When I was 11 my mom got so mad at me she screamed at me and threw me on the bed she grabbed my arm and I lifted off my feet and floor and landed on the bed. How could she physically do it?

I have 2 other sisters but my dad always directs any anger he has towards me. Anything I do ticks him off, but when my sisters do the same things he's so much more calm with them.  If I ask why, he becomes so enraged. If I try to defend myself I'm being disrespectful. If I do something he doesn't like, for example MAKING MY OWN LUNCH, he's mad because I'm making a mess. But then he won't let me clean up my own mess as a way to justify his anger. But if my older sister makes her own meal props to her for being responsible!  I am the more sensitive one in my family but I just don't feel like this is normal. I made a joke to him (a running joke in our family is saying no I'm weird voices) and he got so angry? I couldn't even tell him it was a joke because he started to insult me. I'm feeling really hurt by all of this. 

I have one my mom has one my kids n my mom hubby my question is can i watch on myne or will it play where my mom left off on her show???

I turned him in after he was raping me and he committed suicide while awaiting trial. I caused this and my Mom has been an alcoholic ever since. I cannot forgive myself. How do I get over what I did. I know what he did was bad but what I did was worse cause I caused someone to kill themselves.

i cant write here a long story. i just want the reason why would they do this to me? we are three brothers. im younger one. 1.if i earn more money as a freelancer do you think they dont feel comfortable and depressed? or i would buy home and stay with parents 2.if my parents loves me and i get everything what i want. what do you think my brothers gets jealous? is it because im 3rd born? wish i was never here? 3.my parents hid something from me since i was born. something thats inside me i have everything....power, prestige, politics (its like astrology paper or something) i think im gifted. they never told me that i have something inside me. they gave me a paper in 2018. i think my brother told my parents to hide it from me for years. im not very educated. i feel depressed sometimes it bothers me who am i in real.. Please Help me i gave up school and college since 2013 astrology paper which means my Future calculations

They are divorced and I am starting to believe her about him because of the stuff my Mom is telling me. She is telling me he had MANY affairs on her, he says there were none but admits once they separated he started dating too soon before the divorce was final. My mother says he slept around a bunch when he claimed to be at work. My mother tells me he hates black people, he tells me that is B.S. She tells me he left US all, he notes my mother asked for the divorce (I have no idea which did). She tells me he does not love us kids even if he likes us because he cannot love anyone it is in his character, again he denies that. So what do I do? I am starting to believe her. I don't think it is all true but I find myself questioning it.

He friended me on Facebook and I foolishly accepted. I haven't seen him in several years. Apparently his kids stopped buying him alcohol (for good reason). I don't want to get involved in confronting him when I don't even know him that well.

So...I'm almost a teen and I've been thinking if my parent's behavior is normal or abusive. Since I'm Asian and there are lots of "tiger moms" and since Asian children are usually hit, I thought it was normal, but I'm feeling as if its a little too excessive. Like my friends also say they get hit sometimes because they were bad, and I do too, but I don't know if they get hit as much as me. My situation at home is that I'm an only child with a mom and a dad. Pretty normal. They sometimes fight, and i hear them screaming and that's pretty normal I think. But since I'm a little on the chubbier side, and I make low As, and I sometimes forget to turn in homework, my parents (usually my mom) hits me, and yells at me about how worthless I am, or how I'm not good for anything, and that I'm a dumb, fat, failure, and if they wanted they could disown me and pretend they never had a child. Whenever she gets really angry, she hits me really hard, and one time she got angry at me while I was showering and tried to drown me. She keeps saying that she never means that and that her hitting me is normal for everyone. I just want to know if that's normal, thanks!! Also sorry this was so long :((

She even has blocked me on Facebook

I'm 16 and my parents think I'm a male, but I identify as non-binary and my pronouns are they/them. They still call me he and they make fun of me which isn't good for my mental health right now. I want a lot of stuff done, I want to start painting my nails, wearing makeup, dying my hair, wearing different clothes; sometimes I want to dresss feminine and sometimes I want to dress masculine, I also want to save up money for bottom surgery to get rid of my penis because I have dysphoria and I want a vagina. My parents don't understand any of this, they are close minded and conservative. I cry everyday because they won't accept me and I'm tired of living a lie, I'm not a male and I'm sick of having to portray myself as one. What should i do?

Hi. So, my fiance has 4 kids from 4 different women. The youngest is 1 year old. I'm not a bitter girlfriend, I love all of his kids, they are an extension of him. However, I feel like the youngest may not be his. For ONE the baby looks NOTHING like him. He looks the spitting image of his mother. Also the mother is a very dark skinned black woman and my fiance is a very dark skinned black man, but the baby is almost white with curly mixed hair. I'm not saying this isn't possible, just off putting. Also my fiance tells me stories of how when they were together she would prostitute herself with a white man. The baby's mother is horrid. She harbors a lot of hate for the both of us and does not care for her child. My fiance and I do the majority for this child but the child does not live with us. He lives with the mother's family member and the mother tries to keep him away from his "father" the majority of the time because she doesn't want us "playing house with her baby". Although she isn't around either. My fiance would like to go to the court for full custody of his 1 year old. I'm just worried that the baby may not be his. If it is I fully support that. I have a son of my own who is 6 and he'd be a great addition to our home. How do I tell my fiance about my idea for a DNA test without pissing him off or making it seem like some conniving *****?

My dad not understand me when I tell him I need tissue, he think I want bathroom tissue! WTF! 

Hi, last week, my Dad dropped a bomb on me. Apparently when he was in the war in Iraq. he met a local woman, who told him that she had a baby once he had returned home. He has known about it all these years and so has my mom, She is OK with it since it was before she met him. Any way, my half sister arrived a few days ago and my dad made me take her around school. My friends are not very accepting as some of their dads were also killed in Iraq. Anyway, some of the fellas made racist comments (Towel head, sand n—-er, etc) which made my sister cry. My best friend and I got in a fist fight over it. I want to defend my half sister, but I also understand his position has his dad was killed in Baghdad during the war. My dad tells me to just get over it, but it's not go simple. I want to accept my sister, but I am now getting bullied in school over it. I know it sounds horrible, but sometimes I feel it would be easier if my half sister returned to Iraq. Does this make be a bad guy? Please help!

They get very spoiled weak. Unfortunately, there is no time in this weak life.

My parents do this to me all the time. When they hate someone they keep me in the dark about events that person will be at. As a little kid they would just tell me I'm banned from going now that I'm older they just keep me in the dark. The cousins are not old enough for me to ask as they are much younger than me. I get tired of being used. A X, sorry I will ask again later. By their Mom I mean my cousins' Mom is this ex-wife. 

My mother is a woman whom has everything materialistically. And also a woman who can buy whatever she wants. Now that she's retired she's finding it hard to find something to inspire her. Also she's only 50 years old she's young. I want to get her something that can inspire her. Something that she can do. 

I was previously living in a homeless shelter. Right now, I have to stay in a hotel for 2 weeks because of self isolation and having a very mild case of the coronavirus. I kinda made the decision to go back home, but I think its a bad idea because of the emotional abuse i went through their. I would always catch my mom talking trash about me to my aunt and brother. I just finished Job Corp in West Virginia, but I didn't finish the college program they had at the school because of bullying. My mom paid 2,000 for the first semester. When i got home I overheard my aunt and mom say I should have left her there. What type of mom says that! I figured she would say something crazy like that because she would always make fun of my appearance. My mom is such a narcissistic woman. I was one time working at an animal shelter and I overheard my mom say "She gets along with animals because she looks like a dog", my aunts began to laugh at what she said. I always catch my mom calling me crazy and ugly. I would constantly tell them what i went through with bullying, self-esteem issues, depression and anxiety. I don't think they even care because if you did you wouldn't be making fun of me and calling me crazy. I don t know if I should go back to the shelter or go home. I keep having panic attacks at night and during the day.

Does it mean they hate you?if they do it infront of your friends?if they scold you for something silly?or just for tiny mistakes?

I have been stalked by someone for the last 15 years. I'm almost 30, but he is much older. He used to help me and my family a lot and always stood by us protected us etc. I believe he is wishing me to die in every way. He has spiked my medicine with iodine( I am hyperthyroid patient and a little dose or herb high in iodine cause a thyroid storm and near heart attack symptoms. After that I am so scared that I stopped taking all my medicine, and my health is getting worse by the day. I don't know his full name or his address so I don't have any actual proof of him that I can send to the police. My medicine has been messed up by him for quite a while almost 1 year. I have had 2 thyroid storms(uncontrollable heart palpitations until heart failure) Then I started taking my moms medicine because she too has hyperthyroid. He spiked my moms one too and my mom had a heart attack last month. After that I stopped sharing my moms medicine because I don't want anyone to hurt hurt just because they want to hurt me. Thank God my mom is better now. and I am so scared and depressed after that.I cry all day and all night. I want to live for my family and my sister. And my amazing nieces and nephews. How can I convince him not to want to kill me? How do I convince a dying man not to hurt me? I have no one to turn to. All I do is cry. I can't imagine what will happens to my family if I die. My mom is really dependent on me and so is my sister and little brother. I want to live a little longer. Please read my full question written as answer because of word limit.  I have never been in a relationship with my stalker . We had barely spoke, and I don't have his pictures just me and my family saw him numerous times .And I can't get a restraining order on him as I don't know his full name or address. All I know is that he speaks Russian. And he never actually physically assaulted me or hurt me or attacked me. He just basically tries to poison me. I saved the bottles as evidence but the PI said that it's not enough.  And last year there was a girl who contacted me about renting our second floor of our three family home. I told her that it's already been used by my sister for work projects and storage so we don't want to rent it anymore. I was so silly I never realized that I did not put my personal phone number on the rental website I should have suspected but I didn't. She was really nice and desperate so I convinced my mom to let her live in our super furnished basement room.  My parents were not happy but they didn't say no so she moved in the next day. After I had the first thyroid storm like around January, I remember my room being locked from inside and I thought I heard someone. As I live in the first floor and is easily accessible from the basement. Later that month I went out but came back suddenly for my charger and I found her in my room the water jug was open. I was really shocked I asked her what she was doing in my room, she said she just came to ask me if she said she ordered a package And came to ask me if I had received any package from the mailman I said no. And i told her please don't come to my room without my permission. I suspected something weird that day but I just brushed it off. 2 weeks later my sister saw her running down the stairs when she came to the first floor from her room. I started monitoring her packages after that and I found out she was a drug user and someone was giving her free drugs.  She also didn't work at all she stayed home all day. But somehow she had a lot of money and she would stay awake at the exact same time I would stay awake sometimes nights. When my brother caught her in my snacks cabinet she was sprinkling my cookies and cakes with a sort of powder he immediately contacted my big brother who came and told her to leave immediately but she threatened him said she'll call the police we can't forcefully throw her out.etc. I realized she was being paid by my stalker to spike all my food and medicine. i tried but seeing her with my food wasn't proof enough. I am just scared out of my wits. And all I do now is cry and hope to God that He will save me. i applied for firearms permit but my friends think it's a bad idea as I am not physically strong they think he might use the weapon against me.  My brothers just make me practice boxing a lot but honestly it has nothing to do with what I'm facing. I am so scared of him. I don't know what to do to stop him. To convince him to have one drop of mercy for me and my family. Please help me someone. How can I convince him not to hurt me? I would appreciate any answers and would pray so much for your happiness. My life is a living terror.  I have never been in peace always been threatened by him but never thought that he would be capable of hurting an innocent women who would never hurt him or anyone. I never thought it would ever come to this point. Please help me. Just any other way other than police intervention. I am just so tired of them not believing me or my family. I just came here to ask if anyone has any advice how can I convince someone not to kill me. A dying stalker who stalked me from a young age. Please any advice The stalker helped my family means that he always was there to stand up for my brothers at any fight and always helped my family including sending us gifts. Including food and last year he sent an fan/heater. No he didn't tell anyone of us his full name or address or any other personal detail. And I also know that a lot of people like to victimize the stalking victim by calling her mentally unstable that's why my family told me not to tell anyone except the police and PI. Thank God for my family I absolutely hate telling people about my life's story secret etc. I know most people find it hard to believe and some don't think it's serious enough but it is. Stalking victims only know. I am depressed and I don't ever tell people what's going on in my life why am I single and why I'll be single for the rest of my life in fear for my future partners life and kids life. But right now I am really desperate. Things are getting steadily worse and I really don't know what to do next

My dad and I always fought, but it blew over really quick. Ever since he got a new gf he has been extra rude to me. He calls me manipulative, and vindictive, he says that I'm just like my mom, and threatens to kick me out every other day (I turned 18 two months ago). I have a feeling his gf has been talking **** to him about my sister and I and this is why he is acting so mean towards us, but especially me. He has his gf and two kids move into our house. Our 3 bedroom condo. He did this without asking about home me and my sister thought about it. He also lied several times saying she was looking for her own place. My dad has not had a gf in about 10 years. Ever since him and my mom divorced it's just been him and his daughters. And now he constantly picks this woman over us. It's not like she is all that great either. She told me to grow the **** up because I was upset with my dad because he purposely let my dog loose. She thinks that she owns this house. She is constantly having a bad attitude with my dad and yelling at him. I feel like he wants me out to give my room to her kids. This whole situation breaks my heart. I never thought my dad would switch up on his kids so fast

I am wanting to move from the UK to Illinois when I am 25 and my mother says that since she controls everything I spend my money she will not allow me to since I have autism she controls the money I spend. legally. how do I stop this?

My mom divorced my dad because he was always bringing them into debt. She was tired of working full time only for it all to go toward his luxurious lifestyle. He even used her earnings to buy fancy gifts and vacations for his side of the family. I remember the fights. My mom bought a tiny house and focused on raising us. My dad bought a huge house, married someone who never worked within a year of their divorce, and took her on exotic vacations many times a year. They had my little sister. Now, my dad is totally broke and his wife requested my financial help so my 8 yo half sister can attend private school. Keep in mind that my dad's wife never worked, still doesn't work and has no intention of working. My mom is paying for my college and I got a scholarship. My mom didn't want me to be penalized for the scholarship (her words) so she gave me the rest of the savings to get me started in life. It is meant as down payment or start up money. This is what she wants me to give them. I see it as her asking for my mom's money for a child who I love, but who isn't my mom's responsibility or mine. And I feel sad that this woman skated life while my mom worked so hard.  I'm inclined to think that none of this is my problem and I should ignore her. But I'm open to other perspectives.

I'm 21 and was recently got done with my 2 year and decided to change direction and join the navy. I moved in with my dad and uncle maybe 3-5 months ago to focus on my classes and not have to worry about cost of living. When I was in school I was enrolled in 6 classes and my dad would tell me basically not to do school, get a job and have kids. I didn't want that, long story short after moving in only thing I asked of them is to not be slobs and to clean up after his dog, I have a dog. I clean up after mine and he'll give me **** if I don't so, how's that fair? And when I'd say something he'd say something along the lines of "you don't respect me". I'd tell him well he doesn't respect me so, how am I suppose to respect someone that doesn't respect me. Tonight, it crossed the line. I overheard my uncle and my dad talking about me tonight. I go out there to confront them and they get all pissy and basically say it doesn't concern me when they're talking about me? I've told them countless times that I don't appreciate it, if there's anything that needs to be said to say it to me. My uncle says, "what I'll tell you, you won't like". I tell him, it doesn't matter if I won't like it. He needs to tell me because I don't appreciate it. By the end of it, he says basically there's a problem because they don't wanna clean. Has anyone ever encountered these type of people and how do you deal with it? I'm about ready to pack up shop after almost getting in a fist fight with my dad.

I am 16 years old. When I was 14, I was expected to cook and clean for myself, do extracurriculars and make great grades. When I failed I was punished. But I've noticed that my sister, who is now 14, does not get the same treatment. She always leaves her dishes for everyone else (me)to clean up, and not to mention her grades. She is currently failing all of her classes, half with 0s, and not only do my parents not care, but my mom is even being empathetic towards her. Saying the teachers absolutely cant hold her back just because she "missed a few assignments" (she hasn't done any work at all since school got canceled.) I get that we are doing school from home, and it's hard especially at her age. But even in school she got Cs and Ds. If I got Bs at her age I was in trouble. They let her get away with everything, mocking me, buying expensive stuff she never uses, etc, and it's making her a spoiled brat. I've tried to talk to my parents about my frustrations, how when she is rude and mean to me she is never punished, but they always tell me to be the "bigger person." Last time I brought it up i got screamed at and all tech was taken away. I just don't know what to do anymore. 

She also slapped her baby sister when she was crying and tried to hold a pillow over the babies face because I called her out for dressing like a slut around my boss who came over for a pool party with me and my wife. She dropped out of school and won't work. She even said that she plans on living in our house forever.

I never call my brother and ask him for any favors but as a last resort I called him. He's 20. I'm 28. I have my own apartment but I called him and asked him if he could take me to the grocery store to pick up a couple things. He said yeah but I was completely appalled by his behavior towards me. He talked to me like I was his child. Our mother was very controlling and hostile growing up. Physically abusive and she hit me in numerous occasions. I moved out as soon as I was legal because I couldn't bear to stay in an abusive household. I hope he's not going down that track. My father told me he punched a hole in their wall which frightened me a bit. He didn't get punished because my father said his anger was justified. Someone had assaulted our mom. I couldn't believe he was talking to me like I was his child telling me " I'm not going to take you to the grocery store unless your shirt is tucked in all the way". I told him " who do you think you are talking to me like I'm some child. First of all, I'm not going to work. I'm going to Walmart. You're making a huge fuss about a shirt tale. You need help" When we were in Walmart he embarrassed me by screaming at me to tuck in my shirt tale. This is crazy. I feel as though he might need psychological help because threatening not to take someone to Walmart because of a shirt tale is ridiculous. Not to mention I'm about 8 years older than him.  forgot to mention my brother also smokes weed daily. My father asked him to stop multiple times. He refuses. 

Hola gente,soy nuevo aquí,tmb soy fetishista de pies femeninos y quiero contar mi historia. Soy un chico de 13 años y tengo a una prima de 15 años, y todo paso hace un mes estaba descansado con mi prima,yo estaba al filo de la cama de forma orizontal y ella de forma vertical,al moverme estaban sus pies grandes y hermosos, miden cerca de los 25 cm, no aguante y me frote,a su pie,estaba poniendo la cara y ella puso su pie allí,me exite mucho. ¿Yo quiero besarselos,lamerselos,etc, como lo hago?

Two years ago when I was 13 we were in a hotel room and my dad got really angry at me for complaining about his chewing and he physically assaulted me. We were on a trip and the people next door in the hotel heard screaming and called the police. By the time the police came my dad had stormed out. My mom kept telling me I better tell them there was no assault and so I did. My dad never ever apologized to me. A couple days later I somehow ended up alone in the car with him and he said "you have to be nice to me now." I asked him if he thought he deserved my respect after what he did to me. He still justified it saying its because he was mad. That is no excuse for a grown man to physically assault a 13 year old is it? My mom watched the assault happen and she continued to blame it on me saying it was my fault for starting the argument.  I can't stop thinking about what happened even two years later and I still get so upset. I feel like I cant be angry at my dad because it only happened once, but I still am. He always buys me stuff and acts normal but sometimes he gets so unreasonably angry at me for doing nothing, while my brother can do anything and get away with it. I don't know how to feel. Thinking about what happened is still just as painful and I still feel angry at my parents for blaming me for this. I know no matter what I do or say, my parents would never apologize because that's just the type of people they are. I need closure because I'm still so upset.

She never enrolled me in school. I stopped going to school at 13. I haven't left the house since I was 14. I'm 22 now. She never tried to make me leave the house. I still don't have my license. She never took me to drivers training to get my license. She doesn't have her license and she's 59. She's been catching the bus her whole life. My brother has too. He's in his 30s. She will not own up to what she did to me. I think about this everyday and feel like killing myself. I can't live with what she did to me. I'm 22 and I can't do anything for myself. I don't know how to count money. I don't know how to stand up for myself. I can't get a job. People take advantage of me all the time. She will die soon and I'll have nowhere to go. I'll probably end up homeless. I think she hates me and always has. I don't think she cares about me and never did. I don't have other family support. I don't know what to do. Nobody cares. Nobody will do anything about it. She takes her anger out on me. This hurts. I'm in so much mental pain.

I am 32 year old live in Texas . My mom and dad  say I not allowed to stay home I have a boyfriend and we want to start are family but my mom and dad don't think it will work 

It actually happened to me today in public but I was able to pull my shirt enough to cover it, but still it's embarrassing. If I was at home and it was just in front of my mom and visible to her that's fine, but definitely nothing else.

so basically what happens is we live somewhere that is a different home from my step-dad but my step-dad has a 1 bed flat so me my mum and bro go to our home what is a 3 bed house but when we r there my mum seems upset like she hates it then I feel its my fault what do I do is it my fault

I'm a boy and when I was 11 my mom got so mad at me she screamed at me and threw me on the bed she grabbed my arm and I lifted off my feet and floor and landed on the bed. how could she do it? please explain

He is only eleven so I can't call the cops on him.

My parents and other siblings know she is the devil but some of the extended family does not. How do I get them to see so they will know I am the better one if she insults me to them?

She keeps saying I'm not the same person I was 2 years ago and I'm bitter and full of hate. I've already mentioned it to her that the reason I am is because she and my dad know about my rape and know who my rapist is and they chose to believe him rather than me even when I have evidence of being blacked out that night and he was sober. They attacked my current bf just for being an avid weed smoker ...so of course I feel bitter over who they choose to attack.  My mom also egged me to hang out with this guy she thought was good looking when we went to Vegas (he was my sisters coach) who was like 10 years older than me. We went to a night club, I didn't know him, got roofied, my mom picked me up from the club bc I got kicked out for being "reckless" I don't remember anything. The next morning she made me take plan b and made my promise to never tell my dad what happened. Even though I still have no idea what happened.  So of course I'm not the same with her and my father and I'm bitter but they won't understand that. How do I get them to understand me?