My fiance and I have been courting for twenty-two months. We've decided to get married on our second anniversary, which is July 10, which happens to be on a Sunday this year. We're getting at my parents B & B. Followed a brunch reception. We are paying for everything ourselves. We're only inviting immediate family only. We want our wedding to be small, because of the cost. A lot of our extended family members are upset that they aren't invited. I feel that our wedding is about us, not about what other people want. We don't want a big wedding to.make other people happy. This is our day, and we want a quiet wedding. What is to your opinion?

And he wants me to be his best man.But he keeps saying that he is to old to get married at age 36 for the first time.He has known his fiancé for 13 years she is three years younger than him.What can I say to help him out?

Me and my fiancé are planning our wedding and are currently thinking of songs about couples or getting married that arent popular, or some not everyone's heard, any suggestions? Thanks!!

My parents divorced when I was a baby and I grew up in two households. I saw my dad every other week my whole childhood. It was great because we have a super close relationship and he's one of the people I've always been able to count on in my life. My mom married my stepdad when I was 8. They had kids together and everything. He's nice (most of the time) and I know he's always wanted that father-daughter relationship with me. But that never happened because I had such a good relationship with my dad. There can be tension between us because of it, but mostly things are okay. My stepdad asked me a couple of weeks ago if he could walk me down the aisle, either alone or with my dad. He said it's only fair since neither side is paying and he's been good to me since he married my mom. I do understand that and I appreciate him for it. However, he's not my dad. I have a dad, a very good dad and I would hate to hurt my dad by having both walk me down the aisle. I told him no. My mom freaked out and asked why I would hurt him so much. Was I wrong to say no? Doesn't it make more sense to have my dad do it, since he is my dad? I know my dad would be hurt because my stepdad hasn't been exactly nice to him. There were issues my dad tried to shield me from when I was a kid, but my stepdad had no problem letting me witness. Like him telling my dad he was wrong to take me away from my siblings so much and saying he deserved to be my dad more than my real dad did, etc. Also calling my dad names.

My stepdad has been in my life since I was 13. So I've known him a few years now. I get along okay with him and stuff. But his family...not so much. I got a wedding invitation from his sister recently for her September wedding with a note that said she didn't want me there and was only inviting me because she doesn't want to upset him by excluding me and she is hoping I will RSVP no. I wasn't shocked or even offended really. My stepdads family has never really liked the fact he married someone with kids (me, my sister and brother). We're not considered family or included in anything unless my mom and stepdad are around. So I was thinking I will be RSVPing no this week. But I don't know how to tell my mom and stepdad. I know he will be hurt and my mom will be angry, even with the reason. My mom might be especially annoyed because my siblings will be going, even though they don't want to go and aren't really wanted there. Any advice?

My fiancé and I moved really fast in our relationship, moved in together after 2 months with a friend and I was pregnant within 5 months. A month after we found out I was pregnant he proposed to me, it was a beautiful and well thought out proposal. I said yes of course but didn't want to rush the wedding just because I was pregnant. Fast forward to now.. Our daughter is 2 1/2 and we still aren't married. I just started planning a simple wedding with about 45 guests in our back yard and don't want to spend over 3,000 total. he does not seem interested in a wedding at all. Actually he told me it doesn't matter to him if we get married because it seems like we already are. It hurts my feelings. A wedding is important to me. I love this man and I know he loves me, we have built a happy life together. It seems like he has all the time and money for hobbies but none for our marriage. We've talked about it and don't come to any conclusions that make me feel any better about the situation. I'm so confused and hurt, any advise?