Family: Question: How do we get legal custody of my fiance's younger half siblings?

Question: How do we get legal custody of my fiance's younger half siblings?

Posted: 16 May 2016 01:10 PM PDT

Same father (who is out of the picture, he lives in another country and cannot provide any financial support) - different mother. We are 25 & 27, his siblings are 7 & 9 years old. They currently live in MD, we live in FL. Their mother wants my fiance to take them to live with us because she is very financially unstable and doesn't know how to handle the boy's trouble at school. What type of custody do we need to ensure that we can do everything we need to take care of them and get some help if needed? i.e. enroll them in school, get them health insurance, etc. I think it is called "temporary custody," but I'm not sure. We/he do not want to adopt the kids, just need the appropriate level of custody to make decisions and be able to care for the kids sufficiently. If their mother somehow gets her (excuse me) sh*t together, we don't want to completely cut her rights to the kids.

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Question: How to deal with my grandmother?

Posted: 16 May 2016 12:55 PM PDT

My grandma is horrible to say the least. She verbally abuses me and my brother ALL the time when my mum's not home, and while im typing this right now, she's shouting at me, and ocasionally reaches over to poke my cheek really hard or pinches it. She used to beat us up when we were littler but I guess my brother's balls dropped, I grew boobs and we both got REALLY tall, but the stuff she says and sometimes are really horrible. If any of you have african, born and raised family, espcecially elderly, you'll know what she's like. She keeps going on about how I'm not a woman, I'm lazy, and I should shave my armpits, and how even God can't save my soul now. However, even though I "can't be counted as a woman" she keeps implying I'm a promiscuous slut because of the one time I was walking into the living room and I tucked the underams of my sleeves up cos it was getting irritating but she interpreted it somehow as me pushing my boobs up when the only people in the room were her and my brother! Her arguments and insults don't even make sense anymore, but I cant point out the holes in her insults because she'll get even angrier, and she'll start throwing things around. And she just pinched me really hard in the cheek and spat at my face just now. I literally have to deal with this every day... Literally, she's the person in the family that everybody would turn up to her family just to spit on her grave. Its harsh but it's really, really, true. Could I have some advice on how to deal? I feel the need to add that she's still going. 15 minutes later. Really she's just repeating what she's been over about 20 minutes ago.

Question: How can i act at house when you found out that the father your living with wasn't you father?

Posted: 16 May 2016 12:49 PM PDT

Question: Does my aunt have mental problems?

Posted: 16 May 2016 12:39 PM PDT

She neglects her children with food, toys, health care, and electricity. She puts money as priority, and she is envious of me ( a 13 year old). She hates me and makes fun of my green eyes. She sometimes bobs her head up and down as she walks, and she is kind of "out of whack". She is in her 40s with three children. She seemed obsessed with me. She says things that don't make sense. Example: "Have u watch a guy ever eaten breast meat mixed with regular meat and went yum yum yummy on TV.?" during bowling. She teaches her 7 year old daughter to call me fat and my hair was dirty blonde. I never insulted her, never talked bad about her, but why was she aggressive with me of all people? She is insecure, and she is from Saudi Arabia, and her parents would kill her if they see her becuz she married my uncle, an American man. She made fun of me and put me down. Also, she doesn't allow TV in house becuz she is afraid my uncle would see an attractive woman on TV. She always seem mad

Question: How do I deal with a grouchy sister who takes her unhappiness out on others, especially my nephews?

Posted: 16 May 2016 12:29 PM PDT

My sister has plenty of reasons to be unhappy - Automobile troubles and no money for a new vehicle, job instability, 2 divorces, no current relationship, financial struggles from being a single mom of 2 boys, and she suffers from anxiety and depression. I feel for her, and I know that it is hard for her to keep her head above water. But, she takes it out on other people around her, especially my nephews, who are 13 and 6. I feel that she is toxic and will jump on them with a hateful look on her face and talk to them in a mean tone of voice over the simplest things - asking for dessert, making a funny face to get her to laugh (not while she s fussing at them,) asking simple questions that any child asks a parent - i.e. what makes the sky blue? They are both very good and well-behaved, but of course, not perfect. I spoke to her several years ago about how she had lost patience with my older nephew and seemed to stomp on his spirit. She used the excuse that she didn t get the best training in being a mom from our mother, and that Mama never took the time to patiently explain things to her. (Maybe I missed something while away at college?) Ever since I tried to gently stand up for my oldest nephew, my relationship with my sister has been strained. Now, she s doing the same with my youngest nephew. I can handle her being rude and toxic towards me, b/c I can remove myself from the situation. But the boys can t. I don t know how to deal with this.

Question: I don't feel like my mom loves me?

Posted: 16 May 2016 12:26 PM PDT

I feel like she always wants to argue wit me I swear she likes my brother more than me I don't feel love by no one what can I do to fill that empty space in my heart

Question: I'm willing to buy a Yahoo Answers Level 7 account, money to be paid into paypal. Is there anyone willing to sell their account?

Posted: 16 May 2016 11:51 AM PDT

I'm serious and not messing around. Name your price and we will talk. Contact me You can send a private email to me or just reply with an answer. Thanks.

Question: My grandfather's cousin died and I have only met the woman twice, should I feel compelled to attend the funeral Friday?

Posted: 16 May 2016 11:51 AM PDT

I have work so feel like I'd rather wait to take off until it is a closer family member like a aunt or uncle or grandparent. This woman was just a 1st cousin of my grandfathers who I met two times over 30 years.

Question: I was raped by my brother for 6 years. Can he be arrested?

Posted: 16 May 2016 11:44 AM PDT

My brother raped me from the ages 4 up till I was 10. Now I am 15 years old. He has been removed from the house when I disclosed in October 17th of 2015 back when I was 14. He lives about 4 hours away from me with his dad now. Is there anyway I can get him arrested? My mom knows how I feel. But she just brushes it off. I am also suicidal I can t take this anymore.

Question: WHEN and HOW do I tell my family to see if my brother needs professional psychological help?

Posted: 16 May 2016 11:42 AM PDT

My brother is 2 years younger than me; we're both in our mid-30's. We live 2000 miles apart. He lives in the same town as our parents. He has never been in a relationship. He has no friends. He spends his time between his house and overstaying his welcome at our parents' house. I could try to list all the things about him that concern me but there's not enough time or room, so let's sum up with: 1. He is impossible to have a tame conversation with as a single perceived offense on his part will send him flying off the handle into an obscenity-laden rant. He recently consoled in me that he was mildly overdrawn in his checking account. I asked him what happened. He immediately flew into a rage, yelling at me that he "needs to pay his mortgage! I don't have a choice!" 2. The last few years he's been unable to have a conversation without complaining endlessly about his coworkers. His coworkers do treat him like dirt but a lot of it is on him, I'm sure. He has also discussed being paranoid that his employers or coworkers are following him on weekends. 3. Related to item 2--based on experience and reports from others, such as our parents and extended family, he has not had a conversation with anyone in a very long time where he complains about something and how something is working against him. 4. He becomes angry if you try to encourage him to do better or improve. 5. He's developed a severe limp that requires the use of a walker, now. It took years to diagnose before it was settled on a hereditary degenerative nerve disease. Except no one in our family has had this condition. Ever. And the condition is ONLY hereditary. I've looked into it. I have a suspicion it's psycho sematic. when do I reach a point where I need to speak up to someone to step in and get him help? item 3: *where he doesn't complain.

Question: Mother's ring issues? Please help?

Posted: 16 May 2016 11:26 AM PDT

My story: My g-ma was teen mom when she had my mom "C", &left her ex(my moms real dad) b/c he was a loof&did not support her & mom, g-ma moved out to start new life,worked as bank teller, later married my g-pa,who had 3 kids from 1st wife,she died from an illness. Siblings(step) R, C(mom), J, and J (names anonymous).my mom C & J(step sis) don't get along well,my mom has issues with her step-sis J and J has had issues w/my mom,cuz my mom has told me things that happened in the family. when my g-pa was married to1st wife,he bought a mothers ring w/3 stones for 3 of his kids.Then she passed away from an illness.He later married my g-ma,they all became 1 family.He later bought her a mother's ring that included all 4 kids, my mom C,uncle R, and aunts J & J. After g-ma died, 2 girls mom C & aunt J fighted over mother's ring that has 4 stones. Aunt J said that she didn't want any of her dads (my moms birth dad) &my mom didn't care b/c her real dad wasn't in her life. the 2 rings that g-pa has is the 3 stones from R,J & J (real siblings), the 2nd ring that has 4 stones w/ C. G-pa suggest: divide things evenly before he dies,put names behind things&g-mas jewelry.Aunt J was ok w/ jewelry but not w/ the rest of stuff in house.Aunt J & mom were texting,aunt J argued w/C &puts words into her mouth. I think J & R could care less about it.2nd option: melt ring down,divide4 stones to all 4 kids.i think this would be more effective. Or, give the 3 stone ring to J and the 4 stone ring to C(my mom). If you were fighting with your siblings over stupid things like this and want to find a solution,what would you do?

Question: What should I do? I strongly dislike my father?

Posted: 16 May 2016 11:15 AM PDT

Hi, I am a 17 years old girl and I dislike my father a lot. I feel so bad saying that but I do, when I was younger he was such a nice person or at least I thought because I just didn t "understand" everything. My family is pretty messed up at the moment, he was unemployed for about 4 years, now he s employed since a year and he hates his job and keeps complaining about EVERYTHING. We are very low on cash and my mother and I dont spend money on anything except for food yet he still complains. He gets crazy mad on stupid stuff, he keeps fighting with everyone its unbearable. He hates to see me happy. He never listens to me, he just comes home from work and sits on his laptop with his hand down his balls and if i try to talk to him he just doesnt answer or yell. He is utterly rude! He makes fun of everyone and he curses infront of me i cant stand it anymore. I dont wanna live in his house i cant live like this!

Question: Should I tell a family member about my suicide attempt?

Posted: 16 May 2016 11:05 AM PDT

To cut a long story short, on Friday I attempted suicide by taking 64 500mg paracetamol & 18 propranolol. I came home (I live alone far from any family) yesterday after treatment. I have told no one since or spoken about it. I don't know who to tell because I don't want attention for it & Im embaressed about what I did but I had been feeling v suicidal & constantly anxious/having panic attacks because of a number of things that have happened recently. I am scared of people thinking I am weak & not coping at life which i know I am not doing, & Im weak I know, but I continue to lie to myself that I don't need help. Im 22. I definetly cant tell my mother as she mocks these sorts of things & unfortunately we arent close. I've tried speaking to my doctor in the past & as nice as they are I don't find it helps much as I dont want to go on medication. I tried speaking to samaritans in the past & they where nice but I didn't feel it helped. I had a suicide attempt in Feb after losing my job & after treatment again told no one/didn't get proper help. In Nov 2015 I had my 1st attempt that left me in hospital after losing my other job, the only person I told was my nan who was v understanding. I feel shes the only person I have at the moment who I can speak about it to but don't want to burden her as shes in her 70s & my uncle just passed away & don't want to make her more stressed. Would it be a bad idea? I don't know who to speak to I feel like theres no one. I just feel so trapped

Question: What can I do if my sister lets her 15 year old drop out of school?

Posted: 16 May 2016 10:43 AM PDT

Okay so my sister is a horrible mom. She has two kids, my niece (who literally just turned 15 this month), and my 6 year old nephew. Now I say she is a horrible mom because my 15 year old niece doesn't even live with her. It slipped out of her mouth when she was wasted one night that my niece lives with her boyfriend. It makes a lot of sense why we never see her now. Now for her birthday a couple of weeks ago, we found out that she got tired of school and didn't like it so she stopped going. My sister allowed this. The thing is, she doesn't even live with her. She doesn't even know what she does all day. And apparently my niece goes out late at night to backyard music shows. Now this is my sister, but this is also my niece. I think she needs more guidance but since my sister basically lets her make her own decisions, she won't listen to anyone. What can I do? Even if it involves getting my sister in some kind of trouble, I think she needs to open her eyes and take responsibility. Any type of advice would be nice, thanks.

Question: Does anybody wish they were the middle or the younger sibling?

Posted: 16 May 2016 10:43 AM PDT

Middle children are supposed to be the difficult children, which is why I wish I was the middle child. I feel that because I was the older sibling out of three kids (I m the only daughter with two younger brothers.), I m supposed to be the perfect, popular sibling and the saint who doesn t do anything wrong. Instead, I ended up being the problem child. My father (he s dead) had anger issues, and so did I. I still don t get why I had the anger problems/special Ed and my brothers didn t. I would get abused by father and I was told I was a bad influence on my siblings. It all started in the 5th grade when I enrolled in private school. The kids were unfriendly and I had no friends. I kept getting in trouble and I eventually got kicked out of that school. In middle/high school, I was picked on for being the ugly weird girl and even though I fought back in middle school, I would get suspended for it. In my freshmen year, I enrolled in a private school and got kicked out the second semester for having a lot of demerits (I was eventually allowed back into the school tho). My last three years of school, I was only suspended twice and I graduated. However, the damage was already done to my self esteem. Even though I graduated college and I m in grad school, I m still salty as hell because of my past. I m the eldest, I feel that I was obligated to have a good upbringing and to not be the problem child. If I could change the past, I wouldn t be such a stupid child.

Question: My mom complains about driving me to and from school but won't let me walk?

Posted: 16 May 2016 10:24 AM PDT

We're like 3 minutes away by car and probably 15 minutes walking. Now that I finished AP exams, I finish school at one and have go back for driving school at 3. So now she has to drop me off twice and pick me up twice. She keeps complaining about it, but won't let me walk. Apparently I'll get raped or something. And I'm not gonna spend 2 hours at school everyday doing nothing. I just think that if she won't let me walk she shouldn't be complaining. And the thing is, I actually want to walk. Better than walking on the treadmill. So my question is more of a -I want your opinions or advice- kind of thing. Not really a question. Thanks!

Question: My mom is constantly ruining my plans because she needs favors?

Posted: 16 May 2016 10:19 AM PDT

I am 23 and I moved out of my parents house about two years ago, to this day they call me constantly to drop things off for them, to pick up my brother from school if they're busy, etc. this happens often, almost every week, more than once a week. I usually say yes unless I have an appointment or something of importance but most of the time I say yes and end up having to cancel plans and not do things I had to do today. I want to help my parents but at the same time I have a life too, how do I tell them this without upsetting them?

Question: I can't tell people my mum passed away?

Posted: 16 May 2016 10:16 AM PDT

Long story short, my mum passed away two and a half years ago from cancer (I had just turned 16 at the time). Though I'm no longer depressed about it or think about it as much, if there's ever an occasion where I have to say to someone that she's gone, I struggle to say it. For example, about a year ago I wasn't well and had to leave school and my form teacher asked me "Is your mum at home?" and I replied with "My mum's kinda uh.... well... gone" (it was really hard for me to say and I couldn't look my teacher in the eye when I said it). Another time my friend made a "yo mama" joke to me and I said not to say stuff like that and when he said it was only a joke I said "I know, but my mum's uh... gone" (I whispered the word "gone"). Like I said before, I don't get upset over missing my mum and I've come to live my life without her here, but it annoys me that I can't really say to someone that she's gone. I know it's not any sort of PTSD or anything, but could anyone know what?

Question: What do you think of the kid who always ask us to buy things for him and his immediately family?

Posted: 16 May 2016 10:13 AM PDT

We took my husband's nephrew 11 year old go on a vacation with us. We covered for his airplane ticket and 5 day disney world too. I was fine with it until oh boy every time he opens his mouth to ask me or my husband to buy things for him. He wouldn't get a "NO", he would keep repeating. He also asked us to buy gifts for his family, mom, dad, brothers, grandparents and claims gifts from him. Is it just me but I don't like this behavior? He stole a toy that I bought for son until I confronted him that he thought I bought for him but I never said I bought for him. I gave to son instead and he borrowed then claimed his and put in his backpack.

Question: Why are you people not practical?

Posted: 16 May 2016 10:12 AM PDT

If I have a problem regarding my terrible parents "Call the cops" or "Call CPS" isn't a practical answer! You do realize without parents and being in the system will ruin my chances of having a successful life? Nobody will adopt be, as I am 15, and I don't want to stay in a ghetto foster home with all the rejects. PLEASE ANSWER REASONABLY.

Question: Why don't I miss my fiancé?

Posted: 16 May 2016 10:06 AM PDT

My fiancé and I have been dating for almost 6 years now. My family and I are vacationing this week. Originally my fiancé was supposed to come along too but at the last minute he was not able to go due to work. So it's just me, my mom, my dad, and my grandma. Secretly, I felt realived when he found out he couldn't go. This is our second vacation day and I don't miss him at all . I don't want this week to end. It's been such a nice break. Is it strange that I don't miss my fiancé? Thanks.

Question: How do i write a child support letter as the childs mother i always get cash?

Posted: 16 May 2016 09:58 AM PDT

Question: Is it right for me to look for my half sister because her mom dosent want me in her life ?

Posted: 16 May 2016 09:57 AM PDT

So we met last thanks giving and had alot of fun and made some memories mind u i havent seen her in 8 years so after thanksgiving weekend we get ready to drop her off and she wouldnt talk me like she was hurt and when we got to her house she went straight in and didnt give me a hug my uncle had to ask for a hug he said she looked sad i called my dad because he has a phone but hes in prison but he told my mom her mom dosent want me around her anymore and it hurts me everyday cuz im missing my sister growing up i dont expect to see her everyday but she wont let us even text

Question: How to get custody of my 15 year old sister.?

Posted: 16 May 2016 09:40 AM PDT

I'm 18, I live in Ohio. My mother was incarcerated this month, and my father has full custody of my 15 year old sister, but she lives with me. And has lived with my mother and I for a year now. Custody was never switched over due to my mothers drug issues. I have a house, for which my sister lives in. I have two jobs and can take care of her properly. My father is willing to give me custody, I just do not know how to go about it. Any information is helpful!

Question: My mother hit me after I had eye surgery with a stick and says she doesnt like me even though I m her child.Why?

Posted: 16 May 2016 09:36 AM PDT

Question: How do I get my step-sister to stop spreading dirt about my mother whom she is not related to?

Posted: 16 May 2016 09:17 AM PDT

Question: How can I earn my parents trust back when I stole money from them?

Posted: 16 May 2016 09:10 AM PDT

I stole $500 dollars from my mom to buy a phone since she took my phone and my birthday money, and makeup. She found the money which i have no clue as to how she found. She said she doesn't want me living in her house. I don't know what to do. Help ?

Question: I'm 13 and my mom and I never get along and are always yelling. I'm afraid that she is going to leave, but I need her. What do I do?

Posted: 16 May 2016 09:01 AM PDT

She feels like nobody likes her, because we don't show that we care about her much. She is always angry at us and nothing is ever good enough for her. Regardless, she plans everything for me and I don't think my dad will be able to do what she does if she leaves. I'm scared. I also have a twin sister and i feel like it will really hurt her if my mom is gone. I think it might be my fault. How do I fix things? How do I make things better when they are already so bad?

Question: Going to uni in England without my parents permision but im 18+?

Posted: 16 May 2016 08:50 AM PDT

they don't agree nor will they ever let me even though i got everything figured out, they're very religious and don't believe a woman should go far away on her own (******* bullshit) and I believe you need one of your parents to help apply if you're younger than 25? Am i right or? if i am, is there any way around it ?

Question: I want your opinion on my father, I'm not sure if I like him or hate him.?

Posted: 16 May 2016 08:47 AM PDT

Everything I do he gives out to me about. It's always been like this for as long as I can remember. I used to play football but he always used put me down and always complained how bad I was at it although I was quite good. I recently turned 18 and I asked him to teach me how to drive but he responded by saying I'm a waster and il never be driving so there's no point in teaching me. There's many more stuff I could tell but I just told ye a bit of info just so ye could judge the situation. Opinions??

Question: What to do with my deadbeat brother?

Posted: 16 May 2016 08:45 AM PDT

I've been on my on since I was 19. I'm now in my late thirties and I swear he's comes to live with me and family every year for 4 or 5 months at a time. He's never held a job longer than 6 months. He's never had a place to live for longer than 3 months at a time. He'll leech off anyone he makes friends with. He has no shame. My mom has enabled this behavior and the only reason he doesn't live with her is because her husband won't tolerate the leeching. He's almost 40 and I don't see how a man wouldn't want to have his own things. He hangs around in the library on the computer on facebook instead of looking for employment. What can I say to him to encourage him to do better.

Question: Can a brother and sister be taking a bath and a shower at the same time?

Posted: 16 May 2016 08:39 AM PDT

Question: Well, my family doesn t love me or even treat me good and they will sometimes beat me i got now really bad grades and dad will kick me out?

Posted: 16 May 2016 08:28 AM PDT

Question: How do we get legal custody of younger half siblings?

Posted: 16 May 2016 08:21 AM PDT

My Fiance has two younger half siblings (7 & 9). I am 25 & my fiance is 27. They live with their mother, their dad was deported years ago & is not in the younger siblings' lives. Their mother wants my fiance to take them to live with us because she is very financially unstable and doesn't know how to handle the boy's trouble at school. They currently live in Prince George's Co, MD and we live in Pinellas Co, FL. What type of custody do we need to ensure that we can do everything we need to take care of them and get some help if needed? i.e. enroll them in school, get them health insurance, etc. Also, if my fiance gets custody of them alone, once we get married, what happens? Do I automatically share the custody with him?

Question: If I report my dad to a domestic use hotline what would happen?

Posted: 16 May 2016 08:17 AM PDT

My dad is being abusive and negligent towards me and has threatened me and gives me emotional abuse and I can't stand it anymore. My mom is over seas and has been for the past 5 months. So no one can help me if he gets violent. If I call the cops on my dad he might kick me out but he has been giving me emotional abuse evryday. Please help. What do I do and what number can I call to report this and get help? There is a domestic abuse hotline provided by our health insurance, I've never called but I'm planning to because I can no longer tolerate my dad anymore. I don't want negative answers so please only answer if you can offer helpf I l advice. My question is if I call what would happen afterwards? Aside from calling the cops what other numbers can help me?

Question: I was sick and didn t go to school, my dad is coming to pick me up, what should I do?

Posted: 16 May 2016 08:16 AM PDT

I didn t go to school today because I m ill. Of course when I didn t get in the car with my step mom, she over exaggerated and said I was ditching and I was refusing to get in the car. This morning I was vomiting and vomiting and just over all feeling like ****. My dad is on his way right now to take me to school and he s threatened to (and has) taken away my privileges of our school field trip and will be taking away my phone. I m extremely I ll and I don t know what to do. Any suggestions?

Question: Should I give my uncle money?

Posted: 16 May 2016 07:48 AM PDT

So my uncle wasted a lott and I mean a lott of money from my dad. My dad use to give him so he can use that to do business and u know be stable. 1st dad payed grands of money for him to go to school, he quit.. then he payed grands of money for another thing he failed to do so.. then he kinda used more money and worked under dad and wanted to steal the property. However, couple of years dad knew he is doing this, he use to work on our land doing agricultural things. 2 years after this he took back and he was unemployed. His family is devastated. He is in agony... and asked dad for several forgiveness. Severrrrallllll... he cried and everything. He got little baby girl and wife which he can't support well. I have some memories with him and want to do help him. Should I give $1000 which is like 80,000 rupies.. in my country. He might be able to stand up with that. Let me point this out to her was on drugs for a long time but hopefully he quit n got back in track. I believe everyone deserves a chance this dude had multiple chances should I give a last chance?

Question: What should i do please help!!! im 17 and want to kill my self?

Posted: 16 May 2016 07:41 AM PDT

i got kicked out of my house yesterday because i don t have empathy. my parents hate me and my moms just come back from open hearth surgery and iv been doing all the work in the house but when i need to study for my upcoming exams (which are extremely important) y dad starts yelling and tells me to get out the house!!!! my mom verbally abuses me and tells me she s going to kill me by shoving a knife in my chest! i had enough so when he told me to get out i left. that night my mom and dad come and find me and starts yelling at me to come back home or there going to call the police. im only 17 and i really dont want to be homeless iv got the most important exams in my life coming up and im smart and i wanna do well so i can get into a good uni. i have no clue what to do if i stay il keep on getting verbally abused and having to do everything from washing everyones clothes and ironing them to cleaning the whole house and washing the toilet. if i run away i don have any money an no place to go. the only option i think i have is to kill my self what should i do !!

Question: How can I get my mom to accept my interracial relationship?

Posted: 16 May 2016 07:33 AM PDT

I'm a white man and my girlfriend is black. My mom doesn't believe in interracial relationships. She thinks they are stupid and a disgrace. My mom knows nothing of my girlfriend yet since I live across country from her. My mom even said on the phone she rather see gay people get married than a white person to a black person. My mom accepts gay marriage but not a straight intercial marriage. How should I tell her? How can I get her to accept? My girlfriend is 7 years older than me too.

Question: What is the clinical definition for what my mother has going on?

Posted: 16 May 2016 07:28 AM PDT

Not sure how much detail I can fit, however I think my mother has a clinical disorder. And I personally find that I hold resentment nowadays as an adult. Perhaps justifiable...perhaps not. In a nutshell in piecing the puzzle pieces of my life together, my mother seems to have only an ability to show affection and attention to one person at a time...and what I mean by this.. is... Whenever my mother is "single" she comes out of the wood works and wants to hang out with me, calling me every day...when she's in a relationship, she will only talk to me while in the car, and as soon as she gets home, she must get off the phone. This is not specific to this one boyfriend, because it's happened in every single relationship since she's left my father... now that she's living with a guy again, she wont' even respond to texts on the weekend until the week when she's at work and not at home.... In hindsight, looking back, before my parents split, my brother and I were here focus, and she never really focused on my Dad.... In looking at the big picture, it looks like whoever her "focus" is gets all her love, and anyone/anything else falls by the wayside...but it seems almost clinical..... uncontrollable..... Is there a clinical disorder name for this?

Question: Since my brother hasn't been home since Saturday night should I be concerned?

Posted: 16 May 2016 06:57 AM PDT

I don't live with him but he is in a halfway house though he is still using drugs. I'm guessing he is just on a binge and of course can't go home to a halfway house high.

Question: I hate the way my brother is?

Posted: 16 May 2016 06:51 AM PDT

My brother is 24 and is constantly fighting with my mother. So do i but its because my mom recently found i smoke weed so every chance she gets she brings up how bad of a child i am and wish she never had kids which always brings up a fight. For my brother its always about dumb stuff. For example they fought last night about my mom always helping him by giving him money but he takes that for granted and this morning he called his job to say hes not going and hes being going to so many jobs that i dont even know if its possible for him to stay in a job. He has bad credits, doesn't have a car, doesn't care about school ( i dont either but im working on my own to follow my dream while hes doing nothing) he dress like a bum literally, and is always making my mother crie then my mom takes out her anger on the both of us and compares me to him and it hurts me because i am nothing like him but she doesn't see that other then we both smoked and not going to school.

Question: Is my mom ok looking...she feels plain?

Posted: 16 May 2016 06:42 AM PDT

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Question: Is it my mom's place to tell my dad about what I watch online?

Posted: 16 May 2016 06:30 AM PDT

I am seventeen, turning 18 this year in December. I was watching a pòrñ site, idk why.. I was watching a tv show (Game of Thrones) before and it went to a sexual part so I just went on a pörn site to see real sex.. I fell asleep with the site on the phone and my mom walked in my room and took the phone, then she unlocked it and saw the site. She asked me if I watched it and I said yes, I don't really have an excuse. I feel really ashamed and I am now stuck in my room because I don't want to be around her yet. I know that when my dad gets here she is going to tell him I am watching these,and then my dad will shower me with questions about it. I feel that this is private information, she wasn't supposed to know about me doing these and now that she does, I don't think it's her place to tell dad. No disrespect to her.. Am I correct?

Question: How to deal with an alcoholic with extreme narcissism disorder?

Posted: 16 May 2016 06:24 AM PDT

My mom has been an on-and-off alcoholic since I was really little and it s affected my family and I so horribly. For the past two years, she s become a full-time alcoholic and has drank and gotten intoxicated daily. We ve asked her to get help multiple times but she refused, so we gave up because we can t force her. What s worse is that she s a narcissist as well, so she s putting those two together and ruining everyone s lives. She talks badly about me when she s drunk and sober, calling me fat, weird shaped, ugly, antisocial, retarded & more. When I do my hair and makeup she gets furious, putting me down about it. She wakes my father up late hours in the night, bullying him to get out of bed and he has to get sleep for work. Sometimes he sleeps in the car because she s so horrible and acts like a 4 year old who craves attention. If things don t go her way she throws actual tantrums. We don t know how to deal with her anymore she s too much to handle. It s like she s a child who constantly has temper tantrums except on top of that she drinks. She doesn t have a job and expects my dad & I to provide for her. We can t keep going though this! What can I do about this?

Question: About Child Care.?

Posted: 16 May 2016 06:18 AM PDT

Let's say, if you have the money to support the family. Will you put your child (any age under three) to child care?

Question: As a man is it right if i think women are superior.?

Posted: 16 May 2016 06:10 AM PDT

Question: Why should we stay at jobs that make us unhappy??

Posted: 16 May 2016 05:32 AM PDT

Hey guys i'm 24 years old and I'm asking this question because I see people all the time go to work and be miserable about the jobs they are working at but refuse to change anything about their situation. Look I know that life gets in the way and people have bills etc etc. I get that. But life is too short for us to work a job that makes us unhappy. We should be doing something that makes up want to go to work instead of running from it. I can't live my life like that. I'm not going to work a job that I hate just to get by to pay bills or whatever. My parents think I'm crazy when I say this, but they are the perfect example. My mom hates her job and dreads going to work. She sits in a office all day and then will go home and complain to my dad or call me and complain. Now to my dad. He has been a city bus driver for the past 33 years and he is nearing retirement in a few years. He may not hate his job but it doesn't make him happy. My dad wanted to be a Louisiana State Trooper but never pursued his dream for unknown reasons. My dream is to be a restaurant owner, and in some way I will accomplish that. So what do you guys think am I crazy or am I on to something.

Question: Mom uses me as her therapist?

Posted: 16 May 2016 05:21 AM PDT

everytime something bad happens with her boyfriend, grandparents,job, she would talk about it with me. e.g, since idk 6 years she is in a relationship with this man and everytime they have a fight or he does something she doesnt like, she comes to it with me and talks FOR HOURS about what he has done and what a good man would have done etc.. the things she talks about are always THE SAME. for years she talks about he doesnt share any money eventhough he lives with us and instead of confronting him about it or talking it through WITH HIM, for 6 years she always comes into my room and tells me about it. she then always aks me "what i think about that behaviour" or "why i wont say anything to what she has told me before" but honestly, i dont even care anymore. since 6 years she keeps telling me the same things, even when she starts crying idc.. she also says that i "sympathize" with him and that i should side with my mother. i dont even care if that man is here or not but my mum always kicks him out and 1 week later he is back with us. in the morning, when he is gone and she doesnt know where he went, she starts yelling and how he should just leave for good but then at the evening, i hear them laughting in the livingroom and everything is great again. its been like this for years. i dont even listen to what she has to say bc its always the same sh*t..she also just forgets she has been coming to me since i was a child.

Question: Should i beat up my sister?

Posted: 16 May 2016 05:03 AM PDT

my mother and my dad and me hate my sister shes being a wh*re now, she divorced with 3 guys now, and she keeps doing the same mistake, she finds a guy after a day she has sex with him. my parents get angry at her all the time but she keeps repeating the same mistake everytime. should i just beat her up cuz she wodnt listen

Question: I don't know what to do with this marriage?

Posted: 16 May 2016 04:59 AM PDT

We've been married for 5 yrs. he is 13 yrs older than me. he lost his job since 3 yrs ago. He tried to build up his own business but it didn't go well. So now We are financially depend on my parents while he is looking for a job. I feel really bad that we are rely on my parents but Iv never give him pressure to find job ASAP, i want him to find a job he likes. But he just always feel stressed, unhappy and inactive most of the time. Tonight he is stressed about tomorrow's interview with the job agent from government. He put the stress on me by talking so grumpy. I fought back, and he told me I have to put up with his anger. He refuses to talk like an adult every time we fight. Tonight went even worse, He walked out at 8pm, and hasn't come back till now 10pm. I'm now staying at home with my 19 months old son. I really don't understand him. I just want a normal family and everyone is happy, I don't care how much money he makes. I need a positive and a happy husband. I Really can't take his temper any more.

Question: What will be the reasonable thing to do? If you were me?..a child is involved?

Posted: 16 May 2016 04:54 AM PDT

While I was in college, my sister left her baby boy with my Mom and vanished and then my Mom left him with me and left. I had to stop school and work 3 jobs. Now 8 years later. I'm 25 and still haven't completed school because working and with no help. I didn't have a life. My Mom moved back near me and I gave her my nephew to keep so I can go on and finish school. Keep in mind all while keeping him I never filed him on my taxes or got well fare ( long story) everyone is telling me I'm a bad person and how can I give him back? I lost a lot and want to be free and follow my dreams. I don't have any kids. Couldn't ever date or anything. I saw a therapist to sort all of this out and even he said I should get him back, I love my nephew but its like no one cares what I want and this is being forced upon me. Any honest advice?

Question: He's 21 I'm 16?

Posted: 16 May 2016 04:46 AM PDT

I'm 16 , I live in west virginia, can my parents press chargers if he got me pregnant ? We were together when he was 20 which is 4 yrs difference which is the romeo and juliet law please help!!

Question: How do I get over the emotional pain of my mother telling me my father didn't want a relationship with me and later learning she was lying?

Posted: 16 May 2016 04:38 AM PDT

I have guilt that I believed her. I have anger at her. I have sadness over the lost time. I have shame that my half-siblings didn't know me until I was 15. At age 15 I broke free of my mother's lies and got close to my father for the last 20 years of his life. Now all these years later (26 years since I reconnected) I still have this guilt and hurt as well as anger at my mother. Not sure if my mother was a pathological liar or if she genuinely had false beliefs that I was unwanted by him. How do I overcome this? My parents had divorced when I was 6 and it stemmed from that. My sister never fully broke free of my mother's tales.

Question: What to do when your sister wants you to be over protective for her?

Posted: 16 May 2016 04:30 AM PDT

im 14 and my sister is 23, one time we were alone in house watching tv then we heard something and she told me to go look outside it was dark outside, she always wants me to protect her from something and wants me to be her guard when i dont she beat me up what to do?

Question: My parents gets mad of nothing?

Posted: 16 May 2016 04:23 AM PDT

So I have ecchi pictures on my phone, big deal. Its nothing worse than this [IMG]http://i65.tinypic.com/1zxp2k4.jpg[/IMG] And my parents won't let me date, so they should just let be, I'm 13 years old and should be allowed to have my iphone free from snooping parents!

Question: Is my mom a slut? I don't really like her bringing home guys. What should I do?

Posted: 16 May 2016 04:14 AM PDT

My mother is 34 and I am 18. She has been the best mother in the world and has always been there for me no matter what. My father hasn't been around since I was baby. Anyway, my mom has always struggled finding a good guy as a romantic partner. She's brings home quite a few guys and does have sex with them (I hear). But tbh I'm happy for her getting to at least have the pleasure of sex. The problem lies with all of the guys she brings over. It's too many and they don't really seem to be good for her. She's an attractive lady and I don't know if these guys are using her or what. As her son mad frankly the only guy to permanently stay in her life, I want to protect her but also don't want to get in her way. Also, she dresses like she's 18 and this makes me think she's trying to attract guys. Pretty much this ranges from skin tight jeans/pants, short skirts, low cut shirts. Hell her thong usually always shows and I hate it. Don't like my mom wearing the same type of g strings as my girlfriend. It's odd and while I'm not against her wearing thongs, I at least want her to be conservative. I just do not know how to confront her about all of this. I was going to just leave it all alone because she has been the coolest, most wonderful mom and I want her to be happy always. I just need someone's opinion. What do I do??

Question: Is there anything i should add or take away. i need tips to improve this please.?

Posted: 16 May 2016 04:05 AM PDT

In France I live with my father Walter along with with my mother Mary and my younger brother Oscar. We all live in a tiny apartment owned by our friend James. My father being the Workman he his and still is, works as a Designer at an old building with no AC and with a harsh Owner named Harry. Harry was the Owner of The Building, At first he promised my Dad a good place to stay and a good salary. But later on he noticed how poor we were and this was the only job he can get, so he started lowering his pay. And while in France, My dad and i will always walk in the valleys and mountains near my family's home. One day he took me to see the grave of my great uncle. He had fought to the death against German soldiers with his French army. The grave was placed near a bunch of trees, a stone marked where they buried him. It had his name, date of birth and a message. I could never try to figure out what it meant. When the sun rose back up again I saw my Father rush out the door for work like if he was in a hurry.Walter ran across the road to catch the bus, running as fast as he could he still missed the bus and had to walk. He was already thinking of the disapointment Harry would give him, He can lower my pay even more or even fire me because getting a job here was not easy.