I slept over his house (as friends) with my best friend and her boyfriend. He told me he likes me and has for a few weeks and considers us a thing. We hooked up all night (not sex) and he was being extremely nicer than usual. He's not a person to really show emotions either and he usually is very chill acting when we hangout and doesn't talk to many people. The next day when I left we kissed bye and everything and he still acts the same towards me as he did before this all happened. Help?

I reconnected with a guy I went to high school with when I came back to my hometown for vacation. We ended up joking up and spending almost every night of my vacation together. It was seeming like he really liked me. He told me that he told his dad that I was an ideal person for him and the whole time he kept insinuating that I should move back home. He even talked to his friend who s in the same field as me and gave me her card for a possible local job lead. But then as soon it was my last day of my trip , he seemed really standoffish and didn t even try to see me. He was very casual and has basically a "take care, it was fun" attitude. How do I read this? How can someone tell me he thinks I m the right girl for him and try to get me to stay then let me go so easily without much emotion? Was he faking it? Ps- the distance is ny to California so we re pretty far apart but if we were on the same page I would ve considered moving

One of my classes is taught by a graduate student, and all the girls find him attractive. I never really thought of him as anything other than a teacher, but last week he was standing there right when I walked into the class and kind of just starred at me. Then today I found him on hotornot, and I just got this app about a week ago so I don t know how likely it is for me to find him. We matched. He knows I am in his class but doesn t talk about it at all and all of my friends are encouraging me to keep talking to him. I actually like him so far, but I don t know what to do. Should I keep going with it? I don t want it to seem like I am dating him to pass the class. What would you do?

Okay, sorry for the length. So about 6 years ago, (when I was 11) I got a crush on a 9 years old. And through the years I still liked him, I between some other guys. We are really great friends :) But now In the last few months my feelings have increased dramatically. I think I'm in love with him. I can't stop thinking about him ( he is away with his family at the moment) and he is all I can think about, I even dream about him pretty much every night. Only 2 of my friends know how I really feel. And I don't want to keep going on and on about him to them, they might get annoyed. I just can't stop thinking about him, and every time I listen to music about loving/liking someone I almost start crying. I really don't know what to do about it. I think he may like me, he flirts all the time. The thing is, if he does like me, I don't want to ruin our friendship. It's amazing. But I don't think I'll ever get over him. Also, because of the age gap, it's really hard for me to decide what I need/want to do. We would not do anything illegal. We are both very religious. Please, any advice would be great!! I feel like I'm being torn apart.

I was walking at lunch with my two coworkers and chatting with them. I wasn t paying attention around me. So I all of a sudden turned and saw this guy that works near us walking towards us and staring at me. When I saw him staring at me, he briefly turned away. When he passed us, he didn t even acknowledge me. He said hi to my other coworker next to me. He always used to greet me. I m like wtf. He couldn t even look at me. I m puzzled. So I asked my coworker that he greeted if he knows him well. He goes I probably know him as much as you do. I ve noticed on other occasions the guy that stared at me that he would smile at me or kind of have that look. So why he wouldn t greet me or intentionally not even look at me because I saw him staring? Huh? I honestly was surprised and that I guess was my face when I saw him staring but I was still going to greet him.

so, I am 26 never had a boyfriend or sadly even gone on a date, what is wrong with me? I don't think I'm horrible looking lol I have a nice personality, according to my friends, i take care of my self, i am overweight but not obese (I am losing weight, hitting the gym ohhh yeahh!!!), but i see super big girls and even they have boyfriends...... anyways i don't know what to do, i live in the la area so im surrounded by amazing looking girls who i have to compete with. blah.... any ways any advise would be gladly appreciated.

So I m really quiet and I rarely have anything to say. Is there something wrong with me?

I met a guy in Fall 2011 in my class and he would always stare at me whenever I walked into class. He always had that yearning look on his face. One time he said that I had pretty hair.In summer 2013 we crossed paths again in a prep class. He would always park next to me. One time I was sitting in my car and talking o the phone and when I looked to my right, he was staring at me with that yearning look.That fall I volunteered at an organization he created with his friends. He invited me to the board meeting and introduced me to all his friends as "Hey I want you to meet Anna that Ive told you about." The entire meeting he stared at me even while he was talking to his friends. When I was leaving he told everyone "You guys, Anna is leaving." His friends teased me and hugged me goodbye. That night on his twitter he posted: "I wish I could shut off these feelings..."This semester he is in one of my classes. On the first day he sat behind me and said "Hi Anna how are you?" and he had that yearning look. He still sits behind me. Today when class was over I turned to my side to get my stuff and he was staring. As I was slowly getting up and he did the same and I sat back down and he still did the same. Then I got up and he did the same. We talked for a bit and he was was nervous. I do like him. Last week I had to send him my notes and he texted me and complimented my handwriting. He said it was amazing and immaculate. Once as I was slowly getting up and he did the same and I sat back down and he still did the same. I asked if he has a gf and he said "No, not looking for that now. Just trying to stay focused."Once when I was walking to class, he was sitting outside of the class and kept staring at me as I was walking to class.Sometimes when he leaves class he'll turn around and look at me as he leaves. Last night we were helping each other with hw through text from 6-9pm. A few hours later he texted me good night. He invited me to study with him for the final. After we studied, we were leaving the library and he hugged me goodbye.

So there is a guy in my lecture and lab. But every now and then I catch him looking at me. Once I was standing behind him in line to write my name on the sign-in sheet and looked back at me. Once he came up to my lab partner and I to talk to my partner (they have another class together as well) and when he looked at me he smiled huge and took a few deep breathes before he talked to my partner. When he went to sit back down he looked back at me. Yesterday he came up again to my partner and talked to her about their class and he kept staring a ton. Last week he came up again and asked what we thought of the exam but I was too shy and didnt say anything. My friends said he kept looking at me. I got a haircut and he was staring 24/7 and came up to my friend like 2x. Then after class my friend was talking to him and she called me over. When I came up to him his eyes went wide and sparkly and he smiled big. He almost looked frozen. Once a random guy came to me and asked me a question and he glared at him. when another guy asked me a question, he turned his whole body around and glared at him Last week we talked more. When we were leaving class he asked was I was going and I said to the right and he said he normally goes the other way. But he said he would walk with me and so we walked and talked more. He asked a lot of questions around me and walked close to me. Whenever he looks at me he blinks slow. Once he walked with me again and we talked. Before we parted way exchanged number Once we studied together with my lab partner. When we were studying my friend was talking about her bf and he looked at me and smiled. When we were leaving he walked me all the way to my apartment. Last week I told him that if he wanted to grab coffee sometime then to let me know. He said that sometimes things come up but he will let me know. Yesterday my friend said that cant come to our study session tomorrow so I asked if he was okay just studying with me and he said yes. We studied together and when we were done he walked me to my apartment. I show lots of interest. Our final was today. When he walked out he looked at me with a sad face and walked away. I texted him for coffee again and he said he is busy with family stuff these days.We talk once every few months. Once he posted "when someone never leaves your mind and heart, thats when you're in love" and then there was another pic that said "weakness moments when you feel like you're losing the person you love the most, and this person means everything for you, and you can't live without this person, while you can do nothing to it so you ust go get lost. cut distances and distances with hope to forget, but simply it is not gonna happen"

I met this guy at work & we became friends. We talked everyday at work and asked me for my number one day since he was having a party for his bday. After that he was always inviting me to go out with him & his friends. I was never attracted to him but he's a cool guy& we get along. One night he invited me to a party & was being real touchy and trying to hug me. He has never told me he liked me but he's kind shy. At work he doesn't say hi to me anymore & we don't talk at all since we don't sit together anymore. My friend saw he just got a gf one week ago fb. Not talking to him I've realized that I miss him & I might like him. Idk if I should try to talk to him again plus now he has a gf.

Everything I say or do seems to annoy her. Talking about surfing, music, the universe. My 3 main interests. I feel like its daunting on her and she hates me. I try to talk to her, but she just doesn't wanna hear it. I make her *** multiple times a week. **** I even cook for her. She gets made when I smoke a cig. She smokes weed and idc too much. Only if she treats it in an addictive way. And no I don't need to smoke. I already do sometimes. Idk what to do. Yes i make her c u m multiple times a week. without expecting anything in return.

If the two of you were laying next to one another's pool or something, would it be ok to put your hand on her back while keeping a smile on your face? and then slide your hand down slowly and rub your hand in circles on her butt for a couple seconds? Thoughts?

Ok so my crush told me that he liked me since 2nd Grade last year and was always teasing me and being really cute and shy.. around me.. but now he is literally acting like I don't exist. .. on the first day of school he literally didn't even say hi, or d ben give me a smile or something even though I trind saying hi to him... Plus I think he may like another girl possibly :( .. or maybe he just likes her as a friend? Idk but he's KINDA acting like he was to me last year to her... and it just makes me really sad that he doesn't understand.. ;-; I may have done something wrong to make him think I'm weird or something... grr I really like him but I'm starting to think it's not even worth it to try.. PS he asked me put twice last year but I said no because he was being kind of a her at the time and he said I was his SECOND CHOICE ... so I said no both times... but he said sorry now but he never try ed asking me out again. .. maybe that's why he stopped talking to me... idk... PLEASE HALLPPPPPPP

but life got to me these past two years. how to get on top?

I'm a freshman in highschool and have never dated anyone and there is this school who i have been talking to for a few months and I can't figure out the best way to ask her out. The main thing I'm worried about is rejection last time i asked a girl she said no and she was also a good friend and it made our friendship very weird. Any help would be appreciated.

My new boyfriend is great but financially he doesn't help with any of my bills to my home? Help

I'm 19 years old and a college freshman and I have a really big crush on my art history professor. I think I'm in love with her. Growing up I've always been one of those shy, socially awkward guys and I just feel really attached to her. I find her personality and demeanor to be very comforting, nice, and mother-like, and I just think that she is so downright cute and petite. I feel like I really love her. I like to sit in the front row of class and always be the first one to answer her questions, and I always feel sad when class ends. In fact, we don't have class next week due to labour day and I actually cried because I'm going to miss her. Is this normal? Am I unhealthy? What should I do? How do I deal with these emotions?

I'm wondering how often is normal to give a ******** to your guy. Honestly I know some girls think it's gross or a chore but I'm pretty into it and enjoy it a lot so I'm always up for it. But I don't want to do it so much that it becomes not even exciting anymore, you know? As of right now, my guy lives about an hour and fifteen minutes away because we go to separate colleges. he drives down here every weekend, but as of now I've just been giving him one ******** in a weekend, usually the night he comes down. I'd love to do it more but I don't know if he's up for it.. Idk if it's normal to do it more than once a day. I know that he enjoys it, I don't suck at it. I know I don't because at one time I did suck at it but I've gotten much better lol. So how much is normal for giving BJ's? How much do you do it? Please no judging or trolling, thx

Theres a guy at my workplace and hes always rude to me and acts moody around me. I catch him looking at me all the time. I was never mean to him. What could cause a guy to act this way?

I mustered the courage to tell her she seemed like an interesting person and that I would like the opportunity to talk to her. Then weeks later I mustered even more courage to ask her out, she gave me her number and suggested a coffee meet, but later in the week she turned me down saying she was exclusively seeing someone. I went from flying high to crashing down. I am bewildered confused, and flustered(at my self for something I might've done) and have been having thoughts of castrating myself to never involve myself in the volatile social politics of dating ever again. I feel so foolish because I felt I was too candid with my intentions (I told her that I was interested in her before she gave me her number) D: context(if relevant at all) : college/ very sociable with others but awkward/geeky with crushes/ leo

Ok so there is this girl I like she's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. We are both in the highschool band I think s great time to talk to her would be during third quarter of this upcoming Friday night football game because we get they're quarter off. How do you approach a girl? How do you introduce yourself in a good way? What if shes talking to one of her friends how do you get it to where it's just you and her? Would coomenting her put a smile on her face?please help.

I ve been facebook friends with this guy forever but I just now starting to see him in a different light. he messaged me on facebook one day and said that he really liked me and was kinda sad I was in a relationship. two months later I broke up with my boyfriend, I messed the new dude, hoping to get with the new dude but sadly found out he was taken this time around. I was like " WTF how did you manage to go from single to engaged in two months" and he was like " a lot can happen in two months. I thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you but you were in a relationship and since i m not a jerk I just left it alone". This dude is the whole package. he has every quality i m looking for in a dude. if I were to build my perfect guy he would be it. there s nothing I would change about him. he s EVERYTHING. I didn t even know guys like him existed anymore. I m so used to settling for less in relationships cause I never thought I could find somebody like him.

So Ive liked this girl. All the way back to last year when I first saw her in my freshmen year of high school. She is in 1 of my classes this year accounting. Last year marketing. So how can I go of talking to her. I couldn't last year I was attempting to say Hi but I just chickened out. I used to go to the library for lunch where she was to see if she could say hi to me but sadly no luck. But this year I really want to start talking to her. I have never had a girlfriend before. I live in Delaware when she goes on vacation to California I happen to go the literally the same exact area. Not that far from where I stay. What can I do to talk to her. She is very nice and I want to talk to her.

So i spent a weekend with my crush at my camp.. ive haf a crush on him for years, he flirted alot with me and then i asked him.if he likes me and he said i dont know.. what does that mean?!?!?

Okay so it all started over a weak ago my friends sister suddenly started to come on to me for the first 3 or 4 days we were sexually active and she was being really sweet I start liking her then the next couple days she s bossy with work and we would still cuddle at night the day before yesterday she seemed kind of annoyed I asked her if I was annoying her she said its her allergies that make her annoyed yesterday she was really bitchy I try to not be bothersome and really sweet and whenever I said anything she would ***** me out and tell me I m wrong I asked her why she s so pissed at me she said"" because I keep on asking stupid **** "" today I was very generous I naught her cigs and dinner we made plans tovgo to the movies she was nice an sweet for the morning we even cuddled for a while after a while she told me to go over there she doesn t want me next to her I headed to the store I went for a kiss she didn t even wanna give me a hug finally later I reminded her of the movies Imshe changed her plans" to go to her friends I asked to go with her she yelled no . Please help me figure out what s going on!! She s supposed to be NY roommate soon so this is important ! Thank you BTW if you even read all this

So, I just had a physical done, probably about 8 hours or so ago. Of course during a exam, I had to get the testicle screening to make sure I was fine from cancer and whatnot. Soooo, after she did that (I felt like she didn't need to grab my youknowwhat the way she did. Almost felt like it wasn't really needed to grab my penis and squeeze it like she did. After all that, she asked me if I ever had a girlfriend and what gender I was interested in. She also asked if I ever had sex and she even offered to give me condoms. I understand how they want me to be safe and all, but I'm only 16. I'm not really ready for all that yet. I know these seem like normal questions and all, I dunno if I'm overreacting or what. I just want a second opinion if she went to far.

I'm in 8th now and me and my ex been on and off since 7th grade. In the summer we got in a fight and he asked me out after talking again and making up, and then asked me out. I thought of doing it, but I was moved on by then so I dumped him the next day. He literally stayed up till 4 am trying to get me back, convincing me that he's different, but I just didn't care for it. We started talking again, and he would stand up for me and ask me out, I'd say no, and then now we are in school and I'm seeing him a lot more. I miss him again. Honestly he was immature when we dated. He'd break up with me. I got him to give up but he always comes back. We forgive and forget a lot, and I mean we only got in one big fight, but I'm scared. I want to be in a LONG relationship. He's talked before how he wants to last this time and sometimes I just don't even feel good enough. This time I'm keeping it a secret. I'm not telling anyone until we can actually stay together for a decent time. Should I talk to him tomorrow about it and like tell him this stuff and just talk it out? Or is he not even worth my time. I know middle school relationships don't last, but I really want this one to.

me and my roommates were outside the dorms at a tale and across from the table in another dorm room was a window and a bunch of girls in the room, i noticed them looking at us so i waved and then they started laughing and talking to each other then another girl walked by the window looking at us, i waved again and more laughs with them talking among themselves, i got no wave back and i'm just thinking wow B!!tches.... could that have come off as weird on my part? or am i thinking to much? i;m just a friendly person and they were looking at us so i waved, sort of annoyed that they just laughed

oh! and i live i canada

He asked for my number the first time we met. We were in the same orientation group for our masters program in NYC. We told each other why we wanted to go into social work and talked about some deep stuff in our pasts. The next day we talked at happy hour and he walked me to my subway stop. He also asked to follow me on instagram. We have been texting a little bit. He hugged me goodbye at the subway stop

I've been in a long distance relationship with a guy I'm madly in love with for about 3 months now. So about 3 days ago my bf went clubbing and he smoked weed for the first time that day, I did tell him before that I don't want him doing that and I'd be mad if he did, so when he told me I got really mad at him and asked him if he had danced with girls too, so he got mad back for thinking I was doubting him and that it's not a regular thing for him to smoke weed. He said sorry about it and I decided to end the fight because I don't want it affecting our relationship. But I'm really still mad at him and it's killing me inside, but I don't him to get mad and for being this crazy girlfriend. We only text so it's really hard, and I treat him differently now and he's noticed but we joke about it. What do I do ?!?!

So i have this guy friend who I've grown really close to in a matter of weeks and I love spending time with him and we just click so well. I don't have any interest in him, but a little while ago he confessed his feelings for me and i'm super bummed because i know its going to affect our friendship, but i still really want to spend time with him. i know guys back up as soon they are rejected and now he isn't talking to me as much and I'm super bummed because i just really really really like him as my friend. what do i do :( and if backing up is what i have to do, i respect that.

Saw a girl recently with her brother standing around 15 feet away from me. Her little brother said something to her and she playfully hit him and then looked at me and gave me a big smile. what did it mean?

I m an almost 21 year old guy now and ever since high school I ve always been afraid to get serious with girls. I have talked to a lot of girls but have never been in a relationship because I always lose interest when it starts to get serious or more intimate. I ve never been heartbroken so I don t think it s because I m scared to get hurt. That s really not even a concern of mine but I m just afraid of commitment, I hate it. There are girls I m genuinely interested in and as soon as it heats up im suddenly not interested anymore. It s happening again right now and I don t know how to break past it. I wonder if there are any physiological reasons as to why I am this way. I was raised by a single mother but other than that i don t think my childhood has been too traumatic. Would appreciate any insight as to why I m like this and maybe what I can do to change. Thank you

My boyfriend is really gentle and shy. i've never really met a guy like him because he is SO caring and careful with me like if he touches me i might break. We're both 18 and have been together for about 8 months and I just want him to be a bit rougher and more assertive. lately i've been having dreams about other guys doing things i want my boyfriend to do to me which is so weird because i would never cheat on him. I keep thinking about breaking up with him but i don't want to because i know i'll miss him. Do these dreams mean anything more and how could i help my boyfriend "come out of his shell" and be a bit rougher?

My best friend boyfriend offered me a ride to school while I don't have a car. I asked my parents if he can drive me to school. They said no because he's a boy and boys only want sex. My bestie boyfriend is not like any boys he is like a brother to me and never wants to have sex. Besides he arrives at school 7:20am and my parents drop me off 7am or 6:45am. I'm a senior in high school. What should I do?

I look a guys always posting how they want a down chick or a real one. I mean you never give the girls that would do that but you rather look past them because they aren't at your beauty standards. I don't understand guys these days ALWAYS ABOUT THE LOOKS AND NOT THE PERSON IN SIDE. You never know what you'll find in that person.

So there's this girl I started talking to in March, and we really hit it off but I messed things up once by walking away from a conversation she started (I thought it was over) and things have been pretty awkward since May or so. We've still texted though but it's been kinda sparse, she's seemed enthused a few of the times we talked though but I dunno. Anyways last Thursday me and my friends thought up a small pact. If one of us asked out a girl the others would have to within two weeks as well. We agreed as it was supposed to serve as a motivator, all of us had interest in some girls, so we were planning to strong arm each other into doing something. It grew faster than planned and soon it was like 10 guys or so. Well on Friday one guy decided to tell her, not only the girl I was interested in that but also her friend who one of my other friends is interested, about the pact. Her friend remarked on it being kinda sad and they were laughing, and the guy also said he knew who was going to ask them out but never specified as to who. I've been iffy as to whether I should give up or ask her out now and I've been leaning towards giving up. Today a teacher was jokingly giving me **** over not speaking loud enough, well my crushes friend said I needed to be more assertive and looked at my crush after saying it. Throughout the class period I caught her friend looking at me several times. But I dunno if I'm overanalyzing things as I tend to do so or does it mean anything?

I always was a flop with chicks, I ve been this way since 1956. What should I do to step up my game?

She doesn't want to talk to me for something I did. The thing is that she was giving me head for the first time but before that she told me this "I will give you head but you will not *** in my mouth, because I'll only let the man I love *** in my mouth and I still don't love you'' but I didn't listen and *** in her mouth anyways. She ran to the bathroom and I couldn't stop laughing. She got upset and told me that she was dissapointed of me, then she left without saying bye. What sould I do?

Btw im living in asia..

okay so I have known the guy for 2 years and I have a huge crush on him. he asked me out once before I knew him, so I said no but after I got to know him now I really like him. me and him flirt pretty much everyday at school. he teases me a lot. once me and him stared at each other for seconds straight smiling.i do not know if he likes me because he has not asked me out again. im guessing he is scared of rejection. does he like me though? (btw I embarrass myself A lot in frount of him but we usually just laugh about)

We only peck, but I sort of want a longer kiss. You know, more passionate I guess. I don't want to make out, but I sort of want to up our kissing game. We're each other's first kiss, and we're both almost 17. Yes I've tried talking to him about it. After we pecked one time, I tried to joke about it by saying "you know that only lasts for like a second", but then he gave me a funny look and said "no that's weird haha" and laughed nervously. So is he just not ready? I don't want to push him to do something he isn't comfortable doing. He's VERY modest about affection. He has his moments where he'll take the lead, but it's not often. I also try to make sure that we aren't in front of people even when we peck, so privacy isn't an issue unless it is? I don't know! So how do I get him to kiss me longer? And why did he think the idea of kissing longer was strange?