Marriage & Divorce: Question: Divorce help? |
- Question: Divorce help?
- Question: What did zorna say when she married a 3 foot pygmy?
- Question: Sisters husband drinking at work shes upset.. dont know how to help..?
- Question: Trying to make sense out of this. What is going on?
- Question: My husband Cheated on me!?
- Question: How to strengthen the bond in marriage and have a deeper connection with husband?
- Question: Should you fight for a relationship? Even if it's not marriage?
- Question: Found Out Wife Snoops Through Things?
- Question: I Just married my Girl friend but she is still married in Mexico...but she is in the process of divorce...so I wanna know is my marriage to her void?
- Question: What is it liked to be in an arranged marriage?
- Question: Women: how often do yo fantasize about other men besides your boyfriend/husband?
- Question: What are advantages of getting married?
- Question: Divorce Selfies?
- Question: What would you do if your husband doesn t make any money after 7 months and you can t pay all of the bills alone?
- Question: How to get my wife to pack lite?
- Question: After 7 years separation can husband request spousal support?
- Question: Is it wrong to ask a married woman if she'd be in to you if she were single.Is it wrong FOR HER TO SAY IF SHE WERE single she'd be into u?
- Question: I'll give you what you want(baby) if you give me what I want( be shaped like model and being sexy). this is our marriage life. crazy?
- Question: Is it true about a woman feeling more "excited" closer to 30?
- Question: 10 points!!!Responding to Petition in state I no longer reside?
- Question: If my fiance gets a name change after the wedding will I be able to take his new last name after our wedding certificate gets corrected?
- Question: What rights if any do I have?
- Question: My husband doesn't like being affectionate after 5 years of marriage! What do I do?
- Question: My american fiancée doesn't want to get married anymore after we made visa...?
- Question: My ex filed a motion to modify child support. How do I fight it?
- Question: Is my pregnant wife being too demanding of my time? Is she taking advantage of my eagerness to help her out?
- Question: What lesson did you learn from divorce?
- Question: My husband says "u can't get enough money to support family, so all responsibility is on me. it's not fair." I want to know your opinion,?
- Question: Is marriage good for men these days?
- Question: What do I do.?
- Question: My husband says waitress job is not responsible for family, so he doesn t have baby with me. Is it normal feeling?
- Question: How to know if my husband is really over me?
- Question: I was married 6 months back. before husband was engaged other girl n that marriage was cancelled. now 2 days i got love letter his past love.?
- Question: Child support is for the step parent to eat off of?
- Question: Does my daughters father have other ideas than just lunch?
- Question: Fellow husbands, how do you handle uncertainty with your marital decisions after your spouse passively put decisions in your lap to be had?
- Question: How can I get divorced?
- Question: Could a marriage be nulled and if couples are separated for 10 years?
- Question: How can I invite friends over if you live in a shared house?
- Question: Partner has Tinder app on phone?
- Question: I have tried to serve my husband with divorce papers the address he gave me was wrong i am trying again if they cant find him what can i do?
- Question: What does it mean if a married woman requests not to be called " Mrs " But by her first name?
- Question: Is sex the most important part of marriage? What are the more important parts of marriage? What are you mostly doing?
- Question: How do I get out?!?
- Question: If you knew your husbands ex wife was cheating on her new husband would you tell him?
- Question: I miss my ex husband?
- Question: Is it work to hang out with others in a relationship?
- Question: Does a woman have the right to refuse to perform oral on her husband if she finds it objectionable?
- Question: Is he lying?
- Question: My husband is keeping all the money from me can he do that? Isn't is mine too?
- Question: How do i send cd of marriage?
- Question: Am falling for my ex. Am i beeing unfare?
- Question: All this talk about marriage equality and individuality has had my head spinning for 5 years. Is marriage really equal and segregated?
- Question: How come some people were fighting so hard for gay marriage when a lot of the population these days think marriage is useless to being with?
- Question: How to get my husband on board with trying for a baby?
- Question: Should I leave my husband?
- Question: Why isn t marriage as exciting as courtship ?
- Question: I am muslim n i want to divorce my x husband who is Catholic...?
- Question: For divorced parents: how much are your new spouses involved with the kids, if you and your old spouse are still involved with?
- Question: Should i assume my husband and i are in an open marriage?
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 09:25 PM PDT |
Question: What did zorna say when she married a 3 foot pygmy? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 09:16 PM PDT |
Question: Sisters husband drinking at work shes upset.. dont know how to help..? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 09:15 PM PDT She said her husband got home from work and when he kissed her she could smell alch on his breath. he admitted to drinking at work, he said it was his first time and he doesn't know why he did it. I have no idea how to help her because she's really upset because god forbid he got caught he'd be fired and they are a one income family. She stays at home and cares for the kids and the house. I dont know how to help her. I don't even know what I would do in her shoes and she doesn't want to tell people and only came to me and I just not even know what to tell her... Please any advice would be greatly appreciated. |
Question: Trying to make sense out of this. What is going on? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 09:10 PM PDT Up until about a year ago, I was never an insecure person when it came to my husband. I trusted him. He started bringing up his ex wife. Then this past weekend we got into a fight, I left him. We worked things out that same day. However, he brought up an ex girlfriend in passing saying that she bakes/decorates her own desserts and placed an order for cupcakes for my birthday coming up. I was fine with it. He was kind of acting off after that. So, I did some searching through his Facebook and found numerous times over the course of a year where he had searched both women (ex wife and ex girlfriend). His activity log mostly consisted of liking and commenting on a lot of his ex girlfriends updates, pictures (one being in her bikini) and commenting an old memory they shared. I know I shouldn t have snooped like that and I do feel guilty. Just this evening I mentioned in passing how excited I was about the cupcakes and asked questions about her business. He showed me her baking page, what he ordered and the comments exchanged when he made the order. However, he felt the need to tell me that this was the only contact he s had with his ex. Which put me off because of what I saw the previous day. Earlier today, he had talked to his boss on the phone in private and said that he wanted him to plan a guys weekend in a couple of weeks. This is out of the norm for him. I tried to make suggestions about guy friends he could bring along and he kept seeming hesitant to invite them. |
Question: My husband Cheated on me!? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:56 PM PDT I found out my husband had been cheating on me for 12days with his friends fiance. They had been sexting and sending videos, then he stayed at his friends house two friday nights. The second friday night it got physical and they did oral sex. (They did not have intercourse) We have been together 7years. I never thought this would ever happen. He always said he could never cheat. During this period and previous weeks he had started suffering from depression, questioning everything in his life including me. He said he knew it was wrong but didn't stop. I feel so hurt and my heart aches. He says it was completely his fault and takes full responsibility. He says he has learned from this and will never lie and cheat again, he doesn't want to hurt me again. He says he never stopped loving me, he wants to work things out and it adimate that it was purely sexual... He has no feelings for that women. I just feel so f***ing annoying that he has now tarnished our relationship and married. Its no longer pure. I love him with all my heart, we have always had such a good relationship. I just can't believe he did this to me. I am so scared its gonna happen again. I don't know what to do. I love him so much, he is my everything but part of me thinks, why would i stay with him? He did this to me, to us.... I deserve better. I can't believe that I have a reason to consider divorce.... we have been married 18months... Id like some advice.... I had always said you ever cheat on me i will leave |
Question: How to strengthen the bond in marriage and have a deeper connection with husband? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:50 PM PDT I am married for 5 months, it is a love marriage, we dated for 1.5 years before marrying. I am not working and we live in abroad, I don't have any relatives or friends here. Sometimes I feel like while we were dating we used to have a deeper connection, used to share more, and I want that again. I want to have greater emotional closeness with my husband again. He works full time, comes home we have dinner and watch TV, go to sleep. There is not much quality time together. We used to talk hours about things and share a lot. Having no friends here also makes me want more connection and want to share more with my husband. I don't want to nag about it to him, it makes worse my husband doesn't like my neediness and nagging about things. And also when I nag it turns in to a fight which ends up in bad words. How can I strengthen the bond of marriage and how to increase emotional intimacy between us ? |
Question: Should you fight for a relationship? Even if it's not marriage? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:50 PM PDT relationship doesn't work and is on and off should I just give up or fight? We are not married and if We were, I'd fight for our marriage but a relationship? Help. 4 years on and off. |
Question: Found Out Wife Snoops Through Things? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:20 PM PDT I recently found out my wife goes through my iPad and clothes when I'm gone and she's even looked through my contacts and called several of my friends blocked to make sure it wasn't a female and I recently found out she created a fake fb page and added me and several of my friends, I'm very annoyed and creeped out by this, she has no reason not to trust me and I understand that she's been cheated on in other relationships...she thinks I'm overreacting for being mad about this am I? |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:16 PM PDT And is this gonna affect her chances of getting a green card? |
Question: What is it liked to be in an arranged marriage? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:10 PM PDT The Process... the during, the adjusting and the journey of it |
Question: Women: how often do yo fantasize about other men besides your boyfriend/husband? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:02 PM PDT |
Question: What are advantages of getting married? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:09 PM PDT I don't believe in living with someone, for spiritual reasons. So marriage is my only option other than dating. I've been teetering with the idea for a long time, and honestly I don't know. What are the advantages of getting married? Disadvantages? |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:01 PM PDT Just why? It is sad that our society today thinks that marriage is disposable and worthless and you can just divorce as easily as a breakup. I think people should only be HAPPY about divorce if it was an abusive or miserable relationship, but people just throw the sacred sacrament away. Why is divorce so common nowadays? Why are so many people so damn happy about it? |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 05:46 PM PDT My husband bounces from job to job, he decided to quit his last job to go for a commission only. Before he quit, I laid out all of bills and showed him that I couldn t pay them alone. "I have a plan" is what he said. He hasn t made any money after nearly 7 months. I have gone in debt trying to pay both of our bills and take care of 2 children. The repo man came to the door tonight and his response is that I should ve paid his car payment before other things. We ve been married for 11 years. He hasn t done anything to bring more money into our house. I mentioned the labor pool to him and he asks me "You want me to go to the labor pool?" He still has his "commission only" and he now works a job making $9/hr. He has a Bachelor s degree but I think he is lazy when it comes to applying for jobs. I m getting tired of this. I have lost confidence in him after sticking beside him in our ups and downs. Now, I just feel like we are on 2 different paths. What should I do? |
Question: How to get my wife to pack lite? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 04:57 PM PDT Every year my family, parents, brother, sisters, nieces and nephews go on a weekend getaway for labor day. Each year my sister will rent a 15 passenger van and we drive either to the beach or the mountains. This year is a beach year. Every year I fight the same argument with my wife. PACK LITE! We leave Friday morning and return Monday afternoon. Considering there's going to be 12 people in a van my sister ha asked us to not bring that many bags. I told my wife we could pack our clothes together but she refuses. She likes to pack extra clothes and quite a few paid or shoes. When I told her to pack lite this year she laughed at me and said she was not cause that's not what women do. It's funny how my mom and sisters can pack only the things they're going to need for a 4 day trip but my wife has to pack like we're going on a week's cruise. How do I get my wife to pack lite this year? She'll bring extra shoes cause she's not sure what pair she wants to wear with which outfit. Or, she'll bring extra clothes cause she likes to change clothes several times a day. Why doesn't she understand that she can't bring everything and the kitchen sink just for a 4 day trip? |
Question: After 7 years separation can husband request spousal support? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 04:47 PM PDT where married for 25 years separated since 2008 I filed for divorce jan 2015 an now his asking for money to support himself and attorneys fees help please |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2015 04:17 PM PDT I made sure he wants to have a kid or not before we got married. He said yes. I'm 35 years old now. he start to excuse many things to refuse. one time, he told me "I'll give you baby if you give me what I want. What he wants is me become like a model and being sexy. he wants me to be at home with bra and T back all the time or just naked. He said " be my view, if you wear comfortable clothes like PJ, there is no point to come back home. make me feel I wanna come back home" I just start to feel uncomfortable. |
Question: Is it true about a woman feeling more "excited" closer to 30? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 03:18 PM PDT At first I though it was just after having our second child that my hormones were crazy. But now it's been 10 months. I'm almost 28. My poor husband is like a shaking dog in the corner. He even mentioned me getting a boyfriend (totally joking!!) so I would leave him alone for a few days. It helps he had a vasectomy so I can't get pregnant. Is this normal for an almost 30 yr old woman? I am breast feeding & have only had 1 period since baby #2 was born. Could it be my hormones being funny? |
Question: 10 points!!!Responding to Petition in state I no longer reside? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 03:01 PM PDT My soon to be ex husband summoned me but im no longer living in the state he filed the divorce anymore. Ive been served and have 20 days to respond. Since im getting the form notarized and then sent to the court via certified mail. Since im not there for the clerk to stamp it, if I send it certified mail and it get lost, Am I held accountable? Thanks for the help beautiful people and i cannot afford an attorney. All ive been doing is researching |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 02:54 PM PDT My fiance was suppose to get a full name change before the wedding, but the hearing got continued at a later date. Will I be able to take his last name if we get a corrected marriage certificate after the name change? |
Question: What rights if any do I have? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 02:54 PM PDT My ex wife are divorced and I am remarried.. we have shared custody of our kids... we been divorced 5 years and now that married and when I work out of town she shows up when my wife has to take kids and causes sceen... what can I do? |
Question: My husband doesn't like being affectionate after 5 years of marriage! What do I do? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 02:34 PM PDT Recently he has told me is isn't the affectionate type. We have been together since we were teenagers, have 3 lovely children and were very happy. We had an argument recently where he said he loves me to pieces but he doesn't like to hug me or be affectionate towards me. Yet being intimate isn't an issue.... Am I in the wrong to just want a hug and expect more from him? Please no horrible replies.. I'm feeling miserable and wanting to please him emotionally but I can't. Many thanks |
Question: My american fiancée doesn't want to get married anymore after we made visa...? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 02:19 PM PDT Me and my american fiancée of two years were engaged, we were planing to get married and moove to USA in October. We are both 22. It was our both decision because she said america has opportunity for us to find jobs and for me to get some education while im young so we can have a better life and be happy. I love her a lot. We made visa, I payed fee, we spent so much time preparing documents and so on, I turned down education opportunity in my home country because we made plan with my wife to moove... So yesterday suddenly she said that she Rly likes living abroad, that she's too young to return to USA and wants to stay abroad. When I try to talk that it was our BOTH decision and that we planned for year and I mace sacrifices because I rly planned myvlife with her she says something like "so you want to be with me only in usa?" Ofcourse she makes me look very bad. I just think that it is not good what she did and it's not right. I want to know your opinion.i am very dissapointed. |
Question: My ex filed a motion to modify child support. How do I fight it? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 01:43 PM PDT My ex had sole physical custody of our son. During that time, I was paying child support. It was supposed to be $700/month, but he deviated to $150/month. My ex had sole physical custody because I was not financially stable. I recently petitioned the court for joint custody and won. We now share the time - 70 percent him/30 percent me. Since there was a custody change, my ex filed a motion to change child support. He said since I told the judge that I was now financially stable and that I was ready for joint custody, that I also must be ready to financially support our son in a more equal way. Ex no longer wishes to honor the previously agreed upon deviated amount. He now wants whatever the child support calculator says to be the CS amount I pay. According to what I ve seen, the amount will be around $400/month (b/c ex pays daycare and insurance). I can t afford $400/month and stay financially stable for my son. I agree that I said I was financially stable to the judge at the custody hearing - but that was with the $150/month CS amount. The new amount will tip me back into a negative bank account. My ex doesn t need the money - he makes twice as much as I do. He s also married and his wife has a good job too. I know they make over $100,000 together. How can I fight this in court? I don t think it s fair that I m getting more time with my son AND I ll have to pay more. I m in Michigan. Thank you. |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 01:33 PM PDT Here's a little backstory: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150601100646AAgI51u (Since then, my wife has let up, and using some of the helpful advice, I was able to convince her I deserve 1 night every week if I am to continue having friends.) Long story short, my wife and I agreed I could have 1 harmless "guys night" a week which is essentially me playing video games with guys I have befriended that are all guys she knew back in high school. Well now she is pregnant with our third child. I help her out endlessly and she mainly relaxes most of the day. She's so used to me doing everything for her when she's pregnant, that sometimes she doesn't realize until afterwards how ridiculous some of the things are that she asks me to do that I (usually) don't even question. (Continued in additional notes below) This includes being fully responsible for preparing/buying dinner and feeding the kids (including when I come home for my lunch break), putting the kids to bed, waking up to discipline the kids when they don't go to bed or cry to stay up later, getting things across the room (sometimes it will be a remote that she walked right past to go sit down), (continued...) (from previous...) all of the dishes, taking out all of the garbage (2 bags a day on average, taken to a dumpster down the road a ways), all of the handy work, all of the shopping, all of the vacuuming, massaging her feet and using a callus remover on her feet when they get sore... Anyway, the list goes on, and I work a 40hr/wk job, she is a stay at home mom that hasn't worked since she was pregnant with our first child in 2011. I'm afraid she has become accustomed to me taking care of her, and every pregnancy she has she becomes even more demanding, because she gets more worn out from taking care of the kids. We were potty training our oldest child (successfully, she goes on the potty except at night) when all of the sudden after being pregnant I come home every day to find a diaper on her because she just can't take the effort, and she needed to lie down most of the day instead of continuing the potty training. Now she says she has the right to veto any guys night, any plans for what I want to do, and final say on anything I purchase as well. Now is the second Tuesday she tells me she is too nauseous to allow me to hang out with my friends (which only works on Tuesdays because of our working schedules). Am I overreacting? Every time I try to reason with her like before, she says I don't know what it's like to be pregnant. But many women are working in their first trimester, and she doesn't even work. I don't think I'm asking her to do too much, considering I come home after my 9 hr day at work to spend 4 hours handling all chores and putting the kids to bed while she scrolls though facebook/vine/etc. while relaxing on the couch. And then I don't even get to choose what we watch on TV together. I love my wife, and I do almost all of that stuff because I know she needs it, but can anyone back me up here? What should I do? (Also, thank you for reading all of this if you did. I'm sorry it was so long, I just type fast) |
Question: What lesson did you learn from divorce? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 01:29 PM PDT If you had another relationship after the divorce, did the lesson help improve your relationships? Thanks for sharing. FYI..I learned a lot from marriage and divorce. I definitely see where I made mistakes and how I can choose a mate in the future. I learned that I should not doubt my partner all the time and if I can not truly trust that person, then I should get out of the relationship. |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:51 PM PDT My husband says "u don't have skill to get enough money to support family,so all responsibility is on me. That's not fair. We need to be equal. so I don't wanna give you baby it's not fair" I'm working at restaurant and get 2500-3000 every month. I know this is much lower than what he gets. but does it really make people uncomfortable like him? |
Question: Is marriage good for men these days? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:34 PM PDT What do you think about what is discussed at the links below? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbyMiiDXETQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCpBa4ITEcI |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:33 PM PDT So I ve been in a 8 year relationship an out of those years for one I ve been married. I have a 9 month son an currently 4 months pregnant with my second child. Before I got pregnant me an my husband use to party together do some drugs an drink an have fun, an when we use to go to parties i would see guys there with out there girls cuz either they were lying or hissing from them. I use to think " thank god I m not in one of those relationships, I never want to be that girl who got left behind at home with the kids while her man was out partying an doing drugs an lying about it to her face". But now that I m pregnant again my husband is never home, constantly saying he s running to his friends for an hour or so. But I ve got him with pills, and other drugs. Like he was hiding it from me. I m starting to feel like I can t trust him an don t believe anything he says. I feel like I ve become the girl I never wanted to be. An I don t know weather to leave him an not get hurt by the lies anymore an start fresh with someone who won t feel like they have to lie to me or start in this relationship for my babies an continue to cry every night cuz he s not there an I don t know what he s doing or who he s with. I can t talk to him about it cuz he thinks it s my pregnancy an jus says " your trippin" or " here we go again" or "go take your Waco pills" (my doctor gave me some depression an anxiety medication during my pregnancy). Please help me, what do I do..????, |
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Question: How to know if my husband is really over me? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:05 PM PDT I'm so confused right now my husband and I is been apart for 4 months now we don't talk and see each other for 4 months the last time I saw her with another girl I don't know if it's just a fling or what but I'm confused that he still live in the apartment were we live and he doesn't do anything to file our divorce does he still love me? How to prove if he is really over me we've been together for 5 years I loved him so much i don't know if he still loves me too but it's so confusing because I know him if he really doesn't love me anymore and if he likes other girl already I think he will file divorce immediately please any advice |
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Question: Child support is for the step parent to eat off of? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 11:18 AM PDT I get child support from my ex husband for my 8 year old. I usually save this in a savings account for his future and my husband (step dad) expects me to spend this every month for his bills or for HIM to eat off of when he is on the road (truck driver). My husband will eat an entire pot of pasta or other food and I am pregnant and will be lucky to get one meal a day. Is this money really for my husband's use? He also wants to blow through the savings i made for my son. He told me by saving the child support I am "being selfish and a money hoarder" and "have my priorities about what child support is for messed up" The other night he ate the ENTIRE pot of food and I got NOTHING. I was so hungry but I kept my mouth shut because he tells me he is the man of the house and what he says GOES. "my house, my rules" I hear. |
Question: Does my daughters father have other ideas than just lunch? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:59 AM PDT My ex husband took my daughter and I out to eat as a reward for my daughters good behavior during my daughters lunch. At first, I thought that this was innocent, but now I am not so sure? He showed me a fortune cookie that said "this year you are going to be able to take good care of your family." Does he think there is more to it? |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:59 AM PDT Every day I get wiser about my situation. And today I'm realizing how I contribute to the chaos in my house - my lack of self esteem and self confidence. But how do I handle this fear of uncertainty when I'm being forced to handle it since my wife has already hit the point of petrification/paralysis? What tips can you offer me in standing behind my decisions? |
Question: How can I get divorced? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:52 AM PDT how to get divorced if I got married in another country?(international marriage) |
Question: Could a marriage be nulled and if couples are separated for 10 years? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:50 AM PDT |
Question: How can I invite friends over if you live in a shared house? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:49 AM PDT My husband and I live in a shared house with another couple and we share a bathroom and kitchen and there's no living room. It's a multi-family home. We just moved in I want to invite my friend's over from time to time. |
Question: Partner has Tinder app on phone? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:16 AM PDT So my partner is in the army and we are long distance sometimes, when he came back home this last time, I noticed that his phone had a Tinder notification, then later realized he has Tinder downloaded on his phone. He says he doesn't use the app, and when I asked him to log in says he can't because he doesn't have an account on there. Should I believe him ? He acted like he didn't know the app was on his phone... but I mean if you are getting notifications from the app how do you get off saying you didn't know it was on there ? |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2015 09:00 AM PDT I was speaking to a client yesterday at work and she insisted that I don't call her Mrs ------Last Name -------- and by her first name. I've never heard anyone say this before, but what does that mean?> |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:45 AM PDT The media makes it seem like sex and courtship is the most important part, but is it really that significant? As a young teenager you just picture marriage to be about the sex. |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:45 AM PDT Me and my husband have been together for 7yrs well because of my choices of going back to church and living for God he says pushed him away and he loves someone else. I was never told he was having an affair I found all the messages between him and her and my heart was shattered we have a 4yr old girl and a 6 month old girl. I really do love him and the women he loves is married also and she has 2 boys. When I found out about the affair I made sure her husband found out too. So now that her husband knows she has dropped everything to work it out with her husband.. My husband doesn't want to fix anything If I'm in the church which I'm not leaving the church or finding another one this is the right one for me and I love it! I am part time worker two kids and nowhere to go... I don't know what to do I want to leave him I want out but I don't know where to start. I'm so hurt and emotional I can't even think. The hardest part is that he is so like whatever about it and isn't even sorry he did it.. How do I get out!!!? |
Question: If you knew your husbands ex wife was cheating on her new husband would you tell him? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:22 AM PDT |
Question: I miss my ex husband? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:21 AM PDT After 6 years of marriage, I divorced my husband due to infidelity last year. I caught him naked on our bed with some lady and his excuse was pathetic (he said that I get to see other men naked which is partly false and I am a doctor so I treat and examine patients). My best friends are getting married and he is supposed to be one of the groomsmen. So, within the preparation of the wedding I've been seeing him frequently. I can't help think about the good times we had, the things I loved about him. Our marriage was great but that event brought out the bad in me. I refused to take any of his belongings including money in the divorce settlement and he was telling me that I should. How do I get my act together when I am around him? I want to slap him but kiss him at the same time 😩 |
Question: Is it work to hang out with others in a relationship? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:53 AM PDT If say some was in a relationship, would it be wrong to spend time alone with people of the oppiset sex in some place like a football game or art museum? |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:41 AM PDT I'm asking because my husband wants it and I will not give in no matter what and it seems like society wants us women to just do it, but I don't. I don't feel I have anything I need to overcome, I simply don't want to do it ever, period! He likes to do it for me, but I never ask him to. Why the constant pressure on women to do this if they don't want to do it? If my husband has an affair because of this, that's his fault, not mine, right? I shouldn't be coerced into fulfilling any perverse fantasy of his because he might cheat, right? |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:41 AM PDT My dad gave me quite a substantial amount of money 2 years ago. He was holding it for me but then a few months ago he gave it to me to have in my possessjon and I had it here in my house that I share with my husband. My husband says it was stolen when him and I went camping a month ago. He says we went camping and when we came back th e back door was wide open and I asked him if my money was there and he said yes. He then proceeded to have a completely normal day with me and i didnt suspect anything was wrong this whole time. Yesterday he started crying & told me my money was gone and that when we came home from.camping that day the door was left open that he came in and saw all of our drawers open and that my money was gone he didn't tell me because he didn't want me to freak out and says that the day we went to before we left he saw some guys outside our apartment looking around at things and he thinks that they're the ones that took itbut to me it makes no sense because it would make more sense if he saw those guys walking around that he would have taken the money with us or check the house to make sure that the doors were locked but he didn't. his story doesn't make much sense to me so I'm wondering if maybe he's the one that took it because ever since my dad gave me that money he seemed upset about it. I don't think he's the kind of person that would do that to me and take it but I really don't know what to believe right now what do u think? |
Question: My husband is keeping all the money from me can he do that? Isn't is mine too? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:23 AM PDT My husband has all his money go direct deposit on a pay card and he doesn't allow me to see or have anything. I have two kids by him and I never have any money I paid a bill because I have the card number and he screamed at me and told me that I'm not allowed to steal his money that's his money not mine I don't know what to do. How do I buy food etc when he is saying it's all his isn't it mine too because we are married? |
Question: How do i send cd of marriage? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:02 AM PDT |
Question: Am falling for my ex. Am i beeing unfare? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:59 AM PDT I'm 24 and married. I love my husband very much but he's always absent for months(6-8) and spends only 2weeks at home wen he comes due to the nature of his job. I often have this urge for sex which i find difficult to control. I started comunicating with my ex thinking a few romantic words from him will be of help cuz my man is not even reachable on phone. Then i realise am falling for my ex again n he still desires me though he is married too. I can resist any more. Is it unfare if i just want to satisfy my desires? What do i do? Pls just for more clarification, he is in the military,thats why he stays away for that long but it was not so when we met n eventually got married. At first he was coming home every month end n i was ok and could deal with it, untill the resent development in his schedul which keeps him away for several months. |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:29 AM PDT I've been asking questions on here for about 5 years now. When I started out I was trying to fix me. Up until recently I've been trying to fix my wife. Lately I've been trying to wrap my head around the 1,000's of ideas being thrown at me on what "marriage" and "a married couple" stand for and what it takes to be healthy. And now I've reached a tipping point where I feel like I now have to question something most of you agree on: marriage equality and the need for individualism. Unlike most of you, my wife and I didn't grow up in a house that did free range parenting. There were strict rules that we had to adhere to, and if we didn't adhere then the rules would get stricter or there was a formal punishment of some sort. Our parents limited our individuality growth, and then getting into a serious relationship immediately after moving out only made that individuality not grow. After 14 years, you'd think we'd have grown, but in many ways neither of us have. When I give my wife distance to make decisions for herself, she is paralyzed and ends up turning to compulsions because the weight of the decision is too heavy of a burden for her. When I take charge and make decisions, I become paralyzed and end up turning to compulsions to overcome the heavy burden of consequences. We are but two scared kids with kids of our own. So in circumstances like these, can there really be a "marriage equality" and "individuality" when neither of us can function without the other's help? |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:27 AM PDT I see this so much these days (in person, all over forums, news, etc) that people's views on marriage are dying down. For example, comments such as "it's just a piece of paper" or "marriage is a trap" or "I don't need marriage to show my love" etc. Well, how come at the same time, people were fighting so hard for gay marriage (before it got legalized) and support it so much? Seems like a contradiction. Don't get me wrong, I'm for marriage in general (gay or straight). But slandering marriage while supporting a type of marriage at the same time would make me a hypocrite, would it not? Both are still marriage (same category). |
Question: How to get my husband on board with trying for a baby? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:20 AM PDT Hear me out before you answer please! My husband and I have been together for 7 years next month, married for 3 months (we pushed the wedding back an entire year to get the location and time of year we wanted). 5 months before the wedding, my BC pill started working too well and I stopped getting a period (dr said this is normal for the pill I am on) and as terrified as I was that I could potentially be pregnant just before the wedding, I found that a small part of myself was disappointed when the test came back negative. Over the past 8 months, that small part has grown exponentially and, combined with his mother's pressure for grand kids (she was talking about how she wanted grand kids soon at our wedding reception) and a few friends getting pregnant, has progressed into full blown baby fever. We bought a house over a year ago with 20 percent down, have no debt otherwise, have a solid 40k in savings and together bring in 6 figures a month, yet my husband keeps saying he doesn't feel financially ready. We've talked and I said I wanted to start trying within the next 3-6 months, but he said he wants at least a year so we can enjoy newly married life. The problem here is that we have lived together for 3 years, nothing has changed since we got married in that aspect, we don't actually go out much, we just aren't those kind of people and we're already tied home because we have a dog. Ideas on how to get him on board before I go crazy? Just to head off anyone saying this, I need him to be on board before trying for a baby. I won't stop my pill until he says he's ready, but that doesn't mean I'm not holding out hope that we'll be the 1 in 100 that get pregnant on the pill (with actual use, effectiveness drops to 98 or 99 in 100). We've discussed everything mentioned. He wants to wait until he gets a second yearly evaluation at his company (his first was stellar after only being there a few months and he's received numerous monetary awards for high quality work since then). His only financial hold back was he wants to have 6 months of salary in savings. He also seems to think that a baby will cost 20k in the first year, although he hasn't mentioned that since I broke down normal costs over the first year. As far as what it would change, that was discussed too and he said he was okay with the potential changes. We have a spare room for a baby (in addition to a guest room), and we have discussed painting plans. As far as friends getting pregnant, they're across the country and I don't see them in person much, them being pregnant isn't making this worse because of a desire for them to be friends, it's because they have what I so desperately want. I would agree with enjoying married time if it was ANY different than the 3 years we lived together before getting married but honestly, it isn't. Yes I enjoy the time we have together alone but at the same time, I feel as if we've almost been married for 3 years, since we moved in together, not 3 months. My biggest worry is that we'll struggle to conceive or keep a pregnancy as my mom miscarried baby after baby for 5 years before figuring out what was wrong. Before we got married, we of course discussed kids, we both want at least 2, maybe 3 or 4 depending on how the first 2 go. We discussed a time line based on certain career points that, after looking at it seriously, puts us at not being able to try for kids until we're 35 or so. When I mentioned this, he agreed that was too late and that's when the 1 year time point came about. My biggest issue is he says finances are the only thing holding him back but to me, we're financially there. *6 figures a year, not month, as someone picked that as their main qualm with the entire thing. Yes dogs aren't kids, I get that, but we can't just go off for a week long trip on a whim because we need to be home for the dog and he doesn't handle the kennel well, even nice ones. We've tried. More making the point that as far as traveling, we do have limits. |
Question: Should I leave my husband? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 05:49 AM PDT We were married a couple of months ago, and I was pregnant. We're both in our 20's. Our baby is born now, and I hate to admit it, but I feel no love for her. I never wanted children and she was an accident. My husband adores her and doesn't understand why I can't seem to feel the same. I do however take care of her and protect her. I give her everything she needs. His mom controls almost everything he does... oh and she hates my guts. I feel I make him and his family miserable and they would be better off without me. I have nowhere else to go, but I'm starting to wonder if I should just leave and let them all get on with their lives. I love my husband with all my heart and would die for him. But I feel I'm bringing him down badly. Any thoughts? yes, I've known the whole time I have postnatal depression. The doctor said I was at high risk for it from the start (I was taking depression meds before I even got pregnant and have a long history of it). But I don't know how to fix it. The medication only does so much, and I have talked to a therapist. nothing seems to help |
Question: Why isn t marriage as exciting as courtship ? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 05:33 AM PDT |
Question: I am muslim n i want to divorce my x husband who is Catholic...? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 04:41 AM PDT Hi im ayesha.. I married in dec 2012 den in a year fr some reason i decided to separate and now its 1 year 5 months dat v separated but not divorced.... N recently Alhamdulillah i convertd to islam a month ago n i heard dat our marriage is null now but need to divorce legally... How do i do it in uae... V both r indian and i convertd in dubai court... Plz help... Need help vry badly... |
Posted: 01 Sep 2015 04:34 AM PDT and making decisions together about the kids? |
Question: Should i assume my husband and i are in an open marriage? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 03:22 AM PDT my husband had a two and a half year affair and we filed for divorce. The divorce is still pending in the courts. We have been doing family things together with the kids and have even had sex a couple of times. We have never talked about the affair and he still is very sneaky. I love him but I am not expecting monogamy as he has been with a few other women as well during the separation which is still in effect. He has lots of female friends that he banters with sexually and performs oral on. Would it be wrong for me to date other people. After seeing the types of women he has fun with, I have realized I am not his type at all. I don t want to be made a fool of again. I dream of other men all the time. I dream of romance and love and all the things i missed in my marriage. He found those things with his mistress. would it be wrong for me to find those things with someone else? I ve been asking constantly to finish the divorce process and he is not on board. I m sure it s because of money not love, because he shows no real signs of being in love with me. He still treats me like an option and he still ignores me most of the time. |
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