My dad always has and it really makes me uncomfortable. Like me, my brother, his girlfriend and my dad are watching tv and he just casually puts his butt down the back of his joggers and itches. He's scratching lots tonight and I feel like leaving the room. I'm not gonna say anything btw. Never. Also when I was on holiday in the hotel room, before going to sleep, he laid on his bed naked front down playing solitaire on his phone. I know since I was younger he's been comfortable to be open. But I'm 15 and I really don't like it. Anyone experience this?

Is it because the grandparents shouldn't have to spend their free five days a week taking care of their grandchild? or is because having grandparents babysit five days a week puts the baby at risk of becoming attached to its grandparents more than its parents who the baby will only see in the evenings and weekends?

In 2005 my mom and dad divorced after my dad found out my mom had been cheating on him. My dad was a Major in the Marine Corps in Iraq at the time. My mom announced him he was pregnant but after the initial happiness he figured that he hadn't seen her in too long so the baby couldn't be his. he divorced her. My mom went to live with the man she had cheated on my dad with.I was 12 in 05... Sometimes she would bring me along with her at the house of this man while dad was in Iraq. This man was actually nice to me and let me play with his xbox while he was probably having sex with my mom upstairs. I didn't initially figure it out. I thought he was just a friend so when I told my dad about it almost casually he found out about the whole thing. Fast forward 14 years later my mom and that man don't live together anymore and she lives with another man. I don't have a relationship with my step-sister who is now 14 and even though I let go most of my anger towards my mom I still have some resentment towards her for ruining my family. Advice? I don't have money to go to therapy

they keep digging through my messages etc. because if i dont leave my accounts logged in all the time, they insist I am hiding something and have a shitfit. they proceed to dig up stuff about my sex life and shame me for it. i think the whole situation is weird and they need to stop crossing that line it is not protection it is straight up invading my privacy i dont live at home, but they want to inspect all my devices when i visit. i am working on opening additional accounts to have privately but i dont think they have the right to invade my privacy in the first place

My Fiancé keeps talking about moving now that he got a job promotion, and I don't want to. I need advice! My fiancé and I have been living in Overland Park Kansas for about a year now. We met in college in Virginia, where I am from, and moved out to Kansas after he got a really great job offer. We both absolutely love it here. The area is great for young people, but also for families who want to raise their children here. There's plenty to do and everything is in a short distance (plus very little traffic!). We were slow to make friends at first, but now we have multiple couples we hang out with on the regular and we each have a few friends on our own as well. He is from Dallas, Tx and originally we were going to move there after his job training (We did long distance for right at year before moving to Kansas) But he got a better offer with his job to start out in Kansas first. I never wanted to stay in Virginia even prior to meeting him, so it wasn't a hard decision for me to make any type of move. I was very excited about living in Texas at first, but now I'm not. His plan was always to work with this company for 2-3 years in KS and then to transfer to the companies headquarters in Dallas. At first this was no issue because I figured I wouldn't like Kansas all that much and we would move to TX and all would be fine, but I fell in love with it here. I like the idea of us getting to be on our own and live our own lives. We visit family (and vice versa) but besides from that we have no other family connections in Kansas. We made our own friends, found our own favorite restaurants and things to do, we've gotten into an awesome groove here and love all the local things this area has to offer. We have amazing friends, and I love love my job even if I don't make as much as he does. He doesn't have a lot of coworkers, but he really gets along with his boss. I don't want to have to start all over in Dallas if where we are living is so great already. Dallas is in no way any better than Overland Park, and if I had to add a complaint-homes are less expensive to purchase here, its less crowded (and less traffic) and just seems more laid back, play you can get more land with housing here something I've always wanted growing up). His parents are also somewhat of an issue I would like to avoid. I absolutely love them and his entire family. But his mom can be worrisome, and I know she will try to spend a lot of time with us if we moved to Texas since she doesn't work. (She is so sweet, but she visits us every other month if not every month already and can come off as overprotective) He is a momma's boy and doesn't know how to say no to her. I sometimes think he wants to move there because its comfortable and he wants to be near them, but I like it being just us. He used to (and still does) say how much he loves Kansas and could see himself staying here, but then always reverts back and says how excited he is to move back to Texas. Now that he received this job promotion sooner than he thought he would it seem like the idea of going to Texas has intensified. What do I do?

I work as an intern in a office. At an office party, I didn't have a date so I brought my mom. The next day I was talking to Bob in the employee break room and he told me. "I see where you get your good looks. Your mom is beautiful". Trying to help my mom, "I said she is single too". He said, that is really unusual. She is so beautiful she could have any guy she wanted". Bob is the greatest looking guy in the office and is the guy ALL the single girls want to date. I said "does that include you?" Bob said "I would be very flattered to date your mom but with all the guys she could choose from, I doubt she would date me. Would she want to date someone younger than she is?" I want to fix my mom up with a date with Bob. I know she would enjoy a date with him. I am just not sure how I can do this. Anyone have any ideas how I can make this date happen? My guess is Bob is 8 years younger than my mom. Gals, is there any reason you would not want to date a younger guy?

So I basically told this woman that she was in prime mating condition and asked her if she wanted to nourish my seed. She had the gall to saw eeeeew and then hell no, so I touched her shoulder and said it was her destiny to be my vessel. She backed up and kicked me in my family jewels. Since then I have a really hard time getting an erection to the disappointment of women everywhere. How do I fix this?

Would you be embarassed if you were still close to your parents despite being an adult (20)

I just wanna be in control and have my own house, kids, a job, and have a big happy family. I know there's tax, bills, and hardships, but I want that. I just want to have responsibilities and not have everyone being responsible for me.

for example, if I say please fix the tap water doesn't come out at all. he shrivels his face and doesn't do anything. then when my brother says why the water is like this he gets scared when he is saying the words and starts thinking about how to fix it right away but doesn't do it either. is my language the word 'you' has two alternatives. one you use when formal one informal but is ok with close people when I said it he said no one had the guts to talk to my dad in our house then you talk like this? then when my brother called him mentally ill because he gathers money his whole life he didn't say anything. my mom also annoys me not my brother. think about it. I do chores and other stuff instead of her then he treats my brother better? who doesn't even bother to fart.

We do not live in Alabama or anything but is it weird? Keep in mind she is 9 and he is 21.

we live in Tehran district 10. she says we have a house in district 1 which is in uptown. the place is near mountains.she says I want to go there my father should take her there.whats her problem? and tell me the story if you had a mom like this.

We got into huge fight this morning, because I kept on telling her she needs to wake up earlier, because she drive me to school. Most of the time, she waits till 6:50 to get up. Then she slept me over that, and I ended hitting her and left a mark. I don't like when I do this, but it's a natural reaction. I keep crying, I don't know what to do.

i'm studying travel to be a flight attendant but where my mom lives there are no near air ports but there are loads near where my dad and his family are. i have two years of college left but i don't know when and how to tell her.

My friend is going through a ton of **** rn. First of all her step mom is verbally abusing her, by manipulating her family into hating her. Than her dad sexually abused her. She has no proof of this, and my sister keep saying the law isn't going to believe her or some ****. Is there anything I can do?

My cousins kid got taken away from cps due to an argument she had with the kids dad and the state automatically takes the child away of any kind of arguemen in front of the child happens. Anyways, the child is presently living with the paternal grandma and she is not allowing my cousin to visit her son on mother's day just because she doesn't like her. So far she kept the child for his b-day, x-mas, the moms b-day, Easter, Halloween, mother's day, etc, etc.

My daughter is 2 years younger than her female friend group. The school allows younger students to go if they're invited. My daughter is a good kid and all of her friends are well-raised, respectful people. However, I'm just concerned that most 18 year olds tend to be a little more mature than they were two years ago. Also, the prom takes place at the big city in a hotel I'm unfamiliar with. It's possible for me to arrange plans with one of the older girls whom I trust and have her safely get my daughter there though. I know that horrific feeling of being left out of special occasions while all your friends celebrate. On the other hand... I also recognize that it isn't my daughter's prom. She is not graduating yet. This is just her friends' special day and they're willing to share it with her. Even with a well behaved good kid, there's always safety issues.

A man said that i can't get gf / wife because i was born from poor family so i have a grudge against my parents. What do you think?

My sister recently came back from college to live with us for the summer, but I'm just so unhappy. I can't stop comparing myself to her since she's much more stylish, in shape, healthy, and skinnier. She's also very charismatic and likable, so people naturally like her more than me. She does so many fun things with her friends from karaoke to road trips to even international trips while I have to stay home over summer. She always seems so much happier with her friends than I am with mine, and my other sister and parents definitely like her more than me. They might love us all the same, but they definitely like her more since she always makes them laugh and carries the conversation. I know that I'm being petty and immature, but I just can't seem to get over it all. How do I deal with all of this?

My sister screams a lot especially at night she will scream if I tell her no. my sister is 16 years old. I tried ignoring it. but to no avail. any solutions?

I was cautioned against telling his parents, because I don't know what they're like (in some cases, the family is worse than the kid). For the past 8 days, someone has been digging up my flowers and spraying paint all over my yard. Gross leftover food was thrown in my property. Then, somebody attempted to kill my outdoor goldfish by putting toxic liquids in the pond (I'm unsure of what the liquids are?? My husband suggested it's either juice or detergent). That's when we decided to set up cameras. It captured a teenage boy who lives nearby us, but he's with a friend who I cannot recognize. We weren't home when it occurred but we can go back in time with the camera and see what it happened on our property 4 hours ago. We are pretty upset that a person would do this. The boy has no reason to be messing around. We barely know each other, he never spoke to us. It could just be a stupid teenage prank that went too far because he has too much time on his hands.

The child's parents are anti-vax and refuse to vaccinate their kids. Meanwhile, my own son is too young for vaccines. It leaves both children unvaccinated.

So my younger brother has a couple of bullies in his grade. We live close to a pool where he likes to go swimming but now they apparently told him not to go there or he'll get beat up. Now he doesn't dare to go there himself and since our parents don't care (they think he's simply wimpy and need to man up) he asked me to come along for protection. Now, I've seen these two boys and they're pretty damn big for 11 year olds. Even though I'm a 22 year old woman I'm fairly small and geeky and certainly not athletic. I'm worried what would happen if they don't listen to me? I really want to help my brother but I have to admit this isn't really my area of expertise. I feel really bad and embarrassed about hesitating about this, I'm sure all would be fine if we just went down there but still, any advice would be helpful.

he has anger issues and my mom says he loves us but he doesn't try to do anything about them, he only does it on me and not to anyone else. it's always been this way since i was young and it sucks. he yells at me and it emotionally hurts me so much and he even hitted me a few times in the head so hard that i'm starting to lose my memory a bit. he calls me dumb and makes sure i can't do anything special at all... he even held me into a choke position once, but i did something bad, but he almost killed me...

So can anyone give simple steps on how to get it atm I am 15 and 5 months and also how do I convince a parent to let me have one ?(I have food grades)

So my ***** of a mother once again asked me to go to counseling with her. I did it because my father asked me to go. Anyway my mother is acting like she's the victim! She set me up to be humiliated. I love it how it's been 6 years it shouldnt be an issue according to her and the counselor yet it's been 6 years and I still dont think it's funny. My butt or a picture of my butt has zero business in high school English. They never should have done this! It wasnt frigine funny. If there was no harm intended what was the whole point of doing it in the first place? I mean it's been 6 years when do they think I'm gonna laugh? Why do it once if you know it's not funny

Whenever my aunt greets me and my family when she visits our house she cups her hands on my cheeks and gives me a big fat kiss on the lips with her red lipstick, leaving a sticky red stain on my lips. My family thinks nothing about it. What should I do? I've tried to say something about it but my mom says it's normal.

she's only off twice a week but it's enough to drive me crazy. first of all, on her off days she never leaves the couch. she sits on the couch hogging the tv from morning until night over 12 hours. she doesn't even drive to go buy her lunch, she makes me go drive to get it. she acts like she doesn't want to work in all honestly. she talks about how she's basically retired already. I wouldn't mind her being home if she didn't complain so much. she complains about kids, about her job, about her family, about a tiny crumb on the floor. she complains about everything under the sun. she complains that our 18 year old son has been home for two weeks even though he is currently getting paper work situated for a new job. she told me " make him apply for jobs" over and over and I was like " he already has a job, quit nagging me about this." she even complains about our 23 year old son that's already moved out. I've just come to the conclusion that no matter how good or bad things are she will still never be happy. I was talking to my sister about this and she was like " your wife needs a hobby outside of the house or a second job. too much time on her hands." and I said " her hobby is watching tv for 16 hours straight."

Alright so, my brother and I haven't been close in at least a decade. He is a very selfish person and so him and I never really have gotten along. I see him maybe once a year tops. Anyway, I've been unemployed since February because my boss had some sort of vendetta against me, and the entire staff ended up quitting because of her behavior. In the mean time, I've been taking a class to get my real estate license. So, I haven't just been sitting around. Apparently he went off on my mom through text (which I wasn't aware of) about him saying that I should find a job and work while I get my license. I'm sure there was a lot more, she still didn't tell me about any of it. I just happened to over hear them talking on the phone.I just find it funny that he's trying to criticize me on my choices when he doesn't even attempt to be a part of my life. What do you guys think?

So my brother girlfriend tried to punch me when I was walking away a week ago i didn't swing back at all I backed up when she tried to swing she lives with me and my mom and my brother i am currently waiting to hear something from my job so I can save up and move out . I am 22 years old.My mom doesn't believe me about my brother girlfriend she is very disrespectful. My mom had kicked her out but now she is back my mom said she chooses my brother girlfriend over me. I'm not going to let his girlfriend get away for trying to punch me . the only reason why I didn't hit back is because I did jiu jitsu and a little bit of kickboxing training when I was younger and I did it again a year ago and I'm about to go back to it and I knew I could seriously hurt her that's why I didn't hit back.

I am a single father who lives with his 17 years old 3 years now, after me and his mom broke up. We still have good relationship with each other though. My son is a very nice kid, he is kind and he have never been in trouble before. Last night though, he asked me if he could go to his girlfriend's house for a couple of hours, but it was already late and it was a school night so I said no. He asked me again and I explained to him why he couldn't go but he will not understand and try to convince me let him go. I denied once again and he got so mad that he called me some pretty nasty names. I couldn't believe it, I was shocked, mad and upset. After this he turned away,went upstairs and got into his room. I spent all night asking myself why he would talk to me like that and what should I do now. This morning, when he came down for breakfast he wouldn't talk, but I could see he was feeling guilty. I called his mom after and we both agreed he needs to be punished. When he came from school I told him he is grounded until further notice. I have taken away his ps4 and phone, I changed the WiFi password, and I would allow him use the laptop only for homework! I am not sure if this will help though, I feel like I am overeacting, and idk if that is a suitable punishment for a 17 years old. Am I doing right? I also apologize for any grammatical mistakes,my English might be bad cause it's not my native language. He hasn't apologized to me yet but he accepted his punishment willingly