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- Question: Was it abuse or not?
- Question: My husband and I had sex, he performed oral on me , we had sex within a couple of pumps he came in no time. Is something wrong?
- Question: Do you think she's wondering why I'm looking at her & that's why she moved to the back of the class and was looking at me?
- Question: Jin liu army vet born 1971 lives in Vacaville ca?
- Question: What should I do to get over breakup? How to stop waiting for ex texts?
- Question: I just found out my stepdad is cheating on my mom. What do I do?
- Question: Does this make me stupid?
- Question: Wanting to reach out to my ex. Bad idea?
- Question: Would I be able to kill myself by drinking energy drinks?
- Question: Am I justified in not wanting to meet my gfs ex husband?
- Question: Is it wrong to have sex with a woman who is in a bad marriage?
- Question: Can u help me decide which is my best angle? thanks?
- Question: What do you do when?
- Question: Why did he get a gf when he said he didn't want one?
- Question: Is not liking someone in today's World irrelevant?
- Question: I am in love with a legal advisor in my office...Can't control myself, what should i do? He is married and has a daughter too...?
- Question: Raped from home? share your story please im working on my English project about it. or if you know a story about someone who had to face it?
- Question: How can I [19] help my girlfriend [18] overcome her childhood trauma?
- Question: What do you think about women who mess with married men?
- Question: How to live without trusting anyone?
- Question: Relationship: Seeing someone should I trust they're being honest?
- Question: Girl poll !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
- Question: If a married woman introduce herself to me, is she interested in me?
- Question: Did she moved to the back of the class because of me & that's why she was looking at me?
- Question: I have a 5 month old baby girl. Her father and I are engaged but we have been fighting constantly.?
- Question: Why is he deflecting my questions? Help?
- Question: Guys don't text me?
- Question: Sex Advice?
- Question: Am I overreacting, this new boss at work is making me uncomfortable?
- Question: Good I plead the 5th questions?
- Question: Is it possible to get certain mail sent to the post office? If so please tell me how.?
- Question: GUYS: I told this guy that I have too much going on and can't date right now. Then he unfriended me on Facebook after a month. WHY?
- Question: How do I steal a married man from his wife?
- Question: Why does he always want the tv on during sex? Doesn't matter what channel, I don't get it.?
- Question: How to convince my mom to get my id?
- Question: How to deal with my moms boyfriends kids and keep it happy?
- Question: I caught my brother in bed with my boyfriend, what should I do?
- Question: What should I do around here?
- Question: How often do you hear about people having affairs?
- Question: My exes gf text me the other day telling me she got an std from him?
- Question: Hi, I have recently tried to fly back to the USA from Syria. I was unable to fly due to my beliefs. I am Muslim. How should I handle this?
- Question: Why do people get upset and cry when someone dies (please read)?
- Question: GUYS: What do you think of a girl named Patricia? Is that a good or bad name?
- Question: Hey guys, i was wondering if anybody has been; or is currently in a teen ldr and managed to meet their GF/BF?
- Question: Friend booked the wrong hotel?
- Question: Doesn't Lord of the Flies and Hatchet prove children can parent them selves?
- Question: My girl cousin sticks her butt and boobs out around me and punches me alot is she attracted to me?
| Question: Was it abuse or not? Posted: 23 May 2016 02:16 PM PDT I was 13 years old turning 14, and i had my first boyfriend. He was 18 years old. He made me do things sexually, at first he was teaching me as I didn t know anything at 13 years old, then it became a routine. He didnt rape me and we never had sex, but did everything else. But when i said no, he would scream and fight and lose it. Once i was so sick i vommitted and he made me do stuff with tears in my eyes. Is it still considered abuse since he didnt rape me? And why am i thinking of it now, 5 years later? This is my first time since i told someone about it. Should i tell my mum? Sorry for the confusion.. |
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| Posted: 23 May 2016 01:52 PM PDT I was walking at the hallway with my friend and i saw the girl I liked there & I was looking at her but then I looked away. Later when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. When she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me so I just looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop. So then when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and she was looking at me but then later left class early |
| Question: Jin liu army vet born 1971 lives in Vacaville ca? Posted: 23 May 2016 01:32 PM PDT |
| Question: What should I do to get over breakup? How to stop waiting for ex texts? Posted: 23 May 2016 01:20 PM PDT Me and my girlfriend broke up like month ago and couple days ago I found out she has someone like they kissed obviously she's trying to move on but she admited that she doesn;t like that person but I know I'm not going to forgive her. What should I do? should I start dating girls too? It;s really difficult for me because the breakup is fresh and I am really hurt. And another problem is I don;t really have friends to hangout with well I do have best friend but he moved to other city. All I do is take a walk long walks to distract my thoughts from her and I yelled in the pillow it sorta helped but when it come to night time I get super sad and miss her and lose all the control im getting sad I keep staring at the phone and keep waiting for her text the last time we were speaking was when she told me she had someone and it was 4 days ago but im still waiting any msg from her.And how can i stop checking her social accounts? |
| Question: I just found out my stepdad is cheating on my mom. What do I do? Posted: 23 May 2016 01:04 PM PDT My stepdad and mom are at work, and my stepdad left his phone at the house, and I don't trust him so I went through it and I found messages that prove he's cheating on my mom. What do I do? |
| Question: Does this make me stupid? Posted: 23 May 2016 12:38 PM PDT I was thinking about some deep stuff and I realized that bad self esteem is pretty stupid. If you are unhappy with the way you look or are in general, let's face it, it's pretty stupid. There are things you can change and things you can't. This being said, you should worry about things that you can change but many people with low self esteem worry themselves crazy over for example the size of their nose. I mean wtf! And I'm one of those people btw. I know this is a stupid question but does this make me stupid? I have low self esteem and I'm starting to wrap my mind around this new philosophy of life: not giving a f. I'm pretty good at certain things, actually pretty f ing good, better than ANYONE I've ever met at these things (cool stuff) and still I feel self conscious. Why the f?? Am I ill, have I been traumatized or smthn or am I just stupid? I'm a 15 year old girl |
| Question: Wanting to reach out to my ex. Bad idea? Posted: 23 May 2016 11:44 AM PDT Me & my ex broke up a month ago, (he's 32, I'm 28), because his life is a mess & he can't look after himself, let alone anyone else. He doesn't take responsibility for anything (money,future plans) & is a bit of a loner. He says he never really likes anyone & was so happy when he met me. But it doesn't mean I don't still love him. Before we broke up he started smoking hash a lot & he gets tired from work & falls asleep so easily. He may have been depressed. He never seems to be online. I can see when he's on whatsapp & he's hardly ever on, but it drives me crazy, because I want to talk to him. Part of me wants to reach out as a friend, which seems like a crazy thing, but just this no contact, is so hard. I last told him that I want him to be happy. He says he can't bare to break up or deal with things & it hurts every time he thinks about it. He hasn't got many friends & no family around him. How do I move on & stop the urge to contact him? I know he is wrong for me, but also we were so close as just us in our own world. Shall I stay strong & just never look back? |
| Question: Would I be able to kill myself by drinking energy drinks? Posted: 23 May 2016 11:35 AM PDT I am unsure. I started drinking it on Saturday, I drank 2 cans (which isn't much) but they were the 32 oz Monster Energy drinks. Sunday I had 2 more and I am now currently (Monday) on my 3rd can. All are 32 oz. Sunday after drinking those two 32 oz cans I woke up feeling very off. My chest, stomach and ribs were hurting, I also felt very drained (how ironic lmao). Today I am incredibly drained despite drinking the energy drinks. Haven't spoken to anyone, just don't feel like speaking to anymore. It's as if my body won't allow it. is feeling jittery and shaky a good sign for overdosing on caffeine? ps this is not a troll post i am very ******* serious about this |
| Question: Am I justified in not wanting to meet my gfs ex husband? Posted: 23 May 2016 10:11 AM PDT My gf wants me to meet her ex husband as they share kids together. He is verbally abusive towards her and their kids at times and she always has to kiss his butt just to get him to pay his child support which is practically nothing. He can't be alone with his kids because he's being investigated for stuff involving kids. I'm not scared of the guy. He just makes me sick and I have no respect for him. I really don't want to meet him. Am I justified for not wanting to meet him? She wants me to and wants us to get along. |
| Question: Is it wrong to have sex with a woman who is in a bad marriage? Posted: 23 May 2016 08:56 AM PDT |
| Question: Can u help me decide which is my best angle? thanks? Posted: 23 May 2016 07:23 AM PDT can someone tell me which of the 3 pics of me is the best and can u also tell me which is the worst. I am trying to decide which one is best to use in an online profile and which one I should maybe not use. thanks so much in advance. if you leave a link i will answer yours too. http://s1082.photobucket.com/user/kfccruelty/library/my%20pics PS if the link does not work please just copy and paste. i will also choose a best answer. thanks |
| Question: What do you do when? Posted: 23 May 2016 06:52 AM PDT So ive been in a relationship for 4 years and the past 3 years I've been disrespected, threatened, and verbally abused by the same man. I have time after time gave him chances to fix himself and treat me right. Until one day I left him in a painful state because i was no longer happy with how I was being treated. What do you do when you still love that person but now all of sudden they somehow "change"? Forgive and take them back? Or wish them well and leave them to be emotionally hurt? |
| Question: Why did he get a gf when he said he didn't want one? Posted: 23 May 2016 05:52 AM PDT So I've known this guy for 3 years since I was 14 and basically we never hung out consistently throughout the years. I've known that he has liked me since my freshman year (he's in a grade a head).Anyway in the beginning of April we started hanging out again and we ended up having sex, after that night we talked and he told me he still had feelings for me but that he didn't want a relationship, I said ok then he asked if I liked him and I paused and said no. We agreed to be friends with benefits. That lasted for a week, then he texted me saying a long time friend asked him out so we can't be fwb anymore. I wasn't mad at first, I was kind of sad in a way because I think I developed some feelings. Anyway 2 days later I said I needed to talk to him about something, he ended up driving to my house without telling me and I got scared to tell him so I just said I'll text you about it later. I texted him saying that I liked him but ik you just got a gf but I thought you should know. The conversation escalated he basically told me well you know where I stand and that he wasn't leaving his gf for me. Then I said you just told me you still have feelings for me but that you didn't want a relationship rn wtf, and that's why I said I didn't like you. He said yea but the difference is that I've known her for years and I've known you for years too but we never hung out that much..etc and that we weren't real friends. Btw He has liked me for years and we even have been on a couple "dates", he has asked me out a few times but I didn't like him till now.. |
| Question: Is not liking someone in today's World irrelevant? Posted: 23 May 2016 05:26 AM PDT I have tried to get to know my daughter and law and to like her,but I just don't. I don't live anywhere near them, but I am horrified about what she posts in FB and by what she has said to me in the past-and with constant holier than thou attitude and stance against abortion which she discusses a lot on FB. Basically she is like the intolerant Christians I make fun of. I'm certain she probably doesn't like me much also. But soon they will be having a child and I hope I won't be left out of the picture,so I don't make waves and pretend that all is well and that I like her. Just sent them some stuff fro the baby. I know I say things online, but really I do not say things like this to anyone. Comments? |
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| Question: How can I [19] help my girlfriend [18] overcome her childhood trauma? Posted: 23 May 2016 02:33 AM PDT When my girlfriend was younger (9-12), her pet died. She loves animals more than humans, so the death of her pet made her extremely sad. Soon after that, her parents decided to move, which she was totally against and I think they left the buried pet at the old house. At that time she cried very often and skipped school sometimes. That bothered her mother, who also hit her once. She became a very withdrawn person, that can have fun with others and likes getting to know new people, but she still has many problems. Her biggest one being that she cannot really love a person. She felt love for me when we met, but most of the time she has no real big feelings for me, although she really likes me. Everytime she thinks about not feeling much or not being able to love someone, it really hurts her. Another problem is, that she is cynical, criticizes me often and is repellent. I never am really angry at her, but I still feel let down. She has been to a psychiatrist, but she felt like it didn t help at all (visited her twice and they just talked), so she doesn t want to go to another one, also because she doesn t have much time. I honestly don t know what to do, she doesn t really talk about her past and I can only tell her to go visit another psychiatrist. What would you suggest I should do, to help her? |
| Question: What do you think about women who mess with married men? Posted: 23 May 2016 01:04 AM PDT |
| Question: How to live without trusting anyone? Posted: 23 May 2016 12:49 AM PDT I think its a smart choice. It's smart to not trust anyone or anything external, because you can't control those things. I don't think I should depend on anyone whether it's a best friend, girlfriend, wife or even a family member (including parents). I don't think I should expect anything from anything or anyone external that I can't control. The question is, how do I live without trusting anyone? |
| Question: Relationship: Seeing someone should I trust they're being honest? Posted: 22 May 2016 10:23 PM PDT My ex boyfriend and I have been going on "dates" we both want to start a relationship soon but this time around we aren't rushing into it. He says he doesn't want to be with anyone else and that I have nothing to worry about. We both said we'd be loyal even if we aren't in a relationship yet because he wants me to not worry and trust him. He would text me back soon but these last few days he's been lagging but today we went to the movies and I noticed his phone was on and he checked it when it vibrated. Should I trust in him ? I know I shouldn't over think but by him taking a long time to reply to me should I think he's out doing stuff ? We broke up before because something happened with one of his ex girlfriends which he says she lied etc when it came to her texting me from his phone when he was in surgery. |
| Question: Girl poll !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!? Posted: 22 May 2016 10:18 PM PDT Would you dress your man up in a pretty dress and use a strap on on him if he would let you |
| Question: If a married woman introduce herself to me, is she interested in me? Posted: 22 May 2016 10:10 PM PDT There are times she would tap my shoulder and say Hi. I've ignored her a couple of times but she still talk to me. In our last conversation, she said she find me interesting. Does she like me? What should I do? |
| Question: Did she moved to the back of the class because of me & that's why she was looking at me? Posted: 22 May 2016 10:09 PM PDT I was walking at the hallway with my friend and i saw the girl I liked there & I was looking at her but then I looked away. Later when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. When she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me so I just looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop. So then when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and she was looking at me but then later left class early |
| Posted: 22 May 2016 09:37 PM PDT I had my baby girl at 17 her dads 18. We got engaged and we re going to get married once I turn 18 and he was going to leave for the navy so I was waiting to do school for that. I just found out he has no intentions of going to the navy or even college. He spends all his money on tattoos and idk what to do. We only fight and he never listens. He says I try to force my opinion on him. I don t want to be a single teen mom but I m gonna do what s best for my daughter. Do you think it will pass? Am I being reasonable? |
| Question: Why is he deflecting my questions? Help? Posted: 22 May 2016 09:07 PM PDT I've been seeing this guy for a couple months now, & at first he wasn't affectionate because of some ex boyfriend issues, but now he is! The other night my guy asked, "JJ, do you have a boyfriend?" Immediately I said no, then I realized it was a trick question! I asked him tonight if that's how he meant his boyfriend question the other night and he said "I was hoping for a different answer." I asked if he had a girlfriend and he said "No. You should know me by now, that's the answer I'm going to give you back, because you told me you don't have one." told him I do have one and he jokingly asked who, then excitedly I said "You!" Then he paused, looked at me and told me to cuddle him and deflected our conversation. From a guy's perspective, wtf is going on? |
| Posted: 22 May 2016 09:05 PM PDT If we're not talking about sex they don't want to speak at all. I give up 😒 I don't even know why I have an iPhone im better off getting a phone with minutes since it's so dry. |
| Posted: 22 May 2016 08:51 PM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and I know I'm not ready for sex. But all I can think about is having sex with him, so what can I do to take my mind off it? |
| Question: Am I overreacting, this new boss at work is making me uncomfortable? Posted: 22 May 2016 08:41 PM PDT First it seems like he was trying to pin point my age when my information is right on file ...For example, he said "I've probably been doing this before you were born" one day ...another day I was talking about an incident in High school and he was like "that was how many years ago" and he tried to find out if I have a "lucky man" that was going to take me out over the weekend? He tried to find out how old my brother is and asked if he was younger or older. When I am standing up and he is talking to me, he looks me up and down. Two days he didn't talk to me at all than Friday he was too personal? Maybe he wanted to see if I was gay or married or divorced or single but why would he care?.... and when I first started, it's only telemarketing /sales over the phone, he tells me to wear dresses. I go to work and everyone else including the secretary are in leggings ? And he was like "you said your brother is way older than you so is he 80?" I am 31 how could I possibly have a sibling that old? and he made me not only uncomfortable Friday but upset...I mean my parents are younger than 80 and this guy is 60. it seems like every time a old guy has the hots for me he tries to age me? I don't know, maybe I am reading too much into this but I think he is acting a little inappropriate, opinions please and he let me know he's divorced |
| Question: Good I plead the 5th questions? Posted: 22 May 2016 08:18 PM PDT For a sleepover were playing a lot of games and I plead the fifth is one of them I was wondering if you guys could help me with some questions to give out. We all 13 or14 year old boys and girls so nothing inappropriate that none of us have done. Thank you for your time in answering this question. |
| Question: Is it possible to get certain mail sent to the post office? If so please tell me how.? Posted: 22 May 2016 08:11 PM PDT |
| Posted: 22 May 2016 08:08 PM PDT Does he not like me? I guess he doesn't like me that much if he unfriended me, right? |
| Question: How do I steal a married man from his wife? Posted: 22 May 2016 08:03 PM PDT Yes it's awful but I love him. We are already very close but I want more than that. I want him entirely. He's the love of my love and he loves me as well |
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| Question: How to convince my mom to get my id? Posted: 22 May 2016 07:36 PM PDT I want my ID so I can start working and saving up for a car. Any ideas on convincing her? (Im 16 btw) |
| Question: How to deal with my moms boyfriends kids and keep it happy? Posted: 22 May 2016 07:34 PM PDT |
| Question: I caught my brother in bed with my boyfriend, what should I do? Posted: 22 May 2016 07:08 PM PDT I'm gay and proudly so. I caught my twin brother bottoming for my boyfriend. My boyfriend claims he thought it was me. I'm so hurt. There was even a rubber duck involved. |
| Question: What should I do around here? Posted: 22 May 2016 07:05 PM PDT In the county next to mine, the people seems to try to talk to you and walk around smiling. However all of them displays a sense of 'coolness' and there is a draw to them and people draws to them. As an example they have the eyes and facial expression of sandy off of spongebob squarepants, everyone of them! With this being said if I am myself to them I end up being made fun of because of the way I talk or my mannerism, at worst I'm bullied. I tend to be silent and they wonder why I don't talk, They seem to not care about how they treat other people. How can I survive around here? |
| Question: How often do you hear about people having affairs? Posted: 22 May 2016 06:05 PM PDT do most people find out later on or does it depend on how discreet the affair is between two people? How discreet they make it without making it too obvious to other people to "find out" or get "suspicious"? |
| Question: My exes gf text me the other day telling me she got an std from him? Posted: 22 May 2016 05:33 PM PDT My ex husband has a gf for the last 5 years. We have not been intimate for about the same length of time. I ve been in my relationship for 4.5 yrs. I got a text from my exes gf stating she has an std and got it from him. She doesn t believe we have not been sleeping together so she wants to go to my bf and ask him to get tested so then she can believe it s not from me. She has been asked not to contact me already as she texts me for the stupidest things, usually things involving support or the divorce we r going though. My questions r 1) am I able to file a restraining order? And 2) can I deny visitation as the ex lives w the gf and I m worried about what they have or what my children can get from being there. I m trying to b rational and not overreact at this point. Any input would b helpful. |
| Posted: 22 May 2016 05:03 PM PDT Dan the man #yoloswag! |
| Question: Why do people get upset and cry when someone dies (please read)? Posted: 22 May 2016 04:46 PM PDT Well at least I think she is. Ever since her older sister was killed by a drunk driver, she has been dramatic and ****. She thinks everything is about HER! She sister lived in Texas where this girl is also from. Everytime she sees Hello Kitty stuff she starts getting emotional because it reminds her of her dumb sister. Come one! People die okay? It's not worth crying all the time and its been two in a half months already! Her sister was killed in February. I thought she'd be over it. She's in 7th grade and 13 like I am. Last month I was so pissed off at her and said that she is just bringing up drama about her sister ever since she died and told her to not bring up her sister. She told me to shut the **** up and stay out of her conversation. I'm so mad that she makes us black people feel negative and she wanted to talk **** and she asked for it. I yelled about her talking about her sister and stop throwing it at peoples face. Then she yelled at me, "My sister doesn't shout at me like you do so don't ******* shout at me and stop butting into my conversation!" I shoved her and she slapped me and beat me up. I slapped her and said, "I told you not to mess with me!!!" She got so pissed off but I don't care and I'm NOT apologizing! |
| Question: GUYS: What do you think of a girl named Patricia? Is that a good or bad name? Posted: 22 May 2016 04:29 PM PDT |
| Posted: 22 May 2016 04:07 PM PDT Im a 16 year old guy from Florida, and i met this girl who lives all the way in Ohio on the internet. We started to talk for a couple of months pretty much all day everyday. And i decided to ask her out because she just seems like the perfect girl, i love everything about her!!! I've fallen in love and I really want to go meet her. we both have talked about it several times and are serious about our relationship. We just don't know how to tell our parents and convince them to allow us. also i work so i would be able to cover the expenses of the trip:) thank you guys so much!! |
| Question: Friend booked the wrong hotel? Posted: 22 May 2016 03:58 PM PDT My friend and I were out one night and decided we wanted to go to the city 4th of July weekend, the 2nd-4th. She now tells me yesterday that the confirmation says June 17th-20th. I will be in Aruba on vacation those days. She obviously made a mistake when she booked it, and she's trying to put some of the blame on me. I never agreed to those dates because I won't even be in the country! We clearly discussed the 2nd to the 4th. To make matters worse, it's $300 a piece for the June dates versus $100 that was originally planned for the 4th of July. I'm not paying her $300. If anything I'll pay $100 for the July dates that I agreed to. Why should I pay 3x that amount for her error? She's pissed but it's not my faiult. It's not my mistake. Am I right? The hotel is non refundable and they won't switch the dates either |
| Question: Doesn't Lord of the Flies and Hatchet prove children can parent them selves? Posted: 22 May 2016 03:18 PM PDT Not like. They are fully autonomous from birth. But aren't those stories testaments of how easy it actually is to be a parent? like if kids are capable of these things. What's the point in people stressing out when parenting? |
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