What does calling someone lady? Like if a friend calls you lady? Is it a certain generational thing for people in their 30s?

We're going bowling Friday. Problem is... it's been 4 weeks and I still feel like I don't "know" anyone yet. They're mostly just acquaintances. I'm pretty social, but I hate being alone. Or being shoved in the corner. Should I go? Or try mingling at work before going to the next party? I don't want to be labeled as an outcast

A guy who was mean to and bullied a kid who was disabled in school is now successful happy has everything he wants and is perfect and the disabled kid died from his disability.

If a man has sex with a woman once and afterward he wants pictures of her. Does that mean he wants to have sex with her again? (Yes I know some men post pictures of women online. Or share them with their friends. But this is not always the case so don't bother telling me that.)

I'm 23 and I'm dating an older guy who's in his early 40s. We've been together on and off for a year now. Things were great when we first started dating. He treated me like a queen, he took me to dinners, movies, to meet his family, he met my family and friends and even treated me to a nice 2 week vacation to a resort in Mexico for my 22nd bday After we got back from the trip we decided to take the next step and get a place together. We moved into a nice apartment and I decorated it and we were so happy with how it came out. I was so in love and wanted to marry him, things were going well. Then things took a turn. He started acting like I was to young and not at the same place in life because I think he was jealous that I was in college and still had my whole 20s ahead of me. We fought a lot about things. I have depression and anxiety and compulsively shared a lot of our drama on facebook because I wanted support from friends and to vent. I broke things off because he wouldn't accept my depression and said it was a choice. He moved out of the apartment. My family didn't like him after that and some of my friends didn't either. I was 22 I couldn't afford a $1600 a month apartment on my paycheck from working part time and being a student. I got help for my depression and I graduate college next weekend. Now we can finally start a life together and he said he needs to take some time to think about it and that he loves me. Will this work? Just to be clear I'm not a gold digger. This guy makes 46k a year and lived with his parents and was saving for a house when I met him. He drives an older car, doesn't own a house. He obviously makes more money than I do at 23 but I wasn't with him to become rich, he treated me to vacations and paid the rent because he could afford to. But we weren't living a lavish rich lifestyle or anything lol.

If a man has sex with a woman once and afterward he wants pictures of her. Does that mean he wants to have sex with her again? (Yes I know some men post pictures of women online. Or share them with their friends. But this is not always the case so don't bother telling me that.) Edit

Even their friendships are fake

So in January (before he knew that I liked him) his friend was joking around with me and I said shut up to his friend jokingly and my crush says watch your language! To me when his Instagram finsta name has the d word and the a word in it. The week after that he asked people if he liked his yellow velcro sneakers and I said no jokingly so he said well look at your shirt to me so I said shut up to him jokingly and he said to me you can't say that! Well I can say whatever I want to I said then he smiled and laughed. So today we were running in Gym class and while I was running with three other people I passed my crush and looked at him and what he said to me was stay in your lane because I accidentally went into someone else's lane. He was acting like he was the Gym teacher when he said stay in your lane. The reason why I had a crush on this boy since October 12 because that day he was staring and smiling at me for ten seconds and then he said hi to me and I smiled back also I liked the attention that he was giving me and he was nice and he was cute and he still is! lol but when I got to know him more he was still nice and he is but he started to control what I say and what I do and sometimes I feel like saying sorry to him when I don't do anything wrong. Also he knows that I like him and he knew that since March but he likes an other girl. He controls other people also. So why does my crush think he's the boss of me when he's not? I'll answer ur question if you answer mine:)

I went out to Cali to see my very good friend i havent seen in a decade which lives in Cali to meet his current gf and his child from a prior relationship. I went to Cali not only to explore downtown l.a and Hollywood but finally to meet dude and his family after several yrs. I went to Cali with another friend i had got sick while we was at Santa Monica beach (waiting 4 my friend i havent seen in a decade) due to my menstrual . The friend i was with was being difficult because he wsnted me to wall out to the Pier but i was already not feeling well it turned into a argument he said look we go to the pier or i go home and get my things and leave so when he said it again i said u not going no where because u didnt pay for the room at all i did! He sat a distance from me..mind u the friend i havent seen in a decade text and call and o kept sending him pics as a pinpoint location being the beach is huge. About time my friend calls im in tears telling him about what my other friend is putting me through and how i have a dizzy spell..he said f my friend..still we couldnt find eachother he said look i have my daughter with me u have 2 calm down i hear his gf say hang up the phone. Hang up! He says sis once i calm down feel better call me back. I say ok..about 20mins later i text and call he doesnt respond. Im hysterical in tears and got on my other friends case for his drama long story short that friend left my room. He was pissed yet the one that protested about leaving. And had the audacity to say he will call the police and said the lies he would tell them about throwing his clothes out and slapping him in the face. When i said he was dirty 4 that and i went silent on him he left. He threatened my livelihood so i could careless about him My heart though aches for my friend i havent seen in a decade im still puzzled why he is ignoring me when i did nothing to him literally nothing. Im not making him choose btw him and his girl but how he turn his back on someone he knew 14yrs for someone he just met 9mths ago in which he has doubts about plus told me her and her children are jealous of his own daughter and how he raises her. I text him again since i came back to nyc he read the message but refuses to respond..the note isnt nasty its asking why he ignoring me when we had no conflict and knowing i was sick on the beach catching hell with the other friend and how i still tried to get to him on that very day to see him. 4 days later im.so depressed and crying because im really wondering why he turnt his back on me.

I was bullied in school so I left school to be homeschooled. Fast forward over half a decade later...I'm in a different state in a job that people in my hometown know what it is. I'm getting flack now because I said I left school due to bullying. Now that EVERYONE knows what my job is...nothing ever happened and I was the best of friends with them. I laughed in their faces when they said that and now it's getting worse. With my job,I'm speaking at different places in the county where I grew up so I'm having no choice but to face bullies and talk to them. Was I wrong to laugh in their face or what?

I love my dear friend, she is my world. I often tell her i love her and she will say it back quickly. Shes a reserved person who doesn't show much affection much. Although recently she has started to say it first, and even after our phone calls before we say goodbye. I love it just as much as i love her don't get me wrong, but why has she started doing that?

A friend of mine, who is no longer my friend, told me she talks crap about me behind my back she said mostly how she picks on me. I have a guy best friend who I love making him paranoid (in a funny kind of way) I don't say it behind my back, I say it to his face and he knows I'm just joking around with him. He jokes around me too.

I remember some of my friends were afraid to stand up to their bullies because they were afraid of getting beat up. I never found it as a big deal for a while, until it happened to me. I got beat up pretty good when I was 15 for provoking someone who was constantly bullying my friend. I had a black eye, and bruises on my ribs for where he kicked me when I was on the ground. I went home with dry blood stains on my face from my nose bleeding and I was limping with my left leg for the last few days. The bully ended up going to juvenile for 3 months when my mother reported him. But after that i didnt have much audacity to smart mouth bullies. A real beating like I had is not cool. But some people today tell me I put up with crap too much and I need to get hard once in a while. But I just have that hesitation of possibly getting beat up again

this person was told they might not be able to/have difficulty learn to drive when they were 16 due to being almost blind in one eye. fast forward to them being 24 they try to make friends but no one wants to have to constantly pick them up and drop them off when they live so far away and don't offer gas money when we're all broke college kids and he has more because he doesn't pay for gas or a car/car repairs. i have not picked up this person for events, because i don't want to start that knowing they won't pay me. a few days ago i did some research and realized that they could most likely get their drivers license because they had good enough vision in their other eye and could probably get contacts to help with the depth perception problem. since finding this out, i REALLY don't like this person and i find them very unmotivated. i couldn't imagine just accepting "you might not be able to drive" as "you will NEVER drive." when i asked them, they literally shrugged it off and said "i just accept that and i have found other means of transportation." yeah, everyone else including your mom driving you around your whole life. would this make you not like this person? how would you feel? edit : it pisses me off more because i use to feel sorry for him thinking that it wasn't his choice but just unlucky that he was born that way.

My best friend and I have been close since we were 12 years old (4 years now) and within those years, I cannot recall a single time we've argued, fought, or even had a serious disagreement. It seems like we're always on the same page and we have so many things in common. Of course, that's not to say we don't disagree, but the closest thing we've had to an "argument" was when I said I hated the brown stuff at the bottom of cheesecake and she said she liked it. Then it ended. I always thought this meant we were just incredible friends because that's truly how I feel about her. Yet, when people see how we're always laughing and smiling and getting along, they claim we aren't "real friends" or we're in a "honeymoon phase" or something. In no way do I feel our friendship isn't "authentic" because we're unable to quarrel, and she's honestly closer to me than some of the people in my family. We share secrets, hang out all the time, and just enjoy each other's company so much. It's not as if I try to appease her either, if she did something I was vehemently against, I'd make it known, but so far she hasn't. I never get tired of her, and I'd say the same goes for my best friend. Is this unhealthy? Does this mean we aren't truly best friends? Of course, your answer isn't going to change the friendship we've held onto for nearly 5 years now, but I'd just like to hear what others have to say.

Im in 10th grade and I'm the biggest loser ever, I have 0 friends and I'm a loner, I'm always alone. I used to go sit in the bathroom stall at lunch and I earned the nickname "Bathroom Boy". I'm known as "the weird guy" and the "weird quiet guy". I wear clothes from kohl's and jcpenney, I listen to classical music, I'm a big Star Wars fan, and a doctor who fan so everyone seems me as a "weird nerd". I am moving to a new school for 11th grade and I am looking for a fresh new start, I basically want to be a cool popular alpha male that everyone likes, but also hates and I want everyone to be jealous of me. How should I act, dress, what music should I listen to, please help me out I want to be popular.

Ok so.. yesterday my best-friend asked to see my phone to get answers on math problems and I said my data was running slow because 1 it is I literally have proof and 2 I thought she had her phone on her and that she didn't want her phone to get seen and tooked by the teacher so instead she just used mines... She always on her phone though so how could I know. She was mad and she stopped talking to me that whole day because I ain't let her see my phone even though we best-friends. Today, she told her other friends that we not best-friends anymore. I let my friend see my phone today because she don't have a phone. I feel guilty and hurt in the inside because we been through everything together and now that we not best-friends or not talking to each other it feels weird. I plan on texting her after school to explain my feelings and everything that happened. Any tips on what to say or do? How do y'all feel about this?

When I questioned him about it he said he didn't know where it was when he was the last person to have it. . The biggest problem I have is liars and I know he's lying about it. I have banned him out my house because he seems to lie about a lot of things like the fact that he was suppose to come house for a hour, but ended up here for hours until night last Sunday and the fact that he was suppose to work on his truck last Subday, but had some excuse ( llie) to come see me when I was on bed rest. I see manipulation with this guy and lies on top of lies there seems to be an obsession with him towards me. Advice on how to rid this guy? That personal item would be my vibrator that I personally paid $50 for. I'm currently in celibacy and refuse to sleep around. Why would he throw this away. It's always in my bathroom, but it's not in there. I'm not pissed about that, just the fact this guy lies to get what he wants. This is why I don't trust men period because of the mind games and lies they give.

All of the neighbors are sleeping with each other. People comes into your yard and would take your lawn mower and then return it after they use it. (They wouldn't necessarily 'steal' but more like temporarily 'steal borrow' It) this goes for any thing not locked up in your garage or shed. Your ladder might dissapear and then a couple of days reappear. People cars are typically rebuilt with really expensive sound equipment (also subwoofers) in them. You hear constant thumping noise with either Mexican rap or normal rap music playing. There are shoes scattered across the power line. There are dogs left loose in the streets of all breeds and different kinds and also stray cats. Our Back yard is nothing but woods hid her there is a meeting area created in it, and people usually goes back there and sits and talks to each other

To make a long story short, I have these "best" friends who are friends with this girl who recently scammed me into paying her $80. Of course I was extremely angry, not just at her but at myself for being dumb enough to fall for it. I guess I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt because of our mutual friends. They were also participating in the "program" (though it turns out they didn't have to pay her). I only did the first day of it, and 3 days in out of (40 days) asked for a refund because I simply didn't have the time to do it. Of course the girl refused and gave me BS responses. Though my friends agree that the girl should refund me, they are naive and don't see that this girl is a con artist. And that they are upset at me for being so mad at that girl! I know it's hard to understand without much context but would you remain friends with people who are defending the person who conned you? This girl is a master manipulator and they don't see through it. I'm very upset and don't know what to do. What kind of friends would do that

So I was hanging out with my group of friends the other day and we were all talking about what we post on social media. I have been recently posting photos of me dancing because I am passionate about it and I am also confident with my body. I have a slim figure but I'm not skinny. My gay friend commented saying 'well not all of us have the body to post dancing photos do we.' My gay friend has also commented on my ballet photos a lot and if I tell people I'm feeling tired he will comment sarcastically 'it's probably all that ballet you are doing.' Why did he say this?

There was a blonde and thin girl who was not pretty but she had the boys beat me.I suffered.Though later I used contact lenses nothing changed.I was pretty.She was not.

My friend says that i get made fun of and bullied because of how i walk. He says that the way i walk is abnormal. I think people pick on me because they are jealous of the fact that im better than them in many ways. This friend says that it's not jealousy. They do it because they think they are better..... Better they all can walk properly and i can't. Now as far as my walk is concerned i think i walk properly. I have absolutely no difficulty or pain in Walking. In fact i had no idea that i walk weird....and still dont think i walk weird.... I don't why he keeps saying that i don't walk properly.

I met my girlfriend when I started college, we called it official on our second year of bachelor's degree, now we are on our last year and lately she's been having some anger outbursts that sometimes scares me. We have the same group and she hates that I talk to this girl that is a friend of mine since I was in middle school. I didn't know she was jealous of her because she never said anything or acted out, you know...giving me a sign like she despites me having a conversation with her. They are friends as well, like I mentioned before we share the same group of friends, she was the last one to join us. Anyway, to the point. I missed a whole week last month and I've started to go bad on my classes, because she came to my apartment arguing about me hanging out and talking to my friend. It was a stupid argument, I was trying to explain to her that obviously we've been friends since middle school and nothing happened then, what would make her think that it will happen now. But she got it all wrong and twisted it saying I was chosing my friend over her. She started hitting me (obviously it didn't hurt) but I felt bad about her hitting me. She even grabbed a knife and told me to not talk to my friend as long as she is with me. Worst thing, she literally cut my face. She didn't stabbed me with it, but she literally scratched me with it. slit my cheek bone, I had to get stitches and lied about what happened. I didn't go to my college classes because I wanted to avoid questions, I am also avoiding my friends and I really don't have anyone to talk to about this. I don't want to tell my parents, I know they would press charges. I won't tell my friends because I don't want them hating on her. I love this girl, but she's hurting me. She's also good and loving; and honestly this caught me by surprise.

I love my dear friend, she is my world. I often tell her i love her and she will say it back quickly. Shes a reserved person who doesn't show much affection mych. Although recently she has started to say it first, and even after our phone calls before we say goodbye. I love it just as much as i love her don't get me wrong, but why has she started doing that?

I distinctively remember I was four years old and peeking through a crack in the door to watch my father shower because he did the same to me and I saw. I saw his dick of course but I didn't really know what it was.

A friend of mine and I are starting up a podcast. No restrictions, no censorship. We're both chatty and have a lot of stories to tell and a lot of topics to discuss. We're almost polar opposites on a good handful of topics so it should be interesting. The goal is to make this comedic and fun so any suggestions would be helpful.

I'm 30. I feel bad I can't be friends with boys 16 and older. I work at McDonald's, and everyday I see cute guys come in. It would be wrong to ask them to spend time with me, after work - right? Not at my house, of course......we can sit and chat at Starbucks. Again, I feel more comfortable with boys 16 to 25. Your thoughts?

Yes, even at work he's texting me and calling me on break. I can't breathe right now with him messaging and talking to me all day. I thought with him being at work, he would be busy and focused on work..We would talk less , but see each other on the weekend..He comes to my house on the weekend, its the same thing. He's at my house from 8 am until night. I need breathing space esp after going through a lot lately like abuse a few months back. I'm not ready for a serious committed relationship and I told him this.. This clinginess is starting to get to me. Advice please ! He had 3 breaks today, and it's always can I call. It's annoying dearly. He's always under me every time he's around. I've asked him many times to back off and here he is. I do care for him as a frienfriend, but don't like a,man under me so much..I couldn't take care my business today because there he is

My bff, she told me I was her bff and that she would never get another. I moved away, and I miss her so much. But will she still want to be my bff? Do you think she has another by now. How should I ask her? Would it be weird if I just asked if I was still her bff? Oh, I forgot to add, I am moving back to where my friend lives.

I was corresponding with this guy online for weeks we'd chat every day i'd send nudes he send me some we both haven't had sex in a long time so I thought it would be worthwhile to wait. he works long hours he'd email me at work and we was back and fourth whenever the chance for us to meet up came up something would come in the way. last night he told me he slept with someone else i then told him we could be friends but we will never hook up. (Have sex) he replied why? I said because i said so, so drop it. he got very angry because he really wanted me but couldn't get away from his busy schedule. he wanted me to let him do anal sex which i never allow and *** in me but anal and private i said you can never have me because you're sleeping with dirty whores I don't want to catch diseases you can keep your chlamydia, Gonorrhea, syphillis and herpes became I don't want your dirty *** anymore there isn't enough penicillin to make me want to sleep with you now, i told him to keep my nude photos as a mento of what you will never taste or have to and stop writing me i was blocking him on Yahoo mail we haven't spoken since. I had sex with someone else. He slept with two at the same time I apologize were talking again we're staying as friends though.

all of my friends are major marvel fans and most of them have been since the first RDJ iron man film. they were all going to see endgame and wanted me to come with them so in preparation i watched every single MCU film the week before and have become completely invested in the franchise to the point where i cried more than my friends at *that* scene. i wanna talk about it online and stuff but i don't want to come off as that one annoying person who pretends to love something so they can join the hype train, or be a pain to my friends over my sudden love for the MCU. so does that make me a fake fan/ should i wait for a few months before changing my profile picture on twitter to tom holland?

I don't feel jelousey, only feel anger on fortnite, have only felt bad for someone once and it was when i saw some kid on youtube named junior get killed, Don't care if i get in trouble. Don't get scared. Dont feel bad for homeless people, and my prinicipal got mad at me for having no emotion and getting 13 refferals this year. Also, with girls I never have got sad or mad when I stopped talking to them. What is this reason i dont have any emotions besides hapiness and anger on fortnite

Little background here my husband and I have five kids ranging from 13-4 months. Our house has a 6 foot privacy fence that backs up to the side of the neighbors house if that makes sense. They have an 8 year old daughter that's in my sons class. They moved here in November and are renters. I for a time let her come over to the house to play because her parents would leave her home alone and she's left alone every night from 10pm to 2am. However there are times the kids don't want her over. She's extremely rude and bossy when she's over. Whenever I say no she will not stop asking it's a minimum of 15 times a night she will ask and then will try and climb the fence. When she does this I get extremely upset we are on 3/4 an acre with a pool and trampoline I do not want her coming back there. I've talked to the parents and still does not stop. She will not leave my son alone at school and he's super sweet about it but getting really frustrated. She tells his classmates she loves him and he never once has said anything mean about it. But I just don't know what to do. I'm annnoyrd my kids are annoyed the parents don't care. Advice needed pls