How do girls even begin talking sexual with each other? What are you supposed to say without sounding odd.

I've been catfishing this guy who I used to talk to. And I really liked him so much. And then he ghosted me. So I pretended to be my friend. I told him my friend gave me your number and just started casually texting him again. And he kept on demanding a picture and assuming he was being catfished. I mean he's not wrong. I just feel bad and embarrassed because I made him feel uncomfortable. Now I just want to tell him the truth but sure how.... I was planning on just saying "i'm sorry i made you feel uncomfortable was never my intentions. do you want me to tell you truth or you just prefer i didn't text you anymore" just to see what he says. or tell him i'm sorry and that idk how to tell him truth. i still want to know why he stopped talking to me but don't know to bring that up. 

I really like this girl she is amazing to me and I think she is somewhat interested and I know for a fact she finds me somewhat attractive. Will god help me with her becoming something more?

I know it's easy for them to go on dates and to get laid but where is the part where it gets harder for them? Or is it just so smooth and easy for them 

You see some of the UGLIEST dudes with pretty girls. And not to mention there is a hoard of these stupid white wh*res who date some of the ugliest black men. Here in America you'd see a good looking white female dating a hideous black man with dirty dreads and gold grill so don't even try to tell me it's about being a gentlemen or any of that g*ddamn b.s.  I think both know that American women are dumb, brainwashed wh*res. Because I noticed I didn't have this same problem in Canada a couple years back, so it's definitely something in the water here in America. 

I'm mostly going by the fact that I've gotten the "I have a boyfriend" excuse so much. I figured what's the point if I'm just gonna get that excuse every time. That's why the last couple girls I thought I'd be potentially interested I just basically turned my head the other way, cause I figured what's the point if I'll just get that excuse. Although I know some of them are lies.

For instance you cant add a new girl on instagram because she might see your girlfriend in your pics or in your comments, facebook the same thing.. but snapchat is perfect! because i get to control whats in my story! anyone else agrees? i think snapchat is the best thing for us guys. for instance, when i want to talk to a new girl i like i tell her i only have snapchat because instagram/facebook are waste of time.  also i give out my nickname not my real full name so she doesnt look me up haha

I went on a date with this girl and she said she didnt feel anything romantic towards me after but I kept going after her and I would text her once a week asking her what shes up to. I would be the one to always text first about a week in a half ago we talked for like 2 hours ever since then weve been talking alot more almost everyday and even one day she text me first and then asking what I was up to. She added me on snap chat first too I thought I wouldve had to ask for hers. One night we were talking and she snapped me saying she was a little drunk and having inappropriate thoughts.Im dumb and inexperienced and I was confused too because she said she didnt feel anything towards me then she flat out said she was horny. She could tell I didnt do this often because she asked me. She said I wasnt good at picking up the cues or flirting and told me when a girls says that shes horny you should jump on it. This was all in a good manner btw she wasn't being mean. At one point she said she was turned off but having fun because I was being funny with what I was saying. She said she guesses shes just used to talking to douche bags and not good guys. I still got her tit pics though and I sent her a pic of my thing. I really think I ****** it up when I couldnt get hard and took 5 mins to send one back because after I did she said the momentum was gone but I tried to keep it going and asked her to send a pic of her thing but she asked me if Id be mad if she went to bed she was tired.  I said no i think I ruined it and she said haha no I had fun. We talked for like an hour the day after but ever since then we havent talked very much like we were. We talk for maybe 10 mins and I try to keep a conversation going but she ends up not texting back.She did tell me at one point shes horrible at replying and isnt ignoring me. I get she could be busy or have nothing else to say. Its got me worried because Ive started to like her alot more over all of this. She text me first the other day and we exchanged like 2 text each before she stopped replying and shes been doing that alot more than usual and the other day she opened my snap when I asked her a question but didnt reply. Im just going crazy thinking about what if she was becoming interested and I ruined it. Btw I dont text her again if she doesnt reply I wait till she does. This is probably making me sound needy but I overthink alot.

I met my (now) husband while he was studying in the UK but when he had to go home to Nigeria when his visa ran out in 2018 I decided to go with him because I was so madly in love with him nothing would stop me from being with him. I gave up finishing my degree, my job and the ability to see my family and friends all so I can be with him. So after spending 3 months in Nigeria we decided to get married so I could get my residency. The problem is I feel since I moved here things haven't been the same as they were with us when we were living together in the UK. In all aspects of the relationship. Also Recently I caught him using tinder and obviously it was a very big argument between us but he insisted that he was "purposely using it so I would see it" because he thought I was cheating on him. But I'm not going in to that because his reasons were not valid and basically he is wrong. Why would I go to all the effort of moving to Nigeria for him just to cheat on him? Anyway, I feel like he is lying about the reasons he's issuing tinder as I had a look and he seems to have been using for months. We have since made up over this matter but I'm still not fully over it and not sure I totally believe him. He accused me of a lot of things during this argument and after everything I have given up for him and done for him I feel these accusations are like a really big slap in the face. Im very confused about my feelings at the moment. What do you think?

Is this good revenge or just mean? She was being very toxic to me on many occasions and does not care about my feelings. So I decided to give her a taste of her own medicine. 

There is this girl I had (still have) a crush on since 6th or 7th grade (we're both in 11th now), I haven't had the courage to talk to her, we were only in the same gym class this year but now since schools are cancelled I don't get to see her lol.. but anyway we don't talk to each other, I am wayyy too shy to. Last night I had a dream about her, in the dream we kissed and then of course I woke up. I've had a few of those. I wish we talked to each other. I'm afraid to add her on snap or tiktok. I do have her on instagram. What can I do?

My mom was going back and forward basically saying that I was no big deal and basically saying who cares about me around me

I let here drive my car. Once I texted: I miss my driver. She: I miss driving too. Other time I texted: I miss you. She: Miss me as a friend?

My boyfriend said he's in a slump right now at work because he has no motivation to do anything. He says he knows exactly what he needs to do but can't bring himself to do it but when someone calls and asks something of him, he's on it right away. He said he needs to be motivated. What can I do as his partner? Not to solve the problem since I know that's on him but how can I help "push" him or inspire or motivate him without sounding pushy or nagging?

My boyfriend told me that he's gonna spend   the day Saturday (my birthday) playing a new video game with his friends. When I asked him "Do you know what day that is?" He said no, and once I told him that it was my birthday, and I wanted to spend time with him that day, all he did was offer for me to play with him. I got upset, and he said I was making too much of a big deal out of it. Am I in the wrong here? He always says that  I'm more important to him than video games, and yet he still prioritizes them over me. 

or a less experienced girl in her late 20's, for dating and sex as their partner?

In order to see if you are a brave guy who never gives up or gets demoralized or if you are a weak/coward guy Do many girls like it when a guy puts all his effort for them without getting demoralized or giving up? Anonymous: didn't you see it in the movies when a guy perseveres and finally gets to soften the girl's heart? Don't girls like brave men? But I think there should cases in real life when a guy got to soften a girl's heart after his persistance for her

do guys typically like it? or does it have to be more of a fetish? i want to surprise the guy im seeing with lingerie but i don't want to ask if it'll ruin the surprise.    okay so now that i know, do you think it matters if he is sleeping and i wake him up and surprise him or is that too startling? lol should he already be awake and i show him?

No dates? Noplace to go? I am happy to be married.

I want to sleep naked but how do I ask my parents?

There's a girl I'm taking to. However, we are only speaking through messenger. There isn't much of a way to meet up right now with the pandemic. How can I be interesting, and potentially funny to keep her amused and interested?

So im about to have sex with a guy for the first time and i have no idea what to expect.... am i gonna bleed??? Am i allowed to **** him in the *** after?? please only serious answers!

I need to add some backstory. We've been together for a little over 3 years and somewhere along the way my libido just disappeared pretty much altogether and I haven't been able to figure out why. So we will honestly go a whole month with no sexy and it's fine. But if he attempts to have sex with me and I reject it he will pretend like everything is fine but just act weird all day and we've had the argument so many times I know exactly what is wrong without even asking but I still find myself just not in the mood and the fact that he's upset makes it even worse for me. I need help I don't know how to fix it 😭🤦🏼‍♀️

im asian and some of my friends like to tease me about it to the point when I get annoyed. Especially since the covid19 pandemic broke out, they've been making jokes about me eating bats and stuff. when I try to ease it off or tell them to stop, they say im being sensitive. what should I do

My ex and I were together for 3 years and broke up. I was 14 and he was 15 when we first started to date and I had always wanted to be successful and so I was working hard to be in honors and AP classes and I had some internships as well. I always pushed my ex to do better in school and in life too. He use to tell me these sad stories like how he was abused as a child and was bullied and etcc.. but he made friends in high school and was happy with his family. I felt like he was cheating on me but I was afraid to ask him because I thought he will leave me. I know I was clingy but that's who I'm. He always look at me with love but behind my back he was say stuff like I'm too crazy or clingy but all I did was want him to become successful and I was picturing him and I together for the rest of our lives. I always made sure he was happy and that I don't hurt him in any way. He hates it when i talk to other guys even the guys he is friends with but he talks to random girls and text them too. Later on he cheated on me with a girl and then made a huge lie up that he was doing it for me and I broke up with him but then got back together. even though he told me that he cheated on me for me he told a Vice principal that he was playing with both the girl and my feelings in front of us. when I asked him about it he said he was just lying. But then again he cheated on me and lie to me again. Now for future reference will I be considered a bad gf if I pushed my bf to do better?  I don't know if it's a good thing that i was motivating him, standing by his side and constantly believe in him. He told me that I was a psycho for this and for being clingy but am I? will you guys date a girl like this or should I change this about me? 

I feel like I missed the time frame to meet that person, date for 2 years, fall in love and get married by the age of 28/29, and have 3 kids before the age of 35. Im 29, and yea I've been really close to a few times, but for whatever reason the relationships didnt work out. Is it possible that I just missed this, and that picture perfect life wasn't meant for me? I always kind of thought I'd have kids but idk I'm not DYING for them and I certainly wouldn't want to have kids on my own. It seems at this point in life searching for love for that partner just seems too forced/stressed. It's just easier to accept that that life wasn't for me, and that's okay. 

Ok long story short, I was in a really bad relationship and met another guy and became friends, over time it  started to become more so I left my horrible relationship and started seeing the good guy. The first few months it was so nice and he made me so happy, since then we have gotten a house together and he doesn't want really anything to do with me. He doesn't cuddle anymore. Half the time if I try to talk to him he's always in his own world. Our sex life went from every to when I bug him enough for it (he watches porn though). Since moving in together (2 years now) I have to ask him for sex and bug him for it bc he's always tired, or not in the mood, or busy. And I still get it maybe once a week. He never even buys me anything for my birthday. He just says holidays was never a big thing for him. We have our own home which is mine and he has a little girl that I raise bc the mom didn't want her. Am I just being used for a home and to be a mom? Is there a such thing as a guy who is never in the mood??? I can walk around naked and still get nothing. It makes me feel ugly, all his porn is of hot skinny blondes, I am skinny but not hot and not blonde. I don't understand why he doesn't love me, every time I ask him about it he just says he has a hard time showing emotions but yet before we moved in together everything Was perfect. What's going on? What can I do to make things good again?? 

I'm not even talking about dating wise. Why is it just hard to find nice guys to be friends with to share a laugh with? Now a days all guys want is hookup even as a friend, they may act like a friend for a week but then they just ask you send them stuff. Why is it just hard to find men who can be fun, want to just chat about random things and chill? 

Could she be trying to attract a certain man?

Long story short, I just discovered I have a sister in New Zealand. I just found out about her a few days ago. There's no denying we're related bc the resemble is SCARY. Anyway, I already cherish her. But I'm not sure how to keep the conversation going. We're both kinda shy but I really do want to build a strong relationship with her. Any ideas??

Is it bad that I send nudes to random strangers on the internet and get naked for them?  Maybe it is, I send nude videos of me too.

COVID 19 makes it worse but still have my nice mum dad little sister and lovely family. I am 27 is it normal to be virgin that age have no GF never kiss girl why did god make me this way if he exists.

So we work together but in different departments and we've known each other for nearly 2 years now but have only gotten close recently. Originally we matched on tinder and that's where it all started since then we've been talking on snapchat  We were at a party in November and that was the first night we kissed then we were at a xmas party and were also close that night then we were at a house party at the beginning of March and we spent the night together (we didn't have sex) but he said he respected that We have planned to meet up a few time's after this but he always bailed So obviously we've been working together since and are have been in contact on snapchat throughout all of this but he's never very flirty on snapchat (I know he's shy about these things and a little insecure but still) and never mentions anything that happen so I texted him a few weeks after the house party and asked where I stood and basically said that I can't do the hot and cold thing anymore it's too hard and he said he didn't mean to be cold with me and apologized and said he'd be more outspoken... Surprise surprise he hasn't been more 'outspoken' usually I would have let the whole thing go by now but it when were in work together he goes out of his way to talk to me and the way he looks at me that just messes with my head I really like him and I just don't know what to do anymore I also don't want to make things awkward in work (were both almost 25 btw)

I KNOW my partner of 19 years had an affair with a trashy woman. I need some ideas on how to destroy her life and get my revenge. I have a few ideas , but I want to do more than just get her fired.

I have been dating her for 2 years now, I love her and it's been great. But she texts some men that I really despise and she knows that, yet still does it. The texts are very normal, and it's barely a word or two everyday. I told her to stop or I'm ending it. She said I end a relationship over this, then I'm not the right person for it. What do you all think? 

I'm an Aries lesbian and I'm sort of talking to this aqua girl. She had her heart broke BAD by her best male friend and ex wife, who ended up together. This happened over 6 months ago. Contrary to my star sign, I have the patience of a saint (I've been through a lot and it's changed me for the better.) I don't mind being patient with her for as long as it takes. But here's the thing..  She claims that what happened to her changed her forever and she'll never love or trust anyone again. She's gotten comfortable with this "fuccboi" identity and basically uses it as an excuse to treat women like dirt, particularly women like myself who've shown her nothing but kindness and compassion .im assuming she acts this way because she's insecure and scared, at first it was cute and I saw it kind of as a challenge.. but I'm sick of being treated like crap by someone I've been nothin but nice to.  I've never attempted to rush or pressure her into anything either, though she's typically pretty distant. Being that she is as stubborn as she is, will she choose to remain a victim of her past circumstances forever, or is this behavior just a phase until she gets over her ex? I'm just wondering if she's worth sticking around for and all my effort if it's gonna be this difficult

I'm going to try and keep it short. Beginning of my relationship my boyfriend said he was doing hard drugs but wants to stop and now he has a reason to. Fast forward about 6 months he's in a different state doing work and I get a call he's in jail and was arrested for possession. Whole time we were together he was doing drugs behind my back and lying to my face and even his best friends were laughing at me because they knew he was and they weren't telling me anything. (They were also doing them too) Well present day ish he hasn't done anything hard, he smokes but that's fine with me. But now lately he just up and seems to lack communication with me and says he's working for his grandpa which he was until I got a bad feeling in my stomach to find out he's with those friends again. Since it's been about 1 1/2 yrs Since he's done anything bad I have some trust for him but not his friends because they've on multiple occasions have tried to get him to do the drugs again. I'm starting to get upset because he's not telling me he's going over there and it feels like he's hiding something. I can handle it just being a hang out but he doesn't say anything and that really bothers me. We fight about the lack of communication sometimes and most times were together it's great but it's like he blatantly doesn't listen to the problems I have even though he says if something's wrong he'll fix it. I love him to death but I'm at the point of I don't know if it's worth it anymore. 

I'm talking to this guy and we've been talking for maybe 2 weeks. We've been facetiming every night for the past 5-6 days and we always fall asleep while we're facetiming. I always let him know when I wake up that I have class and I need to go so we hang up the call. Yesterday after I hung up the call he woke up a few hours later and texted me good morning and I asked how he slept and he said he had some trouble because he was overthinking. He has some trust issues from past relationships and wasn't sure if I really liked him but I was letting him know that I did. He kept saying "if you say so". We facetimed again and I told him I was upset and he apologized and everything was fine. THEN this morning I had class again so I told him and I hung up. He texted me when he woke up and when i asked how he slept he said "i slept okay" and i said why and he said he was overthinking again. I asked him what he was thinking about and he said "i cant tell you. i cant explain it" and i said of course you can and he said "if you keep asking its gonna feel forced and its gonna make me walk away." So i said sorry and i wouldn't ask again and he's left me on read for the pst 4 hours. Should I text him? I feel like it's not fair for him to do that when i'm just trying to show him that I care. But should i text him now? And if i dont text him does he have a right to get mad and say "you didn't text me all day"