but when a girl notices her ex boyfriend while she's out with her current boyfriend, she introduces them?

I asked my friend why she doesn't like my bf. She said that he's manipulative, controlling,very insecure,jealous,possessive and doesn't love me & that the only reason why he's with me is because I remind him so much of his dead mom. I know my boyfriend is all those things, but he said he'll change & so far he hasn't been possessive controlling and manipulative of me. He told me that I really do remind him of his dead mom. He said that I'm very sweet and nice like her & that he never loved a woman this much besides his mom. My friend told me that he has problems and he needs help. She told me that its dumb of him to be with me because I remind him of his dead mom plus she told me that I deserve a way better guy than him. He's my first love. I'm 15 & hes 19 & we're in a long distance relationship. When I tell my friend about me & my bf, she has this worried look on her face. she told me that she fears he will break my heart, but I told her he will never break up with me. But she said, didn't he threatened to break up with you when you told him that he was the main problem as to why y'all fight. I told her he will never break up with me because he loves me too much plus if our relationship were to end,itll be me who breaks up with him. I dont want to break up with him because, he'll be even more depressed. Also were in a long distance relationship and i cant see him for at least 3 yrs & im miserable. I cant be with him now cause our relationship is a secret from my parents.

I told him that I wanted to work with TBI survivors as a social worker when we met We met at our MSW orientation. I told him I wanted to work with brain injury survivors as a social worker. I later explained that I was a survivor myself. After orientation we texted a lot and met up one-on-one. I mentioned my PTSD and brief psychotic episode. He told me had counseling when he was younger too. I know he has been kind/understanding, but I'm afraid I told him this too early. ack *I added the same sentence twice in first paragraph sorry

Me asking for money.. Why would he send me a friend request then?

I liked a guy a lot last school year. He's in 9th grade now (high school) and I'm in eight grade (middle school). I thought I had gotten over him, but out of nowhere I just got all these memories of him. Now I like him again, but I don't have a way of seeing him, he doesn't have any social medias. But why did I just start thinking of him all of the sudden? I've been thinking of him all day the past 2 days. Why? And does this me he thinks of me?

This probably sounds awful and attention seeky, but I swear to you I am not trying to sound like that. I just need some outside opinions. My friends are all quite pretty girls. They all have boyfriends or guys that are interesting in them. They compliment each other and talk about how pretty they think the others are, but never me. If they happen to say anything in regards to me it's just "You're fine." I don't think I'm by any means gorgeous, but I'd like to think I'm okay and maybe sort of pretty. I don't wear makeup and constantly do my hair like them, but I still don't think I look awful. And the times that I actually did try to look better, they just pointed out what I did wrong or said it looked "alright". Why do they seem to ignore me entirely in this respect? Please don't give me angry and rude comments, I'm just wondering.

I am 21 year old indian male. I am currently attending University. I never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and am a virgin. I want to experience something new in my life. I want to get a girlfriend. All my friends have girlfriends and they seem pretty happy. I am sort of shy but i am coming out of my shell slowly and getting out there more. So im not as shy as i use to be. I need help to talk to girls. I always chicken out when trying to talk to them. Like if i see a girl i like and don't know her, do i just go up to her? Wouldn't it be awkward? I would appreciate your help. I really want to get out their and find that certain someone. I just need help with talking to girls and getting that confidence. I would greatly appreciate your help, thank you! :)

I have known this guy for about 5 years now and recently we have been hanging out a lot more since we have graduated high school. Well recently he has been saying and doing weird things. Last time we were hanging out he kept telling me that "I am not allowed to cut my hair" and that if I died he "would cry and be devastated" << that one is because I am going to Hawaii soon and he wants me to be safe. He stares at me a lot though and plays with my hair, and he is always touching me, but then if he doesn't like what I am wearing, like if he thinks my shirt is to low he will literally pull it up for me, and if I say a guy is cute or if one is staring at me he will put his arm around me and every freaking guy on the planet suddenly becomes a d- bag. But the other day we were texting and after the conversation he randomly texted me "love you" and when I asked him about it, the iMessage bubble was there then it dissapeared and I watched it do this about 3 times until I got a text back from him saying "Don't let it bother you my good friend." I mean obviously I am attracted to him, but I don't know what to do, because he is always wanting to hang out, and I can't get over a guy unless I stop seeing him for a while, so help please?

There are two friends who keep insisting that I shouldn't date in the work environment due to it may get uncomfortable in some situations. They met people online, I don't go out much or have the time to, I would like to meet people live not online. I have talked to people at work, but i stated that i couldn't due to what my friends have told me. Any suggestions?

I go to this store once and awhile mostly in summer for drinks. A guy works there he is really cute. Everytime I go he will wait on me or if his coworker is he'll jump in and ring me up. I went in after stopping for like 2 weeks and he was waiting on a guy. He looked up saw me looked back down at the register and looked back up again stared at me. I called an order in for my dad and he answered said "I'll see you soon" I go he gets it together for me and hands me the bag with both of his hands each handle in one of his hands(weird way to hand someone a bag) he said "have a good day hun" i went in with my brother he was staring at me my brother answered first when I went back the next day he didn't look at me or jump in to ring me up:( I went to cali last week then went back in yesterday to him working. He saw me and said "hello. How are you?" We talked for a few seconds. He said hello how are you to another person...but he never called anyone else hun or jump in to ring someone else up when I was there. I went in and stood there while he was on the phone. He turned around went to a coworker looked up twice at me. When I was paying his coworker was doing it and it was a crowd. But instead my crush was standing right next to the guy working on me. And just stood there till I left.

I saw one of my old friends for the first time in four years this summer, and I was completely taken aback by how attractive she'd become. We hung out several times before I returned to the United States. During that time, I developed a pretty big crush on her. Fast-forward about a month; I'm talking to her a few times a week via social media. She revealed to me she has a boyfriend. He's two years younger than her (the age gap between her and I is slightly bigger). She told me he suggested marriage but that she told him to wait because her family wouldn't approve. She's called me "very handsome" more than once. Her parents want her to get married to someone in the US (like me) but also with ancestors in that country (also me). We share secrets with each other, have deep conversations, and casually tease each other all the time; every talk is fun. Recently, she sent me the "kiss" emoji and called me the most warm-hearted guy she's ever met. On occasion, she even compares me to her boyfriend. Does she like me, even though she has a boyfriend? I really do like her, and I would love to be in a relationship with her, but I don't want to encourage her to cheat; it wouldn't be fair to me nor the other man. How should I approach this situation? Should I pull out? I know enough that I shouldn't pressure her to make any decisions. P.S. Where I come from, it's considered rude to touch a married woman if you're not her husband. That would be terrible for me; she gives amazing hugs.

I've been talking to this kid for almost 3 months... I'm turning 15 in a week btw. But he calls me pretty and always compliments my selfies and we have talked everyday for the 3 months ? Is it possible that he doesn't want to date me or idk!? He isn't ready yet like I have no idea maybe he doesn't feel the same way. But if he didn't feel the same way why does he talk to me everyday ? Anyway do u think I should stop taking to him or keep going and see what happens ?

I've been talking to this guy online since last year. I've shown him 2 pics of myself but he still hasn't shown me any of him. Every time I ask it's always oh I'm gonna show you a pic soon just give me some more time or he'll say something like a pic doesn't mean anything. And he keeps asking will i be his girlfriend, how can I be someone's girlfriend who I cant even see... I feel like he's hiding something. So my question is would you agree to be someone's significant other even if you have never seen them? Does that make any sense? What's wrong with this guy...

She moved away for school, and I don t know when I'll ever get to see her again. We didn't get to spend as much time together before she left as I wanted to. I just really miss her.

i texted my boyfriend yesterday a few times and he didnt respond back to me. i was wondering if this is a good text to send him after one day of not texting him " is everything ok? i havent back from you in awhile?"... or when should i? today tonight tmrw or the day after? i havent heard from him at all yesteday or today. i sent him a voicemail to his phone this morning before i went to church...

I don't think I've done anything to upset her and I've texted her yesterday and today to see if everything's okay and she hasn't read them. I saw her putting stuff I twitter and snapchat so I know she has her phone. I even texted her boyfriend to see if everything was okay. I'm honestly so scared I did something and she's upset with me. I have social anxiety so I do tend to jump to conclusions. PLEASE HELP!!

So there is a guy in my lecture and lab. But every now and then I catch him looking at me. Once I was standing behind him in line to write my name on the sign-in sheet and looked back at me. Once he came up to my lab partner and I to talk to my partner (they have another class together as well) and when he looked at me he smiled huge and took a few deep breathes before he talked to my partner. When he went to sit back down he looked back at me. Yesterday he came up again to my partner and talked to her about their class and he kept staring a ton. Last week he came up again and asked what we thought of the exam but I was too shy and didnt say anything. My friends said he kept looking at me. I got a haircut and he was staring 24/7 and came up to my friend like 2x. Then after class my friend was talking to him and she called me over. When I came up to him his eyes went wide and sparkly and he smiled big. He almost looked frozen. Once a random guy came to me and asked me a question and he glared at him. when another guy asked me a question, he turned his whole body around and glared at him Last week we talked more. When we were leaving class he asked was I was going and I said to the right and he said he normally goes the other way. But he said he would walk with me and so we walked and talked more. He asked a lot of questions around me and walked close to me. Whenever he looks at me he blinks slow. Once he walked with me again and we talked. Before we parted way exchanged number Once we studied together with my lab partner. When we were studying my friend was talking about her bf and he looked at me and smiled. When we were leaving he walked me all the way to my apartment. Last week I told him that if he wanted to grab coffee sometime then to let me know. He said that sometimes things come up but he will let me know. Yesterday my friend said that cant come to our study session tomorrow so I asked if he was okay just studying with me and he said yes. We studied together and when we were done he walked me to my apartment. I show lots of interest. Our final was today. When he walked out he looked at me with a sad face and walked away. I texted him for coffee again and he said he is busy with family stuff these days.We talk once every few months. Once he posted "when someone never leaves your mind and heart, thats when you're in love" and then there was another pic that said "weakness moments when you feel like you're losing the person you love the most, and this person means everything for you, and you can't live without this person, while you can do nothing to it so you ust go get lost. cut distances and distances with hope to forget, but simply it is not gonna happen"

We used to have classes every morning we always used to look straight to each other eyes before I enter the classroom During class she will not look over to see, she pays attention in class. She and a friend sat in front of me in the lobby and they both ran fast.She at times will give me half/shy smile when we both make eye contact. She used to stare at me from distance sometimes then acts uninterested. Last semester we had no class but we did saw each other in the hallways. Thursday I came out of the rest room and turn to my left and we both at the exact time made eye contact which last for few seconds. She turn away quickly once we look at each other and turn her body back looking at her friend directly, Her friend look at me when i came close by them when I was walking away. At the time she look at me her cheeks were pinkish like blushing but it can also be make up blush so I don't know. i don't see her with other guys she only talks to them. Today I was with some friends heading to class and she saw me once we made eye contact she walk fast up the escalators but did a fast turn to see if i look and kept speed walking up the escalator she cold have been late to class but I doubt it because she was walking normal until she saw me with my friends . I'm a shy guy and were in college, thanks

I'm a girl in eighth grade and I really like this boy, but I'm not sure if he likes me, so how can I tell? I know that they're about a million questions exactly the same and like ten billion answers, but is there anything that is REALLY obvious? Thanks!

Ok so I have been talking to this guy. (Keep in mind I m in middle school) we have been talking everyday for maybe a week. He tells me I m gorgeous and when we were on snap chat I sent him I pic of my ootd and he texted back damn😍🔥. We have been flirting and talking about hanging out watching a movie and stuff like that. Today he asked me who I like and I said him. And I thought oh he will like me back since we are flirting and we re sending all the 💖😍❤️😏😘🔥 emojis and whatever. He texted me back and said he still has feelings for a girl that turned him down. Now he isn t answering or looking at any of my snapchats. Does he like her or me cause I don t think you say things he said to me as just a friend. Idk I m very confused so help?!

So there's this kid. He confessed his love for me like two or three years ago I didn't really take it seriously and just friend zoned him. But now I think he likes me again. We talk because weave a couple of the same classes but he is always poking me and like if I have an eyelash he will take it off of my face. Idk anyway are these signs that he likes me.

So about a year ago I made a HORRIBLE mistake when I decided to date this guy. He didn't really like me and I didn't really like him my brother died at the time and I just wanted someone. The funny part is I'm gay and I knew this but I was just so lonely at the time anyways,this guy was CRAZY! Bipolar and on drugs which I didn't know at the time. He cheated on me I remember and also tried getting me pregnant without telling me((didn't happen thankgod!))) so when we actually broke up he made his mom do it (21 years old) and I remember she was threating me and I was just SO SCARED! So I moved to another state to get away from him,changed my number and that was that. I don't have a Facebook or any social media for him to contact me and I totally literally forgot about this guy Now last month my mom told me he came to her door and started pounding on the door so she called the cops and they already knew who he was and that was taken care of. THEN ,about a week ago he messaged my DAD ON FB and said "YO what up dude,u do drugs?why did her mom call the cops on me I wasn't even there" like really dude ?!?! It's annoying cuz I dont want to always be haunted by this guy. I have an amazing life now and a gf ,and I just don't know will this guy EVER QUIT IT ?!?! I even had a nightmare last night that I had his baby ?! I don't even think about this guy

Okay so I've been friends with this girl for quite some time. She knows how much I love her but she doesn't feel the same way. I have done a lot of things that only a man whom she's with should do. She really has used me & the 1 thing she has on me is that I have low self esteem. She's not physically attracted to me, even though there's nothing wrong with me, she just doesn't feel that feeling. She's finally single and I had hoped that we could at least try a relationship but she doesn't want to. I don't want to see her with any other men so I've decided to take a new job somewhere else, we work together. She calls me a little ***** because I won't stay around her. This new job would be a slightly better move for me, but stop our carpooling. She means a lot to me but I just don't want to see her with anybody else. Am I right or wrong?

I really like this girl at my church. She's 13, however, she's very mature for her age and she's absolutely beautiful and could pass for being 15 or 16. I don't know about the age difference. Her parents are very strict and I don't know how they'd feel about their daughter dating a 15 year old. I'm not immature by any means but the age thing freaks people out sometimes. Also any advice on asking her out in a church environment?

so if a guy is with his girlfriend does the guy get overly protective if he sees a very attractive guy on the street because of the attention he will be received by his girlfriend? women at any age gap teens, 20s, 30s, 40s do they get jealous because guys are more naturally good looking than girls and do they get really shy? so women in their 40s can talk to a random male with a lot of confident they saw a very attractive guy im not gay but i got really jealous, didnt bother to talk to him so its proof taht women in their 40s can talk to ugly guys easy

I'm a senior in high school and want to get a girl I likes attention, I see her once during the school day which it right after 1st period I've talked to this girl before and she seemed interested but had told me that she was also talking to someone already and I guess nothing became of them because I don't see them together anymore how should I approach her? Homecoming is coming up as well and need an idea on how I could ask her to go with me too any ideas for both situations?

we go to the same gym and im starting to feel i have a gps with me because whenever im there, he comes a few minutes after. the fact that ive been avoiding the days i know hes gonna come. even if i go at a weird time, he comes too after a few minutes. he even waited outside one time when i went home, i expected that he would ask me something but no, he disappeared after that. i assume he was in his car the entire time when i was going home. its bugging me because i think i still like him

why would she say that? Did I do something to hurt her or make her mad?

This shy girl caught me staring at her over a year ago (I thought she was cute). She begun staring at me a lot, yet we rarely talked. She is EXTREMELY quiet/shy, aswell as me. It got to a point where her friends would all stare at me, but they wouldn't say anything to me. After having a staring thing all year (last year) she begun to stop looking, and I felt that she wasn't as interested. I got to sit with her on the last day of school (like 3 months ago) and I tried my hardest to conversate, which was hard since she couldn't keep it going, but I was nice, made her laugh, give her attention, eye contact that would last a good 8 seconds between us (she would smile).. I finally got her number, but after texting her I noticed she would text like she didn't want to talk, like one word answers and when I asked her if she wanted to do something sometime, she said she was busy. So I stopped texting her, and distanced my self. Our senior year just started, and she started to stare again. I notice she will sometimes be eying me across the room, smiling at me while talking to her friends. I've still been ignoring her, because I feel like I'll mess it up.. But today I was about to walk past her at the end of the day, going outside to my car (she was talking with her friends) then she quickly stops talking to them, notices I'm walking near her, and walks in front of me, like cuts me off directly. Why would she do this? And why does she keep staring if she lost interest?

I'm really sad . I want him to want me and text me make my day !!!!!! why is he not calling

So I've been seeing my boyfriend for 5 years now. He's the love of my life, and we're compatible on every level possible. He loves me for me, and vice versa. His only problem: he's not motivated. He dropped out of college due to personal reasons when I first met him. He's been talking for YEARS about going back to school and taking classes. But every time a semester approaches, something comes up and he doesn't apply. Now, I graduate in 6 months, and he has no job and doesn't even know what program he might want to study. I'm just scared, because I can't imagine my life without him. I'm only 21, so I'm sure I could find someone else (because I'm young), but the thought scares me. His family is like family to me, too, and I don't want to throw something away that is so great. But HOW DO I MOTIVATE HIM? I've given him an ultimatum (figure everything out or we break up), but that fizzled out as the relationship went on. Just...help, please.

So, it will be the fourth day of school this Monday, I have developed a major crush on one of the new boys. We flirt like all throughout the day and whatever. Not sure if he likes me, but I can t wait to go back to school JUST to see him. I hate school, so this is major for me. I think I am almost obsessed with him. I don t know what to do! Should I just let it go, and hope my crush on him will soon be over? I'm in eighth grade, and I know that this sounds dumb but...thanks. ***Tuesday actually. Sorry. ***Tuesday actually. Sorry.

Why are some couples together for years and years but they never get married...? They have kids with each other and live together but they don't get married. That just seems weird to me. Obviously their not that in love.

He's in my class and sits next to me I just can't stop being quiet and he finds me annoying. What should I do to get over him?

So there is this boy. And I ve liked him for a while now. But I m not really sure if he likes me back. I guess I m getting mixed feelings. Like sometimes I feel like he s staring at me or I m just being delusional. My friend told me he likes this other girl, but I still don t know... And he kinda knows I like him... So wouldn t he have maybe asked me? He also gave me nickname And he s kind of a flirt in general so maybe it s kind of in a friendly way towards me but I m not sure. And I m really shy and insecure so I really don t want to talk to him even though I know I should, I just get too nervous. So what s your opinion? Any other advice?

So many people decide to tell me I'm ugly, my nose is to big, my glasses are ugly. And it really hurts. Being 13 is rough because it hurts socially and mentally always trying to be like everyone.

its been 10 yrs we graduated and I don't know what he sees I me. he said hes always had a crush on me. but I was with someone at the time. do u have highschool sweethearts

A nice stoner.

Alright I m currently dating this guy and even though he knows I had sex with my ex for 2 yrs (who had a smaller penis) and he was my first. My new bf insists that he popped my cherry because his penis was larger and I also lie to him about orgasming because he gets really depressed and pushes away when I be honest. I never actually had a real orgasm unless I m masturbating just saying

me and this girl are in 10th grade. i told her i liked her about a week ago. she kinda likes me back. we went on a 'date' to a football game for our school. we cuddled a little bit and then we cuddled through most of the after party for the game. every keeps saying we should date and that we make a cute couple. (this date was friday). tomorrow we are going on another 'date' to sonic to just hangout and then we are watching a movie on netflix on my phone afterwards. she asked if i was wanting a relationship or friends with benefits. i told her a relationship and she said she didn't know if she was ready to have a relationship at all. what else should we do and this 'date'? i dont want to rush things or anything. we normally flirt with each other and stuff. i just dont know what to do on this 'date plz help

I'm a Bbw and I wanna know what will make my boyfriend really really like me and make him *** fast I have a fat fetish and like to get made fun of and my belly teased with he likes my boobs and butt

does that mean she wants to be friends with me or just random