I'm in college right now and my friend who's getting married later this week has the date around FINALS and i don't know about ya'll but finals come first. Anywho she has a wishlist on target and i was going to purchase right then and there but is it possible for her to pick it up or it getting mailed to her? If so so how do i get to that point? i don't want to buy something i can't go get for a while.

Good morning, my name is wika from Indonesia and my boyfriend is singaporean,. both of us are planning to get married in Indonesia. but we do not know what requirements are needed by my boyfriend to get married in Indonesia (the requirements that need to be brought from Singapore to be able to get married in Indonesia). Please help. Thank you very much.

Long story short we've been together 5 years. Bought a house so I took her to city hall. I haven't gotten her a ring because money was tight I'm 25 now and she's 27. She had a major stroke (bleed) suffered a lot of paralysis and had brain surgery. Still 6 months later she is paralyzed in the hand and told last week she would need another brain surgery. I wanted to get her a ring before this next surgery. I wanted to buy a band and out her grandmas diamond in it (1 carat). I bought the band ( I researched her style on Pinterest and things like that). She had a very expensive one pinned but I went with the closest one I could find to it. We are going away for the week to cape cod so i wanted to give it to her there. I told her mom and she said I should buy her a bigger ring with more diamonds. When I told her I was going with this one she got upset and told me fine whatever do whatever u want. Can u tell me if this is a good choice by me... She likes the curvy style. And the diamond is going to be round (not set yet) http://m.design.jared-diamonds.com/Item/R999211086804/sc/

I am interested in holding a cotillion for my birthday. Still a long time (January 2018) but I want enough time to plan and budget everything. I was looking on Yelp, and asking around, but if anyone knows any nice and spacious facilities in the Bay Area of California, that would help me a lot. As of how many people, let's say for right now 300 people. But I'm welcoming any recommendations! It would help if you could input your experience with the owners of the venue if you have planned an event.

My sister is getting married and she is only having my Dad's side of the family to the wedding. Our mother died early last year and so she is not asking her side which is kind of weird. I was/am really close to everyone on my mother's side but my sister is not nor was my mother. My sister took my mother's side whereas I kept reaching out to extended family. So anyway her wedding is coming and I am going to feel embarrassed being at it with only a few relatives there (My Dad is an only child so it is his cousin, me, my sister and her husband and kid, and my grandmother and great-aunt only from our family). The husband has a relatively big family with about 25 relatives there. So I am not looking forward to the wedding but of course will go. How do I handle my anxiety about dreading the weekend of the wedding (last weekend in June)? It is bringing back bad memories of when I was little and not allowed to see my mother's side of the family because of my mother's issues. I will be missing a family event that weekend on my mother's side actually but I do feel obliged to my sister's wedding. @C--I do plan to attend my sister's wedding as there will be another family event Labor Day I am her 23 year old brother (the baby of the family)

What do you think about getting a ring online? (Jamesallen.com)Prices are cheaper, you get to view the diamond you want and the selection is incredible. They have amazing presentation when delivered. I feel as if I have found the perfect ring for around $5,000. She would love it. But.... women, how would you feel about receiving an engagement ring from on online store? Would that make it any less special? I want it to be absolutely perfect and I know that she will love this ring! What do you guys think about getting rings from online stores!? @sheloves: Never said that. or at least didn't mean for it to come off that way. I just don't want others looking at it and being like oh where did he get it? I just don't know how people react when you tell them you bought it online? or when you tell your friends that your husband bought it online. I know that my girlfriend will love any ring that I give her so I know that that doesn't matter

Some background: My mom married her husband when I was 14. I'm the youngest of three girls and he has two daughters of his own who are younger than me. My stepsisters were spoiled their whole lives and never told no by their parents. It meant I never developed a relationship with them. It also hurt my relationship with my mom. She was always on at my sisters and me over favoring each other over them. Fast forward to now. I'm getting married in December. My mom wanted to pay for the wedding. But it was important to my fiancé and I that we pay for it ourselves. So she's trying to help me with some of the planning. She keeps bringing up the guest list and my stepsisters and says I can't judge them based on how they were as kids. I do agree with that. But they haven't changed. At her and her husbands vow renewal, they caused a lot of chaos and trouble at the restaurant over what they wanted to eat and acted like kids when someone tried to compromise with them. And at my aunts wedding, they were allowed to get away with bossing people around, bullying them, changing things for their own entertainment and harassing the photographer and my aunt and her wife into letting them be in all the photos. My mom told her she was being unfair to them because they're not blood when my aunt tried to get her to control the situation. It was a mess. I don't want that for my wedding. I also don't want them trying to push their way into bridesmaids roles, which they would do. Am I wrong, though? Thank you for the answers everyone. I'll be talking to my mom again. I'll make sure she knows she can't control everything (she's tried to do this mine and my sisters whole lives). It can just be hard to say no because I appreciate the fact she was a single parent for so long and did so much for us. But things are not good. So maybe this will tell me what I need to know about my relationship with her.