My wife and I have been married for ten years. While I love my wife and our children, I do not like my in-laws. It is largely a personality conflict. If my wife wants to visit her family, that is completely fine with me. It is somewhat evident in my body language when I visit my in-laws that I do not like them. I have no wish to cause problems for anyone and that is why I am asking the question. Do I need to be around them if I do not like them?

I have been married for two years now and my husband is always taking out time for his friends but me. We rarely go out and when I do ask to go out he would either say next time or say he got plans or work. He is always out with his friends at night and this really started affecting our relationship. I always get very sensitive and emotional when he says no to me. Am I being wrong here? Do I expect too much? Am I being too sensitive? I do understand we all need space and I give him all the space he needs but I don't know recently I have become very sensitive and shed tears to cope with stress. Please any advise?

My wife's brother is extremely self-centered. Everything seems to be about him. I do not like my wife's brother and I am sick of his attitude and the way my wife's family moves the universe to accommodate his spoiled and entitled self. My wife is the closest in age to this brat and they were close growing up. Recently my wife was telling me about a gathering that was being planned that needed to be changed because he couldn't make it and he didn't need to be there. I said to my wife that it is her brother's world and that I just lived in it. My wife became very angry at me. What should I do now?

I've Been Very Selfish And Have Been Caught Cheating a Few Times And Shes Left And Came Back twice With The Promise That I'm Going To Change ..And Sure Enough I Didnt I Made Another Mistake . Dating Websites Are Like The Plague I've Been Selfish And Havent Put My Wife First , I'm Ready To Finally Give My Wife What She Deserves But Now She's Distant And She Doesnt Know If She Can Forgive Me I'm Fully Rsady To Be The Man She Married And Commit To Her Fully What Should I Do ?

I notice women looking to settle down and get married always date down instead of dating up, like when they weren't considering marriage. Their dream guy when in their 20s was handsome, driven, successful, tall, in shape, educated, etc and then they end up lower their standards dramatically and prioritizing if the guy is least likely to cheat (aka not desirable by many women). Instead of dating guys like Thor or Captain american Chris Evans, they choose to date men with low to average sexual market value who aren't particularly handsome, aren't the most masculine sex gods, are only averagely ambitious and successful and aren't super charismatic and charming and interesting men or handsome young doctors that most women swoon over.

I've had my share of failed relationships and now I'm just at wits end with being with anybody! This scares me because I literally am ok with being alone. I feel like I'm on the wrong side of 20! Lol and I eventually want a husband and kids. Will I ever get over this feeling?

do divorced men typically die younger than men that were never divorced? what can a man do to avoid divorce and extend his life? actually, i believe it was mark twain that first said that. but then, churchill could have been quoting him.

And hear her voice in your head sometimes?

They're possibly the least charming people I've ever met. A day with them feels like years.

I've never met this woman... they work together, go to lunch every so often and text each other throughout the week... I don't want to be the jealous wife but I feel like something more is in the works. My husband says I'm reading too much into this and that he doesn't see her that way... but then, when he talks about her he fidgets...

I'm currently a 24 year old male and I'm about to graduate college in one week. I am starting to realize that I really need to make a plan and put it into action as to how I am going to find the right wife and have kids. Having a good marriage and having kids is extremely important to me but I want to hear how I can make all of this happen successfully without making common mistakes. What is your advice on how I can create a flourishing family in the future? Also I'd like to note that I don't want to have kids until maybe 34-35 years old and I am considering graduate school so that may be ideas to consider. Thank you!

Thanks for the answers. We are not cheating on each other. She keeps her social media private because for the 10 years we have been together she has always shouted, sworn and done whatever she wanted to keep on top of me. I took a stand in court last year when she smashed the home with our son nearby. She was charged with domestic violence. She still calls me stupid, idiot, loser when it suits her. She even calls me not a man, sissy etc. And tells me to leave the family. After 2 years I will have the financial capability to leave her behind. Is this considered a Christian thing to do? I honestly cannot stand her and her parents because they are always fighting and they love to think they are right. They refuse to listen to others. They are dirty and disrespectful to my home. They try to raise my son on eggs and formula alone. Refuse to feed him solids. He is 12 months old. I compare myself to other men and think I'm not good enough all the time. I also wish I had a wife that honoured me and the family... I have put on some weight but I work hard for the family, do the right thing, clean up the home everyday and study. Am I right to want to leave?

Of course here I am coming to Yahoo answers for answers cause I know you all the realest lol. So my best friend is married and her and her husband separated for about 4 months during that time she slept with her husbands friend twice who happens to have a girlfriend but didnt tell her about it. She came to me about it because her husband found out and I happen to know the guy because he is also a close friend of mine and I know his girlfriend a little bit. She is begging me for advice on if she should tell the girlfriend because she didnt know that they were together ,he had apparently told her they were hadn't been together for a while. So I said yea you should tell her but she doesnt want to my husband think i should tell her since I know her but I'm not sure it's my place nor my drama. What would you do in this situation. Sorry if my punctuation is out of wavk as well lol

My husband is a doctor, so he works a lot and then he plays video games when he comes home from work for hours. He barely spends any time with our 20 month baby. Even on the weekends, upto 15 hours or more. I can't have any conversation with him or even tell him to watch our baby because his eyes are always glued to the computer screen. I am very frustrated, what can I do??

We have a baby and it's been hard to get some sleep lately. I usually wake up and feed her while he is sleeping. when I was not working it was fine with me. Then I started working so I made him at least make a bottle at night and then I will stay up and feed her. on work days I stay up. I have week ends off so I stay up Friday night And on Saturday night if she cries he picks her up so I can get some sleep. when she is sick I stay up if it gets really hard he will take her and rock back to sleep. I didn't mind this because I wasn't making him do too much but he was still helping because he would get up and make a bottle at least. we argued this morning because I asked him to make some milk for her. he said he never gets any sleep. That I feel like he is not doing enough that's why I make him get up and make some milk. I don't get any sleep either. I find myself dozing off at work sometimes. but I never complained to him about it. how is making one bottle in the middle of the night asking for too much all of a sudden? That's all he has to do. He doesn't have to stay up. He says because when she cries his sleep gets disrupted. So he stays up too. But all I see is him making milk and going back to sleep. I don't even understand why we are fighting over this. Am I making him do too much? She is a baby she didn't ask to be here. So what is the problem now?

I'm 24/F and he's 24 as well, and we've been married for 2 years already. Now I've been falling out of love with him for quite some time already because of a lot of things, but let's just say that a big part of it has to do with what I want to do. I want to get into the entertainment industry (behind the scenes, of course), like traveling, enjoying life how I want to, etc. I just don't want to have a "boring" life. I also have a friend in the UK whom I can stay with on and off, which my husband wouldn't want to do. However... I can also see myself in the legal field while I have a family, making mommy vlogs, writing my stories, etc. I don't know what to do, as I can't make up my mind. Please help! *More specifically, the music industry, I want to be a travelling tour/artist manager, lighting technician, audio engineer, concert promoter, etc.

My married boss will often text me about random non-work related stuff during the day, at night or during the weekend... the conversations are short... nothing subjects vary from jokes to life events...but I wonder... is this common?