My son is 24 and his wife is about to turn 23. They have been married a year and they are both in school full time. They lived close to the university however my son has to pay for his school out of pocket due to residency reasons. They could not afford to go to school full time and work full time while paying bills. I have agreed to let them live with us and I'm unsure of how much to ask for before they officially move in. My son works full time making $12/hr and my DIL works part time making 10/hr. Any recommendation on what others are charging?

I have low self esteem and confidence issues. I can t give a ******** without my teeth getting in the way and I get scared when doing it I don t know what to do. I don t do any of the work in sex because I can t ride him it s hard to move my hips or bounce I can bounce when I m not on him but when I get on top it s gone.

I think so, I don't see the point in marriage and I don't think romance love is even real. As a straight guy who has been in a lot of relationships with women, I don't think so. I've never really felt a special type of love for a woman. Also according to this website: (https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/vdbjpj/science-says-love-doesnt-exist), the romantic type of love isn't real at all. I mean most couples do seem to break up or get a divorce. I honestly think humanity would be better off if people didn't get into (so called) romantic relationships with each other and marriage didn't exist at all.

My husband complains we aren't having sex. Which is true because when we go to bed he cuddles me and falls asleep. I have a low sex drive so I'm not really bothered but if he wants it that much why isn't he making any move ? I always tell him if he initiates it i will follow his lead but he never does but always complaints it's not happening. We only get initimate when I initiate things and that's not too often as I have a low sex drive but it can't just be me. All he does is cuddle and sleep. Is that his way of initiating things ?

Long story short: I want to start a dive boat operation down south, and I have the money to do so. I have it planned out pretty well. (Dive boats on average get around 6 people per trip, multiply that by 2 trips per day, is 12. 12 x an average cost of $90 per trip, gives you over $1000 daily. And you can do 3 trips per day, and make it over $1600 daily! This while getting some sun, and enjoying life. The boat would be less than $600 a month on a payment plan, and the dock fees, insurance, etc would still pale in comparison to the profits I would make. I already have a successful business where I make close to $100K a year, and I know that I would be successful in this one too, and I already am an advanced and rescue diver so I have almost all of the certifications I would need. Instead of telling me what was wrong with my idea, or why it wouldn't work, or why she wouldn't be ok with me doing it, she simply was giving passive-aggressive responses like "Well why don't you go do it and I will stay here" or "maybe we just aren't meant to be together" or other passive aggressive, hateful responses. This got me really angry! Why would you treat your husband like that? I already make really good money and put food on the table. We have money to go on vacations, we have good food, a nice TV, and can eat out a lot, etc. I asked her if she just didn't wanna move down to Florida with me to start the dive boat operation. So, she finally just flat out said "I don't want to" Well, I asked her "ok thats fine, but WHY don't you want to do it though?" She avoided the question and would not say why! This repeated for like 3 minutes of me asking her WHY, and her beating around the bush or just screaming "I don't want to!" And I'm over here thinking "Ok great, we freaking get it, you don't want to! Thats fine! I respect that! But I STILL HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW WHY!" She would NOT tell me why! the Bible itself says that a wife and husband should not have any secrets! Like a woman or a man should not be b*tchy and cold and be like "you don't get to know why. Just take no for an answer." That is an answer that you give to some weirdo, some dog who is talking to you. Thats not an answer that you give your husband or your wife. Your husband or your wife you should respect enough to have a real conversation with. It sucks that my own wife apparently does NOT RESPECT ME! I got so frustrated from this that for the first time in my life, I broke an object. I told her that if she didn't tell me why, that I would break her phone. I gave her until the count of three (3) and I made it VERY CLEAR that I would break it if she did not TELL ME WHY by the time I got to three. I even pleaded with her, and I counted twice, not just once. Finally I broke the phone. Then she breaks down sobbing and crying, and I'm over here thinking YOU STUPID IDIOT! I LITERALLY TOLD YOU THAT I WOULD! YOU WOULDNT EVEN GIVE ME AN ANSWER!

I'm having an emotional affair with a single guy. My husband is always working and I became good friends with someone from our church in Provo. My husband is an alcoholic and when he's home he's drunk or passed out. He often sleeps on the couch because he's so drunk. My freidn and I have prayed together cooked together even hiked together. We became closer when my friend was diagnosed with leukemia. I live him like a brother and I've met some of his girlfriends but I'm falling in love with him. These feelings have been happening for 3 years. I sometimes drive him to treatment but I need you to understand I don't want to hurt my husbamd. Once when my friend was feeling sick from chemo I made him soup and he want me to just hold him on the couch. He was in my arms his head on my shoulder and sometimes my breasts. I've been praying on it and I've gone and met an attorney to divorce my husband. Am I out of my mind? All that my friend and I have done is cuddle and kiss. Should I reconsider this?

at at 10pm at night when it's closed and they had sex on his desk..

Afraid I don't have time left to achieve the things I want (too old). I'm unhappy in my marriage also. My husband is disgusting, overweight and also impotent. I've become infatuated with a celebrity. I seriously think about him day and night, imagining being with him instead of my husband. To make matters worse, I have no friends to spend time with. I'm in therapy and take meds. But they don't seem to help.

Where I work is being taken over by another company and they are eliminating the department I work in. This will be a disaster as jobs are very hard to find in this area. The new company told us they have openings in other departments but you have to have some very special training to get these jobs. I checked and this training is very expensive. Losing my job would be a disaster. I tried to borrow the money for the training from everyone I knew but no one would loan me money. I was down to the last name in my phone book, my ex husband. I finally got up the courage to call him. We had a friendly divorce but I had never asked him for money before. He said I will get back with you tomorrow. MUCH to my surprise he called back and said his current wife Joan would give me the training for FREE. I was in shock. Could this really be happenings? Joan did give me the training free and I got one of the new jobs that paid more than my last job and I had a great new boss. Joan was the nicest person EVER. I can not say enough good things about her. All my friends that I told about this said I was the luckiest person alive because usually the new wife wants nothing to do with the previous wife. She must be a saint to do what she did for me. I know I owe Joan big time. Please give me some thoughts on how I can repay her for the kindness she gave to me. Kind words are just not enough for this EXTREMELY NICE PERSON.

My husband has little sense of decision making and common sense when it comes to parenting. First of all, at about 6 PM we decided we would go out to dinner with our 9 yr old son. They first went outside to clean the garage while I called my dad to ask him about a business idea I had. My conversation with my dad took longer than I thought. When I finished my call, it was 8 PM. I went downstairs and saw our son still on his Ipad watching youtube. My husband and I have had numerous conversations about this but he still allows our son to use it for hours. It was late so, we decided to eat in. Our son wanted spaghetti for dinner even if we had a good beef stew cooked the night before. My husband still went to the to buy the ingredients. He is flattered that our son wants the pasta he makes. By the time he finished cooking, it was 11 PM. Our son was sleepy. He ate his pasta and waited for a bit to digest before going to bed. I wished my husband had the sense to just feed our son the beef stew while I was still on the phone with my dad. This is just one of many situations where my husband could have acted smart and practical as a parent. I am open to going to therapy but on what grounds do we go- due to his lack of priorities, sense of judgement?

Just proves you can't win whatever you do with some people.

I have been married to this guy Tom for 7 years. We have 2 kids and met online. We were engaged within a few months of my 1st divorce. Below are some reasons I am considering splitting the sheets: 1) He is verbally abusive to my son from 1st marriage and I. Cps was called by the school because my son told a classmate that he was sick of being yelled @ by stepdad and sick of his mom being yelled @ by stepdad. 2) His parents are bullies to me. They lie on me and he defends them and says "I deserve to be treated like this" 3) His best friend Ron bullies me and he allows it and says I deserve this 4) He has cheated on me and said I deserved it due to hanging out @ the mall with my ex 5) He has called/or PM'd guy friends of mine I have known much longer than him and threatened their lives if they dont delete me from Social media and stop talking to me 6) He Puts his bands above the kids and I. 7) He half works. He had 3 jobs alone in February. Whenever Ron tells him to go work where he works, Tom follows and Ron usually gets fired or quits and Tom copies him. 8) My child attempted suicide because he was sick of Tom. Cps is aware of this and my child is 11 and in a mental hospital because he is "sick of his stepdads mistreatment towards him and his mom" (he told cps and the hospital). He depleted my bank accounts by not working and overdrafting . He also bought thousands worth of music equipment and has charged stuff on my credit cards he takes. I am disabled and lost my job when I was in the hospital and he knows this. He constantly tells me I am worthless, an idiot, a loser, a cripple, and that no man will ever want me and I wont ever be able to support myself ( I have 2 college degrees unlike his 0 degrees). When I told him what cps and the doctors/nurses said, he accused me of conspiring with cps and doctors and said "we are done if you dont set them straight. I am being framed, I did nothing wrong, it is your psycho child, not me or my family".