My 81 yr old grandma passed away. I am shocked and I don't believe it. I can't stop crying. I'm 21. Is God real?

I am 17,5 years old guy. My mother (since my birth) has raised a fund in a bank that i will get when i turn 18 (in september of this year). It is meant for whatever I want to do with it in my life. So I told her that I would like to get an a2 motorcycle license and a bike. To that she replied that if this is my plan, I won't give you anything. She thinks that motorcycles are dangerous etc. I totally understand that part, but what she imagined was that I would spend it on some trip somewhere, or school supplies for university or paying rent for the first few months at the place where I am planning on going for studies or a new computer etc. But I have no need for those things, I have traveled plenty through my life and paying the rent with the money my mother has raised for me seems so meaningless. I am not from a rich family so this is the only chance in many years to come where i could afford to buy myself a motorcycle (it has been my dream for years) I completely unerstand why she is against it, but then all the aspect of becoming a mature and decisive adult becomes pointless when she decides what I can do with that money. What should i do in a situation like this? It is quite heartbreaking, because I had been waiting for that time for so long and now it just falls apart. So what could I tell her that could make her change her mind or understand me more. I have not mentioned that this is not some hard saved up money, it is like a program that bank offers, that you pay like 20€ per month since kids birth. And this money is not enough to pay for any sort of education, maybe just a minuscule part. It is only enough to pay for some kind of material thing cause it is sth like 2500€ total

I just had an argument with my mom about my computer since its monitor has stopped working for reasons that I don't know and now it has to be shipped for repair. She kept pulling other things into the conversation like how my almost three year old iPod touch stopped working but was fixed and my Samsung tablet stopped working completely. She kept blaming the issues on me and my usage of the devices. I tried to explain to her how I take very good care of my devices (which she has noted in the past) so it couldn't be me. I also said that technology will occasionally have problems and that's just how it goes. The argument got so bad that I started crying and yelling. I started walking away because I couldn't take it anymore and she "Don't walk away from me." and I said "Can you please stop yelling at me. I don't want to argue." and she told me that she wouldn't stop. She didn't even hold back yelling at me more and said that I should stop crying and that my tears don't scare her. I hate how she acts like a bully when she argues with me. It's so hard to keep my composure when she does this. She yelling at me as if it would fix the computer. There's no point to it except her wanting to prove me wrong. This happens all the time. Makes me more happy to be leaving for college soon so that I don't have to deal with this.

This older guy works for some family friends that my family and I are around a lot. He kept asking me to meet him in his hotel room and tried to grab me and stuff like that, but this weekend he actually tried to attack me. I m really scared to tell my family because I know they wouldn t believe me. I m scared to be around him and I m too young to carry a weapon around with me just in case I need one. I ve told him no so many times but it never stops. I just need some help, please.

5 months ago I found out I was moving and it devastated me. Ever since then I've been feeling sad all the time because I'm homeschooled and finally got friends here

I'm in highschool, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year, my parents love him. my boyfriend and my mom have a good relationship. We hang out almost every day. My mom and I don't have the best relationship, she grounds me all the time for the dumbest things. She's insane sometimes.. and my boyfriend knows that and does not like how she treats me, but she does everything for me and him. The other day, my mom and i were fighting and my boyfriend texted my mom saying how much he loves me and how he doesnt want us to fight, and that she should try a different approach to how she gets the point across to me. She got extremely offended by this and does not want to see him. We leave for florida in 2 weeks and he's coming with us.. she said she does not feel the same about him and she wants to forgive him, but she wants to "calm down before talking to him". I know how my mom is, she holds grudges and will yell. And i dont want my mom to make him uncomfortable and yell when they talk and I dont want them to have a bad relationship and i dont want it to end badly. I dont think he did anything wrong but my mom can be insane sometimes.. what should i do?

My professor sent me the Hole's anatomy CD via e-mail .( i study medicine btw) I replied " thank you, it was a pleasure to be your student. Good night ." She replied again " Hope we keep in contact from time to time. Hugs " Was that a clichè and a formal answer or she really meant it ? What do you think ?

Okay im 17 from uk, i recently pass my drivers test. My dad has this brand new Audi RS3.... while he was out on business meeting in new York i took his car out for a drive. My friends convinced me to do it even though i know i didn't want to in case i did crash it cause its a powerful car... we took it to a country side on this long road and i was going very fast... i tried snap chatting and driving at same time but lost control of the car.. i was doing like 50mph... the car power slided and i managed to dodge the lamppost but i went into a ditch and totally wrecked the front bumper and engine started smoking..... everyone was fine. My dads coming back next week... hes gonna ******* kill me... i might as well just arrange my own funeral. i drove the car back to the house in the terrible state it was. My dad is a high ranking government official, he has alot of money to repair the damage i think, even though he never tells me how much money he has, but i know hes gonna go crazy... im scared. i might run away. please tell me advice and dont tell me im stupid cause i know that i just want to fix this situation.

im 21 and I feel a bit depressed.....I live with my mom and I work full time in a restaurant. but many people who live in our building, Weather they are old or young, They think im a mommy's boy just because I live with her. its embarrassing because I feel like everyone is judging me. I dooo my own laundry, Buy my own food but people don't see that. Any advice :(

well, i never go out, im a mom, im 24, i work from home, so i decided to put an add on craiglist, to go to th movies, if someone could take me, and i got lots of replies, but my mom freaked out, and said no, cause they might force me, and ****, she started screaming and she said dont dare come to me with a baby, and it makes me sad, to think that she dont trust me at all besides if i wanted to have sex whats her problem? i havent had sex in like 2 yrs, since i got pregnant, of course if i decide to have sex it wuld be protected, but she makes me think that even with a condom im gonna get pregnant, and im just so deppressed and i cant take it nomore, i never get out of the house and i when i go outside to walk i take my baby, noone talks to me i assume they get scared since i have a baby i want to know why she is like that tome? i have little chance of meeting people here where i live. the people i see all look at me all pervs . so its the same thing if i go out with someone from craiglist. so i dont want to cause more drama, and i erased all th emails i got, and i just forget about it, even tho it hurts, bc im just so alone. she says to go out eith someone from here, but i dont like any of this old men, they are pervs too

The guy before could be stuck in your friendzone while you felt more interested in another guy at that time

I was walking at the hallway with my friend and i saw the girl I liked there & I was looking at her but then I looked away. Later when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. When she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me so I just looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop. So then when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and she was looking at me but then later left class early

She is in the armed forces(trained to be a lisensed killer)in defence of her Country, but she is against Abortion (so much so that she feels it should be criminalised because it's murder). She keeps bringing up the issue on FB,to my annoyance. Yes everyone has the right to their opinion. But I wondering if honestly you think I'm wrong if I find her attitude troubling

My husband and I been together almost twenty years, however we did get divorce for two of those years a lot of bad blood happen and the kids were stuck in the middle. My life was ok I got my own apptment had a job paid my bills until he asked to get back together after he divorce his new wife. We bought a new house we had a new baby. We argue on stupid things but figure things out. But his year since February his been acting werid with our arguments. He's telling me he's tired of all this **** and don't want to be with me. Our arguments are about money or the fact that I want to solve our issues by talking he don't want to bother by any of those things. The kids hear us and is now throwing things saying but words. I feel like look in his eye of hate I finally told him why does he hurt me like this and the kids. God gave us a second chance. He's cold and just say he don't know why his feeling this way. Our older son 17 text his sister saying they are fighting like when I was small. I try to keep my voice down is him that's says bad words and throws things. I feel broken for my kids I don't know what to do. He has been me feel this way for 20 years always saying I don't want to be with you. He confuse me cuz he cooks picks up the kids gives me gift does surprises for me. I am now seeing the same signs as years past. I don't to feel this emotional in balance in my life anymore. But I feel ashame that I am putting my kids threw this again. Help what to do.

My SIL is a attention seeker she always acts different around my past bfs and now especially towards my husband I can feel she's always trying to get his attention, get close to him and whatever my husband says she supports it or makes comments on how understanding she is towards him. Everytime we have family gatherings this bothers me, her attention is always on my husband and it's obvious. I feel awkward, invisible and don't know what to do, I can't avoid these gatherings either. I kind of brought this up to my husband and feel that since I did he pays more attention to her then it gets to me because we come home and he almost always will mention something about her, then it irritates me and leads to a fight. She used to live with me at my parents and we had these guys remodel the house and she would walk back and forth in front of them wearing a towel or bathing suit, then when my dad came home she told him that those guys kept staring at her, but the guys told my dad that they're trying to work and she was in the way and asked if she could go elsewhere. I know my brother could feel these things she does but of course he won't talk about it to me. Girls that need so much attention from every man in the room bugs me, I know I probably can't do much anything about this but I'm hoping anyone could respond to give some advice or just to make me feel better. Thanks

OK Last MONTH something told me to browse around the site meetme to see if my man was on there BAM I see his profile not only the same profile pic he met me in that site with but he was liking all these 18 year olds pics and he's 25 me and him have been dating since dec of 2014 and mind y'all this is the site me and him met on and them little bitches he was thirsting after lived NEAR HIM I questioned him and he told me he deleted the app off his phone but it never deleted his account and he "doesn't know how " to do that But when i confronted him he claimed he "Found out how to delete it and deleted it " THIS WAS LAST MONTH So last night out of curiosity I check meetme again AND I FOUND HIS PROFILE BUT IT WAS PRIVATE THIS TIME SO I COULDNT SEE WTF HE WAS DOING THEN HE CLAIMED THAT I WAS CRAZY FOR CHECKING AGAIN AND THAT HE "DEACTIVED THE ACCOUNT" If that was the case it would be Totally GONE SHOULD I FINALLY LEAVE ? SINCE HES CLEARLY LYING ALSO HE PUT THAT HE'S SINGLE on there and when i cursed him out he told me "goodbye im tired of dealing with your crazy a$$" AND ALSO HE PUT THAT HE'S SINGLE AND HE'S LOOKING TO MEET NEW PEOPLE GIRLS ONLY AND THAT HE LIVES ALONE WITH A FULLTIME JOB WTF and this is all recent hes been liking girls pics for months

My husband has been a drinker for our entire 11 1/2 yr relationship and recently we "me and him" have tried to get him thru the withdrawals stage with help of meds and AA but the docs he's seen are only dosing him at 25mg of librium every 8 hrs and he can cope the first few days but then it peaks and that dose isn't enough to keep him stable and the last time we tried he freaked out at that point and disappeared for two days on a bender, he came back wanting to get back on track and the same thing happened he peaked and freaked and that was Friday and he's still not home and the person the alcohol is twisting him into is breaking my heart it's making him so mean and cruel twards me and I'm at a loss at what to do...we thought of inpatient detox but it's financially not an option and he recently started a job that he can't lose my income alone is not nearly enough to get us by

so,I live a pretty boring life. I never go out with friends or anything since my dad is overprotective. About a month ago my parents had a huge fight and I lost my mind and started to scream,then my uncle came in and my dad told him a mistake I did a year ago,and I can never look at my uncle the same way. Also,I can't look at my dad the same way too! My father,who told away a secret and broke my mums laptop,and kicked my aunt out. The stupid thing is I have to wake up everyday as If everything is normal and okay. Honestly I don't want to me be. I don't want my parents o be together,it's like they're a match in hell. Before me my mum had another baby who died due to the stress my mum went to. She told me she would go to the bathroom and beat herself up. I don't know what to do,I don't want to be here. I don't want to be myself too. Also,I think my mum is cheating? I've seen her recieve a few pictures on her phone from a dude. She even forced me to save a number on my phone and see whenever the guy is online and WhatsApp. I dont know. I have good friends,but most of them just talk behind my back,I know because I've heard them talk. I don't think I'm really capable of building good friendships. About my dad's side,I don't like them at all. I don't like my grandmother etc they're all just so...judgmental and strict. They talked behind my mums back. My grandpa asked me if I'm married already...I'm not even 18!! I'm 13.

I like this girl for months, At first, we had one coffee meeting up but then she was busy. She plays hard to get, and I feel a bit tired. (she admitted if guy likes her, he will chase a lot). Accidentally, her real health problems prevent me from having date her frequently. I was scared to become needy so just only contact her enough. ( She still replies my texts slowly but consistently as she replies 1 day after my text was sent). The point is she makes lots of excuses not to hang out. Recently, I hanged out with her again, (around April) and she agreed to go for a lunch. After that, she admitted she is seeing other guys around March in a friend's party. She thought he is her new boyfriend, but after a while then tell me she is interested in him but said he is not her boyfriend yet. She said she thought I was friend because we just had one 2 meets. 2 weeks after that day, I stop contacting her for more than 3 weeks Does she has rebound? Will she come back?

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Okay so me and my bf have been together for a year but it s been hard because we re not allowed to be together because I m white and he s mixed. ( we are both 17) he was talking to his mom about it and she said something about when one of the parents are absent from their lives that someone is born with the birthday one day after the absent parents and that they are born to fill the space of that person, so if the absent persons was January 25 the girl born for hI m would be Jan 26. Does anyone know if this is true, I m not even sure if it s making any sense because I m really confused myself but yea she thinks we ll be able to make this work and be happy and thinks that I m the person that was born for him. So does anyone know where this theory originated or anything like that?

OK Last MONTH something told me to browse around the site meetme to see if my man was on there BAM I see his profile not only the same profile pic he met me in that site with but he was liking all these 18 year olds pics and he's 25 me and him have been dating since dec of 2014 and mind y'all this is the site me and him met on and them little bitches he was thirsting after lived NEAR HIM I questioned him and he told me he deleted the app off his phone but it never deleted his account and he "doesn't know how " to do that But when i confronted him he claimed he "Found out how to delete it and deleted it " THIS WAS LAST MONTH So last night out of curiosity I check meetme again AND I FOUND HIS PROFILE BUT IT WAS PRIVATE THIS TIME SO I COULDNT SEE WTF HE WAS DOING THEN HE CLAIMED THAT I WAS CRAZY FOR CHECKING AGAIN AND THAT HE "DEACTIVED THE ACCOUNT" If that was the case it would be Totally GONE SHOULD I FINALLY LEAVE ? SINCE HES CLEARLY LYING ALSO HE PUT THAT HE'S SINGLE on there and when i cursed him out he told me "goodbye im tired of dealing with your crazy a$$" AND ALSO HE PUT THAT HE'S SINGLE AND HE'S LOOKING TO MEET NEW PEOPLE GIRLS ONLY AND THAT HE LIVES ALONE WITH A FULLTIME JOB WTF and this is all recent hes been liking girls pics for months

I have been working for the company for a month and I like the job but the problem is that in the beginning, the manager said she needed somebody in the morning for part time only. I agreed to take the morning shift. But instead of working from 9:30 to 1:30 like on my schedule, they've been making me come in from 5:30 to 9:30 and I told them I really don't have a babysitter for my kids at that time. My babysitter for that time is my grandmother. She is 83 years old and it's almost like a kid taking care of a kid. From my point of view. She gets frustrated with the kids and sometimes forgets to feed them. I have a babysitter in the morning that doesn't charge a lot but still cares for my kids. I am 5 months pregnant with my third and my boss gets mad because I have the need to sit or snack or I need to go to the restroom. I don't need a 15 minute break just a few minutes not to feel dizzy and exhausted. I gave my boss a two week notice two weeks ago that I am quiting because of another job offer.. She still scheduled me to come in after I already got the other job. She then called my mom to tell her that I didn't show up and my mom called me and scolded me (She was in my emergency contact list) which now I think about it and I am removing my mom and putting my mother in law instead, who is nothing but nice to me I am just so mad that they would do that! I'm 25 how can I not choose where I want to work and when?My husband agreed with me also she has no problem if I work or not.

Ive been in this line for over 45 mins and they have bein kissing, humping , etc.