When I was at her relatives' place and they called me 'whitey' or 'milky', and they had remarks about I didn't fit in, she all told me because I didn't get a word except for facial expressions. Well, she said 'try it once, so you know how it feels. It doesn't do you any bad. There are people who deal with this costantly.

So my girlfriend was virgin and I was not. She knew it. As we made love, it was alright. I felt all sorts of emotions, love, affection, happiness, felt like a dream, it was so romantic and at the end I felt empty and my heart was full and racing so fast, I helt her tight and got lost in the softness of her skin. We cuddled and felt like it was more love and romanticism than groping around, I felt bliss. Then at some point while I haf my face literally berween her breasts and she was holding me in het arms, she asked me about my previous relationships. I tried to avoid that so I just said, it doesn't matter, because now I am with you. She asked me if I loved them/her, I said... not as much as I love you. Then she started questioning and said, so you lost your virginity to some girl before me, while if I had done the same you would have called me names and never loved me. I said that's not true, and that guys have no virginity it's just a girl thing, then she said if she hadn't been virgin I would have never loved her (which is somehow true, cause I couldn't accept the idea of her sleeping and doing that with another guy), started crying and told me I didn't really love her and told me to go back to the other girls (she is somehow sure that I have been with many girls, when they are just 3). She turned her back to me and started crying and sobbing. I said don't act like this, everything was alright one second ago, why did you bring this up?i tried to make her turn to me but Elbowed me. I tried to kiss her shoulder and I ended up with an elbow right in the rib. At the end I forced an hug on her and tried to make her feel better but she just kept crying in my arms. What did I do wrong here?

My girlfriend and I are going to get married in august, we hope the lockdown will be over til then. Today as we were talking about invitations she told me only her parents and two friends of hers were going to be there. I was like, what? My family is very big and warm, there will be many cousins, aunts, uncles, all my friends... I asked her if she was sure she wasn't going to invite her aunts and cousins but she said no, they are like strangers and they think they are better than me because they are richer etc. I was like, that's sad... she said 'I know, but that's the way they are. They never accepted me or cared about me'. She's been living here for 6 years and no one bothered to send a stupid message asking if she was ok. Alright then. But I noticed she is a bit jealous about the fact that I have such a family while she is basically with her parents. She also cried and asked me not to mention her childhood again or her family. I was just thinking why... why is it like that? Years without asking how are you? She also told me that they're very caring with their friends and foreign boyfriends. But with her they were really mean. I'm sorry for her. But I will invite my relatives anyway.

I need some advice here. My girlfriend, 20 years old, is not english. And for me it was never a problem. Until my family started complaining with the whole culture thing. They do like her, but they are afraid cultural differences may be a problem. My gf is european by the way, from southern Europe. They are not racist but they don't want to deal with foreigners and are good people, and don't want to mess up with foreigners who are not good. Anyway. My girlfriend always felt sort of out of place at every family meeting, til she stopped going at all. We ended up continuing our relationship on my own. On the other side, her parents have always been warm and good to me. Especially her mom, has treated me like I was a son. Problems starts when last summer I went to my girlfriend's country. We had lots of fun, but when I was presented to her relatives they always treated me like some kind of foreigner, called me 'whitey' or 'milky' as she translated, and once I felt really out of place with people who considered me like some kind of attraction or weird. When I complained about roads being dusty, she told me don't act like some kind of princess, you're a guy, come on. And was annoyed at me being so weirded out by this new world. I say this caus emy gf has refused to be at my niece's baptism, cause she says she doesn't want to deal with church. But you can do that for me,,, no she said. I won't. No one has ever done things I wanted but I am still here. I think she is annoyed with me.