I'm 19 and cannot remember life without gynecomastia. I always new I had man boobs, but didn't know how bad it was until I lost a lot of weight. I worked really hard to get fit, to have a body that I could be proud of. Now, I'm just skinny with a huge chest, it's about 1.5 inches protruding outward. I look freakin terrible, like I genuinely have boobs, which I do. Anways, my mom says its bo big deal and to accept that I was never meant to have a good looking body, and that I need therapy not to get surgery. She thinks it's no big deal for a guy to have legit female boobs. It's terrible and I'm miserable, I'm at the point where I don't even want to live anymore because girls won't give me the time of day and guys just laught at me. No girl wants a skinny guy who has bigger **** then they do! Again, who cares according to my mom. She says just deal with it. she won't let me get the surgery even though i will pay for it. I can't wait until i move out because it will be like 5 years before that as im in college and new york is too expensive, especially long island. How do I convince her to let me get the surgery? Honestly, I don't even think I can go another six months like this, I will end up killing myself long before. Thanks.

I was sexually assaulted at 7 years old. Any guy that sticks his penis up a child anus should die. I feel like if I saw my rapist I would literally hurt hurt hurt him no lie. He's lucky I haven't seen him since the incident. My cousins try to deny that dhit they know what happen. I am going to put it flat out right now. We had to sit and watch each other get fuqqed over and now I want revenge on that son of a.... Um at this point I have no idea what to do because nobody believes me so forget it. They think it's ok to be raped and that now I'm an adult to just drop the ****.? I'm very very very angry and hurt inside. Very 😔😡

Okay so my little brother is 8 and he is EXTREMELY attached to our mom when she would leave he would break down and have massive temper tantrums and scream and cry until she would come back, now when my mom leaves he will make me call her a thousand times so he can talk to her until she gets back, my brother is really attached to my mom and it is kinda weird because i have 3 other younger siblings ages 4,5, and 8 and non of them are extremely attached to my mom like he is and my little brother he is attached at the hip with her every day, he won't let her be alone for 5 minutes and he even used to stand next to the bathroom when she would go to the bathroom. My little brother acts exactly like my father who is extremely abusive towards my mom and towards all of us and my little brother attacks my other siblings and me and he is VERY disrespectful towards me and towards our mom but she takes him everywhere and gets him what ever he wants and he is her favorite, and he never listens.

I'm 22 and she's 18 I have 3 siblings and good relationships with the other 2, a great relationship with 1 actually My 2 sisters and I share a room for storing our things, and I share a bed with one of them Our living situation is cramped after we lost our house, and so the situation isnt the best. But it doesnt bother me too much since I know it'll get better, and Im not mad at anyone cuz I know its not their faults. Being that its so cramped, my sister is CONSTANTLY angry about it. No exaggeration, complaining is like her main hobby, and unfortunately she wont talk to me unless she's complaining, essentially. She's very OCD about cleanliness and orderliness; I know I"m not super neat and that must be hard to deal with, but I try to keep clean and do well and her behavior towards me is frankly egregious. My friend thinks it borders on abuse. She breaks and hides my things, threw water on me as I was leaving the house, takes my clothes and throws them out of the closet on the floor, yells and cries, and on my bday last week where oI had calls from my gramma, and far aunts and uncles, she ignored me and didnt tell me happy bday. Once she got a bf the asshole behavior lowered but is still presesnt; she says i dont respect her; obviously not, she acts like an illogical brat with out of control emotions! Still, I'm never mean to her, I let it all roll off my back. Why's she such a jerk?

My grandmother on my father's side owns a house next door to her own and my older brother (he's gotten into drugs) and my doped out (and he's basically brain dead thinking he's Jesus) cousin live there along with my brother's "girlfriend". My cousin has spent his life doing drugs and drinking so his brain is destroyed and he had been in a state pen and prison before my grandma let him move in. My cousin has been stealing things but my grandma kept blaming it on my brother since she believed her pathological liar nephew over her own grandson. The same nephew that has threatened to break into her house at night and kill her and set the house he lives in on fire if she kicks him out (he's set a trailer he used to live in on fire before) and no he's let a recently released prisoner into the home and my grandma told him the prisoner (he had been in the house before but kicked out by my grandparents and brother for theift and was put in prison for theift) was NOT allowed to live in the house but my cousin let him move in once he released. My question is can my father call the police on my cousin (cousin has scared grandma into submission and she believes whatever he says) and have my cousin locked up or put back in the state pen? Thank you.

I need to tell my parents something but if I do it would most likely going to ruin the family but if I don't tell them it will make me miserable.

When I was around year 1 or two (age 5-7) I remember my brother used to touch me. He used to make me lick his you know what and suck on his neck and he'd thrust on me while laying down next to me. When I was 11 he went jail came out when I was 13 and went back in a few months later for robbing someone. Now that I'm 16 he's come back out and moved into the house with me my mum my 3 sisters and my other brother but I just don't feel safe. I get nervous and sick when I'm around him I don't sleep until around 5am because I don't feel safe. I find myself getting angry whenever he speaks. He has an aggressive way to him. I thought he changed but I can see the way he gets angry over small things and I feel like I can't stay in my house anymore. My other brother is moving out and I'm dreading him being the only man in the house. I don't know what to do. What do I do?

Would he be my 2nd or first cousin? Also what would his kids be to me? My 2nd or third cousin??

My baby father cousin walks around the house half naked with no bra or panties on short dresses and booty shorts with her *** sticking out so I want to know if I'm just being paranoid or she's really trying to tease her own cousin because when her mother aunts and other family is around she do not dress that way and her dresses be so short she doesn't have to bend over to see underneath her and her shorts be so short her butt cheeks be popping out . I know it's family and all but you can't put nothing pass some families because anything can happen and a man is always gonna be a man family or not

I'll try to make this as quick as possible: it started about 15 minutes ago when I asked my mother for help on something for school because I didn't understand. I'm a straight-A student and always have been, and I never need help. So she started screaming at me that I can't read and I'm too stupid and then hit me. I kept cool the best I could, then asked why it's fair for her to hit and swear at me when I couldn't do the same to her. She responded by saying that it isn't fair that I'm the root of all her problems, that if I wasn't around her life would be so much better. We argued a bit more, and as she walked away she yelled "you know what? go kill yourself." She is a very emotional person and prone to arguments, but she has never hit me or said anything so terrible. I have since went to my room (and am on my ipod right now), and she keeps mocking me about being a crybaby, spoiled brat, etc etc when she passes my door. Meanwhile, I can hear her laughing and being nice to my younger brother (he got a D yesterday and she didn't flip shi t??). To top it off, lately I have really been feeling stuck and useless. I have big dreams but it'll be impossible to achieve what I want, maybe it WOULD be better if I were gone. I can't run away-I'm only 15, live in the country not near family, my dad doesn't care, my only friend lives in MO (I'm on the east coast), and I'm t1 diabetic and can't do that without help. I KNOW suicide would be stupid but I have no reason not to. Advice?

How can I be a better daughter, or person in general? I am defiant, and sometimes I protest against doing my chores. All of my extended family members shake their heads at me because I am disrespectful. How can I regain their acceptance? I want to be the nice daughter that always does her chores and homework. Sometimes I lie about doing my homework. My parents are very kind and accepting, how can I make it up to them? How can I show them and my family members that I have changed?

So its my brothers birthday and he has his friends over, and our family is over too. Everyone is talking to my sister about what college shes going to and telling her how shes going to get a great job and everything, and im all alone on the couch being ignored by everyone. My sister was showing them what she was being for halloween, and when i went to go look, she turned her ipad away from me so i couldnt see and told me to go away. I went upstairs to my room and just spent a while on my phone. My mom texted me and told me i was being selfish and needed to come down to spend time with family, why should i have to be around everyone when theyre just leaving me out and ignoring me? I was enjoying myself much more when i was alone in my room to my own buissness. Do you think this is fair? Am i being selfish?

A few weeks ago, my sister supposedly 'ran away' leaving my family with a petty note saying she wants to fulfil her dreams, which consisted of 'moving in with her control freak of a boyfriend'. We contacted her friends, who in return say she doesn't want to talk. My mother's still in shock mode. I fear that she was driven by her significant other, because I know her, and the girl I knew wouldn't do anything of the sort. She once told me that she felt trapped in her relationship. I'm not sure how to react, I'm tense, I'm befuddled, mad. Is there a possibility that she's happy. How do I bring my family to come to see that after her class act. How do we stop grieving. @another crone, Your wisdom enlightens me. I do see why she could've come to the conclusion of fleeing the house she grew up in. Home is where the heart is, I guess.

My parents died years ago and I am very close to my aunt and uncle..they're really family oriented. I have a sister who married years ago and has 4 children. My aunt's daughter (my cousin) lived the single life for years, had a boyfriend but didn't want to settle. My aunt used to say to my sister 'oh you did the right thing and settled down, why can't (my cousin) do the same?' My sister told me this and it got me down as I'm older than any of them and never married or had children. Finally my cousin married and had 2 children and my aunt is delighted. She will often say things to me like 'Oh your sister is marvellous, she's a great girl having 4 children and all that it entails'. My uncle also says things about my cousin 'She's our pride and joy..we raised her to do the right thing'. At the same time she is really good to me..spoils me, but I feel inadequate when I hear these comments. I say things like 'She chose to have those children and she knew all the work involved beforehand'. Does she think I'm a failure for being single and no children in my late 40s.

Ok, so I placed my iPad on top of my piano and somehow it fell in the gap between the wall and my piano!! I tried getting it out with my arm but I couldn't reach it. I also tried using a golf club, a very very long chopstick but still wasn't able to get it out :(( The piano is obviously too heavy fo rme to lift. What do I do?

Okay, so my friend was born February, 1st, 2000. And also has a little brother that just turned 14. Don't know his birthday exactly. Their mom was a young mom. She gave birth at 15. And he really doesn't know what happened while he was little. But the mother has been trying to get custody over her children. But his grandma doesn't want that. And they had court. Idk what exactly happened. But the case was dismissed. Reason the case was dismissed was because the grandma told the judge something. I'm getting this information from my friend of course. But his mother sent him this message 10 minutes ago saying "she has mentioned to have the case dismissed. On grounds that I am giving you alcohol and weed. And that you said you did not feel I was stable enough to have you. So that I can have nothing to do with you or ****. And so she can adopt you and ****. " I really want to help them. I know their grandma loves them. But she doesn't let them have any freedom. She always keeps them inside unless they go to school. They are never aloud anywhere at all. He sneaks of because of that. If he were to have a little freedom he wouldn't sneak out. I would like to help them in anyway. I want to tell them what they should do, or can do with someone's help. Thank you very much

When I grow I have so many ideas and stuff I want to accomplish and there not unrealistic. My dad is a super successful lawyer and he always knocks down my ideas about what I want to accomplish. Like I want to open up a pizza restaurant when I grow up. I want to be like the next Dominos or Papa Johns. Well with pizza 10x better. Anyways I told him that and he said "Jack 80 percent of businesses fail" Well gee its not like I don't know that but he's always just so damn negative about my ideas. I think he just wants me to be a lawyer but thats just way to boring and I hate reading. I mean I'm not stupid and I read but It's not my favorite thing to do. I thought parents were supposed to be encouraging not knock down any hope the kids has like wtf. Anyways please help me out. Thanks.

I've refused to go and she just takes away my stuff or won't drive me to places I want to go to like Wrestling practice. Or she'll take away my phone. I've told her over and over again that its not fair I shouldn't be forced to go to church. It's not like I've been disrespectful about it ether I mean I was very respectful about it. I'm sick of waking up at 6:30 A.M and sitting there and listening to people sing horrible songs and gaining nothing from it. I go to a catholic school and I go to church every month because its part of the school. I feel like thats enough and that I don't need to go twice once a month. Whenever I tell her I don't want to go she says well its not your choice until your 18. It just pisses me off. Please help. Thanks What do I say to not make me go anymore

I looked up my zip and there is no public k12 schools near me!!!!! Can I still take k12????? If not what other online FREE public school ???? Btw I live in Ossining NY!!!! Thx!!!!!! 10 points best answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

when the reality is that most mother/father in laws or your parents of gf/bfs typically very welcoming and respectful? I've dated 2 guys and every time I met their parents, they were always so respectful to me. I've noticed this with my brother too. My brother was greeted and treated with utmost respect from his fiance's parents whenever he met them. Most likely because they know he'll be their new future son in law. I dont know why society has such a negative view towards in laws. I've personally never seen parent in laws mistreat their new son/daughter in laws. While society assumes the worst, I only have seen utmost respect.

I live with my stepmom my dad and my brother.. My dad is fine but I feel like ever since my brother was born I don't get my stepmom's attention! I always have to share with my brother and do things for him and all he does is scream! Everything is about him and he is always the center of attention! I am going to meet up with a director because I love to film and act but now my stepmom says that my brother could be on tv too! He ruins everything now I don't wanna do it. Why does he have to steal my passion? My stepmom tells me to go away and sometimes she is kidding and sometimes she is just being mean for no reason.. But she always tells my brother that it's gonna be alright and if he does something bad all he gets it "its okay baby" like he pooped on the carpet and my stepmom didn't even care! I am so sick and tired of this. I get attention but I don't get as much as my brother. This is why I freak out all the time because nobody ever tells me it's okay! I barely get hugs, kisses, nobody is there for me.. Yes they buy me things but I still need attention! Somebody please help because this makes me want to move back with my mom.. And every time I try to address a problem, she always says "oh well, get over it"!! HELP ME

I absolutely hate talking. I've never been on to talk much, but I'd rather just not talk at all. I've gone a couple days without talking, and it was great! My dad and stepmom basically force me to talk though. I've been yelled at before to speak. If I don't then they keep questioning and insulting me. I try to say as little as possible when I do speak, but I'd rather just not. Usually when I do talk I'm either ignored, looked at like everything I say is rubbish, or just stared at. Why should I have to do something I hate just to receive negativity. How do I get my parents to just accept that I don't talk?

They opened a chinese restuarant. Their customer always parked in front of my house. My mom had to ask them to move their cars. They always ignore us. And it happens everyday. They also decoderate their shop with flowerpots by our driveway and their pots almost block the road! We need to take 2 lanes just to reverse the car. They used to put the pots on both side of the shop but then they removed the right side. (My house is on the left) I believe they found it's inconvenient so they removed them. Today a motorbike blocked my car so I asked them to move. Random girl at the shop just looked at me and ignored me, pretended she didn't hear me so I asked somebody else and he moved the motorbike for me.(i dont know it's that easy I dont know how to ride a bike) I said thank you :) And when I got home. I was sitting in my car waiting to funish the song. I looked around and spotted a menu so I spent 30secs looking at it. The same girl walked toward my car, stared at me, gave me annoying look and literally whipped her hair intentionally to me and walked away. I was pissed but acted nice. Just get out of the car and get into the house. I told my mom and she told me to ignore them. I don't feel safe. Could they be gangsters? I live with mom and little sister. We're all girls. I don't feel safe. We have plan to move out by December. Don't know how to deal with this. Help. Thank you all answer in advance.

I have forever stayed with my parents. I was briefly in an abusive marriage and since returned back to my parents house. My son was raised in my parental house. I have done financially well and never been a burden on my parents. My mother always bullied me, abused me and threatened me of unfortunate events. She has practically controlled me all my life. Now I am almost 50. She isolated me from family and siblings. I was dissed by every one despite being better off financially and professionally in comparison to my entire family. A year back my father became very ill. I looked after him to the best of my ability, but unfortunately he passed away. Then on I was accused of 'killing' my father. My younger brother and mother made my life hell by calling me names and calling me a failure. They never missed an opportunity to let me know about my failed marriage as well. I just got tired of it all and moved out about 3 months back. Now my mother is hysterical, that I have abandoned her. Family reminds me that she might die if I dont go back. I am not interested in any inheritance, or any other benefit from my mother. I had no ulterior motives that she grossly painted to the entire world. Now I am so afraid that she might actually die of a heart break, and yet I know she and my younger brother will never stop being nasty to me. How do I handle this. Also, all of us three siblings live in a diameter of 1000 yards at most.

So I am graduating from college this year and my parents want to throw me a party. However they are insisting on inviting my grandparents and a few other family members from my dad's side of the family. I feel that this is a bad idea as they are generally not very nice people and often say whatever they think whether it will offend anyone (example: my grandma told someone at their baby shower they looked fat) They are also know for racist comments and comments about anyone that is different than them. One of my good friend from college who would go would is black and my boyfriends brother has severe autism and I want the to come. I don't want to seem ungrateful to my parents who are throwing the party but I also do not want all my guests to be insulted, especially since my grandparents aren't even that nice to me and probably won't even get me a gift (they have money). Opinions?

I'm 23 and I still live with my parents, but I'll be moving out by the end of 2016 for the first time in my life. I'll be leaving to an entire different country/continent, which is the only way I can move out basically. My dad treats me like I'm 14. He gets mad when I go out "too much" (which I do because I like to escape from home which is boring/depressing/oppressing) but everyone around me goes out on a daily basis and their parents leave them to it - they're old enough. He's constantly telling me and the family off. Thing is, we kind of accept it. We tell him off for it a lot, but he's never going to change. He's too old to change now, so it's too late for that. I feel like if I ignore him and continue to go out as I please, he'll constantly be yelling at me and we'll always be fighting and I really don't want that to happen. But I really can't tolerate it. I know I'm leaving in a few months but I don't want to spend my last few months here still being treated like a child. I get yelled at for being home "late" (past 11:30) and he makes negative comments about it all the time. My siblings don't get the same **** because they don't like going out as much as I do, they're home dwellers plus as a female I get lots of **** for it (he worries about my so called reputation) What do you suggest I do?

My sis confided in my mom and I that she really felt like cutting again (she just left the psych ward), but after hearing that word again, my mom FLIPPED OUT! I get it that it was just weeks of tension and anger finally spilling out, but still... Anyway, so my moody 15 year old brother hears the commotion and begins to storm over. I met him halfway in the parking lot and tried pulling him in the other direction, keeping him away from my mom and sis so they could get all their emotions out, but he was yelling and fighting back, and acting like a complete brat. My bro is 5'10, big, plays football, and is really popular in school, so the fact that he wasn't listening really scared me. I've never felt defenseless against my younger brother (especially because we are usually really tight). So he's being really disrespectful and yelling and cursing (which he never does in front of me) at me, but I finally got him to our other car. At that point I'm in tears, trying to calm him down. I start saying "I need your help" because my chest began feeling really tight, I fell to the ground and had a panic attack that became an asthma attack from all of the stress of everything. Long story short, I'm just really hurt because I felt that if he just calmed down, I wouldn't have had to go to the hospital in the first place. He should have listened to me, his sister and friend, and he completely shot me down. I haven't spoken to him as of late, I just don't know what to do with him.

Hello. Is my mom crazy? Or is it me?This morning my mom woke me up to sleep in my grandmas room because my niece was watching her tv and it was loud and I didn't hear my mom trying to wake me up (maybe because I was asleep duh) until I heard her scream at me " OH MY GOD WHAT EVER SHE NEVER ******* LISTENS TO ME ANYWAYS THAT *****!!!" So I woke up and I got up and was walking to my grandmas room and she walked into me and hit my shoulder with hers and starting yelling again saying "DONT ******* PUSH ME AGAIN"But yesterday we got into a argument because she was being rude to me. I was eating my food and I just finished and she said to me "are you done with your plate?" And literally put all of her disgusting trash on it and I told her "really? You ask me that as you are putting your trash on my plate? What if I wanted more huh?" And she said "oh my god what ever you can get a new plate" so I told her that how rude that was she said to me "I said I'm sorry and what about you? Huh? Your not rude at all! What about all the things you do? But nooooo you're soooooo perfect" and I was angry with her cause she was being rude to me so I said "yeah I know I'm sooo perfect" and ignored her for the rest of the day. Every time I tell her something she has to make it about how I'm the bad one. Ik I'm not perfect and everything so Ik I can be rude too. Also Ik it's not her period because she's too old for it (she told me) also I'm turning 13 and I'm female. Thanks for your help.

She is very sick right now and she living with my aunt for a few months. Every time I'm around her she is negative and miserable. I have depression and I'm homeschooled. My mom is pregnant again and she doesn't even take care of the two she already has, also she use drugs. She is getting help for it now,also she leaves me with my little sister all the time and basically put responsibility on me. my dad has his own family and problems. I just feel alone . I want to be something in life. I don't want to be like them when I get older. How do I live my life for me and not everyone else?

Today me and my mom got in a fight. It was a really stupid fight. Yesterday she told me that tomorrow (as in today) she had to go to her hairdresser and to Ikea. She asked if I could come with and I said yes. Today I woke up a bit later than usual and she said that in 20 minutes we had to go leave. So I ate, brushed my teeth, so and so. Then I realized that my phone didn't charge at night. I was so angry because whenever we go somewhere I always take my phone to listen to music (don't ask why I just like to) . My mom said that we have to leave now and I said that I'm not going because I'm waiting for my phone to charge. That's when she got really upset and started yelling at me ''you're a spoiled b*tch and you're whole life revolves around you're phone''. She asked me to come with her and I again said no. Then she left and was really really angry at me. I feel so bad now. We have had other fights and sometimes she didn't speak and forgive me for days. When she'll come back do you think she'll still be upset or forgive me? I honestly feel so so bad now and I regret the stupid things that I did.

I am a guy and I am the youngest in my family and my whole life I have always been compared to someone else when I fail at something. For example my dad always compares me to my best friend because he always works hard and I am apparently lazy and wasting my time in college even though my best friend goes to the same college. My best friend helps his dad run his business and I am mostly at home studying. Also my older brother compares me to my niece and nephew because my neice goes to work and I don't when I am 22 and I have been looking for a job ever since I graduated high school four years ago.

first of all let me say that I decided to be my own person and that I took it upon myself to get me a better family doctor as the one I had was not treating me when I needed it. so I have had my new fam doc since last December, and since then he has worked on my bronchitis when I had it 3 times he changed my asthma meds a few times so he is a really awesome amazing doc. well I was talking to a friend last nigh about how I had a docs appointment on Tuesday because I have bronchitis again and needed to be seen. and I said how I never told my mom about my appointment and she said why u need to tell her about it and said no I do not she will use the appointment against me. I said to my friend I said my mom one she does not care much about how I feel I said she always says I am not as sick as I say I am or that I am faking being sick. I also said that when I do tell her about my appointments she is like ok when ur done call and tell me everything they said, which seems like a caring mother but it is not this time. I had allergy testing once and she took me and she came back with me cause I was scared of the testing and when we were done she took her phone and texted everyone she knew what I was allergic to and she never told her coworkers as well so I know when I call her about how my appointments go that she tells her coworkers about it. my mom took me to my new doc once and she waited outside so she does not know who he is or his number or anything about him because, if she did then she would prob call him up and tell him that I am lying and faking sick when I come in there and all and I say tat because she took me to the doctors once cause I was sick and she said doc my daughter is faking cause I never hear her cough even when I am in same room as her she claims to never hear me cough so I do not put it past her to do that if she knew my docs info. I m not being rude I just do not think she needs to know that info based on what she has done in the past. I am adult so I can make my own decisions about who my doc is and all that stuff. see my mom got lil pissed when she took me to my new doctor, she said I never took u here before and I said I know I got a new doctor and I am trying him out was second visit to him at that point and she said every time ur doctor does not agree with u, u fire them and get a new one and u can't fire them because they do not agree with u, well truth is my old doc would not treat me when I thought I had pneumonia on top my asthma so I had to get a new doctor. so my mom gets uptight when I change doctors because the one I had was not working out. so I often do not tell her stuff like that cause I do not need her negative attitude. I go to appointments and do not tell her, I went to allergist a 3rd time and did not tell her I got a new asthma doc as well and did not tell her as I am an adult and all and cause of the way she acts towards me with my doctors and all.

So I was sort of mad at my brother and father so i messaged my friend to rant and at the end of my rant i wrote the my dad is like his brother....because he hates his brother anddddddd the brother read his text and i'm worried he got into trouble with his brother....help...pls......

this will probably sound not mean to people but seriously if this happens to you, you'll know what i mean anyways i have two older sisters they always make fun of me they both weight more then me and look way bigger then me and but they still call me fat and ugly and they call me asian even though i looking nothing like that and i always say thats racist but they say 'no im not racist i have one black friend!111!' they just make me want to die and they embarrasse me in public in front of people they say **** about me and they always act like they like me when we are alone but when our friends come over i try to talk to them and they completely ignore me and one time they just bursted in my room and they were shouting at me and beating me up for nothing im the youngest so my dad always squeezes me cheek and stuff and they always whine and say "you dont love us!1!!' even though im the one that has to deal with suicidal thought everytime somthing happens in school or at home with them and way more things they are just big fat brats that dont know when to stop and i try to tell them but they couldnt give a **** im done with this ive been feeling so depressed everytime **** happens with them ever since i was 8 and one time my sister beat me up so hard my hair started falling for a week because she pulled it too hard and she kicks me and i cant do anything beauase as i said they are bigger and they always use the excuse "youre the smallest" ugh please help

I am a high school guy with a 26 year old step mom. Dad married a much younger woman. She is the best mom EVER. I just adore her. Whenever I need help with ANYTHING she is always there to help me. She also has a great sense of humor and can find humor in almost any situation. One day I was just getting out of the shower and she walked in the bathroom. Was I ever embarrassed. However her good humor saved the day for me. She said, "I can sure tell you are your dad's son". I said how is that. She said, you are both hung like a horse. I could not stop laughing. Can you be embarrassed and proud a the same time. Do I have the coolest mom EVER?

so i was at a family gathering with my sister's in laws. they're kinda loud, rude, aggressive folk. anyways, we were in the living room, half watching TV, mostly talking, then they were telling a story about how one of the sons used to go by a drive through and pretend he was disabled and got free stuff. he said he would "pretend I was trying to bite my ear, and moan", and he reenacted it. then is father joined in and said "duhhh!!! duhduh duh!!!" personally, i was extremely offended, and feel ashamed that i didn't speak up or say anything. i don't know anyone disabled, but i thought it was SO disgusting. especially considering their age. anyways, what do you think of that? how rude are they on a scale of 1-10, and should i just avoid these type of people? BTW, their whole family was laughing, their other son, their mom/wife. i sat in silence, as did my mom. my sister laughed (i think out of habit, they like to make jokes and get mad if ppl don't laugh), but when i shot her a look and shook my head as if to say "no" she immediately stopped.

My sister has a niece about 1yr and 4 months old and is rather busy with work. She drives far to our house to drop her off for the day as we look after her until she finishes and comes to collect her or stay the night until work the next morning. My niece is getting older and tires out my mum and sister who are the main ones to look after her and my sister from work doesnt see this. Is it right that my mum and sister look after her for free even though she evidently exhausts them both? My sisters house is padded all over so there are no hazards but my mum's house isn't so they are on constant look out for her.

Put simply, my dad is a great father. My mum and dad split, he paid the remaining mortgage for us, pays child maintenance, cares about my education, etc. but he's a horrible person. I'm older now so I'm at the stage in my life where my parents almost become my friends and support me instead of my parents telling what I should do. He makes me feel like a have to go to university, he's a massive guilt trip, he makes me feel wrong all the time and just expects me to go along with his plans that he hadn't told me about after I've already made my own plans. My results at school and college are never good enough and he's so hard to talk to. My mum and I are best friends and we talk about everything. I think my dad is jealous but I've tried talking to him but he just shuts me out and pushes me away. I've already spoken to him about my issues but he's told me I'm wrong and hasn't listened. I want to help him but he never wants to talk. I've always felt like he's living his life trough me because I have more opportunities than he ever did but I've told him this is wrong and its not too late to persue his own dreams but he's having none of it, please give me some ideas as to how I can deal with his behaviour because it's making me I'll and very stressed.

I'm 21 year old woman and when I was 19, I found out in the worst possible way that I'm adopted. I had a fight with my parents and my father shouted at me "Do you wanna know where you might be now if it weren't for us?" and then my mother told me. I was devastated. I started drinking alcohol a lot but after a year or some I got better. I love my parents and they've given me a lot, there isn't a single thing I've been refused. I've always studied in the best schools, I've visited amazing places, I've had the chance to buy whatever I want and go wherever I want thanks to them and I've lived a perfect life... but I've always felt something's missing... My biological mother lived in times when it was impossible to have a child with an unknown father - society destroyed women like her. She was only 17 so she decided to leave me in an orphanage. Thankfully, my parents adopted me before I end up there. I'm grateful, but I'm also curious. Also I have some concerns about my health - there are things that probably are genetic and I want to know, I want to avoid them. Should I search for them? I decided to hire a private investigator to search my mother but I doubt I can find my father - I think he doesn't even know I exist. Do you think I should continue living my amazing life or should I find out the truth? I'm scared that if I find her, everything will fall apart. I may feel better, but I also may feel worse. I'm so confused.

Gracias por el apoyo, ya sabeis quienes sois.

Okay so my mom is the type person who if insulted, in any way, she can takes as a compliment usually I find this admireable but when I try to talk to her about serious stuff like coming home on time (because she usually sleeps over at her boyfriend's house) for me and my little sister so I can go to work on time without leaving my sister alone but, she gets stubborn and either takes whatever I say is compliments, or just starts on about how i can't tell her what to do and she leave for the night. I don't know how to deal with this and it's hard for me. Any reply can help thank you.

So im 20 and have no life. Lol literally. My dad wont allow me to get a job, start college, pick a career, or move out.... He is intimidating, loud, angry, and idk how to break away, or tell him that I REALLY need a job so that I can save up to move! Im sick of this life, its making me feel so trapped, and I feel alone and like a total loser.. I need advice on what to do, im literally so scared to confront him because he will BLOW up!

I'm 17 years of age and I live full time with my mom. My dad isn't in my life and I am currently a senior in high school and I work at McDonald's. I make $8.25 an hour with about 35-40 hours a week. I have my own car that I payed for with my own money. I'm not really home too much because I go to school from 7:30 to 2:30 then I go to work from 4-10. My mom has not had a job since she was layed off almost a year ago. o in the house its me, my mom, and my 21 year old brother and its obvious that my mom favors him. Last month she asked for $225 and I told her I did not have it. She then went into yelling as well as my other brothers as well and they pretty much yelled at me and made me cry until I gave them money. I'm trying to save as much as I can so I can move out once I turn 18. My mom says that If I don't give $225 each month that while I'm gone at work or school she will go into my room and move all my stuff to the living room and give my 21 year old brother my room. They're forcing me to pay rent and when I bring up leaving or living with someone else she says that anywhere I stay wont be stable and that she will call the police and begins to threaten me. Is there anything I can do about the situation? What could she do If I left and went to stay with someone else? Being in that house is really upsetting and depressing. I need advice as soon as possible. HELP! We also only live in a 2 bedroom apartment. I was my own clothes, purchase my own food and clothes, get my own school supplies, put gas in my car, ect.

it really seems that way. my dad he was violent and we got a restraining order, my step dad was controlling and bosy. my first boyfriend was emotionally manipulating, and selfish. My ex was selfish because i couldnt move to his state he found someone more convenient. i don't want to hate men, an i am fairly level headed, tried not to form bias despite my mum hating men, but they keep prooving her right

Okay...i'm 15 and my sister is 27 and her bf is 26. Im a guy. So we live in a one bedroom apartment and the walls are definitely not sound proof AT ALL! So everynight at around 11 i hear slapping noises and some thumping on the wall. So i decided to go close to the door and BAM!! i hear my sister start moaning! Like cant u wait until im not here to do that! Should i tell them i hear them?? Please help...i cant sleep at night because of them! Thanks!!!

My mother hates when I go out with my cousins. She thinks that they dumb people and I should stay away from them. They are really nice and always invite me to go to places and when I do go we always have a great time. What can I do? She gets so angry and starts yelling at me if I go out with them. I am a 24 year old man why is she treating me like a kid?? They're*

she is very aggressive,fat and looks like a lesbian wrestler, so I wan't her to take up wrestling to compete against john cena in wwe, how do I make that happen?

Okay so, I was masturbating in my bedroom, so my pants were down. I wasn t expecting dad to come back home. Well he rang the bell, amd I tried to pull my Pants up but my underwear got stuck so I couldn t pull them completely. Anyways, he opened the door with his key and I ran to the door, trying to hide my poor, almost exposed vagina behind it. He just peered over and went "What where you doing" And I said that I was in the bathroom. But he didn t buy it because he saw me run out of my bedroom. Anyways, he asked again and I was like OMG JUST LEAVE IT ALREADY. And so he left, looking furious. I m absolutely mortified and my dad was already very mad at me from before, now I fear I ve made everything worse, what if he thinks I m a slut now? What do I do?

After a quick research on the internet I found that the Syrian army has 125,000 active personnel and 200,000 reserve, the Iraqi 800,000 ( active 283,000, reserve 528,000) while they have the support from many nations (Australia, USA, Europe and neighboring countries). In the other hand the jihadists are below 30000 and have caused all this suffering. I have wrong data or is there some factor that gives them precedence ? Sory for my English and thanks in advance.

Only if you're a mother is this a nice gift from a son. I love my mom I never know what to get her for her bday so Im Getting her both a new stove and refrigerator. As the youngest child of all my siblings and only one that works would she be happy with this kind of gift. Would you be happy or how would you feel a gift like this instead of cloths, money, jewlery, makeup etc. I would like some feedback from mothers all around, and other ideas that I may not have thought of. Keeping identity private so no one knows for whom it's for. =] thanks in advance. Or get any idea

Do your parents allow you to watch pornography? If they don't, how'd they punish you for watching it?

So my mom is currently on section 8 and her landlord has been abusing his power(In my opinion). He is a very rude guy and so is his wife. But yesterday they came to my mothers house cause her power to the livingroom and her room went off. Mind you my mother is diabetic and asthmatic so she cant sleep in a hot room in summer with no fn or A/C. So thw landlord comes very rudely and upset and started cussing and what not at because my mother still had some power and she claims that she rushed over there foe no reason and this was at 9:00pm. So yeah. And then she gets into an argument with my sister because my sister has a short temper and they argued. And her husband spoke to my mother and threatened that he will call section 8 and tell them that she has 3 cars in the back of her house... Which is a lie there is only 2 lol. And one car with no papers. Now those are my brothers cars but her currently in college so you know he cant move them. So he says that hes had peoblems with my mother since day 1 but however hes only ever had problems because he bought a house that was already messed up... And hes mad that every problem that happens he has to fix. Is there anything my mother can do about this guy? Cause she is planning to move but moneybis tight right now. But i want to know if my mother can really loser her section 8 just cause she has 2 cars that are her sons in the back of the house. Cause tbh thats ridiculous to me.

My mom is sooooo nice to her patients and well everyone except for me! She always goes to events even people she's not related to! She even changed her schedule just to attend someone's basketball game! Then there's me... It was an award ceremony I told her about 5 times and she told me last minute she couldn't go because she can't change her schedule... And then the next week I found out she had the day off for my award ceremony but changed it so she could watch a friend's basketball game! I was furious and told her it hurt my feelings! She then blamed me for not ever telling her about my award ceremony! I told my mom and dad At least five times! My dad and brother even went except her! She's always nice to others except me and I wonder why... She's so obsessed with that basketball team to the point she doesn't care if I'm late to school just because she wants to watch a basketball game! Can someone give me advice? My feelings are really hurt...

My mom never listens to what I say or what I think. She gives me too much hand me downs to the point they don't fit my closet and drawers anymore. The worst part is all her hand me downs don't fit me at all. I tried getting rid of most of them because they're too big and she got mad saying I should wear all of it at least once! Also, whenever we go out and she asks me for my opinion, she never listens to what I have to say. She always does her own thing instead and then blames me if something doesn't go right. She's always like this, and I did try to tell her nicely that it hurts me when she never listens, but she always finds a way to turn everything around and blame me again. What should I do?