Family: Question: Is my mom ok looking..she feels plain?

Question: Is my mom ok looking..she feels plain?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:53 PM PDT

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Question: I hate my dad and wanna live with my mom?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:38 PM PDT

He calls me "his love" and "baby" and stuff like that. I know it doesn t sound bad but it creeps me out and he knows it. I have never been close with him (people think we re close because he says we are but I barely talk to him and I go to my room whenever he comes home). I ve lived with him since I was eight when my parents divorced (judge choice living situation). I ve wanted to live with my mom since the divorce but he doesn t care. He literally quit his job to move across the country to a lower paying job. Now he only lets me see my mom three weeks out of the years (2 summer, 1 winter). I m suppose to spend even year Christmas s with my mom but he always comes up with an excuse to cancel when it s her turn then he gets me and my brother (lives with mom in Georgia) odd years. its unfair. Everybody knows I wanna live with my mom. She knows he knows our whole family knows yet nobody will do anything even though I m 16

Question: Does wearing ripped jeans make you a slut?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:37 PM PDT

Apparently I really enjoy wearing them some of them are really torn some are slightly and confident in wearing them, and I know I have nice legs apparently my family thinks it's slutty cheap and it looks like I'm naked I'm sick of all this.. Also fashion is one the things that makes me really happy it's something I'm really passionate about I like doing it and wearing things which are in trend not because I want attention also I can say is that it's something that makes me really happy even if my life is bloody mess. I literally have tears typing this.

Question: Is it normal to get hard when your dad gives you a foot rub?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:35 PM PDT

My father and I have a very strange arrangement. He has a strange foot fetish and can only get off after he gives someone a foot rub. My father offers me 100 dollars cash to give me a foot rub, usually lasting around 3-5 minutes. He then goes into his room to relieve himself. My father owns a successful concrete company and is very good to my sisters and I. Would you let your dad rub your feet for 100 dollars? (Sometimes I just let him do it for free it feels nice)

Question: My boyfriend is disant and cold and gets mad about every little thing I do?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:26 PM PDT

We're both 18, we fight alpt. Our family life styles are different. Mines Italian so we're loyd and my parents are divorced and they fight a lot and my sister died too. His family is quiet and lay back. We went to the cape for 4 days I told him it was gonna be the best, but my parents started fighting and he started to get scared. He said some hurtful stuff to me, saying that this trip is ruin, at least I go to a normal school unlike you I broke down in tears and didn't know what to do, I felt like I was stuck in a box and didn't know his to get out. He said tome get your head out of your ***, he was blaming me like I plan it out. Now I'm home and he's home. He wanted to go home so bad. He got yelled at a lot and I feel bad. I had a painic attack one night bc of us fighting and he ran I. My room and had to twje me to bed and wait to I'm skeel next morning he comes in room and wakes m up. Last night my dad screamed an said get out of her room, my heart sunk.he blamed me. I feel safe around my boyfriend. I don't know what to do. Give him space, let him text me. I said to him I Dersve a appoly and he said sorry but still. I'm not myself, I'm been really down and disant with him and idk why, I don't want his parents to hate mine or me bc if my family being like this. I'm in tears, what can I do to make him miss me, NEDD me, want me more then ever. I want his attention. He just texted me saying hi so should I respond right away or no

Question: A relative of mine is visiting town in two weeks and how would I appropriately inquire about coming over to her mother's while their here?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:21 PM PDT

I want to go over and say hi while they are staying at their mother's (My mother's aunts) but I don't want to impose. How would I politely do it? The great-aunt is rather private but I want to make the offer but without her thinking I am barging in. Any ideas? It is two weeks from tomorrow to three weeks from yesterday that they are here. I ASKED THIS MORNING AND GOT FEW ANSWERS SO THOUGHT I WOULD ONE MORE TIME IN MID-DAY

Question: Why is incest considered wrong?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:21 PM PDT

I'm an only child, so I might have opinions due to that. But why is it considered so wrong? I mean if 2 people love each other what should stop them? Why is blood relations such a huge deal?

Question: When to have a baby?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:17 PM PDT

I want a baby in the future, but I am going to become a doctor. I am 18 now. So if I do 4-5 years undergrad, 4 years of med school, and potentially 8 years of residency I would be around 35 before I would be done with my training, but I want the baby at a younger age. What is the best time during medical training to have one?

Question: Is writing a letter about you moving out to your parents a good idea?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:16 PM PDT

Question: My step-mother and her sister call each other soul mates, is this strange or normal?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:10 PM PDT

They even share a bed when they are at their mothers if not with their husbands.

Question: I have a brother who is a drug addict and how do I know when he is getting better and when he is using?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:09 PM PDT

At some points he is doing good and then he relapses. How do I know when he is using and when he isn't? It is like I hear for two or three months "he is saved" and then he relapses. This has gone on for 6 or 7 years.

Question: I hate my mum's new lesbian girlfriend?

Posted: 30 May 2016 12:07 PM PDT

She is a ******* ***** & everytime I see her I just wanna beat the living crap outta her. My mum introduced that ******* ***** as her 'friend' who is gonna be around a lot, but I knew it was more than that. I ******* hate LGBT! I hate them so much I just wanna murder one! My 13 year old brother also feels the same way. My mom is even planning to marry the stupid whore. It pisses me off soooo bad. My mom has said she has never been so happy, but I think it's bs because my dad made her just as happy as this *****. One time, I almost beat her up for saying my mom is happier with her than with my dad. What can I do to end this stupid relationship? I swear the more I see that *****, the more pissed I get.

Question: Nobodi tell me not to so i did ?

Posted: 30 May 2016 11:49 AM PDT

Question: Is this painter my mom hired using us?

Posted: 30 May 2016 11:42 AM PDT

My mom hired this guy to paint my brother s room. He seemed like a nice guy. When he came he brought his whole family with him-- including his wife, 8 year old son, and four month old baby much to my mother s surprise. My mom is a bit off put because she hired this guy to do a job and wasn t expecting to have to entertain his family. They are hanging out in our house watching tv in our den and asking us for diaper changing stuff like we would own any (my brother and I are in high school). This guy is going to be at my house all day and in consequence we are stuck with his family all day. To me it seems like he is using my mom and they are freeloading off of us. It just seems unprofessional to bring your whole family to work when they aren t invited. Am I over thinking this or is my whole being weirded out by this situation valid? Also would it be bad if my mom said anything to them and if she did say something what should she say?

Question: My step mom is nuts!?

Posted: 30 May 2016 11:36 AM PDT

She has painted our living room a leopard print when my dad and I were gone for two weeks. This has made an argument between them over the house renovation. She also insists that she cooks dinner but she's always burning the food. I'm okay with her. And I'm respectful to her by I can't help to think she's a little bit crazy. She even got a tattoo that says "born to live" recently. My dad and I have talked and he says she's going through a life crisis. She even insists on having a baby but they're both in their mid forties. I don't know what to do. They're a lot of tension between them and I'm caught in the crossfire. She even insists that we let her old college friend move with us. She's worse than my step mom. And far more crazier. My step mom insists that my dad get hair implanted (he's bald) and my dad doesn't want to. My step mom is also dressing like she belongs in the jersey shore and insists I call her Deedee. Her name is Debra... Anyway as j need help. I am 15 year old girl who's thinking her step mom is going off her rockers.

Question: How to get revenge on my 12 year old brother?

Posted: 30 May 2016 11:30 AM PDT

Okay, lets put it at this: my brother is a little sh*t. Every time I want to do something and I tell him I want a turn first, he goes and asks and then when I say that I said I wanted to first my parents tell me no. Like today, I wanted to play on MY xbox, and I told him when we get home I m having a turn. He went home with my dad first and when I saw my dad he told me that he told my brother he could play and that I could play later. This has happened forever! I haven t got a turn in the past 3 days and I told him that and my dad just sticks with it. I need to do something to get my brother to quit. Any suggestions would be helpful please!!

Question: Should I avoid my mother or is that immoral? Read below...?

Posted: 30 May 2016 11:28 AM PDT

My mother is the kind who divides people. If she doesn't like someone then she has to get people onto her side and turn them against that person. She does this in the family among others. When it is family she does it to then it reflects poorly on me I feel as I am not in a position to tell my mother to shut up but I also don't want people thinking I am on her side or something where they will become uncomfortable with me. Her main thing is if she senses someone is upset with her she immediately assumes that person hates her and so she seeks to retaliate behind the person's back. When I was a kid holidays were often wrecked by this since we'd skip seeing certain people my mother was mad at. As an adult now I no longer have to play that game. So now I am an adult and I am starting to just avoid my mother except special occasions like major holidays. I don't speak ill of her but she makes me nervous she is going to cause trouble. So am I morally wrong to avoid her? She is not dangerous or anything but this backstabbing makes me uncomfortable around her.

Question: Ever since my sister died my Dad has been drinking more and more. How do I know what point he has crossed to alcoholic?

Posted: 30 May 2016 11:21 AM PDT

My sister's death was in 2012 from a drug overdose at 22 (she was an addict). Before that my Dad did not drink at all except special occasions. His father died from alcoholism at age 55 (before I was born). He once said both his grandfathers were alcoholics. So it does run in the family. However, when he gets drunk it is social events and holidays. He is never home alone drinking like I would picture an alcoholic.

Question: My brother is going to hurt me...?

Posted: 30 May 2016 11:09 AM PDT

My brother has been abusive to me and my mom for as long as I can remember. He calls me a fatass/piece of **** whenever he sees me, records places where I don t look good and posts it online, and overall just makes me wish I was dead. He s the cause of the depression/mental illness. I m not even sure what I have, because my parents don t want to get it checked, and they ll find out my brother abuses us and will arrest him. College is almost here and I m moving out, but I have to spend an entire summer crying my heart out at the pain, and believing what he tells me, like all the other vacations. So... I had a mental breakdown while he was recording me. I went downstairs and scratched up his game cd REALLY hard, like he can t even play it anymore. I never did anything like that before, but I guess the pressure from over the years is finally breaching the surface. I love my family and I would give my life for them, so why I suddenly did that, I have no idea, and it s scaring me. He doesn t know yet. He doesn t know that I did it either. I have a feeling that once he finds out, he s going to break my college laptop, which I paid for with my own lunch money I kept over the years. He can afford his own game cd. He doesn t need his mom buying it for him. But he s either going to break my laptop, or break my neck. I can t go to graduation with a cast on, or miss the ceremony because I m in the hospital. I paid too much money. What would you do if you were in a similar situation?

Question: Im 13 and extremely bored, details below.?

Posted: 30 May 2016 11:09 AM PDT

I m a 13 year old and i am extremely bored. I have no siblings, my mom doesnt want to get out of bed and will be working tomorrow. I have 2 rabbits but i can t take them out the cage without her permission and they re still scared of us and hide/run. Theres no ones house i can walk to, my closest friend moved to another state. My laptop is broken and my bff is busy/cant talk, theres nothing on t.v. and I also can t get a job because im too young by state law. I can t volunteer for the same reason, and i need transportation but my mom will be at work. Also my parent are divorced and my dad lives in another state, so theres not really anything to do with him XD. I m cleaning tomorrow because its my scheduled day to, and i dont wanna be bored tomorrow. Any ideas ?

Question: A relative of mine is visiting town in two weeks and how would I appropriately inquire about coming over to her mother's while their here?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:58 AM PDT

I want to go over and say hi while they are staying at their mother's (My mother's aunts) but I don't want to impose. How would I politely do it? The great-aunt is rather private but I want to make the offer but without her thinking I am barging in. Any ideas? It is two weeks from tomorrow to three weeks from yesterday that they are here. I ASKED THIS MORNING AND GOT FEW ANSWERS SO THOUGHT I WOULD ONE MORE TIME IN MID-DAY

Question: What's the best way to talk to your parents about cosmetic surgery?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:47 AM PDT

I'm currently 17, and a senior in HS. I'm leaving for college in a little over 2 months from now, and hope within the next few years I could pursue researching cosmetic surgery. While I've thought about a rhinoplasty and submental chin reduction for a few years, I know I'm very young and want to be sure about my choice before acting on it. I've already saved up a few thousand dollars working after school, but additionally plan to get an on-campus job while in college, with co-ops over the summer to ensure I have enough money (I have received substantial marit scholarships from the school I've chosen, and therefore can graduate debt-free as is). However, I already know my mother is against plastic surgery, and my sister (who incidentally bullied me for my appearance) would likely try to use it against me for not being "accepting of myself", as that is a common misconceived stereotype about those who chose cosemetic surgery. Ultimately, I'm scared that I'll be ridiculed by my family for wanting to change my outward appearance (my mom has called the plastic surgery "cheating", as is being attractive is a competition), when honestly I just want their support. This becomes even more frustrating as both my sister and my mom are very look-oriented, & ironically, I'm the only woman in our family comfortable with going through everyday life without make up. I understand this is a bit of a ramble, but if you were in my position, what do you think would be the best way to approach this?

Question: I fought my mom??):?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:46 AM PDT

i was telling my mom that I need a new computer as soon as we can because I can't get through finals and the summer classes without a laptop.. she said she was going to try but we can't just go out and get a 1300 dollar computer and I agreed but was trying to vent my frustration, she then started complaining about how I need everything, and I told her I'm sorry that I'm a successful student that's still never good enough for her and that I still need stuff for FFA, Graduation, and classes and so she called me a spoiled brat and I told her it was her fault and she started randomly getting raged up and slapped me and started taking my things for being an "ungrateful *****" and ran out of my room so I went after her because I need to finish my work and she threw all of my stuff in her room and called my dad saying how I'm a horrible person and that he needs to get home now and so I went and grabbed my things and she yelled at me some more and she was just trying to get me more angry like she actually always does so I kicked her and ran back to my room after she hit me ahain and slammed the door... I have anger issues and once In awhile (like in several months apart) I get these big bursts of anger and I can't control it... my mom just tried to make me even angrier when we fight like she thinks she's the bigger person and like she actually wants to make me feel bad and I can't control myself during these fights so I'm all ready to start throwing hits and that stuff... help a ls

Question: Why does my dad get so annoyed? Why doesnt he get that the guy's like my brother?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:44 AM PDT

When I did a sport there was an assistant coach, he was really young when I started like 24. He would always be there for me mentally and physically. He didnt stand for anyone when undermining my skills or abilities. He looked out for me, and we grew to being best friends. He is practically my older brother, I have such a familial love for this guy that I would give up so much for him. He recently for almost two years struggled with addiction, but when he had to leave from his coaching job after complaints I couldnt stop talking about him because I missed him so bad. Well it paid off and I found out some info about where he was, he had gone homeless after being hit by a car and losing everything. My dad paid for rehab for him and he was doing amazing. My dad didnt like telling me the details because I would cry (it wasnt easy stuff to take). That was the first thing that would piss me off. Why hide details? Im not overly emotional, this stuff is some pretty serious ****. My dad didnt tell me that my coach left rehab when his mom pulled him out, and then again didnt tell me that he saw him. He gets so mad when I ask. Saying "STOP ASKING ME ABOUT HIM. ITS SO ANNOYING." or "YOU DONT NEED TO KNOW ANYTHING." or "DONT ASK ME ABOUT THIS AGAIN". I ask every few weeks, just as a check up or a status update to see if rehab is going well. Tonight at dinner I remembered and asked my dad how he was after going back into rehab. My dad got rlly mad, he said I ruined his entire night. WTF? My dad yelled at me in the restaurant and said I ruined his night and that he doesnt want to see me. He said he cant take me anywhere, and pushed me when I reached to hold his arm. Im very mature and serious about this whole thing. This coach is practically my own brother, I need to know how he is, and mydad is the only one allowed contact. Im almost 18, (in 6 months. )

Question: Do boys like to be tickled by their moms?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:42 AM PDT

Question: Can I prank my younger sister in front of her friends?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:33 AM PDT

I am her older sister.

Question: Forced to go to summer camp soon?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:30 AM PDT

So summer is around the corner and I told my mom that I wanna stay home over the summer. she said "no you aren't going to sit you A** all summer long in home". she wants me to go to a band camp, which I don't even like going to. I mean I made friends with a few kids and that's really it. There's plenty to do in the house and she wants me to make a routine to wake up every morning for this, it's like school but just playing instruments. summer is supposed to be for out of school activities not to go back to a morning routine. how can I convince her so I can stay home and relax a little? btw I'm 14 turning fifteen soon.

Question: My mother acts like she hates me?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:24 AM PDT

My mom is a extremely irritable person, she is very self centered and is incredibly mean. As a daughter, I do appreciate her. But for a really long time, she has been treating me like absolute crap. I am constantly getting screamed at, picked on, or treated unfair. She does the same to my step dad. I am surprised he hasn't left. I have a boyfriend of four months and she is disrespectful to him. My whole family loves him but her. I think she is bi polar or something like that since she can be sitting next to me smiling then the next yelling. I am not mean, I clean the house and I do good in school to impress her but nothing ever works. In a short story, my mom acts like she hates me and I feel unappreciated.

Question: Should I sell my dog..?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:17 AM PDT

So I'm 17, and I got him about 9 months ago. I told my mom I would take care of the dog and I knew I would be completely responsible for him, and she said she wasn't going to help me whatsoever, so I said ok. Then from the second I got him, my mom suddenly became the "second mom" or the "helicopter mom", constantly telling me how to parent him and what to do and when to do it. She always says "He needs to go outside to go potty" like she knows his bladder patterns better than he does, and then she yells at me to take him out. She's basically parenting him verbally, and making me do all the work.... (Like he DEFINITELY doesn't have to go to the bathroom whenever SHE says so, but she makes me take him out every 30 minutes to go to the bathroom, then he'll just sit in the grass and look at me funny, wondering why he's outside...) I could handle all that, but on top of that my mom is constantly criticizing me and saying "You're a horrible parent because I'm the one parenting your dog", when I never wanted to her to parent in the first place....... So, I think since I'm so sick of my mom, now every time she tells me how to parent my dog, which she said before she would have NO PART IN, it makes me kinda hate my dog, because she wouldn't be constantly yelling at me if I never got him..... So should I just give him away, and start with a new dog on my own when I move out..?

Question: I want to be free?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:16 AM PDT

I have a father who is very controlling since I was born. He is same with my mum too. I am now 21. I find it very hard to assert myself with other people as well. :/ It kinda ruined me. As a child and adolescent, I was never allowed to give my opinions if its 'insulting' to him. He has anger issues. I am always scared to speak my heart out with someone. I wasn't allowed to go out much with friends before 18. I was quite an extrovert as a child. I became more quiet as I grew up. He is someone with low self esteem and is always complaining. Nothing is ever good for him. When I come at home, I am always in a good mood. As soon as I step into the house, I become another person. Quiet, sad, depressive. I can't even think freely now. I am always worried. How do I cope with it? I seriously want to be free from him but in my country moving out is impossible until I am married otherwise people talk about you and your family. The other option is me buying a house but that's far away...

Question: Do the following messages below that I've heard about sex and marriage seem inconsistent with one another, practically speaking?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:03 AM PDT

"Wait until you're married to have sex." AND "Don't get married until you've finished all your schooling and established yourself in a career."

Question: I'm 17 about to graduate from HS and my parents are going through child custodial problems. I want to live with my Dad..?

Posted: 30 May 2016 10:03 AM PDT

I'm 17 turning 18 in August. Basically, my mother has child custody of my younger brother, sister and me. To the contrary though, my dad is basically the caretaker. We practically live here as all my possessions are here, he provides food, shelter and most things kids would love including HDTVs, laptops, etc...he is very financially stable. After their divorce early last year my dad tried to distance himself from my mom but maintain contain with the children due to I believe is joint-custody. I do not know the very specifics of it. However, after the whole fiasco my mom has done little to nothing for us. I knowingly understand that she receives food stamps and child support, but she does not use it for us besides EBT occasionally. Ever since the divorce not a single dime that I'm aware of has gone to us for basic things like clothing. She has spent the money several times to go on temporary vacations by herself or with her friends, all whilst she has not invested finding us a HOME to live in (she stays with my grandmother!) or even a JOB. For the past year and a half she has had ONE job (that she worked for a few weeks then quit.) She is financially, mentally and emotionally irresponsible and definitely not fit for the role of a mother even though we are her children. I want to go more into this but TL;DR: Does my mother have the rights to force me to stay with her whenever she wants? I really don't want to be in her perimeter until I'm officially an adult.

Question: Is Happy Gramps a pedophilic rapists that can't seem to get his way anymore, is that why he calls victims of such abuse trolls?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:57 AM PDT

https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160530091948AA26Kv1&rptabuse=1&rptabuse=1&rptabuse=1&rptabuse=1&rptabuse=1 Could Betsy also be a satanic pedophilic rapists to want to call victims of such abuse, trolls? Why would a "bored man" take join in belittling abuse victims, as if they lie?

Question: My older brother won't make any time for his family anymore?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:49 AM PDT

My brother has been away for two years in Africa, and so our mom has been excited for the first birthday with him home. Well, it turns out that he actually went to another state to be with his fiance. And I get it. He is an independent college student who has his freedom. But he didn't tell any of us he was going to another state until the morning of my mom's birthday. My mom is too kind to say it, but she's really hurt that he won't come. He didn't even say happy birthday when he called to tell us! And that isn't all. He is even reluctant to go to my graduation. My high school graduation, and he would rather stay in the state with his fiance. This all started when he got engaged. How should I react? Is this normal? I can't stop feeling negative emotions toward him and his actions. How do I overcome it? What do I do?

Question: What is wrong,grandma bringing out the worse of me?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:33 AM PDT

I,for the past years have been going crazy.I have a issue with body odor and its hard to find work.I have fell into depression and have no life goals,so I stay with my grandma she is of course verbally abusive.she calls me stupid,retarded and crazy daily.she does more stuff that has made me loss respect for her and if she kick me out i could care less as i wouldnt have to see her.Things that make me angry is she spit in food,lied to her sister(my great aunt) saying I was talking about her,embarrass me every chance she get,hate to see me happy,she will then come around making mean comments and statements. more pent up anger by what she does, that will be a story to completely say.but she finds little things to yell about.She does not talk to me with any respect as she hates my guts,instead she talks at me.yesterday i was cranking and said something i truly regret because she heard it,but didnt say anything.I was at my wits in,due to the fact that she can be draining.she got mad because I was sleep and she thought i ignored her when she said help bring in the groceries,i ask her what and she went off with the name calling,saying im a bum,asking am I stupid,saying retarded people do better than me,bc my hair is a mess( as i am natural and have no money for a hairdresser and dont go anywhere).I am a total bum as i sleep in the day time and up at night,so im in the bed on my laptop.I recently was harrassed by a coworker at work and my life was threatened,so i had to quit.READbelw

Question: I have no one really, what do I do?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:31 AM PDT

My cousin who was like a big brother to me, that I would always want to be around, died when I was 8. My grandfather when I was 14, great grandmother in April, her daughter (my grandmother ) this month. My best friend moved to Wisconsin , my close friend barely talks to me after I rejected him when he asked me out. The others were acquaintances. My cousins are disrespectful bitches that do stuff but when someone else does it, it s wrong (their petty double standards). I will literally kill one of them if they disrespect my mother or uncle, that s a promise to god. My family is split because my aunts and uncles are trying to steal money from their deceased mothers bank account but telling extended family it s my mom and one of her brothers. My male cousins( brothers to the one who died) act as if the only family they have are on their moms side. One of my uncles daughters are stupid, they let the other cousins(the ones I d kill) disrespect their dad and when they find out they don t confront them. Then two of his fat ***** daughters talk about me because one of them is jealous for some reason. An aunt is manipulating my great grandfather so she doesn t look bad and so she ll have his money when he dies. The only good thing that came from this is that my cousin was disrespectful to our aunt and fought her and my aunt pressed charges for grand larceny the ***** called crying apologizing because she s afraid to go to jail. I ll give their Facebook names if you want.

Question: Canadian teen's parents: Do you care who does your daughter have a date with?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:27 AM PDT

I'm located in Ontario Canada. Although there's public transportation, my 14-year-old daughter asks for driving her to her date spot. Which my husband usually does. I'm from Japan, and I had never had a date at her age. I've never asked my parents to drive me to date spots... I also don't understand that my husband (from East Europe) didn't ask who his daughter was dating with when he was asked for driving... I said my daughter that next time she should take a bus to the place, or meet the boy at the nearest mall. The boy (16-year) 'offers' a lift. Which his father did last time.... Is this common? (He's from a wealthy family that could have a chauffeur..)

Question: I annoyed my mum?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:24 AM PDT

Okay so today i accidently dented the fridge. I thought nothing of it until my mum noticed it. she got really angry i tried to tell her it was an accident but she kept on shouting at e she even hit me a few times. I lied though in the process because i heard her scream who did this!!!!!!!!!!. She thinks i get too angry and she said im never going to let you forget this. Please help me get over this.

Question: How do I get my Dad to have an interest in being in my life?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:22 AM PDT

Ever since he got remarried he is only focused on his new wife and her three kids. My Dad remarried two years ago and I have only seen him three times in those two years and two of them it was just at my grandmother's on Christmas Eve. So only one has he sought me out. How do I get him interested in being in my life? My mother says he doesn't love me and only loves his new family and I think he is right though it hurts when my mother says this. I am a high school junior (rising senior).

Question: My mother likes to stir up gossip when she dislikes someone but gets mad if I ever quote anyone, how do I point out the irony here?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:19 AM PDT

Like my mother yesterday was stirring up the gossip that her sister might be with this friend of hers my mother dislikes. It turned out her sister was with in-laws and had already told everyone her plans. My mother wanted a jab at this friend she dislikes of my aunts. Get that jab in. She then gossiped about her brother's romantic life (my Mom and aunts brother) and things that were none of my business. So now I am in trouble, big trouble, because I told my aunt "Mom was trying to get in touch with you last night, she thought maybe you were with your friend". My mother is mad I ran my mouth and quoted her. In a perfect world I should have kept my mouth shut but at least I wasn't sharing scandalous gossip. So how do I point out the irony of my mother, the hypocrite, but in a respectful way?

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:16 AM PDT

Ok so I'm a17 year old male and I secretly wear diapers and sometimes use them but today my grandma found my stash and left them on the floor and didn't say anything what should I do?

Question: How do I get my mother to stop complaining about how her mother complains too much?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:15 AM PDT

And now even I am complaining about my mother's complaining about her mother complaining too much. HOW DO WE STOP THIS MADNESS

Question: My relatioship with my parents and how i feel?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:14 AM PDT

Im 16 yrs old male.My father is very strict when it comes to rules.my mother is not like that but she is the type of person who is freaking out with fcking everything,you legitimately cant say something to her without commenting or criticising.After some talks with my phycologist we have come up to the conclusion that my relationship with my parents is not strong and we dont feel close to each other.im generally a lonely person(even though i have many friends,i dont know how lol)but my parents are being strict and overemotional to things that they shouldn't.I recently started dating a girl and we really want each other, we are very close together.I told my mother about it and she got very happy about it.One day me and my gf had sex for the first time.we are both really happy and we feel so much more connected to each other.it was such a special moment for us that i really want to tell my mother.She told her mother and she was really happy for us and because i was very caring towards her daughter. Most of my friends have talked about that with their parents.their parents have asked them if they have had sex yet and they are always very caring about it.their dads have bought them condoms.they have said to invite their gf to their house.im so fcking jelous of the relationship all my friends have with their parents.i want to open up to them,i see it as an opotunity to finally talk with them but im afraid they will jugde me..they always did..not very long ago i had cut myself..

Question: My mom is always sad and it's starting to take a toll on me and my dad...Don't know what to do...?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:09 AM PDT

My mom is always sad or angry at me and my father... She says her life sucks and that we take no responsibility, which is true. I'm a terrible son, I never listen to my mother, I always play games when supposed to do homework and I'd rather be at the gym than with my family a saturday night. I break the rules again and again. My mother has a fulltime job trying to make me graduate. It's not that I'm doing all of the things above with the intention of hurting my mother, but im just fed up... I don't care about anything anymore it seems, flopping all my tests, staying home from school to play games or head to the gym. My father really does try to take care of the family, but my mom doesn't seem to notice that. My dad is a very practical dude, he works a practical job and when he comes home he's tired as ****. He knows close to nothing about technology or how to plan semesters yet my mother flips her **** on him for not taking enough responsibility. And no, my dad barely ever takes care of me or my sister, because he doesn't have any academic background unlike my mom, its very hard for him to help me with my homework when I'm probably better than him at the thing he's supposed to be helping me with. I love my mother, I respect my mother. But with all above said she is always sad, whether its about my dad not taking enough responsibility or me and my sister just being a mess. It feels like she doesn't have any passion left, and that shes just fed up with life. Any suggestions?

Question: Why is it that when I am busy everyone needs me but when I don't have to do anything no one needs me?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:08 AM PDT

I am getting really annoyed with this because it's like when something is really important to me like studying for a final that is when everyone needs me to help them. Or when I want to go out with my friends then everyone else's lives fall apart and I put my life on hold to be there for them. Yet when I don't help them or dont want to help anyone then I'm selfish after everything I do.

Question: What do I do if my dad doesn t like me?

Posted: 30 May 2016 09:07 AM PDT

My dad is a Kung Fu teacher and he has his own business. My stepmom, brother and sister all participated and I lived with my mom in Florida. I moved in with my dad over the summer and for the first few months he basically forced me to do Kung fu but I didn t really like it. Eventually I quit and started to pursue my passion for dancing. My dad was not happy with this and he said that I was not participating in the family business. He told me I either come back to class or I do the dishes everyday twice a day. I chose the latter. Ever since then he has hated me, he doesn t talk to me unless he needs to... He doesn t treat me like he does my stepmom or my other siblings it s as if I m dead to him. He never initiates conversations unless he it s trying to scold me and he always nit picks at every little thing that I do. When he talks about my siblings to other people he doesn t even mention me, and everyday I m constantly reminded that he doesn t like me. I wake up and say "good morning dad!" And he will say "hi". In a dry tone. But if it s anyone else he will greet them like he hasn t seen them in 10 years. I ve tried having a conversation about it but it didn t help anything. What do I do?

Question: My mom is poor, but tries to spend what little she has on me. I have money, so I try to refuse it. Am I being rude? She gets SO mad about it?

Posted: 30 May 2016 08:56 AM PDT

Question: Memorial Day, Lee Greenwood singing "God Bless the USA" and watching grandson play on floor. Does it get any better than this?

Posted: 30 May 2016 08:44 AM PDT

Question: My mom was always kind and loving and paid a lot of attention to me but recently she seems a little distant and kind of ignores me.?

Posted: 30 May 2016 08:42 AM PDT

Question: My 16 y.o. brother threw a house party while my parents were away. I agreed to do the punishing. How do I punish him?

Posted: 30 May 2016 08:17 AM PDT

My parents left for a short vacation. My 16 yo brother was left home with my 21 yo brother. I live on the opposite side of town with my husband. My 16 yo brother invited friends over via Facebook saying that he s throwing a rager, and "byob." But he blocked me from seeing the post. Next thing I know, my husband gets a picture sent to him by one of my brothers friends. My husband is a coach at the local school and has communication with the majority of my brother s friends. The picture is of my 16 yo brother with what looks to be pot. We also received a screenshot of the post inviting everyone over. Next thing we hear is that my 16 yo Brothers ex-gf of whom he still really cares about, was jumped and hit multiple times in the face in front of my parents house And my brother didn t even know. She went to the house to see my brother since she was going to be moving soon, and saw another one of her ex s, felt awkward and went to leave. When she walked out the door 3 girls followed her. They beat her up in the street. She didn t fight back for fear of losing her scholarship. She let herself get hit repeatedly and no one defended her. I didn t hear about any of this until it was all too late. The party ended when my 21 y.o. brother saw what was going on outside with my 16 y.o. Brothers ex. Cops weren t called. The girl is okay, but she has some pretty bad bruises on her face, chest, and neck. HOW CAN I PUNISH HIM? If he hadn t have had a dumb party she would still be okay.

Question: How can I get back at my mom without shoving pizza crust up my butthole?

Posted: 30 May 2016 07:36 AM PDT

I shove pizza crust up my butthole when I'm angry at my mom so she can get pissed because she has to take me to the emergency room. What's another way to get back at my mom? I have pictures if you want.

Question: I'm so sick of hearing my sister complaining about trashy problem. How do I make them stop telling me these things?

Posted: 30 May 2016 07:35 AM PDT

My sister dated this absolute loser for ten years (she's 35). He was abusive, an alcoholic, unemployed and used to hit her. And two years ago he cheated on her. Now all she talks about is him and how much she hates him. Whenever she sees a guy on the street that looks like him, she talks about it all week, she's obsessed. She's always talking about alcoholics and drugs and all of these trashy Jerry Springer show topics. She's become really bitter and is always wishing bad things on people. I understand she's upset, but it was two years ago and it's not as if he was a good guy, he was a violent psycho. She's not an alcohol, she's a perfectly functioning member of society, but I'm sick of hearing these trashy topics constantly: Cheating, drugs, alcohol. I brings me down and makes me depressed. I hate hearing sad things all the time but she's constantly repeating the same story a hundred times a day. Sorry for the grammar mistakes. English is not my first language.

Question: My parents won't let me get a job?

Posted: 30 May 2016 07:29 AM PDT

Hello, I am 16 years old. My parents will not allow me to get a job because they think I will get shot or something for the money in the cash register or that something awful will happen. I really want to work to make money, yet my parents will not allow me to. I am so annoyed, as I REALLY want some money but my parents won't let me work. I would only be working at Dunkin Donuts or something.. Obviously, I know I won't be making tons of money, but atleast it is a start! How can I convince them to let me get a job?

Question: What's the best way to tell parents you're moving out? I'm 19 and my parents intemidate me.?

Posted: 30 May 2016 07:23 AM PDT

Question: Why are big brothers overprotective when it comes to dating?

Posted: 30 May 2016 07:17 AM PDT

I am the youngest and i am a guy and i recently lost 20 pounds I noticed that ever since I changed my weight and style that girls are starting to check me out and I started going girl crazy. However since I started dating my big brother or big brothers I should say started getting overprotective of me. They always tell me not to have sex and to be picky when I am dating. The two oldest ones I am close to are having a hard time with me dating and no they are not jealous because they are players themselves. They are both jocks so they get and girls like crazy but the moment I start dating they get overprotective of me. Why is that?

Question: Is my mom a hellacopter parent and how to stop this?!(15 ots)?

Posted: 30 May 2016 07:13 AM PDT

Ok I'm 17 almost 18... Every time I'm out she will text me and tell me to come home it'll be like 9 pm... And I'll be busy with my friends cause an. Hour before that I just talked to her and she said it was ok I was out. Then all of the sudden will call me so much constantly and keep calling me! Last night I was watching a movie and wasn't paying attention to my phone she called my friends mom!!!! Her mom was in bed!! How embarrassing is that?!!! Can someone please Helps me

Question: What kind of a connection do you think he has with his mom?

Posted: 30 May 2016 06:54 AM PDT

My boyfriend has a weird connection with his mother. His mom is so attracted to men that she actually dislikes women. She keeps saying openly that she loves her son more than her daughter and the son whom she claims to love is actually not cared for.Yet he too is highly attached to his mother. She is so close to his friends and vice versa. She gives them food but actually her own son had been suffering from malnutrition. She keeps washing his underwear although he says no to her. Recently she started creating problems between us by telling lies to him and telling that she doesn't want his son to be married because she cannot live without him. She says she feels that she has lost her son when we got engaged. She gets all the house work done from the son and he is not even provided with his basic needs. If she loves him as she claims then why doesn't she treat him properly? Recently when his debtors came in search of him, she called me and told me to pay it off because I'm going to be his wife. I thought of it as an Oedipus complex but then why doesn't she care for her son and his needs? Even if his needs are not even met, he still wants to be with his mom and says that if he ever has to make a choice he would chose his mother over me. I've been taking care of all of his basic needs and is the sole provider for him. When we're together, his mother keeps calling him and have secret conversations which neither she nor he wants me to hear. What kind of a connection is that?

Question: Am I heartless if I don't think about dead relatives?

Posted: 30 May 2016 06:46 AM PDT

My dad died almost three years ago. I don't really know why I don't like to think about him. If he's mentioned in conversation, I'm alright with it. But I just tend to avoid thinking about him. Am I heartless?

Question: Why does my big brother not want me going girl crazy? Why is he being so protective?

Posted: 30 May 2016 06:45 AM PDT

I am the youngest in my family and I am a guy and i recently lost over 20 pounds and now I am starting to find girks checking me out now that I lost weight and the fact that I changed my hair color to blonde. Now my big brother hasn't really been protective of me before up until now. Ever since I started dating and going girl crazy he started going big brother on me and started acting overprotective when he was the one that encouraged me to date before. He told me the reason why he gets protective of me is because of all the drama he went through with his last girlfriend and it was pretty bad. But to be honest I'm not really looking for a relationship, I just like the attention I'm getting from girls now that I never got before.

Question: Does my sister have a psychotic disorder?

Posted: 30 May 2016 06:41 AM PDT

I know no one can diagnose her but I wanted some clarity. A little back story, we have different fathers, my mom had her when she was 18 and apparently the father was thought to have some kind of disorder. Our grandparents adopted her from what I understand, to keep the father away. My sister and I are 2 years apart. My grandparents moved to the other side of the state. Up until this year (aside from when she was an infant) my sister had no contact with her father. She went through things starting at around 10 years old. She was rude and disrespectful and that turned into odd behavior. She was sent to a home for troubled teens. Two years later the owners of the company told my grandparents she isn t changing and they don t know how to help. She is turning 29 in a couple months. The past 10 years have varied greatly. She went from saying she heard voices in public places, thinking someone was after her, saying there were spirits and things in their house that she could see and talk to. She would threaten people, like when my grandmother called her by her birth name by accident, my sister threatened to choke her. She went through a weird, OCD like stage. Literally shut herself in her room for 3 years, had her meals taken to her. Would blow through shampoo, conditioner and hand soap because she had fear of being dirty as soon as her hands or hair dried. More recently, she is very entitled and snobby. Thinks she doesn t need a job, will get whatever she wants, etc. Help?!