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- Question: Why does my family tease me so?
- Question: Me and mum clashing over daughter?
- Question: Is there any way I can live with a relative at 17 with no parental consent?
- Question: My brother gets annoying when someone comes?
- Question: Do I have shitty parents?
- Question: Is it wierd to date my cousins uncle?
- Question: I think my dad is mentally ill?
- Question: I m being evicted and I have know where to go..?
- Question: Was I Wrong To YELL At My Sister?
- Question: Why am i not loved by my fam?
- Question: I feel guilty about spending money?
- Question: Help!!!!!!##?
- Question: My mom is giving me the silent treatment?
- Question: My parents don't agree on what to do with me. I am adult and struggle. Dad cut me off financially but Mom helps me survive. Family torn. ??
- Question: Is it wrong that I don't really care to make peace anymore with my eldest sister especially after yesterday?
- Question: How can I help my mom deal with a Alcoholic boyfriend?
- Question: Don't know what to do with my life anymore?
- Question: How to convince mother to let me babysit?
- Question: How to say no when your sibling asks to borrow money?
- Question: Im scared of my mom what should i do?
- Question: Parent's not concerned about my education as much?
- Question: How does one "not give a ****"?
- Question: Im 14 yearsold, and i play that ive been kidnapped, and then a hot guy saves me, and we fall inlove, is that wierd. seriously no troll.?
- Question: I been driving for years and years, do you have to put up with older sibling who doesn't keep his mouth shut?
- Question: How can I locate my Son? Last known living in WA.?
- Question: My parents died and I'm having trouble coping?
- Question: What can i do?
- Question: Step-daughter's 16th birthday. Should we get her another gift?
- Question: I miss my sister!!?
- Question: My older sister still lectures me?
- Question: How can I get my brother taken away from my grandparents to better care? (He's Autistic)?
- Question: Feeling homesick sophomore year...?
- Question: Pls help,any advise will do.i really need it?
- Question: I think I'm an alcoholic and I need help?
- Question: How do I stop my antisocial behavior?
- Question: Is my husband right about this?
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- Question: My step grandma is trying to sell the house that my great great grandpa built in 1829. How do I make sure it doesn t sell?
- Question: I'm 19 but my dad wants to keep me locked up in my home as much as possible? HELP?
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- Question: My mom is crazy. Abuseive. Tired of it.?
- Question: My 10 year old brother plays every game on his terms & rules (often unfair). When I confront him, he gets angry and cries. What should I do?
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- Question: My mom screamed at me and i feel horrible..?
- Question: My mom keeps annoying me?
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| Question: Why does my family tease me so? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:34 PM PDT Everyone tends to make fun of each other in this family especially recently because last week I was grounded for skipping school and my big brother teased me the whole way through. Seriously he sat there saying stupid things like "haha look at you. You're grounded." One day I asked him where he was going cause he was leaving and he said to the movies, becaus "I'm not grounded" in a very nagging voice. He's 18 and im 14. I told my parents about and my dad laughed and high fives him and my mother said to learn from cause I might have a worse cell mate someday if I keep on but it was only skipping school not killing someone and my brother is always teasing me so I think HE should get grounded and see how it feels and I can make fun of him. |
| Question: Me and mum clashing over daughter? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:27 PM PDT Me and my mum use to be really close until i got depressed in my early 20 s and we drifted apart even further when i got married shotly after. I had a miscarriage a couple of years ago and she was very supportive and we became closer, when i fell pregnant with my now 1 year old daughter she was amazing and went beyond what you would expect a mother to do. During the first 6 months of my daughters life she continued to be amazing. However it started to go downhill again after this time as we clashed about how i was bringing my daughter up. Now i am due to go back to work and my mum is going to look after he most of the days as she is retired and i rather that then put my daughter in nursery, i will be paying my mum well for this. I feel as though i have gained her as an amazing child minder but lost her as my mum. I feel like she doesnt even really like me anymore and its really strained when we are together. I am at a lost as to how we can go back to the way we were, i lie awake at night worrying its all been left to late. |
| Question: Is there any way I can live with a relative at 17 with no parental consent? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:14 PM PDT There are millions of reasons that I need (not want) to move away from my parents. I live in Connecticut and I know the age at which I would be considered an adult is 18 but I can't wait until then (I just turned 17). I have talked to friends and family about my parents and they all agree that they are making terrible decisions, but legally there is nothing they can do for me. My parents constantly make me babysit their two babies (my half brother and sister) without asking or thanking me. I have missed school and family events because of this and my mother being a hypochondriac (she thinks there is something wrong with her everyday and is in and out of the ER even after being told she is perfectly healthy). My stepdad and my mom have told me my problems don't matter and I have nothing to be stressed about (or that I do but they don't care because they're stressed about their own stuff). They constantly make me feel like **** and I cry almost everyday because of them. |
| Question: My brother gets annoying when someone comes? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:12 PM PDT My cousin comes to my house everyday. My brother is cool to be around without my cousin but every time me and my brother and someone else comes my brother shows off at my expense. Today my cousin came over and was talking about pokemon. My brother stopped playing pokemon for a year and lost all his pokemon cards. So my brother went and took my pokemon cards and said it was his and also said I didnt have any pokemon cards. He shows off how I can't fight but I really can. I didn't say anything and then randomly he starts a fight with me and starts fighting me. My mom does nothing until I hit my brother back. Everyone scolds me about hitting my brother back and is on my brothers side. I can't do anything without my brother showing off and when I stand up for myself and when I do my mother scolds me my brother makes fun of me and my cousin is on his side all the time and my dad who doesn't know what's going on is at the opposite side.so if I stand up for myself everyone scolds me and no one is on my side . So what should I do |
| Question: Do I have shitty parents? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:05 PM PDT Last Thursday I got my tonsils and adenoids taken out. For the first three days my mom took care of me but starting yesterday she made me babysit my baby brother and sister by myself because she had to go to the hospital. Not because there was actually anything wrong with her, but because she was tired. This isn't the first time either. She has been in and out of the ER at least 10 times this past month. FOR NO REASON. The doctors have told her countless times there is nothing wrong with her. Anyways so now while I'm supposed to be recovering she leaves and I have to babysit, which ended up making me feel way worse. Even today she had to go to Urgent Care for another bullshit reason. I called my Aunt to help me because I felt like I couldn't do it on my own (as I am weak from the day before and recovering still). Well my Aunt left when my sister got home and when my parents came home they screamed at me. I got birthday cards and they took all the checks for themselves (because I had accidentally thrown out my sisters gift card while cleaning). I ended up running away one day because my mom asked my sister for this gift card but when she found out I threw it out she told me it was my fault we were "all ******* screwed" and it was my fault the babies would starve that night. Because I lost a $100 gift card that wasn't even hers. They have told me I have no reasons to be stressed, and that my problems don't matter. I don't think they realize I have to live with them as parents. |
| Question: Is it wierd to date my cousins uncle? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:04 PM PDT Its my 2nd cousins uncle. my cousin was married to his older brother. so there's no blood relation or anything. |
| Question: I think my dad is mentally ill? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:00 PM PDT So i just came back from school and he as in my dad made food. When the food was ready he called my name because i was upstairs doing homework. I said ok but i do not think he heard me because he called my name again but louder. I said ok but in a louder tone. When he came upstairs and scoulded me saying why i have to yell and asking if i am crazy. P.s. my dad just quit smoking and he previously used heroine. Another incident was when my dad was cooking in the kitchen and i smelled something burning so i went downstairs. I asked him why it smelled like something was burning but he said nothing was. So i check the trashcan and there was this burned piece of object( its like a piece of wood that you put things on top of when its to hot to carry) in the trashcan. So i asked him why he threw it out and he just snapped his face turned face with anger and yelled at me for questioning him. He said he could go whatever he wanted and didnt need my permission.?? I was so confused and went out to the living room. Then he walked out and yelled at me some more. While he was yelling at me i muttered under my breath. Then he started yelling at me again and was about to hit me saying i am an ungrateful brat, that there was no point in raising me . |
| Question: I m being evicted and I have know where to go..? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 11:53 AM PDT It s three of us my son my boyfriend and I. We don t have anywhere to go and we have until the 14 of this month to leave. Is there any housing I can look up or any advice on how to find a place. We really don t have money to be going through this right now. Plz help |
| Question: Was I Wrong To YELL At My Sister? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 11:38 AM PDT My sister just got promoted at her job - she is now in charge of the drama department of the high school. I myself am in my mid-30s and jobless, currently living at home with my old and tired parents. She invited us to see the new play production she directed and the theater was packed with students, teachers and parents. My sister not only directed, she was also a starring role. Before the play began, she made an announcement to the audience and said quote: "You as the audience have an important role too. By remaining quiet and still, you're contributing to the performers up here." I felt a little better now that I knew I was also part of the show. During the play, I remained silent. I only chuckled politely at funny lines, and clapped only when everyone else did. Others around me whispered and talked, some even texting on their phones- but I was making sure to be part of the show and remained focused. At the end of the show, everyone applauded and congratulated my sister. I was fuming. "Why is no one congratulating me?" I snapped. Everyone, including my sister, seemed confused. "You said that the Audience was also part of the performance. And No one said anything to me about sitting still and being quiet." Everyone audibly groaned and walked away. My sister told me I need professional help, but I am still furious with her. Was I wrong to yell at her? |
| Question: Why am i not loved by my fam? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 11:28 AM PDT my fam abuses me and i try killing my selfish being...i aint tryin to get sympathy so dont be a *** and say u feel srry 4 me |
| Question: I feel guilty about spending money? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 11:27 AM PDT I'm 14, and my parents got me a 200 euro phone for my birthday. We've always been very well on the money part, but i just feel such guilt for some reason, and i use just like a fourth of what my big brother uses, and my parents tell me it's fine all the time. But a big reason why i feel so guilty is because there's a recession going on here in Finland right now, and i feel so bad even though we're still doing well on the money part. |
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 11:19 AM PDT I really need to find a way to contact a family member.he's is very sick. I cannot leave him alone. and I will not leave him all one. he is my most cherished part of my life what is the best way to communicate with him now? |
| Question: My mom is giving me the silent treatment? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 11:10 AM PDT to make a long story short me & my mom had a fight over something small & it escalated to the point where my mom started throwing food, screaming she hates me 2 times & almost poking me with a broom. Having my mom apologize isn't an option because she's never going to apologize & to make matters worse she's been giving me the silent treatment for 4 days. I already started writing an apology letter because I feel bad about how I acted, but I get frustrated because my mom will tell me I need to work on things while my mom has the worst temper ever. I already discussed with my dad on how me & my could communicate better & how I can do things to change my behavior. But tomorrow, my dad has work & im alone with my mom for most of the day, & tomorrow I have to ask my mom to take me to school & I don't know how to approach her. What if she tears up my letter or doesn't want to read it. |
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| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 10:51 AM PDT Yesterday at the request of my mother, I went with her to visit my eldest sister and her newborn daughter (only daughter) who is only a couple weeks old. As soon as I held my neice, my eldest sister tells me, "GIVE HER TO MOM!" I told my niece (even though she was sleeping), "I got you a book for your parents to read you. It's for your 1st birthday." My sister then tells me, "DON'T BUY HER ANYTHING!" A few minutes before my mom and I left, my sister was looking at diapers or formula milk on her Iphone and my mom asks her, "How much?" She tells my mom, "It's okay we (referring to her and her husband) have money." When I got back home, I told my other older sister whose daughter I help babysit and even spoil with toys and books what happened over at our eldest sister's apartment, she told me, "You're not welcome there." She also told me that I just shouldn't have gone and that our eldest sister doesn't really want help at all with her newborn daughter. My other sister tried to offer to give away the crib of my other niece to her along with clothes that my other niece no longer wears and my eldest sister was like, "I don't want." My eldest sister doesn't want my folks or me and my other older sister to even help babysit her child. I guess I'll only see my newborn niece on holidays and on my folks birthdays. My eldest sister is just so stuck-up and snobby. I tried to make peace with my eldest sister a few weeks ago when I visited her with my dad in the hospital a few weeks ago almost 2 days after she gave birth. I was not even invited to my eldest sister's wedding back in 2008. Her and her husband have put me down for many years. |
| Question: How can I help my mom deal with a Alcoholic boyfriend? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 10:50 AM PDT Here's the deal, my mom has been with this guy for many years, [nearly 20] and he was a recovering alcoholic, he went to prison for Drunk driving for a good number of years and since then he has not picked up the bottle, that is until this year in January, first it started small, we didn't realize what he has been doing until it was to late. Now my mother is in tears every time he drinks because his mind gets so twisted, all logic is practically chucked out the window for him. He hasn't gotten violent yet, but we don't want it to get to that point. My mother wants to leave but we have nowhere to go, and his and my mothers name is on the title of the house we are currently living in. Mom says if she gets a restraining order she afraid they will order them to sell the house and split the finances, and we will have absolutely nowhere to go. I hate seeing my mother like this, and it infuriates me that I can't do or say anything to help the situation. So is there something, anything I can do to help them, or are we just doomed to deal with a [possibly] violent drunk? |
| Question: Don't know what to do with my life anymore? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 10:48 AM PDT I am 18 and I had an abortion my family told me they would disown me if I didn't and the dad didn't care I know the situation could easily be avoided but I learnt my lesson I feel resentment towards my family I feel they could have supported me more I am now living with my boyfriend as I kept fighting with my mum I didn't go to college because I am too depressed about the abortion I told my dad I wanted a baby before I am 22 but he was like oh that is life just be normal hardly anyone is thinking of having a baby at 18 |
| Question: How to convince mother to let me babysit? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 10:37 AM PDT I'm a 17 year old girl. I've applied to many jobs and haven't heard anything back from them. I really want to have a job so that I can stop depending on my mom and grandma. I've found a lot of babysitting jobs. My mom and grandma have a fear or me being kidnapped, raped, or killed. I have my own car, they'll know where I'll be, and I can protect myself. How can I convince my mom to let me get a babysitting job? |
| Question: How to say no when your sibling asks to borrow money? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 10:33 AM PDT This sounds easy to answer by just saying no to them, but my brother is really hot headed and if you don't give him what he wants, he will harm you or just yell and destroy everything in the house. So if I don't give him the money I am pretty sure he would choke me until I do. Is there a way to resolve this? Also before you say tell your parents I have and they don't do anything about they just say sorry you have to deal with that. He's 19 and I'm 17 btw. |
| Question: Im scared of my mom what should i do? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 10:21 AM PDT my mom really scares me shes bipolar she gets angry at me and hits me ever since i was a kid she pulled my hair and slapped me and it hurts more and more every year and im reallt scared and my dad isnt home and i just want to hide |
| Question: Parent's not concerned about my education as much? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 10:16 AM PDT I want to get into a good college. freshmen year I got one c and sophomore year I also got a c, but only because my teacher lost all of my homework. However. I have all A's and B's. Junior year I am taking 5 ap classes and trying to bump my GPA up to a 3.9 or a 4.0 by junior year. And I am practicing for the ACT. Anyways, my parent's are so focused on my brother getting scholar ships and doing good. They are going to pay for him to take classes and everything, and I feel like they don't care about what happens to me or where I go. I mean they care to an extent but it's not a big deal. |
| Question: How does one "not give a ****"? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 10:06 AM PDT I have a family member who judges everything I do and everyone I meet. No one is good, literally, I'm dumb. I get to hear that like 20 times a day, of course I know it's not true and that people are more than just assets, but I just get so down at times from being in this environment and I have to put up with that person like every day. |
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| Question: How can I locate my Son? Last known living in WA.? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 09:33 AM PDT My Son came home from Iraq and chose to live in WA. He was injured in Iraq ; many neurological problems. He barely called me (I live in MI.) I did have an address but recent mail has been returned to me. I've called the rental office where he lived and of course couldn't get a yes or no if he was still living there. His phone has been disconnected and e-mails are not going through. My son is 35 years old. His brother and father passed away in 2013. He was going to the Veterans Hospital a lot in WA. Has been hospitalized for nervous disorder. I don't know where to call or write or ask how I can find him. I'm worried sick (Literally). Any ideas who I can call or write to? Thanks to all concerned. |
| Question: My parents died and I'm having trouble coping? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 09:21 AM PDT Hi I'm 28 and a guy. I'm the oldest and have 8 brothers and sisters. My sisters are 26, 24, 20 and 13 and my brothers are 27, 23, 21 and 16. My 21 year old brother, 16 year old brother and 13 year old sister live with me and the rest have their own houses. Our parents died 4 months ago and I'm so worried about my 13 year old sister. She keeps crying and is so unhappy at the minute. For example, last night she came into my room crying and said she'd had a nightmare and wanted our dad. It crushed me hearing her say that because there's nothing I can do to make that pain go away. All I did was pick her up, put her into my bed and we watched some DVDs. She fell asleep but I couldn't sleep because I was so stressed out. She's also been going to my 16 and 21 year old brothers and they are absolutely worried sick and so am I. I just want to protect my younger brothers and sisters but I just feel so stressed out because my youngest sister is so upset and because she's so young she can't rationally deal with it. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to comfort her or make her feel safe. Should I get my other brothers and sisters to help me? |
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 09:12 AM PDT So today was very bad . Firstly , my cat attacked me while i was pushing a fking wardrobe which was very heavy by myself . Secondly , i had to clear the wardrobe and it was in a mess 🙌 and thirdly , i accidently threw make up products that belongs to my mother , it was there for a year and never had once i seen her used it . I thought she did not use it anymore so i threw it away . Yes , i feel guilty and shitty . Yeah i know its my fault , what should i do other than apologize ? And yeah we did dig out the trash to take back her things . |
| Question: Step-daughter's 16th birthday. Should we get her another gift? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:56 AM PDT My step-daughter is having a sweet 16 birthday party next weekend. Her father and I have already bought her a gift. We spent $850 buying her a nice camera (she wants to be a photographer). Since the camera was so much, we told her it was a joint birthday/Christmas gift, and she was fine with that. My question is, her mother is planning on a birthday party for her and mom wants all the women in her life to get up and speak and give a "token" to her that she can keep. Since we have already gotten her a gift, should we get her something else, small? I don't want to be the only one not giving her anything, especially since the mom talks **** about my husband and I. |
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:50 AM PDT I'm 24 years old guy. I have one younger sister she's 17 years old. 3 days back I slapped my sister because she broke my ipad unexpectedly. I know it was an accident. But at that time I was tensed so I forcely slapped her and then she start crying. After that till now 4 she never speak with me. When I call her she don't respond anything. Yesterday she bought me new ipad and she gave it to me through my mom. I really missed her. How can I apologize her? I never ever behave like that again... How can I get apologize from her? |
| Question: My older sister still lectures me? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:50 AM PDT truth be told, she's probably more of a parent then my mom was. My parents divorced, it's been years since I've seen my dad. Anyway, I'm 24 and for years and years, it was my sister who did all the real parenting( brush your teeth, get a haircut, be home on time, don't drink too much, etc). Figured it'd be done by the time I was 18, nope, she's 27 and still lectures me. " Your fridge has no fruit in it. Put your socks in order" etc. I want this stopped. Her excuse is " I'm looking out for you." |
| Question: How can I get my brother taken away from my grandparents to better care? (He's Autistic)? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:49 AM PDT I have a 17 yr old Autistic brother and he's irrational behavior is out of control, he breaks things and it's not driven to the point where I'm mostly in my room because my grandparents won't allow me to speak to him. They spoil him to the point they give him laptops and games that he breaks within weeks and just gets him a new one. They let him do whatever he wants because he yells and spits on people. All I want is for him to be taken away and sent to a place where he can get proper care from professionals. I've always been told to stay out of it. I'm sick of it and as his sister I know it's bad to want him out of the house but it's better for him than being here. I can't even go in the living room anymore. I know I shouldn't be complaining but just saying I can't really help him or my grandparents get mad at me for making him angry. You can't teach him anything and you can't get him to do things like shower and clean up after himself. I don't want to get my grandparents in trouble either, I just want help for my brother. They're just the type of people who let there children do whatever they want as long as they stay quiet. What kind of place do I need to contact to get him into good care? Will they be arrested or will I be arrested? I don't want anyone to go to jail, just help for him. I don't think it's neglect, they feed him and get him anything he asks for, they don't force him to live like that, there just too afraid to step up. |
| Question: Feeling homesick sophomore year...? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:37 AM PDT I just moved back to school from being at home all summer and I am feeling VERY homesick. I actually only live 25-30 minutes away from campus, but I still feel homesick. I have every opportunity to go home this Sunday, but Sunday feels like a year away. I just appreciate my family so much and everything they do for me. Any advice? Hopefully with classes starting tomorrow I will be busier! |
| Question: Pls help,any advise will do.i really need it? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:17 AM PDT my father was so upset to me about something.we are not close at all.I hardly know him.I just saw him last month for 6 days after 10 years.we never really live together.he is chinese and im filipino.I am his wedlock daughter from my filipino mother.my mother have such a bad history of lying to my father,so i dont question his trust issues towards me and my mother.My mother pretended to be dead just so my father will go to the philippines and continue to support us since he stop supporting us ,by the way he is married in Taiwan.To make the long story short.while my father was mad at me,yelling and screaming,and i was crying very hard.because ofcourse I was hurt,but then he said something then I laugh.So i think it made him more upset because I laugh he might think i was just acting my tears.he told.me to go away and never see him again.what should i do?how will he forgive me? i really need his help to continue my education? how will i show up to his door again?he might not even open it? i dont know? pls help |
| Question: I think I'm an alcoholic and I need help? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 07:35 AM PDT A couple weeks ago my dad left his beer on the table because he went to go get something for my brother, so I took a sip, thinking that it would be harmless. It's just beer right? It tasted like ****. So the next day I started thinking about it a lot more then I should have so I drunk a little more and I liked the way it made me feel. Now I can't go a day without drinking it and I need help. My mom smelled it on me last night and I liked and said that my dad spilled a little on me. I never lie to my mom. I can't let her know though because it would kill her please let me know how I can get out of this tut because my grandpa died of alcoholism. I'm only 14 |
| Question: How do I stop my antisocial behavior? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 07:16 AM PDT I love my mom and everything, but sometimes I just want to be alone. With no little sister, no mom, no one. I just want to write or read in silence, but my mom tells me I've been breaking her heat because I prefer to be in another room with no television or loud fans or loud voices. How can I stop this behavior before I break my already terrible relationship with my mother? My mom and I have a rocky relationship. We fight a lot and she often insults me, but I know she loves me. I'm tried of fighting with her, I'm tired of having my passions belittled and shamed just because she doesn't understand why I like them. I like to write; she calls it a waste of time. I like to read; she insults me and says I should be cleaning. I like archaeology; she says I'll never make it. I really don't know how I can save it. |
| Question: Is my husband right about this? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 07:07 AM PDT When we were first married, mom helped us out financially. That was many years ago. We are in a much better financial situation now and my husband Bill says we have a moral obligation to repay my mother for her help when we were first married. Now when mom wants or needs something no matter how big or how small Bill buys it for her. He is not keeping track of how much mom gave us and how much he is giving her. If mom wants it she gets it. Mom is very happy that we are doing this for her and I am very happy that we can do this for her. My problem is my sister and her husband are mad at us for "making them look bad". I assume but I do not know for sure that mom helped them when they were first married. They can well afford to repay her but I don't think they are. I discussed this with my husband and he said that is my sister and her husband's problem. He said we will continue to help mom as it is the morally right thing to do. Is my husband right about what he is doing for mom? |
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| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 06:42 AM PDT It means so much to my family and I and she refuses to listen. She s asking 250,000 and I can only afford 150,000. She doesn t care if this ruins her relationship with anyone and she s being greedy and spiteful. She won t even let us have anything from the house because she says it s going to her kids. Is there anything I can do? |
| Question: I'm 19 but my dad wants to keep me locked up in my home as much as possible? HELP? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 06:33 AM PDT So I'm 19, I've been working 30+ hours a week along with college. My GPA is at 3.7 and I've always paid my own tuition, got my own clothing/personal items, and other bills I have to pay regularly. Now I understand we used to live in a country with not as many people and it is widely different in this area. However, I've been here for 2 years and I know the area really well. I never go somewhere on my own unless I know where the area is. However, my dad is different.One time I was at my college with a friend and I wasn't going home for 1 hour. My phone was dying and I turned it off. However, I told my dad a few hours beforehand that I was staying at the school and that I would call when I was on my way home. He flipped his **** when he couldn't get a hold of me ASAP. He brought my brother and had him PULL ME off of the campus grounds with my brother yelling and grabbing my arms IN FRONT of the entire college lobby with tons of people. I had people come to me the next day asking if my family life was okay and that if I needed to I could go to a "battered women's help" on the second floor of the college. Now all I want to do is get away from this ******* house and work to spend some times with my friends at their houses. I've already stayed with one and now I'm going to try to spend the night with another friend the next day. He is trying his best to get me to stay, acting mad, telling me about kidnappings, calling me ignorant and too trusting. I'm so ******* stressed... |
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| Question: My mom is crazy. Abuseive. Tired of it.? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:48 AM PDT I'm in high school in a junior and I'm trying to take classes to help with college and I work a part time job everyday after school and my mom says I'm worthless and I don't take or have any responsibility and all I care about is myself and I'm a ******* whore should have been an abortion and a lot of other good stuff. How can I deal with all this? I'm only 17 and she never taught me how to do anything in life. So I'm just trying to figure things out for myself. She's super verbally abusive every day. I can't remember a time when she didn't scream at me. Hmm what to do? |
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| Question: Sister doesn't have a house key? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:40 AM PDT My sister moved out a while ago and had to move back in. But the thing is my dad doesn't trust her because of the stuff she use to do when she lived here. She use to steal, sneak people in, do drugs, steal his car and a lot more. So he won't give her a key, I'm pretty much home all the time. But she goes out until 3am sometimes so I have to stay up to let her in. In the morning shell come home at 7 if shes been out all night. She wont tell me shes not coming home so Im knocked out because im so tired. So i dont hear her basically banging on the door. So shell throw things at my window. My dad said she has to earn his trust back but he's not the one staying up until 3-4am to let her in or losing sleep because of it. I personally think if he doesn't trust her that much that she shouldn't be living here. It's really annoying because I feel like a babysitter and I'm starting not to trust my own sister. I'm 17 BTW if that helps, any advice? |
| Question: Does life really suck by middle age or is it just me? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:40 AM PDT |
| Question: My mom screamed at me and i feel horrible..? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:39 AM PDT Just a few minutes ago I mocked my mom, saying "geez" and she walked towards me, slamming a pot on table and backing me towards the kitchen wall. I didn't know what to do and she told me all about how I acted during the weekend. I did horrible. I felt horrible. She told me I was becoming my ingrate sister, Reagan. What should I do?? I feel horrible and I want to fix this, I keep trying but I'm doing everything wrong. Please help!! I want to help her.. |
| Question: My mom keeps annoying me? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:36 AM PDT Sometimes, i feel like she is doing this on purpose. Okay look. I am 13. I have been struggling with a few disorders. Yet, i still go to school, and study everything, i'm a perfect student but my mom doesnt seem grateful of it. She keeps screaming at me for everything, tells me millions stuff, doesn't let me relax, keeps reminding me and most of all PROVOKES me to speak up, and then putting the guilt on ME. Like, this is seriously bothering me. I have came back from school, finished homework, and studied a few subjects, i need a rest, but she keeps reminding me for million times to study, to do this to do that, I cant take this. Why doesn't she ******* understand and why is she being an ungrateful *****. I cannot listen anymore, my head hurts, not from school but from her and her useless screaming. She now even keeps saying she will even hit me next time i higher my voice on her. Come on, what did i do to deserve this on top of all the struggle. So fricking annoying. Please help Also, even my dad is on my side. He tells her she needs to shut up, but she doesn't listen obviously. But dad is scared he is gonna lose her if he does sometimes so that's why he keeps shut most of the time. |
| Question: Turning 21 today and I feel unhappy, I wish I wasn't alive. I don't have anybody? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:11 AM PDT So today is my birthday and I turn 21. The thing is my dad and brother are alcoholics so I'm upset that whenever they're in that state they get drunk and my brother was calling me bad names without reason, so they both don't talk to me. I work today and my mom doesn't remember since she's always working and she lives in other city. My cousins dislike me because im not on their level. The friends I had in high school, I cut ties with them because of things that happened before I can't trust them and others dislike me because I do stuff I like like going to volunteer so I go to different places which is the only thing that keeps me up and positive, to help others. I'm also not close to my moms family, they treat me differently. they never talk to me and if I try they really seem like they dont want to talk to me. I don't have anyone and it sucks to not have friends or no one that cares. I wish I could end my life , but im a coward. I always end up not doing it and I feel unhappy. I dont know what would happen later on, but right now I feel like going far far away and disapear... Anyone ever gone through this? I need advice |
| Question: I feel very intimidated in my father's presence? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:09 AM PDT Whenever he's in the same room I instantly feel my body stretched. The sound he makes become a source of annoying distraction. When he talks to my mom I would feel angry. I think sometimes he indirectly put me down during his talk with my mom. We can barely communicate because he doesn't care about anything I say nor he ever tries to understand my situation. Do all other family have good relationship among all the members? |
| Question: What do I do next in life? How do I go to college? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:09 AM PDT So I'm 20 right now with a high school diploma. I'm currently working at a tire shop for about $11 an hour. I want to go to college, get a career, house, family but the problem is I don't have any family. I'm not gonna get into that but I'm living with my ex girlfriends parents and because we broke up I have to leave soon. I just bought my own car and im getting my license soon. What's the next step? It feels like in high school they taught me bullshit I didn't need to know now I'm lost and don't know how to be an adult. |
| Question: Looking for a particular instrumental? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 04:44 AM PDT For years I've been trying to find the instrumental.. Just the BEAT to this foreign song, "Moy Put" by Timati & late Russian R&B singer Ratmir. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=84nEaOT18Rk Any help will be greatly appreciated |
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 04:43 AM PDT 100% MY OWN MUSIC!!!! I understand that popular music websites, such as "seekasong" and "beemp3" are not exactly "file hosting" websites, they're basically indexing websites that "crawl" through the Internet to find MP3's with specific credentials. Where would I upload my mp3's for these "crawlers" to find my mp3's, to make it easier for people to find my music, simply by typing in my artist name, song title and ".mp3" into a search engine? Thanks. |
| Question: Is My dad Mentally Abusive or just really strict? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 04:40 AM PDT I have depression and I was suicidal at one point, I have days where I lock myself in the room. My dad wanted me to go out with his girlfriend (That I didnt like). So I started crying because I told him I want to be alone, He yelled at my "Cry like a baby" I was shivering in fear. He would always break my things. Take every single thing away from me for stupid reasons. He took away my sheets. One time I tried to run away from home because my mom's house is a mile away and she said i'm allowed to when he's hurting me. He followed me with his car every where i went and take pictures of me and put them online when Im not aware of it. Every time he's calm he's always in DENIAL of hurting me. He threw away my food and said you're not eating tonight and always I'm not safe in that home. He would call me names like "Baby" "be a man ******" He is always in denial of every illegal thing he did. I recently recorded him threatening to hurt me and he found my voice recorder (MY MOM GAVE ME) and broke it. (The court forces me to see him and my mom is going through a custody battle) I called the police he would always do mind tricks and lie to them and get ME in trouble Do you even think he needs HELP |
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 04:34 AM PDT Am worried please help |
| Question: Should my mom keep taking my phone? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 04:33 AM PDT So my mom decided to try this new thing where she takes my phone up every other day, at night so I get enough sleep, and I don't get to have it till the next morning. I've been trying to convince her that no, she doesn't need to do that because now that schools started, I know that I need lots if sleep and know when to put my phone up. She doesn't seem to understand that though :/ we continuously argue about it. Yeah I do sometimes use my phone at night, but I have lots of amazing friends that live in other states that I love talking to constantly, and it's kinda hard to do that when I can't even get on my phone at school, I come home with all these things to do and I rarely have phone time. None of my friends do this, it's kinda embarrassing. I'm not sure how to convince her that this whole phone rule is stupid, please help. Thank you! |
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 04:12 AM PDT my sister took NY glasses accidently and is already on her way to school by bus. How will I go to school now and what should I do. My dad says I have to go because there is no writing but I know there is writing involved. My mom allows me to stay home and my dad doesnt . I might be forced to go to school by my dad. How will I survive in class because I cant see words at all. I can see objects but I can't see words. |
| Question: Entertaining 9 and 6 year old boys? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 04:08 AM PDT I'm babysitting my younger cousins tomorrow night while their parents are at Parent Information night. I want to bring something for us to do but I'm not sure what. The younger one has a peanut allergy and I am NOT giving the older one sugar, he's crazy when he has sugar. |
| Question: Good Decision making in Philadelphia? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 03:19 AM PDT When I sent the E email about choices in Philadelphia... to my friend. He responded by asking me what choices I made. Was my choice to Drop out of School a Choice ? Was my choice to go live my early life beating people up a Choice ? Was my choice to act the way that I did, from age 5 to 13 a Choice ? Was my choice to treat my mom the way that I did a Choice ? What good choices have I made I told him that whether he wants to hear it or not, isn't the issue... but the reality is I never made 1 single choice at all, good or bad. Because I never had any put in front of me. I was tormented and abused and bullied every single day, day in, and day out .. starting at age 5... The very next day after I tried to play some basketball with a group of rotten core teenagers with no lives. No choice about my behavior existed from 5 to 13. Lets talk about how I treated my mom. She and my Dad, refused to leave that disgusting hell hole. So how I treated my mom, was not a choice. The beating people up No that was not a choice My other choice was to be beaten up everyday because that's Philadelphia, that's how they act there, they're monsters As for the dropping out of School When you spend 7 years in a school that teaches you nothing, and gets you nowhere.. and then sends you off to a regular high school Amongst kids who act no better, you drop out No choice exists there either So I made, NO choices and I'm LUCKY to be where I'm at today You're the one with the choices Do you agree with my statement to him ? |
| Question: How to cope with my mum hating me? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:33 AM PDT My mum was in an abusive relationship with my dad for 20 years, where he would physically and mentally abuse her, manipulate her and cheat on her. Recently he snuck out of our house while mum and I were asleep, and got a restraining order on her. The only reason my mum ever had me (which she has told me on multiple occasions) is that my dad begged her and all she wanted to do was make him happy. She constantly calls me names and cries about how much she misses him, and I try to comfort her while still maintaining that he's a horrible person. It's never enough. Now that she can't blame him, she constantly blames me for everything that goes wrong. Every time I talk about my future she cuts me off and makes it obvious that she's not interested. I'm fed up of always having 1 day a week where she's kind and nice and motherly, and then going straight back to this self loathing shell. I love my mum and it kills me to see her like this. I want a mother-daughter relationship where we can have a girls night in and watch chick flicks, or go shopping and check out cute guys. What can I do to help her get out of this self destructive mindset? |
| Question: I don't love my mother...? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 01:54 AM PDT When I hear the sound of my mother's voice, I cringe. When I see her face, I struggle to keep a calm composure. Although she tells me that she loves me, her words feel like nothing more than a common courtesy. When I was a child, she told me that she couldn't have a special relationship because she couldn't hold me first. She has even gone so far as to openly admit that I am her least favorite child, referring to me as the black sheep of the family. I do believe she is capable of love, but for some reason she seems incapable of loving me. And now I find myself incapable of loving her. Whenever I think of my mother, I just feel...numb. I don't know how to get past this resentment I hold for my mother.I want to let go, but I don't know how. Every time I see her it feels as if an old wound has been reopened. Does anyone have any advice? |
| Question: I can't forgive him for the way he treated me during my pregnancy.? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:30 AM PDT When we first found out I was pregnant he acted happy but it only took him afeew days to change. He called me lazy because I didn't want to do anything On weekends but sleep. He then got mad at me because we where arguing about something and told me that I was a fat bit*h and that all I did was eat. A few weeks after that he shoved me on the ground stomach first. We didn't see eachother but two months and then when I saw him for a weekend he got mad at me because I was making him take me home andafter arguing he kicked me out of his car on the side of the freeway and then told me that he had told me to get rid of the baby and that I was the one who kept her. After another argument and him being drunk he told me that if he got arrested for driving drunk he would beat me up. A month before I gave birth he got drunk with his friends and he started talking about this ladys vagina and how she was the best he ever had, while I sat there next to him. I still live him but not like before, the love i had for him turned to hate. I want to leave him but he won't leave me alone and at this point I depend financially on him since I don't have a babysitter for the baby to work and my family won't take care of her. |
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