Marriage & Divorce: Question: Am I over reacting? |
- Question: Am I over reacting?
- Question: My husband sucks in bed!?
- Question: Marital problems. Should we take a break?
- Question: What is his problem???
- Question: What to do when I'm not invited to see husband's family, but my daughter and husband are invited.?
- Question: Do you think that he has feelings for me?
- Question: JW.. so if having a affair. . . Do you have2 divorce ur significant other n marrie ur mistress.... iz it respektabl?
- Question: Why people don't have respect for their elders or other people's marriages?
- Question: Does anyone have a successful "Hotwife" marriage? If so, how does it work?
- Question: Attracted to a married man?
- Question: I want a divorce …. but he doesn't?
- Question: Will anyone ever want me?
- Question: Husband doesn't want my pictures up on social networking sites?
- Question: If i have a judgement against me and my wife want to buy a home in her name will she be at risk?
- Question: Guys, what does sex feel like?
- Question: I'm looking at my wife's yahoo account right now. I see nude pictures and also sex emails? Why don't I forward these to our 14 year old?
- Question: He's back on dating sites already?
- Question: When is enough?
- Question: Why people are into dominate/submissive, my husband left me after telling me he needed to be a dominate after keeping it a secret.?
- Question: Can you Mary a cookie?
- Question: Would you forgive your brother for cheating with your wife?
- Question: Are you cheating on your husband?
- Question: Whats your cheating story?
- Question: Unemployed and sad.?
- Question: Please help an engage couple out?
- Question: Indiana law?
- Question: Divorced man taking items that belong to women?
- Question: Why would an ex wife always check up on a spouse if she is the one who left?
- Question: Copy of tenn marriage certificate?
- Question: Any advice for divorce depositions?
- Question: Have you noticed that a male's pool of available marriage partners grows larger with age, while a female's pool grows smaller?
- Question: Why do some people choose not to get married and stay single?
- Question: If you're wife told you it was okay to have an affair? would you?
- Question: Why are women SO selfish? Serious question?
- Question: Do the majority of women in Norway get married first or have a child first?
- Question: What are the signs of an emotional affair?
- Question: Parents when you spank do you hug your kids or tell them you love after spanking them do you understand if they are mad after being spanked?
- Question: Why is my husband a clown and why i hate them?
- Question: Is it unwise to date a cheater?
- Question: Different ways divorce affects children?
- Question: Do a male's options for a wife improve as he grows older?
- Question: I cheated on my husband 23 yrs ago should we just end the marriage?
- Question: Sex Addiction or Worse?
- Question: If a married man exchanges sexual e-mails online with another woman, does that called cheating?
- Question: Which is the best county in midwest Michigan for a woman to file for a divorce?
- Question: My best friend is sleeping with my husband?
- Question: Why can't we ban the type of video that show this fat-shaming?
- Question: Why do guys get married have kids, then complain it so much work and expense...?
- Question: Why do give certain ages when stating if a person should marry?
- Question: Having some trust issues, please help?
- Question: Is dog and beth divorced i would love to tlk to beth i watch her every time she is on tv wht happened to dogs?
- Question: When will this Fat-Shaming stop?
- Question: I am extremely concerned about my husband's family. Help?
- Question: Is it bad that I m not sad that my parents will be getting a divorce? Is that normal?
- Question: From society, why is there such a strong pressure for marriage?
- Question: Un uomo che tradisce la sua donna lo ammetterebbe se venisse scoperto?
- Question: Wife and I are separated , I got her pregnant?
- Question: Why is this dream happening and why is my reaction so violent?
- Question: Can I sleep with someone else in this situation?
| Posted: 06 Jun 2015 09:29 PM PDT When a girl from my husband's work request him on social media he just rejects them.. . But there is this girl brenda, she is a person who hugs a lot. (I've seen how she hugs this other married man and if i didn't know he was married i would totally think they're dating) N e ways my husband tells me he has had to tell her to have more respect towards him/my husband, that there's no need for physical contact. Ok until there I'm proud. On his birthday we went out had a good time. Later i found out that he erased text from her/brenda. First i asked if he needed to tell me something about this brenda, he said no, later he said he added her on his instagram. But he didn't say anything about the texts. So asked him what did they say, he asks her to send a pic of the text to show them to me. Ok, she had sent a happy birthday text and he sent her ok thank you and a good night. And later he tells (because i asked) me she also gave him a hug... the reason he gives me about why he erased the texts is because I'm a jealous person and wanted to have a nice birthday. ( we are 25 and 7 yrs of marriage) ....I don't know just sharing this it might help me think and see what people think. |
| Question: My husband sucks in bed!? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 09:21 PM PDT Usually the only time I can orgasim is through oral sex and even then sometimes I cant because he just doesn't know what he's doing! He lost his virginity to me, could this be why? I'm going crazy |
| Question: Marital problems. Should we take a break? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 09:21 PM PDT We have been married going on two years, been together almost six. He goes though these patterns where he'll need to spend every waking hour with his friends. And by that I mean he only comes home to sleep or shower. When that gets old he has me and the kids to fall back onto until that gets old and..well, you see where this is going. He works full time as do I but I'm the only one who does any of the grunt work or takes care of the children. I'm not being dramatic when I say he does absolutely nothing...when he's home, but change the channel on the TV. He feels chores and taking care of the kids is 'women's work' and all he needs or should be expected to do is 'provide for the family'. On many different occasion I've told him this lifestyle of his doesn't work for me. I got married to live our lives together, not so he can live his life while I sit at home playing house. Today he woke, got us breakfast and left. He's been gone since. He came home for maybe five minutes literally walked around aimlessly then left. I don't know how to tell/show him I'm serious since every time I try to talk, he dismisses me. My feelings/opinions don't matter if they interfere with his lifestyle. Well, I'm sick of acting like it's okay or tiptoeing around the situation. I don't want to jump to divorce but that seems almost inevitable. Should we take a break? And how can I discuss this with him when he doesn't listen or is never home...leave a note? Serious advice please. |
| Question: What is his problem??? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 09:17 PM PDT My ex husband of 5 yrs keeps belittling me every chance he gets.saying im a bad mother to our kids.telling them i dont love them.and all of this is thru text msgs which ignore but when he sees me in person to get the kids he doesnt say a word but quick to text me...ive had to call the cops twice for his unruly behavior..he' ll stop but start right bk...what is the cause of his episode? He has a fiance and a new baby but he still tries to make my life a living hell...what is his problem?? |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2015 09:17 PM PDT I'm not sure how to react to my sister in law inviting my husband and daughter to visit her, but not me or my son (my husband's stepson). She lives a few hours away and wants my husband and daughter to visit her next weekend for a day trip. I've known in the past that she's had issues with me over nothing. I just feel really hurt especially since my husband thinks it's fine to go without me. I don't want to react unreasonably on this situation and that is why I'm here for more opinions on what to do. I've thought to ask my husband if maybe she could come closer to where we live to visit them and it wouldn't be quite so far. My daughter just turned 3 and she is my world. We don't spend much time apart. In my family the husbands and wives do almost everything together. It's how I've been raised and it's so hard to accept anything else. I'm finally used to him spending most of his time with his friends and not including me, but now he's trying to not include me in activities with my daughter. He's even mentioned staying at his parents with my daughter several hours away for several days without me or my son. He treats me like I'm crazy when I feel hurt by all this. |
| Question: Do you think that he has feelings for me? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 09:03 PM PDT I've been with this guy keeping a casual relationship for almost 2 years. A few weeks ago, I decided to move on and I told him not to text me or call me. Weeks later he decides to text me asking me how I was, telling me that he saw someone by his job that looked just like me and that he's been thinking about me. He also tells me that we have a strong connection, asked about my love life and so on... We never dated and now he's asking me out for coffee?. I'm 23 and he's 43. Today he called me and texted me that he's going out of town with his daughter for her bday and then texts me that "he will call me back after he gets back. What does he really want? |
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| Question: Why people don't have respect for their elders or other people's marriages? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 08:56 PM PDT People who are friends with people that is more than 4 years older than their age.They are acting too mature for their age and if they have friends who are more than 4 years younger than them,they are being immature and it's very wrong if they are married.Like my son for a example,he have conversations with one of his elders about non school stuff .He and this married female teacher would have non school conversations about sports,life,hobbies,food,etc and it's not only my son is disrespecting his elder,he is also disrespecting her marriage since this teacher is married and she's 25 years old and my son is only 18 years old.This is not formal and it's wrong.She also said that she enjoys my son's conversations with and she also said that my son can call her by her first name after he graduates.I don't know why this teacher is trying to treat my son like a equal because he's not a equal and he will never will be.Also society frowned upon married people having friends of the opposite gender because it's disrespectful to the marriage and the fact that people nowadays are not being as formal towards their elders is being VERY disrespectful.Society used not to be like this when I was 18.When I was 18,I was always formal towards teacher. Teachers never said"peace out girl scout" and I never kept in contact with them because they are my teachers and only my teachers and elders,not friends,not like an older brother/sister,not a second mom or dad.What's wrong with today's society? |
| Question: Does anyone have a successful "Hotwife" marriage? If so, how does it work? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 08:48 PM PDT My husband heard about the Hotwife concept and was really interested in trying it. We are pretty adventurous and both like to try new things. I'm just nervous that this could hurt our marriage. I'm wondering who else is in this lifestyle and how it really works and affects the relationship. |
| Question: Attracted to a married man? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 08:19 PM PDT My colleague is married with 2 boys and I can't stop seeking his attention. He said he liked me too and also once mentioned that he would love to sleep with me. Ofcourse he loves his wife and I don't want to break that . I am married myself and (I believe ) I love my husband but why am I going through this? Should I talk to a therapist? I enjoy seeing him in the morning, I also like to talk to him, we go for coffee sometimes. He does not try to get intimate or touch me ever. I look forward to the office since he is there. |
| Question: I want a divorce …. but he doesn't? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 08:05 PM PDT I am ready to get out of this mentally abusive relationship, but he won't agree. He's trying to fix things ( like he's done over and over in the past) , but I am so done with all these games of saying sorry and then starting right back up again a few days later. We have a 5 year old child together, and since my work has slowed down we have come to depend on him financially more than before. To make him buy food for the house, I pretty much have to beg him. When I made enough I would cover all the expenses, except rent. Since my job slowed down it has been hell. He makes enough to pitch in during these hard times, but he hates seeing his account go down. I tried very hard to keep our family together, but I am feeling like giving up. I just feel we aren't his priority, his account is more important. The money he saves is his, not ours. He uses it mostly for vacation trips to see his family in Brazil. I want out… but he has me trapped in a emotionally abusive cycle. promising to change and me believing it …and then hurting me over again. His anger towards money and taking care of us has even led him to tell his son that he hates him. which is something i can never forget. |
| Question: Will anyone ever want me? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 07:58 PM PDT My husband (soon to be ex) is a drug addict and has told me nothing but lies for years. We have a son together and knowing it was an unsafe environment, I got us out of there. I told him if he went to rehab that we would come home. It did not work. In the meantime he found someone else and asked for a divorce. The pain is unreal. Ive gained weight, become depressed, and really doubt that anyone would ever want me, like Im tainted goods or something. Im 25, overweight, divorced, with a child...I just feel so low right now. Would love to hear opinions. Thank you. |
| Question: Husband doesn't want my pictures up on social networking sites? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 07:31 PM PDT My sister accidentally got me on camera holding the baby and the picture had gone up on her snap chat. She has males on her account and they have been making disgusting dirty comments on the picture of me. I was unaware of this until she told me after she posted it. My husband found out some how and he is really angry, wants to confront the guy who made those comments and also has gone as far as to say that I flirt with other men. He has asked me not to post pictures of myself on instagram in the past but I did go against his wishes only because I have no males on my account. I have whatsapp and sometimes upload my picture on to the display photo but that is all. I don't constantly take selfie's and upload every hour of the day. He is really frustrated at me for it said he doesn't like me putting my pictures up and that I have hurt his feelings. But it wasn't my fault this person made these comments about me on somebody else's profile? What should I do? I told him I'm going to stop posting pictures. Thanks |
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| Question: Guys, what does sex feel like? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 07:29 PM PDT I'm just curious. What does it feel like for a married man to be having sex with his wife? Everything from the physical intimacy and thrusting to the orgasm... What does it feel like to ejaculate inside her? And of you're someone who has kids or is trying to, how does that factor equate into the sex over all? Be very descriptive. Not just simple answers like "it feels good." Also, please no stupid answers. I asked this question before and people posted ridiculous things. I want an honest to goodness description of what it feels like to be having sex with your wife and what it feels like to orgasm inside her. |
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| Question: He's back on dating sites already? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 07:20 PM PDT My ex, who just dumped me three weeks ago is back on dating sites already. We lived together for two years, and I moved out just two weeks ago. He told me that he didn't want to be in a relationship and that he wanted to work on himself. So after I gave him the keys last week and got off the lease for our apartment, I have not contacted him and got on with my life. I found out he's now back on dating sites already. I don't get it?! Why would he be doing this when he said he wanted to be in a relationship? |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2015 07:19 PM PDT I am married to a wonderful man whom I was best friends with for 5 years before dating. He is a wonderful father to my oldest daughter from a previous marriage and our 2 year old. He is at every sport and school event. He has never stayed out late drinking, etc. He has been struggling with his employment situation over the last 3 years and I'm at the end of my rope with his lack of effort. He had a government job for 3 years which the contract ran out on 2 years ago. Then he had a brief job that he ended up getting injured on in less than 90 days. He has been working for the last year and a half doing a skilled trade that he enjoys, but over the last 3 months he has not been getting many hours and has even gone several weeks with no hours at all. In my opinion, is time to find something else in the same field. We are struggling financially and are behind on bills. I work full time, but it doesn't cover everything. I can't get him motivated to look, but when I look for him he always comes up with a reason to not apply. This was also a problem when we looked for the last two jobs. I had to find both of them and push him towards them. I can't take being responsible for the majority of everything anymore and I need him to be an adult. I have begged and pleaded and every time he says he understands how I feel and he will get on it, but then there's no action. HELP! |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2015 07:05 PM PDT We stopped having sex, except very sporadically (every few months). He told me it was due to stress and he was not in the mood. I figured this is what people meant when "you get married you stop having sex". He said the only way he'd sty married to me was an open relationship. I just don't understand why people would be into that sort of thing. I am doing better and have an awesome very caring and nice bf now. Has anyone else been in this situation or known someone this also happened to? Edit: I'm very submissive, he's the dominate one. I also said I would try bids but he aid he could not with me because he would not enjoy it knowing I was not really into it. |
| Question: Can you Mary a cookie? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 06:40 PM PDT |
| Question: Would you forgive your brother for cheating with your wife? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 06:37 PM PDT My friend Josh has 2 bros. Dan and Zack. Zack is the cheater. Dan is the source to the whole situation. Dan stole money from Zack's ex wife and told her that dan did it. Dan assumed Josh was tbe culprit. Dan and Josh were really close. Dan got revenge by telling Josh's ex wife some lies about josh cheatin. The dumb girl believed him and they slept together behind his back until Dan learned that Zack was the one who stole. The ex wife was pissed because she learned her husband was faithful the whole time. Dan told his brother what happened and they didnt speak for a few months. Josh's ex begged forgiveness but he ignored it and got divorced. I think the girl was just looking for a justification to cheat because she had no evidence of what Dan told her. My friend was heartbroken but after several months of his mother begging he forgave his brother and thought he couldnt stay mad at him forever. Josh admits there is feelings of resentment. They are closer now than i remember. Its been 3 years since the divorce. I don't know how he forgave him cause if my sister did something so low she would be dead to me. Your thoughts? |
| Question: Are you cheating on your husband? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 06:03 PM PDT Are you cheating on your husband with an ex-boyfriend? |
| Question: Whats your cheating story? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 05:58 PM PDT Did you cheat because you were drunk or high? Did you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife? Was it with an ex, friend, best friend, his/her friend? Was protection used? Please tell your story. Also im single and never cheated. Just interested in these kind of stories Best story gets best answer |
| Question: Unemployed and sad.? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 05:53 PM PDT I am 27 years old, male, unemployed for 2 years, no kids, I have a wife, we are living under her parents house. My wife has a lot of opportunities working online, she is very much talented and lucky. She earns above average compared to most families in our country. She often times calls me names because I cannot get employment, she doesn t want me to work outside because of the low pay. She said it would be a waste of time and stupidity. How do I bounce back from this? She might leave me anytime soon if you know what I mean. I am practically worthless, all I do is eat, wake up, sleep, and try to do some of her work for her. Help. I forgot to tell that she got me doing cannabis and it is illegal in our country, this also adds up to my fear of applying for a job because of possible drug test. It helps with the depression. |
| Question: Please help an engage couple out? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 04:58 PM PDT Am I wrong to be mad my fiancé paid $300 to apply to an apartment for Us and never mentioned it to me? |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2015 04:00 PM PDT Can custody change at a contempt violation of parenting time hearing? |
| Question: Divorced man taking items that belong to women? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 03:31 PM PDT My mother and this man got married a year ago, and now they are offically divorced. The house they used to live in is currently on the market waiting to be sold. The man moved out and my mom still lives in it. The man is currently moving " his things" out as the house is waiting to be sold. In the process of moving "his things" out, he is taking some of my moms and family relatives belongings with him. He claims that everything he is taking is his but yet it is positive that is is my mothers because she has owned most of this stuff before they even got married. So here's where the question comes in: what can we do to not only get our things back (because he's not going to give it back) and prevent him from taking our things too? He has been moving out without our supervision which is a major mistake on our part. We are going to hire a attorney to help out but just for future reference, what can we do to get our things back? |
| Question: Why would an ex wife always check up on a spouse if she is the one who left? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 03:28 PM PDT years ago, my ex wife told me that she didn't love me anymore and wanted a divorce--and seemingly took some sort of sick pleasure out of reminding me over and over again how it was over between us and "I don't want you to think that there will be hope that things will change--I don't love you!" Within a couple of months, she found herself a new boyfriend, had her lawyer give an "polite" eviction letter since the lease was technically in her name, and moved him in right after I moved out. (Really classy woman for ya) After the divorce, I took the care of moving 19 hours away across the country to a metro city (partially to ensure I'd never see her again!) to start a new life. Now, I always keep a blog that details events that have been going on in my life, and I noticed for that a year later after the divorce and every year afterwards, I would see her IP address once every few months in the visitor's queue that show who's been on my site. After I wrote about having been hospitalized after a serious health issue landed me there, I received an anonymous phone call from a man refusing to identify himself asking what had happened and if I was doing okay--and it sounded like he was on a speakerphone, as I heard someone whispering questions for him to ask me. It's really had me confused--if she has a new man now and living happily ever after with him, what does she give a damn about how I'm doing to the point where she checks up on me every so often? |
| Question: Copy of tenn marriage certificate? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 03:24 PM PDT |
| Question: Any advice for divorce depositions? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 03:17 PM PDT Having one next week.. |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2015 03:10 PM PDT since the male is normally expected to be a bit older than the female. doesn't it make sense, then, for a male to delay marriage as long as possible to provide himself the widest selection of available partners from whom to choose? |
| Question: Why do some people choose not to get married and stay single? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 03:06 PM PDT |
| Question: If you're wife told you it was okay to have an affair? would you? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 03:02 PM PDT |
| Question: Why are women SO selfish? Serious question? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 02:50 PM PDT I am 22 years old & first thing first I don't hate women, I have two sisters. But in my experience women are very selfish. They talk all about themselves & in a relationship it's all about them & providing things they want for them & they always think they can bag any guy they want. Now I'm working & have a stable job & now I'm thinking why should I give my hard earn money to you??? For sex & make me sandwiches? Because that's what I see all I'm going to get out of a relationship with a woman. Also I do you some guys who have been married to women & gave them a place to live & took care of them & bought them stuff & made them happy & those women still cheated on them & left.... So what do you think or advice? |
| Question: Do the majority of women in Norway get married first or have a child first? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 02:44 PM PDT It's a question I have on homework and I can't seem to find the answer anywhere. Is the social norm in Norway that the majority of women have their first child before being married? |
| Question: What are the signs of an emotional affair? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 02:23 PM PDT I am very good friends with a married woman. I have almost as much contact with her as I do my wife. How can I tell if this friendship has become an emotional affair? |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2015 02:09 PM PDT do you have anything else to say Merlin |
| Question: Why is my husband a clown and why i hate them? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 01:47 PM PDT Hi my question is my about my husband and me.He acts like a clown when hes drunk.When he's sober he's so serious but sometimes that seriousness turns to into grumpy nagging old man.Sometimes he makes me feel am worthless i guess cause he's 63 and am 33. I know we have an age difference but dam my grandfather wasn't even grumpy this way.Any how when my husband drinks its worse because he acts like a clown and he makes me so insecure he makes me nauseous and gives me a tremendous headache everytime he drinks.I use to have a drug addiction problem and he got verbaly abusive with me telling me i was spending lots of money in which i did alot.But now that i stopped guess who's the child now?He is .Nobody convince him to stop drinking but sure as hell he made me stop my habit.Especially hes Taurus men and you know what they say about them.?.Today he went to my father's house to do job with coworker my dad lives with.Anyway he called me drunk cause they drink and you know what he told me.?He said if i wanted a a real live chicken that they had in the backyard. So i said yeah but told him are you serious cause i want the chicken or are you just clowning around with me?See he calls me saying these things but never really does them.He's not going to bring the chicken or anything like that hes just joking like always.Anyway why he is like this?.Do you think i should just laugh about it or get mad.? |
| Question: Is it unwise to date a cheater? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 01:43 PM PDT My boyfriend is 21 years older than me and has been married twice. His first marriage was strained because his wife had breast cancer. He had an affair and married his mistress when she died. The second wife caught him cheating, divorced him, and got lifetime alimony. He confessed these things to me, which prompted me to check his phone. I found flirtation and cyber-sex with other women. I told him that I caught him and so now he deletes everything before meeting me. Now I'm unsure of whether he stopped cheating or he is just being more careful about getting caught. Should I just dump him over his history of cheating? |
| Question: Different ways divorce affects children? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 01:32 PM PDT Hi my parents divorced when I was 9 years old, I'm 18 now and I'm a very stressed out and angry person. I won't go into great detail about the divorce but I've had a lot of different therapists in my life and none of them were able to tell me what about the divorce affects me and it's been haunting me for years. I've just always wondered what are the different ways divorce affects children? What are common mistakes parents/families make during a divorce? And what is it about divorce that makes children angry? |
| Question: Do a male's options for a wife improve as he grows older? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 01:07 PM PDT does an older dude face far better choices in the quality of a partner the longer he waits? |
| Question: I cheated on my husband 23 yrs ago should we just end the marriage? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 12:36 PM PDT Every move I make he thinks I m still cheating, so tired of the insecurities.. |
| Question: Sex Addiction or Worse? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 12:18 PM PDT I came upon masturbation early, and repeatedly got away to pleasure myself. Soon after, I found myself raising the stakes, such as "accidentally" walking in on my friend's mom showering, so I could see her breasts. I became very aroused by this type of stuff. I married my college sweetheart, but started craving more. My haunts of choice were Asian massage parlors. I then began meeting girls at motels for uninhibited sex. Despite a good education, I wanted it without a condom and rough. After 18 years, my wife filed for divorce. I vowed to pull my life together, and met a sweet woman who is now my fiancée. I began leading a normal life. But in the last two years, I suddenly turned again, and badly. I once more frequent sex parlors, and have also taken on a couple of young mistresses. I am in my 40's, and they are in their 20's. My sex sessions are more intense. I am into filming, bondage, hitting and very rough sex. I get pleasure from leaving them feeling defeated. I know I have a problem. But I often feel like I don't want to stop. I love my fiancée. But I also enjoy this other side. Is this sex addiction? Mental sickness? I can't talk about this with anyone. I have thought of seeking therapy. One time I was even scheduled to go, but instead picked up one of my mistresses and savagely dominated her. This is why I feel so confused. I don't feel guilt. I don't fit the typical sex addict profile. Any serious thoughts would be greatly appreciated. |
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| Question: Which is the best county in midwest Michigan for a woman to file for a divorce? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 11:42 AM PDT |
| Question: My best friend is sleeping with my husband? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 11:17 AM PDT She comes over every weekend and sleeps in the guest room but last week I woke up to some noise and came down stairs and they were both watching a movie. It was complelty obvious what had just happened because her bra was on the other side of the couch and my husband covered it with the blanket when he realized I came down but I had already seen it. I didn't want to say anything until I knew for sure so this weekend I had her come over and I knew for sure what was going on because I put a hidden camera and when I heard her go downstairs after I had "went to bed" I watched from my phone. Or at least watched enough to know what was going on. I didnt go down stairs because I would rather just leave him and watch him suffer as he wonders why I just up and left one day. I'm also very confused because my husband acts like he is complelty in love with me and treats me like a queen. Should I confront them of pack my stuff and be gone when he comes back from his business trip on Tuesday? My best friend can go to hell for all I care. She's also pregnant with my other best friend's baby, which I already told and showed him proof of what went down this weekend. |
| Question: Why can't we ban the type of video that show this fat-shaming? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 11:01 AM PDT http://www.businessinsider.com/scientifically-ways-women-attractive-2015-5 |
| Question: Why do guys get married have kids, then complain it so much work and expense...? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 10:54 AM PDT when they KNOW or don't pay attention to how many other men are complaining about this? The guy is the one that usually asks the woman to marry him, he KNOWS kids will soon come, in most cases, then they complain about the ball and chain? Why do you guys want kids, strap yourself to kids, a house, car payment, why not take your hard earned money and buy that boat, car etc. not get involved in getting married to the ball and chain? |
| Question: Why do give certain ages when stating if a person should marry? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 10:53 AM PDT So there is a 21 and 23 year old who is getting married. Both are highly mature and independent. Both have good-paying jobs and can afford to have a family. They understand commitment and arent worried about the party lifestyle but taking care of business and see highly responsible. So there is a 28 and 30 year old who is getting married. One of them still lives with their parents and never had a steady job. The other is still into the party scene, getting drunk and has no sense of responsibility. They can't afford a home or to have a family. My question is: Why do people say when you're "such and such" age then you'll be ready for marriage and not taking into account the details of the person's life??? I know so many "older" adults who don't have their life together and still make silly decisions and yet because they "over 25" they are ready to get married?? I don't get it. People are so surprised that my husband and I are so financially stable and having a wonderful marriage because of our ages but age doesn't mean a thing. We work hard and we work together. We make sacrifices, we save money and we aren't selfish. So, what's the big deal?? |
| Question: Having some trust issues, please help? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 10:46 AM PDT I am having a really hard time trusting my new boyfriend. I'm not usually one to have trust issues. I had no reason to not trust him before. If he said he slept 15 hours, I believed him. If he said he was spending time with his sister and that's why he didn't call, I believed it. I understood he was busy, I understood he has a child, I understood I'm the only person in his life. I have friends I like to hang out with too, I like time alone or time to run errands, etc. But I do like to see my BF! And as busy as I am, working and being a full time college student, I make time for him whenever I can. He stopped making time for me. We stopped going on dates and he stopped wanting to see me a lot. We see each other once every 7-10 days now! We've had sex all of twice in a month. This is a guy who used to talk about sex all the time, and claimed he needed it! He says he likes space, and he's always like this with his GF's. The past two weeks have been terrible, his schedule seems so different and his car is at an apt building I suspected was his kid's mom but he claims it's his brother's friend. I call him and he won't pick up and later will have an excuse. He says him and his kid's mom don't even talk like that but she sends links and videos to his FB all the time and comments on everything. I'm just not buying it. Whenever I have a gut feeling he's with her, he says he's with his brother at that apt. He's making me feel bad for accusing him of this and crazy! |
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| Question: When will this Fat-Shaming stop? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 10:06 AM PDT http://www.everydayhealth.com/news/are-we-fat-think/?xid=y_sh "Perhaps most frighteningly, the study shows that being overweight or obese caused 3.4 million deaths worldwide in 2010 . . . " |
| Question: I am extremely concerned about my husband's family. Help? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 09:58 AM PDT My husband's family is way too close for comfort. I believe his mother is at the root of this. When I first met his mom, she was very nice. But as time went on, her behavior began to escalate. She would show controlling, overbearing behavior all the time, taking over when it was not her place to do so. It made me feel like a bug as the wife. On a number of occasions, when I would visit her house, she looked through my purse without asking and on one occasion, she took something from my purse, never to mention it to me. She has looked through some of my personal written notes and barged into my bedroom when my undergarments were strewn about. The tipping point came in December. My husband invited me to a trip to Florida with his parents. I said 'yes' as I had never been there before. Lo and behold, the day before the trip, he proceeded to tell me, "We'll be sleeping in the same room as my parents." My jaw dropped. The whole vacation was absolutely miserable. My mother in law controlled my whole wedding. It was a fight just to pick my own music to play. She even yelled at me on my wedding day numerous times. I have talked to my husband about it a lot and we have argued. He says he sees it but makes me out to be the villain. He thinks I'm trying to separate him from his mother and family. I'm trying to get him to see that this behavior is unhealthy! Please help. The whole family dynamic is strange. We live down the street to make things worse. I am thinking of leaving. |
| Question: Is it bad that I m not sad that my parents will be getting a divorce? Is that normal? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 09:43 AM PDT |
| Question: From society, why is there such a strong pressure for marriage? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 09:06 AM PDT I've been told by many that by the age of 30, a male should settle down. And by age of 32-34 he should have children with his wife and start a family. I don't really find this important to me as I want to financially secure myself, save up for retirement and buy a house. I want to pursue my dreams, not waste time for marriage. But whenever I mention this, people either laugh or there's always a heated argument. I don't understand, why is there such a pressure for marriage? for the thicker skin comment, I am not offended but was curious. Whats the point of marriage when you don't have money? |
| Question: Un uomo che tradisce la sua donna lo ammetterebbe se venisse scoperto? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 08:36 AM PDT Gli uomini traditori giurerebbero anche il falso pur di non ammettere Il tradimento con la propria donna? Cosa ne pensate? |
| Question: Wife and I are separated , I got her pregnant? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 08:19 AM PDT Hello. My wife and I have been separated for a month and a half now, I'm living somewhere else for the time being and she's still living in our house, well we are in a "dating eachother" stage in our separation and sleep together. Well she found out yesterday she's 4 weeks pregnant and I'm the only one she's been with (and vice versa). How should I handle this? We were trying for children before we got separated and now she's pregnant but still wants the seperation and wants to continue to have me home two days out of the week for our "dating" phase.so how should I go about handling this ? |
| Question: Why is this dream happening and why is my reaction so violent? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 08:09 AM PDT Ok, so I had this dream again(had it before many other times). It makes me wake up crying and mad at the same time. It's so vivid I have to tell myself that it's just a dream. In this dream, my mom cheats on my dad with a lot of other men and sleeps with these men. Then my parents get a divorce(divorce part really happened). Then she continues having sex with other men, then it cuts out. I'm beyond mad at this point. Then all of a sudden it fast forwards to my mom and I and one of the men she cheated on my Dad with(my mom likely cheated on my dad in real life during their marriage) talking because they want to get married. Now I am beyond angry. Im enraged and sad beyond belief at the same time. I ask her how many guys she's had affairs with during and after my dads marriage to her and she says she can't remember how many. Then I am even more angry and start throwing chairs, yelling, calling her a whore, and then when her new bf comes and grabs me I knock him out. Then my mom calls the police. I grab a knife and am going to kill myself. I wake up breathing really hard. Why does this keep happening? I'm an extremely nice guy, I'm 15 year old boy by the way. I'm the sort of guy that helps the victim of bullying and stands up for that person(done it before). I'm the type of person that makes everyone laugh. I admit if my mom got a bf, id get pissed and move in with my dad.(my dad was the innocent in the divorce) but idk if I'd throw chairs and some of that other stuff. |
| Question: Can I sleep with someone else in this situation? Posted: 06 Jun 2015 07:42 AM PDT Short version of the story: gf of 8 years, amazing together, love each other so much. BUT she has severe PTSD from being raped and beaten by an ex stepfather, and kidnapped and pistol whipped unconscious by an ex-bf. She is depressed and or anxious almost every day. She can't work and is on disability because of it. She's a shell of a person, she can barely leave the house. I feel awful for her. Her family has sent her to the top inpatient behavioral health facilities in the country but nothing works, nothing changes. I think this is who she is going to be for life. I will not consider leaving her, I'm loyal and I can't leave over something that's not her fault. I will go down with the ship. But I NEED, not want, but NEED regular sex. I have no problem separating emotions, this is purely physical. Jacking off doesn't cut it, and I deserve sex. We've done counseling, talked, etc. All other options exhausted. Nothing changes. I would hate myself more for leaving her than cheating, as long as it's in one of the far away cities I visit for work and she'd never know and be hurt. I'm just sick of my needs having to take a backseat, like I'm not allowed to say anything because her problem is worse. I either have to get laid regularly or I'd rather drink bleach. It's that serious at this point. Please don't give canned "cheating is never ok" answers, this is a weird situation. The only acceptable solution is that the relationship continues but I still have frequent sex, SOMEWHERE. |
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