My younger sister is getting married. Don't get me wrong I'm happy for her and her guy, but I don't know why everyone is hating on me? My family members keep saying that my sister is beating me because she found a guy to settle down with before me and will soon start a life. I'm the bridesmaid and I'm already getting the comments of "Why is your lil sis getting married first" or " How does it feel to be the older sister and not married yet?" It's not easy to just find the right guy and say okay you and I will spend our entire life together. It's not like I'm not doing anything with my life, I'm working at a job that I enjoy and will soon continue my education in September to finish my bachelor's degree. Plus I'm only 22 years old and I don't know why they think that I'm running out of time.They believe that I will not find love. It hurts to know that they think that and I hate that I let myself listen to their negative thinking because I know that I'm doing just fine and I should be grateful for that. Any advice will truly be helpful. Thanks.

Our wedding is 4 weeks away and my fiance keeps asking me questions like "You will be a good wife?" "You won't ever leave me?" "We will not have a sexless marriage?" "You will not stop caring about making me happy once we are married, will you?" "You will still take care of me when I'm sick forever?" And he constantly says "It'll be weird to get married" "it's crazy that we're going to be married..." and sometimes he gets temperamental when discussing the wedding planning but other times he's super pumped for it. He also sometimes says he has to marry me because he can't live without me and he thinks I'll leave him if he doesn't (I remind him he shouldn't get married out of fear) but other times says he does want to be married.. is this a normal case of cold feet or am I gonna be a jilted bride???

My brother is getting married next weekend and our family is coming in town in a few days. My brother is very stressed and has taken it out on me and I have profusely apologized for one of the plans that COULD change for when he leaves for the honeymoon. I am well passed the issue. I have explained on many sentimental levels I don't want this to be part of the memories this week, but he isn't done throwing shade towards me. I have done everything possible to try to mend this, but I know it's going to be a very uncomfortable week and weekend given I organized to throw a SECOND bachelor party for those who couldn't come to the first one and we have many activities planned with our family. If we can't get along before we have to be around each other for those activities, I just want to give back this title of Best Man so he can have his second choice stand next to him and give a speech. No sense me using my heartfelt words on someone who doesn't currently like me. Also, I would excuse myself from the bachelor party I have already paid for, and leave them to have fun without me. Bad move? Advice please....

We've known eachother for 20 years but have been together for 12. We've decided to get married sometime next year, no date has been set yet. We have picked a Church. We're thinking of inviting 100 to 150 of our closest family and friends. Now in terms of the venue, we live in the Bronx (New York). Budget wise the most we would spend is $5000 which would include catering, open bar, maximum of 5 to 6 hours, and we don't have to clean up after the reception. It's a small wedding that we've decided to have. Suggestions for Sovenirs or Gifts to give guests is welcome, since I have no clue. Oh if I set the wedding date in April or May, what colors are good? So basically the budget wouldn't exceed $10,000. I'm a very conservative with my budget, He is both conservative and spendable. Let me know. Open to suggestions. Thanks

Wedding is the day before Father's Day

You know the brides parents are to pay for everything the food the place reception everything and the grooms parents pay for the rehearsal dinner when tradition is not followed ethier the grooms parents get the shaft or worse yet the bride and groom themselves

Im planning a country/rustic wedding in September. I dont know what songs to pick for the ceremony as for everyone walking down to. And I already have some picked for the dances and stuff.

My partner and I have been together for 22, we have 4 children together. We are getting married this year. We're going down the court house this summer to get married. We're only inviting our immediate family, and then taking them out for a meal afterwards. Are invitations necessary?