So, I live in a house with my brother, and his girlfriend. We each pay 75 a month torwards bill, than we pitch in about 40 for groceries. My bros girlfriend only works one day a week, Anyway, she bought a car from a mutual friend of ours for $600. I'm sure she could barely afford that as she works one day a week. The car needs new license plates, and the breaks need repairs. So, this is were it really starts to irritate me. Her friend was having a wedding so she went and bought a $200 dress After the wedding, they were going to go to san Francisco for a bacholaret party. My brother knew she wouldn't be able to make rent if she went, but she really wanted to go. She came back with all sorts of crap. Probably $100 worth. Bill day came the next day, and she told my brother she couldn't pay right now. My brother let her pay a week later. I didn't know this till yesterday, but I did suspect it. It makes me mad because she could have gotten her car fixed, paid rent, and whent and gotten a full time job. Shes always sitting around depressed because she has no money, and no car, and then she does this. I told my brother I'm done pretending to like her. I've just completely been ignoring her. If she starts talking to me I'll just give her a real short reply as to before I'd be real nice and ask questions back. So do i have a right to be mad at her? Oh, I should mention, my brother and I own the house equally. I'm 24, bros 21, and gf is 20.

My daughter is 18 and has been smoking weed since she's been 16. Me and my husband thought that it would just be a stage.She is hanging around a girl that is into smoking she is her "best friend" so my daughter got into the mix also.It keeps going on to this day. We told her she is not allowed to hang out with her at all she's a horrible influence. Recently I have been going through her phone and I found out that she is still hanging around this girl. I decided to take the car I might be putting it up for sale if she doesn't get her act right. Every week its something. She's always coming home like smoke. Me and husband are handling things in a non-proper way. We let her out the house, when I call her and ask her what she's doing and we assume she's lying we tell her to come straight back. It's never a sit down anymore its a physical altercation. We put our hands on her knowing it was wrong.We both choked her and we all fell down to the ground leaving my husband on top of her still strangling her. I hate being in these altercations but what else can we do. Ontop of that her so called "boyfriend" is a drug dealer!! We try to kick her out but who is she going to call? I know she's not responsible enough to even be out. Someone please help. She goes to school but doesn't stay on campus. Her grades are outstanding its sad that we cant even reward her for it.

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My ex has kept in contact with me and this week he has text me twice just to talk. I broke up with him officially, although it was because he distanced himself. He's in his 30s but is used to being alone. He doesn't even have one night stands, he just likes his own space. We slept together a few times after we broke up & he just wanted to cuddle and hold hands & see me the next day as well. But we haven't in months & he asks me if I want to go for a drink sometimes but I say no. The last time he text me asking if i wanted to meet him on the weekend I asked him why he wanted to see me & he said "I do miss you." I said something like "Well sorry i I don't believe you." And he said it was true. He still messages me. Sometimes he talks to me like we never broke up, saying he wishes I was there just to cuddle, or sending me pictures of this event he went to that he thinks I would like. Does he just miss talking to me?

I'm not completely sure where to start. I was raised in the Catholic church until my parents seperated when I was 13. Eventually religion just faded from my day to day life. Fresh out of college I married a girl (I'll just call her R). She was raised in an agnostic household. We had a secular wedding. As time went on and we started talking about having kids I began to remember my times growing up in the Catholic church. It was like a support group, or a larger family. I loved the community and even more important I loved feeling close to God. After months of trying we found out R has many problems and is currently going through ivf. During al this time our marriage got strained. She's didnt understand me turning to religion and I hated feeling like a tool, only useful for my genetic material. Having a baby become her obsession. Then I ran into a childhood friend's little sister (F) and before I knew what was happening I was madly in love. she was Catholic and understood why it mattered to me. Soon she was pregnant. I'm excited but nervous. This has to be a sign from God! I was unequally yoked and strayed but found my way back and was blessed with a child! But the hard part is explaining this to R. Im going to break it to her soon so prayers for courage and strength please! And for R to soften her heart and understand. I need an annulment I assume so F and I can get married in the Catholic church hopefully before the baby is born. Is this something R has to agree too?

So my husband dropped the mormon church about a year ago to join my christian church, since then mormon's my husband have never even met have been showing up at our door on a monthly basis. One of them, who is a married middle aged man, (we are both 22 years old, mind you) lives down our street and invited us over for dinner. I told my husband its pretty obvious he just wants to win you back to the mormon church, and so we just didnt respond to the text. Well two months have passed, and now he called my husband and asked us to come over, when my husband declined, the man asked "why?", and my husband said we do not even know them, so the man proceeded to invite himself over and asked my husband a good time. My husband, being non-confrontational, told him one o'clock, and now this man is coming over to talk to us and I am pretty freakin angry, to be honest. I find this man extremely rude, and feel I do not want to hang out with this middle-aged stranger down the street. WHAT THE HECK DO I DO PEOPLE???

So I knew this guy since we were younger he was my older brothers friend. We had a thing for each other but never said anything. We recently got back into contact after sometime and we text but there are times where I send the last text and he won't reply until the next day which is totally fine I understand he's a grown man got his own stuff to do it's all good. I just feel like I will bug him if I randomly text him first the next day? I always wait for him to text me first I feel like if I text first I bug people and if he wants to talk to me he will text me. There is also a side though like does he really want to talk to me that's why I don't send the first text. I might be like this because I was in a 9 year abusive relationship and I was only allowed to call once or I had to wait for his text so idk what to do am I putting to much thought into this?

One year ago I ended the relationship with my childhood best friend, a girl 3 years younger than me that I've known since I was 5, my best friend, my little sister my everything. When we got together we were 20 and 23, but then she started having problems in her family (they ended up living in a poor house because his uncle raised the rent knowing that his.dad was unemployed and her mom was the only one to work - her uncle is a bastard, I know). Her parents never told her about their problems (his dad's operation, the lack of money) and she found out everything when she came back from college (where she also was bullied in the dormitory). All this problems (plus the previous bullying she had during middle and high school) was too much for her she started going into depression and self-harm. Once she was so mad that she cutted her cheek with her fingernails in front of me making her face red and bloody and said: I'm a person hated by everyone, my life is not worthy, I just wanna die and leave this world, you'd better get some sane girl not me, I'm full of problems. I tried so hard to heal her and help her but it was too much, she often spent all her day with antidepressives and sleeping it was just horrible. I miss the child, young girl she was before all that. But I with her during all her life so I know exactly why she ended up the way she did. I saw her smile and her enthuasiasm fade away year by year and I just couldn't help it I felt so helpless. I spent so many days sleeping with her while she was crying in my arms and I know what she went through. I told her thay I would always be by her side no matter what, I was still her brother but she told me crying that she didnt want to see me anymore because I would hurt her too much, and everytime she sees me in town she just doesnt stop to talk and hardly says hi and replies with short Answers to my messages and questions. But I know exactly that she's still hurting. She acts like this just to hide her bitterness and anger. I miss her so much. I am so mad for how things went for us. She's still like that but she doesnt want to come back with me. I am broken inside. She didnt move on. I see that she's still like that and her mom tells me the same, I am so sorry for not being enough to heal her. I still cry everytime I see our childhood pics, if I remeber how she was everything to me, my sister, my best friend, my ideal girlfriend, the one... why did it end up this way? I miss her so much, I miss the beautiful memories we shared, I moss her skin, her hair and her laugh. Everything. But since she came back from college sad and bitter and since she started living in that dump house with mold and a broken floor evrything went down.