Hola! para que mejor me entiendan, dure bastante tiempo con mi novia, y iempre fue una linda relacion, los ultimos meces estuvimos peleando por chicos que mensajeaba ,, por ese problema ella me dejo que porque no queria hacerme daño y eso lo entiendo.. lo que no entiendo es porque ella cuando me termino me dijo llorando descontroladamente que no sabia lo que estaba haciendo y que no queria verme con nadie mas, que se moriria si me veia con otra chica,, se molesta cuando no le contesto sus mensajes, cuando me llama y mi numero esta ocupado.. y me sigue llamando y eh tratado de alejarme de ella pero siempre me busca.. y yo como la amo siempre respondo. por una razon!! le pedi que tubiera su primera vcez conmigo y me dijo que si estaba lista y que queria que fuera conmigo! porque hace eso si ella me dejo ... y lo que estoy seguro es porque hay alguien mas.. espero me aconsejen saludos

i am Mexican and my biggest dream is to be an American a Yankee or an American as you like to say but unfortunately play me be mexico is my great misfortune not know if it's God wanted it or was just a bad twist of fate look what treatment say is that I ami have loved American to be not legally because for me it takes more than a citizenship to be American to be American goes beyond a role would give everything I have for being American a single day of my life would be senior US of head to toe with white skin and blue or green eyes but instead'm Mexican Chaparro moreno I always wanted to be born when American and not only that I would have liked born the city of Baltimore US one day be worth more than being Mexican forever I know that no one understands my question and I ask them to do just wanted to make a garment and thanks for your time postscript and known large countries Germany Russia England but I like most is United States postscript and known large countries Germany Russia England but I like most is United States

well. we were a couple in love. he was my first love and so i was i. it wasn't our choice to end it, his parents ended it. it hurts so badly because we left each other still in love. we've been through a lot. im an american Christian and hes Egyptian muslim but lives here. so i understand why they didn't accept me. but love is love. is there anything that i can do for me to be able to be with him? and if he wouldve stayed is that betraying his family and disowning himself?

I mean, everyone has different definitions of sexual abuse. Some think that only forced penetration and touching are sexual abuse. Others encompass many more things. Some say that if you are uncomfortable, it's abuse. What do you think is sexual abuse? What exactly qualifies? Where exactly is the line between weird and abuse?

Mi prima y yo nos llevamos muy bien desde pequeños, somos de la misma edad y se venia a quedar a mi casa cuando teniamos 9-10 años, nos llegabamos a dar besos. Y ahora a los 28 años, nos seguimos llevando muy bien y pensamos muy parecido, tenemos muchas cosas en comun, en ocaciones debemos salir juntos hacer cosas o tramites, quedamos muy repegados en el transporte !!en alguna ocacion sin querer con mi mano toque su trasero y no dijo nada. Algunas veces para checar su reaccion, en esas mismas circunstancias le he tocado el trasero literal con la palma abierta unos segundos y no me dice nada, obvio lo siente, ella dice que me quiere mucho o al hablar de ex parejas, dice cosas como " lastima por ella, se perdio un hombre como tu, o eres un gran hombre " o dice que me admira por mi forma de tratar a las chicas, no se que pensar pero siento cierta tension sexual, en alguna ocacion se estaba tomando las medidas del cuerpo conmigo ahi cerca y me las dijo, o me dijo haber deja tomo la medida de tu cintura. La ultima vez para ver que hacia, saliendo de un metro con gente, le puse la mano sobre la espalda baja, ya muy cerca del trasero, o le he tocado el trasero igual, y ha medio volteado, pero no dice nada ni directa ni indirectamente, Ella tiene novio y su novio es muy similar a mi en cuestion de forma de pensar, actitud, tratarla y tratar a la gente, pasatiempos etc, compartimos mucho en comun. Consejos, si alguien quiere puede dejar su correo para platicar mas, gracias !

I was walking at the hallway with my friend and i saw the girl I liked there & I was looking at her but then I looked away. Later when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. When she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me so I just looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop. So then when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and she was looking at me but then later left class early

Hola muchas gracias por leer mi pregunta lo que pasa es que tengo 17 años y casi no tengo busto no me han crecido desde como los 12 o 13. Soy algo alta. De peso normal. Las mujeres de mi familia tienen bastante, llevo una buena alimentacion. Ya tuve relaciones, me baja desde los 11 . incluso hace como un año me empecé a tomar el fenogreco que segun sirve para que te crescan. Y nada. Y dejen ustedes la vanidad porque encima soy modelo osea tengo que utilizar relleno pero dejando vanidad y estereotipos de un lado me preocupa que sea algo de salud. Que deveria hacer o tomar

I agreed to go to this family reunion with my mom, because I actually like them. But I didn't realize when I agreed (a month prior) that it was the same weekend that my boyfriend would be in town. The last weekend he would be in town for nine months. (He's in the military and being sent to Korea.) Soooo the plan is for us to leave Saturday to attend the reunion on Sunday - but I really want one last day with him before not seeing him for so long. Since I already agreed to go, what excuse can I use?? I need a believable one!

My wife has started hanging out with other guys, going to their house, and we have been fighting all the time because of it. So now I need to find the power to.leave her, but I dont know how to function without her.... She is.everythimg to.me... but I dont know where to.start..

People often leave me alone, which is fine because I don't need them, I want to be a loner but I feel lonely and sad when being alone.

A while ago, me (22) and my boyfriend (26) were caught by my dad having sex on the couch. He was just silent but I know deep inside he was really mad. Please help us, we wanted to ask for forgiveness but we don t know how to be able to ask him for a talk, we wanted to clear out things to him that we really love each other and we were only human, that what we have done is just an expression of love. I hope you could help me with an advice, thank you very much.

I was walking at the hallway with my friend and i saw the girl I liked there & I was looking at her but then I looked away. Later when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. When she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me so I just looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop. So then when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and she was looking at me but then later left class early

So we went in the class a bit early when It was still the break and we had a test to I took out my notebook and ran over things quickly. But then the teacher started hanging out tests and I quickly put my notebook under the desk, I had no intensions of cheating at all, infact people were cheating off of me! I did the test and left my notebook under the desk on accident. Then we had the same class 1 hour later and the teacher put a couple of notebooks on the table and said; "Here's notebooks of those who were cheating." I wasn't cheating! I told her that I swear that i wasn't cheating but she didn't say anything. We get the tests back in two days and I'm so scared that she's gonna lower my grade because of that! What do I do?

Why does my male neighbor who is married and has a kid keep staring at me?I am a young female in my early twenties who Just moved into a beautiful neighborhood with my boyfriend. Most of my neighbors have been friendly towards us except for his wife. Recently, he was just staring non-stop as I was pulling into my driveway and he did not say hi maybe because his wife came outside. When I got out my car, he stopped looking at me immediately. Both of them did not bother to say hi to me. The other day when i was walking my dog, he did it again and just starred at me and I finally said hi to him and he said hi back. When his wife is around he won't even dare to look my way. His wife seems like a snob and never says hi to us or anyone else in the block from what I have heard.

or she could have aids or something ? The thought of raising a bastard child with some random one night standard would terrify me to be honest. you must be quite a sociopath if you sleep around and not fear this because one of them could get pregnant and keep it then boom you're stuck for 20 years.

I have realized that I have a tendency to be a bit too agreeable to everything without stating how I feel. How should I go about this

i love this guy who is in year 12 and leaving in 2 terms but i have liked him for 1 and 1/2 years now and we look at each other all the time, i know that i love him and my friends say that he likes me but we have never talked i have said sorry ive learned a bit more about him everyday we have choir on wednesdays together i cant do anything and i know he likes me he is always looking at me and smiling but he cant do anything too because he is shy, i know some of his friends but im not too close to them, i cant even text him because im scared and i dont wanna hear 'deep breaths and just do it' cause i have already done that and it hasnt worked. i just need him when he leaves i dont think i could handle myself. there is also this other girl who likes him i can tell cause she is so clingy towards him and i dont think he likes her but he made an effort at music camp once we were playing a game 'honey i love you, wont you give me a smile' and when the girl who likes him went up she went straight to him everytime but when she was standing next to me and he was about to do it to one of the other boys he turned around looked at me and said it to her and of course she smiled but as soon as he sat down on a chair (cause i was the only one sitting down) next to me he looked at me smiled and turned away to look at the others, he literally pulled out a chair and dragged it next to me... i just really like him he even put his hand out a little bit, i wanted to do something, but. i couldnt.

My Husband's Dad molested his own daughter. She was 13 when began & she's 28 now. He told his wife (her mom) that he wanted a divorce her to be with his daughter because they were in love o.O so she sent their daughter away to France when she was 16. Everyone acts like it never happened and I'm so confused!!! My sister in law is still in France & has not seen anyone physically in more than 10 years. But her dad visits & only her even though all of his kids live abroad -.- We just had our first child & my husband was trying to schedule flights for his parents to visit us. I told him before that I don't want that man near any child of mine & he agreed but I guess he's changed his mind. We argued & he told me that his father has a right to be in his grand-daughter's life. I don't agree & I will NOT let that man in my house or anywhere near any of my family. But my husband keeps saying " he's still my dad, you don't get it" There's nothing to get, my husband was in boarding school from age 6-18 & His dad traveled alot for work. He's probably seen his Dad a total of 50x if that! His dad is low disgusting scum in my eyes. He beats his wife & touches his daughter but hides behind his Ph.D. Am I over reacting? I can't see myself acting friendly to someone I know is a pedophile. I just can't.

let me give you another piece of advice, if I may. A lot of men get nervous around women because women think in a different way to men and are hence more unpredictable to our gender. But if you want to know how most women think, it's worth consuming some of the same entertainment and art as women. Books like Twilight and a lot of the other romance crap a lot of women read are so stupid as to bore people with even a modicum of intelligence to tears; but it gives you some insight into how they think. After reading this stuff I now recognise a lot of the romanticised archetypes which most women are attracted to, and which I now exploit for my own gain. For example, I was recently on a trip to South-East Asia, in which there are a lot of white girls in their early 20's travelling. I managed to create the persona of a visual artist who was travelling through the region on sabbatical from a course at a School of Design. This is not accurate at all; I have no interest in visual art and I am certainly not studying it. But on a street market in one of the nations I passed through, I saw a vendor selling sketch books which included beautiful sketches of the region. As it was in quite an obscure market and I didn't see any other vendors selling something similar, I purchased the book, and in the hostels I subsequently stayed in I passed it off as being my own work. This gave me a lot of success with the women in those hostels. I suppose everyone needs to satisfy themselves as to the ethics of such actions; as I would not necessarily condone being dishonest. But, the way I see it, I was satisfying a fantasy for them, and therefore what I was doing was not morally unacceptable. But I think the advice is worth considering in any event; if you are not confident in your own skin, consider stepping into another - one which is more attractive to women.

So about a month ago I met a guy on reddit. We had been discussing about various topics and he really impressed me with his education, humor and intelligence from the beginning. What I liked most about him though is his sarcasm and cynicism. He told me he was married from the start but sth about his way of writing screamed adventure so it didn't bother me. We were talking about meeting but unfortunately our time schedules weren't compatible so we didn't meet. For the last 10 days he was kinda cold. Then he messaged me on reddit only twice a day like he was bored... When I asked him if he was still interested he said he's busy right now and needs to focus on studying for a professional regulation; and he apologised about sending curt sentences. Suddenly last night after my last message he deleted his account... :( I'm so shocked and surprised as his last message was a long one talking about his college year so he wasn't bothered or borried. Then without any notification bam.... I mean we have been talking for 2 months; he could say good bye. What's your opinion?

I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what to do. My boyfriend of 2 years grew up without his mom, & his dad and godmother took over. He is now 28, & she is involved like he is a child still. My boyfriend lives with his godmother. He had a child 8 years ago, & when the child was 2, his godmother took over the child and now acts like it's her child. She uses his kid as a tool of control over my boyfriend and to get money from him. She doesn't let my boyfriend discipline his child or take his child anywhere for long, yet then has the nerve to say he never does anything with his child. I've heard her tell the kid more than once "nobody cares about you except for me". She still does his laundry & treats him like he's helpless and expects me to pick up after him. She has gone through his car when he was sleeping. She goes through his room. She questions his mail. She interrogates us when we leave &:puts us on guilt trips for leaving. She wants to be included in everything and let in on everything and wants our days off to be spent with her. I have 2 kids, & she's always unnecessarily yelling at my kids when we go over & bossing them around right in front of me! She questions me about everything in my life and my plans. She's always picking fights with me over petty things and overreacts, calls me names and when I try to get away she follows me around & makes rude remarks about me out loud after. She says she wants my boyfriend to live with her forever (doubt she's kidding). Help!

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This girl is the reason I wake up every morning. She's always in my prayers and dreams. She's always on my mind and she's all that I can see. She is my high. But she's in love with another man. She's been dating this guy around the same time I fell for her about 5-6 years ago. The thing is we're also cousins but I can't help who I fall in love with. She's an amazing person she's the only person who's ever been so nice to me. Mind you we didn't grow up together last week was our third time together. We hadn't spoken since 2012 & never said goodbye. Last week we did say goodbye and while we tried to kiss each other on the cheek I had her laughing because my clumsiness & a seatbelt was in our way. During our time together last week she also called me sexy, she said I have a nice butt & she repeatedly said I was handsome & very sweet. I fell out of love in 2014 but she's got me feeling ways again. She said she loved me very much in a DM and then I said next time she came to Chicago I'd take her to Buckingham Fountain at night I know she saw it but never got a reply. The thing is I'm 17 she's 22 u can say it's my hormones but I'm loosing sleep, I really am in love. If I declare it to her it wouldn't matter cause if she rejects me than she'll hate and she's the only 1 in my fam who loves me. I know she's with this other guy but I think she could do better. She's obviously attracted to me I just pray God gives me a chance

I constantly blush. Like even when someone just talks to me. How can I stop?

so my niece is getting stressed out and so angry at her parents. She's 21 and she wants to move out... I would let her stay with me but she wants to move out on her own. She does have 2 jobs & she's going to school but I don't think she's ready to live on her own yet even by herself.. Well maybe with her boyfriend because she does have a boyfriend .. What should I say to her? She always coming to me crying .. . I don't want her to be sad .

My ex girlfriend of over a year cheated. Ever since I ended things, she has lost control of her life and turned into a an easy slut. I hate saying that because she once wasn't like that, but she is now and everyone knows it. She did not have a father in her life and I tried my hardest to be the strong man in her life she never had. With that being said, we have been broken up for a little over 3 months. Recently, she has blown up my phone. Not once but twice. She bragged to me About how many guys she's had sex with and how she thinks I'm the definition of pathetic when I haven't done a single thing wrong to her. She bragged about her body count and tried to belittle me to make herself feel better. She still To this day tried to get my attention whenever she sees me passing by. I catch her staring at me all The time. Why would she blow up my phone and brag about sex and try to belittle me and call me pathetic when I haven't done a single thing? When this whole time SHE is the problem? When this happened I deleted her number but forgot to block it. Her number is blocked now, so this won't be a problem again.

I know this sounds crazy but I never had a decent Boyfriend before or husband and I want to move to Texas around native men because I would love a native American guy. And I'm also moving cause I thought going to the university of Houston would be great but I also wanna move somewhere where apartments and houses are not too expensive to rent each month. I wanted to also know where to move where a grocery market is close and a mall close-by I'm 22 years old by the way and I just need advice and help

I have been in a long term relationship for almost 4 years. We started dating when I was 15 and now I am 19. We never took breaks and we had a LOT of nasty fights. But we stayed together regardless of that and we kept pushing through it. I love my boyfriend, he is my best friend and we share so many memories together. I can't imagine letting it all go. However, I feel like our relationship has been a little toxic. I think we were both emotionally abusing each other and lately we've been having more problems than usual. I don't feel sexually attracted to him anymore, we nit-pick at each other and it feels like we have nothing in common and there is no spark. I don't get excited to spend time with him. But the thought of losing him makes me terrified. I am so confused about all this. I don't know what I should do. He is pretty much giving me an ultimatum now because I told him how I feel and he is saying that we either move on from this and try to fix our relationship or we break up. I don't know what I want and its driving me crazy. I don't want to lose the one person that I feel like is my best friend and has shaped me into the person that I am today but I also don't want to be unhappy. I really don't know what to do. Please help.

Me and my boyfriend are going to be together for a year in less than a month. I'd like to buy him something really special for our one year anniversary, e.g. a ring because it's something he can always keep. However, he never talks about buying me a ring. He usually mentions a necklace and I'm fine with that, I love whatever he buys me. But I'd love to be able to wear a ring on my finger each day that instantly reminds me of him.. Do I sound cheeky? Sorry guys, I need some opinions D: By the way, the ring I'd like for him is one where I can engrave me and his initials on it and put the date of our anniversary on it too. Bad or good idea? D: Thank you <3 Also, I already have a lot of necklaces from him. So, it would be lovely to have a small precious ring from him:3

So I went in because I had breast pain. I kept complaining. He tried to convince me that it's nothing serious. I sat in front of him, I found him attractive and now I just want to have sex with him that's all. So if I book an appointment with the GP and try to fvck him in the GP room will it work? I'll tell him to keep it a secret and I just want to do it with him once. I doubt anyone would check the CCTV in the room. Will it work if I ask him, I really want to have sex with him and I'll take condoms with me.

He's not my real dad. My mom lied to him when she was pregnant and said I was his, so he married her. But deep inside I always knew before they told me that he's not my real dad. He never beat me, or said mean words to me, but I just don't love him. I look nothing like him. Him and my mom are like infatuated with each other, yet they don't have any other kids. I always wanted a sister, or even a brother. But my dad never wanted any other kids. Recently I started secretly wishing that he would die so my mom will get married to someone else and have another kid, so I won't be an only child the rest of my life. Even though he's the only dad I ever known. I wish he would die, and I wouldn't even cry. If I found out he was dead, somehow, I think I would laugh. Having a sibling for life is somehow more important to me than having him around.

He's 17 and does not speak to anyone, not even family members. I've spoke to a few teachers about this and they've all told me that he doesn't say anything during lessons and goes straight home afterwards. He has no friends and doesn't go outside unless it's for school. All he does is watch films all day. What is wrong with him? It's been like this for a while now.

Is it childish to ignore a class mate to prevent feelings from involving specially because they are both in long term relationships? I've decided I will not talk or look at this class mate. As we had previously insanely developed an attraction from nothing. He feels the same.. I've decided to ignore him. I'm in love with my husband. The attraction that I have or had its sinful is or was shouldn't be... Its very wrong. So I've decided to avoid him instead. Question is: Is okay to ignore someone completely in order to avoid awakening the deep attraction. I don't want it. I don't want to feel like that again. Its so wrong.... I want to keep my integrity and faithfulness. It feels like ignoring this person and dedicating my 100% to my husband it's what I should do. Avoiding this person seems to help that. I've also blocked him on my phone. I don't want to be close or near him. Because I do not want anything to awaken.. I've happy this time off schol The Person Know How I feel. But the Person probably doesn't expect me ignoring him. But I did.