I work with this girl who is married and her husband has cheated on her twice in the past and she no longer loves him and after 17 years she wants to leave him for me.. I have a girlfriend who has also cheated on me in the past and I no longer love her and want to leave.. We both work in the Manufacturing division of the company and her husband is a Corporate employee who works in the onsite in the Distribution division of the company. He is dayshift and her and I are nightshift.. We have sworn off sleeping with our partners and her and I have slept togethor and although we know it is wrong we justify this cheating based on being cheated on prior to this... We are tied up with our lives and want to be togethor but its taking some time to be ready to leave our partners. My question is if he finds out and him being corporate and knowing alot of the higher up managers of manufacturing could he possibly get me fired if he were to find out or does this have nothing to do with work and I should be fine?

As young man, I say true. Its a great future in the making for us homo sapiens. Women will no longer have the courts to hand them the husbands money. I am a proud virgin celibate dude, and will stay that way.

We have a 4 month old and I am only working part time. My husband has to get up much earlier than his body naturally does for his work. On the weekends, he really wants to sleep in. I work on Sunday mornings and sometimes our baby doesn t sleep that late (her getting up 7-8 is early). In addition to this, I want to volunteer on an upcoming Saturday. I would be gone the whole morning. He is pretty upset that I am leaving him with the baby both of his mornings off. I don t want to be unfair because I know sleeping in is something he enjoys about his weekends. We both agreed before I went back to work that I would work Sundays and it is only one Saturday that I will be out for the morning. How should I approach this topic with him?

I am 30 and have a 55 y/o husband of 12 years. He gambles to the point where we have to rely on casinos to make bills. We never have anything to save. And we are always broke. How can I explain to him that gambling is not good to our finance? I have tried showing him the bills, showing him where the money goes, even tried to set a gambling limit for the month. He always agrees at first but never sticks to it. This is just the ice though. He rarely holds his word. He never seems to have time unless I scream. And he never provides any information on the problemed matter at hand unless it affects him in some way. Is there any way to reach him and save this once good love we had? If so how?

For only 5 months out of the year. My husband hates it and it causes a fight each time. We are a blended family and his son is very mentally challenged so he can't go. We do plan trips when we can. It really bothers me because, our kids love it and we're doing nothing wrong. We've been doing this for a long time, even before we were married. Is this wrong and why does he get so upset?

So my husband and I have been having issues. Over the pass year and a half or so, my husband has been very emotionally manipulative and emotional abusive. He has gotten on antidepressants and they seem to be helping but I just can't forgive him for some of the stuff he said and did to me. Should I stay and hope I forgive him or move on? We have two daughters and I'm not sure which situation would be worse for them

As of the last few months my husband has become very lazy while have sex. He only enjoys missionary and doggy position but doesn't want to go anything else outside of that. Then at the same time he asks for sex much more often than usual, I'm talking every night which isn't a issue it's the fact I wanna change it up. Before we use to do a lot more and when I bring it up he says he's just tired why he doesn't want to ride or do any other position. What can I do? Is there something he's not telling me? (Yes we are both males)

Ok if a couple break up after 8 years married plus 2 kids. The man keeps the house and the kids and the mother moves out with new boyfriend. He's got a great job with good money. What's the wife entitled to? She didn't work and was a stay at home mom...,

during the time the baby will be born, I live i California. Am i obligated to give my son my married name which is his father's last name or am I able to give him my maiden name

My husband (26) and I (31) have been married 7 months and known each other a little over a year. We rushed into things, but felt really passionately about each other at the start. Over the last 3-4 months, things have been incredibly rocky between us. We're currently in couple's counseling. He's in the military. When we started dating, he told me he'd have to go to Texas for EMT school. I'm currently in Nursing school, and I agreed to move with him and planned to adjust my classes so we could go together. To make a long story short... He's manipulated the situation where he no longer has to go. I've just started to come to terms with the fact that we're not moving and am back on track with my education plans since we're staying in Maine. He's been taking IT courses for free over the last month. (He's been unemployed since the end of January.) His plan was to establish a career in IT since he gets these courses free while he's unemployed. This morning he told me his Sergeant offered him the opportunity to get an LPN degree. I've asked him some questions and he seems pretty motivated by the money. (LPN's earn approx. $20-$30/hr.) He told me that he would have to be away for 2 months by himself to start, then another 10 months (and I could move to be with him). The trouble is... I don't want to move. I feel like my husband doesn't know what he wants sometimes. I don't know what to do! My education and career is important, but so is supporting my husband and his goals. *He's in the Army Reserves, not career/full time military

My wife and I like to take road trips. Nothing too far though. A few times a year we'll have to go somewhere and we'll be in the car for a few hours. My daughter is graduating college this weekend and we're leaving today to head to her campus. I'm the type of guy (driver) who doesn't like to stop on car trips because someone has to use the bathroom. I tell everyone to go before we leave home. I mentioned to a few of the girls here at work that I like to tell my wife to go to the bathroom before we leave and they both literally cut my head off. "You don't have the right to tell her that. You're not her parent!" Ok, fine, what I do in my house is my business. I'm just wondering why some people take such offense to what you do or what works for you? Yes, my wife is notorious for having to go to the bathroom 20 minutes into a 3 or 4 hours trip so now I've gotta pull over and wait on her. What do you think about this. Am I wrong or should I just pull over every 20 or 30 miles simply because she's gotta pee? Yeah, I may complain a little when she says she's gotta go but I still stop. I just think it's funny how other women like to tell you how to run your relationship.

I'm a stay at home mom but work full time from home,cook,raise our child,buy clothes for myself and our baby and all other necessities. My husband pays for rent and food. We do not live in the US, for where we live, he earns an amount most never could even imagine earning. We want to settle in our own place, however, his parents are insisting and thus hubby is too that we go live with his parents on their second floor. I clearly do not want to and hubby knows about it since his mom always controls his thoughts and decision, living with them would be worse, she even comes into our house and tells me what is out of place and so on. I cannot imagine living with them. BTW they are still pretty, his mom's not even 50 yet and they do not need special care. Why should we go then, we can get our own place! Hubby says no since he says we already have a place - his parents house. For now, we're renting our own place. My brother-in-law, his brother, is getting married and staying on the second floor with my in-laws - his parents until they find a place to rent. The kitchen still needs to be done and hubby decided he would buy and finish all that is needed. I'm angry but did not say anything cause he would get angry. Do you think such a situation is normal? Hubby's doing and deciding everything without me but rather his decisions come from his mother. I told him before I do not like that, he goes to say that I'm a bad wife cause I do not obey him. Just to clarify, he's not "rich", just an income above average that allows us to afford things people have to work slightly longer for. His parents have a two-story house connected with an open staircase from the first to the second floor and the third which is a large attic room. The entire house is renovated and they as well have a good income, they are building other houses to lease as rent to others so they obviously can afford a kitchen. And that's not my problem if he wants to help it's okay, I'm totally fine with it. But first, maybe his wife needs a kitchen that's not falling apart? I am in a rented small house where man things are falling apart and not working and he doesn't even listen when I beg to get those fixed. We have a baby and he does not agree to have our son looked after by a babysitter so all I can do is work from home. I can afford to renovate our kitchen on my own but would like for my husband to think about his family first than his mom and dad who already have everything. He ignores me and does it for his parents instead though they are not in need. I always ask politely and HAVE NEVER taken advantage of his income, but I feel like our family is never his priority. He earns money and I understand it's his, but I work my butt off (please excuse me) but he does not seem to care about our needs. *Wrote so much but have not included the most important part* The already have a nice huge kitchen on the first floor. They want to finish up the one of the second floor.

He causes me deep pain and makes me cry and afterwards he just pops in a movie and watches it and csn actually enjoy himself while i'm devastated and hurt. He doesnt care when im crying and doesnt try to apologize.... usually the next day when he is out of that mood hes sorry.. it kills me thst he doesn't care how bad he hurts me in the moment when i'm crying. I know he loves me but how do I feel okay about this