So I lack a lot of self-confidence since I was pretty unattractive all of my life until the past few months. I started weightlifting and dressing better and after about a year I started getting checked out a lot and getting treated better by women. So anyway, I'm into this one girl and I was sitting in the library today at a cubicle but got bored so I went to go sit next to my friend who was at a larger table. The girl I like was also sitting at a cubicle. I notice that she then walks by to talk to some of her friends at a table near mine. I go and get some food, and when I come back, she's sitting at the table across from mine by herself. I'm not really sure why she did that since the table with her friends had like 3 open spots. Anyway, I couldn't really tell if she was checking me out or not since I wasn't facing her way. After an hour, another guy and a girl join my table and I start chatting them up. I notice that about 10 minutes later the girl at the other table moves back to her cubicle looking a bit annoyed. I felt bad, because I thought I might have made too much noise talking to the others at my table but in retrospect I really wasn't loud. Was she expecting me to go talk to her? I mean I'll do it but why couldn't she just come over to my table?

I always hear about how much girls love tall guys but what about us short guys. Are there girls who prefer guys on the short side as well? I'm 5'4 and 24 years old so i'm done growing. I've never had a girlfriend before but I do find that i'm most attracted to girls who are shorter than me (around 5 feet). The thing that really gets me down is that many of the pretty, short girls end up with tall guys :(. I think tall guys are lucky because they get to end up with a girl who loves their appearance. I know many short men find someone but with so many girls wanting tall guys how would we know shes not really 'settling' for us because she was unable to find a tall man. I dont want to be with any woman who secretly wishes I was taller. I dont want a woman who sees my height as some 'flaw' she looked past or accepted. Are there short , pretty girls who also happen to like short guys? Could I actually find a girl who loves me just as I am, height and all? One who adores me completely? One who is attractive in my eyes too? Or is that the kind of love that only tall guys get?

I really like this one guy. But we started off as best friends but latley we have been closer than usual. Yesterday my friend told him that I like him smh. He's pretty shy so he said "ughh okay" and looked very nervous (According to her) and today he is acting the same like nothing happened.. Today he was making jokes and When I went to look back after he had told a joke he is looking at me for my reaction. I'm pretty sure he likes me, but he isn't going to do anything about it I think. Should I ask him if he wants to hang out tomorrow? Or is it to soon seeing how he found out I like him yesterday? (BTW I've never really had a boyfriend, I'm in high school as well (: )

Im 18 and still in high school. I'm constantly trying to find a girlfriend or even just a girl who mutually likes me back. No luck obviously, I can never get past a friend. I'm tired of just being a friend, I just want someone to love is that too much to ask for. I will find a new girl I like talk to her then she eventually just stops replying or just replies with short answer which apparently take 25min to type. Girl after girl goes by and I can't get past a friend. I have tried everything. But always in the end get the you're a really great guy, but I don't want you. I try to keep my confidence up but it's really hard when no girl is interested in you, or always get rejected with the great guy, but still not good enough for them. I'm almost at the point where I'm just going to give up and just accept that I'm going to stay single. All of my friends have girlfriends and I'm the odd man out. They go out on Friday while I stay at home alone, I have tried going out but get nowhere, because I'm alone when I'm out, I would ask my friends but they are "busy" with their girlfriends. I just want for once to be more than a friend. I have heard all the "advice" in the book, just be yourself, and she will come.

So me and my girlfriend have been dating for three months, we're both 18. She's pansexual. She dated one girl, and had (questionably consentual) sex with one guy. Lately, our texts have been getting really dirty, and we both knew that we where ready to take the next step. We've talked about fingering and oral from me to her, but she won't do anything for me at all. We love each other to peices, but if it stays, it may impact our relationship in the long run. She's slow when it comes to relationships, mostly. How can I help her get over her fear of penises?

Like if people are arguing or flirting they'll say "well that escalated quickly" what do they mean by that??

This guy said he liked this girl but knew he did t have a chance her, then said he liked this other girl but she likes someone else and then said he liked me. I'm so confused. Did he just mention those other girls because he was nervous because liking them would be a waste of time since they're taken? Should I like him even though he made me 3rd choice???

Ok, so, should I be worried? Is this a normal thing...I hope I'm just over reacting?

I would do it all day if I could. I lost my virginity when I was 6, if you count molestation as sex. I love it, I want sex with you. YOU! Let me fill you up!

ok, sounds dumb but i cant ride my man. how do i move my hips? i tryed it and my man says it hurts him, im doing somthing wrong. also, my legs get very tired. anymore know of a website that give a demonstration? please help, my realationship is failing because of this

Me and the Ex broke up about 3 years ago and didn t talk about 6 months after the break up then it picked up non stop we talk every single day...she said about a year ago that she didn t have any feelings for me like that but like I sai we talk daily and still sleep with each other lately it s made me think is that possible to not have feelings? An stay in that much contact? Even going as far as saying she doesn t know how she d make it thru the day without me and that I m part of who I am...I think it has something to do with our age difference and she thinks I can do better idk any opinion helps thanks

This is very embarrassing and humiliating. When I was a stupid horny 11 year old, I sent horny messages to a girl on Xbox live, I am now 14 and realized how stupid I was. How much will I get in trouble now if this catch up to me and how much will I get in trouble as adult. This is on my Dad's Xbox account which makes it worse.

I am a male who is 21 and I am scared to date because of my parents. I am scared of what they will think of me and how they will treat me differently because I like girls. I have always loved girls but was really shy when I was young. Now I talk to more girls and flirt with them but I am so scared to talk to them on the phone or chat with them online. My parents are curious as to who I am chatting with or if someone calls me. I usually just never call the girl or text her because of my fear. It sucks cause there is this girl at my job who is gorgeous. We talk and she doesn t have a boyfriend. I flirt with her alot and everyone knows we like each other but I am so scared to date her. What do I do? Should I wait till I move out and finish school to start dating (30s)? Please let me know. Thanks!

The passed week I've been with my best friend. She slept at my house for a few nights and I slept at her house for a few nights. We've been together all day long too. I developed really strong and deep feelings for her. I told her that she means a lot to me and that's she's special to me, I also told her I have feelings for her right before she left. She hides her emotions pretty well. Is there a chance she has feelings for me or anything romantic against me? I feel like she probably developed feelings for me as well. What do you think? What do you think her feelings are against me? Do you think she has feelings for me?

PLEASE READ EVERYTHING I PROMISE IM NOT TROLLING OR MAKING ANY OF THIS UP ITS ALL %100 TRUE. About three years ago i had sex with this girl i met a few times. Long story short we got drunk one day and me and her ended have sex at a friends house on the couch. I wasn't super drunk and neither was she we only had a few shots so we both know what was happening and going on. I took my pants of and quickly put the condom on and layed on the couch while she was undressing. When she got done undressing she sat on the couch and took the condom off my penis "i said to myself wtf is she doing" then she put it back on. We start having sex the couch which was really small so we kept switching positions. While having sex she kept reaching and touching my penis doing weird sh!t. Then i felt a scratch on my penis is was from her nail i pulled out and the condom was completely torn. I knew she ripped it i should have confronted her about it right then and there but im a shy quite easy going guy that people always took advantage of basically i was a pussy. No way the condom ripped like that after 5 mins of sex. She is the only girl i had sex with so i got it from her. Ive been kind and respectful to the girl and even loaned her money sometimes and then she goes and tell people i have a small penis and makes a laughing stock out of me. I feel like going to her house and sliting her and her whole familys throats and burning there sh!t down. I want revenge i need it i dream about it.

We have been friends sonce grade school. We have attempted intimacy, but it didnt work out. We decided that being friends was much better. I have fond memories of hiking, goong to the beach, being trouble making teenagers, and just having good platonic fun. We were always comfortable woth each other and didnt care who the other was dating. We have beeing in and outbofbtouch through social media. About 5 years ago, we reconnected over a mutual friends death. I asked him if he wanted to have lunch andbcatch up. Hesaid he couldnt because his girl was so jeolous, so i told him to bring her too. She refused to meet me since i am a girl. Recently, he broke up with her and hit me up for lunch. We hung out a few times. There was some chemestry, but we decided again to remain platonic. She has stocked him for months, and never gave up trying to won him back. One day, i met up with him and surprise, she was there. She evil eyed me. I told her to chill that we were just friends. She is older and unattractive. She is old enough to be his mom. Ok fine. I told her that she would not prevent me from hangin out with my friend. She promised to be on her best behavior after i reassured her worries. Suddenly, he wont talk to me again. WTF? He explained he is going to break up with her then we can hang out. Omg. Why does this woman have such a hold on him? She doesnt work, or do anything. He supports her. I just want my friend back. He was happier with put her. How do i deal?

Im been going out with a girl, and suddenly she starts giving me the cold shoulder, out of the blue.Scarcely talking to me, and when she does is to answer a question in one word responses.A friend of mine and hers asked her how was she doing with me, she answered that she was ignoring me because I was too nice to her.

there i this girl I like who i year younger than me in my school and I have no classes with. How could I go upon approaching her and what should I say?

Hi, i just need help because I had a planned fight with this guy and i said friday because if i get suspended i wont miss alot of work but than they kept calling me a pu**y and i just ignored it the next day people kept saying they were going to jump me so i just walked home with my cousins than i saw a croud of people behind me walking halfway where i was thinking there was going to be a fight so i just ignored it and faced straight until a guy came behind me and got me into a headlock i flipped him over and i saw his face but couldnt punch him because a gym coach broke us up so when i walked home i had messages on facebook saying why i ran away from fight or why was i scared and more trash talking messages and i got a phone call from a girl and said why i EFFIN ran away than i found out he had a brass knuckle in his pocket so monday i was thinking bout getting him because he dont deserve to talk trash about me saying i got beat up when i didnt and i want to get him with a first punch in the gym without being scared to throw one but what should i do?

So this girl was walking with her boyfriend and they were holding hands.As she and her boyfriend past my car she kept looking right at me. I kind of felt uncomfortable. She was attractive and all but like why was she looking at me. I just looked down.

I almost want to flat out ask him what's the deal! I'm 17, he's 19 and also my coworker btw. he's talked to me about this other girl too who has a boyfriend and is his ex and she keeps telling him she'll break up with her current BF for him and it's been 4-5 months! but lately we've been flirting more and more at work and eating w each other after our shifts like once a week. I then asked another coworker for his number and texted him and he started being really flirty in the first 2 conversations we had but now I texted him just hey and he said "hey I'm really busy can't talk" and I said just txt me when u can and he left me on read so I really don't think he's going to reply.. so at times he's super flirty and other times he's dry and distant.. what's the deal?!

Just a pretty face, not a good body. What is your reaction when you see her pretty face? Is it like: "Wow! She is drop dead gorgeous!!! Oh my god! Look at her!" Or is it like "Yeah, she s pretty." Or is it like "Oh, she s pretty. Yep she s pretty" Basically, what is your reaction? Do you get all caught up in a tizzy being all "OMG WOW!!" in awe of the girl? Or is it just an observation that she s pretty? Again, JUST A PRETTY FACE. No sexual things.

My son is a freshman in high school, and he is starting to date a junior in high school, I do not know what to do. I want him to be happy but I don't want him to date a girl with that big of an age gap. Any ideas for what to do?

I want to die and I will

I received an anonymous question on askfm on this. The question sounds like if a pious guy proposed to you, would you accept? Imagine u know him. My gf laughed it off as a joke. A guy fren told me it was serious. Which is which?

How Do I ask her? What do i say?

I have boyfriend of 4 years. On the other hand I have a huge crush on someone at work. This guy at work knows how I feel. I think. At first it was just lust but now I want to actually get to know him. I don't know if he likes me at all though. No signs at all. But when I mentioned if he would have sex with me his response was he wouldn't say no cuz he's a guy. I then mentioned if I was single he would. He responded with a yes. Since we work together I'm sure it's wierd. So I have backed off a bit. We talk u know to be civil at work at ****. He has never shown affection towards me only me towards him and it makes me believe I'm wasting my time. He doesn't care when I brush up against him. What does tht mean? Hes such a sweet guy and I appreciate he would never take advantage of me. I try to have stuff in common with him by being interested into the same things he likes. I think about him in every waking moment. I don't really have problems with my boyfriend except the fact we haven't had sex ever! I don't know what to do. Should I get over my so called crush? Is it even a crush?

I've had a crush on this shy guy for a very long time; even though we've never talked, I developed an attraction. And honestly, I thought it was mutual because we always exchange glances, stare at eachother, and he walks by me a lot on purpose. Today, since it's his last day of school, I told my friend, who is in his class, to bring him to our table. When he came over, I instantly began freaking out and threw my jacket over my head, started blushing, and tried to avoid looking at him. When I looked back, he was smiling at me (?) Also, before this incident, our mutual friend told him that I like him, but he just used my name so he didn't know who I was. Now, he obviously knows. Anyways, I didn't even talk to him and he walked away. When my friend looked at his table, she said he was staring at me for five seconds and I think he was telling his friends about what happened :( also, 2 minutes after, he began tweeting like normal with his friends. He doesn't like me, does he? (Keep in mind he's extremely awkward and shy, he's never had a girlfriend, etc...)

I'm a girl & we're in our mid 20s, my friend & I tried dating a few months back but he realized he wasn't ready for a gf, he only had $500 in his bank account, he was living in his parents apt & he felt insecure & like he couldn't provide, even tho I assured him money doesn't matter to me. But we remained friends;that was 6 months ago and now lately hes been flirting A LOT, playfully touches me, touches my nose, waist/hip, compliments me on what I wear, says I'm pretty w/o makeup, called me adorable, he mimics my voice, makes fun of me, recently he likes to sing my name & repeat it over and over. He keeps thinking of nicknames for me with my name In them & wants me to think of some for him. I told him about my plans to have my own website business & how it makes decent money & he joked "oh that's a great idea you should do that and then I can be a stay at home husband" I jokingly agreed & said "Ill get right on that" A few days later someone startled him and he said "thats ok Im used to feeling intimidated, Summer (me) intimates me all the time. Every time I see her I get revved up" he said it jokingly & laughing while I was right there. Days later I was telling him how my boss said to me "that im his girl" (bc my boss can rely on me) and my friend joked "Oooo His girl huh?" I said "not like that lol" and he said "Yea cause you know you can only be that to one of us" he smile & so I touched him & smiled. I wasnt sure if he was joking so I didnt say anything. Usual flirting after that but Then the last two days he seems in a hurry to leave. He'll still flirt but he'll talk to guys for a long time & have full conversations but then with me he either interrupts me & makes fun of or mimics what I say or makes a silly fsce OR he just cuts it so short & seems like he wants to leave!!! Makes me feel like he doesn't want to talk to me :( But yet that same day I was talking to one of our mutal friends and he joined in and we were joking about me dating guys & my friend was teasin me and touched me on the upper arm & just kept his hand there for awhile. It felt more like "you're mine" kind of thing but I could reading into it. Same day he went to come talk to me & he sees me, stops and then quickly turns away. I asked if he needed anything and he said "No..well maybe"

You only know how to throw temper, without knowing what's right or wrong.

I have not been on one date all throughout college. I just have a feeling if I can secure a entry level engineering job that pays like 50k I am sure these whores would want to date me after they had their fun with the meat heads who work out 8 hours at the gym and take steroids. Is this why women hate prostitutes because of competition?

okay so not trying to sound cocky or anything, but i always notice guys checking me out. like every time i go out i see at least one guy staring at me. i'm always wishing that these guys would come to me and say something because some of them are actually pretty cute, but i do something that makes them think i'm not approachable probably. whenever i notice a guy looking at me i don't make eye contact, i and don't acknowledge that i see them looking at me. i have a really low self esteem so when i see someone looking at me i just figure that there's not way they're looking at me. or if they are it's not because they think i'm attractive, it's for some other reason. but i bet if i would acknowledge these guys a few of them at least might come up to me. please help!

I don't know what to say to him i feel like I many be in he's hair to much what should I do😢

So I have liked this guy for 2 years. I have been trying SO HARD to get over him, but nothing seems to work. Every time I see him I get butterflies and every time he is within a few feet away from me and my friends, I act weird and lose my train of thought. He liked me the year before I started liking him. I don't know if he still likes me, sometimes I catch him staring at me. I said like at the beginning because I didn't just start out loving him, it was a gradual change. Please help me figure this out! I also get jealous when he is around other girls and everywhere I go, I see his name. There's a brand in my pantry, fridge, I see it on a sign on my way to school. I don't want to be dramatic but his name is EVERYWHERE I TURN! And I don't want to make to much of this but (not to sound like a lovesick fool) what if seeing his name is a sign. Also when he's been staring at me alo

Age gap? Work? Family?

I'll be in my ex's city for a day next week on business. He ended it with me 10 years ago and and it broke my heart. He told me he'd always want to see me and that it was the closest he'd ever been to a girl (with me that is). After it was over, I emigrated and he did contact me a year later to visit me but I was with another guy. Now I'm single..I did send him a social network invite 2 years ago but he didn't accept and just checked out my profile a couple of times. I was thinking of messaging him and letting him know I'd be in his city for a day and it would be great to catch a coffee or lunch. Would this be ok or would it come across as weird? There's a possibility he's married...and I'm not interested in interfering if this were the case.

Okay.. So i'm not a fighter by any means. I don't usually have any problems that a little chat won't fix. but this girl is a ******* *****, and my ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago and he started dating her a week later. she is a rebound, he admits this, and if she wasn't so desperate, she would see this too. anyway, my and ex and i have been talking. i've had to goto his house to get money that he owed me and things like that and this chick is NOT HAPPY. i will be going out to the bar this wknd for my friends birthday, and he has already told me that they will be there together. i broke up with him and so i really don't think he is worth fighting for as i dont care that much about them but i have had drunken stupid girls punch me in the face out of no where before and take off, and so i just want a little advice on if this ***** starts anything... i think hair pulling is cheap but if she throws a cheap shot my way or something, i figure self defense is fair game? do what it takes? im a lot smaller than her, and my friends will be there but this chick is effing crazy.

I'm a sophomore who likes a freshie. He's in my Pe class, I'm the only sophomore in that class. Today I asked for his Spanish notes to find an excuse to talk (he is in the Spanish 3 class after me) and he said "um sure? my handwriting's really messy though" he said this in a kind of awkward laughing tone. how else can I talk to him? we have swim unit in pe right now so the only time I can comfortably talk to him is when I'm leaving spanish and he's coming in (we have a 6 minute passing period)

I met my ex bf a few weeks ago in a club totally at random. We had a weird break up. We had a stupid fight, don't even remember what it was about. We screamed and shouted at each other. He walked out and that was it. So stupid. We made out, kissed and talked a lot. I asked him why didn't he run after me that day? Why didn't he fight for me? He said: "Because even today I am tired of fighting for every person in my life. Be it old friends or girls. Everyone wants me to run after them and beg them to come back. But no one ever runs after me. Why should I fight for someone who doesn't want to fight for me?". He's not the same guy he used to be. He's more reserved now. But I have to say I'm still a little hearbroken about our break up last time. He didn't call me or anything. That hurt me. A lot. We've been seeing each other lately but I don't know if i can forgive him for the last time.

So I met this dude, and we have spent a great deal of time together and have a great connection,though we still aren t exclusive yet.. we were supposed to hang out again but he wont respond to my texts...hes the first attractive guy I ve ever talked to, and we seemed like a great match and he stares into my eyes like he wants to tell him something, and I sense that he really really likes me when were together... At this point I m just at a loss.. I don t want whatever we have to end cuz what if I never find someone like him again... The only guys who talk to me normally are either old, not to be rude but they re not attractive to me either.. And I simply can t get in a relationship with someone I don t find somewhat attractive. I know we aren t together officially but I can t help to think he s off screwin someone cuz I said no to him last night cuz ive never bottomed before and it just messes up my emotions... Ugh... I just want to fall in love.. I just graduated university, I have agood job, a house, a dog.. There s just that missing puzzle piece I was hoping was him..what do I do?? What should I say to him? Without coming off as desperate or needy or clingy..hes on his phone cuz he s been on Grindr all day. So I just don t get why he hasn t responded to me.. I guess he s just not interested? Idk.. I just wish he would tell me..

I say this in my mind all the time. I'm being asked to do things all the time if whatsoever. I am weary of asking questions and still people don't understand this situation I'm facing in every day of my life. Please help me with this if you feel need to, okay.

I've been friends with this guy since last year and he's been giving tiny confusing hints and it's pretty much messing up with my mind . My guy friends are best friends with him they ask him if he likes me and he always answers no, then someone said that he likes another girl. He described the girl and one of my guy friends stated that it could be me, white, tall, long brown hair, and skinny but that's just insane because personally I think I'm not pretty at all. But lately I've been noticing that my crush has been staring at me most of the time and part of me feels like he just doesn't like me at all. And my friends always say you never know maybe he just doesn't want to tell the truth, and I know for sure that he doesn't like me back. Help?

Hey im a 21 year old female amd i have always been scared of the dark. I can only sleep with the lights off if my bf sleeps and cuddles with me. Even then im still scared like bad. I have always slept with with a tv or a night lights since i was little. If i get up in the middle of the night im scared somthing is going to grab me i also feel like some one is going to break in the house. When he worked third shift i found my self staying up most of the night becasue i could not sleep with out him because i was scared to be alone in the house.

There's this girl I like I met a month ago, she's very affectionate towards me. Whenever she sees me she hugs me and kisses me on the cheek, the first few days I didn't kiss her back but now I do. Today at the end of the day when she hugged me she turned my head and kissed me on the lips. It was really nice and soft. Since that I haven't been able to think about anything else. by the way, I've never had a girlfriend so I know little about romance. Does she like me too or is she just really affectionate?

specially the guys they like? do they think it will make them like her more? joe: i feel that this is a "natural instict" most women do to males they are attracted to, so you are basically calling all women manipulators in a way that is not necessarily manipulating.