So me and my girlfriend broke up like month ago but we kept talking and I kept begging her to return to me but she kept refusing it and then taking me back and then again dumping. Well not so long ago I found out she has this guy and they kissed she didn't deny it at all she said he likes her and wants to be with her and but because of fresh breakup she don't go out with him (which I assume it's a lie I am sure she goes outside with him if they already kissed) and at this point I was really hurted what she did ofcourse I got angry sad emoctions just exploded even at that moment we were into argument and clearly werent in relations but what she did felt like a betreyal and I know I can't trust her anymore plus we have distance relationships I go visit her but always have to wait for VISA which is hard but now I know she has someone else there well not clearly sure but if she said she kissed someone then ofcourse she does have someone. I just don;t know how to get over this pain it really ruined me I just cannot stop thinking of her but yesterday I;ve decided i won't call her anymore won't text her and trying to avoid any social contact with her but its really hard. I cry today i really cried for maybe 1 hour it felt better but feelings returns and thoughts that someone is kissing her or even sleeping just kills me. Now I started to walk more watch movies and problem is I dont have many friends my bestfriend moved couple months ago I don't have with anyone to hangout.

My ex fiancé that I still live with due to no real choice of my own. He pays the bills plus the car I drive it s his so when he s mad he ll take the keys from me or hide them so I can t leave the apt. He s very insecure because I get a lot of attention. Ive been dealing with depression and I hit a rough patch in life and I ve been looking for work for a year and Ive had not much luck obviously. I have skills, a great resume and cv, great personality, experience in real jobs but no one wants me I guess they can sense my desperation. I used to strip at clubs off and on for 7 years since I was 20 to be financially independent. I m now 27 and considering this again temporarily so I can have the means to move out of this toxic situation. I have no family that will help my mother won t even help. I call and cry for her help but nothing. I feel like the black sheep. Plus I have no real friends but guys that like me. I don t look 27 I still look 21 or under plus I m still very attractive and I know I can get the money I need stripping quick to get out of this guys apartment, get my own car, and move on from this toxic relationship. I plan on moving to another state where there are better job opportunities when I get the money saved up to do so. So should I start stripping again to remove myself from this situation before it gets worse? Serious advice please.

I don t believe in their church, and I have told them this, but they don t listen. I would just sit there and go if it was just church, but I also have seminary every morning, mutual, church camps, and everything else. What should I do to persuade them to let me leave? Please don t convert me to Mormonism, our tell me to just wait it out, actual advice would be more helpful.

She is 37 and im 16 boy. She has one kid who's 10 boy too. I email her pretty much daily and I refer to her as mom. Last mothers day i made her a card and her son did too for her. I also get to use her iPad everyday to play games or watch movies. I leave my lunchbox on her desk every school day. On some occasions I ask her to bring me a snack if she could. And she brought me chocolate almonds one time and another time she brought me a almond chocolate bar! One time when i emailed her and told her about how i see her as my mother-figure and im worried she only sees me as her student and if she feels the same way. She didnt reply so I asked her about it the next day and she said she slept early that night and was a bit busy. But she said she could be my parent figure at school and she knows about my parents. I was crying when i talked to her about it and I said I feel like i have no parent figure... I think she felt disappointment for me when I did my Spanish project super duper late. I asked if she wanted to check it out when we were in the classroom after school and she said no, some other time. I was surprised because she would usually say yes. I think she was dissapointed in me as a son and wanted to discipline me by doing that. She asked later before leaving the classroom how my project went and I told her that it was pretty good. And she said "Then you learned nothing from that huh?"

Meaning, that the child grows up and is not able to forget how they were treated due to their bad behavior. Doesn't bad behavior bring out negative results? You cannot reward bad behavior.

that seeems kindof abnormal

It's been nearly 2 years I'm turning 18 soon and she's 20, she started by stealing my stuff going in my room (my rooms very clean I always know where things are) and taking things and when I told my parents they would ask her and she would lie (saying its hers) and when I pushed it, a different lie would come out (it was lying in the bathroom) and then a different one (it was on her stairs), until she would finally admit going through my draws and bags, this continued for years. She first slept with a boyfriend after my 16th birthday. I waited for my parents to do something, nothing happened. She slept with a few exs too, she naked sent pictures to lads I was seeing some would turn her away, some wouldn't. She did it again but this was a longer relationship so It hurt a lot more, I shouted to her face she pushed me I pushed her back we got in a fight, she took me to court as she had a little scratch on her and claimed domestic abuse, obviously I won as that is ridiculous. I recently started therapy as my doctor recommend it for how self conscious I've been feeling and I have anxiety and slight body dismorphia, I almost am angry that they've done nothing? My mum said the first time "it's non of your buisness who she sleeps with"my question is why would she do that and never apologise and why haven't my parents done anything? They claim to not know what to do about it but that means I'm the one having to deal with it, i'm left breaking down all the time.

My mom legit got mad I was eating while standing up and I really don't think it was normal to get mad at something so minor. Is that ok to eat like that?

Me and my boyfriend (who I have absolutely no feelings for anymore) have been together for 3 and a half years. For the first couple of years, he was the nicest guy you could imagine. But after that, he started controlling me. He will not let me wear what I want, let me speak to my family and friends... everything has to be his way. He's also jealous and possessive. Whenever I speak to another guy, he gets furious with me and always accuses me of cheating. He sometimes calls me a "sl*t" and a "sl*g". There have been a few instances when he has gone up to the person or people I'm talking to and says things like "She is my girlfriend, not yours. If you want to keep your limbs, I suggest you stay away from her." He's also clingy. He has to be with me 24/7. Even if I'm not with him for 1 second, he goes into a tantrum until I'm next to his side again. I've tried breaking up with him dozens and dozens of times, but everytime I try to break up, he gets angry with me and doesn't accept my break up. I've had enough. I feel like the only way to break up is by cheating on him. Should I cheat on my controlling, jealous, clingy, possessive boyfriend?

A week before Christmas your sister tell's your mum she will be there. On Christmas day your sister ring's your mum and tell's her she has went to a hotel to get a break. Your mum cry's.

I was molested as a 8 year old child until I was 12. I also was forced to watch porn too during those times. Through my years of middle and high school I would be curious to just go to s porn site when I think about my past. Now I'm 21 and I was in a three year relationship two days ago. My girlfriend broke up with me because she found a porn picture on my phone. I told her I want to stop and be better for her. And she told me she doesn't understand how in the world me being molested has to do with watching porn . I don't mastraubate to it just look at pictures

Hi, I m in 10th grade now soon to be 11th, and my cousin is in 9th grade soon to be 10th. Ever since he was in 6th grade I noticed he would pick his belly button and then proceed to smell his fingers. At first I thought it was gross but when I got into 8th grade, I started to notice I had an attraction to belly buttons and would get turned on every time he did that. Eventually I d want to sleepover with him every weekend just so I could play with his belly button in his sleep. So how can I build up the courage to play with his belly button without me having to wait for him to go to sleep? Also, how and/or should I tell him that he made me develop a belly button fetish?

Ok so I'm 20 years old and I'm getting married in less than two months. My family has been really supportive and my mom too but with the exception that she is constantly telling me not to get married. She critisices my boyfriend basically just telling me that I'm too pretty for him and too good to be in his family which bothers me because she knows hes a good working guy he respects. She never has to say anything about that so she says that hes too igly for me. She also acts mean around his family. She raised me all by herself. She says that his moms breath stinks or if she sees his parents holding hands she says that they're being hipocrit. I dont know what to do because im already stressed out with the wedding and she wont stop doing that. I already talked to her but nothing works.

I've had this of and on relationship with my son's father for 9 and a half years. I walked away from him 3 years ago because of his inability to step up as a father, but he could be a full time to his girlfriend's 3 kids that weren't his. It hurt, and I expressed that to him. He abandoned our son. Him and this girl were off and on as well. My life was great for 3 years without being in contact with him. I even starting dating other men. I loved the distance between us. Well, he popped up via mediation 2 months ago. We did really well given the dark history. We agreed every other weekend. Our son is 6 now by the way. He seemed like he really changed. He was interested in me as well. We talked/texted all day everyday and about our son too. I moved in my place, he came to give us gifts, and we slipped back into sleeping with each other, and it was non-stop from that night. We took the child support off because he was stepping up. We all sent Easter together. I spent his birthday with him, we spent our son's birthday all together, My birthday was Mother's day weekend and he went out of his way to may both days wonderful for me. He said he loves me and our son he'll never walk away again and promises to always be there. We talked about moving in together soon. I was aware of that ex-girlfriend's youngest kid that got attached to him. He told me about her and I asked will I ever meet her. He said yes. He brought her by last weekend when he picked up my son. My son spent the night, but what I didn't know was that he took my son back to that girl's house and I guess played house with my son involved. I never said anything to him about it. My son told me. He said that girl's older son was mean to him. I didn't confront my son's father because I thought he would have thought I was being foolish. I just asked for my apartment back that night he took from me a month ago. He texted me the next day and few days later we said he wanted to keep my key. We had an argument via text today because he said he was coming to see him today and get his hair cut. He never showed. He talked to me like he didn't even know me, cursing at me. I didn't understand where his change was coming from or what I did. Well, I said you are always welcome to see him, but our friendship/relationship is over and we can get a 3rd party as a middle person to deal because I can't take your hostile attitude with me. It hurt so bad. Yes, those feelings are still there because he's the only man I ever loved but he keeps screwing with my heart and I told him that. I thought he was better, but he proved me so wrong. I feel like an idiot. He won't give my key back. I don't know why. But I said screw it. I'll change my locks.

each relationship lasts less than two years. will they be single foe the rest of their life

We've been together for a year & 8 months. Our relationship is pretty freaking rad other than this problem. I'm that type of person to think of money as "money comes and goes". The other day I bought myself beats & beats pill and he made a joke saying "aw baby thanks I've been wanting a pair of those" and I offered to buy him a pair because I love him so much & money isn't a problem and he said No so I asked if I'd be able to get them as a present for his 20th birthday .. And still said no .. made it clear he isn't accepting anything. He's kinda "broke" at the moment and I love going out to the movies, going to the beach, eating out, etc... And since he doesn't have much money according to him, although I know he has money I offered to pay because I wanted to have a nice night and money isn't an issue. He demanded we can't go because he isn't letting his girl pay for anything. It sucks cuz Now we don't go out as much as I would like to .I like going out because I get to have pure moments enjoying a fun evening, I'm not an insensitive jerk guys . I just want him to have & do more things.Last night I wanted to bake him a cake and guess what he said .. no. He never lets me do anything nice or sweet for him. Why can he accept 1/8 of Mary j from me every week and not accept quality or thoughtful things? I feel as if he doesn't want anything from me then I start to feel gloomy and not good enough. How do I convince him it's not a big deal ?( I'm 17 btw.)

Sorry, but it's too long to post all here :/ If it's hard to read, then open in a new tab and zoom in. For now, I've decided to go cold turkey. http://imgur.com/kctNJDJ

In my defense she is a monster. She made his life a living hell and did nothing but, sit on her fat *** and complain. After the divorce was over and we met she tried to cause drama with me and start rumors. However, That s not what made me mad. What made me mad was after the divorce she got into a argument with my boyfriend s father and sister online and threatened his (at the time) 3 year old niece. She literally said "You better keep a eye on your little princess while she s in the front yard playing". That s what made me mad. Now that her gravy train with biscuit wheels has come to a stop, she can t find a man to put up with her lazy *** for more than a week except one man and, he s as much of a stupid drama queen as she is. It s fun to watch them go from "Burn in hell you pill whore" to "I think god wants us to be together" in under a week. The reason why is because they re both such big hypocrites it s hilarious. However... Although it is funny to watch Karma come back to bite her in the ***, I can t help but to feel a little bit sorry for her. I was raised to believe that we truly never HATE someone but, rather hate they re actions. I want to believe that somewhere deep inside my heart but I can t. To me if anyone is low enough to threaten a three year old child is a monster and deserves every horrible thing come back to bite them. So now that you know more info, do you believe I m in the wrong for doing this or am I doing rightfully just?

I'm not going to uphold my son by no means so here's the deal he had a affair with a married woman she ended up pregnant . my son then decided to cut all contact off with her he wouldn't even sign the birth certificate, the child turned two and he had change of heart wanted to be in her life the mother did try ill give her that she was very nice letting him see her since they was no court order but he texted her said he didn't want to be in childs life no more. a year later hes finally taking her to court my question is since my son hasn't be in her life how will visitation start every other weekend? and will he have to pay back child support I feel sorry for the child cause I know my son is only doing it to be around the mom again he still loves her .

I met this cute co worker at the restaurant. She seemed interested in me since day one and I was too. Later I found out she's married to a 30 year old, were 19... She asked me for a ride to work which I did.. I kissed her and we made out. After we hanged out a 3 times She said she wants to leave her husband for me and she feels stuck in between, but she isn't sure if i would date her and I'm serious in dating her..? What should I do,she told me I make her happy and her husband ..doesn't...

So... in the summer I'm gonna be meeting up with my future Rugby high school team for lifting. I'll be joining JV, and they're currently freshmen who are mostly going to JV. I don't know many people on the team currently (I do know a few people though), and I'm just worried about fitting in. I'm male but not like overly masculine (I'm not feminine at all just like not as macho as other guys, basically I don't flaunt my masculinity is what I'm trying to say), and there are some dudes on my team who are REALLY masculine. I'll respect them and all that but I just hope it isn't awkward. I mean I'm probably making a big deal outta this, but just how do you fit in with your future team if you didn't get to know them freshmen year?

What do you think?

So I'm a 17 year old female, and ever since 6th grade I have been looking for a true best friend. Sixth grade is when two of my best friends moved. And ever since then I had no best friend. I would try to make new best friends with people, but they always already had there own best friend. I would get jealous of girls who had best friends, until now, near the end of my sophmore year. I met this girl last year, but it wasn't till this year we started actually becoming close. We would always text each other and talk in class and stuff. But the problem is, is I found out she has a boyfriend. Now, that isn't really a problem. I've had plenty of close friends who have had boyfriends. There is nothing wrong with it. But I never had a friend who was in a serious relationship. They have been together for 6 months. And during the time we were finally getting close, her boyfriend moved down here and started going to our school. She hangs out with her boyfriend every single day. I have only had the chance to hang out with her twice. The reason why I wanted a bff, was so I could have someone to talk to and hang out with almost all the time. So I would have something to do on boring days. But she's always with her boyfriend. And I can't really do anything about it. I mean, she dated him before we were best friends. But I still get jealous when I see pictures of them constantly posted on her instagram and snapchat. What do I do? Should I just find someone else to be my best friend? But I really like her, she's very funny and we share the same interests and she's really fun to hang out with. I just wish I could hand out with her more.

¿Les ha pasado que el dia de tu cumpleaños no reciben ninguna felicitación en facebook? Jaja Si les ha pasado digan que se siente y cuenten que es lo mas raro que les ha pasado en su cumple

would you call the cops