my dad is 25 years older than my mom and my dad looks like my grandpa this is really making me feel uncomfortable omg

I got a part time job as an intern at a computer software company. I am very lucky that I am getting paid as most of my friends that got intern jobs are not getting paid. My boss is a 27 year old single guy that is the hottest and sexiest guy I have ever seen. His is also the greatest boss ever. He spends a lot of time training me. I brought a picture to work and put it on my desk. My boss ask me who it was. I told him it was my mother. He said "I see where you get your good looks". "Your mother is gorgeous". " She does not look old enough to have a daughter your age". Should I tell my mother what my boss said. Moms, would you be interested in what a great looking guy that was 10 years younger said about you? Also, was my boss hitting on me (oh how I wish)?

first of all, my parents treat me like **** and used to abuse me when i was younger. Now, they praise my brother and talk about how shitty i am. I went to my friends birthday and my mom told my friends mom how stupid I was and kept making lies. Second of all, I dont get anything for my birthday or any holidays while my brother is showered with gifts. For my birthday I got nothing while my brother went to virgina. Am i adopted or why are they so mean. ( they also steal my money......)

I made a terrible mistake last weekend and ended up getting arrested for felony hit and run and DUI. The police came and I got arrested at home in front of my parents and my brothers and sister. Nobody in my family have ever been arrested before. I was in jail for 4 days - they turned up to see me in court in handcuffs and shackles and had to bail me out. Since I got out of jail I have seen them crying and they are so upset about what I did. I wish I could change things but I can't. My jail mugshot was up online and i know the neighbors are talking about me and what I did. They didn't even go to church today like they always so and have told me how much I have let them down and that I am a bad influence on my younger brothers and sister. I am hardly talking with them now as I am dreading that I could be going to jail or even prison for this. I've said how bad I feel but I don't really know how to handle all this. They bailed me out from jail and have got me a lawyer for my case so I know they don't want me to go to prison so I know how lucky I am. Anybody have any advise about whan I can do?

Im 16, girl. My mom is the reason I feel like **** about myself. From thinking I'm dumb, ugly, too white for my culture(Oglala Lakota Sioux)- she's always putting me down. She's always saying how beautiful my little sister is, praising her over everything, saying she's going to be the next Ashley calling bull. She NEVER compliments me. She never praises my work. I'll be super proud of myself and show her something I did and she's just like 'oh that's cool.' I asked her to come see the moccasins I made my first time and she ignored me... When she's mad she calls me retarded, dumb *****, fat slob, etc. and says I have 'serious mental issues.' I don't so drugs, smoke, or drink. I'm not the best in school but I'm passing.. Why does she hate me?:( my dad doesn't care either he's just not as mean. He's chill... But still What do I do? I'm feeling so much anger lately.... it's slowly building up. I have no one to talk to. I never told anyone about being sexually assaulted as a child and I would tell my mom but I highly doubt she'd ******' care....

my mum s single & she is really struggling with money, how do i ask/tell my dad? i want to text him, but i wanna say something in the nicest way possible? any suggestions?

My 6 year old daughter is being teased by a boy in her class every day. She often comes home very upset. He calls her names and pulls her hair... She has told her teachers about it multiple times but they just brush it off and say it's because he likes her. What should I do? Should I talk with the teachers?

Actually, he's been very successful in his life and thinks very highly of himself. He's always trying to push his ways onto me and my brother, because he wants us to be successful too. But tbh, I just don't see success the way he sees it, and I'm 17 now. I've developed my own ways of doing things, and they're very different from his.

I am taking the family(5adults 2kids) out for dinner to celebrate my wifes birthday. I'm sure I have more than enough money saved. But how do I tell them to order from the 20.00 and under dinners I know my family isn't greedy but If they order the 30.00 steak and lobster I wont have enough. Is there a proper way of politing saying what they can order

Hello Everyone, I am interested in becoming a Broadway actress whenever I am older. The first step to that is quite obviously to go to college for musical theatre. In order to do that I will need to do a lot of training in high school. Here are the things I am currently doing Ballet Classes Tap / Jazz Class Modern Class Acting Lessons Choir Outside of School (community youth choir) Choir In School (regular choir) After School Choir (select choir) Private Vocal Lessons Lots of Community Theatre Productions Color guard (In school elective) Chances are, this seems like a lot. However, I REALLY want to play tennis in the fall and lacrosse in the spring. I think I might be Overscheduling myself, but I REALLY want to play these! My parents probably won't let me do so, but I really really want to do it. How can I convince them and how can I manage it?

I just can't take my family like this anymore. Yesterday after my prep class, my dad said that I looked sloppy, he criticized my purse saying that it's what a 6 year old should wear, and he criticized my weight saying that I should exercise and lose weigh for health reason.. My mom calls me lazy, irresponsible, and always saying that I'm going to a community college if I don't get my grades up to a specific point. Worst of all, me and my sister don't have a relationship. We always ignore each other, she yells at me when I try to joke with her, and compare herself to me, saying that she's better than me. Sometimes, I just want a change in life so that it could all go away. Is it just me or is it them? If it is me, then how can I better myself?

So Im a 15 year old girl with a 12 year old sister and i was getting ready to workout but my little sister had a sports bra that fits really well on me, so i nicely asked her to give it to me so i can borrow it to workout. Than it turned into a normal sisterly fight and my dad sat us down and talked to us and said he will just buy me a new sports bra but i didnt want a new one cause that sports bra fits me, not to mention my little sister doesnt even workout!! And i didnt want to waste money. So i didnt want to continue arguing so i just said im not hungry and dont wanna eat lunch and left. Than i dont know why but my dad got really pissed off and yelled like a crazy person and than went so crazy and ripped my phone out of my hand and started pushing me to my room and went on too of me and kinda choked me in a way and slapped me across the face. He told me he did that cause i do it to my sisters, i never in my life physically hurt my sisters only verbally. My dad and older sister thinks im crazy and want to send me to therapy cause they think im violent. The only time i hit my sisters is when they touch my butt and dont stop untill i tell them to so i have to slap them on the arm or leg and than they stop. Am i crazy? If not what should i do to get out of this horrible life?

My mom is dating some lesbian b*tch & im 15 years old & its retarted. I ******* hate that dumb b*tch. Sometimes I wish I can bring out a glock & shoot my mum's b*tchfriend in the head while in her sleep. Im not the only one who hates her too. My brothers who are 19 & 12 also hate that *****. It's been year that my mum is dating a lesbian. What pisses me off the most is that this lesbian ***** is having sex with my damn mom. ******* ***** scissoring my mom & than licking her vagina. I also try fighting that stupid ***** whenever she comes home from her work & me & my brothers hide behind things to jump her & send that ***** to the hospital so she can see what happens to mfs who into our lives unwelcomed. I actually have slapped the shyt outta her for saying that I need to get over my parents divorce because it was unhealthy & that my mom was never happy with him & that she has finally found happiness & after she disrespected my dad I slapped that beeyotch hard in the face that she fell to the ground & my mum just tells me to back off or she will call the cops on me. God im just so ******* pissed off rn. I just wanna beat the **** outta every homosexual I see. What should I do? Right now im just punching the door & making holes.

So, I'm 14. Before someone comments that I'm not the victim, please read this :) Sense I was born I have been getting verbally assaulted. Being called fat, not good enough, ugly. But then she calls me cute and stuff infront of family and friends. Sometimes she threatens me and I don't feel safe. If I didn't do something right she yells at me and threatens to hit me. On occasion she has hit me. I looked up what counts as physical abuse last time it happened and they said the mark had to last 30 minutes to an hour to be counted as abuse. And verbal abuse isn't abuse and I need to learn respect for my parents. But respect is something I can't give them because I don't feel like earned any. What should I do? I don't feel safe and my depression is getting worse everytime. Help please.

I'm 24, she's 22. I've been with her for almost 2 years now. When I first touch her, she starts flinching and going crazy. She's always holding my hands with me whenever I touch her body/boobs. I'm worried because I love her and I'm thinking there's something she's not telling me. I don't want to force her to tell me anything that happened to her, but I want to understand why she flinches. I asked her, and she says that she's "okay" and that it's a bad "habit". But I don't believe that. There's something she's hiding from me. Her parents were abusive and her brother use to beat her all the time and I'm thinking that's the reason. But I truly don't know. She could've been sexually assaulted or something when she was younger. She has little bruises on her body from the past, but I don't want to bring them up because I don't want to remind her and hurt her all over again when she's finally happy with me.

My daughter is almost 3 now. Her father is in jail until January and I really want to take her to see him. She does really good with the phonecalls. They seem to help a lot. We re honest with her in a way she will understand. We tell her daddy got in trouble and had to go Time out. They are very close. I think a visit to see him would help her like the phonecalls do, but my family is advising me against it. Could taking her to visit him cause any serious harm to her psyche? I m trying to keep her as mentally healthy as possible throughout the process. Should I take her to see him or not? Are there any websites out there where I could ask a child psychologist for free maybe?

My family has always moved around, Ive lived in 8 places and I'm only 16. We arent a military family but we do move cause of my parents job. Anyway, 4 years ago we moved to PA and I was assured taht this was the last time. So I let myself get attached. It turns out now we're moving in the summer, my parents told me its either Florida or Texas but either way I feel so stressed and upset. I met so many amazing people here and I dont know how to tell them. I feel like if I do, some may not think its a big deal, which will hurt me. At the same time, I dont want them to get hurt. Even passed this, how am I going to start my life over AGAIN. I'll be a junior there and by that point everyone has their own group and I'm not very outgoing. I guess I just need advice or assurance because I have no idea how to get through this again.

My grandpa is in the hospital and he can go any day now. I want to thank my uncle for being so strong about having to make all of my grandpa s funeral arrangements while being in so much pain from losing his father. I just can t seem to find the right words to say. Any examples on a message or inspirational sentences I can put together to help choose the message I want to give him?

I'm a bit stuck on gifts for my Lebanese family, as I am going to Lebanon from America to see them in nearly four weeks. I was thinking maybe American candies which they are unlikely to have, and maybe Victoria's Secret perfumes which they are also unlikely to have in Lebanon. I don't want to come off as cheap and I definitely need to bring more, any suggestions without being "tacky" American souvenirs?

Am I old enough to travel to the capital if it lies 6 hours away from my hometown? My parents won't let me, even if I have my friends with me. They trust us and know that we wouldn't do anything wrong, but they're scared something would happen. What do you think?

I am a 17 year old teenage boy and I am very upset. I called my mom a liar and a stupid ***** and my dad hit me. I really wanted someone to come get me like my grandpa. I so f**king hate them right now, I feel like I don t even know them anymore. I have an exam tomorrow and I wish my grandpa was here.

My mom adores my older brother. He is 15 and autistic. My mom never disciplines him and always yell at me. My mom thinks he's more special and needs more attention because he is special and different. My mom lets him get away with anything. Once my brother threw a water bottle at me very hard and I cried. My mom just told him "don't do that again". At yelled at me saying it my fault for starting it. I am always the good one but am treated very differently. I get better grades but my mom doesn't care about me. I got my report card last trimester and my mom hasn't even looked at it or asked for months. Also, this is the same at school. I'm always the one left out. But that's a whole different question. Why am I always treated differently?

I live with my mom, my step dad, and my two half brothers. my dad lives an hour away. I hate living with my mom and stepdad becasue my mom is always unfair, all my friends say so, she always sids with my younger brothers. my stepdad is a jerk and the only reason my mom stays with him is so that my brothers have a dad and she can finish colllage. My question is should I stay with them, and be by all my friends who I have known for 3 years(im in 8th grade) or should I go live with my dad and leave my friends and start over in high school.

As strange and gross as it sounds, I can't poo when I hear noise. It is strange but I need peace and quiet. When I hear footsteps, talking, yelling, etc. I feel uncomfortable and unable to go. I always go at home because it is a relaxing place, but my family talks a lot so I feel like I have no privacy. I am being serious about this so please don't take it as a joke. Suggestions

I'm going to try to make this as short as possible, please don't be rude or say I'm "playing house". Basically I just need advice, My boyfriend and I are in college, we struggled living at an apartment so we are now living in his parents guest room in the backyard with no bathroom. There is 5 others in the house and the bathrooms are always full. We pay bills, we are saving about $550 a month by living here. I think If we moved out again and bugeted right we could do it better. His mom is crazy and she always wants us to buy her stuff and she gets mad over every little thing. (I understand it's her house so I wouldn't dare say anything) She also insist we accompany her to all of her friends parties that she is invited to. (Baby showers, weddings, 15s, etc). I just want opinions on whether saving $550 is worth putting up with the fakeness, no bathroom, his picky mom, or should I move out? We live in Oklahoma so that cost of living isn't that much, but we are kinda poor.

So recently I noticed that my brother gets better treatment from my dad then I do. It has always been my brother and me. I'm the youngest and he is the oldest. Anyways, my dad is way too harsh on me. He gets mad at me for doing a simple mistake. He yells at me a lot more than he used to and he is getting bitter and old. I tried to talk to my dad about the way he treats me, but my father gets very short tempered and yells. Sometimes he just uses the phrase "whatever" and that's the end of it. If I continue usually he will say "Get out my face" and I have never proceeded after that. My brother and my dad have had a good relationship. They like to fish, talk about sports, and debate about politics. When I try I get into what he is interested he will usually think I want something out of him. I​ really do want to have a relationship with my dad, but it's basically impossible. He's an impossible person, he hoards, and my worst fear is that I'm becoming resentful of my father. Does anyone have anything that I could do to help improve our relationship or try to make my dad realize what he is doing to me. By the way I'm a male.

For my whole 14 year old life, my mother and father haven t agreed on much. After three children, the oldest being 19 this year, I think they ve had enough of each other. But it s my mother that keeps trying to fight. She yells and screams and sometimes throws things because she doesn t get what she wants, and then says screams when she is told no. She does take medication for her anger, but I don t think it works. Ive also tried to come out as trans and bi to her, but she says I m a girl and takes away my things because they ll "corrupt" me. It was two years ago, I m still trans, and I have a girlfriend and I love her a lot. I m scared to my mom about this because I think she ll hit me. Her constant screaming has made me unmotivated to clean my room, do homework, sleep, etc. and it s really effecting my life. As a result of this, I can t work in school because I don t sleep, my grades are suffering down to F s, and I feel dirty all the time because my room is full of food and dirt. Of course I would clean everything up if I wasn t going to just trash it again. I ve also lost interest in everything I like. I used to be into digital art, even looked at colleges because I wanted to be an artist. Now it s become a chore, and I can t do any art without thinking "this really sucks" or "I m terrible at drawing." My mother started to yell directly at me more and now I can t do really a thing. I just want her to stop yelling and screaming without me having to talk to her about it.

I dont know what to do, im sitting here just bawling my eyes out because my mom is overreacting and I can hear her on the phone in the other room talking to people. About 15 minutes ago she came out here into the living room and told me and my brother to get mentally prepared to spend our lives moving from foster home to foster home. Me and my brother have been disrespectful to our mom since our dad got thrown in jail, but we have always made it up to her, whether it be cleaning the house or doing something nice for her. I dont know what to do right now and I was wondering if anyone else that was put in this situation could offer me some advice on what to do when this is all said and done.

I gave my virginity at the age of 9 well at first I didn't even know what I was doing tell after having it a few times with the same guy no one knows about it but my best friend because I don't want certain people to hate me my doctor even thinks I am a virgin only because my mom comes with me to my appointments I can't drive I am still madly in love with that guy but will never see him again last I had sex with him I think I was 14 now I am 20 I never tell people because I don't want them to keep bringing it up I really want to forget about him because I am broke inside because of him always had been he had a kid with someone else a few years ago he is all I think about

Yesterday I saw an uncle of mine at a funeral and he mentioned he was going on a bike ride in NYC next weekend and said afterward everyone was coming back by his pool and to stop by if I feel like it. I plan to except but come Friday wondered if he'll remember he asked me when I say "see you Sunday" or will I seem like I am inviting myself. I'm worried because when I was younger I used to invite myself to any activities involving family and it sometimes irritated relatives (though not him in particular) but his sisters. Now that my parents live back in the area that hasn't happened in about 6 or 7 years and I am older now (30). So what do I say Friday to imply "you still having the party" but in a way where he remembers he invited me when he saw me at a funeral yesterday? I don't want to seem intrusive but would like to go as I haven't seen his kids since last Christmas.

So atm I'm forced to go to my fathers.... my father has emotionally and physically abused us in the past due to alcohol proved by a therapist. I try to tell him I don't want to be here and I have a life now and I want to do things with my friends but he just says he is my father and he wants to spend time with my sister and I. He only bruises us no cuts by "tickling" us when he has had a little too much to drink. He has been bringing my mother to court for 5 years now and shes already sick and tired and stressed to the point I heard her the other day talking to my aunt about what to do if she passes away before I hit 18.... I am 14 years old and I don't know what to do. I'm scared and I don't want to be at my fathers. But I'm only a child right?......

It was her birthday yesterday and she's been a total brat. I said happy birthday to her, cooked her a wonderful breakfast that took an hour to make, and my husband bought her hundreds of dollars worth of stuff for her first year of college. She yelled at me for waking her up at 12:00 AM with the happy birthday, said she hated her breakfast and yelled at me, threw it away, made her own, then yelled at me again because it was her birthday and she had to make her own breakfast. Then she yelled at my husband because he didn't get her the exact items she wanted and went to her room screaming how she hates her family and parents. Her younger brother went to tell her happy birthday (he's 14) and she went out and HIT him because he was annoying her. Then she went into the city with her friends for the rest of the day, and I wanted to call and check up on her, but she didn't pick up. She yelled at me again when she got home at 12:00AM because I kept annoying her. I try to be a good and nice mother but it's just so difficult. This child doesn't listen to me and she totally disrespects me. My husband and I tried confiscating her phone, or stop making her food, or ground her from going out, but she would just complain and yell and say how she hates her life and she wants to die. She has no mental disorders like bipolarity that I'm aware of, what can I do?

Like when she skipped our brother's wedding or when she goes into a rage when people try to confront her about it.

Lately, I haven't been behaving too well i've created an instagran and a snapchat account when I was told not too. I am 13. My mom left us when I was about 8or 9.I always hide my accounts. My mom left because she was cheating on my dad with a man. I also had a YouTube account where I posted videos about my first kiss ( it was a fake story) I never kissed anyone.. I did it so I could make money off of YouTube and give the money back to my dad since he needs it. The other video was a bathing suit collection video. He thought I was turning into a slut. he smashed my laptop and my little sister dsi Because she said she wanted to live with my aunt as a joke. She is only 6 my dad says he thought he would i pd be okay without our mom's live since had us. He said he was wrong. He deleted every picture of us off of his phone. And says he has nothing to live for. He made me touch my toes for an hour and then go in the corner for an hour then he smacked us 5times with a belt. He said he is moving away and leaving us here with my grandma or sending us to my mom. That same day before this incident my mom messages me saying she'll always be here for me and my sister and that she stays away from our lives because she thinks it makeseasier. And she loves us.. I honestly not know what to do.. my dad found everything because he knows computer hackers. . I don't know whether to try and win back my dad forgiveness nearly impossible because he is neverthis angry ,or go live with my,mom

It is relatives my mother is angry at

i kept moving my mams boyfriends coat off my chair and he threatend to beat me if i touch his jacket again in front of my mam and my mam didnt say anything.. should i go to the police and tell them im very scared he'll hurt me and if they could get him out of my house somehow? i'm 16 btw and i know it sounds silly ( the coat thing ) but he also changd the locks on the bathroom so i cant go in) and things like that

I got in a huge fight with my mom and I feel like running away or cussing at her. Any way for me to calm down before I stab my arm with a fork??!!

Like many adults, when I got to my early or mid 20's, I began to realize that my parents were actually pretty smart, and pretty great people. But now in my late 30's I'm starting to think that there might be a serious problem with them. I live 2000 miles away from them (in the US), but my two younger brothers live within 15 miles of them still. Regarding the older of the two: It is impossible to carry on a conversation with him because he will either bounce from non-sequitur to non-sequitur (in one conversation we went literally from pea soup to finances to memories of old video games), or he will complain endlessly about how his coworkers at his factory job treat him poorly and even how they think they follow him on the weekends, or you'll say somethign slightly wrong and he'll explode like a bomb and cuss you out and start reaching into the most inane parts of our lives to try to show how terrible of a person you are. I recently tried to help him get his budget under control, and over the course of 3 hours of phonecalls over 3 days, I got chewed out 8 or 9 times until finally losing my cool on the third day and ending the effort. Regarding the younger one: he is morbidly obese, incapable of walking without a walker, and cant go to the bathroom without literally getting human waste all over the floor and even the walls sometimes. He cannot hold a job for more than 2 weeks. He is on government subsidies. His only skill has been in findinding people to take pity on him and give him stuff. My parents see and acknowledge all of this but they do nothing. They all see each other once a week or more and miy parents have reached a point of just accepting it. I'm 2000 miles away and deeply concerned because these two grown men, also in their 30's, need serious professional help, but no one listens to me. What are my options? (my narrative voice in this is a mess--apologies. I hope one can still make sense of it)

he often calls me a sheep and that i'm stupid and that i'm a disgrace to the family, and he threatens me as well like he says he is going to punch me so my teeth go into my throat and that he's going to shove a fork up my eye... i'm really upset and scared because i don't even do anything wrong i don't get why he hates me so much ;( please don't comment stuff like "idk" or "tall to someone" because i can't talk to anyone about it okay please help me ;( ;(

I temporally moved back in with my dad in his house till I can find a new place. well my dad has done a lot of stuff for me but still i think i should have a say so in if i want to share my stuff with him or not it is my stuff what do you all think

Every time I get a text they ask who is it. Every time I get a call they ask who is it. My mom walks in my room a few times every day and and messes around. My dad just walks in looks at the tv and walks out. They ask this like every 5 minutes "What are you doing?". Oh and every night if I move in my bed my mom keeps asking what are you doing, why are you moving? What does she think I'm doing in the bed? Lol, anyway do you think they are nosy?

was in the market this morning and noticed a mother yelling at her daughter. the little girl looked to be no more than 7 or 8. she was literally cursing her out. the girl was snatching her arm away from her mother and running from her. when mom caught up with her she beat her so hard I was almost scared for the child but I didn't say a word. don't really think its my business. even if she beat her black and blue I wouldn't do a thing because I guess its not my business right I just think the right thing to do in this day and age is to mind your own business so I guess its better to just beat a child behind closed doors then. maybe the mom should have waited until they were home

My brother is 14, and he has always eaten a lot. He has been overweight practically his entire life, and the rest of my family is at a normal weight. My mom babies him, so she never knows how to tell him that he needs to stop eating so much. He seems to have an awkward/negative connotation with food, and I think that's bc my older sister used to bully him about eating too much or being "fat" a few years ago. Does this mean he has an eating disorder? The main reason I'm concerned about all of this is because it is effecting our entire family. I have a single mom, so we don't have a ton of money to spend. My mom has to CONSTANTLY buy food bc my brother eats a large majority of it. Ex. She'll buy deli meat (for sandwiches), and my brother will eat all of the meat within a day. He has no self control. My mom is wasting so much money on food! And he's kind of awkward and secretive about the food he eats. Advice would really be helpful, because this has been going on for so long! I don't know what to do anymore. I'm 17 btw.

The parents r stingy. My aunt doesn't feed her children properly even though they make a lot of money. 7 grapes for breakfast, no toys, no birthday parties, and no new clothes very often. The children r depressed, insecure. They seem upset and aggressive. Their parents r not affectionate and so r the children. My cousins r 13, 7, and 3 yo old. They r nervous around their parents, and I think they r neglected with health care. My uncle had vertigo and we rushed him into the house, and I ask mom why don't they get ambulance. She said becuz it cost money. The aunt has mental issues, becuz she is aggressive doesn't act normal, and is somewhat malicious. My family members say that my aunt is a bad person, and I think she is emotionally abusing her children becuz her children r insecure, mean, and SAD Can CPS make my aunt go to therapy. I think things would improve if the aunt gets help. Then she can be more affectionate and loving The 3 yo old said ***** ***** ******* ***** in their car and the parents ignored her. They regulate TV, cartoons only. The parents argue and not in happy marriage. The 7 yo old said to one girl " I don't care if u r happy or not, don't call me unless I call u". I think she learned that from her parents.

Let's say that you have a nice job, money, live in a house but a young relative who you do absolutely nothing to support, deapite knowing that they were a child abuse victim of your mother. Hhe/she lives in poverty and have no help finding work. You tell them you believe in them and they become angry and berate you. Would you blame them considering your apathy and callousness? Shouldn't you expect them to hate you?

so as you all know or may not know I am going to marry my uncle this summer. I told my parents about it last night and they of course were pissed. im 22 years old how can they try to run my life. after I told them they asked me to pack my things and leave the house but I refused so they called the cops and of course I was forced against my will to leave. I help my parents with rent, food and lights and this is the thanks I get. so my question is can I get a restraining order against my parents since my father threatened to kill my uncle? orrrrrr should we just leave the country and marry somewhere else. I did want his current wife and kids to attend

I have a narcissistic mom. (I'm sure) She calls me names like fat, *****, ugly, she tells me I'll end up like her or worse, She isolates me fromone and everything I like to do...She recently said to me " Yup, *****, I'm all you have so you better accept it." she said that because me and my brother was talking about her abusiveness through text and she hacked my facebook and seen the messages, and she made me try to leave but i told her i don't have no where to go... i felt really low. She has thrown coffee on me when I was 14, I'm 17 now, she has threatened to physically harm me, she severely mentally abuse me, I am also cyber schooled so it's even worse because I'm hardly ever away from her...She said I can't get a job, and I have to deal with her until i'm 18, I sat down and talked to her calmly about her abusiveness, and all she said was, "how am i abusive when I buy you clothes, feed you, take you to dr's appt. in etc..." no one will believe me, about the abusiveness because my mom is known as a good person outside closed doors, and I am known as the bad person because I had sexual intercouse when I was fourteen years old but i'm 17 now, we moved to a different city hours away from where i know anyone, I've been homeschooled since 12 years old, and now I participate and help out in the community, and at local schools as a motivational speaker, and I even speak at a teen group home, as a teenage mentor. I'm not trying to justify my wrongdoings but I've been mentally abused even before being cyber schooled, I'm also suicidal, and she has even told me to kill myself, and handed me the actual bottle before, I just wanted her to care and understand how her abusive ways have hurt me, She has shoved my face into carpets, and last night I had a dream about her ontop of me in our hallway with some sharp object trying to stab me, IDK WHAT TO DO... I'M AT WITTS END she even tells me all the time that she doesn't like me, and sometimes even hate me, whenever I try to talk to her about anything...she rolls her eyes and balls her face up at me in disgust. Is it possible to cut her off once I get to college, for good??? how do i do that?? will i have to cut the rest of my family off too? should i listen to her rules until i go to college? I've attempted to runaway, the police said there is no sign of abuse and brought me back home, I assured my guidance counselor that there was no physical abuse, just mental, and she has yet to do anything about it to help me more. My brother on the other hand is in college, and he is mentally abused by her too, he is very gullible he's 20 and he has not had one college school year without her mental abuse, I'm not talking about making sure he gets good grades. i'm talking threats and demands. and now they are talking again, she's going to hurt him, she has told me many times " I will do anything to break a mother f'er down, and she has done it with her male friends and now she's doing it with us

She is an addict and did not come to the wedding. Some say she wanted to use drugs and knew the family would be on her back if we saw her doing it there and others say she is mad at our brother for participating in an intervention back in March. So should I be angry at her? The awkward part was people were asking where she was and I had to make up she was traveling as out mother won't let us just say "she has drug problems".

Since the definition of incest is "the crime of having SEXUAL INTERCOURSE with a parent, child, sibling or grandchild"

It is relatives my mother is angry at

All this week I've been in a very low place and tonight I finally found the time to have a moment for myself. I am 19 years old. As soon as my mom went out with her friends, I pulled out a bottle of wine from the fridge and just drank all of it away in my room. To top it off, my stupid self decided to pull out the carton of cigarettes I had bought earlier this week and just smoked until I felt relaxed. She showed up a little earlier than expected. And by that, I mean that I sort of fell asleep for a while and didn't get a chance to hide the bottle or air out the smell of cigarettes from my room. She walked in at the worst possible time since I had been half crying and half in a drunken sleep. She got really mad and took the cigarettes away from me. As well as the empty bottle of wine. She just stormed out of my room without another word. This is the first time I do this and now I'm afraid she might think I have a problem. I know we are going to talk about this in the morning and I'm scared. I don't know what to say. What should I tell her?

Lately, my mom has been getting very angry about my brother and I. I'm 23 and my brother is 21. We both still live at home. My brother goes to school and I work right now and planning to go back to school soon. My mom always tells me how disappointed she is with my brother and I. She expected us to go straight to college after high school. We both ended up going to community college. My dad really wants me to be independent right now with a great career, job, and place. My mom expects the same. My mom is always complaining about every little thing. She is very frustrated and saying we are not doing anything with our lives, etc. I do admit I feel a little immature for my age but my mom hates me. She claims to love us but I really beg to differ because she is bringing this up a lot lately. She says she is extremely disappointed. I cannot afford to move right now. I've even told my friends about this situation and they have even told me it is very difficult to move on your own. My parents expected much more of me than what has occurred in my life. One day I went to work and felt extremely depressed all day. I feel so bad about this because nothing is worse than parents absolutely despising you. What can I do? I feel terrible.

I am living in Japan with my boyfriend while I am studying abroad here. He works for a Japanese company and doesn't come home till very late. On weekends he go to a religious cult thing where he does wonderful things and helps people and stuff. However, I am a Christian, but not a very devoted one. But when he talks about this cult, I get irrationally upset. He swears he loves me, but acts extremely selfishly at time, and is late everyday. I spend most days waiting for him to come, and like a dog I am so happy when he gets home I forget how upset I was. I've tried breaking up with him before, about 4 different times I can think of in the last 3 years, but every time he convinces me to stay. I spend most of my time when he's away oscilating between angry crying tantrums and depressed naps, but when he comes home, I'm so happy and glad to be with him. I was in the hospital for three weeks, which just turned out to be ulcers in my intestines, but he left me for four days to visit his cult leader for a seminar. But when I brought up that I didn't think he cared about me, his response was: "My mother told me she was so proud of me that I could make this relationship work so long because she knows I'm really bad at caring about other people." He's really trying, and I can't really go anywhere until I return to the US, but if I stay here I think I might jump in front of a train. I've been impressively depressed, and I don't know what to do.

So my mom is always drunk, shes hit me a couple of times & verbally abuses me... CPS has already been called, & im talking with them again in a day or two, can they take me out of my house? I can't stay here anymore I absolutely hate it here, even from the time I was a little kid. I have a safe place to go where the people are willing to take me in & let me live with them. So can I? Do you think they would let me?

Its mainly because throughout my childhood I was constantly afraid of my father and neglected by my mother, beat by my siblings and constantly tormented. Possibly molested, but i can't remember a lot so we'll leave that out.Things have changed, i cut them out of my lives, kept one sibling in my life, but my sister had a kid and i can't emotionally feel anything towards her, or my nephew. I usually don't feel anything towards people, but why not the baby. I really want to be a good uncle, but i still feel emotionally hollow towards everything and everyone. How can i fix this?