Me and my ex fiancee of five months broke up almost a month ago. He told me that he wanted to find himself and become a better person since he does have major problems that need to be handled. He told me just recently when I met him to talk that he was planning on moving back to our hometown once everything was figured out and he was a better person. Now remind you he's leaving to move in August and isn't sure when he will be back. Its a four to five hour drive. How do I try live life and be happy knowing he's going away and not sure when he's coming back and should I cling on to hope that we will someday get back together.

Before we used to be all lovey dovey and all over each other now as the days pass he doesn't kiss me. When I ask for one , he does a face or just complains that I always want a kiss. He calls me fat but I'm not fat. He never compliments me, always has something bad to say about me. When I cry he says " none of my ex girlfriends use to cry" and that I'm a crybaby. He treats me horrible and I'm tired of telling him how I feel. Its too hard to let go.

My daughter is 20 her gf 22 they have been together for five years. She got DX with cancer two weeks ago. Other then telling me she got DX she has shut me out. She won't let me go to any of the doctor appointments or talk to me. She told me no details. She only wants her girlfriend. She been spending all her time with her girlfriend. They haven't been apart in two weeks. Why is she shutting me out? I've told her I am here for her over and over. I've offered to go out to lunch or something with her and bring her girlfriend but she just wants to be with her girlfriend. Should I tell her I am upset?

Theres a guy I work with that said to me that I look at his work scedule all the time( which I dont) and that I like him. I just stayed calm and told him no. I started to leave then he called me back and asked what days I was working this week. Then he said I will see you tomarrow. Why would he do this?

A while ago, I told a girl I liked her. She said she was flattered, but since she was new to school she wanted to focus on making friends first... We text pretty often, and several times I've asked her to hang out. One of the times, she said she couldn't because she had to work, but she said I should come to her work and talk with her for a while (she literally does nothing all day). I actually got really sick that day so I couldn't... So later I asked if she wanted to go for a bike ride, but she said she was busy all week. Later that night, she texted me saying she was free Wednesday if I wanted to go for coffee. I agreed, and we had a great time. She texted me later that night and said she had a good time and we should do it again... So what do you think? Am I friendzoned or not? What should I do?

Ok so I kinda figured out this girl likes me. How do I ask this girl for her number. I can't do it in school because schools over so can't see her. The only way of communication is by instagram. How do I ask for her number on instagram then move on to asking her to be my girlfriend. I don't have a car I'm 15 and she lives a little far because I have to walk to it. So what could I do to ask for her number and stuff.

Ok, so I'm a 15 year old girl. I've been having intrusive sexual thoughts about the same sex, but there's one girl I have more thoughts about than the others. The weird thing is, I dont feel anything when I'm near this girl. I only have thoughts. When I do have these thoughts, I still don't feel anything. Is this normal? Also, P.S. I never had these thoughts about her before, and the thoughts just randomly came. What would you describe this?

Some of my friends say that if a guy farts in front of you he likes you. Some say if he dosent fart infront of you hes trying to win your heart. What do u girls think?

Do you talk or text when peeing or pooping or chat on net would you let someone. watch you go

I feel girls my age or younger these days are into older guys than me, black guys, or lesbians. I can't find anyone I'm a good match with. I feel so depressed seeing couples all the time and my city has millions of people living here.

I'm 15, 5'1 & 117 lbs, and he's 17 & very tall. He keeps verbally abusing me when I do something he doesn't like. He keeps calling me names like stupid ***** and how much of a slut I am. He goes off on me over the most stupidest things. One day he through his phone at me because, he wanted me to catch it & put it up for him. It slipped out of my hand & I dropped it. He looked at me with this evil look & I said sorry. He got in my face and said you stupid ***** why you drop it? Then I apologize to him again and then out of no where he slapped me & threw me against the wall choking me. He wouldn't let go of me so, I tried to grab his wrist. He let go of me &, grabbed my arms and he was shouting at me. I started crying & that's when he said you always make me act this. I mean he's a good boyfriend. He buys me expensive things all the time and that's why I choose to stay with him and, I don't have low self esteem. If he cheats on me I will leave. I can tolerate how he acts because, i'm use to it. How can I control his anger?

I used to weigh 320 pounds in high school and I have lost a significant amount of weight since then. I have never been in a relationship or ever had sex and intimacy. I never made a lot friends in highs school or college and now I feel washed up. I am lonely all the time and it's unbearable. Nobody to talk to, no kind words or kindness. I am now left with stretch marks all over my body and baggy skin. No woman will ever want me and I get depressed when I go out and see all the beautiful girls and everybody just having a good time. I hate myself so much for ******* up my body and now I can't take it. I seriously think about running away from everything and sometimes I get some thoughts that scare (like committing suicide). My life is ruined and I will be alone forever this is so unbearable. I would love a companion in life but It would be too much of a burden on a girl. I don't want a girl having to deal with somebody who has so many issues. I wish those of you with healthy bodies treated yourselves with some more respect and appreciate your youth. Because I feel like I have none. Especially girls, too many beautiful girls out there treating themselves so bad. I wish everybody happiness as for me, welI I just ****** my life all on my own.

One of my friend talks to people more than I do, and on Friday I went to see one of my guidance counselor a in school like I usually do, but there was a really beautiful girl there who was nice to me too and she even let me talk to her. But then the friend I was talking about, came to the room I was at too, and he was talking to her more than I was. I don't know if I should feel upset over this because I don't usually open myself up to girls when I finally talk to them again, but since my friend was talking to her more than I was, does it mean I wasn't going to belong with her anyway? She kind of seemed more interested in me too.

Me and this girl switched number. We been texting alot. I think she likes me but Im not sure if she is just friendly. I texted her first monday and tuesday in the afternoon. Then wednesday she texted me first. Then i texted her first Thursday and friday she texted me first. I didnt text her Saturday because she said she was working this weekend and studying for her tests. So i didnt text her because i didnt wanna bother her. Did i mess up by not texting her one whole day?

its like I can't win for losing with her. every time something happens she always tries to make it seem like I'm wrong at everything and my say so doesn't matter or itsnt right. I just feel if I make a wrong turn or a little slip "I'm cut off" or "I'm done with" type stuff... I mean dang I make mistakes. she just seems like everything has to go by her and what I say doesn't even matter. even when I at least TRY to defend my case or tell how something is or how I feel when I'm asked too I'm still wrong.. its like no matter what I say or do it doesn't help and I'm ways wrong. I just feel I'm just wrong at everything I do and say. something's gotta give :( .. how do I break that .. because I made one slip and it really didn't have to do with me and now I'm "cut off"!

I gotta friend that is really hot, and we talk about sex all the time, and sometimes she lets me play with her boobs, I reallly want her to give me a bj, is there a way I can ask her without being weird

I want to know because I want to bang my bf but I don't want to be embarrassed. His dick I like 8 in mine is smaller.

Was dating a guy for about a week then his ex called him which made him miss her so he broke up with me but said he couldn't make a decision on who he wanted. And I was still talking to him after that but it really bothers me and I can't do it anymore. Should I give him a chance, saying if you want me you have to drop her now and be done ? Or should I explain to him why I don't want to talk to him anymore or just start ignoring him ? Please help.

There is a guy I've known for a long time. I just wrote him this email since I think he's playing games. Do you think he will take me more seriously after reading this. I don't want to take a break from even talking to him. Here is what I wrote him- "Hi. Wanted to tell you I'm weary of the way things are going with us. First off your new friendship with this woman sounds very suspicious to me. I'm sorry but I can't see you not sleeping with her at some point. Maybe even moving in with her since she has her own place. You haven't had sex in eons and she's throwing herself at you. You seem to be amused when you tell me she wants to sleep with you. I don't see a funny thing about it. Its pushing me away. You're going to end up losing me over it. I don't like your attitude about probably not getting work in my town yet wanting to come here to visit me for sex. If you think I'm going along with that you're sadly mistaken! If you don't show more of a seriousness with me absolutely nothing will happen with us.

(I'm a girl, the only lbgt at our workplace, I'm very boyish) I work at a grocery store with this girl & I think she want to be friends or has a crush on me or is being weird for no reason?...When she first started working here, I pissed her off really bad about 3xs but, ever since then I kept my distance. Yeahh I could tell that she didn't like me. Since I've been keeping my distance shes been acting very weird now, like when I go to put back buggies or to show a costumer where something is, etc. She is ALWAYS looking (Its bad to the point where I don't like to look in her direction), she goes out of her way to talk to me (I usually don't speak unless I'm spoken too so, she always speaks to me first), she asks me to do favors (like call the manager, let her hold something, etc.) & she also comes in my line so I can ring her up...Why?! Lol I'm terribly ugly so whats up with the whole looking thing? We have the same group of friends (my friends & her friends started working there so were all friends now) & one of our friends keeps telling me that we should go out...Does that mean anything?

I can't go on dates yet lol

Alright, you knew this guy for 3 years, you and him have grown a bond and you love him a lot, but you find out he is 4 or 5 years older than you and you`ve already told him that you were younger but he didn't care, he loved you. Now he wants to see you on something like Face time or Skype to see you. what would you do?

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He's a massage therapist, as close as a brother to my best friend, and 25. I'm 21. We are both going to college/university. I'm not sure of a way to ask him or to hint. Should I be direct or hint just to make sure he is attracted to me or wants to. I am not looking for commitment and I think he isn't either. This is new ground for me so I don't know how to approach it. Plus, he lives out of town from where I live. Thanks in advance!

I'm having an argument with my friend. I am trying to show her my old boss is a total creep but she doesn't think so. She just thinks he's over protective. So, my old boss he's an old Korean man, I'd say around his 50's or 60's. One day, I went to his restaurant to eat with my boyfriend. He looked at my boyfriend and I, he said "oh!! You guys back together?" We both said yes and he seemed happy. He asked me to give him my new number to call me when he needs me to work. Of course, I said okay. A few hours after that, he called and asked me so are you really back with him? I said yes and he said oh ok. Then hanged up and never called me for work.

So there's this kid I had added on Facebook who had a mutual friend with me. He was attractive so I had messaged him and started a conversation. We talked for a little while over Facebook and then he had said he had to go and he'd ttyl. A few days later, I messaged him again and we talked all day. He asked if I'm single, how old I am, etc. He never responded to the last thing I said to him. Then the next day I messaged him again, we talked for awhile and he didn't answer the last thing I said again. He seemed interested in talking back and forth, asking me questions and also complementing me saying I looked good and seem cool. Never asked for my number. Didn't answer again. And hasn't initiated a conversation yet. I just don't what to think or do.

The first three dates were amazing and we made out for a couple hours each date. These dates were spread out about a week or more apart and we were texting off and on (almost everyday). All of the texts were light and funny and I usually ended the conversation after saying something particularly witty so it never had that "die out" feeling. Mind you, I tend to be the one to text first and I've paid for everything so far (except for a drink that she bought me on the first date) She went out of town for two weeks to visit her family & ended up breaking her phone & she had some family issues so we didnt talk for most of that time. After not texting her for over a week, I ended up texting her a screenshot of a song that we connected over on our first date saying "Hey *teasing/nickname I made up*, what are you up to?" We started talking again like we had been talking the whole time. We made plans to hangout that coming friday night but she had a ton of homework so I offered to help. I ended up being a little bit of a distraction & she didn t get as much done as she wanted. After that date, the texts were shorter & further in between. She s also on tinder more frequently but I also told her that tinder shows how recently someone was last online on our second date (how stupid, right??). Since I m on a couple times a day, do you think she thinks that Im not interested? Or do you think she s moved on? She isn t replying to texts as frequently as before. The past couple weeks we ve only talked once every 2 or 3 days, which is a stark contrast from before (and she was much busier with school beforehand) and I felt like I was keeping the convo going. I asked her to hangout on Friday (it was monday-perhaps I should have waited a few days to ask) and she didn't reply for TWO DAYS to which she said, it depended on how much homework she would get done. I'm not into tentative plans (especially because she made time for me during the week before finals) so after talking for a little bit after she told me it depended on her homework, I told her that I probably couldn't hang out (I gave her pretty good excuse). We didn't talk much after that then I texted her a few days later and after a couple texts she stopped replying. I thought I was being pretty engaging so that's not it. I checked tinder later that night and she logged in IMMEDIATELY after my last text (I did the math-I know Im being crazy) Help! Should I ignore her? Call her in a few days?

A guy got cheated on by his ex gf and he broke up wid her . but after a while he did talk to her but she was engaged to another guy but tells her what if i say yes to getting back to get togther with her . he doesnt love her thou. What does this mean? will they get back together even thou she engaed to someone else.

I've known this girl for a long time nd we're pretty close. I've always had a crush on her nd part of me always thought she felt the same. So at the end of senior year of highschool she broke up with her boyfriend of a long time. However we were both leaving for school so the timing was off. So coming back over this summer break weve seen eachother twice nd both times we had great chemistry. We're close enough to the point Where we're comfortable around each other but not in friendzoned(Id like to think). I finally decided that I was gonna ask her to hangout. My plan was to spark up a normal convo over txt nd just say we should catch up etc. however I texted her once didn't reply texted her the next day nd she replied once nd then stopped. Seriously if we can get a decent conversation going I'll ask but I rly don't wanna triple text this girl kinda weird you know. Advice?

We are both 17. We have been together for 7 months. Her name is Katarina. Before Katarina, i was dating Jessi who was my long time best friend before we went out and then her dad got transferred so she had to move and we split up, but she moved back again 2 weeks ago and we have been hanging out and catching up but she was flirtng with me a lot. Katarina, didnt really like it and felt threatened and told me she didnt want me to hang out with her. A really big fight ensued because i thought she was being ridiculous and controlling and eventually i just left. I went to a party at my friends outand i got kinda drunk there and Jessi was there and she brought me upstairs to talk about the fight and to comfort me and eventually, we started to kiss and then make out and before you know it, we were having sex (didnt have a condom either, so idk if shes pregnant or not). I guess Katarina went looking for me after i left and she ended up at the party (idk for sure) because she walked in on me and Jessi and she started to cry and left. I put on my pants as fast as i could, not even my shirt cuz i was in a rush, and had to like chase her down the street but wasnt really able to catch up to her cuz i was drunk. Ive been calling her and texting her and trying to talk to her in school but she wont answer me. I really do love her and i dont know why i did what i did, i guess cuz i was drunk and upset but i dont wanna lose her. How do i get her back. I need to get her back.

She touches my face and stares at my eyes, and touches my hair pretty much studies my whole face

So not just any guy, there's this guy I've liked for just about a year and I can unfortunately say I've never really talked to him. I've made eye contact with him and he's smiled at me but I just can't bring myself to make the first move I've talked to his entire family pretty much expect him! I know him mostly because our families grew up together! He's going to come to our cabin in the summer and I want to start something there, but whenever he's around I get really flustered(which is really unusual for me) and my mouth dosent seem to work anymore. I have no idea what to do! I don't think he's gonna make the first move(is talking even a move?:D) and I really want to get to know him better even if nothing happens. Any advice for a socially awkward teenager would be lovely:). Oh and I don't know if it matters but he's one grade above me I'm a freshman and he's a sophomore.

I have been getting closer to this girl I go to school with, her name is Madeline. We went to prom together and we have been flirting over texts but she doesn't really text back always. And one time it took her 5 days to text back and she said she was sorry and didn't meant to do it but it happens often. I just texted her how I have felt about her for so long and I asked if she felt the same way but she hasn't texted back and it has been 3 days. I know she hasn't read the text because on iMessage it says if you did or not, the last message I sent before says read. We go back to school on Monday and I don't want it to be awkward. Should I send it again? Should I just wait until she reads it and act like nothing happened at school? Or should I approach her on Monday? Thank you to all who respond.

This guy I'm texting said "Ow that's no fun!!" After I told him I had a long day. What should I rely!!

How do You now if a girl fancy you

I hooked up with my high school crush and yesterday I was talking to one of his buddies that knows i hooked up with his friend and randomly he said " __ mentioned about you on the drive home" I asked what did he say and he's like " so boys, how do you know __? " so I asked " what did you say?" He said " she's bae haha no we didn't talk about you that much " :/

I want to know bc i really like him and i seen alot signs that he do here some.....i always catch him looking in class and on instagram he had text me "you cool rate 8 and you should hit me up. And he always tease me and every time when he around his friends..his friends look at me and him... but when our friends ask him if he like me he says no...and every time we text, we text all day long . And he just text me 'goodnight boo dont trip because i tell every body that" and sorry i wrote so much

So one day in math class, a girl across from me is rocking her chair back and forth and starts to orgasm. The girl that sits next to me does the same thing. I then ask the teacher if I could switch seats and she said I can. When I arrive at my new table, the girl next to me Does the exact same thing. In Social Studies, the girl next to me does the same thing! Her face turns so frickin red and she just looks at me. The next day, in almost all my classes, girls were just doing this around me. All I could do was sit and laugh my a** off. After a few days of this going on, the girl that sits next to me in Social Studies brings in a dress with a thing underneath it. She rubs the thong and orgasms. Soon enough, this became the new trend. So many girls brought in their dresses and they orgasmed so hard and all I could do was laugh so hard because so many girls faces went red. What is going on here? I do not see this going on when the girls are around other guys.

I really want to see Jurassic World which comes out this friday coming up and how should i ask her without it sounding like a date?

A few months ago I was dancing with this one boy. My boyfriend found out but I was really dumb to even dance with him. I feel awful because my boyfriend won't stop bringing it up. He knows I get sad about it when he talks about it but he still does. Once he says something about it I get mad at him and then he calls himself stupid and says he'll never say it again. But he still says it a few days later. He won't let me talk to any boys anymore because I guess he's scared I'll do it again. It wasn't meant to be a huge deal. Even though now I understand why he's mad. I just want our relationship back again.

There is this girl that I have a huge crush on for a over a year. I know for a fact that we both like each other. I found out a few months ago that she gave someone from school and bj and she send a picture of herself in a bra to a guy a while back. This all happened after her friend told me that she like me. We both show signs that we like each ther but we don't talk much at all. Since she does all this is she even worth the time to go out with?