My brother is getting married next weekend, and as usual before family comes in town to visit us, we stop getting along. However, this time, it is right before the biggest event of his life and I do not want a riff to be part of the memories.. I have been very calm and apologized and trying to move passed it, but it s not going to happen before next weekend. The problem is nothing wedding-related. I hope it s obvious I am his best man... what do I do? I have 3 days to get this resolved before people start coming to town.

I am not Mormon myself but I feel like showing my shoulders might be disrespectful. Can I show my shoulders or do I have to wear a coverup? My dress is white with pink and green and I hate having to wear a hint of white, but if I have to cover my shoulders the only coverup I have is full on white, and I also feel like wearing white is disrespectful to the bride. Please help!

I have 2 days to prepare for this party but nothing has been planned. What should I do? Any suggestions? Nothing too expensive though.

Getting married this summer. Fiancé and I are paying for everything. My dad died when I was 12. He and I were close and I cannot imagine someone else filling his role on my wedding day. It's impossible. He was always the best dad. My mom married her husband when I was 10 (she and dad weren't together, she hated him and still does). She's been pushing for me, despite my never bringing the subject up and redirecting the conversation, to ask her husband to do it and to have them in the parents of the bride position at the wedding. She is hideously rude about it. It doesn't matter how often I try to change the subject, she will not let it go. It's gotten to the point where she's been telling me walking down the aisle alone looks like a childish snub on my part. Opinions? Will it be seen this way?

My older sister is getting married in a couple months. I m a dancer/choreographer and I want create a dance to her favorite song and perform it at the wedding rather than give a maid of honor speech. It s going to be a very small wedding so there s no one that could perform with me. Would it be weird to dance by myself? I m comfortable with doing a solo but don t know if that would just seem out of place at a wedding. I just want to do something special for her :) thanks!

My parents are no longer together (they were never married). My mom was the sole caregiver and provider for my siblings and me for years. We adore her, we love her and we're closer to her than the rest of our family, except for each other. Our dad has been in and out of the picture. Married a couple of times to a couple of b*tchy women and settled down when I turned 16 with the woman he is still married to. My mom married when I was 11. Stepdad is okay. We get along fine. But there's no love there. My sister asked our mom to walk her down the aisle and my brother gave a special toast to her at his. SO now, after two weddings and one to go, my stepdad comes to me and asks that I give him the FOB role in my wedding. He said it's not fair that our mom gets so much credit, etc, and he doesn't get the very same credit. So what do you guys think? Is it wrong to ask my mom when my stepdad has already asked?