am so sad am so young for the tittle ''divorced'' I got divorced in such a young age and I feel bad about it like am too young for people to refer me as a divorced woman and I didn't got divorced just like that because he was abusing me and cheating on me and other stuff but I feel like people at my age are still single and whatever and am divorced like am not a woman that matter like in my country divorced woman are not so good and she won't get married again like I lost my shot or something? and their point of view divorced woman shouldn't live her life and just be sad all the time. like I dont know what to do about their point of views don't want people to see me like that, just cuz I got a divorced mean am a failure and not good enough

I am in my early 50's, divorced, and my children are grown and living on their own. They check on me sometimes but not that much. My parents are dead and most of my friends are out of state. I used to feel so lonely I would cry and think about moving. I met this man who is a friend of a friend, around my age and never married. He is really sweet to me, highly sexual, and a good guy.He wants to marry me.Problem? I am really not that attracted to him physically. I am trying to be realistic because I know I am overweight and although I look younger my age will show eventually but am I settling?

After 10 years together, I cheated. I began an emotional affair with a man because I felt that my husband just didn't care anymore, he could be hateful sometimes and this other man fed me everything I needed to hear to walk away. I moved out told him I wanted a divorce and began seeing this other man..my husband begged me to come home saying he would change and I wouldn't hear of it..after 4 months I realized what a horrible mistake I was making but I feel as the damage is done..I have moved back in and done everything I know to prove to my husband that our marriage is the only thing that matters and at first he was over the moon and it was going great now a month later he said he's changed so much he feels nothing and that he's trying to work this out in his head that we can make it work but he doesn't see how he can because I stayed gone for so long that he had gotten to the point he had gotten over me..I'm so lost..I admit my mistakes and take ownership for what I did I just don't know how to fix this

The mother of the bride at the wedding stole the show The way she dressed, her behavoir and the way she posed in the photos She was more attention grabbing than her daughter, groom, groom family etc Why would the mother of the bride steal the show?

My family talked about me getting married one day&it just got worst as I was reaching my 30s&still nothing.My grandmother hoped to see me get married.I wanted to make my family happy.I felt like I was a lost cause to them.I started talking to an old friend who I never liked.We dated broke up a couple times.He proposed once I turned him down.I love him as a friend but Im not in love.I didnt even think it would go as far as it did.My whole family excited to see us talking.Hes a close family friend.Not long after engagment started to be talked he proposed in front of church.Saying no would be humiliating.I saw how happy my mom was&started planning.My family already booking flights.I felt stuck.My mom spent somuch $.I cried on the way there.I felt like I was dying.I got through w/ fake smiles vows/prayers I copied.We left for honeymoon& told him nothingis going to happen on this trip he just looked me.I asked for a room w/ 2 beds.We sleep separate.0 affection.I keep us busy.I go to bed early.Day 1 I came back to the hotel to lay down.Lastnight at the movies I slept.When I get ready I lock myself in the bathroom.We go out I go to the bathroom cry b/c Im miserable.He hasnt started a fight about it.I mean no sex on a honeymoon.Who even does that.Its obvious I dont want to be here.Is he oblivious doesn't care or maybe feels the same way.I want to talk to him&my parents.They might tell me to go to counseling but doesnt matter what I do I cant make myself fall in love.

My best friend that I have known for 9 years, we will call her Sara for the sake of this post. Anyway, she use to be very friendly, outgoing, funny, an all around an amazing person to hang out with. Well now she's been married for 3 years and now has 2 kids with her husband and things seem a little off to me. First in the very beginning I noticed that she was covered in bruises, like all the time but I never said anything and she never brought it up either. Then apparently she broke her right arm by slipping on a chip bag.... ( really doesn't make sense to me.) and has had to have numerous operations on her arm now because of the fracture and it not healing. Most recent injury I know of is she broke two ribs because her husband picked her up... how do your ribs break because someone just picks you up.. Anyway, her behavior has dramatically changed and she is a lot more shy and on edge all the time. What are your thoughts, do you think these injuries make sense?

I'm married but no kids yet. I'm soo paranoid about being unattractive when I'm pregnant. My husband already watches porn when I'm not home I know it, so I'm super afraid he won't find me attractive and won't want sex when I am. I keep reading online about how men don't want sex with a pregnant women and I'm afraid he'll start looking at more girls online or at work....

I never knew he walked or even went to the park near our home, he came up to me, we hugged, talked for a bit then we went our ways. I can't get his scent out of my mind, it was sweet, and strong, my husbands is rancid, husbands smell never bothered me until I got a wake up call when I hugged his friend. I swear, if his friend ever makes a sexual move towards me, I will jump at the chance.

So the wife wants a divorce and doesn't want a contested as neither of us want the attorney fees. Our work schedules make it rough for both of us as I work graveyard starting around 1am and she doesn't get off work til 11pm. Obviously she would get custody of the kids since I'm gone at night and is saying she will not make me pay child support. She's willing to give me the house which I could afford but it would be a struggle. She's now saying she will help me out each month and give me money to be able to keep the house. She doesn't want a buy out either and since neither of could probably refinance in our own name the loan is going to get left as is with both our names on it. Does this make any sense? Will a judge go for any of this?

I met him through my best friends husband. They are acquaintances, not really friends and we went on a double date. He was nice and charming then and we clicked. I asked my friends husband what he thought of him and he said: "Well, you are more my friend than he is so I will give you my opinion. He is generally a nice guy. But he's a mama's boy that still lives at home. Him and his entire family are very materialstic and they place a high value on those picture perfect moments they can show off to everyone. In many ways I think he is still a boy and I think you need a man that has his $hit together. But this is my opinion and I am happily proven wrong". And in the months since I have noticed that some of the things he says are true. You can tell that he lives at home. When he stays at my place you can tell that he is used to being served. He has never cooked a meal in his life and I doubt he has ever done the dishes. And he is very materialistic. He was looking for a computer and my brother was selling his computer. My brother is a nerd for these things and was selling him an excellent computer. But he thought it was brand new. He didn't want it not because it wasn't good, but because it wasn't brand new. Despite having warranty and everything on it. So he bought the exact model my brother was selling him from the store. My friends husband was right in many ways. He is a nice guy and he means well. But I feel like I have to "fix" him?

We are separated and he lives with his sister. We are trying to get our marriage back on track his sister talks crap about me but he will do stuff for her he won't do for me. Like let her talk down to him. And he calls her babe. I'm sorry but that's just weird. Any thoughts?

Stop trying? She's often not happy with me. She has a very hard time putting up with my issues, which include depression and anxiety, but I'm also very sweet to her. I don't want to go through a divorce, but this seems impossible sometimes.

They kept falling down while I walked around for him.