Family: Question: I leave Florida away from my family and live with my aunt in Texas. How do I ask my parents? What all needs to be done to move away? |
- Question: I leave Florida away from my family and live with my aunt in Texas. How do I ask my parents? What all needs to be done to move away?
- Question: My dad is REALLY weird for this, is there any possible explanation for what he's doing?
- Question: Can my moms boyfriend stop me from seeing my real dad?
- Question: How can I convince my parents to be more lenient?
- Question: My Mom only ever defends my Dad when we're fighting?
- Question: Horrible sister?
- Question: My 21 yr old agnostic daughter hasn't gotten married or had any kids yet. Did I fail as a parent?
- Question: Everything is annoying me today?
- Question: Funny/ sad Stories?
- Question: I am going to a family gathering this weekend I was informally asked to. If my uncle forgets he asked me what do I say?
- Question: Not going to step brother wedding?
- Question: Looking for an outsider s perspective: Am I being unreasonable or are my parents?
- Question: POLL: Have you ever not gone to the doctor becuase you were uncomfortable?
- Question: Do you also lose all patience when dealing with your Parents?
- Question: Can my das legally take my belongings?
- Question: Would this be incest?
- Question: What should I do about meeting the man my mother had an affair with?
- Question: I just found out my 15 year old daughter isn't mine? Should I disown her?
- Question: I found my mother's personal diary and she is out of town. I read and it and wondered if I should tell her the stuff I now know?
- Question: How do I get over my obsession-fear with whether or not I will be invited to various parties with friends or family?
- Question: I hate my life so much I'm just gonna kill myself?
- Question: Is the school treating my daughter fairly?
- Question: Is this an example of gaslighting abuse?
- Question: My brother saw me with no clothes on.?
- Question: Should I bring my father to America ?
- Question: What's it like to be involved in custody battles..?
- Question: I need your advice on what to do ?
- Question: Why do I always think of the death of my loved ones?
- Question: I wasn't invited to my sisters wedding, is it normal to feel bad about this?
- Question: When I was little,my younger cousin typed 'private parts' into youtube I am scarred but i think she still watches stuff like that.She is 10?
- Question: Last name change without getting married. When should I change it?
- Question: Husband calls my mom lazy because she is retired, right?
- Question: Can the university tell my mom why I received a grade?
- Question: So I just found out my Mum is cheating on my Dad. What should I do?
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Posted: 19 May 2016 01:10 PM PDT I want to leave Florida away from my family and live with my aunt in Texas. How do I ask my parents? What all need to be done to move away? |
Question: My dad is REALLY weird for this, is there any possible explanation for what he's doing? Posted: 19 May 2016 12:54 PM PDT He has a game online that he gets on after work. At first it was my brothers game but my dad took it, the username was "Amy" but my brother was trying to type "Army" (typo). My dad then downloaded kik (a chat app) and he uses it to talk to the guys from his game about mostly game stuff. But his username on the app is also Amy, and he has a picture of my girl cousin as his profile picture! I have a WEIRD feeling and I've been knowing he does that for months but I was trying to figure out why by myself without lettinf someone else know. He did not have permission from my cousin, and no one else knows that he uses the pic except me and now mom. I knew i shouldn't have looked at his private messages but i had a strong urge to just be nosy. I used his ipad to send a message to my teacher about my chemistry project first. Do you think he has a good reason for using her picture and pretending to be someone he's not online? |
Question: Can my moms boyfriend stop me from seeing my real dad? Posted: 19 May 2016 12:50 PM PDT My mom isn't even married to the dude, he's just her boyfriend. And he said i can't see him til he "proves himself" like what the hell, i understand my dad isn't the best person on the earth, but hes not terrible. My moms boyfriend has been in my life for like 5 or 6 years and hes always gave me a hard time bout everything cuz he likes to...... Well anyways, my mom has custody, but I no it says in the legal papers I'm allowed to see my dad. My moms boyfriend is just a asshole. But I was just wondering if he can stop mW from seeing my dad.. Thanks! |
Question: How can I convince my parents to be more lenient? Posted: 19 May 2016 12:48 PM PDT My parents are pretty cool most of the time. But some things they are really strict about. I m 15 years old. They have a rule that I can t be on my phone past 7 on school nights and I can t take it to my room when I go to bed. On weekends I can have it later, but I still can t usually take it to my room unless a friend is over. I think this is completely unfair. Especially since some days I go to school, go to practice, and by the time I get home it s already past 7. And it s not like I even go to bed at 7. One other thing that annoys me is that they barely let me hang out with this girl I like unless it s at my house. And they don t let us go in my room. They ve let me hang out with her outside the house a couple times but they insist I have a tracker app on my phone. I want to go to her house but they aren t so sure about that. I just need some advice about what to do about those things. |
Question: My Mom only ever defends my Dad when we're fighting? Posted: 19 May 2016 12:26 PM PDT This might sound weird, but whenever my family and I are fighting, whether I'm right or not, my mom will always take my dads side. For example, we were watching a movie and my dad drank 3 shots of whiskey and then went up to get a beer. The only thing I did was say `Don't you think it's enough now? It's Thursday after all´ and he reacted like if I was confessing to a murder. He stands up, decides to stop watching the movie and says `I'm going for a walk´ and slams the door shut. My mom then says `Now look what you've done´ and gets mad as well. I'm honestly starting to get really annoyed because they do this kind of stuff ALL the time, basically acting like they are the ones who are 14, and not me. When I confront them about it, all they do is say sorry and then do the exact same thing a few days later. What should I do? |
Posted: 19 May 2016 12:15 PM PDT Alright, so I am 15, almost 16 and my sister is 18. We have always shared a room and had to be together. But since we were little, she has always been horrible. Shes not just horrible to me but to everyone in our family. She wants what she wants. She get what she wants. She yells at me and I feel like I'm going to have a break down. She has a boyfriend that she is nice to me around but then she explodes at me when he walks out. I mean, my parents had to send me to stay with my sister in another state because she was being so awful. I don't know what to do anymore. I told her so lovingly how I felt but she is the same. I dont know anymore. I feel bullied and broken down. Any suggestions? Thoughts? |
Posted: 19 May 2016 12:03 PM PDT She attends college and works part time. She's going to school for information technology. Women should be stay at home moms . It worries me because she doesn't believe the bible, she will turn 22 on June 17, and she has never had a boyfriend. Why won't my daughter just date a boy, get married, and start a family? |
Question: Everything is annoying me today? Posted: 19 May 2016 11:51 AM PDT when I woke up I walked outside in the back yard my dog was all happy to see me I thought she was going to jump on me I almost snapped at her my moms bird screams just want to rip its head off when someone wants something from me even annoys me today usually doesn't because I usually like helping people I am trying not let anything get to me so easy because my nephew is coming over today he is only 1 years old I just want to snap at everyone today don't know why and the period is not the excuse I don't have it |
Posted: 19 May 2016 11:50 AM PDT I only have a sister, she is my twin sister l, we are really close... Do you have any siblings? How protective are you of them? I have come to realize that brothers are so sweat, I actually never noticed untill we had to evaluate (the catcher in the rye) how much holden is loving to his little sister phoebe and talk about the brother sister bond they had, do you think it is sweat too? Do you know a movie or a series that only involves an older brother looking out for his youngr sister, it doesnt have to be about that but involve it (not from 1900s)..or maybe do you have a funny/ sad protective brother sister stories? |
Posted: 19 May 2016 11:49 AM PDT I asked some questions last Sunday about this. I used to be intrusive as a teen and very young adult. I am not now but one time someone reminded me in an irritable way. So I am 35 now and he asked me to this event but I am afraid come Sunday he will have forgotten. If I get there and someone acts like "what are you doing here, how did you find out" then what do I say? How do I avoid them being mad and never asking me again? I know I sound paranoid and it is the last question I'll ask. But I did used to be intrusive so I don't want to seem that way now more then a decade later. |
Question: Not going to step brother wedding? Posted: 19 May 2016 11:49 AM PDT We hardly got along growing up. He was a very conservative Christian and I don't believe in anything spiritually. He always abused be about that. Verbally belittling because I don't go to church with him etc. I announced my wedding date for May 2017 and sent invitations 2 months ago. My step brother just announced today that he and his now fiance are getting married also may 2017 exactly 7 days before mine. My moms side is confused and think he's doing it intentionally to make things hectic and to try to be first since I'm the oldest, my moms family thinks it's for his own confidence. Is it wrong if I skip out on his wedding? We never hang out or keep in touch. *** forgot ti mention big detail. They leave for the honeymoon the following night, making it so he misses mine. |
Question: Looking for an outsider s perspective: Am I being unreasonable or are my parents? Posted: 19 May 2016 11:40 AM PDT I'm in college (18 yrs, almost 19). I live on campus and am only home for the summer. When I returned home, my parents (mostly my mom) announced a new rule, that my siblings and I can't bring any electronics (phones, iPods, laptops) into our room. We re allowed to use them in the living room, but not in our own bedrooms, and I m not entirely sure what difference that makes. I believe this rule was put into place because of issues with my siblings while I was gone, but now they're trying to apply this rule to me as well. They're worried that we're spending too much time playing games or using FaceBook or something, but in reality, I just like listening to music while doing other things or working on my creative writing or on the job applications they're pressuring me to work on. I prefer being in the environment of my room, which is why I am unhappy with the living room only policy. I am more than happy to show them what I am doing, if that would be an appropriate compromise, but my mom is not satisfied. They don't realize I have much more freedom during the school year in my dorm, and I have been able to manage my time responsibly. It is somewhat hurtful to me that they don't trust me enough to even let me work on the aforementioned things, even though I'm an adult. Of course, I realize that both parties involved are very biased in their own favor, so I am hoping to get an outsider's opinion on this. |
Question: POLL: Have you ever not gone to the doctor becuase you were uncomfortable? Posted: 19 May 2016 11:27 AM PDT I had a lot happen to me when I was younger, I got molested and things happened with my parents. So it's really hard for me to let anyone touch me, I immediately have a panic attack. But becuase of this when something wrong with me it takes me so long to go to the doctor. Unless I'm crying in pain I choose to not go, also because I'm overweight and I just feel disgusting when they lift up my shirt. Im trying to work on this but it's still so hard to go whenever somethings wrong. What about you guys? |
Question: Do you also lose all patience when dealing with your Parents? Posted: 19 May 2016 11:00 AM PDT I understand different generations have been left behind when it comes to technology. However, in some cases it's so ridiculously bad it's like that scene in Zoolander where they can't access the computer files and beat on it like monkeys trying to get them out. This is my Mother. She can barely correctly operate the television remote, and it never fails I want to kill Her when trying to show Her anything on the computer. Other people(cousins) have tried to show Her things on the computer as well and gotten so frustrated by it they gave up. When I tell Her this She gets angry, but it's the truth. She doesn't absorb(or remember) simple things and asks many stupid questions. This frustrates everyone even my Dad. Frankly She's just unintelligent and I don't think that I'm so terrible for having no patience with Her! |
Question: Can my das legally take my belongings? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:59 AM PDT I m 22 years old, I have a part time job, and I m out of school. My dad and I could never agree on rent because of my financial situation. I make about 800 a month, but after food, gas, insurance, credit card bills, my phone bill, I m left with only 100. My dad wants 400 a month for my 5ft by 10ft room, no food, no Internet, I m in charge of all the house work, and I m only there maybe 2 nights a week because I work an hour away and I crash with friends. A few days ago I come home to an empty room. My tv, my ps4 and games, my imac, and all my furniture except my bed were all gone. When I confronted him, he said that he s in charge of the house, if I m not gonna pay rent, I shouldn t own anything. The ps4 I finance through a credit card, the tv was a gift from my work from winning a contest, and they did buy me the imac as a hs graduation gift but the serial number and the apple care is registered under my name. Both my mom and my manager said that all I have to do is prove that I own/bought them and the police can help me out. But my dad is very stubborn and even threatened to disown me if I get the police involved. What should I do? |
Question: Would this be incest? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:57 AM PDT I am a high school guy with a 26 year old step mother. Dad was going away a week on a business trip and he told me if my mother needed anything I should get it for her. I told mom that dad told me if she wanted anything I should give it to her. She said "You can not give me what I want. That would be incest". I know she was joking as she has a great sense of humor. She is a great mother that I love so much. I was just wondering if what she was joking about would be incest if she was my step mother. Even if it is not incest it is NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. I don't want to do it and I know she would not let me do it. |
Question: What should I do about meeting the man my mother had an affair with? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:51 AM PDT She is currently separated from my dad and she is taking him to a play I'm doing. I'm pretty sure she expects me to meet and be pleasant with him. I would talk to her how I feel about all of this but she is the type of person to always deflect whenever someone calls her out on her ****. I'm starting to think I'm dealing with a narcissist and/or sociopath. How should I go about this? |
Question: I just found out my 15 year old daughter isn't mine? Should I disown her? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:51 AM PDT Around the time the youngest child was conceived my wife and I had split for a while, though we'd slept together a few days before the split. Our twins were only two years old at the time so when she told me was pregnant again I thought getting back together would be the best thing to do seeing as we already had two daughters. I'm of English descent and my wife is Greek, her ex is Italian and Greek. The 15 year old, Eliza, looks fully Mediterranean. She's gorgeous, like paler, Mediterranean version of a young Aishwaryra Rai. My twins are blonde and look more like me. I feel stupid for not being suspicious of her being a different ethnicity, but I just thought she strongly took after her slutty mother. I'm so furious. I've spent 15 years of hard work and money on another man's spawn. She's extremely eccentric and loves rock music. It's her dream to be a rockstar. What do I do if she grows up to be a music star who turns out to be a slut like Miley Cyrus or some other glorified stripper? That would bring me shame so is it to just tell her I'm not her real Dad now and spare her confusion or continue on pretending I'll love her as much as my real kids. |
Posted: 19 May 2016 10:46 AM PDT I learned stuff like that she was pregnant before she married my 1st Dad and how he wasn't connecting to her. I learned her Dad did not die in a car crash like she said but committed suicide and my mother thinks she is responsible. Many other things I learned. One was how she resents the attention my aunt (her sister) got over her. She wrote all positive things about me accept that she couldn't bare the noise I made as a bay, I am now 15. So should I tell her, I really liked this but I think she might be mad, especially the pregnancy stuff and her Dad's suicide |
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Question: I hate my life so much I'm just gonna kill myself? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:38 AM PDT I'm 16 years old and when I was a baby my parents ditched me in Australia which is where I live now. They won the lottery and moved to Dubai. I am under the care of foster parents who beat the **** out of me everyday. Whenever I go to school classmates call me a "dumbass orphan" and my grades are slipping because I can't concentrate with everyone bullying me and the teachers dont do ****. I work at a farm where all they do is stand around when I get there and have me do all the work. They laugh and tell jokes and boss me around and try to hit me with steel rods and stuff. and I get paid way less than the others do. I hate my life so much and I can't take it anymore. Any help with my issues would be great because I am on the verge of either jumping off a bridge in a few hours. Man, maybe if I was not so ugly as a baby then my parents probably wouldnt have ditched me. my fault :'( |
Question: Is the school treating my daughter fairly? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:30 AM PDT My daughter is graduating from high school. She took a multiple choice test in one of her classes. After she got her grade we were reviewing the test and found one of the questions with NO correct answer. If that question were not in the test her grade for the course would be high enough that she qualified for a college scholarship. We went to the school to asked that she get a new grade on the test after throwing out the question that did not have a correct answer. Both the teacher and the principal refused. They told us that once a grade is recorded, it can not be changed for ANY reason. We are considering our options. We are talking about a LOT OF SCHOLARSHIP MONEY riding on the outcome of this. Here are some of the things we are thinking about. Post the whole story on YOUTUBE and hope it will go viral and change the schools mine about changing the grade. OR Contacting the local newspaper and TV stations to see if they will give this some publicity. OR Contacting other parents whose children may have been victims of the same test. OR Suing the school board. Any advice on how to proceed will be greatly appreciated. |
Question: Is this an example of gaslighting abuse? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:22 AM PDT When I was younger (early 20s) and living in another state, my brother came to visit. He got very drunk and I set him up on the couch. He got very drunk and crawled into my bed. I asked him to get out. He didn't. He tried to spoon me (nothing happened). I got angry and a fight ensued. My parents took his side because I lost my temper. They said I should have just given up my bed. I say if I didn't try to do anything he would have touched me and it was in my apartment. Years later, I got the courage to call my brother out on this and label it as abuse. My parents got angry and said "they were wrong but I need to shut up about it and it wasn't a big deal." Is this gaslighting on their part? Am I making a big deal out of nothing? ETA: I asked him repeated not to. I also had concerns that if he didn't stop something would happen. I shouldn't be made out to be the bad guy to protect myself. |
Question: My brother saw me with no clothes on.? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:21 AM PDT I forgot to lock my bedroom door and my brother walked in as I was changing clothes. He said "You are the most beautiful hot and sexy woman ever". "If you were not my sister I would have a b0ner 24/7". Is that a compliment or not something appropriate to say to your sister |
Question: Should I bring my father to America ? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:20 AM PDT My father has about 10 children he has never taken care of. Back in his country He s had multiple women pregnant at the same time and has also beaten them while pregnant. My mother has three children by him including myself, and after she had my little brother she decided to leave him for good. He did as usual move on and had more children and continued with his domestic violence toward his partners and even his children. Out of all my brothers and sisters I am the only BORN IN THE USA and he would like for me to bring him to america because he lives in very poor conditions that are due to his irresponsible and careless behavior. He never tried to build a relationship with until now that I meet legal age to bring him to the US. Please help ? |
Question: What's it like to be involved in custody battles..? Posted: 19 May 2016 10:16 AM PDT It looks stressful |
Question: I need your advice on what to do ? Posted: 19 May 2016 09:59 AM PDT I'll try to go as straight to the point as possible Starting from December I've noticed some changes in my mom. It all started with her not liking my boyfriend from school. So as the New Year started things became worse between my mother and I. she started playing victim in every argument we have. She would call my family if I tell her this is not what I want to do" or so on. Many of these arguments were based on either my life choices , college ( she wanted me to go to City college , I wanted to go to Bronx Community ) and my boyfriend .When she calls my family they end up yelling at me which leads to contents break downs I have .Any time I tell my family about her stressing me they say " You're stressing her out with your disrespect" or " Cut out that " oh she stressing me " **** " so since I have no family support I go to my therapist . There has been often cases where my cousin would call me and cuss me out saying that I need to stop seeing my therapist because she calling my mother. look at the other details for the rest When I confronted her (my therapist) she tells me she hasn't talk to my mother in months. There was a situation where my mom and I had a disagreement and then she ran out the apartment crying she brought my cousin over to come cuss me out. My mom idolized my cousin sometimes and think she her kid and when she around my mom act as if I am invisible. . so my cousin said some hurtful things that bugged me and before she left she said " If you say anything else to your mom tonight I'm going to beat you up" after she told me that I went to my bathroom and self - harm myself . I went to my therapist the next day and she called my mom in and when the meeting was over my mom didn't tell ME what happened she told my cousin and my Kindergarten teacher ( family friend ) what happened. My cousin called me and said " Oh you want to go to your therapist and complain about me, well don't ever call me, don't text me, don't come down in the basement (of my grandpa house, she pays no rent and I'm always down their because it's OUR grandpa house) and too also watch my back after graduation then she hangs up. My mom in the living room with my step dad I am so tired of holding in my anger so I kind of got mad at her and said " WHY DID YOU LIE TO HER " And of Corse my mother started crying and my step dad gave me a dirty look . Over the spring break my Kindergarten teacher took me out for lunch and she had me shaking with anxiety when she said we need to talk. She told me that my therapist filed an ACS CASE on my mom and cousin. I was so through with everything. I cried. A couple days after that I've been talking to my boyfriend mother. I am very close with her because I herd constant rumors that I was going get kick out (for what!? my cousin beat her mother and my other cousin yelled at his mom and they still got to live with their parents all I ever done was cry and I'm getting kick out for crying ?) . she piss of that my mom is saying **** about her son that not true and I talk to her about all this and she was nice enough to let me live in her house . She said that my boyfriend will have to pay $200 a month (he lives with his grandparents) and id have to pay for food and other things. All she asks is that I'm in school (college or vocation) also that I am on birth control and she see that I'm using it and that her son is working full time. when I agreed she offered to buy us a new bed and get a family tattoos as a welcome gift ( hopefully I'll get adjusted to dogs I'm scared of them ). I seriously wanted to do it but people have told me stories like "you'll see his mom true colors ". Moving on May 1st was final decision day and my kingerdarden teacher took me to staples to go on the computers I could not decide for college and a career and when I came home I had to deal with hell. my mom and her just sat there and talk **** right in front of me " I'm so done with you " but when I yelled "IM GOING TO COLLEGE" they like me now ... but last thing when I went to visit Bronx College my mom lied and said she proud I went to visit the school. On mother's day her shady cell phone text messages said otherwise. In the end of all this all I'm asking is should I stay or say goodbye? |
Question: Why do I always think of the death of my loved ones? Posted: 19 May 2016 09:46 AM PDT I always think about either my bf my mom dad or sister just my entire family I always think about their deaths for example if one of them leaves the house and says bye see you later I always get really nervous because I think they will get in a accident. I hate this I am always worried.....how do I make it stop ? |
Question: I wasn't invited to my sisters wedding, is it normal to feel bad about this? Posted: 19 May 2016 09:41 AM PDT I was adopted when i was little and my eldest sister never accepted me as part of the family. As kids we had to get along because of our parents being very strict. She is getting married in December and she didn't invite me to the wedding and said that she only invites family. Her fiance has invited me as one of his guests and my sister flipped. I decided to not go. But i still feel bad. What should i do? |
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Question: Last name change without getting married. When should I change it? Posted: 19 May 2016 09:26 AM PDT I want to change my last name to match my step-father s name soon. I feel like a name change will cause issues with various things going on in my life right now , such as applying for Grad school, an internship i m starting soon etc. Will changing my last name affect any of this or am I fine to change it any time? |
Question: Husband calls my mom lazy because she is retired, right? Posted: 19 May 2016 09:24 AM PDT My mom is a registered nurse that has worked since she graduated high school. She was a single parent that sometimes worked 2-3 jobs to support me and give me a nice life. My husband calls me a spoiled brat who had 'everyone handed to them" and says that my mom is lazy and "mooching off the government" because she retired in her 60s with health problems and has social security and pension. Is my husband correct, that she is lazy and mooching? She worked around 50 years. His mother never worked a day in her life and mooched off her husband's executive salary I told him, but he doesn't think what his mother did was laziness. he says nowhere in the bible does it say to retire and we are to work till we die |
Question: Can the university tell my mom why I received a grade? Posted: 19 May 2016 09:03 AM PDT So I messed up and even though I didn't think it was cheating because I just worked together with someone on my homework, we got our grades docked for integrity issues. Obviously I know i shouldn't have done that now but when I first found out I got a D in the class, I told my mom how upset I was because I didn't know what went wrong. I just had my meeting with my professor today and he told me what happened and that I have to accept the D. However, and I know a lot of you are just going to tell me not to lie and to tell my mom the truth, but the guy I worked with also has ties to our family and I don't want to ruin his relationship with my mom. I am planning on telling my mom it was my fault and after meeting with my professor he showed me that I accidentally missed a whole section of the online homework. I am retaking the class and so my old grade will have no effect on my GPA. My question is, if I tell my mom and she decides to call the school to complain or something, can they tell her that I didn't miss any of my homework and my grade was docked for a different reason? They aren't allowed to tell her anything, are they? I know you think im a terrible person but I just really don't want to get both of us in trouble. I think it would just be better this way. I'm still taking the blame for my bad grade. |
Question: So I just found out my Mum is cheating on my Dad. What should I do? Posted: 19 May 2016 08:59 AM PDT I was pairing my mums new FitBit with her phone and she got this message from some guy she knows from work. The content was rather explicit for work collegues to be texting and was on about her sucking his...well you know. I was confused but left it and overnight things started to build and build and build. So when she left her phone unattended I did some investigations and apparently shes been secretly meeting this guy. When she goes away for work, its not always for work reasons. My instinct was to text this bloke telling him to back the **** off my mum. Then I realised I m 18 and not in the best of shape and probably would get my *** handed to me by this 40 year old man. I m an only child so I have no siblings to confide in or formulate a plan with. I want to confront mum about it and tell her but I don t know how she ll take it. I go off to university in a few months and don t want to be coming home and living between my dad and my mum and her new boytoy. Things have gradually grown frostier and frostier in the house with dad losing his job and I m concerned that if mum leaves him then he ll end up some washed up unemployed alcoholic. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. |
Question: What would you do if you were blamed for everything? Posted: 19 May 2016 08:53 AM PDT The relationship with my mother lately started to get way too disgusting,I am always blamed for everything. I admit sometimes its my fault but she is like going way over the board, I don't recall a day the last 2 months that we didnt fight, what would you suggest doing? (im not suicidal or anything, im just looking for a rational solution) |
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Question: I hate my dad because he sexually harassed me? Posted: 19 May 2016 08:35 AM PDT He said "if I wasn't your dad, I would date you." And make flirty comments to me about my bad and stuff. He also checks teen girls out. Everytime I think about him having sex with my mom/where I've came from I cringe and I want to cut his penis off. I think sex is very disgusting. I posted this question earlier but didn't mention about him harassing me so people was like be grateful for your life, he's your dad, etc. he's not my dad, he's just some guy that put it in my mom/ did the nasty but should've pulled out. I'm not young, I'm 19, and I always felt this way about sex. I don't want to have sex cause my parents have sex and I don't wanna be like that. |
Question: My cousin is upset over fairytales? Posted: 19 May 2016 08:09 AM PDT My 11 year old cousin hacked into my yahoo and asked this question: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160227160737AAL8Bvk How do I tell her this isn't real? Even though it was months ago she still is a little upset about it. The worst part is she uses my account to ask questions. |
Question: Are my parents too overprotective? Posted: 19 May 2016 07:41 AM PDT I'm a 16 year old, almost 17. I make decent grades, I have a good circle of friends, and I'm fairly mature. But my parents treat me like a kid still. I have the same bedtime as my third grade reading buddy (9 o clock by the way). When my parents leave for a few hours they let me stay home alone, but when they go on trips they STILL bring a babysitter over. I have to ask for a snack and I'm not allowed to cook in the kitchen without supervision (even though I KNOW how to cook). Only recently have they stopped looking at my internet history. My parents don't let me walk around town unless I have my phone or bring a friend or sibling along. I feel like sometimes they are too strict, but I've never done anything to make them not trust me so much. Do you think they are overbearing? |
Posted: 19 May 2016 07:31 AM PDT Alright so today i went to my aunt's home and spent a day at her place because my mum had to go out with my aunt. When they returned they were in a mood to laugh after sometime my aunt told me that there is a little change in the positionmof my left eyeball. She told me it had moved a little towards the right. I just freaked out firstly i thought she was just kidding but then my mom agreed to her as well and same my maternal grandma. Im just 13 and a 7th grader i do not really want such type of eye problem. Please some body help what is this? What is the cause? And how can it be treated? I looked closely in the mirror and i think it had moved verrrry little. Please help me it is some sort of angle problem or just i took it to serious please help it had moved( which i think) just a little some times it feels perfect its equal but some times i think nope they arent equal. And my right eye is also a litte bit swollen. Please help!! I do not want to end up having a serious eye problem :( thankyou My mum confirmed me that yes my eyeball moved to right alittle |
Posted: 19 May 2016 07:19 AM PDT My mom and my dad might divorce. My mom thinks its my fault, but my dad says its not. What should I do? I feel really bad... I know that I could of listened more, but I am like any other kid, I don't want to do chores. I don't know what to do. I would really miss our family bike rides. Usually if something like this would happen I would talk to my Grandma, but she recently died. That was really hard she was my best friend. |
Question: Not going to husbands stepbrothers wedding because his fiancé stole my spinach? Posted: 19 May 2016 06:20 AM PDT Is that a weird reason? It's real. She did stay in my home the 2nd time I met her and she secretly raided my fridge and took actual groceries with her. I learned the hard way when it came time to make that nights dinner. I literally bought everything the day before. I also do not like her because she stayed at my husbands parents house and left it a huge mess like she was some teenager (she's 33). She also speaks in a baby voice. Very creepy. My husband plain doesn't want to go. He never mentioned why, but I suspect something occurred while growing up. We already hardly associate with them. Is my reason a weird reason to not like someone. Are step families really that important? It seems as we get older it's becoming less and less to stay in touch. |
Question: Is it too late to report rape? Please help? Posted: 19 May 2016 05:59 AM PDT I am 25 years old now but I was raped by my stepdad from when I was 11-14 overnight for all those years but at that time I did not no that he was my stepdad my mom told me he was my real dad. So I was confused and scared because I thought that he was my dad and I was stuck and did not no what to do.. I was stuck between of my mom and dad I was scared to go to my mom telling her that dad was raping me. How could I even say that its sickening. So she walked in on it when I was 14 years and walk off as if she did not see that. So since then my life has been a miserable, unforgettable, restless life. So how they somehow brainwash me to believing that they somehow are change people so I believe the dumb *** that I am... I just now find out that they played me like a pawn. Yesterday they said to me that I act as if the whole world owe me something that I am an evil ****. I told them how did I not see this sooner. SO I AM HERE TO ASK HOW CAN I PUT THESE HEARTLESS BASTARDS IN JAIL FOR HOW SICK AND EVIL PEOPLE THEY ARE!! This was in florida when it happened so let me no everything I need to no. I now have a sister that is 6 years old and scared that this could be happening to her. If not now then maybe future so I need to no what could I do? |
Question: How can my mom and dad to trust me with weapons? Posted: 19 May 2016 05:35 AM PDT |
Question: Why doesn't my mom want me to be happy? Posted: 19 May 2016 05:29 AM PDT My mom hates me has since I was born. She said I can never move out and take my daughter with me. So if I ever get proposed to I have to say no because I can't get married and take my daughter. So know I'm miserable. She even says I'm not allowed to have more kids even if I did get married. |
Question: How do i stop my sisters from telling my mom that i masturbate? Posted: 19 May 2016 05:05 AM PDT Is there any F****** way to stop my sisters from telling my mom that i watch porn and masturbate? Im not joking, im 16 y.o boy, and she's 23 y.o girl, and my other sister is 21 y.o if they saw me masturbating they go tell my mom and my mom punish me? I mean its normal to masturbate?! I know they masturbate too, that's unfair, i even said yesterday i found a dildo in their room, but my mom doesnt care about them, she only punish me, i was thinking to tell my dad about them? Its bad when you have 2 adult sisters, i wish i have an adult brother he would understand me? Do i tell my dad what i found in their room? What would he do? |
Question: Ok so.. I am 14 and I don't know if I should tell my mum stuff...? Posted: 19 May 2016 05:05 AM PDT I have drank but I have never been drunk! I have been to party once and I told my mum about it, she wasn't super angry but just the thought of her angry scares me! When i'm with my friends we usually go buy a few drinks not many at all! But I kind of get worried because one of my friends always tells her mum! And I just feel like her mum might tell my mum! My first party a friends mum knew we were going but my mum didn't she found out! But I don't know Im just scared what do i do? |
Posted: 19 May 2016 04:55 AM PDT She doesn't have to like him but everything I do with him becomes a huge drama if she finds out. I try to keep it a secret but birthdays, holidays, graduations, all have to be about her hate. How do I get her to be the adult and grow the hell up? I am 21 now so old enough not to have to deal with it as much but it is so old and she is so bitter. They divorced 13 years ago. |
Question: How do I get my brother back for the hurt he has caused our mother? Posted: 19 May 2016 04:42 AM PDT He has abused her every way possible though physical abuse stopped at age 15. He hates her and seeks to destroy her. He is now 24. How do I get him back, he is evil |
Question: Are my parents abusive ? Posted: 19 May 2016 04:38 AM PDT I'm a 13 year old girl and live in Melbourne, the other night I will admit I was being a bit of a ***** but my mum punched me in the face and messed up my eye all I did was forget to clean my room I understand that it was discipline but was going that far needed? My mum also scratched my leg until I was bleeding and I'm scared that I'll mess up again and something else will happen, any advice ? |
Question: How can I get my working papers by myself? Posted: 19 May 2016 04:26 AM PDT I live in New York. I m 16. My school doesnt have the option to perform physicals or give the OK to start working. I don t have a doctor and my mom is really lazy. I ve been begging her since the beginning of the year and now we have less than 4 weeks left and still no result! I really need a job. I tried going to a clinic and getting a parent consent form. But my mom needs to notarize it at a bank. She doesn t want me to go to a clinic because she thinks they re dirty. So even if I get her to sign without knowing the reason I doubt she ll get it notarized. Please can someone help me! Nobody in my house wants to. I m running out of options |
Posted: 19 May 2016 03:59 AM PDT My life can be very meaningless sometimes. And my parents can be very, very annoying. I used to have this thing in my head where I would get inspired by whatever someone would say, but this year that hasn't happened a whole lot. I'm running out ideas and it looks like everyone around me is too. My father has been a jerk for as long as I can remember. But my mother, over the course of the last five years has really developed into a *****. This morning I realized that there were no more ideas, so I turned my attention to the law of attraction. But then my mother said something that changed my mind for all of ten seconds then I just got bored with my body and mind. I'm tired of playing those mind games with my health, with me just getting tired the whole time. I generally don't like how people are. I have lots and LOTS of bad memories, particularly of my sister. Who after a certain point in my life became such a ******* *****. She was impossible to live with. Which is kind of how my father is. And always has been. My relationship with my mother really depresses me. I get into fights with her every other day. I'm tired of my thought process because logic just doesn't mean **** anymore. And even if it did, I shouldn't have to find reasons to be happy to try and exclude the depression inside me. I'm tired of my mother, but also of people in general and I'm tired of my life. Because for a VERY long time my life has felt like a big long lie where I've had to exclude all the crap. |
Question: Family problems... parent's relationship. I don't know what to do. Guide me, o' internet.? Posted: 19 May 2016 03:58 AM PDT I hate feeling like my parents are unhappy because their marriage isn't working. I don't like that it's my responsibility to call each of them to make them happier and talk about their problems, and the fact that they guilt trip me when I don't. They never call me, and when I call they don't actually talk about anything real, just superficial push-it-under the rug stuff. I feel like my family is drifting apart. My dad's at home and is almost always stoned, even though he has a successful job, and my mom went to India to try to find herself and figure out what to do with her marriage. I just don't know how to solve their problems, they put me in the middle, and I don't feel like I should be expected to. Being in this position is really stressful and makes me not want to talk to them….which makes me call less. I want them to call me because they love me and care about me, and I want to call them for the same reasons. Am I being selfish? What do I do? I'm a 20 year old college student with two brothers btw. |
Question: How would i find our my deceased grammas birthday? Posted: 19 May 2016 03:30 AM PDT |
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Question: I had a huge fight with my dad. Please help? Posted: 19 May 2016 02:52 AM PDT Yesterday started out great. I got a gold star at school because I remembered to flush the toilet. I was so excited to tell my dad when I got home, but he told me to wait because he was on the phone. Something about our house going into foreclosure or something. The audacity of him to ignore my great news for something stupid. He's coming to my school's talent show next week, and I'm planning on singing Simple Plan's "Perfect" in front of the entire school to show him and everyone exactly how I feel. So what do you think of my plan? |
Posted: 19 May 2016 01:16 AM PDT Say you have a 13 year old very mature and vary cool son. A son you think is a good boy, and usually trust as long as its not about homework How should he convince you to take him with you and let him pick a 15-16 year old sister? (He should pick to make sure everyone get alone together) Space is not an issue, cause he can offer half of his room In shrt, how can a poor guy convince his parents to adopt him a older sister |
Question: What should I expect now? Posted: 19 May 2016 12:35 AM PDT I have this mother in law who s caused terrible rifts in my marriage and family because of her behavior. We had another "falling out." I blocked her onon social media because she took my family business and blasted it for everyone to see. Look, I realize I m not perfect. I accept blame when I deserve it. When it has come to her, I ve always sacrificed and tried to be the bigger person. After so many years you can no longer take it. I just wanted to be rid of the drama. So I sent her a long message pretty much telling her that there was so much I wanted to say, but i wasnt gonna stoop to that level. I just said shes never listened or respected m family. I just said in order for me to heal, i needed to let her go and how she s made me feel. I wrote my peace and that i wished her well, then I blocked her from remessaging because I m not looking for a fued. I felt better...but I m expecting backlash somewhere. Was it wrong to send it? I felt better. |
Question: I got kicked out of my house because I was a very stubborn and negative person.? Posted: 19 May 2016 12:25 AM PDT I got kicked out of my house because I was a very stubborn and negative person. I stay with my father and things are horrible here. How do I show my mother I want to change and will be a better person. |
Question: How can I motivate my sisters to work so I can see more of my hard earned cash? Posted: 19 May 2016 12:16 AM PDT My sisters and their children have been living with me for a few years and hasnt had not one job since. They havent even tried to look. Meanwhile Im working twice as hard to make sure me and everyone else can live comfortably. I went through weeks of no sleep to get a better job and its still not enough to pay the bills. I cant maintain a home...take care of my sisters and their kids and live with my boyfriend at the same time. I mean he has a temp job but its not enough. Im tired of being broke tryna maintain this home while everyone else gets to relax at home and enjoy the little bit of cash they get. I tell em we need more income theres not enough income and they get offended but its been too long!! I cant put my sisters in the street but its not fair to me. |
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