My wife pretty much always takes a shower sometime after we've had sex.  It's been suggested that I should probably not expect sex if I have been active that day or whatever, until a shower is taken.  She has stated that after she's taken a shower, sex wouldn't be 'possible' - as she 'just took a shower'. That's pretty much all wives, then?

My BF and I had been discussing about summer wedding but now obviously not going happen because of the virus. He said maybe close to the end of the year but even hard to tell at the moment. He also said "if you are in rush to get married, you can leave but if you can wait, that's ok". Does this mean he hopes I just be patient? He has told his parents about me and I think he sees me as long term because he also said "that's why I told my friends about you"

My friend is ordained, and we were dueling drunk. He told me that if I really loved Yu-Gi-Oh (I do) I would marry my deck. I jokingly said I do, and the next card I drew was the Happy Marriage spell card! My friend says that it's legally binding! I like to be married to my GF one day but there is no divorce themed card (I checked). How do I fix this before she finds out?

a divorced mother why she goes on vacation for 3 days with her friends without her children. her friends are without their husbands. She goes to find a fella ? 2 years ago this woman she had lung cancer. 

 He and I have dated 2+ years. We moved faster than any of my prior relationships. Lived together after month 3 of dating. It felt good, it felt right; Until I felt he was trying to control me. I felt that him telling me not to hang with certain people, not to do things for certain family members, not to drink, not to smoke, to be fully covered and that short dresses are whorish all made me feel he was trying to change me for his personal gain. I was slow about posting him on social media because I didn't feel sure so soon. He hacked my page and posted photos himself, I and his daughter. I found that very upsetting. Fast forward: Things then after got a little rough patch and never seemed to level back out. We would have more bad days than good. One day things got so bad that I got kicked out of the house. I didn't plan to look back but during the break up we found out I was pregnant. He moved me back in to keep me comfortable during the pregnancy but it was still emotionally draining some days. We had the baby and things had been great, no arguments...but I feel almost hidden. He has not posted a photo of our child or me and we use to post pics here and there. This man shows me in so many ways he loves me but when i comes to social media or his job, he will no longer showcase me. It hurts and makes me question is he uncertain or embarrassed of me.

How can I stop being jealous over my husband texting his ex-wife? I feel like they do a lot, but she cheated on him and left years ago. They have 2 kids and she is remarried.

a divorced mother why she goes on vacation for 3 days with her friends without her children. her friends are without their husbands. She goes to find a fella ? 2 years ago this woman she had lung cancer. 

How can I stop getting jealous or suspicious every time my husband and his ex wife text each other or call? They have 2 kids so most of the time it is about them. But sometimes it's other things whenever they call each other. I'm trying to be strong and not let it bother me. Any advice? Why do I feel like they are talking about other things? 

My husband's name is on his ex wife's car title. He said he would remove his name when the car is fully paid off, which will be in a couple of years. Should I let this bother me? They have 2 kids before I came into the picture. Would this bother you? 

I know a man who voluntarily worked 70 hours a week for years in order to have the best of everything. He later cheated on his wife and then sued for divorce. During the divorce proceedings he tried to reduce his hours to 40 in order to pay less in child support. The judge didn't go for it. She calculated his child support based on the last 3 years. He started working 60-70 hours again for a few years, but now he's trying the same thing again. What are the odds of it working? Is child support based on the child's needs or on the parents income or is it just up to the judge?

I live with my husband for 6 years, we have 4 children. Both work and split all the bills. I helped him get the job he has now in assumption that he will help out more with the family. He drives for uber. He always give me the impression thats the road is slow and he is struggling. Turns out he is making $2000 weekly and i and making $700. Yet   We split all the bills. Why would he do this to me. I have helped him so much. We do shop, party, hang out just work, take care of the kids and the house. Why? I feel so hurt

I've been seeing alot of couples elope because of coronavirus. And In most cases they were not keeping 6 feet apart and we're also kissing during their ceremony. Aren't those all violations of social distancing? This is how the virus spreads 

My husband would rather masturbate than to have sex with me. I want to have sex with him constantly and he knows this but he still sneaks around and jacks off. Why? Why does he do this?

Me and my wife have had a great 10 year relationship she's always by my side and comes straight home from work. We also take trips and go on dates on the weekends. There is only one problem she doesn't want me to have her phone lock password and I noticed she turned off some notifications. This is kinda shady? Or am I over reacting ?

My neighbor is 82 years old she is a huge busy body. She talks badly about EVERYONE in the neighborhood, She keeps a diary on what everyone does when they leave their home it's insane. One time I overheard her at a picnic making a comment about me and my husband and how we fight constantly and are likely headed for a divorce. She spreads rumors all over the neighborhood. She likes to sit on her porch and get our dogs riled up. We've now been fined and complained about on numerous occasion because of her. We've finally trained our 3 dogs not to bark now outside and one day she had the audacity to come over and tell my husband "I noticed your dogs have been quiet so I came over to see why." She LOVES to stir the pot and then sit back and watch it boil over. I found out she was the one who caused a HUGE issue with our neighbor across the street with my husband a year ago. He recently apologized about the ordeal. We also have new neighbors right next door and she's already talked badly about us to them and apparently told them to "watch out for us" The new neighbor TOLD my husband this. She's also apparently told everyone in the neighborhood I don't work and I'm lazy (I work from home). because my car never leaves. I'm NOT the only one she talks about TRUST ME. I can't even walk over our other neighbors house to deliver a piece of cake (today) within SECONDS she's at their door trying to see what I was doing. I can't take it!!!ant advice? Please I'm almost in tears! 

My husband and I recently relocated to a new state. for my husbands job. I'm not sure why it matters but it's really bothering me that we don't have a local area code. I'm noticing I'm getting looked over for jobs or I'm being asked "are you local?" Prior to interviews even though my address is right on my resume and I mention in my cover letter my recent relocation. Do most people change their phone numbers when they relocate somewhere? Just curious thanks!

My neighbor is 82 years old she is a huge busy body. She talks badly about EVERYONE in the neighborhood, She keeps a diary on what everyone does when they leave their home it's insane. One time I overheard her at a picnic making a comment about me and my husband and how we fight constantly and are likely headed for a divorce. She spreads rumors all over the neighborhood. She likes to sit on her porch and get our dogs riled up. We've now been fined and complained about on numerous occasion because of her. We've finally trained our 3 dogs not to bark now outside and one day she had the audacity to come over and tell my husband "I noticed your dogs have been quiet so I came over to see why." She LOVES to stir the pot and then sit back and watch it boil over. I found out she was the one who caused a HUGE issue with our neighbor across the street with my husband a year ago. He recently apologized about the ordeal. We also have new neighbors right next door and she's already talked badly about us to them and apparently told them to "watch out for us" The new neighbor TOLD my husband this. She's also apparently told everyone in the neighborhood I don't work and I'm lazy (I work from home). because my car never leaves. I'm NOT the only one she talks about TRUST ME. I can't even walk over our other neighbors house to deliver a piece of cake (today) within SECONDS she's at their door trying to see what I was doing. I can't take it!!!ant advice? Please I'm almost in tears! 

I'm going through it. Serious going through things. My wife of 6 years took my brother in law coworker home and after a sister birthday party. Timeline doesn't make sense cause she got home at 5 am and they close at 2 am. First she lies and says tacos. Two then she says they talked and she took a coworker home. Anyways story is mixed up. I've already told myself she done the dead the night. Whats my next step or what would be next thing for you? 

My husband and I can't come to terms on anything. Prior to marriage, I told him I didn't want to continue living where we currently reside, right next to his mother. She barges in my home 24/7 and although he's supposedly "talked to her" about it she continues to disrespect my privacy.  I want to move roughly 20 minutes away where we'll be in the middle of our families. Now, all of a sudden he no longer wants to be away from his family. I've told him since day 1 I don't want to be a stay at home mom. I'm pregnant with twins and had them put on waiting lists for day care. When I informed him of this, we got in a huge fight because he said we can't afford day care and that the amount that I make wouldn't even pay for day care. While it's true that I don't make much, I don't work for the money. I work to get out of the house and to socialize with people my age and have responsibilities that don't include house work. He's known this since DAY ONE. Now all of a sudden, I'll have to be a stay at home mom. I feel like I'm being forced to change and accept things that I never wanted prior to marriage. Things that he was fully aware of prior to marriage or children but I guess he figured he could get me to change my mind and I'm not. I've moved out of our home and into my mother's for now. I don't want my children growing up without both of their parents.  But I dread how my life will be if I stay. I'll lose my social life to stay at home with the kids. I'll have to deal with his mom busting in my house and bothering me all day everyday. And I know it'll be even worse once the twins are born. She doesn't work and doesn't want to be our babysitter because she's "raised her kids." While I understand that fully, she spends her entire day coming back and fourth to my house anyway! 

My husband's family has been very disrespectful towards me, They're just not good people, even going as far as to not acknowledge our children we have together...his sisters in particular have been constantly verbally attacking me for years I don't attend any family functions or allow my kids to attend as of recently but yet he still goes. His sisters only call when they need something and he runs everytime to help. And keeps it from me until he's leaving to go. And it makes me feel very hurt, he said he defends me and he's going to eventually pull back from them but he hasn't. It's been 5 years. I told him they'll never respect me if there's no consequences for their actions. Am I wrong to feel he should limit himself to them if they can't respect me, his wife?

Or would people say that the husband should simply get over it and suffer/die from it always because it was contracted by her in the past from her past sex partners with whom she slept around for fun? Will the people call the innocent husband a loser, insecuredor jerk for complaining about it, instead of happily dieing from those diseases passed by the wife as he should love his wife in any situation always

Would love to hear other people's thoughts on this. I'm not about 'playing games' or taking things for granted or playing with fire. But so often you hear that once settled in a long-term relationship or marriage, a person can feel complacent and no longer feel like they need to 'win' their partner over or keep them happy. I've heard people suggest that making your partner feel like they can lose you can reignite their appreciation for you but I'm not sure I agree. Probably because I can't see how a person can make their partner worry about losing them without doing it in a cruel way. Your thoughts?

I don't think that my husband finds me unattractive but he's always been pretty awful at giving and receiving compliments. Giving compliments come so natural to me, I enjoy offering someone a compliment and making them feel good. I compliment my husband so often, daily for sure, because again it does come so naturally but I honestly can't remember the last time he's told me I look pretty or I'm dressed nice or a project I worked on at the house came out great. I don't want our marriage to end up feeling so dry and empty if neither of us ever compliment each other but I can't help but sort of resent the fact that I'm always giving compliments and he isn't. I've playfully addressed this with him already and he always just says he's bad at giving compliments.

I don't have to work. I just stay home with the kids. He takes care of everything. All I have to do is cook and give him ***

My Muslim fiance's parents do not want me to marry their daughter because I'm a Christian. We love each other so much, and we intend to get married this year. What can we do to get her parents approval?

Especially if they made more money at their job than he did at his?

I want to access my bill?

So I happened to read his messages and found that he was asking a female friend who's a mother of 1child and is having a tough time now with her hubby since he is having xtra marital affairs, if he can call her My husb has been in touch with her since last year on messages.. I dnt knw if things have gone beyond messages When i talked to my husb abt it he just shrugged me saying what is the problem in it?  he pushed me away saying  am i keeping her as a mistress?  And that am having probs on my mind He is not talking to me even though I was crying after this dispute..  Am I just imagining things or is he turning away from this topic?