Me & my ex broke up a month ago, (he's 32, I'm 28), because his life is a mess & he can't look after himself, let alone have someone else to think about. But it doesn't mean I don't still love him. He never seems to be online much, but I can see when he's on whatsapp & he's hardly ever on, but it drives me crazy, because I want to talk to him. Part of me wants to be friends, which seems like a crazy thing, but just this no contact, when I can see his online activity is hard. I last told him that I want him to be happy. He says it hurts every time he thinks about it. He hasn't got many friends & no family around him. How do I move on & stop the urge to contact?

I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early

i would like to use my preffered name is that ok to do and i drarely go byt my legal name .

I ve asked my mom out of curiosity that if I killed myself would it be on the news, and she said no. So if I do, will my school know about it?

I know thisis a pretty confusing story, but please I really need you guys advice and help, I'm so confused and lost. We were married for 16 years and have two children together, the oldest is 20 and the youngest 16. We've been divorced three years but since then nothing has changed, the reason we divorced was because our marriage was suffering many ups and downs,his mother's death was a great shock to him and he fell into depression, I tried to get him back but his wasn't the same man i fell in love to anymore. He was the one who asked me and though I still loved him I gave it to him. I agreed to let him live with me till he found a place it's been 3 years and we still live together, at first it was strange, the first year was quite uncomfortable for both as we were recently divorced and we were still living together, despite this with the passing of the years started to change, now we act as if nothing had happened, as if we had never divorced We still go out together, we still telling each other our lives, we hugged each other occasionally ... Seven months ago we started having sex again and I think I'm pregnant, he's not seeing anyone and nether I. Our family and friends know of our relationship and even though they say nothing I know they're pretty confused, my best friend who is also divorced doesn't understand what's happening, my oldest daughter is always asking why are we living like that, why don't we at least be partners again. My youngest son seems fine with everything that is happening and he's always telling my daughter to leave us alone since we seem happy like that and the truth is that I am, and I think he's also. He looks at me as if we were only teenagers in love and every time we have sex he tells me he loves me ... I'm so lost, we've been together since we were 16, we had our older daughter at that age and he is the first and only man I've ever been with. I love him, and I'm almost sure he loves me too but I don't know how to tell him I don't even know what to call our relationship. Since I found out I'm pregnant hormones had been messing around with my feelings and I haven't told him yet, I don't know how"" I NEED ADVICE PLEASE !! WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!

I want to sleep with one of my guy friends to see what it is like. I have been with my husband for 9 years and found out he cheated on me about 2 years ago. He has expressed that he is okay with it.. But then takes it back and says he doesn't get why I want to. I have kissed my friend and my husband knows this but I didn't go any further. I do not want to be with my friend or leave my husband.. I am just curious & trying to be open minded. I want to know what it's like to be with another man because it's been so long. I also feel this will help me come to terms with him cheating if I experience something similar. I do not want an open marriage, just the freedom to do this once. I am giving him the respect to not do it behind his back. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Please don't suggest I leave my husband, any other advice is so appreciated. Thank you!

because she is the dumbest person i have ever met whats your opinion of stupid dimitra?

Why would be light up everytime he sees me, fidget when we speak, take multiple glances when he thinks I'm not looking, share with me personal stories, look annoyed when I speak to other guys, quick to help me out, but then reject me when I try to make a move because I thought he was interested?

I love my boyfriend, but he is really shy. He asked me out by putting a note in my locker and before I started really talking to him in person, he would just text me and I had to help him get comfortable talking in person. He used to start blushing every time he tried to talk to me, but the blushing has gotten less severe. Sometimes when we're hanging out and I hold his hand or hug him, his heart rate shoots up and his hand gets clammy. I hold his face and kiss him sometimes, but if I kiss him for a long time, he starts sweating and shaking. What do I do? He's cute as hell and his shyness is adorable, but it gets in the way of our relationship sometimes.

yet being one of only three that exist and Christmas cards are usually sent/occasionaly (every 5yrs. bump into at family thing)... As hes the oldest , 18, I recently messaged him on social media and I never heard back. (Yes, he knows who i am.) so then a few weeks later, I message him as I had come across a nice wall print I thought he would like..But in that message I asked - please drop me a message...because I had yet to hear back from him. NOW, in total its been about 6 weeks since first message. INSIDE-Im a bit mad. And at very minimum would have liked a simply 'acknowledgement' from him or something. I am almost 51. And in this regard feel disrespected. AM I WRONG?? SUGGESTIONS ON NEXT STEPS TO DEFUME?? It was a message on Instagram as initially (6weeks back) I messaged him when I requested to ''''follow''' him. OF WHICH may I add he did not (instinctively??) follow me back--which in my opinion with those you 'know' you instinctively would (follow back)... YES, I saw------- it said ''''SEEN'''...when i reread my message that same day.

You live in an area where people are insecure and hates their lives and they seem to all be disgruntled. Drama is magically being created and you are literally going crazy.

A few years ago she had her own car. But it needed a lot of work so she let it rot and then it got stolen. She never reported it and still owes car taxes on that car. Since then she has been driving her mothers car. Recently the registration ran out on that car. Also the taxes need to be paid on her mothers car. So for the past 2 weeks, her mothers car has been sitting in our lot. And now she is guilting me into letting her borrow my car. Saying that she has made so many sacrifices for me. Let me also insert that when it came time for me to purchase my car, she flat out refused to help me because she didn't want me messing up her credit. But I was still able to get approved for a loan! I've only had the car for a month and a half. I just don't think it's fair that she's forcing me to let her use my car. When I was without a car, I would ask for a ride and she would say "why can't you take the bus?" Or "why can't you ask your boyfriend?" I just need to know what to do. I've had enough!

My girlfriend of 1.5 years recently broke up with me (almost 4 weeks ago) (Long distance relationship) We agreed being on friends, But I don´t know if i should stop talking to her or not. She broke up with me out of nothing, And told me she couldn´t do a relationship right now. But a week later she told me she was in a relationship with another guy already. Everyday she tells me that she still have feelings for me, that she still loves me and that she misses the things we used to do together. She´s also telling me that since we broke up things at her school got worse. I don´t know what to do in this situation, Hopefull i can get some advise and help here. Thanks

my family is from Fort McMurray, and a few months before the fire I moved to my moms to finish the grade 11 school year in Vancouver. my dad wants me to register at the Red Cross for the money. I was here when my family was evacuated so technically I wasn t living there. Do I still register? he says I should in case I ve lost any possessions in the fire (so far I know my cat died but that s all)

My g/f & I do not live together. Lately, she's been working each day (she's truly not used to that). Her boss who is also her best friend, keeps asking her & her son to help out..which is putting extra work on my g/f's shoulders.About the only way we can 'talk' is by email. Her son is always listening to things, so we don't have privacy. It's getting to be that whenever I write, I may not get an answer for 3 days or so, then she writes saying she can't do morning emails, etc.etc. A friend who lives close to her has seen her car in the driveway at 10.30 or 11am...yet on that same day, I don't get the email. She is the type of person who hates to get up in the mornings, so her 'boss" lets her work later in the day. I think this 'friend' of hers is abusing her to a degree, but my main concern is my g/f. I'm starting to think she's lying to me or simply not trying as she might. I certainly welcome any/all suggestions. I've got it in mind not to write again 'til she does.

Telltale signs?

Thanks for helpin me know guyz. No i aint Muslim i am an Oriental Christian of Europe.

So my son's second cousin from his dad's side is keeping some of his things at our place, my son and his dad are out of town as of last night. My son's cousin calls and asks about his things then asks if im going and did I take the whole weekend off. My son's dad says no then says I'll be here by myself and his cousin then proceeds to say why are you leaving her alone? And im not sure about you leaving her my sins dad says I'll be okay. About 3 hrs later he calls and tells my son's dad he'll be oUT here in my state and he'll be stopping by to get his gun. Is that weird? I mean he was asking all kinds of questions about my whereabouts.

They would see somebody and say 'wow this persons stupid!' And they would bully, beat up that person, or take advantage of that person, Girls would think that I am stupid and laugh excessively when I would be in her presence. They spread dirty rumors and pit guys onto me. Girls would think I'm stupid and start talking about me to people and guide them away from me and spread dirty rumors, Guys would think I'm stupid and try to bully me and beat me up, Why are people like this?

I'll make this short and sweet. Me and my boyfriend live together and we have two children (he's their stepdad) ages 2 and 3. We put our children in bed at 8pm after we eat dinner. He was out of town for 5 months or so working in Cape Cod, Massachusetts. He invites friends over and I'm ok with that but what I'm not ok with is them staying the night (when you live down the street and next door) and/ or being up laughing and drinking until 3, 4, 5 o'clock in the morning. There are children sleeping in the room across from you and constantly walking in and out the front door that makes LOTS of noise when you open and close it to go smoke every 30 minutes. I respectfully asked him if he can ask his friends to leave at a decent time but he gets upset with me and explains that he should be able to do what he wants in the comfort of our home. Non of his friends have children so I suggested, respectfully, that he go to there house and play video games, drink and smoke all he wants (again, next door) but he gets mad at me. I just didn't say anything anymore. When he's Mad he stays mad and tries to flip it over on me like I'm the one to blame or like I'm the problem. I never nag and I always do what he wants but when I want something it's either he'd rather not, he's tired, that's not his job or just gives me a "are you crazy" look. I love him to death but I feel my feelings aren't taken into consideration. What do you think? (Sry if I have typos. I didn't proof read.) I'm 21 and he's 26. He's never usually childish he just thinks he's always right. He believes in the whole women are submissive thing and I do to but I just feel like I can't speak my mind sometimes. I don't want him to break up with me or kick me out cause I have something on my mind that bothers me. When I feel him getting mad, I get silent and leave him alone.

Relationship issues

I worked with this guy for about 8 months. We instantly clicked and we really got along with each other. He showed me many signs he liked me but he had a girlfriend at the time. I left the job and was looking for another one. I ran into him randomly in the mall where we work at and he told me to text him if I got a new job. I ended up getting a completely different job and he texted me out of the blue about 3 months later saying he never sees me. He ended up visiting me but on a day I wasn't there and he placed store coupons from where we used to work on my counter. I never texted him but I thought I saw him one day when I looked over at his store. I thinked he looked over but I wasn't sure. I dream about him constantly even when I want to try to forget him. I really really like him but not sure if he is single and I don't want to break him and his gf up. Should I text him?

so iam in a land full of domestic horses filming them . some of them run away when the see me some the come close and smell my cameras and bag and leave .so i kept my distance and film them from very good angel no problem so far . after a while one of them come toward me i didnt move at first then he start smeling me for short while and made noises with its lips i walk away (2 meter ) and start filming again and then he run to me like he wants to attack me or something . so i run and make longer distance and then he stoped following me . what this could mean? does horses attack people .

To address your significant other by their first name, instead of using "pet names"

If a boy and a girl were physically fistfighting, who do you think won the fight based on the end results : Girl-the one on top. Gave the boy a small bump on his head. Boy-the one on the bottom. Gave the girl a small bloody mouth from her braces. So who do you think won the fight based on the end results and explain why???

It seems like she will be healthy for a while. Are humans eventually going to start living past 200?

Mi novia el día que no fui a la escuela beso a un chico y yo me enteré un dia después y le dije que porque lo hacía y me dijo que no la pensó y eso, me pidió perdón la verdad yo la quiero y no quiero que termine lo nuestro denme un Consejo por favor.

So yesterday I got home early from school because of a half day. I'm a sophomore btw. But I walked in and heard some noise like banging, so I got freaked out and wanted to peek and see if anything was there. Well on my way there I saw my brother's trapper hat thrown on the floor, so I was now really scared because he never takes that thing off. I peeked around the corner of the living room and saw him on top of his gf with his pants down a little and now I knew what they were doing so I tried to walk out but I guess he heard me because he immediately turned and started going "I'm sorry I'm sorry" and apologizing.. She is 16 and he is 18. Yeah, I can't look at him the same way now. I get kind of grossed out just looking at him because it makes me keep thinking about it..And should I tell my parents?

I've had several interviews and several jobs. I'm great at working independently, and am always polite to the customer. I just like a nice atmosphere where I can stay busy and everyone gets along. However, I don't know if I have the wrong perspective of working. I try to stay busy all the time, and don't really make conversation with anyone until I'm truly comfortable doing what I do because I want to show I can do things well. This ends up stressing me out, because I feel like my coworkers/managers don't enjoy being around me that way and things lead downhill from there. I also have trouble making eye contact. When I'm not completely happy or don't have anything to say I avoid it. Because of these things I've failed at just about every retail job. I know in this day and age it's impossible to find a workplace with a lot of patience but I don't know what steps I can take to change my behavior.

I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early

I worked with this guy for about 8 months. We instantly clicked and we really got along with each other. He showed me many signs he liked me but he had a girlfriend at the time. I left the job and was looking for another one. I ran into him randomly in the mall where we work at and he told me to text him if I got a new job. I ended up getting a completely different job and he texted me out of the blue about 3 months later saying he never sees me. He ended up visiting me but on a day I wasn't there and he placed store coupons from where we used to work on my counter. I never texted him but I thought I saw him one day when I looked over at his store. I thinked he looked over but I wasn't sure. I dream about him constantly even when I want to try to forget him. I really really like him but not sure if he is single and I don't want to break him and his gf up. Should I text him?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. While saving money to buy a home he had the brilliant idea of moving into his parents apartment for 2 months max! It has now been 5 months and excuses keep being made as to why we need to stay here. We re talking Deep South back country rednecks who know it all. I m afraid for my health here. The apartment is absolutely cluttered and I get chewed out when I try to clean. This family believes dirty clothes remain on the floor until they need to be used, then you wash them, dusting removed sentimental values of dead skin celled dust. The mom is crazy, literally has to see a psychiatrist but won t. When I told her my stomach was upset the other day she said "it s from all the fruits and vegetables you ve been eating, you need to eat pizza or something with nutrients".... Seriously??? I m sick because they don t allow cleaning and now I believe I ve been infected with parasites on my face. What do I do??? I can t leave. Were scheduled to move into our own place in a month but this family is so ignorant and rude that I think I may lose my sanity by then....if I have any left.

The younger child accidently broke the toy of our older child, he did not do it on purpose. The next day when my husband found out he told the younger child to go and get his favourite toy, then he give it to his older brother to break. Thankfully my mother just walked into the living room as the toy was about to be broken.

Do people get tired of having sex with the same partner or with in general?

I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early

I don't know where to start but to cut the long story short, I listened to my parents advice to focus in school and now am done and working, Where did all these years go? I thought when i becomes successful i would have female friends or have a girlfriend but am still single as usual. Why is this my situation?

We used to work together before I moved to a different department. There were some tension between us and we are avoiding each other. I have accepted the fact that we aren't friends even though we had lots of fun time working together and I really thought him as a friend. Now whenever I see him at work I have to pretend I don't see him and he acts the same way. It makes me sad but I can't do anything about it but move on like this person never exists in my life. I may find another job after finishing the project I'm working on.

I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early

I haven t seen her in a few days. We ve both been busy but we were considered to be on good terms. Then all the sudden I get a frustrating text that quite frankly didn t make sense. Ever since she refuses to talk and/or see me. I ve tried asking what is the sudden reason. And I even tried apologizing before hand. But nothing seems to work. I ve been giving space for a few days. But this is torture I miss her so much and I want to fix it. What should I do? And sitting around waiting seems to be making things worse.

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 22 and I just found out by looking in his old messages that he cheated and had sex with a teacher twice 3 and a half years ago, they haven't done it since. She's 27. I found out 2 weeks ago but I haven't asked him about it yet and he still thinks I don't know. I saw in the messages she's so afraid of getting in trouble and they both regret it. He hasn't done it since. Should I ask him about it and tell on the teacher for having sex with him or let it slide?

I was walking out of a store and outside the store next to it was this kid he looked about 18 - he a had a full backpack with him and a couple other bags and he was sitting on the ground with his head down. he looked so helpless and lost & like he wanted to cry. I asked him if he needed any money - he didn't say anything just shook his head no. I said "you sure" and he silently nodded and put his head back down. should I have done more ? should I go back and offer something like food? or should I do nothing? I'm 26 would I be or seem like a pervert to people or would I be arrested if I did take him in or get him some food somewhere - because he's in his late teens and I'm in my mid late 20's and stranger.

I hate it when another female don't understand when a man is already taken or married only foolish women don't get it. Smart women don't go off and ruin relationship whats mine is mine end of story. Love is only for two people if there's no women like that two couple would have been happily married. What's your answer