Marriage & Divorce: Question: Has any one slept with their sister's husband's sister and have it work out without things being awkward! we're roommates for the past 6 mth? |
- Question: Has any one slept with their sister's husband's sister and have it work out without things being awkward! we're roommates for the past 6 mth?
- Question: This question is for married women. How often do you want to have, or initiate sex with your husbands.?
- Question: What signs do you look for in your future husband or wife?
- Question: Should i put my fiancee on my deed?
- Question: Do women think it's pervy to like them wearing tights and heals ?!!?
- Question: Liberal woman. Would you attack the woman your husband was involved with or would you take it out on your poor husband ?
- Question: Which attitude might mean saying "no" in marital rape, in order to understand and fill for divorce,and not live in marital rape/or raped?
- Question: I told my wife im ready to leave our marriage if our sex life doesn't improve.?
- Question: Is marriage really just a financial agreement?
- Question: Coahuila, Palau, México marriage requirements?? Is my marriage valid or invalid? ?
- Question: Which attitude might be understood as saying " no" in order to know it is case for divorce ?
- Question: Is it worth saving?
- Question: If one does not want to share their finances and insurance etc could they still be married?
- Question: Is a prenup only for rich folks? Also with a prenup your finances are separate right?
- Question: Why would a man lie about watching porn and alternating? Especially when I told him I don't care if he does it...?
- Question: In a case ,where it is umderstand it is marital rape, can /and is the victime able /to take the child and leave,before divorcing?
- Question: Which is the moment when the marital rape starts?
- Question: Why does my wife like to wear a thin white t-shirt in public with no bra and have men look at her big breast?
- Question: I owe back child support to my ex-wife. Now I have a son that isn t from my ex-wife. If I claim him as a dependent will my ex-wife get the $?
- Question: My libido is through the roof after having the baby. Is that normal?
- Question: I feel like im loosing my husband tot he streets. He's 36 yet acti like he is 18 again and hanging out smoking and drinking with old friends?
- Question: Husband won t allow son to have a cell phone?
- Question: My wife and I are about to get out of credit card debt. Now that our extra credit card payments will be free, how will our marriage change?
- Question: I'm getting married?
- Question: Be honest, did your spouse change in any way as soon as you got married or there after? In what way?
- Question: How come some ppl?
- Question: How to deal with an ex wife ( kids are 17 and 21)?
- Question: My husband promises to change.. But he still messes up.?
- Question: My bf is married ...I just found out after 1 1/2 years. Should I tell his wife? if I was her I would like to know. thoughts?
- Question: Husband put me unconcious during sex. Advice?
- Question: When married men tell younger women they'll leave their wives for them, do they mean it?
- Question: Which countries allow a man to have multiple wives?
- Question: I have a question about marriage and aggression. What do you do when you've hit a breaking point?
- Question: Should I leave ?
- Question: My husband offered sex to my mom after getting drunk? Please help!?
- Question: What does it mean to be submissive to your man?
- Question: What goes through a woman's mind when she hears the word divorce from her husband?
- Question: How do I tell my husband that I know about his secret, and I want a divorce?
- Question: I understand "having self respect" is code word for "put a guard up and fight back until you win", but is this really necessary in marriage?
- Question: Would you marry someone with different religious views that conflicted with your own?
- Question: Marriage for 6 years and my husband cheated and leaving together with OW for 2 years but he never wanted divorcing me, why?
- Question: Do you think it's ALWAYS a good idea to move out/SELL the house after a divorce? And if you don't - does it scream I DON'T WANT TO MOVE ON?
- Question: What can I do or say so my wife understands that not everything can be controlled?
- Question: Is it best to hide your sexual history from your wife?
- Question: My wife refuses to validate my feelings after an argument but requires I validate hers. I can't change her, so how do I validate myself?
- Question: My wife has had many sex parteners, including people that I know and used to hang out with. I feel uncomfortable about it.?
- Question: If you've never had a joint acct with your spouse is it still technically "our" money?
- Question: If the "other woman" becomes the wife or the primary woman, and is then cheated on, do you feel bad for her at all?
- Question: Am I a bad communicator? How do I fix that?
- Question: Husband just received a ticket for going 105 on a 70!? I'm furious. Please help.?
- Question: Is my soon to be divorced husband allowed to discuss custody with my children before the divorce?
- Question: How to stop my wife from abusing me?
- Question: What should I do with my lazy hot wife?
- Question: How can I (man) compete with another woman for my wife's love?
| Posted: 25 May 2016 08:56 PM PDT |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 08:51 PM PDT What do you think is normal? |
| Question: What signs do you look for in your future husband or wife? Posted: 25 May 2016 08:49 PM PDT |
| Question: Should i put my fiancee on my deed? Posted: 25 May 2016 08:27 PM PDT i am planning on marrying. my fiancee lives with me for the past couple of years and contributes to the bills and helps with keeping up the home. should i put him on the deed when we marry? |
| Question: Do women think it's pervy to like them wearing tights and heals ?!!? Posted: 25 May 2016 08:05 PM PDT |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 07:58 PM PDT I am sorry this question ended up in marriage section. I meant it to be in the political section about Hillary. Again, i apologize for anyone having marital problems. This is not a serious question. I was being sarcastic because that is what Hillary did. |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 07:28 PM PDT Pls give ex.tx |
| Question: I told my wife im ready to leave our marriage if our sex life doesn't improve.? Posted: 25 May 2016 07:23 PM PDT Wife has completely stopped putting out, but will use her sex toys multiple times a week. |
| Question: Is marriage really just a financial agreement? Posted: 25 May 2016 07:22 PM PDT I don't want to share my finances with anyone....but I hear that when you are married...you both are legally bounded financially :( |
| Question: Coahuila, Palau, México marriage requirements?? Is my marriage valid or invalid? ? Posted: 25 May 2016 07:16 PM PDT I am a u.s citizen who married a Mexican in coahuila Palau Mexico in 2007. I was married in a ballroom by a man whom which wasn't a priest but I'm not sure if he was a judge either, the only document we presented was our birth certificates. We both signed and a few members from both our families signed as witnesses. However, we did not obtain a marriage permit/license. After so long, I am not sure if my marriage was even valid because of that. Please advise, thank you |
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| Posted: 25 May 2016 06:50 PM PDT Married 15 years and 4 kids. I've been unhappy for a long time now but never really told my husband until a couple of months ago. We had a very long talk about it and we agreed to try a fix our married. We still have arguments like every other couple does but I feel myself pulling away again. I feel he is very controlling and has a bad temper. He tells me I'm selfish all the time. Our problem in my eyes is even when we were dating I spend all my time with him. I pretty much lost all my friends because we would fight all the time of I want to go out with them. I let that go over the years and he does the same with family . If I every do anything with family I pretty much take the kids with me because he doesn't argue with me as much of I do. He has never taken the kids to the doctors. He isn't involved with them in school I take care of everything. If I ask him to pick them up from school he says he's tired just go or sometimes I ask him to come with me and he says no I'll just stay here. Its the little things that count to me. His problem with me is sex. He wants it all the time. He says I don't give him any attention. So since this talk I've really tried to be more affectionate with him and things were good. But he never changed. I've been waiting for him to offer to go get the kids from school and not once has he offered. I asked to got out with family one night and we had a big blow out and I was called all kinds of names and he couldn't believe how selfish I was. |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 06:44 PM PDT |
| Question: Is a prenup only for rich folks? Also with a prenup your finances are separate right? Posted: 25 May 2016 06:38 PM PDT also what about health insurance and such? |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 06:20 PM PDT My husband claims he does not masturbate or watch porn I have found ample evidence on his phone and other places indicating that he does. I have even caught him twice in the act. And he still maintains that he doesn't do it unless it is that time of the month for me. But as much porn as I have found there is no way he just does it when I'm on my period. |
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| Question: Which is the moment when the marital rape starts? Posted: 25 May 2016 06:01 PM PDT |
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| Question: My libido is through the roof after having the baby. Is that normal? Posted: 25 May 2016 05:17 PM PDT Before and during my pregnancy I had practically no libido. I could go more than two months without sex and be just fine. However, my husband would be crawling out of his skin. But now that we have had the baby my libido is insane. It's like me and my husband switched sex drives. (Because it seems he never wants it now). Is it normal to experience this after having the baby? Will it disappear again? Should I be concerned? |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 04:52 PM PDT he does not come home and stay out all day and night until it is time to go to work. the only time he comes home is when he has to change clothing. he says his mind is racing and he dont know what is going on with him. we have been married for 10years and we have had a rough few years where i can see why he could be over whelmed. How long do you think this phase could last. |
| Question: Husband won t allow son to have a cell phone? Posted: 25 May 2016 04:50 PM PDT My husband was about 18 when he got his 1st phone, I was 12. My son is 9, but is active in scouts, travels alot with his grandmother, and will probably do sports next school year with his school. I have an extra phone that he would love for me to activate for him. My husband has thrown a fit and said that no child of his will be getting a phone that young, he claims that he is afraid he will lose or break it. My thoughts are that he won t allow it because he wasn t allowed one at a younger age. My husband isn t even his legal father, my ex husband is- but we do not have much contact with him (only his family). Should my husband be allowed to make this decision? Should my son be allowed a phone? He travels alot with my mom- and she would like to be able to keep up with him in case he happened to get lost. |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 04:37 PM PDT We have actually NEVER had "leisure money" in the 15 years that we have been together. As a matter of fact, we went from having no debt (before we met) to having $10k in debt after we moved in with each other. And to make matters worse, we both made near minimum wage, so the banks did a number on us since we were 19 and 20 years old and they should have never given us credit cards in the first place. We actually accepted "being always in debt" as our lifestyle, so we just learned to live off credit cards since it was never getting better no matter how much money we threw at it. We gave birth to two wonderful kids. We some how got approved for not one, but two mortgages (we live in the 2nd house, the first one we lost to the bank). Life was actually okay as TV, Video Game, Movie, Anime, and Internet drones... But the debt was nerve-wrecking! Things were so bad that we fought a LOT about money things. I mean a LOT. Mostly over how I was a bad breadwinner and I needed a six figure income job so she could stay home and be "a Mom"... Never gonna happen with that much debt already. She ended up going to college to get a job, but by then we had $32,000 in debt already (before her loans). We were so broke that we could never afford a babysitter, so we'd stay in and just do more mindless indulgences. We actually had to steal diapers and formula at one point, it was THAT bad. So now that we are finally out of debt (starting this next check), what new challenges are coming for us? One thing I'm actually kind of excited for is now I can afford my Barbie Doll wife and she can afford to travel. Both things we have complained about since we met and neither of us could afford to give the other person. So there was that perpetual guilt that we couldn't make our spouse happy since we didn't have the money to do it. I'm not going to try to convince you that we were happy without money because that's a lie; no one likes being in debt and living paycheck to paycheck... |
| Question: I'm getting married? Posted: 25 May 2016 04:35 PM PDT I'm getting married in less than two months. Any advice or tips? |
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| Posted: 25 May 2016 03:56 PM PDT get married and not have sex with their wife? instead some actually call a male escort for them. whats wrong with these guys? are they psycho |
| Question: How to deal with an ex wife ( kids are 17 and 21)? Posted: 25 May 2016 03:15 PM PDT |
| Question: My husband promises to change.. But he still messes up.? Posted: 25 May 2016 03:08 PM PDT I've been married for about 2 years. We only dated 6 months before getting engaged, married 4 months later. During the dating period, we really were the perfect couple, we never fought, only loved one another. Once we got engaged he did start to get a little bit more stressed about certain things, like me going out or whatever, but it was only ever verbal. But once we got married that's when the physical violence started. I won't go into great detail, but anything could set it off. From getting phone calls from people he doesn't know, to forgetting to take out the garbage. Like I said, I won't go into exact specifics, but he has bruised the ribs, blackened eyes, busted lips and the worst was a bruised neck(which you can connect the dots). Each time he does apologize, and he really does feel bad because he will cry uncontrollably, and he'll be good for a while, but then it happens again. I can't leave him because my family would disown me if I got a divorce (very religious). So I was thinking of couples therapy, I just need to know how I should bring it up without him getting angry? I was thinking of bringing it up when we go out to dinner, but I also don't want him to feel blind sided.. Any advice regarding how I can bring it up would be appreciated. Thank you for your time. |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 03:06 PM PDT |
| Question: Husband put me unconcious during sex. Advice? Posted: 25 May 2016 03:01 PM PDT My Husband and I have been together almost 2yrs and from the start I was aware that he can be very jealous. Last weekend we attended a friends wedding, I went to order drinks and he noticed I was laughing with the bartender, I am a very social person and can chat with anyone, My husband came over to me and accused me of flirting in front of him, When I told him otherwise he got pissed off put his head level with mine and told me to behave myself and I was disrespecting him. I got so angry with him for even assuming I'd do that and we ended up arguing. When we got home the argument became intense, I told him I hated him(which I didn't mean) and I locked myself in our bedroom to cool down but I pissed him off saying I hated him and tried to talked to him, when I refused he kicked the bedroom door in. We have since cleared the air.. or so I thought!, Last night we had sex and He started choking me during sex, When he normally does this its very gentle but last night I was just about to pass out, I felt myself going, he shook and slapped me to regain consciousness. I don't know what to take from this and I feel a little on edge with him. If you guys have any advice I'd greatly appreciate it?! |
| Question: When married men tell younger women they'll leave their wives for them, do they mean it? Posted: 25 May 2016 02:47 PM PDT |
| Question: Which countries allow a man to have multiple wives? Posted: 25 May 2016 02:21 PM PDT |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 01:14 PM PDT I'm a bottle up the anger kind of person. I wasn't always this way, but when you have 2 kids and you have strong beliefs AGAINST aggression and trying to have power OVER someone, you just learn to bite your tongue, grin, and bear it... My wife is a bottle up person too, only she will let it seep out as passive aggression and "digs" to let you know that she's mad... It's covert enough that the kids seriously don't notice it, but it is visible enough to you that you know she's being a b*tch and trying to get under your skin. The good news is, we don't do a lot to piss each other off. We honestly fight just before she bleeds for the month and once or twice every pay week (mainly because she likes to spend money and I like to save it). And since we don't argue that frequently, the bottles don't get full that frequently. But we have NO way to empty the bottles without waiting for it to spill over and we get to that breaking point where we can't hold it in any longer. Some people believe strongly that having ANY aggression is a sign of being incompatible. Some people believe strongly that holding anger in and not releasing it then and there is being disrespectful to yourself. The thing is, holding it in is how we cope with this, and your strong values mean nothing to us. All we need is better ways to deal with that breaking point. Some people said go to the gym or meditate, but that assumes you have time for that stuff. There's really not time for that. So something else? |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 12:09 PM PDT my husband and I have been in a relationship for 10 years we have 4 kids . the first time he got violent we were drinking and he tried to hit me but my cousin stopped him next day he woke up and said he didn't remember anything. about two years after that there was an incident where I went off on him in front of a lot of people and told him I was going to leave him. he got mad told me that if he didn't have me no one would and that he was going to kill us and drove off and almost ran us into someone's house our car was totaled. after this incident I decided to leave I moved out of the home. while I was gone I realize that I was pregnant with twins so we decided to make it work. here we are four years later and we have a pretty solid relationship. things seem to have gotten better. about 2 months ago I got into an argument with him and it escalated and he was pushing me around. I ended up letting it go. just this weekend we were out with his friends from work having dinner. he got really drunk and we had an argument after we left. while driving home we got into a huge fight and it ended up with him hitting me all over the side of my face he decided to drive me to the middle of nowhere. he told me to get out of the car as I put one foot out of the vehicle he drove off I flew across the ground. he came back pick me up took me home where I fell asleep on the couch. the next day I woke up went to the restroom and realize the whole side of my face was bruised and I had a blackeye |
| Question: My husband offered sex to my mom after getting drunk? Please help!? Posted: 25 May 2016 11:07 AM PDT I had a very important event, my husband instead of supporting me, embarrassed me on many occasions that night in front of other people. The thing that hurt me the most was learning from others that he started sexually commenting other women ("I would f*** that ***" type of comments) when I wasn't around and said some disgusting things to my mom what he wants to do to her, he approached her couple of times when no one was around her, put his arm around her when her boyfriend was getting drinks, telling her very dirty things. He says doesn't remember those things he did or said but my heart is broken because it's hard to believe that it is just an alcohol. He claims he loves me and I'm the most important in his life but after I learned that it's not too comforting. Also when I was abroad he was rubbing her back when visited her. He was sober that time. She was weirded out if it was a "family" or "sexual" way, she doesn't know. I have never refused sex to him, always was faithful to him.. My trust is tarnished. I don't know what to do and if I ever will get over it. This is not the first time he's been like that. |
| Question: What does it mean to be submissive to your man? Posted: 25 May 2016 10:36 AM PDT Im asking my husband says we both need to be submissive to one another but he says I am not |
| Question: What goes through a woman's mind when she hears the word divorce from her husband? Posted: 25 May 2016 10:23 AM PDT |
| Question: How do I tell my husband that I know about his secret, and I want a divorce? Posted: 25 May 2016 10:04 AM PDT My husband is an alcoholic, and had been sober for a few months. After the last bout he, of course, swore he'd never drink again. We had a box of wine in the fridge for company, or for me if I want to have a glass on occasion. It had been in there for weeks. He was never a wine drinker, so no problem for him. Last week I wen to get a splash from the box and I noticed it was quite low. It had been full for a long time and I hadn't had any since it was new. I noticed wine on his breath, and he seemed a little messed up, but I didn't say anything at the time. The next day I checked again, and the first 3 liter box was gone (I had marked it) and a new, identical one was in it's place with some missing. He seemed still half drunk when I saw him and smelled strongly of wine. (he works nights and sleeps in the day, so he has all day when I'm at work to do his thing). I still didn't say anything because I wanted to avoid the inevitable argument. Fast forward several days, and the pattern is confirmed. He is drinking almost a full 3 liter box of wine every day, and replacing it thinking I don't know. I'm just about done with the secrecy and the sickness. I need to talk to him about it and tell him I want a divorce. I'm scared he'll freak. Not in a violent way, just be very upset, in denial, the same old same old. It's been 22 years of a repeating pattern. I'm done. How do I start to end this? |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 10:00 AM PDT Obviously it's necessary in MY marriage because everyone is telling me this is what I have to do, but I am just asking to get a sense of normalcy and if this is a thing that all married people have to deal with, or is this a phase and we'll eventually "grow up" and get through it, or is it just me because I married someone who wasn't a clone of me and had the SAME values/morals/beliefs/opinions as I do. PLEASE HELP ME KEEP THIS QUESTION IN MARRIAGE & DIVORCE SO PEOPLE CAN SEE HOW MISSY MISBEHAVES. IT KEEPS MOVING OUT OF THAT SECTION. |
| Question: Would you marry someone with different religious views that conflicted with your own? Posted: 25 May 2016 09:48 AM PDT |
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| Posted: 25 May 2016 08:16 AM PDT So, if I keep the house from my (now over) 15 year marriage -- will a new guy be freaked out to hang out there? sleep there? I can't STAND it when I'm at my boyfriend's house that he BUILT WITH his ex and lived there with her for 20 years. I can just *feel* her presence everywhere... |
| Question: What can I do or say so my wife understands that not everything can be controlled? Posted: 25 May 2016 07:26 AM PDT I get a message from my wife's co-worker that the blew up at everyone this morning. She's been more than a little stressed lately. And now that the party we intended to have for our kids baptism is essentially cancelled/postponed (everything is up in the air at the moment). I'm sure it's just the stress that caused her to be so angry, but now she says she wants to cancel their baptism. And I'm even more sure that her moodiness is due to her "woman problems". I don't know what more I can do or say for her to realize that are some things beyond our control, and that sometimes the best thing to do is to wait and make a decision in the moment...even if that means it IS a last minute decision. She blames me for procrastinating, but no matter how in advance we planned things wouldn't have changed the weather forecast or the schedules of the guests. What I find irritating is that she's not even sure if she wanted to have a big celebration in the first place. She doesn't really care much for parties. She's never been very social, which I think comes from how her parents treated her growing up and her ex-husband's family ignoring her at holiday celebrations. Probably should've worded the question this way: what can I do or say so my wife understand that not everything will go exactly according to plan? Granted, she did voice her thoughts on the topic of the party, but I insisted on planning it. Now it's beyond salvageable and complicated (i.e. no weather friendly venue available). For some reason she has gone completely off the wall over the change in plans (cancellation) for the party. Yes, I think it's a combination of stress from her job, her hormones right now, and she's probably not quite over the death of her mother and very close friend. Why her co-worker is tattling on her to me is ridiculous in itself. My wife doesn't blow up at people that way, so they must've said something or done something to her to cause to blow her top. |
| Question: Is it best to hide your sexual history from your wife? Posted: 25 May 2016 06:48 AM PDT Considering that all the sexual experience was with prostitutes/escorts. Let us say that the person who became his wife was the only actual relationship he had and the rest were with escorts. Do you think its wise to keep this secret as it is? |
| Posted: 25 May 2016 06:29 AM PDT I have a lot of hurt feelings. 15 years of hurt feelings. Not hurt enough that talking to a 3rd party is going to help, but hurt enough that I want my wife to atone for the ways she hurt me and repent like I have. I'm just not going to get that. I'm going to have to accept that my wife only cares about her own feelings (like many Millennials actually) and is absolving herself from being responsible for the injury/reinjury she caused me. Some people might call this as my wife "not respecting me", but she does this to everyone and not just me. She could care less how her behavior affects other people, she just cares about how YOUR behavior affects HER and she demands apologies when she feels "wronged". Reflecting on the 6 years I've spent on here, I realize that my Yahoo! Answers use wasn't venting, nor was it really asking for advice, it was me trying to offload the pain of being injured by my wife. This question is different because I am finally realizing that I'm just an injured person trying to keep my head above the water, and my wife's just a person with bandages and armor all over her body while living her life like nothing happened to the fullest, so I just need to learn how to "GET STRONGER". But I don't know how... My idealism says that the way she's acting is not how women "should" behave and she should be more gentle and feminine. But my idealism isn't my reality... Basically, I married a bully and I have no idea how to survive that. Do you have any tips? |
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| Question: If you've never had a joint acct with your spouse is it still technically "our" money? Posted: 25 May 2016 05:19 AM PDT My husband and I have been married for 6 years and we've never had a joint account. We just pay bills as they come due, who ever has it. This is my husband's pay week and I told him we needed groceries. We received several bills this week so I slid them to his side of the bed and told him he needed to pay them. We traveled to VA a few weeks ago to attend his graduation and he took 1.5 days off for that which he won't get paid and he's always told me not to spend his money before he gets it. He feels that since we've never had a joint account this is technically not "our" money. I paid a bill last week and told him I wanted to hold onto about $200 to last me 2 weeks till I get paid again and he said nothing. However, this week several bills came due. How else are they going to get paid unless he pays them? He said that he never tells me on my pay week what needs to be paid or what needs to be bought but I have no problem doing that to him. He said it's like I never want him to have a few dollars in his pocket while I can tell him I'm holding onto $200 for myself. Am I wrong? |
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| Question: Am I a bad communicator? How do I fix that? Posted: 25 May 2016 03:10 AM PDT I am trying to work on how I say things to my husband. We got into a discussion about our careers and goals after I got upset about some things I see on Facebook. We know a lot of people and some of them are doing very great things in the city. His best friend co-owns a design company, has been in a magazine recently, and has a blog that's gaining a lot of steam. He's even been on the morning news and radio... I feel insignificant next to this person and i don't feel like I inspire my spouse. My husband says I'm making excuses and too focused on the past when I blamed myself for my situation. I was never a really good student but my husband is very intelligent and will be going into school for engineering some day. I already have a degree but I haven't done much with it and I'm not working in my field. The conversation just kinda stopped and when I got home, my husband and I didn't really talk about it anymore. I don't think I'm expressing things easily. |
| Question: Husband just received a ticket for going 105 on a 70!? I'm furious. Please help.? Posted: 25 May 2016 12:51 AM PDT My husband just received a speeding ticket for going 105 on a 70 in Louisiana. We live in Florida and were driving back... I was sleeping. I'm very disappointed because I am almost 9 months pregnant and he put us at risk. Not only that, he does not have a clean driving record whatsoever. My biggest fear is that he will face jail time. He didn't get arrested on the spot but got an "unknown ticket" that he has to call to check how much he will owe. I'm very disappointed and told him I'd file for divorce if he ended up going to jail. I feel like I married a loser - only because he does some of the stupidest things and sometimes I feel like he is bad luck because something bad always seems to happen. (We've been married 3 months) I don't know what to do. He gets upset when I tell him how I feel. When I told him I'd leave if he gets arrested he said wow that shows how you really feel towards me - you should be supportive and tell me it's okay. I told him, the difference between that is that you could've avoided that ticket and no it's not okay. That could be a possible criminal charge... In my head I am just thinking what if he gets arrested and I'm alone with the Newborn? How will I survive if I can't work for those 3 months... Can't afford daycare and bills on my own. Do I have the right to be mad? |
| Posted: 24 May 2016 11:01 PM PDT I am going through a divorce and I currently have temporary custody and placement of our 2 children, ages 13 and 5. Their father gets them every other weekend as per standard visitation. I have repeatedly asked him to not discuss custody or placement with the children as she is trying to convince them to live with him and his living situation IS NOT suitable for them at the moment. I have a temporary restraining order against him but it does not explicitly say for him not to discuss these things; however, it does state that he is not to disturb the peace of the children and every time he talks about this with them they get upset and have expressed to him that they do not wish to discuss it with him at this time. Is he in violation of the restraining order or anything else? Additionally, there have been many times he has expressed his want to separate the children and have our daughter live with him and my son stay with me. |
| Question: How to stop my wife from abusing me? Posted: 24 May 2016 09:45 PM PDT She always beats me. |
| Question: What should I do with my lazy hot wife? Posted: 24 May 2016 08:52 PM PDT I am very inlove with my wife because she's sweet, caring and she's really hot. My problem is she's kinda lazy. Our house is a mess. When she does clean, she sometimes nag and it puts everyone in a bad mood. I wouldn't say she's that lazy. She works out, she spends time with me and sex is really good. In terms of cleanliness, it's not all in there. Should I tolerate a dirty house with a really hot wife? I don't want sex to die down. If she's in a bad mood, I get none. When she feels good, 3-4 times a day is ordinary. Me? I make good money. |
| Question: How can I (man) compete with another woman for my wife's love? Posted: 24 May 2016 04:09 PM PDT My wife is about to have a sexual relationship with another woman. She loves me and wants to stay together, but she also wants this other woman. Only the other woman, not other guys or more women. How do I compete with that? I love her and do not want to loose her. But I don't want this other woman! She'd rather leave me than give up the other woman. She's in early stages of a relationship when everything is stars and rainbows. How do I stop or slow down this runaway freight train? Divorce or her leaving is not an option now. I can't explain. We do love each other, but she's set on having this thing and she has all the negotiation power! How do I show her that she does not need someone else? |
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