I need real advice. I hate my husband so much. I want to leave him, but I quit my career to be a stay at home mom because he doesn't know how to really take care of a baby. I have no where to go and no family. He's a disgusting monster. He raped me 3 times in my sleep and I can't believe I forgave him. At first I was staying because I want my daughter in a two parent home because I never knew my dad. He's been emotional/mentally abusing me. It gets so bad that I want to end my life, but I know I can't do that because I have a 5 month old baby. I starting losing my faith because he's a pastor and everyone loves him.I tried getting help from my church friends but they said I should just pray for him and he's allowed to touch me because he's my husband. there's no support or anyone that can help me. I need advice on what to do.

My husband telling me I neglect him sexually even though I give him handjobs multiple times a week. I gave him a ******* a few weeks ago since I cant have sex until 6 weeks post c section. It's been one month since i gave birth and our baby passed away the day he was born. I've been dealing with grief and post partum. But have still given him handjobs on the regular. He only has to wait 2 more weeks until we can have intercourse again.. it hurts really bad that hes telling me hes lusting after other women he sees throughout the day out and about, because I'm incapable of pleasing him sexually due to having a baby... am I to blame or should he be more understanding about this situation and the fact o dont have a choice as I dont want to get pregnant again right away.

My husband got news and was supposed to go out with his friends... his friends couldn't make it so, he texted his single female colleague to join for drinks...alone...she turned him down (I saw the texts)...Nothing against her (since she refused) but I just think he could have asked me to join him or he could have came home... he says it's nothing but I'm really upset... am i wrong to think that there's more here? Was he hoping for an affair? Or am I overthinking this?

My brother who is only 22 is in a sexual relationship with a 36 year old woman who is MARRIED with a KID. Her husband has no idea and she keeps leading my brother on telling him she'll leave him when she can but she can't because her daughter will get deported (her husband adopted her she's from her previous marriage). She is clearly using him for his money and my brother is really falling for her what do I do I can't just let this go on. She was literally rubbing his cr*tch from underneath the dinner table while her husband was there it's like she gets turned on by it it's disgusting

A married wife of a guy I know blew me more than 8 kisses when he wasn't around

I'm an owner of a pet store in New Jersey. I noticed this couple who buy from me occasionally. There was one time where the wife of the guy in my store blowed me kisses gestures with her mouth like more than 10 times and left smiling. She never done that before and that was when her husband wasn't with her at the store. I'm puzzled at this situation what y'all think?

My husband feels that he can reply to my emails when he feels like it. We're going to our niece's college graduation next Friday and I sent him an email today in regards to our plans for next week. He never replied. Several hours go by and still nothing. I text him asking did he get my email and he said no because he was at work and had not logged into his personal email. An hour or so goes by and he calls me on lunch in a tizzy because he said that what I said in my email wasn't that important because we weren't leaving till next week anyway and I could have just asked him when he got home tonight. Why am I not a priority to him to where he makes me wait? He said that he was busy on his job and wasn't concerned about something that's not happening for more than a week. Why doesn't he see it? Then he said that if you send an email you don't expect an immediate reply. Saying everyone knows that. I think that's the biggest crock of bull ever. I'm his wife and I should be a priority to him.

I'm stuck, I want to leave but having a hard time deciding if it's right. He's emotionally abusive. Gives no affection, but wants sex on the reg. Plays video games on all his off the, and not even exaggerating, hours and hours on end. We have kids together and he doesn't give them affection, I maybe saw him sightly hug the youngest last month.. That's more than usual. Constantly complaining about what wasn't done and barking orders. To be fair here,I gave been lacking as a housewife. Have Heath is (multiple) and quite depressed and it's interfering, etch in trying to change but I feel like he's beaten me down for a long time. Self worth is tanked, and lost my zest for life. I'm only 32. He constantly belittles, back handed comments, yells loudly (which scares me and kids sometimes). He is a very crass guy, ruff and hard working though. Works 2 jobs so I can stay at home which he agreed with, but now is mad about medical bills and says I should get a job to pay for them. He loves me,as much as he can watch if u knew his family you would say he is pretty good considering. He has no empathy tho, or sympathy. I have numerous examples to prove... He's hurt me once, not hitting but still. Years ago. My kids love him, but I an not sure what to do. They don't want us separated. My kids are ages 9-13. I want to wait until they grew up to divorce, but I'm wondering if I'm wrong of just not trying hard enough...

If he leaves his wife he will most likely never see his daughter again. There's next to no chance he will leave his wife for me is there?

My boyfriend repeatedly tells me I am an alcoholic. He doesn't drink but he smokes pot daily. Today I had 3 glasses of wine. I didn't tell him I drank today until he asked me to 'swear' then I admitted it. This unleashed a huge argument of how he can't trust me and I am a liar. I'm antisocial, I can't communicate. I agreed with him that I should have told him. I only called to tell him goodnight night and I loved him. He told I should called to tell him that I drank and he would have respected me more. We've been together for 6 years. Now he says we are over and he can never trust me. What do I do?

One of the very first things I told my partner, of a couple years now, is that I do not want kids. I have never wanted kids. I am now in my mid 30s and I don't see that changing at this point. I figured it was better to tell him right away before we got in too far. Well, he said he was okay with it whether we have kids or we don't. And for the most part he seems pretty relaxed about it. But at the same time there are certain things he'll say, or a certain way he acts, that make me think deep down he does desire kids and is not telling me the whole truth. For example, whenever we get into a conversation about it he'll say "God's will be done in the end, if he doesn't want us to have kids we won't. But if he does..." He has brought up that he thinks his mom might be upset she won't have grandkids through him, as if that matters. That's redundant. Whenever I bring such matters up, to make sure he is absolutely on board, he gets a bit avoidant. Says he "doesn't care" either way but when I talk happily about the benefits of us not having kids, and the freedom we will have, he clams up and gets quiet. Doesn't really rejoice with me, shrugs it off and changes the subject. Or, if he does state an opinion, the "If God doesn't want us to we won't, if he does we will" statement comes up... It doesn't seem me like behavior of someone who completely supports my choice as he has "claimed" he has. But he says he's fine with it. What do you think? I also hate it when he brings up the "Whatever God wants for us" statement. As if I have absolutely no choice in my reproductive future? He knows I don't like that too... To the second answer, that does make sense. I have talked, extensively, about how I absolutely will not change my mind. So he's VERY aware of how firm I am on it. And, as far as him hoping for an accident. That kind of makes sense actually. And I truly hope he is not counting on that. And I wish I could get sterilized but that is WAY out of my budget. I will add that, on the contrary, he wants to help with all of our contraception options. No matter what we use, he pays for it, and wants to help if I decide to get on the pill.