My wife has always hung out mostly with male friends. She does not like women as much as friends. She has always done this either with me or in a larger group which has been fine. She did this before we met so it is something I accept. I have never had a reason not to trust her that I know of. That being said I am sure some of her friends are attracted to her. Recently though she has wanted to go do things one on one with male friends, such as go to a movie. Usually this is in situations in which I do not want to go or cannot go. But I am wondering if it is okay for a married woman to do such things alone with another man? If it is normal then I am fine with it because I trust her, but I don't know if it is or not. Advice?

Seriously though Xx. If you ever need somebody to talk to, I'm here for you. Please don't be afraid to ask for anything I just really care for her I know it's midnight but I love her

My husband and i have been together for 2 years. Just in january my husband had left ot of country and came back in the end of February. Everything is perfect in our life but all of a sudden my husband thinks that i have cheated on him, which isnt true. To prove that i have been loyal to him and him thinking that i have cheated on him. I told him im willing to do any test he offers or anything he wants for me to prove to him. So i was wondering if there are any medical test that i can do or anything to prove to him that i havnt cheated on him. I need help this is to save a marriage.

I really need some insight and advice. I've been married for 9 years this November and my husband knew I wanted to have kids from the beginning, but he wanted to wait. We had a discussion and decided to wait two years. Two years became three, three became 5, 5 became...well you get the point because we're approaching year 9. He's always had an excuse; finances weren't right, he wanted us to be done with school, etc. Now that all of those things are in order, this excuse now is that I don't respect him and he can't bring a child into the world under those circumstances. I am approahing 32 and while that wouldn't be a problem under normal conditions, I also suffer from infertility problems and know we'd have to go through IVF. We don't use protection and he's ok with that, but when it comes to the actual treatments for fertility success, he won't budge. I feel bamboozled, betrayed, and devastated because I know my situation will not improve with age. On top of that, he was on a trip away from me just 6 months ago where he sent me a message expressing his desire for me to have his child. I was exited and ready, only for him to tell me yet again, that he wasn't ready when it was time to schedule the appointment with the fertility doctor. How can I get past this? I'm truly confused and hurt, and feel like I've been lied to.

My husband goes out drinking either with his friends or with his cousins. I am a mother of 2. My eldest is 5 and my newborn is only 2months yet my husband goes out every weekend. He gets mad when I tell him not to go. He works weekdays and has no time for us. He says he needs alcohol to end the weekdays as he works early morning till 8pm.. is it wrong for me to be mad at him and to try and stop him?

He knows I want to have sex anytime anyplace but as soon as I leave the house or not around he masterbates,,, he rather do that than have sex with me and it makes me feel like there's something the matter with me??

Wife has some legal rights. Mistress has none. Wife has responsibilities and tough work, mistress has fun. Wife is respected, mistress is loved. Would you rather be his wife or his mistress?

He has anger issues but i feel that there is something deeper. He can be the best husband ever! He rubs my feet, encourages me to go for my dreams, he cooks for me, and he cares deeply about me. But, when we argue and he gets really angry he sometimes says "f*ck you" and calls me a "b*tch". And then when i walk away from him he grabs my arms and doesn't want me to walk away. Like he really grabs on tightly. Why is he like this? And can he change his behavior? Could this be something deeper than anger issues? We have no children together. And we've been married for 3 yrs.

Ok. So i am 30 y/o and I have been married for 5 years. My wife is 28 and absolutely gorgeous and very kind. But I messed up last night and I dont know what I can do/if anything to keep her from leaving me. Heres what happened. I have always had strong likings for bondage and breathplay. My wife lets my tie her up every now and then but breathplay is never anything more than me covering her mouth and pinching her nose shut for a few moments. For years, the urge and desire to put her through serious breathplay was growing inside me. Last night it reached its boiling point. I forcefully put her into a hogtie on the bed. I for a pair of knee-highs into her mouth and tightly wrapped packing tape around her head from her chin to her nose. I used another knee sock to blindfold her and then she was ready. I picked up the roll of packing tape and pulled about a foot length if the roll. I approached my wife and placed the end of the roll over her nose and begin tightly winding it around her head. I must have went around her head 20 times. The tape was extremely tight over her nose. She tried to breathe but she was completely sealed up. She thrashed violently on the bed as time was running out. She sobbed from under her gag trying to get me to stop. But it wasnt long before her head dropped face first into the mattress. After watching her lay unconscious for over t minutes I untaped her nose, allowing her to breathe. I have no clue what to do about this situation now. I watched her lay unconscious for 5 minutes. Sorry for the typo. Um. If there is air in the lungs you can in fact sob for a short period of time until the oxygen is depleted. Also, if someone is hogtied it means their hands are bound behind thier back and the feet are raised up behind and connected to their hands. She was laying on her stomach with her head raised up. So it actually is completely possible for her head to drop down. She was face down in the mattress. Also, i dont care if you think I am a "troll" or not. This incident did in fact take place.

I'm 12 and I have had to go to court over my parents divorce like 3 times, I have a lawyer about it and everything, I'm just wondering if this is abnormal or bazar, or is this normal and common so yeah

Look, don't even propose to me till I can trust you not to trick me and buy a diamond. This would disappoint me so much I might divorce you. I need to be confident that you will respect my wished and get me a really expensive looking, cubic zirconia ring... This way we appease the idiots and the idiotic culture but we don't throw away money on a scam such as diamond engagement rings and commit immoral act while at it... I don't entirely trust you, that you would not try to trick me, whihc makes me sad... I need you to come back so we can work on being able to trust each other fully and in every way, and I need you to propose to me with a beautiful looking cubic zirconia ring... I miss you...I need to be at a place where I can trust you then when I say cubic zirconia you get me one...Please come back...

Is it freedom to do whatever you want? Is it tax related? Is it simply because you are in love? Is it because you want kids? Is it something you feel like you morally must do? Don t feel bad to have different answers than people. After all we are all living different lives. There is no right or wrong answer, I am just curious here.

First off, I m no saint: I didn t always treat her great when we first got together and I would dismiss her concerns over our relationship. After 7 months of dating, interlaced with her occasional threats to leave me (thwarted by me begging her to stay), I pulled my head out my *** and did a 180. We got married soon after after (because I KNEW I loved her, but only showed it poorly) and me, her and her daughter became a family. Fast foward three years, and my wife cheats on me with two dudes while I m away on business for three months. For point of reference, our marriage has been rocky, but otherwise still loving. She cheated and I forgave her. Jump ahead 4 more months from there, and I catch her still talking to both guy and having had sex with them again. I threaten to leave, she cries and feeds me usual feel-good lines like "I only love you" and talks about how sorry she is.... Forgive again. 5 more months go by, find that she is talking to one dude from abovementioned times and a new guy, who she introduced as only a friend, but apparently she had done stuff with. Divorce her is the answer I want, but here is where it gets tricky: Stepdaughter isn t legally mine, so I lose wife and child in divorce. I love my stepdaughter and it keeps me from leaving. Wife and stepdaughter would be homeless. Wife has no job and nowhere to go; I know it s not my problem, but I cannot stand the thought of something happening to either one of them. More details, just ask

She volunteered to change jobs to stay away from him but he insist she not do that and that they remain good friends. I'd it likely he will remain faithful after marriage? Do some men believe cheating is only bad after marriage?

After a lot of thinking, I want to make some important changes to my life. I cannot continue the way it is anymore. My wife has no respect for me. I have posted a lot on here and it has helped to shape my thoughts around my "marriage". I tried standing up to her and challenging her. I basically asked her what she wanted from the marriage and the only answer I got was to be happy... It seemed like I wanted a lot more. I want friends in common, settle down and do more things together, more time out together, to talk etc. Her reply to that was along the lines of not wanting to talk with me because we have nothing in common, I'm too quiet etc. But straight after that she started to talk abut a number of other things with me including missing me whilst in China etc. Then came the judgement again. Saying stuff like I can take other women around in our car, I can track where she is going in China (not sure how or why??), that I should read the bible to learn how to have a relationship etc. Well, I replied that I didn't have time to worry about where she is, that it was a joke and not funny if she thought I was going to cheat on her, and that I come from a Christian background and know the bible. I also explained to her that the bible is just a set of guidelines and that there is a marked distinction between reading and action. She doesn't get it. So maybe I'm wrong? In any case, I haven't had a chance to test if it is my personality problem that has contributed to this. So it brings me to the question of what is normal. I blame myself after all that and think I am dysfunctional. The only way I can see if I am wrong or not is to explore other relationships. I mean, if I can get along alright with other women then it would prove that I am not that much of a problem? My wife is my first relationship after all so I don't have anything to compare to. I have not been diagnosed with a personality problem. My friends and family all like me and have never spoken about having issues with me. I did go and speak with a doctor who questioned my wife's behaviour and asked if she had been diagnosed with bipolar or similar. I see other couples happily married and spending time together, holding hands, close to each other. I yearn for the feeling of comfort/ closeness. I am jealous of the fact they don't experience stress and sadness on a daily basis. Thankyou for the replies. Yeah it weighs on my heart about the past and the way my things were being destroyed etc. Counsellors told me I was living in an abusive marriage during the first two years. Even now after four years, I still get told that my wife is pushing the envelope of acting single. Not really listening to me. Last night I messaged her to call me but she ignored all calls and texts. I know she was working but I got a tex f back of the address she wanted to remember...

my chinchilla and i have been pretty close the last 4 months of me having her, and she lets me scratch under her chin and everything, but today she doesnt want it. she runs behind her wheel and she will take some treats from me, but she made a tiny chirp noise at me so im kinda leaving her alone she is still very active, she just took a dust bath and rolled around happily, but as soon as she was done, she just went right back in her cage. usually she will wait a little before going back she just seems a little cranky, i guess? is this part of her heat cycle? i had my boyfriend over yesterday and she was a little scared of him, is she upset i didnt give her as much attention? im just worried about her but im not sure if i need to take her to the vet since shes still running around, drinking, eating, and rolling in her dust bath..

Hi! I'm Italian, so I'm sorry for my English. The problem is, I discovered that my husband cheats on me having sex with his ex girlfriend. I found lots of hot messages on his phone, and also vocal messages containing their orgasms and moans. I realized that he punctually has virtual sex with her when I go sleeping. He goes to the toilette but without having a bath nor a shower. He remains in the toilette for an hour. Yesterday I found a long call (1 hour) between him and his ex. He goes to the toilette to masturbate. she's very younger than me. i'm 37 she's 21

Is it ok to have a threesome with another woman when your married, if your wife agrees and is some what interested. I'm not a pig that goes around cheating and asked my wife if it was ok to have a friend over to play with us and she said - yes. Is this ok to do?

My husband and I have been together 10 years. There have been times over the years that he has been abnormally insensitive. Times he has thought about my sisters feelings over mine. Over 5 years ago when I was pregnant with the first of our 2 sons. He admitted he had a dream that I was teaching my sister how to give blow jobs, on him. The thought of it... She was 15 at the time. She and I haven't really gotten along since she hit puberty. She has always been in my business, nosey. Soon after I became pregnant with our second son (about a year ago), she sits me down to get some advice. Which is weird because she is the one who give that to everyone. She said she thinks her boyfriends penis is small and has the gall to ask me how big my husband was! I don't care how curious you are, you don't just ask that. We didn't have those kind of talks. I'm a private person and she knows I wouldn't just tell her something like that. The only person I talk to about things is my husband, obviously I didn't tell him about this, it would only fuel the fire. But this last weekend my family came in to town to visit us for the first time since we moved out of state. My mom, brother and sister. He paid more attention to her than them. And said multiple times about our 10 month old baby "Aww look at him, he can't tell you apart. He thinks she is his mom." (Said after my son looked at my sister and then to me and smiled and then looked back at her) he did this with everyone, he was looking for confirmation that it was ok, but of course he made a big deal about it with her. Because we look SO much a like. We are by no means twins, I look more like my mom than her. Also they tried overly to be near each other too. She'd sit on my spot on the couch next to him when I was out of the room. And he would make eyes at him when she didn't know I was looking. They are obviously attracted to each other. I'm not blind. But I'll be damned if I let anything happen between them. What should I do?...

My husband and I are going through a divorce. I have not seen or spoken to him in 5 months. Well, my daughter in law showed me a wedding band that they had found at the beach oneday that my son mentioned was "worthless." When I saw it, looked exactly like my husband's band.

After this crazy marriage-I don't plan to marry again-I just wanna know if I'm married forever, I've got enough problems in life to deal with-I'm not fighting to rush into a "divorce"-I may stay married forever, but never will hook up with her... ok-what I meant is-"if I'll be DIVORCED" after so many yrs.-not start an f'n riot over the question...

I was actually adopted, and so when I found my biological family, my biological first cousin and I (who I never met until 3 years ago) fell in love and we plan on getting married in Sept. But the prob is that in my state, marriage betw. first cousins is banned. So my question is, when two people get married, they aren't subject to genetic testing to see if they are related, are they? I am just wondering how they are going to find out we are cousins? We do plan on having kids, but I have heard the risk is low so we aren't that worried. What is the point of this stupid law of banning first cousins from getting married if there really is no way for them to find out we are related if we don't tell them? inbreeding? genetic defects? My god, the first cousin I want to marry doesn't even look like me. We could pass as non-related. Guess I should have rephrased my question (because I wasn't asking for an opinion on whether or not my opinion of the law was stupid). What I'm asking is how they gonna find out? We don't even look alike...soooo, how they gonna find it out that we're cousins?

I and my husband are married for 2 years. He lives in abroad for work and I stay with in laws (his mom and sister). I am into IT and I work 24/5. Of recently, problems are growing in size and small things began to gain control. My husband and I are fighting always. We hardly speak and we be like this for months, while he ignores me, but calls my in laws and speaks to them on a daily basis. I feel lonely and he never understands me and supports his mom who complains about me.

If so how many do you think it would take.

The other day my husband told me he doesn't mind if I chat with other men, and even send them pics (nudes, too), as long as he knows about it. But, he has shown he is very jealous and territorial in the past, so I just don't see how he would be okay with something like this. I have no interest in talking to other guys nor with sending them pics of myself, but I just don't understand why my husband would be okay with it. He was actually trying to encourage me to send a pic of my breasts to a guy friend. Wtf? I told him I had no interest in doing it....and I honestly don't. I know for a fact that he is NOT banging anyone else. lol @Beatrice, what are you saying? What is the RED FLAG that you are seeing? I did kind of get the sense that he was testing me, but wasn't sure if it was just me or not. @Patman, he has asked me several times to have sex with another woman and allow him to watch. I'm not bisexual, though. @??? I have a lot of guy friends on my FB....guys I grew up with, guys I game with. He knows all of my guy friends, too, and knows there is nothing like that going on. He does tell me that he believes a couple of my guy friends are into me, and those are the ones he says I should send pictures to. So, maybe it is more of a possessive thing?

I had some dates with a man who was divorced and custody a 5 year old kid. 3 days ago his ex-wife sent me a message that she and the man still love each other and they would reconcile for the kid's sake. I responded it was none of my business and they should sort by themselves. I did not tell him about her message not called him since then. However, he has not contacted me for 3 days since she texted me. Why did he become silent? Do you think he was cheating on me or she wants to ruin relationship between me and him?

Recently I just got married on 4/20/16 and me and my husband had been together for a year before we decided to get married and move in, We're both fairly young I'm 19 turning 20 in July and he just turned 20. Since I've moved in with him I found out a lot of things that I didn't know previously for example he has horrible credit and owes $4,000 in debt. He doesn't have a car or a license so we share mine & he has work an hour away from 6:30 A.M to 2:00 P.M mon-fri since he's in the military (I knew this about him already obviously) So he just recently moved in with me to my studio and his name isn't on the lease yet since everything's fairly new but I just feel he has so many issues with common sense and money. He literally can not save money if his life depended on it, I recently quit my job since we got married due to the fact we would be making more since he's in the military so I technically now devote my life and time to taking him to work and waiting with him till he's off. He doesn't care about my car seeing as how he drives with no license and yes I know it's my fault for letting him but imagine how exhausting it would be to be his chauffeur, also he doesn't care if he gets me street sweeping tickets because we'll "pay it off" even though we're barely making ends meet. Can someone please explain what type of behavior this is? Or if he's just a moron because I'm getting really irritated seeing as how I've never been a type of person to have bad money managing skills.

I am really puzzled with something. I have been married to sweetest girl for 2 years now. our marriage was arranged by my parents. I was not ready to marry her frankly. I did not like her physically. I started liking her younger sister.I found out her more charming. I confessed this to her before the marriage to her. My fiancee always took this jokingly. Numerable times i said my parents to break the marriage but they forced upon me. I even cried many times and said my fiancee to break the marriage but she said she want to spend whole life with me. I was so much confused that I couldnt take any wide decison and married that girl. With time i started enjoying with her and we have become very good friends. Somehow i have become more attracted towards her younger sister and almost fall in love with her. I take her name in my dreams. The whole day i waste my time thinking about her only. She also cares for me lot. I think even she has some feelings for me. I will never ever cheat my wife in my life. I just want to know once if her sister loves me or not. I just regret sometimes why i did not proposed to her before my marriage. The regret kills me everyday. I feel empty from within when i think some one else will **** her whole life. I hope someday this feelings will fade away. I cannot live with this regret whole life. I will say her about my feelings soon. I know it will put my marriage in danger. Then again I have no option. I never thought i will go through

My husband and I have been married for 3 years and we have a 4 year old daughter. I love my husband and my daughter so much and the are my life. My husband is a nurse and I am in grad school so I am basically a stay at home mom and student while he works. He takes care of us so well financially and he is also an amazing husband and father to our little girl. He is an ex marine and he was an infantryman so I have always known that he has done and seen some things that make me quiver just thinking about them, but he has never been violent with me. He was beat by his father as a child and teenager up until he got bigger than him and could handle himself. His dad gave him a concussion once and put cigarettes out on him. He even has a long scar from stitches on his back where he threw a broken bottle at him. I have always been very careful when talking about his parents because I know that it is a very sore subject with him. What happened though is that our daughter did something that she knows she is not to do and I did exactly what my mother did to me when I was growing up. I gave her a slap on the face. My husband saw me do this and he grabbed me by my shoulders and pushed me hard against the wall. He got really close and said "Don't you ever ******* hit my daughter again." then he just turned around, picked up our daughter and walked out of the room. I have honestly never been so scared of him before or ever for that matter. I just stood there and cried. This happened yesterday. We haven't spoken a word to each other since. When I went to bed I was shaking because I was so scared crawling into the bed while he was lying there. That is how I was disciplined as a child so I saw nothing wrong with it, but I know that his childhood was the worst time of his life and if he ever had the chance, my husband would have killed his father. I don't know what to do or say and I honestly don't know if I was completely wrong or if I should be somewhat mad at my husband, all I know is that right now I am very frightened of him. What do I do? Thank you for any advice.

They dated for a year, she broke up with him. A year later she wanted him back but he refused. Sometime after, she got pregnant & said it was his but it wasn't. It's been 6-7 yrs. Recently, my husband went into the store while I was in the truck with our kids. She noticed him & tried talking to him but he ignored her. She stalked him, followed him to the truck & parked next to us. She thought he was alone, walked up to him sincerely said "hey" like she was gonna go on forever but saw me. She stuttered & said she heard he had kids & just wanted to see them but only glanced. He introduced us & she gave me a handshake like I had a disease. She focused on him the whole time & ignored me. He barely acknowledge her. She said "well nice to see that youre happy" in a bitter tone. She drive off pissed & tried following us til she got stuck at a red light. I trust my husband, I know where he stands. We talked about this but I keep wondering what was she gonna tell him. I feel she's waiting for an opportunity. It drives me crazy. I'm not the jealous type but have become territorial of him now. She's kinda crazy so I'm worried. Also I'm healing, getting therapy from rape. My husband has been my rock through it all & the only support I have. I blame that for my insecurity & vulnerability for my husband. I fear & hate anyone who tries to take him from me. He tells me not even death will but I just don't know why I can't get her out of my head when he's been done & over her.

I have this beautiful friend that is married and has children from a previous marriage but now married to another man. When I first met my friend I thought self "He really must enjoyed her a lot." This woman is a no. 10. Now I'm wondering did he marry her just for the sake of having sexual intercourse with her and enjoying her? I'm sure he wanted the family too. It just seems like to me that when a beautiful woman has kids that her husband just had sexual intercourse just to enjoy her.

She says that my hair is too long and sweaty. So I should go bald for summer. Should I get my head shaved?

My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years now, and we've just had our first child together. I've always had issues with her not picking up after herself, and I have approached her is several ways, all of which involve me asking her to pick up her stuff. I've even tried to do it myself but this just ends up infuriating me. She stopped working 5 months ago and has no plans of going back to work as she is going to be a stay at home mom, which is totally fine with me. However, I keep coming home to piles of dishes, unsweapt floors, dirty cloths, half full cups everywhere... you get my point. It is literally getting me to the point of telling her I need to move out... I don't know what else to do. I've told her that I cannot live like this and that she needs to make it her duty to have the house clean by the time I get home from work in order for me to want to be here with our child and her. Otherwise, I come through the door see the mess, get pissed, start picking things up and when I'm done cleaning I am so pissed off that I can't even look at her. She knows this too, but I guess she just doesn't care. She tells me that she is not "wired" the way I am so she just doesn't get it. Which I think is bullsh*t! I've cleaned up several times and showed her what my standards of "clean" are, and the next day... same thing. I am at the end of my rope, I can't live like this. I need some advise. Please Help.

When I see him, I feel really bad because I don't want to talk to him. I really don't . But I feel bad. He is this special person I think very highly of. I have to treat him like he is nothing and it sucks. I still see him sometimes... and then I get sad. My husband doesn't know about him.

This is a very sensitive question and I don't wish to offend anyone. I ask because I want to be prepared for what life might have in store for me should I marry a man with these challenges. The man I'm dating was in a severe car accident several years ago leaving him deaf in one ear and blind in one eye. He struggles to work but is very intelligent. You would never know something was wrong unless someone told you. I want to be a mom and have children someday. I wonder what life might have in store for me in the future should I marry him. And what challenges may arise. One thing that comes to my mind is that I might not feel safe having him drive me or our children in the car. He legally can drive but I honestly don't know how with the way he describes his vision. Would this cause you any hesitation?

I developed a crush on a guy I met at the local fitness club. Our relationship is very casual. I never crossed the line. I mentioned to him that I find him interesting and then I never spoke to him. Despite my efforts to avoid him it seems I'm missing him. I want to get over him but how and how long will this last? It's annoying because he just crosses my mind...