My sister and I live together in a house we bought. We split all the bills 50/50, but the house is in her name... We're both single and have been for years, and we love living with each other...but we have this big 4bd house and no kids. We have cats, not kids. I'm ready to have a baby, but she's never really liked the idea of having any kids of her own. I don't know how she'll react if I tell her I want to have a child. I'm worried she'll be so unhappy that she'll want me to move out of our house...which would be awful for me as I love this place. Am I being selfish in wanting a child, and therefore changing what my sister and I have been doing for the last 10 years?

She is stingy. For her 7 yo old daughter birthday party, she served hummus and bread. No birthday cake, no present. She expected my mom to buy her the birthday gift and pay for ONE pizza. She feeds her children 7 grapes for breakfast. No new clothes for years. She doesnt cook them anything. Just rice, beans, hummus and cheap stuff. IDK if she refuses to pay for college. She HAS money. She rarely gets them toys. No vacations. Why does she put $$ a priority?

I hate everything they teach us at school because I literally find it useless and because of that I never try to do my homework or learn. I am getting bullied and being name-called because I seriously don't want to learn and I have bad grades because of that. People say i am stupid and so does my mom (everyday) because of my bad grades... I literally can't stand this anymore and I want tips on how to deal with the bullies and my mom that keeps telling me I'm stupid. I threw words back at her because I seriously couldn't be arsed to handle a "you are stupid" everyday. My english is bad sorry about that. I forgot to add that I'm very good at programming and I learn very fast and that's why I really don't understand why they are calling me stupid.

I was 13 yo old girl. My aunt was 45 with three children and she wasn't in a happy marriage. She was insecure, unattractive, and her husband belittles her at home. She hates me. And she mad fun of my weight and she taught her 7 yo old girl how to call me fat. 7 yo old used to stalk me and spy on me. I said I wanted to write a book and then the 7 yo old said she didn't care and then she started to copy me. My hairstyle, the way I eat, the way I spoke, and played the same Just Dance Games. WHen I said not to waste food, 7 yo old started to say im not hungry, I just ate, that is too much milk. I will only eat 2 chocolates. Then her mother said to her "She is beautiful, blonde, green eyes, but she is fat." Then she called me fat 20-30 times, and she said my hair was "dirty" blonde. Then she just follows me around. There are kids her own age. Why is she stalking a 13 yo old girl? And why was my aunt putting me down? Im a teen,

So my brothers and sisters have made arrangements for a family reunion/vacation this summer which would require my mom and I to travel as they live out of state. I miss my family and haven't visited them in 6 years as I've been focused completely on my job. I've worked as a part time janitor/contract cleaner over the years to build up my savings while I attend college, so I haven't had a vacation in years. My mom is going but the issue is that visiting them means I would have to quit as my job requires employees to be on call 365 days a year without vacation time (due to their high turnover rate). Basically a dilemma of job security vs family, I miss my family but afraid to quit my job, what to do?

So I know I lot of people probably have it worse than me but my family could also say my life is pretty undesirable. I want to be emancipated when I turn 17 in June, or move in with my grandma or father. However, without jurisdiction in Wisconsin defining this I'm not sure how to go about doing this. First off, since I've gotten a job, about a year ago in June, my parents (mom and her boyfriend of 7 years) have been taking my money. They say they are "borrowing it" and that they will pay me back, however my mother lives off child support from my dad, and government help for food and her boyfriend hasn't had a steady job since I can't remember. He is supposed to be starting a job on Friday but I doubt that it's going to last long as he has issues with people who he finds to be "disrespectful" to him. On my first check of about $400 my mom "borrowed" $270 and I haven't received a penny of that back. Another time, with the money I received from my dad for drivers ed ($200) my mom "borrowed" and I had to pay for driver's ed myself and let my dad think that the money was from him. The most recent time, around a month ago my mom "borrowed" $100 dollars from me and promises to start paying it back to me in $20 increments and I doubt I will receive any of that back anytime soon or at all. She bribed me by saying I could use the tv (what I was going to buy with that $100) until I could afford to get another tv. She also asks me at least once a week if not more for money to buy her boyfriend beer or cigarettes. She does this to my grandma as well and my grandma can't afford to keep giving her money all the time. For these reasons I don't believe she is financially able to take care of me and I shouldn't have to be forced to give my mom money or she will take my phone away or some other form of punishment. Next, I pay for my phone, I bought it, and I pay for our internet. My phone bill is $35 a month and the internet is $47 a month. I believe this shows responsibility. I also pay for my own gas (about $40 per month) I do not receive new clothes very often and when I do it is from the clothes closet, a gift, or something I've purchased myself. I have good grades in school, and for the most part stay out of trouble (except for a recent accident that happened and I was suspended for half the day) I hope this doesn't ruin any chances of anything. Lastly, my mom's boyfriend is very emotionally/mentally abusive to me. 90% of the time my mom and her boyfriend fight Mike (boyfriend) says its my fault. They give me no privacy, my phone is constantly being taken away when they feel I "deleted messages" or I was talking to someone they didn't want me talking to (people I know personally from school etc.) and I pay for it. (my mom and her boyfriend have government provided phones one of which is in my grandma's name) There are a few recurring problems between me and Mike, and those are that he feels I am being disrespectful when I'm not talking loud enough for him to hear. Or that I'm a lazy brat who thinks that I can do whatever I want, because I forgot to do something or didn't do something the way he wanted it done. When he gets really upset he starts calling me names like *****, etc He is constantly calling me lazy and snobby and putting me down and making me feel like crap, and he rarely apologizes for it later. He says it's in the "heat of the moment" but he is still constantly putting me down and making me feel like crap about myself. I've tried explaining this to my mom before that he is just downright mean to me because he says he is treated like crap by us all and they will argue for a while and I will end up being in trouble because he twisted it around and made it so that I'm the bad guy. They are constantly fighting, about the dumbest things and yelling and way in the past there have been times where once he pushed my mom to the floor and one time I believe he smacked her, both times the police were involved and she sold various items (including my laptop which I received as a gift for my birthday from hers and my dad's money combined) to bail him out of jail. He does have a criminal record, nothing too bad, he just doesn't like people who "think they're better than him". My grandma gave me her car for my birthday since she doesn't do much driving anyways, but then bought herself a van. I drive my sister and I to school everyday and pay for gas as I mentioned earlier. My mom is currently using my grandma's van because her van has a popped tire and they can't afford to fix it, and I believe she plans to buy the van from my grandma, I'm not sure how considering she can't even afford to buy a new tire. Sometimes she uses my car when she is low on gas which isn't really a problem but it bothers me, not really important. But I believe this is a really messed up way to live and I want out. I'm sick of dealing with my parents who use me for money and to babysit and clean the house. I believe those are the only reasons they even want me there. I can't take it anymore it is way too stressful and I don't deserve to be treated this way anymore.

My ex husband and his family are angry that they are no longer invited to holiday dinners and gatherings at my mothers house. We share children together and have been divorced for over two years and I am currently in a relationship with someone new. Fyi It has nothing to do with my new partner. My ex and his family and always been ingrateful and rude to my mother and are mooches. They also have no where to go because they have burned bridges with most of their extended family. I also do not want my kids to get he wrong idea that we are getting back together. I would like to move on with my life. Am I wrong for doing this?

My mother in law hates me, not because I've ever hurt her son but because in my past I was in a 5 year relationship and I lived with the guy for 3 years. Shes a stubborn woman who doesn't see that I truly care for her son and I want to one day have a family with him. I am a very hardworking, independent, stands up for what she believes in - type of woman. I'm not the type to disrespect anyone or to pick a fight but she even told him not to bring me over for Mother's day a few days ago. How do I deal with this? Have you ever experienced something like this?

Do I need her biological father's permission. I understand that I need it for a passport but I planned to skip the passport and use the birth certificate. I'm not sure if customs would question her birth certificate since her biological dad signed it. What should I do? Should I just go and chance it or should I reach be out to him and attempt to get a letter of permission. I haven't talked to him in almost two years. He is very unpredictable and his new wife doesn't make the situation any better. If I can avoid him I would love that

For some reason, parents and other people seem to be more inclined to seeing me as the bad person and not my eldest sibling whenever I tell them I was excluded from a program where males are made metrosexual and that it's my eldest sibling who is the one who assaulted family members. Someone here likes to make it look like that way, especially when I try to prove my innocence that I'm not a bad person. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160508063601AAR07sf ^ The above link is also an example of others making me look like a paedophile and a violent person whenever I try to prove my innocence. I'm not a paedophile or the violent child of the family.

My senior trip is to disney and it costs $1200 and my parents think its a waste of money but i want to go sooooooo badly!!! Its my dream to go and also it is a learning experience cuz i would be going on a plane and stuff without my parents.

Ive been wanting my parents to have a baby for 3 months because i want my family to be bigger than it already is but my dad says that my mother is too old shes 44 and my dad is 50 but my dad says that my mother stopped producing eggs so she cant but thats mot true because she can still have even if she is 44.

Said its just anxiety ugh its been 2 weeks happening to him but now got a lot of worser he did a blood test results came clear Tell me WHATS WRON WITH HIM He is seein colours in his vision and cant see anything IS HE GOIN BLIND? WHAT I DO HE IS JUST 15 HELO ASAP he cant look at the light or it will happens also he had a blurred vision too he is calling doctor now but im Asking what it would it be?!HELP HE IS SCRRAMING saying DAD DAD and close his eyes

I don t think my son s wife s children from her first marriage would be considered "step-grandchildren" since I, myself, am not a step-mother to begin with. How would I refer to my son s wife s children from a previous marriage?

I am a guy and I love my parents very much and I don't hate them but I find what gets me in trouble is that I have a big mouth and I give attitude sometimes. How can I control my mouth and my attitude?

In September I was in rehab and my roommate keeps giving me and her hands romed my body and she got up changed her shirt in front of my and be gain hugging me more,she repeatedly ask for my number, she put her hands under my shirt and touched my stomach was I sexualy asslted? Is it otay to be sad over this?

my kid brother scott is a CS major and when we meet on the weekends at our parents home yard work or menial labor somehow escape him. He'll often be tasked with setting up smart phones tablets new tvs etc. But when it comes to stacking wood, snowblowing or help dad in the garage its always ME. My parents tell me it's because he works with his brain all day and my job in a steel foundry makes me a better choice for "physical work". I tell them its not fair but they always shrug it off and tell me if i don't like it. Just refuse to do it at which point my Mom would be out there digging in the yard on weekends

For as long as I can remember she has been acting crazy. She always has these unrealistic fears, for example she once told me to close the small window in my bathroom because she didn't want someone putting poisonous gas into it?!? She also talks and acts like a young child although she's in her 60s. She won't take care of herself but nonstop talks me all day and forces me to tell her every detail of my day or she will get mad. she also orders me and my dad everywhere and polices our every move. She keeps sending herself to the hospital and they keep sending her back because they don't find a physical problem, if they give her any tips she won't follow them. She once went 3 days in a row. She also seems to get angry at people at bad times and stopped talking to 2 of her friends of 40 years after their mothers died. She did the same with her cousin after her son died and insisted they wanted money from her. Can anyone tell me what this problem might be I at least want to know what I'm dealing with since I'm often stuck in the house with her.

I have a 12 year old boy. I am trying to help him be more independent since he has been in daycare a lot and coddled by my mom. Yesterday, we were at his house and the whole family was there. A car was coming down the center of the road and I told him to get out of the road while a 5 year old ran off the street instinctively. He said "wow I didnt even see that car thanks mom" and my mom said "Thats because your cousin lives in the city and she is used to cars". We both live in the suburbs, 5 minutes away. This morning, I was asking him to hurry and get ready. He stuffed his shoe laces in the sides of his shoes and I told him no, you tie them so you don't trip at school. My mom chimed in again on the phone this time saying "Well you told him to hurry, so he's hurrying what do you want?" I told her I don't want him falling on his face at school. Why does she take a 12 year olds side?

So recently I have been arguing with my mom because she says she wants to move down south and that she's going to do all these things like clean the house and plant flowers and stuff.. I work 5 days a week 35 hours a week and the two days I do have off my mom doesn't take showers until around 12 or 1 pm and she's not dressed and ready until around 2 or 3 sometimes even 4pm ... when I ask why she says its because she's "Doing lots of loads of laundry" Or on the phone with insurance..... is that an excuse ?

It's so obvious, but he doesn't realize it. None of his friends or his brother tell him anything. It's so sad. I don't know what to do. She left me and my dad when we were in a financial crisis. A year and a half later, when we got out of it, and my dad got a really good paying job in another country, she moved back in. And she asked for so much money from him. She'd ask $500 to redecorate my room for example, and then she spends $50 for actual redecorating supplies, and keeps the rest. I'm 19, won't be living too long here, because I'm off for college soon. But she's so using him... Even worse, she's been living at home for 5 months now, and she told my dad, that as soon as my grandfather leaves his apartment SHE'LL MOVE BACK THERE, and my dad still doesn't do or say ANYTHING... I feel like I should do something about it, because I was the one watching him suffer for a year working 2-3 jobs while I was in high school, and we almost starved because of that debt for a whole year but I stood by my fathers side. I went to work with him every time I could etc. But I don't know what should I do. I feel like telling him straight up is a huge disrespect.. Help? I need some advice.

My father committed suicide when I was 6, and unfortunately left me with my stubborn, PTSD-plagued mother, who is also an alcoholic, if you ask me. I have no actual brothers, just a stepbrother form my fathers side who she says will kill me if I go out with him alone cause I am but a bag of money for him. Now, relationship wasn't always this way. I used to have a beautiful relationship with my mother that everyone envied, and I still do sometimes, ya know, when she is sober or NOT acting out. She can be really nice, supportive and all the fluffy cute stuff, but then she turns cold and evil.. Here is one of the main problems: She never lets me cry. Not as in ''She never lets anyone hurt my feelings'', but as in she literally yells at me when I cry. Now, I cry very rarely, almost never. Not even when my father died, nor my grandfather, and so on(no, I am not emotionless, I just don't really cry), but in these past few weeks, I actually started crying(but it's still not that often). Today, I came home and started complaining about how my teacher set me up to debate with my crush, tomorrow(who I cant even come close to), and she started yelling at me about how I'm never satisfied with anything, how I always complain about my problems every day I come from school(which is not true), how I never ask her ''How was work?'' or ''Did you get tired from working that much?''(she slacks off all the time and is late every day, but her main argument for that is ''I deserved it''). After her starting to criticise me and all, I felt like crying. So, when she went upstairs, I stayed on the 2nd floor and just cried, or at least tried,(see, I have atychiphobia, and have a very low self-esteem)she came down and started yelling and starting to threaten me by saying that she will go to my teachers tomorrow, again, and argue with them and call them ignorant for ever putting me in any of those competitions. She thinks that crying will make me a mentally disturbed child in some way. The moment we have a fight she is calling all her friends, her stupid (not)boyfriend, and gossiping and bitching aroun. She always refuses to see my flaws, always follows me wherever I go, bothers me(I don't mind hugs and kisses, but only in a regular amount), try to make me stay in bed with her forever(cause apparently she doesn't even let me sleep in my own room, and she loves just laying around and being useless and lazy), hates my grandmother and her brother, and so on. Don't get me wrong, I get that she has a medical condition and all, but I don't want my childhood any more ruined. I don't want to give away my freedom just to take care of her and still have to listen to insults, if not directed to me, then to someone else(cause let's get real here, if anyone in this household is complaining it's her, cause her every day is full of stress, and there's always a new stressful situation that gives her an ''excuse'' to drink).

Due to a break with her father and not having a place to go, my daughter and I moved back into my parents house until I can get up on my feet and get into my own apartment with her. For now, how do I get them to stop doing what they're doing? They help me out because I have to be at work before her daycare even opens and my mom takes her for me. I hate how my mom disciplines her. My dad doesn't discipline her at all. I try to get them to stop doing some of the stuff they do. But, they never listen to me. They think she is theirs. My daughter is used to having them around now. So how will it be when I get her and I into my own apartment? Living with my parents has turned me into such an angry person and I feel like I am not at the top of my parenting game because of how annoyed I am all the time that I am there. Them trying to take over and control every little thing. Now, moving out is about only another month away. But I need some advice of what I can do. How the move out can be easy. How I can get them to back the hell off.

Read the description of my eldest brother here and tell me if that's a sign of my parents failing to set boundaries on my eldest sibling. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160508063601AAR07sf&rptabuse=1 Also, did this other person (the one answering my other question) have any right to make me look like my eldest sibling? He said I was projecting my "behaviour" onto my eldest sibling when I was being honest.

My mother just passed away and so does her $1,300 monthly social security payment. My brother has lived with my mother due to being mentally ill and getting $1,000 in benefits himself. These benefits are from my fathers earnings. Will my brothers social security go up due to losing my mothers or will it stay the same?

I have two stepchildren one is 12 and one thats 16 bit she does not live with us the twelve-year-old does. their mother passed away several years ago so they don't have a mother other than me in their life I have been there for both of them I have been very supportive even when they didn't get along with their father I was there with open arms the youngest lives with us I have done everything for him I have cooked I cleaned I have help with his homework I have taken him to and from friends houses I've done everything I can to be there for him and for the most part we have a great relationship but when Mother's Day came around he didn't acknowledge me however he did acknowledge one of his teachers and one of his mother's old friends that he said we're great people to have in his life even though I'm there on a daily basis he didn't even bother to tell me Happy Mother's Day and it hurt my feelings quite a bit as far as his sister goes I understand if she didn't want to say anything but it wouldn't hurt if she could have at least sent me a quick text message especiallt considering I've been there for her a lot when her dad and I first got together it's only been two years since their dad and I have been together but we've lived together for over a year of it and for a while she lived with us we always got along really well even though her and her dad did not but yet somehow I guess I'm still not a part of their family

My aunt is stingy, and she isnt affectionate with her children. She feeds them 7 grapes for breakfast, feeds them hummus for their birthday. Literally, for the 8 yo old girl, she got hummus. No Birthday cake, no pizza, no present. No hugging in front of us. She never hugged, kissed her children. She is aggressive with her children, and children are aggressive with me. My aunt home schools them because it is cheaper. They are mad children for some reason. They make fun of me behind my back. Their mother never cooks them food. Just rice, hummus, and beans most of the time. If the mother was nice to them, they would have been nice to me. The 3 yo old child said " ***** you ******* *****", and my aunt and uncle ignored them

My mom is in a toxic relationship 8 years. Her bf and I ( I am a 17 year old female ) never had a great relationship. He always called me ugly and fat when I was a kid. I would tell my mom but she doesn't believe me. I ran away from home, my older brother ( he's not our father ), moved to Texas because my mom wouldn't kick him out. They have 2 children together in which I had to watch since the age of 11. While she working he was in and out of jobs and always smoked weed and never helped me with his children. I was home with them all of the time and never really enjoyed my childhood. So since all of this, and more, has occurred with those two for the past year and a half, their relationship has gotten worst. He cheated on my mom and gave her 2 stds ( ghonorrhea and trich. She still takes him back, and I'm trying to tell her to leave him alone. My mom is very weak for men. It doesn't matter what this man does to us, she'll never leave him. Now since she has had these stds the chances of her having kids had decreased. She still has sex with him. Right now he's being nice to her like he always does when he F's up and she takes him back. Are more bad things are going to happen to my mom? Now she's smoking weed with him every night. I'm home with her 2 sons late at night. Also her finances are where they're suppose to be because she pays all of the bills and he pays half of the rent. Is his negativity the reason why bad things happen to her?

I ve caught her smoking cigarettes and vaping so many times I have lost track... she is finally 18 and its not illegal anymore. Can I still punish her? I thought about not paying for her college or selling her car because I m so fed up with her smoking habit. She says she is trying to quit smoking by vaping instead but I don t want her to do either.

My dad and stepmom were married for 13 years. She was like a second mom to me because she was always there for me when I went to my dad's house. I'm 16 now and I know it seems weird, but I want to keep some sort of relationship with my stepmom. I don't love her any less because of the divorce. It has just made an awkward situation. My dad and stepmom don't argue or anything. They just decided that they weren't meant to be a couple. My mom and stepmom are friends. They have got to know each other over the years because of coordinating stuff relating to me and they still talk. They go out for coffee a lot and my stepmom visits my mom sometimes. I'm confused about what kind of relationship to have with my stepmom. She isn't technically even my stepmom anymore.

Is sibling rivalry normal? I go to a respectable four year college and my sister goes to a community college and wants to transfer to the same college as me. I am finding myself rooting against her and hoping she does poorly so she wont be able to transfer. Is this normal? Does this make me a bad person? Does this mean I am insecure? I don't know why I feel this way and it's really bothering me. I don't understand why I can't be happy she's doing well and just mind my own business. Any advice/comments are welcome.

When I was younger I was in a foster home for a couple of years. I have lived with animosity for years because of the treatment I received, I was treated as a slave for the most part. I babysat for 6 foster children while fm ran around town, I had to clean their whole home including doing their laundry also. I was also verbally abused and somewhat sexually exploited. Now that I am an adult and have children of my own I can now see the treatment was not right. I often wonder if I should seek help for it but haven't done so because of the shame I feel How do I tell or ask cps if they are still fostering that I don't think that's a good thing and they shouldn't.

I thought my mother was my birth mother but when I was 10,my "father" left us for another lady and then we struggled for money for a lot of time. She then married this unemployed low life who is a drunk and wastrel. He kept calling me as 'son of ho' and bastard always... Then I learnt that my real mother was the cousin of my mother who is currently a drug addict and living on benefits..At 16 years,She went to this party with friends and got drunk and had sex with many guys..She doesn't even know who my father or how he even looks like.. Then she became religious that she shouldn't abort but at the end of her pregnancy,she once again begged doctors to abort which was dangerous. So she decided to give away the child and my "mother" decided to raise me.. But after her husband left,she started treating me badly,partly due to the influence of the low-life she's with...My younger sister is constantly berates me regarding my birth after she knew...She also told my school friends and they tease me too... I'm totally depressed...I feel so bad why I had to come to the world when both my mother and father never wnated me....For their night of pleasure,I had to pay the price.... I feel suicidal sometimes

My mother criticizes everything I do or who I am as a person. Everything I do, she feels that it's not up to her satisfaction, no matter how much I try. She would compare me to other peers other daughters of her friends, and say to me that I should be like so-and-so, she's so smart and skinny. You should be like her. When things don't go her way, she would say to me: "you idiot, you are such a stupid idiot, use your brain", but then the next minute she will ask, why I didn't do it the way, I started it. What can I do?

Am I over reacting? My oldest asked to go with her cousins on mothers day since we had a BBQ the night before. She knew she upset me (i was pretty clear) and then she had the nerve to ask me again. During this time my youngest was taking her time getting ready for breakfast. Okay.. so nothing was planned but my daughter making eggs and go for a run. Well... their Dad was complaining his leg was hurting. My kids were (13 and 11) were just not into the day and so I left. Ate breakfast, lunch and dinner alone and cried. I watched all the families celebrate their mama's. I haven't felt so alone, unappreciated and basically a doormat. I didn't need or want fancy gifts or fancy dining I just wanted to have a day where it looks like they made an effort to do something for me.

It is not about revenge but about her getting it. She tried for 5 years to alienate me from him until I was old enough to decide for myself. I have incredible guilt that I believed the lie she kept telling me "he doesn't want to be your Dad right now" and I learned at age 15 my mother was lying to me. I think she even convinced herself of this through her bitterness even though it was a lie and even though she was the one to divorce him. So how do I get her to see this now? It is not about revenge but about getting her to see it. She still gets mad I do equal time with both parents at times like holidays and makes comments like "he has this strained relationship with his Dad, my ex" when that is not at all true. I am 23 now. I live on my own now. @Anonymous---You are right about my mother. As for my father he did the best he could, it was 100% my mother's fault or certainly 95%.

Was it a different age for mom and dad?

He is so uncool. I am 14 @Been There-----Yes I would condemn her to loneliness because she is supposed to put her kid first always, not this boyfriend she is marrying who is so uncool and fat. When I am gone she can marry an uncool fat person if she wants. I liked her wealthy boyfriend and would have been fine if she'd married him but she broke up with him because he had troubled kids. That was uncool also, he was nice and cool and had money.

My sister is 48 and I seldom see her. I saw her over the weekend and she was bragging about this. She is always trying to destroy her ex-husband and they've been divorced for 7 years. She even tells her kids bad things about their Dad (the ex-husband) almost daily So now she has this claim (maybe she is making it up) that she got her former friend divorced by spreading rumors, after the friend slighted my sister, that the friend was having an affair. Now the friend's husband has filed for divorce. So is this wrong of my sister to do? Should I have my mother notify the ex-friend's spouse my sister lies like this and the infidelity claim is false? She fought the friend when the friend started pulling away from her and no longer wanting to do a furniture store business the two were in.

Hes lied, stole, cheated abused drugs with our money! Abandoned me and our kids to be with other women who he also impregnated! Now hes with a new woman in another state and i havent heard from him in almost two years! He acts like we dont exist but hes came to town to visit other kids he has with his first bm. 10 years two kids and he treats us like this! But hes treated me so badly why do i even care! Why am I so angry still?

I know its my parents fault because they ****** without knowing there doing something wrong. Should i kill my parents for giving me this **** life?

I was 13 yo old girl. My aunt was 45 with three children and she wasn't in a happy marriage. She was insecure, unattractive, and her husband belittles her at home. She hates me. And she mad fun of my weight and she taught her 7 yo old girl how to call me fat. 7 yo old used to stalk me and spy on me. I said I wanted to write a book and then the 7 yo old said she didn't care and then she started to copy me. My hairstyle, the way I eat, the way I spoke, and played the same Just Dance Games. WHen I said not to waste food, 7 yo old started to say im not hungry, I just ate, that is too much milk. I will only eat 2 chocolates. Then her mother said to her "She is beautiful, blonde, green eyes, but she is fat." Then she called me fat 20-30 times, and she said my hair was "dirty" blonde. Then she just follows me around. There are kids her own age. Why is she stalking a 13 yo old girl? And why was my aunt putting me down? Im a teen,

I live in Az and allowed a family member to live with me. She paid rent for a year and past 7 months almost has paid nothing. She has become increasingly violent when I bring up payment. She has a drinking problem that has now gotten out of control. Whenever I ask for money she screams and shouts and claims she ll destroy my things. I have even gone so far as to sleep when she is at work (yes she has a full time job and spousal support so she s not poor but she gives money to other freeloading relatives) because I fear she will do something. She has said she will choke me or cut me with a knife and has also said to go die. She has had violent behavior In the past with her ex husband but never until recently with me. I need her out what type of process must I go through?

So im 14 years old, male.. Weeks ago i told my mom that i was gay.. She was really disappointed and unhappy about it.. But told me that she would be okay with it.. After some time.. But now she is barely talking to me.. She lets my siblings do whatever they want.. (Like going out with friends.. Or staying late etc) but in my case she doesn't even let me go anywhere without her or text someone at night.. Has anyone ever experienced it? Or what should i do to get my life back?

Parents around the globe are excluding me from attending a program where males are made metrosexual/feminine due to me saying out a lie that I am a paedophile throughout the internet. But now these other parents are also excluding me from various other programs due to them believing in these lies I said about myself and even mentioning my full name. I'm basically being denied of those other things I missed out on as a child, and I don't see how this is fair for me. I was only joking when I said I am a paedophile. I'm not one.

I am 21 years old, going to get kicked out my parents house tonight. I got a car and 200$ in my pocket and a trunk full of clothes. I dont know what to do after i kicked out. I am attending college and dont got a job yet..

My parents are always pressuring me to have kids because they want to keep our last name going but I don't want kids and I'm an only child. What should I do? Keep in mind I also want to keep the name going. But I don't want kids.

I am a 16 year old boy and she is a 15 year old girl. I recently moved in with her last August. I am a late bloomer when it comes to puberty and I have these raging hormones. I masturbate every day or two. I have tried talking to girls online since I do online school and don't have a job, but no one seems to be interested in me. I see her around the house sometimes in a tight tank top without a bra on and she has these big perfect boobs, and I just really want to see what they look like, that's it. I also accidentally seem her in her panties once while wearing a tight tank top without a bra on. I guess I just want to see her whole body naked, but that's it. I'm just curious.

My Mom loves my Dad she would never try to kill him. And Pop loves Mom he would never try to kill her again. He even said to me he now has no problem letting her live. The police have taken me away from them but I just want my loving family back.

Growing up until I was about 10, I had a great family life. Then my mother one day, decided she needed more. She filed for divorce and immediately started dating while she left my dad broke and in pieces. She wanted to only date men who had money, and to be honest, just wasn t my mother anymore. Her main focus was these men and how they could benefit her. I felt like especially with this being my teenage years, I needed her and she neglected me. She spent all my college money and never helped out with anything, matter of fact she treated me as an inconvenience. She even tried sending me away to boarding school so she could get rid of me, my father of course didn t agree, so she had him take custody of me and she moved away. Fast forward to me being 18, her relationship goes sour and all of a sudden she needs me. About two years ago I told her I could not be in her life anymore. I was happy, genuinely happy, but also hurt. She then broke up her best friends marriage, and now she is dating him and they are supposed to get married. She s tried to come back into my life now, and I just don t have that mother/daughter connection. I hate her actually. But this takes up so much space in my head and I m so hurt for how badly I needed her growing up that I m just unsure what to do now. I m invited to her wedding, but I m so confused because she tries to act like everything is all fine and dandy.. And it s not. Help

I am a 20 year old guy who lives with my single mom(via anonomous sperm donor) and my 2 aunts, who all raised me together. I am 6'2 weighing 200 pounds. But my aunts are 6'5 weighing around 250 pounds and my mom is 6'8 weighing around 300 pounds. Its humiliating to be smaller than my mom and aunts and im embarrassed to go out seen with them. We are going on a family cruise, and they already bought my ticket. I dont want to go cuz its humiliating being shorter and smaller than 3 women in their 50s. My mom says im being ridiculous and said "you are a big guy urself, ur a giant among your friends and peers. You are the man of the family, and are protecting 3 people bigger than you

Me and my family got in a fight, I have been telling my dad what my mom and brother have been telling me and how my mom blames everything on me. This has been going on for 6 years, so my dad T tells them and they deny it and say I'm just a brat that crys a lot. And my dad belived them, they told me to change my attitude and I said yes because I wanted to burst out crying about how after all these years he didn't belive me. After that I left to me room and cried myself to sleep. They act like where all happy now but I'm hurting, Why would my dad think I'm lying to him about this? And why would my mom and brother deny that they where telling me stuff?. I have chest pains inside and feel like bursting out crying and random moments. I can't tell the school because my family will get mad and tell the school lies and the school might not belive me to. Please Someone give me advice. And why do I feel like this? My chest pains and feel like crying at random moments?