the time. WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY DAD?

Question: How do should I go about asking for gifts for the celebration my husband and I are going to throw for our daughter?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:40 PM PST

My perfect princess (12) started her cycle, for the first time, right before New Years. Last year, she had stated that in order to help my husband and I be more obedient to her and her rules, she would become ' Lady of the House' once she began her period. Since she started, my husband and I have worked to coriograph a ceramony where I ( wearing a dollar store crown) would place the crown on her head. I would then get down on all fours and kiss her feet. She would then kick me in the face showing that I was demoted from being a wife/ mother to a useless slave. My husband and I are throwing a party the day of the ceramony ( she doesn't know it yet, its going to be a big surprise) where the guests can watch this wonderful ceramony and then celebrate. How should I word the invites to show that gifts should be given to her? We are very excited about this ceramony, and want to buy her many gifts as she is perfect and wonderful.

Question: How do I get used to looking at the mirors during driving?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:25 PM PST

I got my licensesn 6 months ago and Im 22 Inhad hard time learning how to learn steer properly but ai can just drive but fast I dont have a car but I am saving for a car it will take me about 2 years or more to get one until I pay my loans etc By that time I dont get opportunities to drive But on weekends my mom tells me to go out and use the car only around the area I have a problem of not learning the way of places even if I go to the same route 1000 times And I dont look in the side mirors And I do not know how to shoulder check I also forgot how to U turn I think I knew them all but I think I forgot i feel bad i saved a lot to train amd did the test many times enough money to buy a car

Question: How to tell my family I don't want to live near them?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:20 PM PST

I moved a 45 minute's drive away from my family. I spent months finding the perfect place for me, and then more months bribing and begging the landlords to let me rent here. I wanted to move away from my family because my 30 year old brother is a thief who constantly broke into my car/room and stole my hard earned money while he wouldn't even work, and my younger sister (24) is extremely passive aggressive, mean-hearted, and sabotages my relationships with friends and family members. All three of us lived with my dad when I moved out. My dad, I adore, but he NEVER DID ANYTHING about my brother stealing from me, and he talks about me behind my back with my sister. I started staying in motels to get away from them, and I felt so blessed when I got my dream place. Recently, my dad has had to move from his old place, and he keeps saying, "If we moved to (my town), it would be a straight shot to work on the highway." He saw an apartment complex in my town and said, "hmm"... My stomach dropped. This town has fewer people than my high school. The thought of them moving up here after all I've been through to get here is turning me upside down. It's really hard for me to talk to them about anything. How can I approach this with my dad? Am I being selfish to want to be on my own here? Is it just me, or is it weird for an adult woman to move out, only to have her dad and adult children who still live at home follow? How can I convince them to stay away without being a *****?

Question: What should I do to put my brother in his place?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:04 PM PST

I'm a 17 year old teenage guy and i live with my parents and my younger brother, who is 13. My brother is a very, very small and scrawny, about 4'10'' tall and 100 pounds, and has wrestled for about 8 years. He talks back to both my parents and treats my mother terribly, and he gives her no respect. She isn't much taller than him, and is afraid that if she tries to punish him or spank him or anything because she's afraid he will get physical. I just found out yesterday that she did try once, and he slammed her into a door, giving her a nasty bruise on her back. I've wanted to beat him up for a long time now, to show him that he is NOT the greatest thing on Earth, and that he needs to respect his family, but recently, i'm afraid if i do, i'll lose control, and i won't be able to stop myself from putting him in the hospital. He got disrespectful today and threatened me, so i punched him in the arm, and he kicked me in my recently-broken right hand, shattering my new watch and cutting up my hand. I don't know what to do. I've contemplated beating the piss out of him regardless of what happens, I've contemplated threatening him and scaring him so he'd stop. He's made me contemplate many things i'm not proud of, simply because he's making my life a living hell. I need help. Please. Thank you all very much. I'm going to keep these in mind.

Question: I would like for my grandparents and great aunt to visit me in the US?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:59 AM PST

My grandparents and great aunt live in a Russia me my mom and dad live in US.I would love if they could visit my grandmother visited 3 years ago but my grandfather did not and my great aunt did not (I consider her like my grandmother).Money is not the problem.Each has there own problem Grandmother-She says she is to old even though she is only 60.Last time she visited she was very lonely that's why I want her to come with my grandfather.She is probably the most closest person in the world to me. Grandfather-He is the same age as my grandmother.He says sure he will visit but always lies about it.!y mother says he is scared to not be able to boss anyone around here.He visited his home village Tavda and on the second day wanted to leave. Great aunt-She I think wants to but is afraid.She is 75 and she is a bit odd.She has arthritis and it is hard for her to walk.She is upset about my great grandmothers death several years ago.I would like for her to visit and have surgery to fix the arthritis.My grandfather does not want to let her leave. Please help me convince them I have the most influence and I am probably the only one able to convince them.They are all retired and money is not the problem.

Question: My dad keeps buying food nobody eats? Help please!?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:58 AM PST

Since I can remember my dad continuously buys the same processed trash every single week when he goes to the store. He'll buy pizza rolls and boxes of tx dinners and lunch meat and cheese slices and boxed Mac and cheese and insta potatoes and cans of chef boyardee and Campbell's soup. And that's pretty much it. He never buys fruit. He never buys vegetables. I have a chronic pain condition and I want to eat healthier, and I do when I can. But he completely disregards my dietary needs because he thinks fruit and veggies are expensive when I have proof that he's wasting money now. Anyway, I don't eat most of what we have, I mostly eat out or eat mac and cheese. And my sister basically only eats microwave lasagna. I just can't continue eating meat. I don't like eating meat and processed food but he will continue to buy it. He also likes to buy the same stuff and has a process where he only takes like 30 mins in the store. Once he took me with him because I wanted to buy fruit and healthy stuff. But he can't get it through his head that all the food in our house is not going to get eaten and he's wasting money and he needs to buy fruit INSTEAD OF (not on top of) all the other trash he buys. What should I do to convince him of this without him yelling at me cause he's very short tempered.

Question: Not allowed to close my bedroom door?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:54 AM PST

I'm 14, and my dad made a stupid rule that i can't close my door unless i'm doing homework, since i 'shouldn't have anything to hide.' they are indian parents and do not understand privacy at all. They get mad if they even see me on my phone, my mom is constantly nagging me asking 'did i do my homework,' i get straight a's but they say 'that's not good enough,' and she even tries to ******* control who i'm friends with, resulting in me basically being forced to be friends with people i often dont even like, its ridiculous. Earlier in the year my dad told me to keep my door open but i reasoned with him and he let me close it; not two weeks ago for no reason he makes this new rule and said if I close it at any other time, he will TAKE THE DOOR OFF. privacy is non-existent for me right now and it sucks. please help. its also hard to reason with them. i know this doesnt seem like a big deal but i hate it. they try to control everything and its getting ridiculous. i printed out a 'note' filled with evidence as to why I should be able to close my door to put on his desk but i did that last time and im not sure if it will work; i dont feel like talking or arguing with them because it will turn into a two hour lecture about how im going to fail in life if i dont follow their controlling rules. they think they are right and the rest of the entire world is wrong.

Question: Would you be offended if one of your relatives responded this way to you?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:53 AM PST

So over Christmas, I was talking to my family and I was telling a story about trying to teach my mom how to use Facebook. She is a teacher and very smart, but sometimes it's somewhat comical that she has problems with technology. I was explaining the story, to my cousins and someone said " maybe you can be tech support for aunt so and so then" and I responded with " well it would be pretty sad if I was tech support"...then another cousin responded with " yeah"..this really hurt my feelings because I was just making fun of myself and I'm not normally tech savy, just with some things..but the way my cousin responded seems really insulting.

Question: Are my siblings stupid and disgusting??

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:41 AM PST

My siblings are REALLY f*cking pathetic. I'm sorry, but it's true!! They never buy toothpaste whenever we need it, which I think is gross and unsanitary to me. We hadn't had toothpaste in a f*cking week and my older sister, who actually has a job😤😑, won't even get het lazy a** to the 99 cents store and buy at least 2 f*cking bottles of f*cking toothpaste!! This is re ally pathetic!! So, once again, I have go go out and use the little money I have to buy toothpaste!! I've done the exact same thing last time thsee disgusting LOSERS didn't buy toothpaste. Are my siblings stupid and disgusting??

Question: How often should I visit my parents when I am in college?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:36 AM PST

I am going to college next fall and it is out of state. The plane ride is about 1 1/2 hours. I really think I am going to miss my family a lot because me and my parents are very close. I am thinking about going home once every five weeks but is that too often? My mom and I are extremely close and I know it is going to be hard for both of us. Money isn t that big of an issue (plane rides and such) but what point would it be weird. Would once every 7-8 weeks be better or is that still too much.

Question: What should I do when I feel guilty about expensive presents?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:34 AM PST

We're a middle class family that is okay for money but not too well off. For Christmas I didn't really ask for anything too specific I just said books and clothes because honestly I don't need a lot. My mother got me a really expensive outfit. I am so grateful for everything she does for me and this is no exception, but I can't help but feel guilty about it.

Question: Why does my parents think that every text I send is innoproperate?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:32 AM PST

I've never done anything wrong and it's just all the sudden. What should I do? I even show them my messages but they don't trust me...😒

Question: Being only 16, and both parents still alive, if I wanted to could I live with my older brother states away from my parents?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:31 AM PST

I moved to Florida from Ohio a year ago and my older brother and his family live in Ohio. I really hate it down here and would rather be with my brother, is that a possibility with me being underage..

Question: Guys, could you do something this kinky?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:28 AM PST

I got call from my ex mother in law Janis that she wanted to go to a convention in my town but all the hotels were full. She wanted to know if she could stay with me for one night. I said sure. I had a spare bedroom she could use. She was very nice to me when Pam and I were married. I liked her when I was married to her daughter Pam but I had not heard from her since our divorce. She came by my condo and we had dinner together and we both enjoyed the meal and great conversation. The next morning when I got up she had a delicious hot breakfast prepared for us. As we had breakfast the thought crossed my mind, she is really a beautiful woman. The fact that she had on a lose fitting robe and nothing else on probably contributed to my thinking that. As she was getting ready to leave, I told her if she was in town again she was welcome to stay with me any time. She said thanks for the invitation but if I do stay with you again, only one bedroom in your condo will be used. OH MY GOD. Is that the KINKIEST thing ever? I am not sure I can do something that kinky? Guy, could you do something that kinky?

Question: I really want to **** my sister?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:21 AM PST

I really want to **** my sister, she's a year older than me (18) which isn't great as it would be better if I was the older one. I don't want to force her to do anything or do anything against her will. We aren't close close but we do talk occasionally. I might just leave the door open when I'm showering or something but I really want to **** her.

Question: Parental controls on 13 year old's Netflix account?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:21 AM PST

My parents finally got a Netflix account for our family, but are now deciding against it because they are paranoid that my 13 year old brother will be exposed to inappropriate content. They are considering putting parental controls on his account, but they're nervous that he'll just watch what he wants on our other profiles anyway. I personally think this is ridiculous, as I know that he's inevitably exposed to far more foul content at school and online on a daily basis. I'm just trying to gauge other opinions.

Question: Need Advice Please!?!...?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:13 AM PST

Hello I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and we havea child together, for the last 4 years we have been living in his mothers roof, We just moved got our own place but now his mother is living under our roof and she still takes control of the downstairs portion of my home (mainly the living room as she sleeps in there). We were engaged for a few months but I recently called it off cause I feel like we cant have a future together cause of a parent living with us and im not making it all about his mother it could be either of my parents i will still feel the same.. I just dont know what to do. I love him but I am on a thin thread with him. In one way I understand why his mother is living with us cause she has no where to go (oddly she was recently living with her daughter) but in another way My boyfriend and I NEED to live our own lives as a family and plan our future and get married and possibly have more children.. Any advice about the situation would be helpful.. Thank you

Question: My mom keeps letting me down and blowing me off on plans we make, what should I do?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:12 AM PST

When me and my mom make plans she always breaks them, or she says that she is too busy that day to be with me. In my tharapy sessions with her, my tharapist keeps mentioning that we need to have a stronger bond, as we don t have a good relationship now. As I am 14, I can t do much about the whole situation. I can t tell her to drop her plans. But I also noticed that she keeps promising to be with me at some point, but we both already know that we will not be able to at a certain time. She also pushed back our plans by saying we will do it on the weekend, but it s then pushed back another weekend, and if I ask again she s "too tired". I m worried about how serious my mom is about tharapy. It s like she just pretends to care about me in tharapy and says she ll change, but never carried through with those changes. I understand that life for adults is hectic, but I m trying to help myself get better, and I think I should be able to be with my mom other than just normal convorsation. Sorry this was long please help.

Question: My sister is getting on my nerves!!?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:10 AM PST

First of all she is very fake and I HATE fake people. She changes her accent around other people (we re from the south but she doesn t have a southern accent) now all of a sudden she does! We re 6 years apart. She s 24, I m 18. I can handle myself and have handled myself for the past two years that she s been in Spain very well. I do things my way, but all of sudden it s like I m 12 again and she s the "very wise" adult. It s gotten to the point where I can t even stand being around her. We are always arguing and I just want her to shut up. Grrrr it s so annoying ! Is this normal in our age range? I feel like I need counseling but at the same time she needs boundaries and to respect me and my decisions and not force her life onto my life

Question: My husband kicked his son and got hit back, how can I effectively make my husband/step-son understand ?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:51 AM PST

My step-son aged 20 had come, for a short leave to do his residency work. My husband & step son never get along, but I feel my husband really needs to understand his son, but both father & son have their pride. An argument broke out between the 2, regarding that his son should have do part time job & additional courses & not just attend college as he will get more experience, but the problem is my step sons college is 8 hrs a day & if he again does work/course it could pressure him & effect his main studies. But my husband was discouraging that his son is not capable, his son is lazy, wasting his life etc etc. & as the 2 argued, my husband kicked his son & in a fit of rage, my step son, slams him against the wall, gives him a head lock & violently punches him several times over the back & on the top of his voice yells "don't you ever f****** hit me ever, you piece of s***" my husband had difficulty sitting straight after that & I had to massage his back. I scolded my husband that, he needs to love his son & not hit him & stop being so pressuring and discouraging & give him space as he is a growing man. My step sons plan was to finish degree, go abroad work for 2-3 yrs & also do addt. studying, then with the earned money & part of his fathers financial support, he can go to Australia for MBA & would also like to study animation. So he has a plan,but my husband wants him to do it all at the same time, rather than focusing properly on what he is currently doing ?

Question: I'm feeling down & want some advice on what I can do?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:28 AM PST

I've been up for 4 hours I worked out from 12am-6am I guess I'm a night bird but why don't people invite to places. Like I don't go out I wish I had somebody to be with. I'm young not even 18 yet but I'm already an old man I don't do **** nobody visits me. I feel so lonely. My grandparents don't allow their kids to talk to me nobody calls to say hello. I don't get to see my parents often because of scheduling. I know I run a business but I don't mean to be an asshole I sent everyone happy holidays texts & wished everyone a blessing year. I feel so dead like as if I was in an elderly home. I can hear my dad talk **** about me on the phone to my grandma when I'm in my bedroom after I loaned him 2k dollars. I don't have brothers or sisters to check up on I know this girl at school she's really kind & im so proud of her she's in her senior year & engaged I see old faces I used to know either having the time of their life or broke in a living hell. Yeah I got my business partners but I want a family it's not like I need to keep attending school after my success but I just feel so cold. I feel like a dying old man locked up in a house I've always been single I honestly think nobody likes me but it's always been that way since I can remember I just wish I could know what it felt like to love somebody and be loved My dads family doesn't love me cause I have a different skin color than them I barely get to see moms side. I feel so lonely cause I see so many old faces

Question: Can i call the cops on my sister?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:25 AM PST

my sister is 22 and im 15. keep in mind shes an adult and im still a minor. we've been living in this nice apartment for at most 7 years with her,my dad,my mom,and me. we share a room so half is her bed and the other is my bed. we share a closet. the thing that bothers the rest of us(especially me) is that she has clutter everywhere, even on some of my stuff. she has trash in some of her clutter too (things she dosnt need) reciepts everywhere. she has a job that pays her about 500 a month and she doesnt pay rent, nor has she even put a dime and my parents taxes and bills are overwhelming them especially the fact that she tells us things like shut the f**#@ up and get the f*$#!@ out and disrespects us enormously.

Question: My mom always puts me down? she makes me want to kill myself?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:18 AM PST

my mom always puts me down? she always calls me dirty, gross, and ugly and says other kids are better than me whenever i try to help her she makes me feel bad about myself like the other day i cooked for her so she wouldnt have to stand all day and she said my cooking is terrible she never apperciates anything i do for her she makes me feel like this disgusting slob but this only because she can't afford to buy me shampoo she can't afford anything we can hardly pay the water bill sometimes my life really sucks she rarely buys toothpaste and my teeth are cavity ridden i just want to kill myself i don't know what to do i really love her so i don't want to leave plus i have no where else to go but i just feel so horrible

Question: My parents always want to know where i'm going and i'm 19?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:05 AM PST

I'm a sophomore in college, 19 going to be 20, and whenever i'm home for break I feel like i'm transported back to 10th grade in High School. Whenever I go somewhere to hang out with friends, they always want to know where i'm going, who is there, how long i'll be there, and many times I don't have all the answers to those questions and they get mad at me. I'm probably one of the most responsible kids you could have (not even bragging I do well in school, never caused any trouble and always did my work) yet they still want to know the details. A simple "i'm going out with friends probably be back around 1am" wouldn't suffice. Granted, I take the car when I go because I don't have a car, but I never go anywhere out of our little town and if I do I definitely say something. And if I meet up with friends more than twice in a row they think that's strange that i'm hanging out so much. I just feel like I don't have freedoms when I come back home from college over the simplest of things.

Question: How to call DSS on someone without them knowing it was me?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:02 AM PST

So, long story short, I used to go to school and be good friends with this girl, we re both 20 years old. She had a baby right before we graduated. It s been two years since she had her daughter, and recently I added her back on Facebook. All I see on her page is pictures of alcohol, taking about getting high, drinking with her friends, etc. and maybe it s none of my business, but I can t help but think, who s watching her child?? And I m wondering if I should take it upon myself to call DSS on her to have them make sure the child is actually being taken care of. Is this the wrong thing to do? If you saw the same thing going on, would you take any action or not make it any of your business?

Question: Is it weird that I would prepare for a very far-off future? What I mean is, read the details below.?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:02 AM PST

What i mean is this: I buy items for my very far-off future children, toys, clothes, etc., etc., so they could learn what being humble means. and by not giving into the hype of the future toys, i would be making them play with my old toys, i would say "you've got toys, play with those first, then i would see about getting them something new," is that cruel or not and considering It's very far-off future(10 yrs or more) in other words 2026 and beyond. and I didn't have that much to play with when i was young so why should my very far-off children be different, from the way i was raised. and I plan on buy refurbished old video game systems, like the original nintendo, super nintendo, nintendo 64, and sega genesis, playstation 1, and playstation 2. and the original xbox, and the original wii, of course. and those are the systems that I have already but might need to buy the refurbished ones or possibly still new but slightly used ones. What I'm talking about is the clothes things, toys, sure if used but what about the clothes, I will plan on having kids though, depends on certain circumstances for example i wouldn't want to have kids to be born into a dictatorship, which is where we are heading.

Question: Is my husband a pedophile? He let our 16 year old niece sit on his knee?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:59 AM PST

She is also obsessed with him and I think he encourages it!

Question: Any advice for how to deal with my mom?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:50 AM PST

I'm 13 years old and I need advice on how to deal with my mom. I've been dealing with her for far too long and I don't know what to do. You see, my mom tends to overshare. She always rants or cries about the things going on in her life. When I was 10 years old my mom and I moved in with her boyfriend and we lived there for two years. The first year she was always telling me how wonderful he was and how she was so happy but she would also rant to me about stupid arguments. Sometime in between the end of the first year and the winter after that (I can't remember exactly when) she was raped and she sat there and cried and told me all about it. I was only 11 years old. We moved out from her first boyfriend's house to her second boyfriend's house that summer. She still overshares and I'm tired of hearing about her relationships. She also criticizes me a lot and whenever I don't do something right or don't think I can do something right she implies that I'm going to end up working at McDonald's, be a failure and that I won't be able to do any of the things I want to career wise by saying, "OK, I'll see you at McDonald's in about ten years."

Question: My family does not want me around how can I leave?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:45 AM PST

My brother is their only concern and I'm sick of it. How can I leave? I am tired of being here. I don't want to be screamed at, hit, accused, and threatened anymote. How can I leave this place?

Question: My mom is threatening to kick me out?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:43 AM PST

What can I do now? I'm 17 turning 18 in a month.

Question: Gift ideas for my grandma?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:42 AM PST

I just met her this year. She is in her 70's and I don't know her like at all. She mainly visits with my siblings whom have kids. What can I get her? It needs to be something that I can get from a mall or store like Walmart or target. She just told me that she is coming down today and she wasn't supposed to until February so I thought that I had more time.

Question: Why im not happy?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:41 AM PST

Im 15 ys My mom died 3 years ago My dad have a girfreind My sister too Im alone I dont go to my house beacouz no one live there My sister live with his boyfrnd And my dad with his brother I dont go to school bcz my dad dont have money My dream to live in canada Im from lebanon I lose weight then i gain ( diet) i cant exercice bcz i live with my frnd but i m not happy with her i wnt to go home ( my home is so empty)

Question: Will I have a normal life without my parents?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:34 AM PST

Okay long story short I live in a very dysfunctional family, my dad and I haven't spoke or seen each other in 6 years and every time I try he causes arguments and I get hurt (but I guess you have to forgive your dad right?) And for as long as I can remember my mother has basically hated me, and my older sister sees it (she has a different dad if that matters) my sister and I are very close and I'm moving to uni in just a few months and intend to cut my mother out of my life for good. I'm not worried about any of that I just wanted to know whether I could live a normal life with no parents, just a sister

Question: How do I convince my dad I'll be fine on my own?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:34 AM PST

I'm 18 years old and have graduated high school. I plan to go to college next year; we didn't have enough money this year, so instead I got a job. It's going quite well; my boss likes me and I got promoted just a couple months in, so I now work full time with decent pay. My dad and I got kicked out of our house because it was given to my mom in their divorce. So we got an apartment here in town, but my dad wanted to leave the state, so the original plan was he would leave the apartment to my boyfriend and I. My boyfriend was really excited to get out of his own house because his mom is a dictator who treats him like he's 5 even though he's 19. We just got moved in, and now my dad is saying he wants to stick around for some reason. It's a two bedroom apartment, so my boyfriend has to sleep on a mat in the living room and isn't technically supposed to be here more than 7 nights a month. He used to stay at our house almost every night because he lives a half hour out of town and has to be at work at 4AM. Another issue is the apartment is so small we can't get intimate as long as my dad is home. We're only going on night 3 of no sex and we're already both so pent up it's almost painful. I just don't know what happened. My dad was so excited to move somewhere far away from here, and now all of the sudden he's acting like he never expects me to live under a separate roof from him. What can I do to convince him he can leave?

Question: My Dad hates me?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:18 AM PST

He never was appreciative of me, like I was never wanted by him. He never praised me, he always told me I would be a worthless piece of trash. He always beat me no matter how little of a thing I did. He always threatned to disown me. What did I do to deserve this hatred by him, is it because I was even fvcking born. He and my mom always constantly fought b we because if what stress I have done to him. But somehow they are still married. I am 12 years old if that matters. I really want to know what it's like to have a LOVING father who would actually give me praise and didn't constantly yell threat and beat me. I need help, what should I do?? I meant beat by hitting me not like beating with major injuries.

Question: I dont want to sound like a whiner but i grew up from a poor family live in south cali grew up here have no one to take care of me?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:01 AM PST

due to my shyness anxiety depression and social akwardness, its really hard to find a job i think employers upon meeting pick up my vibe im currently going to school its really hard im renting an apartment with 4 roomates and i dont like any of them and they dont like me i feel sad and hopeless its not fair that other people have so much more im trying to improve my life by getting a degree but its a trap im going to have take out studnet loans and be broke what should i do any advice?

Question: I want to move in with my mom?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 06:44 AM PST

Firstly, I've lived with my grandparents from when I was a baby to about age 15. I then, because of certain problems, had to move in with my dad I am now 17... I turn 18 in June. Im not happy, all in these few years I've been prescribed with Anxiety and Depression. I get worse when I leave my moms to go back to my dads every other weekend. It hits me and with a bus of emotions, my step mom controls my whole life. What I do, what I'm able to do, but then tells me I should be more "normal" because I never really go out. My dad doesn't really get much say in what happens even though my step mom chooses for him to be that way, she always gets on his case for not being more involved in my life. I'm happier at my moms, my older brother lives with her and so does my step dad (whom is very different from my step mom). I understand the consequences; I'll have to move schools, change my whole life, but I feel it won't be any worse for what I feel now. My only problem; I can't get myself to tell my dad or my step mom I want to move out and live with my mom. No matter how much time I think about it I can't bring myself to finally open up about it. My mom knows how I feel, she has no problems opening her home to me. Please just help me.

Question: Girls: what do you do with your breast when you are about to breastfeed?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 06:23 AM PST

Question: Are men aware that they take second place in a womans affections once she has children. She'd kill for them but not for you?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 06:16 AM PST

You're all f ucking delusional except for Zane. If there was a buss coming and she had to choose you or the kids to throw under it everyone knows who she's going to choose. Keep kidding yourselves gents LMFAO

Question: What should I do if my Dad strangles me?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 06:10 AM PST

Question: I can't decide weather to leave my daughters mother or not and I need people advice?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 06:05 AM PST

My daughters mother and I haven't had the best relationship. We have fought a decent amount and when we fight she gets very violent. Obviously I can't fight back because I am a lot stronger than her so I just take it. After we fight I try to leave then she starts crying. I love my daughter more than anything in this world and I would hate not seeing her every day but I'm not too sure that I am happy. This girl causes turmoil throughout my whole family and I want to be able to have a relationship with my parents because I come from a close family and she doesn't. I need some advice please

Question: Animals run the house?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 05:37 AM PST

Wife was always an animal lover and i accepted that when i married her. We have three cats and a dog. However in my home anything like disciplining a cat on the counter/kitchen table or sending an animal down in the basement so the family can get a good nights sleep is met with cold glares and silent treatment. It honestly seems the pets rule the roost and i just pay the mortgage

Question: Should My Father be Treating Me This Way?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:48 AM PST

I'm 15 years old and my father whips me with an arrow from a bow and arrow (without the actual arrow part in it) for my grades. I feel I would do better if he didn't whip me, because all my friends that have their own responsibility tend to do better. And I can't stand up to my dad because he's a large, 6'2 man who always has something to say when I actually do talk to him, and he gets even more mad at me. He says he hates to whip me, but he's been doing it since I was in 3rd grade, (spanking until 3rd grade), and it's always been because of my grades. I've been grounded 4 months and more to come because I have a class that I have to take for only a semester, but I have to learn the whole course in that semester. We have that class twice as long and I have to learn about a whole chapter a day and I now have to take summer school because of it! I've never failed a class in my life until now and it's because of the stupid education system. I have multiple problems, but I need advice. Note that only I can take this advice, because I can't confront my own father about these things.

Question: My mom won't shut the **** up?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:44 AM PST

She is so goddamn annoying. What the **** does she even want anymore. I am a 14 year girl, I never go outside, I never get in trouble I'm just quietly sitting in my room doing nothing, but my mother is so ******* annoying. She screams at me if i tell her to make me food, EVEN NOODLES because "It's too cold to make food" and "I should be buying only storebrought since its so cold for her too cook" and doesn't leave me alone until i get ******* sick of it and i lose my goddamn appetite. She sounds like a crow. Secondly, when i go to toilet.She says I always make everything dirty and she has to clean up after me (I actually don't get anything dirty, LITERALLY) and screams at me without stopping. My head really hurts, and I tell her to stop nicely she won't so then when I can't take her anymore I start screaming at her too and she makes me even more irritated. Thirdly , my grades. Half of my grades are A's half of them B's (I'll fix them anywyas after winter break). But for miss mom, that is disappointing. It seems like she is bored 24/7 and has nothing else to do but to annoy me. But no, she says that she is everything but bored, the only one hard working, who actually cares for the house, and we are all lazy asses who do nothing. What do I do? How to make her understand that she is screaming for nothing, and when i say my head hurts becasue of it, i really mean it and she should stop, not irritate me more. Like, i cant take this anymore??

Question: When will my family stop treating me like a kid?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:19 AM PST

I'm 16 here, youngest of my family, all of my siblings are nearly 20 years older than me. I love them all, but most of the time they treat me like I'm a 4 year old. Sometimes they'll talk down to me, never really taking anything I say seriously, always tell me to leave the room whenever they're watching a violent/explicit movie saying "oh, he can't watch that, we cant feed him that garbage for his brain, he's too young", and pat me on the head all the time. I know you're an adult at 18, but that doesn't mean anything because it won't change how one is socially accepted. I know the best way to end the treatment is to just move out and show you can take care of yourself, but that's extremely difficult to do I hear because of the economy right now. Going to college may not help either, besides there's nothing I'm really good at, teachers at school pressure finding a career, but there's nothing I'm interested in without it being unrealistic. So really, I just have to deal with it, but it'll drive me crazy, just for once I want to be taken seriously, not even at school do my peers talk to me like a normal person. But saying that is immaturity in itself, I know, but I just can't help but feel this way. I bet even 10 years from now I'll still be treated like this, hell, 30 years. By the way, all of my siblings are married, and live on their own.

Question: Family issues and i really need advice!?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:18 AM PST

here's the issue. i have a step mom that for about a year now has been real snotty towards me and my daughter going into her and my dads home. she has dropped hints that she doesnt want me coming over there, but of course i want to see my dad. she has gotten to the point she doesnt speak to me or my 8 year old, and even went as far to tell my daughter that she cannot touch her dog and to stay out of the room where she is. well tonight my dad and her got into a fight and she claims that she does not want me anywhere around the house if they are not home. she told him that i used a piece of her notebook paper and wrote something down on it while she was gone and that is a LIE! never happened. my dad said he is thinking of divorcing her because he has not been happy for a few years, and that he doesnt want a women that doesnt want his kids around. she said that i need to ring the bell, or call before coming over. i asked my dad, does her daughters do this and he said no. so a few minutes ago my dad called and said under the circumstances it would be best for me to bring his key back to him tomorrow, ( i am 37 and have had that key since i was 12!) and for now on not to go into the living room when i come over, and only come over when she is there and never without her there. i told him that is not ok, and i think i will stop coming over completely. he was like no dont do that, she is a stinker, but keep coming over for me. i dont know what i should do..help~!

Question: Feminists and Moderators from feminization programs, am I part to blame for my ostracism?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:56 AM PST

My parents took my teen siblings and violent 27-year-old brother to a feminization program late last year where I missed out since I was busy at the time, and was wondering if my actions of self-defaming would have anything to do with my ostracism. I know that I felt really bad for missing out where I then defamed my name and character with lies about me being a registered sex offender, being in and out of prison, assaulting parents and siblings and questioning my mum behind her back when it was my 27-year-old brother who was the one who assaulted both parents and siblings and being the rebellious type. Yet, he gets to attend such programs when he did all that while the accused (me) is to be denied. Here's a link to one of the questions I posted bout me in the past. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20140923210453AATLy3Z . I only self-defamed myself since I felt bad for missing out on something that would've suited my personality quite well. I posted that question on the same date I missed out

Question: My Brain fell out.?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:55 AM PST

My brain fell out of my head and it looks like this, please help meee https://www.etsy.com/listing/111701668/sweets-on-the-mind-brain-shaped

Question: Is it better I just shutup?!?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:48 AM PST

My aunt told me we were having a family dinner at this restaurant and said my OTHER UNCLE had called her the night before to inform her about it. But I hadn't heard anything from this OTHER UNCLE'S WIFE (with whom I work out with everyday) so I asked her one day when we went working out. I just asked her "oh I heard auntie mention that we were going to ... for dinner? That IS WHAT I was told and I said nothing wrong and neither did I make up a lie.... Just now my uncle (husband of the aunt who told me we were going to have a family dinner) hits me up saying my OTHER UNCLE mentioned that IT WAS ME WHO SAID WE WERE GOING TO THAT RESTAURANT FOR DINNER!!! WTH man?!?!?! ME?!?!?! Since when did I say thaT? I only asked my other aunt that I work out with if it's true we were going out and now this happens? Is it best I just don't say anything at all even when I know something?? What did I do wrong here? I don't get it!!?

Question: I dreamed my sister died what's it mean?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:14 AM PST

I dreamed My sister julie passed away I can't remember how but she come back to me and I was the only one that could hear her at first I couldn't she would type on the computer phone etc and it's strange because I wasn't scared normally that would spook me right out the thought of ghosts and I remember another way she would contact me is put a breeze across my face and when I woke up I realised the breeze was my fan but anyway my sister is very living so why would I dream all of this

Question: So I shaved lines into my eyebrows but then I shaved the base of the hairs and it left two big patches and a skinny line in the middle..?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:10 AM PST

It doesn't look too bad but for school when people ask I'll just tell them my brother did it as a joke...but how do i tell my mom? I'm sure she'll hate it because she gets mad over little things but I want an excuse that she will have a hard time arguing...I'm with my father now so she hasn't seen it yet.

Question: My sister ruined Christmas!?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:58 AM PST

Okay, so she gave me a present. It was MINECRAFT and I wanted just cause 3!!!! I punched her in the face and then she screamed and ran away. My mom then came and she was like ''I didnt expect this from you'' blabla. Now they act like thats my fault. What can I do?

Question: What are some cool names for a person's skull?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:56 AM PST

Yeah yeah, sounds weird i know. My mother is a doctor and she had a 65 yr old woman's skull. We dont know her name, or her family. Therefore she is basically anonymous to us. I asked my mother if i can have the skull since it was wasting away in storage and she agreed. Now, i have the skull in my room, and i think i should give her an identity. Can you suggest some meaningful names?

Question: Is this a stroke?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:56 AM PST

My mom (53) and my sister (20) have been watching TV together in the living room for a few hours. About twenty minutes ago my sister got up to go to the rest room, she comes back a few minutes later to find my mom passed OUT on the couch. My sister says that up until then my mom had been very alert, if not a bit tired. My sister woke my mom up, she (my sister) said the my mom looked very scared to see her, and was afraid that something was wrong because as far as my mom new, my sister hadn't been at home. Now since my sister has been at our house since 3:00pm today, that means that my mom somehow lost 12 hours. After a minute or so of talking, my sister said she started to remember some of the stuff that happens today. My mom also complained about having a headache and feeling nauseous. Does anyone know if this sounds like a stroke? My mom is only 53, isn't that to young to have a stroke? Please if this sounds fimilar to anyone please tell me. My mom is in bed now, and my dad seems to think she fine, but I'm wondering if it sounds like we should take her to the hospital?

Question: I cant stop thinking and wanting my sister's butt. Is that normal?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:39 AM PST

Question: I feel sorry for my brother?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:16 AM PST

I've got an older brother, he is 18. So my brother is always obsessed about his height since he thinks he isn't tall enough being 5'6" and he always feels sad whenever he notices that I'm getting taller than him (I'm 5'9"), I'm 12 and also a male. He's done everything but nothing worked. I don't want to see him being sad anymore since he has been sad about it for a long time. If I had a choice I would give him my height if that makes him happy. Is this okay? Really, I've tried to cheer him up but it just doesn't ever seem to work.

Question: Relationship advice please (complicated)?

Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:45 AM PST

I am close to getting my mathematics degree and getting a job, I work hard and my goals are specific and in sight. But my fam is dirt broke and my fiancee and his Fam supports me financially. He dropped out of school b/c it was too hard for him, but he still got an extremely high paying job. I feel like he treats me with no respect and says I can have my respect and make the rules when I'm making money. I just love him so much and it hurts me so much because I know I'm useless to him, and I will only matter when I have income. I don't really think its fair.. I intend to make a lot of money and pay them all back one way or another whether I'm with him or not. I won't leave him because I am in love with him, and his Fam loves me too. His mother just told me she thinks I'm so good that she and her husband would help me even if I am not with his son. I don't want to leave them, I just want my fiancee to treat me like an equal. Any advice please?