" I'm not married or a father but I really enjoy having fun with some other dad's daughters." I think that addresses any thoughts about whether you're straight and if asked by a woman, cuts through the B.S.

When 1 parent has 'visitation' with an older child (14 or older), the child can refuse the visitation according to NJ law. What if custody is 50/50, can the child refuse to go to the other parent?

I am wondering why would my mother do this. She just down graded her boyfriend. He is worst than her last husband. Her last husband was such a D*** He would leave all the work to the women. Now this boyfriend just lays down on the couch and watches tv and does nothing. He is so lazy he is lazier than a teen. He even acts like one. What do I say to my mom about how he does nothing when we do everything around the house? Please help me!!!

I've known a guy online for awhile and he eventually proposed. I said yes, because everything about him feels right to me. I was well aware that while having chatted, phone called, and video chatted with him everyday, it still might seem stupid&hasty to marry a guy I've never met. He lives overseas&theres no way he can come to the US without a wife so him moving here to get to know each other first is impossible. My brother did this with his wife. It lasted 6 years&ended only because he cheated. My mom did this with my dad&it lasted 25 years. The difference is my mom knew my dad in person but didnt actually know him. Never talked to him. It basically went "Wanna get married?" "Okay" and they eloped in Vegas haha..I always told myself I would never do what my mom did, and I'm only 2 years older than she was when she married. But I feel this is different, even though I've never met my fiance. I've talked to him extensively about important issues couples have, and we agree on basically everything. We are also going to have an actual wedding in the US, a honeymoon, and I'll be securing an apartment for us by the time his visa to move here is approved. We have planned every detail, we've talked about having kids, and life together, and we have talked about the bad things that could happen, issues that haven't arisen yet, and I feel this is really a good thing. My friends have mostly accepted it, and I'm not doubting this but I'm just curious if people think it's crazy of us to do?

I feel like throughout my relationship with my husband, I never really asked for anything so he doesn't know what to do. We are in a long distance relationship at the moment and when i visit him, all he wants to do is stay at home. He isn't outgoing but should I always have to ask to go somewhere? Or instead of buying me flowers and chocolate he would buy something he can order from Amazon. No romance. So should I be more demanding? I was raised to be independent so I never relied on him for anything but I want those things too. I want romance.

If I'm speaking to one of my siblings next to me, he will be engaged even if he's across the room. He also teased me before. He turned his face away and tried to hide a smirk/grin when I was talking about sex since I forgot he was there. He was also extremely happy when I was telling him a story and looked "happy from within". I've seen him stare at me before.

through a midlife crisis. She's experiencing early menopause but she can't seem to face it. She insists on prancing around naked. I think it's to prove to herself that she's still desirable. Her parents and both children have asked me to put a stop to her behavior but she's out of control. I'm at my wits end. What should I do?

We are really right on money right now and don t have any money to get him anything. Any ideas on some 8th ing special to do? Help!

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My wife has started hanging out with other guys, going to their house, and we have been fighting all the time because of it. So now I need to find the power to.leave her, but I dont know how to function without her.... She is.everythimg to.me... but I dont know where to.start..

He relocated for a job in December in Nebraska, we are from Tx. I followed him after the sale of our home this Feb and had our 3rd daughter in April. He has a pattern of emotional abuse and will change for short periods of time, maybe 1-3 months when I threaten with divorce. After the move, it got really bad. I always stand up for myself but he continues. I have even Begged on my knees while crying endless tears pleading with him to to treat me better. On Mother's Day, he got angry and slapped a damp towel next to my head and then threw it at my head WHILE holding our newborn. I remained calm as not to escalate things or put my kids in a further bad situation, but ever since, I've secretly been making plans to leave. I have a house, a car, access to child care and a job. I can't change him and he doesn't feel the need to. We've only lived in Nebraska for 3 months and I can't work due to the cost of childcare equaling more than I would take home ($33,000 for 3 kids), this is about what I bring home after taxes. Question is, is it illegal to love back to Tx where we just came from? Goofle- your a fvcking idiot. I make $25 dollars an hour, not minimum wage. Look up the salary after taxes idiot.... I'm not trashy. I'm a college graduate with a degree making $40 plus a year, at one time I was making almost $50,000... Just because I loved someone who became more controlling and abusive after having children makes me deserve it? I would hate to be your gf because you sound just like him. Have a nice life *** hole. Goofy- still wrong. I am a licensed PTA and AFTER taxes, I would make the SAME paying for 3 kids in daycare to work FT. The average pay is around $20-22/hr, but I have 8 years experience. I called ALL of the local daycares and got prices, not just one. They were all within a $50 range of eachother. If you had a brain, you would research the cost of child care. Here, it would be roughly $600 a WEEK!!! Higher the price, the younger the child, $200-$230 a week alone for a BABY dumb fvck. "Pattern of emotional abuse after kids and will only turn his attitude around after I threaten to Leave"... -if you think women deserve that, you are likely an abuser as well. Please never impregnate anyone. You Can accuse me of abusing him, which is laughable. All of your thumbs downs are simply because you are wrong AND an *** hole.

What should I do? She told me that her vagina is gapeing because of her new giant dildo. She said that she gets more satisfied by a piano bench leg, then she does by my prick. Also she gained fifty pounds since we wed five years ago, and looks like a tramp when she wear spandex and a thong out in public. Now she's gapeing, and prefers women with dildos to me. She told me that she wants a girl friend to do her with dildos. Is she a psycho? Divorce?

I ve shop vacced most of them up but it seems they re in ever nook and cranny. How long will it take for them to go away? Also wondering about the best way to get rid of the smell.

Hi, so my wife takes photos of me all the time, like I do of her, but she puts u the most stupidest photos of me on her instagram with hashtags that could seem derogatory. When it comes to herself though, they're always cute and great of herself.

If you're married - do you owe your husband sex if you aren't in love anymore and aren't attracted to him but he does a lot for the household (pays bills supports the children) etc We've taken separate rooms but I feel I owe him sex for all he does? Is this archaic to think this way? Yes at some point I will purse divorce but for now (I work part time only) I feel I owe him sex.

We have been role playing this for about 5years and my wife has flirted with black men in public. Although subtle flirts. She tells me to be careful what I wish for and that I created this monster. I'm confused because I thought role playing was harmless. I'm now a little concerned that she wants the real thing but she will not admit it.

Sometimes my husband is too rough with me and then claims he is just playing around. He likes to bite, pinch, slap, and squeeze body parts and does it so hard it hurts. I told him repeatedly, sometimes to the point of yelling, to stop doing that because it causes too much pain, but he never listens. Have you ever done this to someone before, or had someone else do it to you in a friendship or relationship? How do you stop this?

Married for four and a half years and separated for 3 months. My husband got a gf quick after the separation started, the girl is an ex gf who he had an emotional affair with in the beginning of our marriage. She lives a few hours away and they see eachother 2x a month (including a 4 day vacation to Disney last month 😡) he swears they haven't had sex yet. husband and I live in the same house but separate rooms... For the past month he has woke up early and came into my bed and put his arms around me this happens 3-4x a week and Two weeks ago he initiated sex with me three days before they had a weekend getaway, comes home and has sex with me within 3 hours and again yesterday as well. We have plans to go to an amusement park this weekend just us two and next weekend my family is coming to town and he took off work stating he wants to spend time with them and me... Does this sound more like he misses me or like he isn't getting enough from the gf so he's using me to supplement.

I have a daughter by another woman. This happened years before I met my wife. I've had full custody of her since she was about 2 years old. Well, I'm of the majority of people who hate the term "baby daddy". My wife has said that to me in passing and I've politely corrected her. One day years ago I had to call my daughter's mom on her job and the girl referred to me by saying, "Kim (fake name of course), your baby daddy is on the phone." When she came back I politely told her that I was not her baby daddy but that I was her child's father. Ok, last weekend I graduated with my master's degree and of course I posted it on Facebook. My daughter's mom posted this reply, "Congrats to my favorite baby daddy!" Yes, we're still very friendly. Last night my wife asked me if I corrected her on calling me that. I told her that she was the only one who was allowed to call me that and I know she was saying it in jest. My wife wants me to correct her but she's the one I do not feel the need to correct her on. We can joke with each other like that but I do not want anyone else to refer to me as a baby daddy. Yes, I've called her my baby momma on occasion, but again, in jest and only in her presence or direct to her. Should I correct my daughter's mom? Is my wife just nit picking because she can't call me a baby daddy? Is she trying to stir the pot to put a wedge between us?

My boyfriend and his wife separated in December 2014. Me & my husband separated January 2015. We started dating in February 2015. After my one year separation date I filed for divorce and was granted in March 2016. Me and my boyfriend have talked about this several times that he still hasn't filed for divorce. We both have children and at first that was his excuse. Then the excuse was "after I file my taxes". He waited until April 18th the file. Then came the excuse "I have to pay in & it takes money to file for divorce". He tells me he is in love with me, I make him happy and wants to be with me, but he is scared. Not of loving me but of being happy. We were both in marriages where the spouse was having an affair and I understand the feeling of being happy & then the rug being ripped from underneath you, but I'm not sure how I feel about him being ok with the way our relationship is going. He has met my children but he & his wife both agreed to not introduce their children to anyone new until they are divorce. I love him but I'm not sure what I should do. I have talked to family in the past and family is very protective so just needing advice from outside source. To some of the answers. I paid for my own divorce. I work and pay my own bills. I do not receive child support from ex-husband. I am not looking for someone to "raise" my children they have a father. My boyfriend pays child support for his children and has 50/50 custody. He works shift work, is his boy's baseball coach and is an excellent father. His wife is dating someone new and she knows we are together. Our relationship isn't a secret at all.

Married for four and a half years and separated for 3 months. My husband got a gf quick after the separation started, the girl is an ex gf who he had an emotional affair with in the beginning of our marriage. She lives a few hours away and they see eachother 2x a month (including a 4 day vacation to Disney last month 😡) he swears they haven't had sex yet. husband and I live in the same house but separate rooms... For the past month he has woke up early and came into my bed and put his arms around me this happens 3-4x a week and Two weeks ago he initiated sex with me three days before they had a weekend getaway, comes home and has sex with me within 3 hours and again yesterday as well. Does this sound more like he misses me or like he isn't getting enough from the gf so he's using me to supplement.

So me and my husband are married for 7 months and been together for a year. He had a girlfriend in his past and they were only for like 2 months together cuz she cheated on him. So, on one day I saw that she sent me a following request on instagram. I declined it. And today again! She sent me second time that. I mean she lives nearby and I thought maybe she and my husband met sometimes and chatted but my husband wouldnt lie about it and he is not a cheater. Any thoughts? Why she wants to see my life so bad? WE WERE TOGETHER FOR A YEAR BEFORE MARRYING, DONT GET IT WRONG.

Me and my wife are having disagreements over how often to have sex. There are other issues but a big one for her is she doesn't want any foreign subtance in her body. Birth control pills cause cancer, spermacides is unnatural to put in her body etc. Is it reasonable for her to cripple our sex life over this (in a failing marriage that doesn't need more problems)?

I have troubles telling my wife my whereabouts, I am always lying to her. I feel bad but i can not stop cheating on her. I make it look like she is crazy and i am mentally abusive not on purpose. I do not want her to know the.real me. Even though I am a cheater i except my wife to remain faithful, she.is 25 years younger. So i am the boss. I cant help it, i need the attention by other men and women, my wife cannot completely make me happy, because no one. Can. Is there help. For me or is it too late?

I was married at 19. This marriage was pretty much completely arranged by our parents (even though we are both very american). My husband fell in love with me at first sight but I cannot say that I ever really did. After 8 grueling months, I am so ready to be done. Although I am afraid to stand up to my parents, I cannot go on being this miserable. We are completely incompatible. We share none of the same interests, Everything about him bothers me. We have not consummated the marriage and we really have no physical contact because I literally get physically ill when he tries (part of an anxiety disorder). I know that this all probably sounds really selfish but I genuinely want him to be with someone who loves him as much as he loves her. I do not want the both of us to be miserable anymore. I am so terrified of saying no, which is what got me in this position, but I believe that it is time for me to start being my own person.