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- Question: My mother gets mad when I spend time with cousins?
- Question: How old do I need to be in order to cut ties with family members in NC?
- Question: I have no space to revise?
- Question: My parent's are not paying my bills?
- Question: Isn't this terrible?
- Question: How do you deal with other people's grief?
- Question: Do my parents have to sign for me to move in with a close family friend/member?
- Question: Is it weak for a man to stay good friends with a girl he liked but who is not romantically interested in him?
- Question: Why did this girl care so much ?
- Question: Should I tell my family that the woman I'm planning to marry is a prostitute?
- Question: I want to kill myself .?
- Question: Im scared of my dad. Help?
- Question: Why the hell does se come home every weekend?
- Question: Feel bad but mad?
- Question: Living with dysfunctional family?
- Question: My 12 year old brother lost his best friend to suicide hours ago. My parents, twin brother and I have know idea what to do. Any tips?
- Question: Need some help?
- Question: Are my stepdaughters rude?
- Question: How do I get my mom out of the house for a while?
- Question: How would an arrest effect a sponsored immigrant?
- Question: I love my mom more?
- Question: How can I convince my Parents to let me get a pygmy hedgehog?
- Question: My mom still calls a penis "peepee"??
- Question: How do you get through a long family outing when you'd rather just stay at home and take it easy?
- Question: How to tell parents SOMETHING REALLY BAD? FIRE ACCIDENT?
- Question: I can't talk to him without getting mad? TEN POINTS?
- Question: What does mother-in-law/father-in-law mean?
- Question: Found out my 18 year old sister has a sugar daddy?
- Question: What can I do?
- Question: How to change my 2 spoiled daughter?
- Question: My mother keeps giving me money?
- Question: What do I do regarding my single mother?
- Question: How can i get rid of my abusive mother?
- Question: How often do you get together with family?
- Question: Jealous of my brother, what do I do?
- Question: Should I have fought ?
- Question: I am beside myself with dealing with my crazy sister in law?
- Question: Am I going crazy over my neighbor?
- Question: Do step parents treat you differently when they get their own kids?
- Question: Why does my mom always do this?
- Question: Did I handle this situation correctly?
- Question: So my Aunt is really making me so angry. She keeps insulting my mom, her sister, and she won't stop! What do I do to make her stop?
- Question: My sister is keeping my granddaughter away frome what can I do? Daughter in rehab and sister trying for temp custody?
- Question: At what point do cousins have no more genetic relationships?
- Question: Please help me!!?
- Question: Was I the one being wrong to my step mother?
- Question: My parents don't let me be alone at home and they are protective ?
- Question: How to get around my overbearing Grandmother without being disrespectful?
- Question: Do you think you'd love your stepmom more than your own mom?
- Question: Live with mother or father??????
- Question: He don t think he s the father but I know he is help me on this please?
- Question: What would a perfect song for a mother to dedicate to her daughter on her 11th bday?
- Question: What do I do regarding my single mother?
- Question: Does my dad care about me?
- Question: I'm too ashamed to face my family because I dropped out of high school?
- Question: Can You control wetting the bed?
- Question: Is there any way I can choose which parent I want to live with?
- Question: How do I get my mom to stop sleeping in my bed when she gets drunk?
- Question: Is it stupid to run away?
- Question: I lost my mom's 20 dollars.....T^T?
| Question: My mother gets mad when I spend time with cousins? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 01:41 PM PDT I have some cousins (they are brothers and sisters) that I am close with. Lately I have been spending a lot of time with them and planning lots of trips. My mother isn't very close with some of them. She thinks they are "ungrateful and stupid people" , her words. She thinks I am stupid and should be doing lots of other things than spend time with " those people". What do I do? My mom is a control freak. |
| Question: How old do I need to be in order to cut ties with family members in NC? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 01:32 PM PDT I know this is terrible especially for parents but I feel like its the right thing to do. It wasn t my mother s fault but really mine. She feels that if I make any legal issues itll come back to her and she ll be responsible. I don t want that to happen so I want to cut off legal ties. I am still living with her but I am joining the navy for my future career and college education. Not to mention the benefits so as soon as I can get my own house or apartment with my own finances and capital I would like to cut ties so she won t have to worry about any future mistakes coming back around to drag her in too because lets face it I m gonna make mistakes whether it be legal or personal. Basically what I m trying to say is that I want to support my self completely. |
| Question: I have no space to revise? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 01:30 PM PDT We have 4 bedrooms in my house, 1 is my brothers 1 is my mum's and 1 is my sisters But the other is bigger than the rest so me and my 2 sisters have to share it, but out means that I always have no space to revise and study because there's no desk and my sisters are always doing things on the floor. My bed is to small and there's no other place in the house. What do I do. I'm in year 11 |
| Question: My parent's are not paying my bills? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 01:28 PM PDT Okay, so I'm a 20 year old full time college student. My girlfriend are living at my parent's house while we commute to college (we did have our own apartment but my parents offered us to live here). I have two part time jobs (Paramedic and Pharmaceutical Technician). Now, to be clear, I'm not handing my bills off to my parents expecting them to pay for them, they straight up said they would while I was in college. However, over the past couple of days when I checked the mail I've gotten two things that say my account is being turned over to a collection agency. I'm irate because this is basically destroying my credit for life. It's not like my parents were like "hey, pay this." They never told me. The last thing they ever said about bills were "We'd love to have you live here and pay your bills while you're in college so that can be your main focus." |
| Question: Isn't this terrible? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 01:24 PM PDT There's this girl I know. She's ten years old. Her real mom and dad were abusive so she got adopted by this nice couple. She has 7 bros and 3 sisters. 11 in all. This happened when she was about five. Five years later her fake moms heart starts failing, she dies at about 3am. Her and her siblings come to school the very same morning. She cries but then gets over it. She turned 11 and her fake mom wasn't there for it. Even though it was just her fake mom, she was basically her real one at heart. Two months go by, all is well. Then her 15 year old sister gets raped by her fake dad. They get put in foster care, and then all is well for a week. Then an incident which is too hard to explain happened, so they had to moved in with a new foster mom. All his has done some sort of damage to them and one of her sisters wears gloves to school and won't take them off because she " has ice powers ". They are the freaks in the school. Isn't that a terrible life? |
| Question: How do you deal with other people's grief? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 01:14 PM PDT My dad just told me that he is leaving to Russia because his dad is in the hospital. I have no idea what to say to him. |
| Question: Do my parents have to sign for me to move in with a close family friend/member? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 01:10 PM PDT Hi im 15 years old My parents are moving to Kelowna but a family member has offered for me to stay with them for 2 years and I need to know if it's legal for that to happen because I really can't afford to move |
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| Question: Why did this girl care so much ? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 12:29 PM PDT This girl has a twin brother who has high functioning autism that is pretty noticeable. Someone invited him over and made a "dinner' but put laxatives in his food- or something like that, as a funny prank. She got really upset and was like crying a little bit- or about to cry. Why would this upset her so much? It didn't happen to her, it was her brother. |
| Question: Should I tell my family that the woman I'm planning to marry is a prostitute? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 12:21 PM PDT I'm a 25 year old man and I've just recently proposed to the most wonderful women on earth ! she happens to be a prostitute or was, she quit right after I proposed, despite the idea most would get she's an absolutely amazing and beautiful woman she had her reasons for this job, you wouldn't imagine the bullshit she went through and it's kind of messed up that society makes it even worse. We were neighbors that's how we met, she told me she was a prostitute after I asked her out on our first date but I didn't really care because I knew what a great person she was, she was honest from the start and didn't want me to fall for her before I knew who she exactly was. Now should I tell my family and friends about her ex-career I mean would they understand and see her for the wonderful person she is or would they look down on her, or should I just cut the drama and not tell them, I mean it wouldn't hurt them if they didn't know. |
| Question: I want to kill myself .? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 12:21 PM PDT ive tried so many times . but either it doesnt work or i cant go through with it . i want to die . my moms in the military so she is never home . im scared of my dad ( see my last question ) and my brother is leaving for college next year . i hate my life . i get bullied in school . i have no friends and i always feel alone . i want to end it all . i dont know what else to do . |
| Question: Im scared of my dad. Help? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 12:17 PM PDT So i live with my mom my brother and my dad . i love them all but sometimes i feel like he( my dad ) hates me . like he gets mad at me all the time for simple stuff . and sometimes he gets mad and will start saying stuff under his breath like i cant hear him . like when we were out one day i did something that made him mad and under her breath he was like " i swaer to god " .. something like that and all this other stuff. same as when we were in new Jersey and thats why i was crying that night at my grandmas house . i don't even want to be near him sometimes because i feel like i will do something wrong and make him mad .. and i don't want to feel afraid of my dad because i know i shouldn't be . but i don't know, sometimes i am . when he's mad he gets so scary . its like pure hatred in his eyes . i feel like one day i might make him too mad or something, im scared he will hit me or worse. and then i feel bad because i shouldn't have to be . i don't know what to do anymore . |
| Question: Why the hell does se come home every weekend? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 12:17 PM PDT My sister suppose to be off in college but comes home every damn weekend. She was told if she doesn't help pay rent she had to go. So she decided to go but come home every weekend keeping everybody up and stuff. I'm so sick of that little spoiled brat. She doesn't have to pay but comes home? Do I have a right to be mad.? I mean she said she wasn't ever coming back but be here more than school? Like why would anybody ditch college just to come home every ******* weekend. It's like 2 hours away by the way. |
| Posted: 03 Sep 2015 12:08 PM PDT so when I got off the bus today my mom was taking pictures of me getting off and I was embarrassed so I didn't look up and now she is going on saying if u want to be a jerk I can be one too and she is being a total ***** right now and I feel bad about it but I'm pissed that she won't let it go there is always tomorrow like damn I don't even want to talk to her that's how bitchy she is |
| Question: Living with dysfunctional family? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 11:59 AM PDT Please advise me im really confused. My parents got separated when I was 1 year old and I have two elder brothers. After their separation court decided that I will live with my mother and my elder brothers with father. We grew up somehow and my mother married another man when I was 12 and gave birth to 2 sons. After that she started being really harsh with me. Later on I discovered that she is a narcissist and it was unbearable to live with her after her second divorce now. My step brothers are still very young and their father left them because of my mom's intolerable behavior. When it was no longer possible to live with her I came to my father for support. He made me continue my education, paid my fee and all was ok but soon I realized that one of my elder brothers was a narcissist too just like my mother and being the most vulnerable of victims I was his target. He used abusive and harsh words and used to shout at me. I had no escape. Somehow . I can not tolerate all this anymore. Our society is mostly male dominated one and if I being a girl will go find a job to be financially independent its likely that I will get harassed at work by dirty looks and words of men because its common here. My father wont allow me easily for the job as well. And in our culture friendships with males are like a taboo. My parents aren't even considering my marriage. I am feeling trapped please advise me what to do. |
| Posted: 03 Sep 2015 11:55 AM PDT He was balling his eyes out when we told him and he was saying he wanted to die and he couldn't take it and stuff. What can we do?? |
| Posted: 03 Sep 2015 11:53 AM PDT So my husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. I love him. His younger brother is getting married and im proud of him. He wants to follow in my husband footstep. I think its adorable. So his brother wanted to go tux shopping a year before the wedding. I had a Friend pass away th Monday Before. We were unsure when the funeral was. And my husband was worried about me. He asked his younger brother postpone the tux shopping. He was nice about it. Our mutual friend was a dismay and yet he should it was his gf/fiancee of 12 years. He asked if he could come over and help with funeral stuff with her mother and my husband agreed it was okay. Funeral ended up to be on a Sunday. Beautiful service. Then Tuesday of the following week his brother start calling my husband so many rude names and saying how ungrateful he was because he include him in the wedding and he bailed. My husband just said politely that tux shopping isn't needed to 4-2 months before the wedding a friend needed help and his wofe needed him. Now they have had issues before but its water under the bridge. I know how stubborn my husband is he will goon not talking to him like before I butted in and they started talking again but that was a year he didn't talk to him. Do I butt in do I just let him not talk to his brother. I understand my husband is standing up for me and I love it and love him... his brother can be a child at almost 25. But we all can be children at times. I dont know how tohandlethem |
| Question: Are my stepdaughters rude? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 11:48 AM PDT I've been married for 8 years now and have 2 stepdaughters in which I get along fine with and vice versa. I am a good step dad by my wife's admission. When my 13 year old and 19 year old come down the stairs they always say hi to their mom and not me. As if I'm not even there. I realize there kids but really? There not mean girls and are smart. I don't know what to think this has been going on for quite a while. Thanks |
| Question: How do I get my mom out of the house for a while? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 11:45 AM PDT I need to set up the house for her birthday but my brother has to stay with her and I really need the house to myself to decorate the place. How do I get her out of the house? |
| Question: How would an arrest effect a sponsored immigrant? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 11:40 AM PDT My mom has an islander boyfriend who is abusive, bothe verbally and emotionally, our family has tried to reason with her and get her to press charges and get him gone, but she won t, maybe do nubyfes ago be threw the vacume, nearly hitting my mom, I m too scared to do anything about it, he s fighting court currently... I just need to get him away from my mom. |
| Posted: 03 Sep 2015 11:29 AM PDT My dad is annoying and he always tries being funny with me after he yells at me. I'm a grade a student so he pushes me to do stuff and if I don't do it then he'll yell at me and make me feel like ****. One day, I had a test and I got a 94 and he yelled at me, took my phone, computer, Internet and all contact from my friends away and all I had to do was study. My mom is the complete opposite. She loves me so much. She drives me places and she barely gets mad. She has ALWAYS been the one to help me and help me when I'm sick.. She's been the only one that has actually been there in my life.. I feel so much more comfortable around her then my dad. Is this wrong that I don't love me dad as much as my dad?? |
| Question: How can I convince my Parents to let me get a pygmy hedgehog? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 11:02 AM PDT My Mom and Dad both like the idea of getting one however as I am 14 I will be going to university in 4 years (if it goes to plan!) And my Dad said I can t get one because there would be no one to look after it when I go. I have researched a lot and the cost would be split between my birthday and my pocket money. I have a younger sibling but she said she didn t want to look after it and I also have an older sibling who is currently in university. Thank you to any answers. |
| Question: My mom still calls a penis "peepee"?? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 10:31 AM PDT |
| Posted: 03 Sep 2015 10:21 AM PDT It's my sister's birthday today. She wants to spend the day out in the city going to lunch, a cheese tasting, a magic show and a long fancy dinner. I said I would drive in for the magic show and the dinner. But I'm greatly dreading it. I hate going out to restaurants, and this one in particular, will take about three hours to get through...It'll be one of those 5-6 plate meals. I hate just sitting and waiting. My family and I (mom, sister and I) aren't close enough to talk through it; it'll be awkward. Further, I've been feeling super depressed and am currently going in and out of the need to cry. I had trained hard all summer to play basketball -was super motivated- and was hit hard by the coach yesterday who wouldn't let me be on the team because of my schedule (I *have* to work - I would miss too many practices). I've felt so down about it. This morning, I knew I had to be pleasant and happy for my sister's birthday but I haven't found it in me. Just moments prior to saying Happy Birthday, I almost went into a crying fit. I'm surprised by how I feel but I know I was really excited to be playing.. I'm really dreading having to go and having to be around people. I can't pull out a happy, excited mood. I feel like if I'm around my family too long tonight, I'll just get snippy. I want to be alone. What do I do? Can I just go to the magic show and head out before they head out to dinner? My mom thinks my sister would be very disappointed. |
| Question: How to tell parents SOMETHING REALLY BAD? FIRE ACCIDENT? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 10:05 AM PDT Here's the situation - my mom and her boyfriend are REALLY in love with their house. We've been living here for about three years now, but they still treat it like it's a brand new house and EVERYTHING in the house always has to be perfect. It's gotten to the extent that we haven't even peeled the protective plastic of the fridge yet, and we've been using that damn thing for three years. So I've always had a thing where I burn a lot of my schoolwork. For some reason, I find my work really cringe-worthy, to the point where I can't stand looking at it. It was chilly outside so I decided to burn a few pages in my room, near the windows so it wouldn't smell. (yes, I know, terrible decision) I accidentally knocked a few things over and when the fire was out, I was left with some burnt plastic stuck to the window sill and a burnt hole in the window sill itself. I managed to clean up most of it and get the plastic off but I have no idea how to fix the hole. I know I've got to tell my parents eventually but I just really can't do it. I'm ready to take responsibility and pay for the repairing and whatever punishment they're going to give me but I just can't get myself to tell them. What should I do? |
| Question: I can't talk to him without getting mad? TEN POINTS? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 10:05 AM PDT I'm 17 years old and my parents are getting a divorce. We just found out in May that my dad has been cheating on my mom for the past year. He has lied, spent time with her children, and he even took her on extravagant vacations and told us they were "business trips". He was gone the day after Christmas because he went to a lake house with her and he turned off his phone so we couldn't contact him. It makes me sick to think about it. We wouldn't have even known about the affair unless my mom hadn't found a pricey receipt for a piece of jewelry in my dads bedroom drawer. My dad can't understand why I can't talk to him and why I'm so angry. I feel like if something happened to my dad, I would really regret not talking to him. I just can't talk to him without feeling so angry and I can't look at him the same. I don't understand where my father went. He was always such a family man and he seemed to really love my mother. What do I do? |
| Question: What does mother-in-law/father-in-law mean? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 09:41 AM PDT |
| Question: Found out my 18 year old sister has a sugar daddy? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 09:26 AM PDT She left her laptop open, he's 42 and they've been seeing each other for a few months now, She tells my parents she's stopping at her friends but ends up staying at their house for a week straight sometimes... now I'm starting to think she's lying What should I do? |
| Posted: 03 Sep 2015 09:03 AM PDT My 20yr old son died two weeks ago after a short battle with cancer. I took care of him at home and he died in the hospital. He was a special needs person and I loved him with all my heart and miss him too. I have been packing up his old medical supplies and bedding trying to get my home back to a home again. I live alone and cry a lot.. My problem is my Mother and ex-husband they tell me to stop my boo hooing and get a life. My Mom told me I lost 2 husbands get a backbone and when I express that its not the same she calls me apsycho. My sister and nieces told my Mom to back off and leave me alone. I tell Mom I want to be alone to work things out and mourn my loss. My mom and ex they say the most horrible things to me .( they do not think before they speak) Then my Mom wants me to clean his room out and sell his things and planning a garage sale. I told her NO and leave me alone. I can not take it anymore dealing with my sons death , my Mom, and my ex-husband. What can I do??? I am hurting so bad and please serious answers My Aunt suggested for me to go to a support group she lost 2 children and I am self conscious of my self because I have arare Neuro disease and my son had it to that's where his cancer originated from it. I feel guilty everyday because I gave it to him and if I had any other children they would get it too so I did not have anymore. I do not need character building just trying to deal with this |
| Question: How to change my 2 spoiled daughter? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 08:42 AM PDT I have a 17 year old daughter and 15 year old daughter, both are very spoiled, very entitled and it's my fault. My wife and I divorced 12 years ago and I got sole custody. I guess as a way of saying " I'm sorry you had to go through that" I just spoiled them rotten with clothes, money, etc. This summer, I think I've seen them up before noon four times. I asked them to get jobs, they whined, gave me puppy dog sad eyes. I ask them to do simple chores, they whine. I ask them to at least study hard, nope. I try putting my foot down, they fight back. What do I do? |
| Question: My mother keeps giving me money? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 08:34 AM PDT Im 18 years old and a freshman at a community college. Any chance my mother gets, she gives me money, but I dont accept it because I know my mother needs it for other things. I have a college checking account and its connected to her account, and today she put 150 dollars into my account. The money comes from the child support my father sends for my sister and I. I really want to give it back to her because I think it should go towards bills, but I dont have the option to wire money into her account. Plus, she wouldn't accept it, but I just feel so bad. A part of me wants to spend some of the money on art supplies and vitamins(it sounds random, but its for my health lol) but another part of me just wants to give it all back to her...Im thinking I should just put the money away into a savings account. Is it normal that I feel so bad about this? I never ask my mother for any money, or for anything really. I dont have a job currently because of my health, but I plan on getting all A's in my classes so that I can move on to a four year college to become a nurse and help her out in the future! Thanks for answering. I should clarify that I live in NY state, so my father has to keep paying the support until im 21 years old(which is strange because I'll be at a four year college then) And on top of that, I dont have a relationship with him or anything like that(its complicated) |
| Question: What do I do regarding my single mother? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 08:30 AM PDT Okay, she always struggled to survive financially and her debt will take a lifetime to pay off. Its a loan for basic things we needed in the house like a stove, washing machine, loungue suit (we didnt have a loungue suit or seats to sit on) and accounts and a lot of other loans. I had to drop out of my studies because there wasnt money, I worked at a job whch paid me very little and I still gave her something, even tho i culdnt. i wanted to save for a car, but she tells me that i must give the money to here rather, so i cant even invest. Investing is important. I started a better job after that and I earned slightly more than her. I paid my studies(studying law now) I had to take money from my studies and give it to her, that means i have to pay more this month. I also saved for e trip I won out of town where I won a competition and cant miss the opportunity. She asked to borrow my savings. I feel that she doesnt care about my studies or my savings. She expects me to help her pay her debt and I must work for her. I have goals. Goals to move out of my awfully bad area and she gotta move out with me at my expense cos she isnt married and cant afford to move. I am confused cos I would like to help her but i cant. I have a life and want to get somewhere in life. Her debt is in arrears for almost 10 years, all together it is over 100 000, even our rent is in arrears, everything. i want to complete my studies, get a better job, move out. She is stressing me out |
| Question: How can i get rid of my abusive mother? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 08:24 AM PDT Ever since i remember myself,my mom ditched me to go live her life,making me stay in my grand parents house. When i had nightmares at night,she d ignore it and not even get out of bed to re-tuck me in or calm me down,ever. She d just let me cry. When i was five and like wanted to know about stuff,so i d ask her about it,she just slammed the door to my face and wouldn t open no matter how hard i cried. She s always been comparing me to other children,mentally abused me by calling me fat,ugly,worthless,useless and the list won t stop..She shouts at me for no reason.She always makes me scream and cry with her comments about me and she threatens me that she ll kick me out or send me away,or abandon me to live her life bc apparently i destroyed it. She s the reason why i became suicidal and suffered with a bunch of disorders until half a year ago. I honestly tried to avoid her,i really did,but she always just won t let up until she sees me as miseable as her.Today i got five bruises and two nail cuts on me from her tantrum.I m done,i m so done. I want child services to take her away (i m 15) but how do i prove she s abusive?I mean she doesn t really hit me unless she s really really mad-she mostly sticks to the emotional abuse.Please help me,how do i convince cops/child services to take her away? |
| Question: How often do you get together with family? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 08:08 AM PDT I am use to getting together with family on Major holiday, Christmas/ Thanksgiving. Sometimes a kids birthday. My mother in law comes over every month and it's getting a bit much especially she critize about everything I do. (Why I cook so much food, why I chose those type of linens) do you limit relative stay? Sometimes I just want to spend time with my family. |
| Question: Jealous of my brother, what do I do? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 07:59 AM PDT I am 20 and my brother is 23. He has Social Anxiety disorder and can t work. My parents pay for his rent, utilities, and give him 1000 dollars a month spending money. Rent and Utilities is not much because it is a small cabin in the mountains but in total that must be around 2000. I get 200 dollars a month in allowance. So my brother gets about 10 times what I do. I still have to work to survive plus going to school I have like no free time. Meanwhile he does not hafve work at all he has all this freedom and can do basically whatever he wants whenever he wants. My parents say they help him so much because he is sick and I am not so I am capable of providing for myself. It is not fair.I would rather have social anxiety than be healthy if it meant I never had to work a day in my life |
| Question: Should I have fought ? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 07:57 AM PDT I was in the kitchen with my mother , sister and my sisters' boyfriend. My sister's boyfriend is good to my sister, but he happens to have very agressive reactions. Today he had one towards me, when I was playing with the dog, he shouted out of nothing. I told him he shouldn't act like that , my sister told him to keep calm. Then he told my sister brutally to shut up. then I said : "you are not allowed to talk like that " . and he answered : " What else ? " . I felt like beating the crap out of him, and show him he has to show respect. But I didnt. I thought that avoiding beating him up was better because he usually is good. Now I feel like a coward and a little girl because I let him get away with what he did. also I feel ashamed that my sister and mother have watched him getting dominance over me. Should I have fought him? should I fight him next time ? |
| Question: I am beside myself with dealing with my crazy sister in law? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 07:36 AM PDT My husband and I have only been married 13 months he is disabled well she was in a hurry hurry for us to get married. Keep saying the doctor was mentioning putting him in a home well now my doubts have sure caught up with me she is not letting the power of attorney go. My niece met her Friday because she had seen how stressed and worried I have been she goes and says she thought I would take care of her brother better then I am he has never looked like he does. He wears the same clothes every day he is slow I cannot shave or cut his hair his nephew does our neighbor how much she knows I do the best I can I have a 22 year old disabled daughter. My niece and I set a schdule for taking his showers hair and face same people will do or my niece told her that now I want to write a letter telling her how I did not appreciate what was said to me most are saying no do not do that. The stress and worry is killing me I do not like her never will now this and everybody do not write that letter except my elderly neighbor next door get a lawyer well true but like my niece said we need to build a case first in the meantime how do I just not choke her I wont her and I to stay our distance no lie sick and tired you hear me. |
| Question: Am I going crazy over my neighbor? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 07:31 AM PDT I have this neighbor who collects disability and stays home all day, he always seems to shut his door hard an it just annoys the heck out of me. I mention it to him but he could care less. What are my options here? When he talks to me its toxic. I don't like this guy or want to associate myself with him. |
| Question: Do step parents treat you differently when they get their own kids? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 07:12 AM PDT My parents got divorced and my mom abandoned me. And my dad end up marrying my mom's sister. (Ik how fcked up) but while I was the only child, she did care for me a lot. I never felt like she was my stepmother this whole time( I didn't know till I was 13 anyway) but when my dad and her got a son. I started sensing the different treatment. I was no longer important. And when they got another child, my stepmother has been doing so many differences. She's more hostile and bitter toward me. Always siding with her children and she only stands up for her children too. Never for me anymore. And I find it so fcking weird to have half sisters who are also my half cousins. My dad doesn't even believe me. He says I'm making it up and he keeps reminding me how she took care of me when I was small. Okay I get it! She was a good mother, but now she has her own kids. My dad and her have their own family. I don't feel like I belong here. I just fought with him when I told him to stop forcing me to call her "mom." And they make me feel so guilty and horrible for not accepting her as my own mother. They keep denying it and stuff. But I wouldn't be feeling like this if it was untrue. I've went through major depression and many psychiatrist sessions. I even tried to commit suicide 3 times. And my dad doesn't have any place to put me in, so he forces me to stay here. And if I do anything wrong or say anything to her, he keeps threatening to kick me out.( I'm only 17). |
| Question: Why does my mom always do this? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 06:44 AM PDT Every year my nana, cousins, and I go on a girls' trip somewhere. Usually we go to my meemaws because she's was sick, but she just passed away about a month ago so, my mom and I were talking about where we are gonna go in about February. And I told her that we talked about going to Savannah this year. All of the sudden she just like flips a switch and gets pissed outta nowhere. She gets mad that we aren't inviting my brother. When I told her that it's a GIRLS' trip, she keeps yelling and says "well maybe if you included your brother..." So, I don't understand why she is upset. We have been going on a trip for like 5 or 6 years now. And my brother is always complaining that he is surrounded by girls anyway. So I don't even know what she wants from me |
| Question: Did I handle this situation correctly? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 06:40 AM PDT I am a 20 year old guy with a 15 year old female cousin. She often comes to my house for help with her home work. If she studies late she will stay all night with me and I will drive her to school the next morning. She is just starting to date and she wanted me to tell her about boys, dating, and sex. I told her that is a conversation she should have with her parents. She said she can talk to her parents about boys and dating but it would be to embarrassing to talk to them about sex and she wanted me to explain sex to her. I give it a lot of thought and decided it was better she know the facts about her body and her reproductive system and birth control than not know this information so I gave her factual information. Then I told her it would be far better for her if she did not have sex until she was 18 and then she could make up her own mind about it. She said "You are my best friend and I will take your advice and not have sex until I am 18". I hope I handled this situation correctly. Did I? |
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| Posted: 03 Sep 2015 05:59 AM PDT My sister has POA of my granddaughter, her son is having six ideal thoughts wanting to kill people, I've file for guardianship what else can I do ? |
| Question: At what point do cousins have no more genetic relationships? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 05:08 AM PDT |
| Posted: 03 Sep 2015 04:56 AM PDT My father bought a new phone a modern one when I checked it I saw a porn stuff I was shocked in my place I keep wondering what i should I do I can t tell my brother ,mother so I installed a blocking porn app I just keep asking myself was it OK to do this ? I want see you guys what you think am I right or wrong? Thanks |
| Question: Was I the one being wrong to my step mother? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 04:35 AM PDT So yesterday, I invited a friend over to the house (still live with my parents) and I told my dad but I didn t tell my step mother. I figured that he was going to tell her. And he did. I figured I could just introduce them when she got home. So when she got home yesterday from work, she came in the house (didn t say hi or how you doing or anything to my friend) and the first thing she said was very aggressively, " Can you move your car out of my drive way!!" and just walked off. At that point I was already Afraid to introduce them because she had a attitude (as always) she the type of person anyways to act like a total ***** when she dont get her way. and walk around the house with a attitude. I specifically asked her times before did she want to meet my friend but she act like she couldn t make time. My dad has already met her. My step mother had a nerve to complain that my friend didn t speak to her when she moved the car but my step mother already had a attitude so I didn t blame her for not knowing what to say to my step mom. My friend said that seemed so mean. But yet I m the one that is suppose to apologize, I m confused. I know that probably should of asked her but my dad said it was OK so yea. so was I wrong? P.S. before I even met my step mother my dad had her coming around the house. They were dating a whole year before I even met her or knew who she was then a few months later ended up proposing to her. Then she moved in. So I dont see why she so surprised. |
| Question: My parents don't let me be alone at home and they are protective ? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 04:26 AM PDT When my dad is at work my mother always want me to be with her when she goes out for shopping and other things she never lets me alone at home. I'm tired of going out with her everyday multiple times , when I say I want to stay at home she says that she won't let me alone at home I don't know her reasoning. They use to leave me alone at home previous year. How can I talk to them so that they will let me be alone at home ? And they are too protective. When I'm at my room either my dad or mom comes to my room every 10 minutes like a ghost , it's like they are trying to catch me doing something, it's annoying. When I want them to not come to my room they're like "Are you doing something secret ?". And they don't let me use social media but I use it secretly anyways. I'm 14 btw. |
| Question: How to get around my overbearing Grandmother without being disrespectful? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 03:47 AM PDT I'm a 20 year old female who lives with my mom. My grandma and great grandma also live with us. Because my mom had me at 18 my grandma has been close to a mother figure my entire life. However my mom is still a mother figure to me and has done a great job. I've felt like my grandma has wanted me to cut out my mum entirely and she seems like she almost wants to skip a generation and pretend I'm her daughter and not her granddaughter. Well she's super strict and religious and now that I have a date with a guy I actually like I'm worried she will ruin it for me by interrogating and lecturing the crap out of me and embarrassing me in front of him. I don't mean the normal embarrassing parent stuff like hinting he better have good intentions. I mean like walking out into the drive way to make sure we don't kiss kind of embarrassment. Interrogating him at the door by asking overly personal questions kind of embarrassment. And this is a first date! I mean, my mom is chill. As long as I'm being respectful of myself and demanding the guy be respectful of me she allows me to be a baby adult (because that's exactly what I am). Im currently lying to my grandmother by telling her I'm hanging out with church friends when I'm actually going out on my date. I told my mom the truth and she's fine and understands why I don't want my grandmother knowing. But it's going to take a lot of energy to continue to pull this off if there are more dates to come! What do you guys have to say about it? |
| Question: Do you think you'd love your stepmom more than your own mom? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 03:42 AM PDT So I do. My stepmom is 30. We have lots of fun together and even she understands me better than anyone else. She's the best girl I've ever met and the most gorgeous one. I prefer to be with my stepmom But I feel guilty sometimes about this because she's getting more and more jealous of my stepmom every day. Should I tell her how I feel? What can I do to make her less jealous of my stepmom? |
| Question: Live with mother or father?????? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 03:20 AM PDT My parents are getting divorced and my dad is going to marry a girl. I should decide whether to live with my dad and his new wife in our house or to live with my mother in a ruined apartment. I'm just confused I really have no idea who to live with. Both my mother and my (stepmom) want me to live with them. What would you do? What should I do? please help me I don't have much time. |
| Question: He don t think he s the father but I know he is help me on this please? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 02:22 AM PDT My bf and I broke up in May. I had sex with someone else on June 1 and 13. I got my period June 15. My bf and I got back together June 25 and had sex nearly everyday. Now I m pregnant and he doesn t think he s the father. My next period was due around July 18, so I thought. We had sex nearly everyday from June 29 to July 10. I remember dates perfectly but somehow he doesn t want to believe anything I say right now. I think he s just stuck on the fact that I had sex with someone else. But we weren t together and he did the same and I don t throw it in his face. But I let him know before we got back together and I told him If he couldn t deal with it then we don t need to get back together. But now it s as if he s throwing it in my face everyday |
| Question: What would a perfect song for a mother to dedicate to her daughter on her 11th bday? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 12:41 AM PDT |
| Question: What do I do regarding my single mother? Posted: 03 Sep 2015 12:06 AM PDT Okay, she always struggled to survive financially and her debt will take a lifetime to pay off. Its a loan for basic things we needed in the house like a stove, washing machine, loungue suit (we didnt have a loungue suit or seats to sit on) and accounts and a lot of other loans. I had to drop out of my studies because there wasnt money, I worked at a job whch paid me very little and I still gave her something, even tho i culdnt. i wanted to save for a car, but she tells me that i must give the money to here rather, so i cant even invest. Investing is important. I started a better job after that and I earned slightly more than her. I paid my studies(studying law now) I had to take money from my studies and give it to her, that means i have to pay more this month. I also saved for e trip I won out of town where I won a competition and cant miss the opportunity. She asked to borrow my savings. I feel that she doesnt care about my studies or my savings. She expects me to help her pay her debt and I must work for her. I have goals. Goals to move out of my awfully bad area and she gotta move out with me at my expense cos she isnt married and cant afford to move. I am confused cos I would like to help her but i cant. I have a life and want to get somewhere in life. Her debt is in arrears for almost 10 years, all together it is over 100 000, even our rent is in arrears, everything. i want to complete my studies, get a better job, move out. She is stressing me out I also started earning a good amount. I told her and she was proud of me for working so hard. She always asks me how much am I making extra every month.....it's awkward............. |
| Question: Does my dad care about me? Posted: 02 Sep 2015 11:47 PM PDT Tell me if this is true- If a father has a daughter that becomes a stripper or a whore or prostitute or something, it's the fathers fault for not teaching her how to be a proper adult, throughout the daughters childhood/young adult years? And If a father has a son that grows up to be using steroids, hanging out with people that do drugs, throws party's all the time while he's not home, leaves the house a mess, is it the fathers fault from not talking to the son about responsibility or maybe bonding with him better throughout his childhood/young adult years? |
| Question: I'm too ashamed to face my family because I dropped out of high school? Posted: 02 Sep 2015 11:34 PM PDT I had to repeat my senior year due to failing a couple classes. I still couldn't understand them and it was causing me to deal with constant depression and anxiety. So I dropped out. The only person who knows is my grandma because I live with her. Everybody else thinks I'm still in school. Graduating high school has always been a huge deal for my family. Every one has graduated and most have went to college. I feel like the idiot of the family and I didn't realize that my depression has gotten worse because of it. I cry nearly every day because I feel like such a failure. I promised everyone that I would finish and now it's too late to go back to high school. I was considering getting my GED but I know that is something "stupid, lazy, non motivated" people get. I work part time at McDonald's but I don't want to work at a minimum wage job for the rest of my life. I feel like I wasted my five years in high school being that I didn't graduate. I really just want to die to end these miserable feelings. How do I confront my family about this? I feel horrible and I know I disappointed them by doing this. If it wasn't for those classes, then I would have graduated. I'm stupid and I gave up because of frustration and depression. Please help. |
| Question: Can You control wetting the bed? Posted: 02 Sep 2015 11:17 PM PDT Im 16 and my sister is 9 and we share rooms. My mom had us at and old age (she is 53 now) which gives her a grandma personality meaning we dont get disciplined as we should. My little sister had bottles until age 5 and she knew it was wong because she would hide it from the public now every night she wets the bed but i dont get how if shes a very light sleeper? if i tap her or play a video loudly she wakes up. She always teases our little brother and talks back to my mom but cant get up to use the bathroom in the middle of night. We dont let her drink after 7 and she uses the bathroom before bed but each night she wets the bed and says "the reason i wet the bed is because it was cold in the house" which means she has no problem with being lazy and wetting the bed. WHen she spends the night with friends/family she never wets the bed , only at home . I think its because shes lazy and you have to kind of "push" to make pee come out so how come she allegedally doesnt feel it coming out? i think shes lying and afraid of gettng up in the middle of the dark room at night. Anyway I can explain this to my mom with facts backing it up so she can discipline her. |
| Question: Is there any way I can choose which parent I want to live with? Posted: 02 Sep 2015 10:55 PM PDT I want to live with my mom because my dad is a dick and he probably steals my money from my bank account since it is linked to his. Probably not honestly but I just don't really like him, any way I can choose. I've talked to so many people about it and they said it's possible to choose but I don't know if it's a simple talk or court but my dad is a stubborn asshole so yeah. Thank you :) |
| Question: How do I get my mom to stop sleeping in my bed when she gets drunk? Posted: 02 Sep 2015 10:55 PM PDT I have sleeping problems and my mom makes it worse. I felt like I was going to go to sleep around 11 but my mom came in my room and slept in my bed. By the way I usually get sleep around 4 so I only get 2 hours of sleep. I am 16 and I want to sleep in my own bed alone and it is to small for 2. So yeah I don't get much sleep because of my mom. And I want her to stop doing this because I was about to have a good sleep until my mom ruin it. I have asked her to get out of my room but she says it's her house and her room. I am not making any of this up. |
| Question: Is it stupid to run away? Posted: 02 Sep 2015 10:41 PM PDT I'm 13 and things have been bad lately at home and I've been having thoughts of suicide... My parents verbally abuse me. they always have something to say about me. What I'm wearing is ugly, the music I listen to is stupid, I'm ugly, I'll never get anything friends. They always put me down and the other day my mom and I got into an argument about this and she told me I could leave if I wanted to. I really want to leave just to get a break. I want to do something new and exciting. I just want to have fun and forget about this for a couple of days and go on a trip. Yes I know the dangers but I live in the nicer side of my town so it isn't really something to worry about so much. I don't have money but I can bring food and pack for a couple of days. I just want to take some time off and relax from all of this. Life can be really stressful sometimes and right now that I'm a teenager I'm overwhelmed with the pressure of being perfect. I want to go an adventure. |
| Question: I lost my mom's 20 dollars.....T^T? Posted: 02 Sep 2015 10:39 PM PDT So after school, my friend and I went to the food truck to buy some food. I bought some food and I try to open my first pocket on my backpack on my back so basically I unzip my pocket while my backpack is till on my back. I'm guessing it fell off because I had to pay $20 for a trip afterward and I got the money from my mom. So when I got there I couldn't find the money anywhere. My chaperon payed the money for me and I have to pay her back $20 next time so basically my mom have to pay $40 on a 1 and a half hour trip. It was suppose to be 3 hrs but I had some difficulties with variation. How can I tell my mom I lost her $20 and how I have to owe my chaperon's money back? PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! T^T Ps I feel VERY bad...... |
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