So it's my cousins wedding reception this Friday and I don't know what to wear. He got married over in Rome so only a handful of family (his brother and sisters, mum and dad) got to go and he's having a reception here so the rest of the family can celebrate, though I'll be the only one from my family going. Thing is I don't know what to wear at it. My dad was saying to wear a suit but I feel like I'd be overdoing it (the reception is at a golf club so that's why I'm thinking a suit would overdo it). Any ideas?

Hello, So I am planning our wedding and my fiance and I both do not like to dance and love playing games. Sooo.. I am looking for your help to help me think of fun games we can make personalized to us and our family. Also family feud is always a hit in our family get togethers. I am trying to think of good questions or a way to get our guests involved if we were to blow up family feud on the projector at our reception. (Only 80 guest s) Let me know your ideas! :D

She's on the pill but she said my man gravy is too overbearing and she's tired of the mess. Whether it be in her or on her or wherever I decide for my stuff to go she all the sudden doesn't like it so wants me to use a condom. Should I cancel the wedding or try to talk sense into her!?

My younger brother is getting married in August. He and my sister-in-law/friend had a child a little over a year ago, and so for the past 2 years (since the start of her pregnancy), all attention from our family and friends has been on her and my brother. I have no problem with this. I'm excited and happy for them - I'm even the maid-of-honor in their wedding. Recently, though, my boyfriend (of 3 years) and I have started talking about our future and the steps we'd like to take. Last week we made the decision to live together by the end of summer. We told a few family/friends and they were very excited and started talking about helping us look for places, the potential for a ring, family, etc.. I suppose it comes with the territory and direction we are heading. Because of this, though, the attention/conversations with family/friends have shifted from my brother/sister-in-laws wedding to helping my bf and I find a house and talk of our own wedding (which is pretty inevitable). I by no means want the attention, yet my sister-in-law is insisting that I'm trying to steal her thunder by announcing the move "right before the wedding". I've said many times, this was not our intention. We only told a few people in person, and the rest is word-of-mouth. No fb "announcement", nothing. I'm now thinking that until after the wedding, I keep our plans/progress quiet to avoid drama, but I can't help but think it could be taking away from our enjoyment of this milestone. What should I do?! Just to clarify, by saying "we only told a few people", it was done in passing conversation. Not an announcement. My family is rather large and tight-knit, so everyone tries to stay involved - not necessarily desirable or convenient for anyone. I'm just looking to keep peace all while enjoying the next step of my relationship.

Summary: (1) Incorporate info into STDs. (2) Post it on website, social media, &c. (3) Instruct others to "spread the word." (4) Put an insert into the wedding invitation.* (5) Invite them to your shower, so they get the info from the shower invitation.** (6) Tell people. *The article explains that this is OK since saying in an insert is oh so very different from saying it on the invitation itself. **The article does allow that it may be someone other than the bride who is giving the bridal shower (!) but is confident that the bride can require shower hosts to do her bidding. Do people who read this take it at face value? Are there really that many so clueless as to believe it's OK to say "Hey, I want you to get me present from this list" instead of waiting for people to ask "What sort of gift might you like?"