If you had an affair with a woman for 18 months, would you forget her after it's been over? Even if you get another mistress?

So I slapped her, right across her face. My question is, how do I make her be less sassy without beating her?

Even if they have kids and a partner?

Subconsciously I think I feel like I'm owed feelings and/or attention from guys my mind or heart latches onto even if we only had exchanged a handful of words. I'm in my 20s and starting to realize this is possibly what ive been doing for most of my life when it came to romance and how this is the thing that is going to keep bringing me down. If I can't let my imagination roam about being close to my crush without seeing him in reality and not expecting that he should express feelings towards me or even talk to me at all then maybe I need to reign in my imagination. Girls seem to have plenty of that by the way, I know us girls tend to get obsessed with a guy way before anything ever happens, sometimes before he even knows our names.

In guitar hero. Am I a bad person?

especially considering most wives don't want sex with their husbands anyway? you would think a wife would be grateful to have a husband who shares the chores and expenses but never pesters her for sex. nothing about him has changed. he's still the same man she married. he still loves her. just not the way a straight man loves his wife. why divorce him and start over?

I'm 26 and my husband and I have been together going on 9 years and will be married for 3 years this year. I love my Husband more than anything but for the last year I haven't been all that happy. About 2 or 3 months ago I finally told him that I was no longer in love with him anymore and that I no longer feel any emotional connection with him. Also.... The past 5 months I have developed feelings for a friend who is a female and I do believe I am in love with her. I want to be with her but she is also in a relationship with another women and is happy. But she too is in love with me. She is 45 and I am 26 so there is an age difference but that doesn't bother me. I don't really know what to do. I want to stay with my husband because I love him and we ha EA a been through so much and he's all I've ever known but at the same time I feel as though I was never able to figure out who I am or what I want. It's always been him and I. I huge part of me wants to be with this girl but unfortunately I know we will probably never be together... Am I a terrible person for this. What should I do?

I have been the glue that keeps the relationship together for about 9 years now. I research relationship advice, I change who I am to help make the relationship work better, I help her when she is going into depression so she can realize when she's slipping on our marriage and neglecting us, and finally I try my HARDEST to make her happy (she's super high maintenance). But today I've decided "Eff it" and I'm done doing more than my share and I'm going to do her the way she does me (not at all). But this has me scared that she won't catch on and just get too comfy taking my paycheck and being a strong, independent, entitled, introverted millennial... Last time I didnt put effort into the marriage she didn't care. If anything it was like weight was lifted off her shoulders and she could do whatever she wanted without a nag telling her what to do. I kept my distance for about a year (2009 to 2010) and not once did she miss me and wonder what I was up to. She instead joined a woman's group and had her companionship needs get met through girls depending on her. This group has since been disbanded, but what would stop her from doing that again? She clearly wants to prove she "dont need no man" but I want her, is that wrong of me to want her? What should I do? My wife hasn't "wanted" me in just under a decade and she is sexually prudent/avoidant 28 out of 30 days. All that's left is to start over and try to flirt her up and pamper her like we weren't married and start all over...

My question is am I asking too much. I have a 7 year old step daughter and a 9 month old son. We can afford the $450 in childcare with my paycheck alone right now no problem. I asked my wife to start looking for a job and she got annoyed with me. She doesn't want my son to go to a very good day care on a military installation. I trust my sons life and health at the business. My wife said she won't work full time because she doesn't want him there. I've asked her to have an open mind about it and I don't know any person I trust to provide childcare so day care was the only option I saw. There are no part time jobs where we stay. We drive 40 minutes to the nearest city so the gas alone wouldn't be worth part time work for us. She still refused and I told her i don't need her to be a stay at home mother. I am a father. I have the same responsibilities you do and I will be fulfilling them when I'm off which gives you ample time to earn extra income. I'm not asking her to break her back but we would benefit more and I'm here to help. After quitting school 4 times and 4 jobs in 3 years I've had enough. She planned on staying home until my son was in school. She has plenty of time for work, relaxation, and investment. Am I asking too much especially when our work schedules would allow this to work?

Does time parent time spent in these areas count, say for ex a sport: - helping learning the skill in the first place (playing catch in the yard or passing a soccer ball) - building, buying, or aquiring tools of the trade to help make progress (backyard shooting nets, balls, gloves, bats, pads, cleats, specialty equipment) - going to the practice, watching the child, having conversations later to help them understand what they did well and their shortcomings. - watching professional athletes live or on TV with the kid to help them understand how its done at top levels (could be college sports as well or even going to high school games) - coaching the team, assisting the coach, donating time to help the league Often, these activities add up to a bunch of effort. While they most certainly help the child socially in building friendships, confidence, and lifelong excercise skills, does the time this parent exert count in the same way that washing dishes, or doing the laundry count? What about other areas where one parent teaches a child? Say piano, guitar, or another instrument. Teaching painting, writing, acting? Math, Reading, Science? How to read maps and chart out trips?

i picked her as normal at work at 9m as the normal only thing was on my way this time she was stumbling drunk walking across the street light, she could barely stand straight, and her was all messy