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- Question: My uncle asked if I'm a virgin, is this normal?
- Question: How do I approach a guy I like?
- Question: What is the rent control in Anaheim, CA?
- Question: When does a guy say juicy and/or juicylicious to a girl?
- Question: I do after class with my hot female teacher alone. I really like her is where to touch her butt accidently?
- Question: Does he seem interested? Should I ask him to hang out?
- Question: REALLY need someone's unbiased dating advise-Is this guy not interested or is he actually busy?
- Question: Family problem - What to do?
- Question: Ex wants me back but i have a new relationship....i'm really confused i need some help?
- Question: How do you feel when the person you're in a relationship with posts a lot of selfies on Facebook?
- Question: I think my stepsister likes me likes me?
- Question: If you sleep with a married man, does it mean you are a cheater too?
- Question: Is it ok to contact my ex after a month?
- Question: My dad used to pat my butt when he was finished hugging me.I told him to stop and of course he did?
- Question: Should I be mad at my ex girlfriend for still hanging with a former friend that wanted money for a gift he gave me?
- Question: So do you think this doesn't mean anything?
- Question: Anyone just feel trapped in their own house?
- Question: Help!!!!!! I got my bestfriend's wife pregnant!!! And his sister?
- Question: Can I flirt with this girl, she is married and getting a divorce?
- Question: Think I might have been sexually abused?
- Question: Como salgo de esta confusión me gusta un chico de mi colegio y un chico de mi clase de baile que hago?
- Question: Will giving him space make things better?
- Question: Why don't I want the same thing anymore? Is it a bad thing? Should I feel guilty for wanting something different?
- Question: Is he intrested?
- Question: I'm not sure why she did this stuff?
- Question: Why is my ex girlfriend pulling me in just too push me away ?
- Question: How to deal with a friend who doesn't think I'll be truly happy being a mom?
- Question: What to do about creepy freshman on bus?
- Question: Ex lover keeps running back to me?
- Question: Is she worth waiting for?
- Question: Why are women like this where I live?
- Question: Was this wrong?
- Question: Should I breakup with my girlfriend at a restaurant?
- Question: Vale la pena seguir, o son cosas estúpidas mías?
- Question: Does my nephew hate us?
| Question: My uncle asked if I'm a virgin, is this normal? Posted: 10 May 2016 02:56 PM PDT ok so, he was giving me a lift home from university and he starts asking me if i was dating anyone. as this was a perfectly normal question, i replied that i wasn't at the moment. however he continued to ask more questions which eventually led to him finding out i was bisexual. then he started asking me weird questions about what i had done sexually with girls and then with guys. when i didnt give him much info, he outright asked if i was a virgin. i refused to answer his question i told him i was uncomfortable with the topic. however he continued to talk about this. by the end of the conversation he and told me that bisexual women were a turn on for him which is info i don't need to know. should i be worried about this? just to add. I'm not a teen. i am a 20 year old woman who lives independently from my parents so telling them won't help as they really were horribly abusive. |
| Question: How do I approach a guy I like? Posted: 10 May 2016 02:09 PM PDT I work at the mall and I pass by a guy that I like.. Every morning or afternoon.. Depends what time I go in to work.. I like him but he's from Nepal and I'm Hispanic. I don't know if he would be interested. One of my coworkers asked me if I like him. I told her yes but I'm just shy to talk to him and I'm afraid he might tell me something. She asked for his phone number and gave it to me and I texted him but I'm just too shy like I said. And he doesn't know who I am.. I just see him when I pass by and he sees me but I've never talked to him. I bought a phone case from him once. Lol anyway, I don't know if I should leave it alone or talk to him? Or what do guys from Nepal like in girls? Or how should I approach him? I don't want him to be mad. I'm very sensitive and it would really destroy me if he embarrasses me or I get embarrassed in front of anyone else. |
| Question: What is the rent control in Anaheim, CA? Posted: 10 May 2016 02:06 PM PDT |
| Question: When does a guy say juicy and/or juicylicious to a girl? Posted: 10 May 2016 01:34 PM PDT I met my guy Friend (my crush) after about 8years. And he said, that I have become juicy, juicylicious! What does he mean by that? |
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| Question: Does he seem interested? Should I ask him to hang out? Posted: 10 May 2016 12:20 PM PDT Stares and quickly looks away when caught or smiles a bit, Maintaining eye contact when speaking to each other, fidgeting, When speaking in a group eye contact is mostly on me, discusses anything and everything together, always willing to help out, and quick to pick up anything I might of dropped. Lastly, he is not much of a big texter, but he is becoming better at replying. |
| Posted: 10 May 2016 11:59 AM PDT I've been dating a guy who's in his first year of law school for a little over a month. We would talk everyday via text and hang out whenever he had time. He was usually the one who would initiate contact and seemed like a really sweet guy. His finals started last week and he's been really stressed out, telling me he's been having a tough time studying, not sleeping well and just exhausted. We haven't seen each other since his finals started and he pretty much has disappeared this week. I texted him over the weekend and had made plans to meet up on Friday night but he fell asleep and messaged me the next morning telling me he hadn't been able to stay up late. That was the last I heard from him. I haven't tried to reach out again because I don't want to smoother him and am trying to give him his space. But I am concerned that he might not be interested anymore. Like I said, he would message me everyday and make a genuine effort to talk to me despite the fact that he was busy. I'm not sure if this new behavior is due to him being so stressed out and busy over finals. But is he really THAT busy that he cant send a text saying "hi"? We haven't talked in 3 days and I'm starting to get worried. Anyone have any advise? |
| Question: Family problem - What to do? Posted: 10 May 2016 11:17 AM PDT My nephew is 27 and I am his aunt There is a family holiday for a wedding coming up and my nephew is one of the only ones not coming, a few couldn't but the majority of the family is. The wedding was planned in November and at the time my nephew says "he didn't have the money" he lost his job and I told him to use his welfare money but he refused, he looked for a job, got one and saved money but he is now too late as bookings are finished, the holiday is in August 24th and and the close of date was April 1st. He is annoyed because first the close off date was August 1st but it changed and now he feels he is going to miss out on a family holiday since this is a rare once in a life time thing, I volunteered to go on holiday with him, just me and him but he says he doesn't want people feeling sorry for him, he doesn't have any close friends and could never afford to go on holiday as a child but I think this is all his fault, if he just stayed on welfare and used that he could be going but he is too stubborn and proud and just had to use his "own" money. We live in the UK and the holiday is in Italy, the date changed because if the UK leaves the EU in June it could bump up the price and even if the UK stays it is impossible to change anything now. He is avoiding family gatherings, he never answers his phone, has blocked chat on his Facebook. Is this justified? When he lost his job he had to pack up and move back in with his parents. Keep in mind he does want to go on the holiday but he can't as all the final list of names has been sent off for the wedding, there is no room for him I told him how sorry I feel for him and I did say I will go on holiday with him next year (just me and him) to make up for missing this one and he told me no and said I am only doing it because I feel sorry for him and not because I want to genuinely spend time with him |
| Question: Ex wants me back but i have a new relationship....i'm really confused i need some help? Posted: 10 May 2016 10:55 AM PDT Well my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me just before she was going to work abroad for a couple of months the relationship was not so good the last year but we loved each other a lot and we were ready to work on it ...but when she left she said we are not for each other and this way it will be for the best i didnt accept it very well and i didnt want to believe it , so i continued to talk to her and in some way i begged her to get back together she said she cared for me but dont want me back and while she was there she found some other guy who she said she was falling for him .... so since then 10 months have passed and i finaly got out of depression found a really nice girl and started dating her and everything is going great we are together for 1 month now... when my ex found out she started begging me to get back together that she made a huge mistake and she forgives me everything in the past and she is ready to give everything so we can be together again ... i begged for her at the beginning now she is i was ready to give her everything but then she didn t accept me ignored me now that i moved on she is telling me she cannot live without me and similar stuff please for opinion .... |
| Posted: 10 May 2016 10:49 AM PDT How do you feel when the person you're in a relationship with posts a lot of selfies on Facebook ? You are not included in these photos or mentioned on their page |
| Question: I think my stepsister likes me likes me? Posted: 10 May 2016 10:13 AM PDT Me and my stepsister has known each other for three years now and I'm starting to think she likes me more then just a stepbrother every time my mom and step dad and me plain going somewhere she wants to go to and if I make a mistake or I do something wrong she'll playfully hit me on the arm or the lag and she tease me sometimes and sometimes I'll see her steering at me and when I look she'll look away and blush |
| Question: If you sleep with a married man, does it mean you are a cheater too? Posted: 10 May 2016 09:34 AM PDT Sorry I didn't really know how to write what my question was in words but I mean. If you were to sleep with a man who was married, does it make you a cheater too? I know it definitely makes the man a cheater but what about the other person? |
| Question: Is it ok to contact my ex after a month? Posted: 10 May 2016 09:19 AM PDT We broke up a month ago. When I broke up with him, he said nothing & created a new facebook with these random girls. I told him all the things I thought were wrong, & asked why i'm not even worth a reply. Later we talked again and he said he felt he couldn't cope, and it wasn't fair to me & he realises his life is a really big mess & there are no other girls. He is angry at himself because he still likes me and thinks the world of me. He said hes's not cold or forgetful, it hurts everytime he thinks about it. He said he can't bear to break up or deal with it. So I said to him that I'm not angry & I understand what he's saying really, and I want him to be happy. This was a month ago, with no contact. I still think about him all the time and care about him, even when meeting another guy (nothing came from it). Should I message him? I have no idea what to say. It seems a shame to not even be friends, or keep in touch in some way. Since I broke up with him, I don't think he'd ever reach out to me, and he's hardly online. I was thinking of mentioning a few things he left at mine, that I can't keep them, because they remind me of him. |
| Posted: 10 May 2016 09:16 AM PDT .He felt so terrible for making me feel uncomforatble but it still lingers my mind a bit? should i bring up to him again? |
| Posted: 10 May 2016 08:42 AM PDT My former friend and I got in an argument where he asked me to but a stranger beer and he got upset. Two weeks later he told me to f*ck off and demanded money out of me for a gift he gave me a while back. He ended up burning the bridge. I told my girlfriend about this before we broke up and she knows the entire story, but she still hangs out with him and never tells me about it. My girlfriend decided to break up shortly after because we had gotten into fights frequently and she became half-hearted. Now, after a month of not contacting each other, I saw her the other day with my former friend. I felt that she is not phased at all about us. She still views him as her friend, even though she knows what he had done to me. Do I have any right to feel angry about this or am I irrational? |
| Question: So do you think this doesn't mean anything? Posted: 10 May 2016 08:15 AM PDT I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there and I was looking at her but then I looked away. Then later when we passed by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend and was looking straight ahead then later when she came to class she caught me looking then later she went over to talk to her friend and I was looking at her but then I stop then later I turn around and I saw her at the back of the class and was looking at me but then later she left class early |
| Question: Anyone just feel trapped in their own house? Posted: 10 May 2016 07:37 AM PDT I am a 15 years old boy, I live with my parents, we shifted to a new place, Since moving, I feel like I've been placed under a microscope. The door to my bedroom doesn't close, so I have ZERO privacy. I left all my friends back at school, and I can't even go visit them overnight without getting bonbarded by phonecalls from my mom asking when am I coming home. Whenever I go outside to enjoy or make new friends my Mom calls a thousand time in 15 minutes, she thinks I'll be kidnapped or something, she hears a lot of news, i think's that's the reason....but I don't see the point, it's my ******* street and other kids my age are playing like normal, why the f**k is anyone kidnap me? I loved to play football, but now since I have not even touched it for two years now, i dont know how to kick! I have lost all my energy, even my f***in weight, I'm depressed, I dont exercise, I don't have friends and I'm gonna go crazy If I stay at my home.... |
| Question: Help!!!!!! I got my bestfriend's wife pregnant!!! And his sister? Posted: 10 May 2016 06:29 AM PDT Okay so a couple months ago my bestfriend Got married to a girl I use to have a thing with. He doesn't know we had a thing. He made me his best man, and I got hell ah wasted that night. I ****** his sister and his wife, he was passed out. So she came in my room while I was ******* his sister. And we had a 3 way (on his wedding night). Fast forward to last week I get a call from his wife that she's pregnant. Then my friend told me his wife is pregnant and he doesn't think it's his kid, here's the thing I've been ******* her since they've been married and he told me they hardly have sex. So the kid is defiantly mine. Then his sister just called me that she's pregnant too (I've been ******* her too)... Thing is I'm already dating three other girls and have 10 kids with 7 differnt girls. Sos I was wondering how can I tell my friend I got his wife and sister pregnant? |
| Question: Can I flirt with this girl, she is married and getting a divorce? Posted: 10 May 2016 03:50 AM PDT I know this girl, let's say her name is Star. Star is getting a divorce because her husband, Scarr, is blatantly having an affair with another woman and doesn't seem to care. They have a child together. Star's best friend, Candy, who happens to be my best friends girlfriend, brought her to me to seek my advice because I am a wise wizard who is great with giving women advice. And so apparently she is divorcing him now but she is really scared. I told her she should do it anyways, she has a good job that pays well. However, she seems to be attracted to me. And I think she is downright gorgeous. But I don't know what to do, I don't want to mess around with a married chick, and I don't want to be anything serious with a girl who has a kid already. Can I flirt with her and hit on her, or is that not ok until she is divorced? What? I'm very confused when I'm around her. |
| Question: Think I might have been sexually abused? Posted: 09 May 2016 11:51 PM PDT The details are in this link since I couldn t type it all here. I apologize for it being long. It starts with the bottom right one and goes clockwise. https://www.flickr.com/photos/140863873@N05/shares/92g9RL |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 11:40 PM PDT Ya hice mi examen de afinidad y el. Chico de mi clase de baile se parece más a lo que me gustaría de un hombre, divertido que le guste bailar, que se ría conmigo. Sin embargo tengo una batalla conmigo misma tratando deq el chico de mi colegio ya no me interese y siempre hay algo que me lo impide, el es muy cortante conmigo, me confunden sus actitudes y le gusta alguien más entonces no sé que debo hacer para decidir bn por uno |
| Question: Will giving him space make things better? Posted: 09 May 2016 11:07 PM PDT Got into an argument with this guy I'm dating for 3 months. It's our first real blow up. Isn't too serious, but enough to leave him and I questionable. I was upset he didn't text me all day and so I texted him before bed to let him know I was upset. He told me he's in pain because of his tooth and I disregarded that when he mentioned canceling plans on me. I was upset and wasn't too concerned about him and instead just said okay, what else? Started arguing and I apologized. We haven't talked all day today. Thinking that he just needs space from me right now... But also, what if he wanted me to check in to see how he's doing? |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 09:53 PM PDT I'm a female, 24. In my teens I was always the over achiever. Everyone saw me doing something great. My goals were always to become someone accomplished. All this remained the same when I got into a rel with my current bf who ive known for years. In fact, once he mentioned tht maybe in the future when we r married he would earn enough to support us & stay home to nuture our family if I wanted & I freaked out! There was no way i was going to be a housewife & live the simple life like the old days! I was doing well at my job & studying n i got really sick, had to do a surgery & had to leave my job to recover. Ive been sick on n off for the last 2 yrs of which ive not been able to work, but I continued with my studies. It was only last yr end i found that im losing interest in the studying & i realised i had zero motivation & i don't want to complete it, the reason being i seem to actually WANT to become a wife & mom with that simple traditional lifestyle of a housewife n mom. Its seeming sooo attractive to me right now it's literally all i can think about. My bf supports whatever decision i make but i feel like i might disappoint my father by telling him i no longer have the desire for the goals I previously had! Idk what to do im majorly stressed over this becoz he keeps asking how things r going with the studies & they truly aren't going anywhere. How can i get rid of this 'itch to settle down'? N do i even have to feel bad? How do i tell my dad without disappointing him? |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 09:29 PM PDT Stares and quickly looks away when caught or smiles a bit, Maintaining eye contact when speaking to each other, fidgeting, When speaking in a group eye contact is mostly on me, discusses anything and everything together, always willing to help out, and quick to pick up anything I might of dropped. Lastly, he is not much of a big texter, but he is becoming better at replying. |
| Question: I'm not sure why she did this stuff? Posted: 09 May 2016 08:18 PM PDT My friend and i were walking at the hallway and I saw the girl I like there and I was looking at her but I looked away then later when we passed by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then later when she came to class she caught me looking so I looked away then later when she went over to talk to her firend I was looking at her but then I stop looking so then later when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and was looking at me but then later she left class early. |
| Question: Why is my ex girlfriend pulling me in just too push me away ? Posted: 09 May 2016 06:58 PM PDT I broke up with this girl 10 yrs ago we recently got back in contact with each other she baits me in just too put her foot down why is she doing this? Is she toying with me? |
| Question: How to deal with a friend who doesn't think I'll be truly happy being a mom? Posted: 09 May 2016 06:35 PM PDT Background info: My bff got pregnant soon after high school ended. She dated the father for 3 months, decided to marry him, got pregnant in that short time frame, and 2 weeks later they divorced. She's worked her butt off to support her child, even working multiple jobs at once, since the father is in and out of jail for drugs. I know that her life has been rough as a single mom and she's struggled a lot. But many people have also helped her. She finally got a place of her own last month and her child will be 3 at the end of this year. My life is vastly different. My hubby and I have been together 7 years, since high school. We saved our money, planned a wedding, moved out into an apartment, and eventually bought our first house last year at 23 years old. That's when we decided to try for our first child when we hit our 3 yr wedding anniversary. The whole time we tried my bff was unsupportive. She kept dropping comments like having kids will ruin our marriage and she doesn't understand why people want kids. She has a love-hate relationship with being a mom. In one hand, I know she loves her daughter and wants to give her everything, but at the same time she never wanted to be a mom and is kind of miserable struggling so much. It's as if she thinks my life will be the same way now that I'm 18 weeks pregnant with my first child. She knows how long we prayed and wanted this, she knows I've ALWAYS wanted to be a mom. But she still doesn't understand I'm genuinely happy. |
| Question: What to do about creepy freshman on bus? Posted: 09 May 2016 06:17 PM PDT I'm a junior in high school and there is this freshman who's been sitting next to me on the bus since the third month of school. I let him sit there to be nice and will have causal conversations with him even though he is awkward. About a month into knowing him he somehow got my number and texted me about his foot fetish and said only I, his girlfriend, and some random chick know. That was the first warning sign in my head that I should stay away. Fast forward to now and he's still sitting next to me even though I've told him not to. The last straw was the other days when I was siting in the seat diagonally behind him and had my feet in the aisle, my shoe fell off and when I got it and sat up, he was on the edge of his seat full on staring at me. He later texted me asking if I hated him because of his foot fetish, I asked if he brought it up because he saw my foot earlier to which he replied "maybe." Today I started ignoring him and he texted me asking if it's okay that he stares at my feet. I find him utterly repulsive and don't know how to avoid him when he is on the same school bus, please help me people of yahoo answers. |
| Question: Ex lover keeps running back to me? Posted: 09 May 2016 05:48 PM PDT I was hooking up with someone who did not want a relationship I cut ties with him but he runs back to me when he's in distress or going through a personal issue. Does this mean he might be liked me or he just feels comfortable to confide in me? |
| Question: Is she worth waiting for? Posted: 09 May 2016 05:17 PM PDT Recently I found out that the girl I like likes me back. I didn't hear directly from me but I have heard from mutual friends and coworkers that she does but I have made attempts to hangout with her but she is always busy or when she's free, our schedules don't match. It's exceptionally difficult to try to hangout with her because she's always busy. I don't mind taking things slow but I am concerned that it may take weeks to even take her on a date. I just have a very bad feeling about all of this. |
| Question: Why are women like this where I live? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:43 PM PDT Where I live, every girl I meet out here dresses very shaggy. They have a violent agreesive nature, and ranges from being hostile to just being okay with you up front. These girls tend to get into a lot of brawls and fights, like you'd see them in the streets fighting. They seem to be just unhappy or angry. These girls would beat you up if you just look them straight in the eye. They usually preach to everybody 'I come from a family that takes nothing off of nobody, if you give me s h I t expect s h I t back!' They don't seem to have any purpose, as I've seen them beat up old people and steal from just about anyone and everything. My sister hangs with a few and she told me stories where they were getting drugs for their boyfriend and stuff like that, What in the heck is wrong with these girls? |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 04:08 PM PDT My mom is friends with this women, who I didn't know very well and ever since my mom became sick she has become more involved in my life. She always want to do something, everyday I have off from work she's calling and texting. I'm so happy to have her, but she's become very involved that I don't have much time for just myself. I work two job and go to school which she knows and since my mom became sick I've been doing a lot more to help her. This women at times is slightly judgemental. She's extremely religious and likes for her beliefs to be known. She's very critical towards the LGBT community and tells me there is a horrible place for them in the after life. She even accused my friend of being a lesbian and a sinner since she invited me to live with her. She even bashed a kind friend of hers because she a child out of wedlock and disowned her. She's of course very nice, but very Christian at the same time. Today she invited me to do something with her family, despite knowing I'm bad with large crowds and social situations. I thanked her and made a hint that it might be difficult since I had a sport to attend tonight, that she ignored. But soon, on my way there, my sibling messaged me that they needed me home for something involving our mom. I told this women about it and apologized and tried to find a new day all in text and all she replied was, 'Okay...' She later told me fine and now is refusing to text me back. Was it wrong? |
| Question: Should I breakup with my girlfriend at a restaurant? Posted: 09 May 2016 03:28 PM PDT Ok so we have been together for about six months or so. And really its been six months of hell! She is crazy and abusive then she becomes this angel overnight. I met this really sweet Japanese girl online. I have been taking to her through an interpreter. Anyway I have to break up with my current crazy girlfriend. I was thinking at a restaurant because I don't know what she might do? She has been recently taking up shooting lessons with her Dad! please help |
| Question: Vale la pena seguir, o son cosas estúpidas mías? Posted: 09 May 2016 02:55 PM PDT resumiendo, se trata de mi mejor amiga, nos conocemos de toda la vida (ambos 16 años) nunca fuimos tan apegado en la escuela de echo solo llegábamos al lado del otro para fastidiarnos, extraña amistad no? Así fue hasta que entramos a instituto todos nuestros amigos cogieron rumbos diferente y para mi mala o buena suerte ella esta en el mismo instituto que yo. Los primeros días no conocíamos a nadie era un gran alivio encontrarnos, abrazos y nos sentábamos a hablar pero a las semanas cambio todo (desde el primer día de instituto me enamore de ella fue extraño pero verdadero) a las semanas ella era como un imán de chicos, muchos querían andar con ella incluso ella misma me lo contaba y bueno yo no podía reclamar nada más que mis celos, me enoje con ella muchas vece puesto que en ese tiempo literalmente los prefería a ellos antes que a mi pero yo no podía hacerle lo mismo pues se ofendida entonces era raro.-. Al cabo de otras semanas de la nada volvimos a acercarnos como si nada hubiese pasado para todo ese tiempo todos creían que andábamos, hasta que de la nada apareció otro pretendiente de ella, la diferencia? Ella si lo quiere, ya me lo a presentado y lógicamente dolió que me dijera que si a mí me agradaría si el fuera su novio, hasta el dia de hoy (todo lo narrado va desde enero hasta este dia) e tratado de alejarme pero es difícil siento el querer buscarla o inclusive a veces me pregunta por que me alejo quiero olvidarla y no puedo más aún por que me alejo quiero olvidarla y no puedo más aún por que ella me confunde :$ le digo que no quiero verlo o que buscaré a alguien para no molestarla inclusive le presente a una chica bromeando si le gustaría que ella fuera mi novia pero ella se cela, me dice "no me dejes" "me odias?" "me reemplazaste" "no la quiero como tu novia" "estaré siempre para ti" tengo ma que claro que me toma como su hermano, pero inclusive le e preguntado el por qué nunca anduvimos o si soy mala pareja para ella, tengo mas que claro que me toma como su hermano siempre se enoja cuán le pregunto cosas así entonces si no me quiere por que me confunde más y se pone celosa? Hablarle y estar con ella me duele mas aun cuando me habla d su amigo el cual es con quiere andar y ya no le encuentro necesidad a la amistad.. Que ago? Aunque creo que no explique bien :$ consejos serian muy bien venidos puesto que cada semana con ella es una nueva historia.. Agradecería si me aconsejaran seguido :$ |
| Question: Does my nephew hate us? Posted: 09 May 2016 01:17 PM PDT /My nephew is 27 and I am his aunt There is a family holiday for a wedding coming up and my nephew is one of the only ones not coming, a few couldn't but the majority of the family is. The wedding was planned in November and at the time my nephew says "he didn't have the money" he lost his job and I told him to use his welfare money but he refused, he looked for a job, got one and saved money but he is now too late as bookings are finished, the holiday is in August 24th and and the close of date was April 1st. He is annoyed because first the close off date was August 1st but it changed and now he feels he is going to miss out on a family holiday since this is a rare once in a life time thing, I volunteered to go on holiday with him, just me and him but he says he doesn't want people feeling sorry for him, he doesn't have any close friends and could never afford to go on holiday as a child but I think this is all his fault, if he just stayed on welfare and used that he could be going but he is too stubborn and proud and just had to use his "own" money. We live in the UK and the holiday is in Italy, the date changed because if the UK leaves the EU in June it could bump up the price and even if the UK stays it is impossible to change anything now. He is avoiding family gatherings, he never answers his phone, has blocked chat on his Facebook. Is this justified? When he lost his job he had to pack up and move back in with his parents. Keep in mind he does want to go on the holiday but he can't as all the final list of names has been sent off for the wedding, there is no room for him I told him how sorry I feel for him and I did say I will go on holiday with him next year (just me and him) to make up for missing this one and he told me no and said I am only doing it because I feel sorry for him and not because I want to genuinely spend time with him |
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