I want to date him even just one day. " What would you do if you were me_ ıs she in love with me etc. What does she mean indeed? I am sure its about me. We had a "thing" before.

Both his parents are dead they never got disability for him. I can barely take care of myself let alone 12 year old. I will apply for disability for him but since the coronavirus I know the process will be even longer.

THere are bigger problems than that and you need to stop asking troll questions . If you just want to mock . Majority of people in the world are not narcissistic or delusional .  The person is self aware and genuinely helping . Love is the least of the person' worry . So if you want to mock then mock. No one is jealous here of you . Or waging war . Here . Who the **** is this person to be demanding . ? Use your brain 🧠 

They can't just exist as stand alone units. Not to say we should all be hermits but often marriages and friendships are codependent.

The friendship is consensual and her parents while predictably are being skeptic and are not being not overly approving of the friendship are willing to let the two remain friends until she turns 18 because it is consensual and remaining platonic until the girl turns 18. He is almost 22 and she's 15 1/2. In the United States. And I will admit that her parents are not pleased with it but are choosing not to be overprotective because she is expressing to them that the friendship is consensual. They also know me because I grew up a couple of blocks away and knew the girl and her parents as she was growing up from the neighborhood. Part of why her parents are choosing to allow the friendship to take place and not be overprotective is partially because of how long they've known me as someone from the same town and they've actually gotten less disapproving since she confronted them about us being friends. At first they were concerned and disapproving but they have learned to allow themselves to trust me since we became good friends during last year. They are not dating and your declaration about adult and minor relationships only coming down to one thing does not apply to everyone. What you said is also sexist and derogatory. Everyone's brain thinks and works differently. It doesn't always come down to how old they are or what their sex is. Just because it is an adult male and a minor girl doesn't mean that they are guaranteed to be part of a negative stereotype collective.