I'm a 19 year old male. I am physically disabled, and have been since I was 16. I'm confined to a wheelchair from a car accident. I was in sports, and was good at them too. My friends stopped talking to me. My girlfriend dumped me. It was rough. I got over it, or tried to at least. I graduated with almost perfect SAT scores, and a high gpa. I'm attending one of the most prestigious universities in the United States. I'm still extremely miserable and lonely. I act happy, and positive but I'm not at all. My parents are almost uncomfortable around me. It's always like they're walking on thin ice. I have a few friends, but one area of my life is still struggling deeply. My face isn't ugly. My friend said I needed to get out more, so he posted a picture of me on an online dating website. It got a ridiculous amount of emails. None of them know I'm in a wheelchair, though. I've tried to date 3 girls, but they all shattered my confidence, would glare at me, and say, "No," when I asked them out. I feel disgustingly lonely. There is a girl who was in my Accounting Class. She's beautiful, seems like a sweetheart. She's nice to me. I dropped my pen, said, "Guess it's in a better place now." She smiled and gave me hers. But, she's way too good for me, and is probably just a nice person. I want to get married, and start a family (Doctors said it's possible), but I don't see that happening. I cut myself. It's never that deep. I just hate feeling like this.

I lock the restroom door but he somehow gets it open. The last time he had my towel and that was not a good thing. Should I tell his dad? I don't want to start trouble.

i am a married female that had an affair with a man that i work with. we fell completely in love and then we broke up. we are good friends now. But is it appropiate for us to be friends and send occaosinally email one another ? they are not romantic emails.

My husband is in construction and I am a baker. I worked in security for years and got seriously injured on the job and decided that working a mediocre job that would allow me to be a full time mom was the best choice for me and my family(obviously not including my husband). In 2015 he worked for two different companies on the books but got laid off when one project ended and they decided not to keep hon on for the next project and the other job felt him to be a one trick pony and laid him off too. He also held about 4 1099 contract jobs and they dies odd because of various reasons. One client thought that they could employ him past the contract and not pay him more. More money went out to employees than came home. Another client let his wife change her mind 3 times then decided to go with another contractor. My injury happened 3 years ago. Took almost a year for me to get my workers comp claim. After medication management and therapy I went back to work about 18 months ago. Earning a little more than minimum wage just now getting a pay increase of $1.50. I am also a Florida State Notary and DJ on the weekends for $100 a night. Not to mention I manage my kids careers.(See on Facebook Hart To Heart Talent). So far this year already he has worked two jobs. One he got laid off from because they hired cheap labor to replace him and the other he got laid off because"They don't like him". Now he is in Texas with his brother working doing roofs. But now he gets to call me criticizing what I do and how much I make, or don't make. He says things like "When are you gonna get a real job?' " I go out and find money." " I make three times what you make." "You used to work with cops now you feed them donuts." All this because I use him to process my workplace drama. Then he gets mad at me for putting myself in that kind of work environment. I guess it doesn't help that I call him a hypocrite.

Today a family member accused him of doing it to them years ago. He denied it but I don t doubt it s true, bc he does it to me. I don t know what to do. I don t know how to confront him about him doing it to me. It s been going on for 6 years that I know of. Should I divorce him?

I'm not sure why but it bothers me, every picture she uploads and every picture she's tagged in he likes, this has been happening since they became facebook friends in January of this year. I'm not sure if they talk or have exchanged numbers. He told me they were romantically involved once but never officially dated. I know that he likes all her pictures because her page is public and I was snooping. Should I say something to him or just let it go?

Isn't it wrong of my husband inviting his mother to our house when he knows I don't like her? He always annoys me with his stupid jokes and leaving the house a mess. Even if I clean as soon as he comes home it's dirty. The kids are cleaner than him! He can never do anything right. We have 4 young kids and I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl last week. I'm biracial and he's a typical white man. We are moving in a month because of my husbands job so it's a lot to handle for me and the kids to handle. They have a new sibling to get used to and my oldest son will start a new school. He's an only child and very close to his parents. They come over very often. I don't like his mother because she makes snide remarks about everything. They are great grand parents to the kids but I would rather my husband takes the kids and visits instead of her always coming here. I tell him we need some space but he just shrugs it off. She's coming even more often since we're moving 4 hours away. I tell him I need some rest. And she even picks up the baby when she's sleeping. It's so annoying and my husband is so useless, what do I do?

"What are your views on women?". . . .What should you say? I planned that on my date next week, if she asks me, I'll tell her that women are flowers of beauty and sweetness with leaved with fingers to help them cook. Is it romantic enough? Too wordy?

My parents just got a divorce and I'm going to have to go to my dads house all the time and I don't want to. I want to be with friends during the summer but he doesn't allow them, and his house is so boring. Even if he did start doing fun stuff, it would still ruin my summer. Why am I forced do this all summer long if I don't want to?

If I m getting a divorce and take some money out of my account that s in my name and give it to my mom, can my husband claim it at the divorce? It s a large amount around 100 k.

A couple days ago my wife was giving birth to our daughter. It had been two hours in labor so I went to get fresh air for a minute. I saw a girl who 19 and just Had a boy after her boyfriend abandoned her. I thought she was hot and she thought I was hot. I pretended to be the father to cheer her up. Back at my wife's room they said they have to give a C-section out of emergency. When she was still asleep, I got our baby and went over to the room of the hot girl to show her. We felt a spark in each of us. We realized we will never see each other again so we switched babies to have something to remember each other by forever that has some of each of us inside. I wanted a boy anyway so it was a win win and I figured it was alright since all babies look the same. The next day, my wife discovered that the baby we brought home was a boy when she knew she gave birth to a girl. I told her what happened since I am a truthful person and hoped she'd understand. But instead she just blew up!! She threw her wedding ring in the garbage disposal, packed up a suit case, and left by taxi saying she is getting a divorce immediately and that I could raise the boy myself with the hot 19 year old. I told her to knock it off many times but then I realized I could not stay with someone that insane for my whole life. I accepted the loss, so now I just need to know if the hospital will give me info on where to find the girl I met so we could raise the kids together and she'd have someone to be with??

I promised my gf that I'd marry her within a year. I gave her my word as a man. So there is no going back. I happen to take my word very seriously. But I gave her no ring. Just a promise . Does this mean she's my fiancee now?

We own a nice 3 bedroom home in the suburbs. If i would have known at the time my husband was going to let the house go i would have bought an apartment. I do so much yardwork with no help but also our deck is deteriorating and there is a tree growing in our fence that has caused the entire fence to lean one way. He makes no time on weekends and always says "ill work on it next week" and so on but doesnt. I do what i can but i am a very petite person and not strong so some things he needs to do. He wont hire help because he doesnt want to pay for it. Im at wits end....please help! What could motivate him???

I've been married for a long time and my wife has suffered depression for all of those years. The problem is I don't care anymore. I've tried to help, sympathize, and be there. Never said anything negative and just suffered the awful treatment knowing she had a disease. But I'm done. My fuel has ran out. She can lie in bed all day if she wants. I've had enough. Am I horrible? Any other partner in a similar situation?

husband and I are both active duty military. We have a one year old daughter and we are pcsing (moving) in less then a month to Hawaii. We haven t been ourselves for a year now and we got in a huge fight yesterday. He said he wants to step back and be friends but still be together for our daughter and to make sure she we get enough money for her. I don t know what this means. He says he still loves me, will always love me but does this mean we are over?

My husband and I never had the perfect marriage. Things got violent and we just couldn t seem to get along. He recently left and wants a divorce yet it is still very hard for me. I can t seem to pull myself together and desperately want to try once more, why is it so hard if the marriage was never what it should have been?

We're both 22 and been married 3 years, in the beginning our sex was pretty normal, but now my sex drive is pretty much non existent, and she always wants to have it. Some reasons why I feel like I have no sex drive include: Depression/Anxiety (On meds that effect sex-drive), We already have 2 kids, I don't want anymore, Been sexually abused in the past, and I don't necessarily like sexual things... I don't know, am I just being unfair? I seldom get in the mood for it, but she always is... She always wants to kiss me and make out with me non stop throughout the day (when i'm home).. I just don't really know what to do. Divorce is not really an option, because we are both in love with each other, and we find comfort in each other and are definitely there for one another, it's just sex... she wants it all the time...

Two things happened when I got married that have been weird reversals and strange to get used to. 1. Before I was married, my parents would stand over every boyfriend with a metaphoric shotgun saying 'don't you dare put that thing you've got into our little girl.' They were vigilant to the point of obsession. Now I'm married, wow, they stand over my husband with the same zest, the same shotgun aimed low, saying 'why haven't you put that thing you've got into our little girl!' They want grandkids, but it is super weird to have such vehement anti-sex parents now pressuring my husband to bed me every spare moment. It's creepy. 2. And my husband. For years he got upset if another guy took one glance at me. Dressing sexy was asking for trouble he said. My body was for his eyes (and hands and other things) only. But once that ring hit my finger, wow. On our honeymoon 10,000 men got a first-hand view of everything. And to make sure there was no doubt, I was completely shaved. We spent each day parading me on that beach. The touching, the photos, the bars, the other couples, all as if it was normal. It was like entering opposite-world, he was so comfortable to see me undressed and surrounded by other men's eyes (and hands and other things in me). Even at home he is happy for me to wear things I would never have been allowed before. It has been weird getting used to the complete turnaround. Has anyone else experienced this? Is this normal, or have I just got weird people in my family?

Pakistani husbands can 'lightly beat' their wives, Islamic council says. So what is your opinion ?

Is it rude that I cannot have a conversation with my boyfriend when his child is around because he is constantly interrupting me/us (he is 6) butting in and talking over us and asking questions? I explained to my boyfriend I thought he should tell him to stop doing that and my boyfriend said "kids are gonna ask questions, you just don't like my son"

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I am a newly wed muslim housewife. I love my husband he is an excellent lover. I am loyal to my husband and so is he ! After I got married to him i found out it was uncomfortable for him to have sex with me. Even he didnt know why it was. He always said his pen*s hurt. And when i took a look at it it was slightly unstraight. We went to the doctor and we found out he had peyronie's and if he would had come early it wouldnt be this much bent. I am actually very sexually excited person because before marriage many men tried to hit on me due to my beauty and curvy body but I always told myself i would enjoy sex only after marriage with my hubby. My husband knew my feelings i was open to him in talks and one day we experimented vaginal fisting. It was an intense feeling of pain and pleasure and i was completely satisfied as it gave me countless orgasms I am still happy with my hubby as he makes me feel like a queen and love him but now we both are willing to have a baby so my husband has told me that he has no issues if i get pregnant from someone else. He has complete trust in me and i am sure i wouldnt stray because the way he flirts, loves, plays, treats and satisfies me... I dont need another man or anybody else. he finds his pleasure totally in mine and loves me as if i am the best. Now what should i do ? Should i get pregnant from another man ? Remember it would only be for the baby. Need sincere advice as i dont want this option if other option is available. Thanks.

My husband just started a new job about a month ago. He works 5-6 days a week 12hr shifts. I m finishing school and I work part time. We barely get to spend any quality time together. When he gets home he s exhausted (which I completely understand) so he goes straight to bed. We haven t been intimate either since he has no energy for it. I really don t know what to do. I want us to spend more time together as a couple but this is very hard. Any advice will help. Thank you !

why don't men ever propose?

My wife has an hourglass figure, but what turns me off is that after she had a baby she got a lot of stretch marks on her stomach and her breaststroke also sag a little. I've seen other women have babies without getting stretch marks. I don't want her any more because of those hideous stretch marks.. No man wants to see that. What should I do? She had our child 6 years ago

I know there's gray in between, I'm fully aware there is. I'm talking about majority of the time here not an exclusivity. In a case where 5 hours of your 8 hours with your spouse it is principled and 3 hours is anarchic, I would say this is a principle leaning marriage. Yes, they are "both", but they have a preference on principles. I've actually witnessed both extremes before though. The principled marriages are very robotic seeming but they are very calm/collective; the anarchic ones are very chaotic seeming but they seem to be colorful and energetic. It's hard to say one is better than the other, but I'd like to know what your opinion/experience is. Unpopular question is unpopular. :/ Happy Saturday morning everyone! Hopefully someone had their coffee and can abstract their own ideas into words for me to read?

Have not filed paperwork as of yet but possibly looking into divorce. Anyway since i brought it up my husband has taken it upon himself to lock up everything in the house and move into his parents house. I cannot access important documents in filing cabinet, access to tools in garage, and shut our safe but has code to it as well. How do i go about getting access to these items since he is refusing to pick up phone or answer any of my calls

I've been married for a long time and my wife has suffered depression for all of those years. The problem is I don't care anymore. I've tried to help, sympathize, and be there. Never said anything negative and just suffered the awful treatment knowing she had a disease. But I'm done. My fuel has ran out. She can lie in bed all day if she wants. I've had enough. Am I horrible? Any other partner in a similar situation?

If you are considering, getting, or are divorced, could you please answer 2 questions for me? 1. Do you typically hold grudges and for how long? 2. How easily do you forgive and forget? Its for a social experiment for school Thank you very much!! I'm not talking about after your divorce. I am talking about how you commonly are to situations like those questions i have mentioned.

We need help. Or completely separate. I know I'm the one that made all this craziness happen. Any ideas what I should do?

Curious on the topic... Have you or would you marry for money?

So my husband is on weekend Duty right now he has been for the last 2 months. One of his buddies took me under his wing and takes me out on the weekends along with a bunch of other people of our friends. At first it was just this is my husband s friend. But now it s more like he s my friend too. I talked to him all the time I text him I watch movies with him I m his date on social outings. All of this my husband is ok with. Butt I feel as if I spend more time talking to him then I do my own husband and even though I don t find him physically attractive he makes me happy and laugh. Should I maybe pull away for a little bit? Am I spending too much time with him? Should I limit the texts? Nothing physical has happened between us at all. Just to clarify.