It s not really mean looks, it s more of a noticeable "oh she s lost weight and I can tell" type of look. Kind of like looking at me up and down.

My bf of 5 years and I had a huge fight. I brought up a vacancy in another town for a governmental job. My bf got very angry and said "but why, whyyy that kind of job? You're slow and need brainpower for that kind of job." I got very upset but he denied being insulting or judgemental, deeming that a fact is not insulting, like being short/tall, intelligence is also genetic. He said I must know I'm not smart, and said he felt offended because" what would I be leaving him for" since I'm "not going to go far" in that job. He agreed that a partner should not say this, but he said he can't help the way I am. The next day I was still upset. He had calmed down and was apologetic, took me out for my favourite breakfast etc. He said he'll be more supportive. It's been 2 months and things are better, but now whenever he talks about how smart his friend is, or if I see another couple talking about supporting each other, it reminds me of the things he said and I still feel hurt I think he was just being honest about what he thought of me. He went to a prestigious uni and often talks about others being inferior to him which really turns me off. I did fail uni in my first two years and got kicked out but I went back, got a degree, and am now working in finance. I just want a honestly supporting partner but I always have doubt about our future lingering in the back of my mind. What do you think?

Why did he post like me? I posted Instagram stories continuously as I was on holiday. Then all of a sudden my ex posted story, he has never posted story before and has 0 posts so why did he do that

Its honestly getting so old, I cant even go to a family gathering without being harrassed about every little thing I eat (or dont eat)

My bf had become acquaintances w our neighbor. I did not know much about him aside from he would consistently pop up at our house at all hours. A few days ago, my neighbor had gotten into an arguement with his girlfriend & she had kicked him out the house he shared with both his girlfriend and her mother. They had taken his key and will not give him his stuff back. They had stolen his phone while he was out eating a few days ago. He has no family here. He has no friends. From what I have seen, he just spends his money frivolously. His job offers $1000 to an employee in bad times. He was telling us he would just give us half and spend tge rest. My bf has attempted to tell him multiple times that he should either take his money and get an apartment or go back down South with his family. He still is not understanding and has even made a comment about us all getting an apartment together. We already have taken in my bf's brother & we do not have anymore space for a fourth grown man. Idk if this has something to do with him being 20, but I plan on asking for his families number in the AM and seeing if they can get him. His sister has already told him he needs to come back home and he still is not getting it. Do you all have any advice on how to handle this? We have enough going on. I just had a miscarriage not too long ago, and I have been really sick aside from that. I just do not need the extra stress and baggage of another person I really do not know nor do I have space.

I ve looked online and can t find anyone else who experiences this. I think I have an issue with being "touchy-feely" with my parents and sister. I don t really like hugging or kissing them at all, it makes me feel really uncomfortable and weird. Though I m totally fine being like this with my friends and I don t think I would have any problem with that with the person I date or anything. When my friends hug me or anything like that, then I am happy with that. But it makes me feel weird (and sometimes a bit angry or something?) when do the same thing with my family, or at least my immediate family. Would anyone know why the heck this happens?

I am taking up photography and reviewing pictures This one picture got my attention It is Christmas, this couple just announced their engagement The groom parents, brother look happy Groom mother had her hands on the groom's back, standing next to him The bride sister, mother and brother did not look happy The mother was not even standing next to daughter, the bride This picture was taken in 2017. What are your thoughts? Groom family looks happy, bride family does not look happy