Im 22 and shes going to be 22 too. We have a brotherly love like we never hug once or kiss cheek. To the point, I was using her phone to play games and I look at her photos to find a funny one of her and me but I saw a deleted file section where I saw her naked pics. I never had urges like these in my life. I was high when I saw them so maybe thats why I had them, i felt horny, scared and hot. I was thinking of talking to her about them cuz I feel guilt. We literally spend every together having fun at my place which she wantes moved in with me. Im scared our bond is broken if I tell her of the pics. Should I tell her to get rid of guilt or just move on? I kind of sexually attracted now too and feel worse cause incest. Honest answers pls, I dont really have anyone close to talk to so I posted it here..

My boyfriend and I were arguing pretty badly which we don't do at all! It was over something serious and not just a petty fight. It started with yelling and he pushed me to the ground so I got angry and said I was leaving. He tried grabbing me from behind so I wouldn't leave and I shot my elbow back into his ribcage to make him let go. I knew I shouldn't have been violent with him if I didn't expect to hit back but he wouldn't let me leave. When I turned around to apologize he punched me in the face. I know he felt bad because he apologized instantly and drove me to the hospital because my tooth went through my lip. When we were in the waiting room he was crying badly and promised it wouldn't happen again. He told me that if it ever happens again that I need to leave him but for now he wants another chance. He said he takes all the blame for what happened but I know it was my fault too. I think that this was just a falling out we both had and can be working through. I have only told my friend about this and he says I should leave and never look back and that my boyfriend pushed me first initiating the fight but I know I should have been the bigger person and walked away. Its really hard for me because I have helped friends and other classmates with these issues and I usually say that one hit is one too many and to end it. I feel like my situation is different but does that make me a hypocrite?

Im 24 he is 22 I was with my boyfriend for five years before he dumped me last week. He says that he is suffering because of me being unhappy with myself.he said there is no way I can love him if I don't love myself. He is tired of being unhappy with the relationship and wants to be single and be his own person. He said he has been unhappy for a long time and is no longer confident that we could work. I understand his point of view but right now I'm going through a hard time with my family and I think he abandoned me. I begged and pleaded with him. I have contacted him everyday with text messages and phone calls and even went by his place today to see him. All of which upset him even more and he said he wants me to respect his decision and that he doesn't want to speak to me. I told him I want to be friends and he said he was open to a drink sometime but not now. He said right now he doesn't want to be friends. He said that if its meant to be then somewhere down the line we would get back together. He also said that I have been pissing him off with constantly contacting him and he doesn't feel like I'm treating him like a friend. Today he unfriended me on Facebook and blocked me on Instagram. I don't know about blocking me on his phone since I refuse to call him and see. What should I do? Is it possible that he is still upset about the breakup and lashing out? Have I lost him for good? I would really appreciate the advice.

Is there a permit to hunt people like in the short story "The Most Dangerous Game"? Are people the most dangerous game, or is there something dangerouser than people?

There s this guy that hits me up on Facebook every now and then. I know this guy has absolute no interest in me considering that when he does hit me up and I reply. He either takes hours or maybe a few days to respond back. Mind you, he hits me up first. I won t text this guy at all and out of no where he randomly texts me. I know how he gets with other girls and he treats me differently (he s more flirtatious and more attentive) anyways, I ve had several dreams where he s said he loved me. Each time I wake up a little weirded out cause I know its not true nor does he like me in anyway. Twice I dreamt that I met his mom! Weird cause I never met her in real life but I seen the way she looks like in pics and in one dream she told me that he should ask me out. And just last night I dreamt that I met his brother and his brothers wife. We were all in hotel having fun and laughing and getting along. Its all too weird..... Any thoughts???

My boyfriend and I have been dating 9 months. We met a year after he split from his long term(8yrs) relationship with his son's mom(they were never married, just engaged ). She left him unexpectedly one day by taking all her stuff and their kid and thousands of dollars of his money and moved an hour away. He's been incredibly hurt by this and though he dated a few others very briefly after her, I'm now the longest relationship since his ex. I feel he's incredibly cautious about certain things, understandably. Like I still haven't met his family or friends, just his son(but to be fair he hasn't met mine either...but mine lives far away). I have really bonded with his son too. He has only just in the last month started trusting me enough to be at his house alone. He still hasn't said I love you. Should I just let it go and let things progress as they do? We are intimate and I do spend a lot of time with him and his son. His ex knows about me and wants to meet me, his dad and sister know of me as well....but he only just told them about me. I kinda feel like a deep dark secret. I've never dealt with a guy not telling his family about me until 7-9 months in.

I'll make this simple. I'm a 21 year old female and i've been having issues with my parents. I've just read online about emotional abuse in young adults. My mum and often fight over little things, but she usually calls me names, yells at me and puts me down in the sense ''you're useless, no one will ever marry you" and so on. My dad, for little things calls me stupid and this really hurts me. I tolerated it as a child, thinking that it was okay because i was still a teen, but now i'm an adult. I feel like they have no respect for me. Even though when people come over they brag on and on how good of a daughter i am, i don't feel that way when they yell at me. As a teen my mum had always told me not to drink and i never did...but now as an adult every time i go out i find myself avoiding alcohol. I end up drinking a soft drink or plain water. When i come home and tell her that i had nothing to drink she says" good, you're not a slut. Sluts only drink." and i really don't get this? She's always criticizing me about my friends. None of them take drugs, they all go to college and are good students. She doesn't like them because they stick up for themselves and i feel like she doesn't like me hanging around them because she's afraid they'll corrupt me. Whenever we fight about anything she aways says ''i know where you're attitude is coming from. It's from those disrespectful girls." She even threatens to tell them off the next time they come to see me. I don't have many friends...only two. One lives in Canada so i only get to see her every two years and the other is in my neighborhood. I've never been influenced by others. The only thing my friends have said to me is ''take control of your life, don't let them boss you around." They both are pretty smart, they are dependent and can look after themselves.Like i said, they are good girls but my mother doesn't like them because they go out every weekend. I don't, i go out like every 3 months. I'm very emotional and i don't have a backbone. Every time we argue and she gets upset she refuses to speak to me. I practically have to beg her to start speaking to me again. I always feel bad, even when it's not my fault. I'm overemotional and i always think if i hold a grudge against them and something were to happen to them while we were on bad terms i'd regret it for the rest of my life. So basically i always apologize and move past it even if it's not my fault.

I asked a person at my school today if he had change for a $5 and he said "I was just asking myself that same question". That doesn't make any sense at all...

Like they adopt a kid and raise them together. Is that illegal? Just another random question in ole thinky brain

Well I been with my man for a year now we had our ups n downs but we love each other but I think he likes my cousins girlfriend like each other we all stay together n I always catch the looking at each other or when he is in another room she gos in there or when she in another room he makes excuses to go in that room they don't talk kuz I walk in there I think they like each other they both say no but idk what to think.......

I have this teacher who has taught me for three years. Although we don t talk much, something about us just clicks. Not in a romantic way, but in a father/daughter type of way. I know he means a lot to me, even though he s not around much. What could this be?

Why is it that girls BOYFRIENDS think its okay to go liking others girls **** on Facebook like their pictures, all their statuses or poke them??? Why do they go add them on Snapchat, or add/like their **** on Instagram?? Don't they know that makes us feel not good enough and not to mention its disrespectful as ****!? Why can't they be happy with the girlfriend they have and not go seek out other girls attention??? Why must guys who "love" you act this way??

I used to work with this guy at my old job. We became great friends to the point where I think we kind of liked each other. He does have a girlfriend though. He did many things to show me he did like wearing my favorite color every time I saw him, to being concerned, encouraging me always, and just being friendly and really caring about me. While we were texting, he responded positively and always responds instantly to my texts. I now work at a new place in the same mall. He texted me asking how I was and said he would come visit me at my new job. Turns out he did come in on a day I wasn't working. My coworker told me about it like a week and a half later for some reason. It turns out he came in and asked if I was working (what was interesting is that he used my real first name to ask for me instead of my nickname when he has always used my nickname). Also, he handed out all of these coupons he had from where we used to work to all my coworkers which I thought was a nice gesture.

im graduating at 16, and shortly will turn 17 after graduation. I'm planning on moving out and going to college but I'm not sure if my parents would let me. I know the legal age is 18, but I was just curious if being graduated has anything to do with being able to leave early

Well money is tight and I only see my father every other weekend I do t know what to do

im a very shy person, its not like i dont talk to no one, i do. but i find it hard communicating with people. everytime i talk to people, even close friends, i get red. i have no idea why. im insecure, so i care what people think about me sometimes. i also think i suffer with like social skills because they are so strict and never let me go out. does this sound bad? btw im 14

I don't know what to do. She lives in Russia and we've never even met yet. But we've been texting almost everyday for a few months and have skyped a few times. She wants to leave Russia and come to America... she has suffered through a lot, I won't go into detail, but she also wants to continue her education. The problem is that Universities are very expensive for foreigners and she has virtually no extra cash. And in order to get financial aid she needs to at least have a green card... hence why we came up with the idea of getting married. She has been dying to come here all her life, she plans on working in order to buy a plane ticket and then flying out here in the summer. And she's not being pushy at all about us getting married, though she would like to. she made it clear that if it is too big a problem for me that we wouldn't have to do it. Why am I doing this? I think it would be cruel to leave her there.. a place where she has suffered so much. Especially since I've already given her hope, it would be wrong to take that hope away and I'm afraid she might become depressed and suicidal again... yes she was suicidal before when her best friend died.. one of the many bad experiences she's suffered as I mentioned. But other than all that... she's simply an awesome girl. She's very pretty, very strong, she's very very smart.. we talk for hours about history sometimes. She also likes to cook and she doesn't drink or smoke or party or any of that Really need help. Thanks

So, I've recently fallen on hard times. I had lost my job a few months ago and was basically scrapping by on savings and odd jobs. I recently got hired at a new job and have been there about 2 weeks. But prior to that, I ended up losing my place to stay and I've had to uproot my daughter and myself to renting a room from a friend. I do have a boyfriend whom I've been dating since January. He's incredible in so many ways and let me stay with him briefly . My friend I'm living with now thinks he should offer to help me financially... he does make good money but I would never ask him or expect him to help me out. It never even crossed my mind. Thoughts?

I am sixteen, and this guy in his late thirties used to co-manage the activities center I volunteer at. One day I was waiting for food, and he randomly approached me and told me that I was scary because I was so quiet and that I must have very weird thoughts because of everything I keep inside. About the "quietness" I am only reserved around him because of his very invasive questions; around the kids and my friends, I am loud. After that interaction, he started asking my friends what I talk to them about considering how "quiet" I am. Then he quit his job due to unknown issues, but he still comes around the activities center. I try to avoid him, but he comes up to me. One time he aggressively told me I was too tan, and later said I was too skinny. I frankly find his comments unnecessary; we don't know each other! How do I get him to stop doings this? (Preferably in a nice way because he is very close with the manager and could get me fired or something) I know he's much older than me, but he is clearly insecure. He goes on rants about how he is annoyed at not having a wife, although he admits he has high standards because he deserves the "perfect girl." He wants a wife that will work for him while he stays home with their future kids. Literally his only aspiration in life is to find a gorgeous and hardworking wife that he can mooch off of.

I am going crazy, i feel horrible people. My gf has been waiting for sex until marriage! I was a virgin until last sunday! We've been dating for a year and 5 months now but i just couldn't resist this time! I've invited girls out b4 and my gf has never known on sunday i told my friend to come watch a movie at my house! She agreed so she came! It started with just watching a movie but then she said she was cold and so i gave her a blanket but then she said lay down with me we won't do nothing, so i did then she started hugging me, and so we cuddled for like 20 minutes then she started saying how she is a virgin and said if i was so i said yeah then all of a sudden she kissed me and I didn't pull back! Then she got on top of me and wouldn't stop! To wrap it up well we had sex! It feels bad because i never thought I'd cheat on her! How do i resolve this how do i tell my gf this

I been dating a women who is married i have a thing for older women, she is only 34 though i am 19!!! Her husband work nights and I always spend the night with her, I feel bad as of recently because I actually did not know she was married until a few weeks ago however I continue been with her, I've had sexual relations with her, and I am afraid that she is pregnant! My main question here is, how do I resolve the husband thing if she is pregnant!

Okay, so I really want to do something for dad to that him for everything he has done for me. Always loving me, and always treating me like a princess. I wanted to buy Orioles tickets but I couldn't find any for the post season coming up and the ones for the World Series were waayyyy to expensive. I then thought about getting him tickets for the colts but they are in IL, which is too far for us to travel. I am in high school, so I am a bit older now, so I don't want to just do something like a pillow, tie, painting, or something like that you know? I want to do sowmthing/buy something that will be really be fun for him and he can remember. What could I get him? I can't do a breifcase, camera, or watches, as he has those. Help?!?!?!?!

Hello, I am 24 my gf is 22 she's usually working daily and i work but i come home around the times she's not there. I came home last night and her mom was home, prior to this me and her mom had an encounter where i walked into her showering and she didn't say get out or nothing, ever since then she has been looking at me weird but back to it last night she was laying on the couch, so i sat right next to her, she was talking about she was getting old and basically needed dick, i was so uncomfortable so i walked away but then i also felt horny so i came back minutes later, i sat next to her and played with her feet then she opened her legs and I couldn't help it. I feel so bad and it feels so bad to have done this but i need to know how i should deliver this to my gf

he rubs my back, says he loves me, touches my knee durig conversation

I'm a guy, I'm 16 a junior in high school. I have CF so I'm infertile, out of shape (I'm trying very hard to get into shape), sweat 500 percent more than a normal person and it's humiliating, and have a 40 year lifespan. I've never had a girlfriend and have been rejected twice, once last year and again this year. Mainly because I'm ugly, fat, poor, nice, I don't smile because I have an ugly smile, I'm a failure, and a nobody. I hate everything about myself, I've been cutting frequently since last January, and I've been thinking about suicide since last September. I'm Atheist. I feel religion and having imaginary friends is a waste of time. And I never read books. Nothing on this universe makes me more miserable than reading a book, it literally makes me furiously angry. My aunt who does read suggests I pray and read books but I refuse to do either as praying is wasting time, nothing will happen and I'd rather eat razorwire than read a book. Why do people read and pray?

Im 25, her 22, been dating for almost 2 years, before being bf+gf, her bro told them about me and they told her they don't approve of me, age difference, 'too experienced 4her, tattoos, my job/fam painting business, my family, ethnicity? and my 'unrealistic athletic goals' I was a NCAA all-American, team captain, dean's list, etc and I am currently training for 2016 Olympics. I know that I make her happy, but her parents say I am bad for her and that we have unhealthy relationship. She was sheltered whole life and had little/none freedom, say, friends, sleepovers. They tell her she is not an adult and that they know what's best for her and that our relationship is not what God wants. They've forced her to promise to not talk to me and her bro has tried to make me promise the same thing. 2 of her bros have shown up at my house trying to start stuff while we hang out and they monitor our houses and Facebook now. She too upset with them to talk and they have told her that if she isnt talking to them that she shouldn't talk to me either and she should respect their wishes, especially after lying/deceiting them about us seeing each other/'breaking our promises' she told me that she wants to respect their wishes, but I feel that's due to guilt, shame, and fear.They have always controlled every aspect of her life and she currently has 1 year of school left.Im graduated, with for my parents, and am focused on competing internationally for my country.We luv each other so much plz help

I live at home with family. I recently got into a legal issue/problem. I'd rather not tell my family and worry them. Would a po box be a good way to hide whats going on? If I get a po box and forward my mail to my po box would that help me be discrete?

I used to work with this guy at my old job. We became great friends to the point where I think we kind of liked each other. He does have a girlfriend though. He did many things to show me he did like wearing my favorite color every time I saw him, to being concerned, encouraging me always, and just being friendly and really caring about me. While we were texting, he responded positively and always responds instantly to my texts. I now work at a new place in the same mall. He texted me asking how I was and said he would come visit me at my new job. Turns out he did come in on a day I wasn't working. My coworker told me about it like a week and a half later for some reason. It turns out he came in and asked if I was working (what was interesting is that he used my real first name to ask for me instead of my nickname when he has always used my nickname). Also, he handed out all of these coupons he had from where we used to work to all my coworkers which I thought was a nice gesture. Should I have texted him if it was days ago that he stopped by?

my teacher name is dipak pant of 39 years old and I am renu 24 years old.i didn't know about he is married man after 3 years ago and his first wife name is menka pant of 33 years old and menkas (my husband first wife)son 15 years old.my husbands first wife so beautiful cute like a Bollywood heroin priyanka chopra .my husband and I meet after 3 year ago at campus he teaches me .and he offer me I am unmarried"I marry with you"so do u aggry with me ?so I accepted his offer then he and me married now. so I know I am second wife of my husband. my husband first wife says with me u r my like sister u come on in our room.we r staying in one house .my first wife live second floor and I live first floor in same one house.our husband live with me 12 hour and after he live staying second wife in 12 hour so my question is what is the relationship between me and my husband first wife.and what is the relationship between me and second wife sons daughter

My dad was only sixteen when I was born so he is fairly young and has quiet a few women hit on him. I've live with him since I was six because I didn't like my mom's new husband. He has gone on a few dates but stayed single for the most part of my life. Whenever we go out people always think we're a couple and I actually like them to think that? He doesn't always correct them if they assume we are dating but when he does I get a little upset. It bothers me when women come up to him and start flirting when I'm right next to him. I know I'm his daughter but there is no way they would know that he's not my boyfriend or something. I was never like this before and would even tell my dad that he SHOULD date people since he has never taken a big interest in finding someone. But when I was like sixteen or seventeen I started feeling jealous when he talked about a woman he wanted to date or when someone would come up to him and ask for his number. The thing is I am NOT attracted to him. I do think he's attractive but I have no desire to have sex with my dad because we're related. I would never try to sabotage his relationships because I know he deserves to find someone I just want to know what this feeling is and why I have it.

I just moved to a new high school in grade 11 and had to take a guitar class because no other classes were available. So I went to it and there's this pretty girl there to. She transferred from a different high school to and it was her first year at this high school aswell. I know this because we had to tell the class where we came from so I haven't talked to her yet. I've seen her looking at me a couple times. But I'm to nervous on what to say if I go talk to her. Can someone please give me some advice.